Abu Bakr Zoud – Why you should never say Ufff to your parents

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The speaker discusses the use of off-ering during older age, as it increases the risk of facing creditors and lawsuits. The speaker also talks about the importance of not being a river of insult and apologizes for the use of off-ering during a Hadith argument.

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			In Diablo one nine duquel Kibera Huma,
		
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			Huma of Allah azza wa jal, he says, If either one of them or both of them were to read old age at
your place, then do not say you have to them, Jani. Why? Because when parents grow at an old age,
their demands and requests become more and more. So as a result, the possibility of oath coming out
of you, is going to increase more and more for law social, he says, Do not say to them off at that
moment, my brothers in Islam, the word off is a word. Your parents could have said towards you a
million times when you were growing up, when they were feeding you, when they were changing your
clothes, when they were changing your nappies. When you were in your mother's womb, when they spent
		
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			time and effort and money upon you, every moment they could have said off against you, but they
decided not to say it. So Allah subhanho wa Taala teaches you don't you dare say it towards them,
when not once they said it towards you.
		
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			Often when
		
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			they said if there was a word less than off, Allah would have forbid us from seeing it. But it's
nothing less than off panela imagine the one that swears at his parents. Imagine the one that swears
at his parents. Imagine the one that hits his parents. Imagine the one that raises his voice and his
parents. Allah he's telling you don't say off and you're acting in this manner. What kind of
punishment awaits such a person fell off
		
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			and do not disappoint them? Do not upset them.
		
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			Do not annoy them.
		
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			Do not be a river of insult in their faces. You know, that comes from the word no wonder is a
flowing river. There are some people that would stand before their parents and keep on talking back
talking back talking back until their parents before them will just decide to walk away. Allah azza
wa jal says do not be a river of insult before them. You know a river when it flows strong after a
flood. What happens? It doesn't leave anything in its path except it destroys it. Allah azza wa jal
is saying Don't be that person before your parents. Well, I often wonder,
		
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			why, why can I say off to my parents? And why can I upset them? Why? Why? Because this is
considered.
		
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			It's considered rebellion against the parents, and for such is a bad and a major sin in the vehcile
Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says hello thetan layer, Allah whom in himself and what other three types
of people, Allah azza wa jal will not accept the single deed from them. Nothing of the obligor
tracks, nothing of the voluntary acts, and he mentioned the first one and
		
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			the one who is disciplined, disrespectful towards his parents. When the recent Allahu alayhi wa
sallam he says in a Hadith, Salah certain lay on Allah who he lay him Yeoman Kira, three types of
people. Allah will not look at them on the Day of Judgment, meaning they do not earn Allah's mercy
on the Day of Judgment. And he mentioned number one, Allah led to one who's disrespectful and
rebellious towards his parents. When Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in the same Hadith, Salah
13 layered hallucinogen, they do not enter the paradise three types of people. And he said Allah
once again, and this repetition implies severity and danger towards this major sin