Tafseer Surat An Naas #2

Abu Bakr Zoud


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Surat An Naas (Mankind)

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Learn watchmen over him at hamdulillah humble alameen or salatu salam ala rasulillah. While early he also can be a Marine, or prison thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala May the peace and blessing of Allah be upon his servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as to what follows my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam, a Salaam alikum warahmatu Allahi of Allah kettle

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shala Tada. Tonight we continue our study of the Tafseer of salata ness, and we reach the Poli dynamic Chateau de la sua Ceylon s, which begins the second half of the solo. And we ended last lesson by mentioning that the first half of the solar allows or shall any what was discussed in the first half of the solar was the one who we are seeking protection of, we're seeking protection of aubenas mullikin s 11 knows the lord of mankind, the king of mankind, and the God that is worthy of worship of mankind. Now, the second half of the solar it discusses the one who we are seeking protection from and in general, there is a shape on so the next three out of the solar are going to

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describe who this show is and how we can battle and defeat the show Bob. So, the first three is kind of the introduction of the surah. And now the central message the core of the surah mean shortly was Russell harness the word min. means we are seeking protection of Allah subhanho wa Taala min from Sherry shell means from the evil from the evil of Allah suas ohaneze. The word shuttled opposite to that is the word higher. Shall means evil, hired means good, shall it makes the word as well shut off, or shut off as an automatic mama law they mentioned, which is the spark of clean the spark of flame that comes out from the fire. And if the spark comes out from the fire, it can cause harm and

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damage to someone it can literally burn someone if the spark was to come on his skin. Therefore sharp is the evil that can cause harm to a person. This is what shell is it's evil that can cause harm to a person. In other words, here in this I am in Shangri la sua silkiness, we are seeking Allah subhanho wa Taala is protection from an evil that may cause us harm. What is this evil, Alice was ill harness and this by far is the greatest evil known to mankind and was was a hot mess. It is greater than the evils that were mentioned in the previous solar, we mentioned more than once. Why? Because in this solar, we are asking a lot of soil over and over again, through three names have his

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to protect us from this one evil. So the greatest of all evils is Allah swears we're going to speak in depth what this is, but let's identify how great this evil is. When we're Suarez, this evil, it is so great, that it could be the reason for all the other evals that were mentioned in sort of the follow up. Alice was could be the reason for why all the previous evils that were mentioned in sort of the follow up would take place. So that and Philip mentioned a lot of evils. It mentioned the evil of the magicians and the fact that Phil mentioned the evil of the NVR when he envious has heard it mentioned the evils of the night mean shut up because you can either walk up evils of the night

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like murder and theft and alcohol and Xena and gambling when that happens at night. So in other words, all these crimes that were mentioned in so little follow up. The reason the majority reason behind all of them is was was to shape on to mankind so we can understand how great this evil is. And and as we said that insalata ness we cried over and over to Allah subhanho wa Taala openness Maliki nets la nurse implying humility and desperation acknowledging that by far this is the worst of the evils and this is how much protection we need from Allah subhanaw taala it is the greatest of evils, Allah Suarez. Why? Because it doesn't only destroy your dunya here. It also affects your

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alpha and possibly could destroy your ephemera if you're a baby or slicing gave into it, and you never bothered to repel it or go against it. And we need to understand my brothers and sisters in Islam. how serious the threat of Allah Suarez is in our daily lives, what we need before we understand the solutions to and what's worse, we all need to be on the same page in the sense of understanding how real is the threat? Jani I tell you my brothers and sisters in law, one cannot belittle this subject one cannot belittle this topic. Yeah. And you know, we hear about it, maybe it's got nothing to do with me. Maybe some days I'm affected by loss was wrong. This is a wrong

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impression. What I want to achieve at the beginning now is instilling in our minds and in our hearts. How real this threat of loss worse is.

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The more we understand how huge and how real the threat is, the more we'll begin to take the advice of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, more serious in concern of how to protect ourselves from a loss worse, and also the advice that is found in Napoleon. So let's understand how serious is this?

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Understand from the beginning, you know, please, he assumed that Adam alayhis salam was the reason for why he was thrown out of the paradise, at least from the very beginning. He assumed it was mankind it was Adam, who led him to be thrown out of the paradise. And he also assumes that the reason for why he's cursed until the day of judgment, and the fact that he's going to abide in jahannam, forever eternal abode. He believes all of this is because of Adam alehissalaam. So as a result, he's angry. He's fuming. He's annoyed from Adam, Allah. He said, I'm from the generation of mankind and the son of Adam, Adam alayhis. Salam, he's angry with mankind. So he made a request. And

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he said, Oh, LA, de la omeo. buffoon. Now he's making a request to Allah Xhosa. He said, Oh, Allah, my lord.

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Give me give me life until the Day of Resurrection, until the Day of Resurrection. Why? Why does he want that? For one reason we'll find out for a long story shall he responds. And he said for intercommunal, Marina elomi, locked in maloom, a lot of social response. And he gives him an extension in his life. And he says, Eli, oh, me locked in maloom. I'm going to give you an extension until an appointed time. When is this appointed time and

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the appointed time is when everyone dies. And that happens when the first blow of breath takes place in the trumpet. So in other words, you realize that he'll many make a mistake and say that even a believes made a doctor and a lawyer accepted is wrong, and that's not right. it bleeds requested to remain alive until the Day of Resurrection, meaning when the people come out of the grief, law, social didn't give him that Allah azza wa jal, he gave him respect and he extended his life until then, until an appointed time. This appointed time is when the first blow of breath takes place in the trumpet when everyone dies, and he will die at that time. So in other words, it bleeds for

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Shelby and their death is between the first blow of breath in the trumpet and the second blow of breath in the trumpet. And the period between these two is 40 when the narrator of the hardiest said Allahu Allah, if it's 40 years, 40 months, 40 decades, Allah Juana meridians but this is the time in where he dies from the first bowl until the second law of breath in the trumpet. Now after he was given, an after he was promised a long life, he began to unleash his fury. How did he unleash his fury, he promised he took a custom a promise by a law that he is going to deceive and distract and misguide mankind. I told you the threat is real. I believe he's speaking aloud stories and records

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his words in the Quran, so that you and I are aware of it so that you and I read it every single day, because that's our relationship with color for parasitical, Vietnam as my cousin, he said, I swear by your power and by your mic, I am going to misguide all of them, all of them oshman eleider camino hamanasi in except the Cincy sleeves of yours. Well, I will try, but I might not do anything he will try, he won't stay away from them he will try. So we need to understand that this threat is serious. And the only reason for why he asked the laws or shell to respect him, and to give him an extended life, the only reason was to misguide and mislead mankind. That's the only reason that's

