Abu Bakr Zoud – Teach Your Daughters The Hijab

Oh, my brothers and sisters in Islam, teach

teach your children of hijab. Teach your girls.

Teach them to cover up.

A few

a few months ago, there was a brother.

We had a discussion with him. He has

a daughter in high school.

Discussion,

one thing led to another. Eventually, at the

end, they were asking about, you know, his

daughter. She's in high school, but she doesn't

wear hijab.

A woman should be wearing hijab by the

age of 10. From there, starting on, and

then by the age of, puberty, it becomes

a But anyway, we had a discussion. His

his daughter is way beyond the age of

puberty. She's not wearing a hijab.

So he said, why?

He said, brothers,

I,

I want her to be convinced.

I want her to be convinced about the

hijab. You should have her own pace.

Beautiful. I got, brother, I wanna ask you

a question.

If your daughter

said to you tomorrow,

I don't want to go to school until

I'm convinced.

What would you do?

Hey, Gersnan.

This is different. This is different. Of course,

I'm gonna fulsome.

But why? This is different. I said, yes.

Of course, it's different.

This is something and this is something.

But the problem is you didn't know which

of the 2 were more important.

You didn't see which one was more of

priority.

Subhanallah,

the idea, the issue is

many times we are witnesses against our own

selves, Allah.

We don't realize it.

We don't realize it, but most of the

times we do things.

We are witnessing against our own selves.

There's your attitude of forcing and there's your

attitude of teaching in when it comes to

matters of all the related matters.

And and and what what was this? Is

this is this important?

What about,

what religious matters?

Was convinced,

whatever you want,

up to you. This is your journey in

life.

That's when it comes to religious matter. And

then you complain about having boys and girls

that are weak in their faith, because their

parents had a weak attitude with them.

I don't believe

any parent who tried to implement Al Hijab

in the correct way.

I'm speaking about the correct way,

and explained it really well, and the mother

herself committed to Al Hijab properly,

I

most likely, the children will follow their mother

and would not understand what Al Hijab is,

and would want to protect themselves. When you

speak to your daughter in this way,

it's up to you, girl. Whenever you like

to wear it, we're here to support you.

We'll do a party for you as well.

We'll clap for you as well.

This is destroying us.

We did not realize how much it's destroying

us.

Which shay upon has decorated it? No. Decorated

it with a party.

COVID

party.

Literally. And we think it's good?

What was enough for the previous generations

is enough for us.

The previous generations, it was enough as soon

as the commandment for hijab came down. The

woman rushed to their closets at

home and ripped

pieces of their garment

and covered their heads with it.

They didn't go purchase something new.

They didn't go to hijab store, make it

more purchase online,

and choose a color and select a type

in a silk material.

They went and cut from what they had

already of their garment, put it in their

heads, and walked out.

The rush to the obedience of Allah and

his messenger was what Allah wants to see,

not the material that was on their head.

Maybe it was ripped and crooked, and then

I wasn't covering properly. That doesn't matter.

The idea was the rush to their submission.

Now, alhamdulillah,

Allah

has given us.

Allah

says,

oh,

we have sent down clothing.

We've sent it down.

You so it can cover your privates.

Sent down clothing.

Meaning Allah sent down the rain.

The rain

gave,

allowed,

the cotton to grow

or it fit the animals. And then as

a result, this the cotton was taken away,

and the silk was taken from the worm

and whatever it is, and then clothing was

made. So originally clothing,

it's the first process is rain coming down

from the sky, subhanAllah.

Allah says I've given you clothing.

Why?

You wear So it can cover your privates.

So you know when you use clothing

to expose your privates,

this is being ungrateful to Ni'matullah

When

a woman

wears clothing

that does not cover her privates,

such as the tight clothing and so on,

this is.

She's being ungrateful to

And the same I say for women is

the same for men as well.

Is not pick and choose.

But a person, Yani, emphasizes more on the

woman because there are set instructions from that

came about Al Khajib,

and I emphasize and I stress upon it

over and over

because this is a problem in the community.