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his job on Earth right now that his job to misguide and mislead as many of mankind as he can. He's already doing a good job, right? So we need to understand if we're the minority that have been saved from his was worse up until now, nothing is guaranteed for you in the future. So we need to understand how much protection we need in our life and the methods and the solutions to keeping consistent with the protection of Allah subhanaw taala from Allah swears it please. Yani, and I want you also to understand a little bit deeper, how serious this is. He made the custom that he's going to misguide us. Let's understand what his buzzer means, you know, at least when he promised Adam

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alayhis salam in the paradise when Adam was still in the paradise, at least presented to him and he promised him he's going to be a sincere advisor to him. Allah azza wa jal he says in Surah Allah wa Kasama Houma in Nila Kumar, la mina Nelson, Yanni, please. So Adam in the paradise, he gave him a swears, and he said to him one law I'm a Cincy advisor to you. That tree that Allah told me to stay away from that

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Actually the tree that if you were to eat from it, the Coonamble Akina, otaku, nominal, how do you become kings, all you will reside in this paradise eternally for life forever, you'll never come out of here. And he said to him one law here I'm being a sincere advisor to who is lying. He's saying we're lucky. I'm a sincere advisor at the Maliki ceram ends up eating from the tree. And on another hammer home Allah, they gave an explanation for this. They said, because Adam alayhis salam never expected someone to use a lawyer's name and lie. He didn't expect someone to use a last name and then lie Who does that? Huge, it's a huge deal. So he ate from the tree.

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Yani, the point that I want to mention is that if a police he took an oath by law to be a sincere advisor for them, and he misled them, imagine them how he's dealing is going to be with the one who he promised to misguide. And to mislead. A lot about the threat is real. And the threat is serious. You can just, you can just imagine what he has planned for Benny Adam, and he's lived so long, a lot of experience. He's gone through so many generations. And the more he lives in, the more time goes on, the better he gets, in his experience, can he can understand Jani, the severity and the threat and the risk that it poses upon each and every single person that Jani ascribes himself to mankind.

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For large social, he says

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a lot of social he mentions in the Quran, many in many places, the oath and the promise that a police makes concerning mankind. In one place we read in the Quran, he said for bear Exotica La Jolla gnomish mine, in Surah, Allah azza wa jal, he says that he says, Paul Obama attorney, he says, oh my lord, because you misled me how he blamed the loss of panatela for his mistake. He said that was a you know

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He said, I will surely make sin and disobedience attractive for them on Earth. That was a you

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know, how much money now mislead them all, in our, in many places have a plan of loss telling us what a chiffon was seeing. And you know, Yanni, these are already three, there's four, there's about five times in where he says the oath of what he's going to do to mankind. And each and every single one of them is worded differently. And you know, what does that mean? The more he makes a custom, and the more he changes it around, the more it implies his anger and frustration, like I'm angry with someone on like, if I see him on the street, I'll do this. Or like, if I see him sitting, I'm going to cut his ear off. Well, lucky if I see him there, I'm going to do one to one lucky there's

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anything you can understand this fury, right? We get it. You're thinking, you're really going to harm this person. We got it. Philosophers yelling sutan are off. Once again, in another place of the crime. He records another promise that he believes makes towards mankind. He says color, color for the man a whitening.

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Article, Mr. Clean, he says by a law, but I'm going to do is because you put me in this era, he's speaking to Allah. He says I will surely then Allah whom serrata call Mr. Kim, I am going to sit and I'm going to wait for them on your straight path. You have an issue set up for them that means to sit? Well, you know, when you sit, meaning you have all the time in the world, when you sit, it's different to when you're standing. Sitting implies that you're thinking properly or thinking straight. You're planning ahead. And you have all the time in the world. There's nothing absolutely to distract you right now. He said

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and he emphasized the noon at the end to limit beginning Yeah, and even more he surely surely no doubt about it. I will be sitting on the street path waiting for them waiting so I can reel them into the home and reel them into the lossless. Then he said he continued to solo out of it and the home invasion at him. I mean, healthy him want a man him, why aren't you mad at him, while it should work for him check it in. He said I'm going to a pee in front of them and behind him and on the left and on the right. And you will not find you will find that most of them are going to be ungrateful a lot. But let's understand what this is about are better suited to your loved one when he says what

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is meant by I'm going to come in front of them. Meaning I'll make them doubt resurrection and the hereafter and the paradise and the hellfire. Everything that is still to come ahead. When he said I'm going to stand and come in front of them. Meaning everything that is still ahead of us that a lot of promise. He's going to cause and create doubt in our minds and in our hearts.

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Woman healthy him and from behind what does behind him, meaning I'll make them desire this worldly life. I will make them desire this worldly life. Why don't you marry him and I'm going to come to them from there. Right?

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Meaning, I will make them doubt in matters of worship. I'm going to make them doubt in matters of worship. So someone's going to pray, I will come give you more swears that your solid is no good. Repeat your solid someone will make although I'm going to come and see the old what wasn't right, go and repeat your select and repeating although until the point where a person feels that the worship becomes so heavy, he leaves it altogether. That's what he's gonna do, he's gonna come from the right meaning he's going to scouse doubt in your worship. One Shema ilium. And I'm going to come from the left, what does the left beam, meaning I'll make them desire, sin and transgression. Because the

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left is a negative term, and it's used for sin and transgression. And the right is a positive term. It's used for worship and matters of goodness.

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I'm going to make the sin and transgression something desirable for them. And at the end, he said when you do a thorough home check in and you will not find most of them being grateful to you. Yeah, nice. So Panama, the main goal of a Chopin is to make sure that you are not grateful to a large origin. And the peak of gratitude to Allah is that your worship allows origin and the peak of ingratitude which is worship and wants to lead mankind to ingratitude, the peak of ingratitude is to worship other than Allah subhanho wa Taala and to deny Allah subhanaw taala his existence and his worship altogether. This is where Shabbat wants to lead mankind. Whenever you sal Allahu alayhi wa

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sallam he says in the Hadith now explaining in even more detail, when How do you feel so? He says, in a shape on a cada leibny Adam a bit abrupt he put

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the ashtray upon, he sat in the path of mankind and he sat in all the paths. What does that mean? Meaning the paths of goodness, how many paths of goodness are there and maybe sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says an email will be born was a Bruno shorba that an Amen meaning the paths that lead to Allah subhanho wa Taala between 60 to 70 that's that's how many good there so there's Yanni visiting your relatives maintaining ties with the relatives, fasting monday and thursday charity and how Yani account in our Islam, there's about 60 to 70 good paths that lead to a lot of social these roads are called the roads of a man, a Chopin, and nobody saw Selim, he says in the Hadith, that a Chopin

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cardellini Adam, have you

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ever every single path that leads to a lucky sitting there, the path of the Quran is sitting waiting, so that when you come to read the Quran, he is going to do some sort of us wasa. So your saw your talk to say Allah will let you in a shepherd regime before you read. A solid is a path that leads to Allah, he's gonna come and sit on it as well. And he'll confuse you and mislead you and Miss directly in that as well. Fasting is a path that leads to Allah, he'll sit on that and he'll confuse you as well.

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All the paths, he's going to say that the numbers are seldom he says, and he mentions the big ones that he said on for, for cardella who feel political Islam. On the path of Islam, he sits right in front of you on the path of Islam. For call Allah who this is someone that wants to embrace Islam. This is someone that wants to do more good in his Deen and increase his Deen and a man for cheban as the guy is doing good as he's coming into the path of Islam, a Chopin is sitting there. And he begins to give him a sweater. And he says to him, too slim, whatever. rodina codina, eBay, ecoa eBay, you're going to accept this lamb. And you're going to leave the religion of your father and

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your forefathers in your generation. For no reason and sell him he says about a specific man for our saw. he disobeyed him. He disregarded him over we let him in a ship on the regime for Aslam and he became a Muslim, he accepted Islam he did the good he worked forward.

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For makalah

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there's another path, which is pretty collisional until you know, Alicia is an Islamic mera. leisure is a form of worship that one dedicates and does for Allah subhanaw taala. And it's a path that leads to Allah, a shape on set on the path of adhesion. And he said to not to has your

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back to crazy, you're going to do he should leave your country to go to a Muslim country? Why would you do that? And you're going to leave your land that you know, and the people that you know, and the places that you don't feel comfortable, you're sitting

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back, and then you sit there and we're in the methadone care method in philosophy. Well, he said, you know, the example of the one that does the law is like a horse

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that his foot is chained to a pole in the ground. What does that mean? Meaning, you know, if a, if a horse is chained from his leg, to a pole in the ground, he can't move a lot. His distance is limited. So he said, The biohazard is like that. When you leave your country and go somewhere else. You're gonna be like, you're gonna feel like you're in a prison. You don't know no one. You don't know where to go. You don't know who to believe who to trust to to

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lionni are not gonna know anything. So he said to him, why would you do that? For this man here? Nobody saw me says foul saw. he disobeyed him, he ignored this was wasa for Herschel. And he took on the path of goodness and he did his job for a loss sake for mccard Allah who will repeal jihad, Jihad as long as another path that leads to a loss associate worship on set on this path. And he said to him, Who was your two knifes journey into why you're taking Jihad serious, and jihad is only a matter of striving and struggling in your knifes, what matters well strive and struggle with your money. He said to him, then for two

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for takahama took a look, really you want to go then after you go, your wife is going to marry someone after you. Your money is going to be distributed and divided to people. So this man file so he disobeyed him, he disregarded him, for sure had and he went, he had infeasibility left. And riesel Allahu alayhi wa sallam said at the end of the Hadith from from amfar Ehrlich anyone who does that, meaning anyone who rebels v was was of a shape on, especially in these huge matters. And if you can repel the saucer of the shape on in these three huge matters is nilla. You'll be able to rebuild him in any other thing that he's smaller than that. And the reason I sell them, he says,

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anyone who does that, and report this was wasa and move forward in his worship format and he died. Ghana How can Allah hear you?

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It is a guarantee upon Allah azza wa jal that he admits him into the paradise. Why? Look at how huge the reward is, what was the deed that this person did, it was one deed he always fought was was up to shape on, he always fought it and he rebelled it and he repelled it from his life. And eventually if he died like this remaining inconsistent struggle against the shape on a lot of social rewards in with the paradise somehow a lot and maybe science element in the Hadith by saying, oh, Allah for sought to do better who can? How can Allah hear you?

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Or if his animal was to kill him, then Allah guarantees for them the paradise What does that mean? Yani in the past, they used to go on their horse muscle, let's say his horse, kicked him off his back, for example, of a horse caused the death of the person. If the person was upon goodness, he was going towards, towards, towards he had any died on the way, a lot of Zoysia also admitted into the Paradise is and what was the reason for him going into the paradise once again. It wasn't the deed that he did. It wasn't because the last person didn't do the deed. It was the commitment to remain in strong combat against the shape on and every single time he defeats him, and he goes

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forward. As a result, he deserved the paradise. My brothers and sisters in Islam

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had Shabbat. This is how he is in every path of goodness is going to sit. The main goal and the main purpose of the shaman is to bring the person into conflict. That's the first thing he wants. We'll go for his Eliana yonny. It's opposite to a sugar, right? It's opposite to sugar. Remember, we said when I told you to add, follow him shake it in the first thing is he wants to bring you to ingratitude to cover. If he cannot do that, he will lead you to the bitter Why? Because the major bitter would lead to conflict. And they would also lead to the destruction of the deal. If you cannot bring it to the bitter, then he will lead you to the major sin. If he cannot bring you to do

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a major sin, he'll lead you to the minor sins. And he'll lead you to the minor sin and that you remain persistent on the minor sin for us to do that every single day, and you don't leave it. And if you cannot do that, then he'll lead you to a knucklehead, what's mukou in Islam, he only did two. And if you cannot do that, he'll tempt you to engage in and move ahead and move ahead or just the permissible things that have no benefit in them. Sleep more, eat more, drink more travel more legit smooth out, he'll just open up for you and just do it so long as you don't work in anything that's good. Just do them all by hand just don't earn any asset. And if he cannot do that,

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then he makes the person prefer what's less best towards better Yanni. Sometimes you have to matters Should I fast or invite 100 people and feed which one's better? Or should I pray a sooner now or read one user of the Quran which one's better? Or should I seek knowledge or be dutiful to my parents. When you have these two matters in your mind a shaper will come and always from the situations there's one that is always better than the other and each time and so he will take it to that which is less better so that you own less hassle that a Shabbat doesn't stop Allah salsa is always there Subhana Allah, Yanni shavon he does this to everyone. And he is with every single one

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of us except the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because he shavon accepted Islam and he encouraged them, push them towards the goal.

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Not just from the mercy of Allah azza wa jal upon also the loss of alojado here, other than that every single person has this window besides Allah says in the Hadith in the Shabbat laoshi de minimis oedema, Mashallah Damn, that a shape on he flows in the bloodstream of mankind, he flows in his blood, he flows inside of the body of mankind, just like blood flows in the body, you know, you know what that means, get into the blood, it flows through your fingers, and your toes and to your foot anti anti ahead, and to your heart and to every single inch of your body, your army, he's in every single inch of your body, and he wants to distract and mislead you in every single inch of

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your body, right in the shape and they actually manipulate them or measure them at his job span a lot. And he might enter upon you from 50 doors of good just to lead you to one door of bed, a show Barney's patient, he has time. He has time. And he'll do anything to mislead mankind. This is why seeking a loss protection from him is very, very important. Yeah, and I hope with this kind of explanation, that we feel that the threat from the show born with the threat of a loss was a is real, it's active, it's alive. We need to feel and recognize that this threat and harm is serious and it's real. Jani when we go to Al Hush, we do a ritual known as Xiomara. Xiomara. We throw the

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pebbles, right. And over all over the house, the entire period. It's 70 pebbles that we through 70 we publicly announcing our animosity and our enmity towards a ship on publicly announcing it with all our Muslim brothers and sisters that gather all around the world. We come there, and we begin to help Bismillah Bismillah with each one Bismillah and you're flowing, announcing that this SharePoint is an enemy of mine. Well, it is going to destroy my life. And I need to publicly announce my animosity and my enmity to him. And then I'm supposed to lead a life that follows Allah subhanho wa Taala His commandments will Giamatti and Allah they mentioned that wisdom, why was it 70 stones that

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we throw at algae, Murat? Why?

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Who can connect it

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to man, the Hadith would be mentioned at the beginning, we said that the paths that lead to Allah, how many are they? between 60 and 70 years, the Hadith mentioned this killer in that, but

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he has a book he's not called the tribalism and tribalism and the paths of event and he explained each and every single one of them in there. But the idea is 70 pebbles, meaning each one you're sitting on, I declare my animosity and enmity towards you. Right? So have a lot of powerful meanings, a lot of social in the Quran, he says, in the shade upon Allah Komodo that the shape on is an enemy of yours. But you see, the unfortunate thing is that the first part of the ayah we all know how close we understood, the enemy is a show part. But the second part, why don't we deal with the second part? What's the second part of the Allah Zoysia Lee says, He will

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deal with him like an enemy. If you know he's an enemy, deal with him like an enemy, somehow the love for mankind. If you had an issue with someone, and he became an enemy of yours, you, you really won't know how to deal with him as an enemy, you'll cut him from your life, no contact, no answering his calls, not answering his message. If you see him on the street in golf, you know how to deal with an enemy in real life. What Lao Tzu told me in the plan, that actually the real enemy is a ship on because he would be the reason for why he caused enmity between you and other human being. He was the real enemy, why didn't you go after him? So that he will

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treat him like an enemy deal with him like an enemy. So now we need to understand how do we show an imitator ship on I'm going to explain to you a few things just so he can understand the matter in brief. How does one declare in his actions every single day animosity and enmity towards a ship on? Number one, give you something small. We always every single day we eat and we drink well, may Allah azzawajal preserve the blessings upon us.

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When Murray salallahu alayhi wa sallam he says in the Hadith

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is Al Qaeda. hadoken Asha hadoken fire shall be Chemin de la could be Shiva for in a shape on a shadow boy kulu Mishima Lee, that when one of you eats or drinks they let him do so with his right hand because the Sherpa eats and drinks with his left hand. Well As of now, unfortunately, you find that you know the the European style of eating Has anyone heard of the European style of eating, but one of the etiquette and one of the manners is to hold the fork in your right to shape or to hold the fork in your right at the the knife in your right and the fork in your left leg because the right it's got a bit more strength than it cuts better. Where you eat in the fork is in your left

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and you eat with it.

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Police ship on the path of a ship on there's no style in that. Also Panama, we find this among the Muslims. It's like this matter is not even occurred to them right now, right here with his left here with his right doesn't matter. He says I will lay him in a ship on the regime, and he's eating with your left. How can you say? You're following a shirt on over him? We ask him a lot to protect him and shape him. How does that happen? Jani, one of the signs and one of the ways to show enemity to a shape on is that when you eat with your right, you're conscious of the fact that I'm eating with my right. Because this, the shape on doesn't like it. This goes against the shape on and I am declaring

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my enemity to our shape on by eating with my right by drinking with my right. You need to feel this meaning but we're doing it every single day. So that this meaning could always be active in your mind. If something is smallest eating and drinking. You couldn't do what's right. How do you think Johnny with the biggest things? How are you going to oppose this path? If something as small as this, you couldn't do a try? Then the bigger things into you and yourself.

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So Pamela, that's one of the understandings. The other one is, and this is a common one as well. And maybe some Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says you know how he had he

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declared his son in a good chain by evanhoe job for him Allah. He said in an rabina shape on anger. Anger is from shape on why in the shape on a hula coming now and usher upon was created from the fire.

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We're in NEMA tutorial tutorial now we now have about how to configure Toba and fire is extinguished by water. So if someone was to get angry, make horrible sopapilla when a person gets angry,

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you can see it all over his body. His eyes are red, his cheeks are swollen. His ears are puffed, right? Maybe smoking as well. Very angry. He gets angry. When does Pamela and Libby saw Selim is telling you about Mina shape on that anger is from a shape on. The more you feed your anger, the more you feed it. This is a proof that you're not going against the Shabbat you're not declaring your enemity to a Shabbat you're actually happy with this path and you're moving forward at the you know, embarrassing it looks when you're angry. You have to do an experiment by yourself close the room and go in front of a mirror and act out when you're angry. At that will be angry. Shoot it's an

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embarrassment alone. Getting You look like a child will scream to your soul. Just act just act like you're angry with someone look yourself at the mirror. It's embarrassing. Why that initial bond is playing with you. A show bond is playing with your emotions. This is the path of a ship on fire if something as simple as anger. We cannot control in our lives. We cannot extinguish in cup Mohan Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam give you the solution. Alright, fair enough. You got angry quickly go run and make we'll go say over we let him in a shipowner regime, you're still angry, sit down, you're still angry, lie down, you're still angry, get up and make and pray to God and say Allahu

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Akbar meeting a month is greater than my anger. Allah is greater than whatever is distracting me. Almost all of a sudden, you find that yourself, you calm down, and remind yourself when I'm angry. I haven't shown animosity and enmity towards Russia. I followed him in his path. This is exactly what he wants to see from me. So we're seeing if you're going to take this threat serious. It is supposed to be displayed in these little tiny things that occur every single day and every single night, eating an anger. Another one taken me sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says anemia Allahu La Jolla. To me the shape on taking your time in things is from Allah subhanaw taala a gift from Allah. When

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Allah ministry upon and speed and rushing through things is from a shape on a hammer home alone contemporary understanding. They only they took this to understand that even speeding in the car, mina shavon. What's good about that? mina shavon, right. And when you rush into something of this worldly life, you rush to make a decision about someone, you rushed to just give someone advice, and it's not even in its right, bother. You just don't know what you said. you're rushing this dunya to do things and then you regret it later on. had all this from a shape on. I gave you three examples. Why I shared these examples. Because these are the common things that happen in our life. Why not

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what I'm trying to say at the end of this, that if these three things, we're not able, we're not able to declare our enmity towards a shape on by taking the path that allows or shall please for us, what's left for you? In the other paths that are even worse than this? How are you going to combat a shape on the nose? For let's understand my brothers and sisters in Islam. The threat as we said is real. It's serious. And you're supposed to go against the shape on this path in every single thing. There's nothing small there's nothing big. Right? It is one one entire huge matter. And that is your

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enmity towards a shape on

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loss or shall he says means the loss was in hardness, the word Allah. So as we explained when we explained shuttle up to the word and was worse, which gave an introduction Now the word itself, according to the majority opinion, Allah Suarez refers to a shape on. Yeah, and it's like another name for a shape on.

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why wasn't the name shape one mentioned? Why didn't Mark zashiel sandwich the wisdom in the fact that a lot of Xhosa did not say you mean shirtless shape on your harness? Why Michelle was Ycl harness if another name for him is a shaman? And they said, because the main job of a shavon is Allah Suarez. And in the sutra, we're seeking a loss protection from one of these evils and that is his evil whispering. So allows origin. Yeah. And he, he used he referred to him in the solar with the name Alva swears, because that's the worst of his evils. And that is his top job and priority job in this life towards mankind. So Allah Zoysia called him in the solar by the most wicked and

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evil of his actions, which is whispering to mankind.

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So from the many evils of a ship on the worst one upon mankind is his what's worse is evil whispering. The word was was it comes from wasa and if you notice, the letters have been repeated. This was and then was was was the lilies have been repeated, and the repetition of the letters. As a general Arabic rule. It implies repetition of the action. Jani, for example, zen, Zen is an earthquake, Zen Zen. It's called that because the earth shakes over and over again, just the action repeats the actual action of shaking repeats, allows Oh, God says dum dum, dum, dum. There's a repetition in the Lotus, which implies a repetition in the action dum dum are meaning to pound for

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oil. What did he do to the people of the mood? He pounded them and pounded them over and over again implying the extreme punishment of a large social upon that will come in you got the word cap cap, cap, cap, meaning to throw something over and over and over again and just keep throwing right when large Zoysia Lee says about the disbelievers for cookie boo fi Humala Horwood that they thrown in janome, one after the other and just It seems as though it's an Jani non continuous, just continuous kind of throwing into Jana Paula Villa for even worse, what's the meaning the evil whispers that come over and over and over and over again, but I'm still watching. And the letters was, was, they

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are low pitch sound, different to

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all of

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these letters in Arabic, they have a high pitch sound, but the Wow, and the same as they have a low pitch sound, implying that the word was was a, which is whispering. The word itself refers to something that is of low sound, like a kind of silence whispering sound. The Arabs they used to say he was supposed to leave, we just look into the word was what they used to say, what's what's that will help. You know, when you're learning, the earring of woman, when the earring of the woman that's made up of more than one part, more than one part stuck to each other.

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When these parts used to make contact with each other, they used to produce a soft town. And that soft sound could be heard by the E, there is a loss was a linguistically walk around with earrings and they're shaking, and they're making contact and the sound reaches the ear, a soft sound. This is linguistically what is done therefore. And what's worse, is the one who makes a soft evil whisper to the person, a soft voice that could be heard in your mind, around your heart in the chest. And it just circles around and around until a person falls in the trap. That's what I was versus if it was good speech. It would have been said aloud and publicly, however, because it's evil and shameful.

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It's whispered right into Cipolla, even if two people were in the desert, and there was no one around, and one had something evil to say. He'll come near him and he'll say it silently. He won't say it aloud. Even though there's no one around to teach you that the word was swears only comes in bad meaning evil whispering right? And we said if it was good, it would have been spoken out aloud. By this is a Northwest let's look at something else concerning this word. A lot of Zoli said mean surely Allah swear see unkindness.

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Why did he say what's the wisdom behind saying Allah swears and not a loss wasa? What's the difference between both? We have a word Allah swears and we have worse What's the difference? What's worse is

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The evil whisperer journey, the name of something, the name of a person, the evil whisperer. And what's worse, is the evil whispering, which is what a verb, it's an action. So what's worse is is the door the name of the shape on shape on himself is the whisperer and was worse and worse wasa is the action that he does, which is the evil whispering. So Allah azza wa jal, he said, Min shudehill was worse, seeking a loss protection from the evil whisperer

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because when we seek a loss, protection from the whisperer from the doula himself, we are actually seeking a loss or just protection from the doula and his action, which is the whispering. But if we were to seek a loss or heal his protection from the action from the whispering, then that doesn't necessarily mean that we are seeking protection from the whisperer himself. So Subhanallah the eloquence of Allah subhanaw taala is what he teaches us to ask His protection from the whisper him and he's whispering, right? differently if I said, protect me from his whispering. It doesn't mean I'm asking protection from him himself and his other crimes in his other evils that he can impose on

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a person. I'll give you an example. Let's say I said to you, let's say you own the dog, and I said to you,

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we are common common law. But let's say I said, protect me from his barking. But if the dog has many other things he can do, he can bite you, he can scratch, you can jump on it. If I was to say, protect me from his barking, it doesn't necessarily mean I asked you protect me from his other evils. But if I was to say, protect me from your dog, house, it means your dog and all these evils right? For his motherland, Allah, Allah azza wa jal teaches us to ask him to protect us from Allah swears the whisper of him and all his deeds and all these evils right and not singling out one evil. So how long was that? You know that any? Let's just know that a shepherd has many evils. He has many

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evils he whispers. He possesses. He attacks mankind and other creatures. He steals money cheban steals money. Right? And how do you feel so hello, Buhari. Whenever he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he made Abu hurayrah Allahu anhu responsible over a cattle data was collected in Ramadan, wish upon would go in and steal and grab him. Well, how do you see Islam but the point of the Hadith is that a ship on steals money that's from among these evils. So therefore, when asking Allah azzawajal protect me from the whisperer meaning protect me from him all these evils, right? But we understood mean shortly, Allah swears unkindness, now let's discuss something about Allah Suarez, how it

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happens, and what are the solutions for it.

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But you know, we have three types of relationships. We have a relationship with Allah subhanaw taala. And that's in the form of our worship. That's our relationship with Allah.

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Number two, we have a relationship with others, human being to human beings, that's a relationship. And we have a relationship with ourselves with ourselves,

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a cheban, he makes a waswas in all these relationships over there, he doesn't leave anyone. But even with by yourself, he'll come. Let's see how, number one, your relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala. There are two parts to it.

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One, through your physical worship, through your physical worship, that are done with your limbs, like your solar to your dryer and everything that's got to do with your physical limbs. And then there is another part of worship to Allah and that is the worship done with the heart, the worship of the heart, right America blue, like having tawakkol on Allah.

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Hoffman Allah love for Allah, your belief in Allah, Allah kita. The belief in the hereafter in the angels in the prophets, this is all not by a shavon he attacks you in your relationship with Allah. And he attacks these three, these two parts. He comes to you through your physical worship, for example, he posts and makes

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a shape on comes he tells him that you didn't wash your face properly.

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And so he repeats his face 100 times, maybe a solid is finished, where nurses are gone, and he's still making his way to Allah and I've seen this with my own. May Allah azzawajal give us you've heard from this, but it says a real sickness and people that are in this yelling it leads them to serious problems in life will speak about solutions.

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He's praying, Siobhan comes he says to him, this is on your cloth. We didn't see it properly. Go clean your clothes and pray again. Fan miskeen he goes and there's nothing. Yeah, and you look if you can see an agenda to different story, but we speak here. That was

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Whereas I think there was an adjusted how much I can't see but I'm pretty sure there was something that others was someone in Ramadan so how much happened

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he said he's made sehore on time pretty solid and familiar with the Muslims but mostly that hamdulillah Wish Upon came in gave him a sweatshirt at the end of the day and they didn't place an intention in the morning. You got to repeat your day all against Halliwell but he made some and you prayed why'd you still believe that you didn't put an intention shovel was was it comes in every form of physical worship he'll come and what happens with such a person if he keeps being this what's worse and keep giving into it keep responding to it will law eventually he leaves worship altogether it becomes heavy it becomes a burden upon him Hello So don't worship anymore. So you see

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why it's important that you understand that the front of a ship on his real he's gonna come in every party doesn't care and he's going to anyway just take everyone with me. Eventually the person left the worship because of this. Such a person is Yanni we're going to speak about the solutions how many people have fallen victim to this solution to this problem? How do you solve a loss lies in matters of physical worship? There's a great principle that throw them out or hammer home a lot they mentioned and this principle is derived from all add in the vanilla yagni mineral hoppy Shea And mahalo, they said any doubt that comes to a person after the worship has been performed must

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completely be ignored any doubt that comes after the worship is done ignore it any doubt if you're certain about something different story but if you're doubtful forget it gone house it's finished praying again praying again is only going to be a reflection of that you are a being was closer to shape on you're in trouble right now. Keep away from this overwhelming regime my worship is done. May Allah accept and move on close a lot of social tells us oven now lay

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down with certainty Tao is nothing put the doubt aside and take that which is sorted by batch the solution and we have no other solution for that. So when someone has a problem and we give them the solution I ask the question again and again and again they ask you what the way you're gonna make me most of us will very soon house the answer is very clean forget it and drop the topic now. We're just a little bit tense because there are a lot of situations like this camp and peoples have had a lot of a there was worse way Devin was was a Sherpa. By

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the was was also affects a person concerning the worship of his heart, which we said were arcada matters of belief in a law in the hereafter and so on.

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The professor seldom informed us about a special shape on special he's dedicated to cause doubt in the heart of the believer concerning these unseen matters. Now we saw Selim he says in the Hadith in Sahih Muslim it comes this hadith yeah tishrei Paul had a confession cool shape on comes to anyone Have you had a comb any one of you could be anyone. He says the Monica customer who created the heavens. Here the person says Allah Manhattan who created the earth along they have cool hair that Allah tala Allah, Masha, Allah created the universe mancala law, he's the one who created a law. For him, he said from the Delica fileopen among to relay or sorry, anyone who finds this in his heart,

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there was water coming into his mind into his heart, say, man to be law, he was holy, I believe in Allah and His messenger and put this away. But yet another Hadith and maybe saw Selim, he says that there's a special shape on by the name of Huns up or hinge up two ways of saying it, he comes to a person, but this one is special. He comes to the person when he's praying,

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imagine is when the person is so close to alone, and in the moment where he should have the most focus and who should in his life.

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And he still comes here in this moment. Imagine that in other moments, what will happen I tell you what, my brothers Jani,

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without the protection of a law, we will always be in doubt for as long as we live. But Allah azza wa jal is protection upon us is what keeps us safe until this very moment. We ask Allah azza wa jal for more of this protection and it was worse. And that's why the greatest blessing in Islam is what eliakim as enemies are seldom he mentions in the Hadith, that the greatest blessing that could be given to a person is eliakim. And after it protection eliakim is the greatest blessing. Thank you, and the Queen would save you from a lot of things. Anyway, this hadith continue of kingship

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of men have been having all the Allahu anhu he said I came to the messenger so I send them and I said to me, also the law

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in the shape anaka halaby never been a celebrity or karate. A shape on

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has stood between me and my soul and my re citation. This is a heavy he's seeing a shale barn is standing between me and my solid mid citation youlet Bissell ally. He's confusing me in my soul that he's confusing me and what I read. So Navy SEAL Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said in their cache upon a new caller who heads up that session Paul, his name is Hindu, Muslim. Now we saw salami setting find the who, if you feel him a little bit that has sisters to feel something. Photography, let him in. Let him in a shape on the regime and look to your left. Well, what Fulani asetek flf and Spiro actaea left three times for us man even Abby allows all the long run we said for fall to delich. I

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did that for adalberto lohani. And a lot of Xhosa got him away from me. Solution solution from Rasulullah saw Selim that works for Ronnie, Yanni and anessa later on we want to study our boo belay him in a shape honorable human is the either and what does it mean by give a solution to the wasa in matters of belief? We said and until we let him grow slowly, when sir when the ship on sysmon Haleakala, we said here the ship on kinsa when it comes to a person and he confuses even a solid, that he's supposed to say, We live in a shop or him spilled to his left three times. But then let's understand how do we figure our minds around of this.

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And the reason he was once approached by a group of Sahaba they said to me out of Salalah nadji doofy on fusina Shea a novel novel unethical lemma fee, they said there are so long

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we find something in our hearts, that is huge burden. Yanni, we'd rather be charcoal than speak these words a lot. But what are these words? Any words of Allah? Allah said, words, words of big words that a person is not supposed to say? They went to the fullness of them and they said, we find this in our hearts.

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So now you saw Selim, he said our code was really a finding something like this. They said yes. He said to America, sorry, holy man. He said don't that's a sign of a man. Allahu Akbar. Yanni what's a sign of a man, not the evil force are a sign of a man. The fact that they are inside of you, and they keep circling inside of you. And you keep remaining silent about them. That is a sign of a man that is a sign of a man the only this is a good news for people that have this kind of what's worse relax, so long as you don't utter it and speak it out and preach it. Then be if the law here upon goodness. And if anything, this is a sign of a man. How is it a sign of a man and muzzleloader of

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the law? No. He went past the Jews or the Jews they set them in Ireland or social fucile Latina, Yanni Judas trying to show the Messiah no he's trying to tell us all the way better than you how he said you people you Muslims yeah vos West in your salette

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hamdulillah we have Northwest in our solid

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so he said the woman Apollo with Calvin herb what to do with a ruined destroyed heart anyway, but at the house, they are going to agenda with him is finished is always time on you. Never he's gonna come to the believer, the one that's still firm and strong upon his man. He'll come and try to bring him to becoming a hoody one. Right then yeah, and he said the woman in Photoshop Allah we call them Hello. This is how we deal with the internals worse. Jani. We disregarded we say Alhamdulillah whenever you saw Selim even said to those companions Alhamdulillah Allah via decorada who was was a messiah Salim he gave them good news he told them Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah that these matters,

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Allah azza wa jal categorize them as was was a he categorize them as was wasa And so long as they're inside lay you can live alone Epson in Lhasa, there is no issue at all. Reading Yanni. Also, what key was this issue is to read a at that mentioned the greatness of Allah subhanaw taala who Allahu Ahad kursi Allahu Akbar a feast if and the sword will read properly, with a conscious heart. When you open up in the meanings of the soul, what kind of was was would remain with the chatter it would shatter him for even these are solutions and how to combat and worthless in matters of belief

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by the second type of relationship but did we say relationship with Allah subhanaw taala we discussed that was the second

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relationship with other people that are sitting beside around you.

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There was was a shape on concerning your relationship with others also is real. But how does it come in what form it comes in the form of suspicion and doubt. It comes in the form of suspicion and doubt

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ship on gives you the evil or sweater, to have suspicion about someone or to doubt someone and as a result that's going to cause chaos and reach.

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And if suspicion was the inter between two, that's it relationships over gets very nasty after that, whether we're speaking about husband and wife are friends with each other, or business partners, you know, common examples, Matalan, a wife would take her husband's phone. I saw one, two and three, right? And I tracked his movements, and I've realized unusual movements, therefore I believe he's up to something well, suspicion, who threw this suspicion in the mind? cheban, Allah Suarez, and then we have a terrible situation after this right? Well, the brother as well, he put himself in a big question mark. So he's got a lot to answer as well. the only the only way you're going to give

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serious proper advice to a solution like this, we say to the wife, do not have suspicion against your husband. And we say to the husband, do not put yourself in a position where you bring question marks upon yourself, right? So even, you don't even need to learn how to deal with these things, friends, among each other. Someone would joke against someone a chef, oh, no, that wasn't a joke, must have been serious. He wanted to do 123 go after him. And tell him that this is unacceptable. And the relationship has gone over what over something so silly, that he could have just taken him on the side and dealt with it and moved on making it worse, worse, he comes over we said through the

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relationship of mankind to mankind

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and from among these big separations between businessmen and that's a lot as only and the plenty of examples, learned to give. But you know, the most beloved type of separation between mankind for Shabbat is what which separation.

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In the vein and model it was the most beloved type of separation is divorce between husband and wife. And the result Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says in the Hadith angegeben Abdullah

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he said in a ship on a Shahada net from a baffle solaia that a shape on a piece that I believe this is the king. He puts His out. She's thrown on the water

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from a a baffle soda. Yeah. The word the word is big, subtle. Yeah, I need a battalion. He sends out an army, an army. What's the purpose of this army? misguided mislead and deceive whoever you can't just go. They go. They spend the whole day and a whole night doing what they do. They come back when and how do you feel so hey, Muslim Webley system. What did you do? And I did this and that he did nothing. What did you You did nothing until the final one. Last one. He says for luck to buy into who he goes.

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To work to buy it. He said I went after this person. And I did not leave him until I separated between him and his wife. For a belief system for your knee human higher coluna Manta system Come Come, come sit right next to me on the throne and Tamasha law, we achieved something today. Even this is beloved to shape on getting the the more we we go with the divorce and Neela take it to all its levels. It doesn't matter how nasty and how ugly it gets. He only making a ship on pleased with what he's doing. And he pleases his boss. When I know where the cause and yellow doesn't matter, we don't look at it this way. Try to keep the marriage together. Because when you keep the marriage

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together, you're announcing your enmity towards a ship on keep always always that is supposed to be the first in line until you get married for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala to deal with your issue for the sake of Allah and then just get rid of it like this because of some issue a little problem like this. And marriage is an honest relationship. A lot of social need it from among us as women at Haleakala common and physical, as well as your little screw in a hair at like the earth is an air like the sky is an air like the moon is an air honored marriage to the point where it qualified to be an air. But at the end of the day, you're not just like this. That's not honoring the Ayat of

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Allah azzawajal What's the purpose of an A of Allah? What's the purpose of a silent alarm? So he says, Can you be you know, la luna? De La La Quinta de Dune, de la social, the purpose of an AR is to bring you closer to guidance. Even if marriage is an error, it's supposed to be a source and a reason for why you're brought closer and nearer to Allah. Not further away from Allah and closer to our ship on either we've understood divorce wrong, right? In the exception where divorce is done properly according to no sooner it's a different story. But I'm speaking about the the chaos the chaos kind of divorce that goes on left and right now

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and and you know, by the way, discussing this hadith Why is separating between husband

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In life, the most beloved form of separation, or at least Why? Because of the many harms it entails. In other words, no more kids between this husband and wife, so that's one less Muslim on Earth. No proper upbringing for the children. I'm speaking about people that are careless in their divorce, how our children are gone, lost

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the possibility of Xena that could happen afterwards whether from the wife or the husband,

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the possibility of hatred and animosity, the whole family with the in laws put them all in one package. Right? All of this is created after this divorce. This is why a police loves a look at how much this is all coming bonus for him. Right for it. And this is why this kind of separation is the most beloved for him. The solution? What's the solution for this? There's a general solution. And that is the words of Allah azza wa jal in salt. And

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that is also known as sort of a

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pursuer of manners in that sort of allows origin he says he can evoke a field of men often avoid the majority of suspicion. How do you avoid suspicion? You know how, how the next word says how well it does so, and do not spy on one another. That's how you avoid suspicion. How the suspicion come about when you begin to spy and send a private investigator and go after his life and be nosy and see what he's doing. And if that is Kansas, just source this kind of spying, it's going to lead to what it's going to lead to suspicion, philosophy usually said, avoid suspicion and avoid the cause for suspicion, which is spying. Whatever is clean is clean. What's not clearly that until things become

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Should I go around and investigate no one after your assessor don't investigate either house, in two words a loss or shall solve the problem. But that's only if you're a true believer. And then if you have other agendas in your mind that you by yourself, you deal with yourself. And if you're looking for a solution, it's in two words, no more advice after it's close people that call and speak and say he's my wife and and if you don't want to take this advice, well, we cannot do anything anymore allows the clean the advice is very serious and very clean. Number two, solution. This is a prophetic solution as well.

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If you're in a position of doubt and suspicion, listen to this carefully. If you're in a position of doubt and suspicion, then you must explain yourself. Give me an example. You saw me walking out of a pub. Let's say for example,

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walking out of a pub a log about

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and I saw you eye contact What are you driving your car and you just drove straight past me? And I am supposed to go to you and say to you listen, brother, I was in there using the bathroom. I was in there giving advice to the person I was in there doing 123 Explain yourself, because coming out of the pub isn't a good site already creates doubt whether you like it or not. People are gonna be suspicious. Even you're supposed to go and explain yourself. Now where do we get this wrong? And how do you mean when the VI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Hadith Sahih al Bukhari Sophia been to pray the wife of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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She says that nevison salam was in his mid calf during the last 10 days of Ramadan. She went to Alaska to see him so she came out of the masjid when

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he left the attic have no problems in living in the attic of for a short amount of time to fulfill Yanni some need or necessary and necessary so he left with with Sophia his wife until he got to his house as he's walking to Sahaba saw him they said Sarah Malaika and Avi Allah they gave him a solemn and they began to run

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fernery sallallahu Sallam he said to them aleris likoma is easy. Stop running. Relax. For he said to them in the house. Sofia been to Hawaii. It's Sofia.

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what's what's him doing? Why is he saying that? So these two companions they said Subhana Allah, Allah wa kabara and they said,

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they said to pata La La Akbar Yani In other words, what are they sing any they kind of Sing out a solo? Why are you telling us that? We're not accusing you? Oh, we love accusing you of anything. Then in the visualizer let me say to them in a shape on he mean Ebony oedema. Mashallah dumb, or any Hoshi to Ania Khalifa boo boo Kuma once again that Hadith that we mentioned that the beginning he said that a shape on he flows through the body of a man of mankind just like blood flows through his body. Like there's a huge battle happening inside. Bodies going all around Alice was a is all over the place. What you need a sheet and I feed him said I feed

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that a shape on an EOC Aviva that he is going to cast an evil force towards your heart.

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He's going to cast an evil force

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You might think oh, who was he hanging out with that night? Maybe fundraiser SLM is teaching us in this hadith that even he feed that people might have was was against him. Wherever Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was Sahaba so pleased to say a stone for the last panel on the way we're going to think about you like this, but even then in the besides lm says, You saw me in a position where he brings question mark, which shape and he never on these things will happen. Let me explain it to this was Sophia my wife so that the shape on doesn't cost anything into your minds later on, how often the case was dismissed? or somehow the law any people like this exists today, you know,

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those who reject the sooner and the hadith of Rasul masala These are people are nothing but they have given obedience style was was a against

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Medina, how do you prove that it was was a from a believer can come towards us almost whenever you saw them cut it off by saying you know, Sophia, and the people today that reject the sooner they have actually Abidal was was inside of them against loss or loss is Allah

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Subhana Allah, they fell in the trap of a Shabbat

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in another Hadith as well, to explain these situations more because these are the only current examples that we have. So it's good to be collective about these examples in the seal of Rasulullah saw Salah, the hadith of anisopliae Allahu anhu hiner He says, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was at the house of I shall have a loved one. It was her day, so he was there. And he had guests in his house. And one of the other wives of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam she sent with her servant to the house of I shall have their loved one had a dish of food. In the Hadith, which mentioned on Casa Casa is a, a jar, or you can say a jug made of wood. That's what Casa is.

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She sent a song or kind of like a plate you can say, and there's food in it. So when I showed up in LA, and I saw this car coming to the door, and the servant is holding it, bringing it to the house, she hit the hand of the servant hard. And because I fell on the floor and the food spilled and Casal it's made of wood he broke, the heat must have been hard for wood to break.

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From the bizarre seldom he's there with his guests and everyone saw it. So never saw Selim got up and he began to pick the pieces of wood, and he began to put the food in it. While saying hola Tomoko Tomoko, your mother has become jealous Your mother has become jealous. Why did he say that? Number one to justify the action of I shall obey Allah Juana that this is something that will happen between co wives and this is normal. Tomoko but most importantly, he said word mogul so that the companions that saw this and hurdle so that they don't leave his house and begin to have evil thoughts concerning the way that the household of masala meaning they might leave and see what's

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going on in the household of masala. That was Johnny, pretty rough situation. Food break on the floor and food went all over the place and

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hairdryer. Tomoko he didn't just try to cover it up and move on. He because now you're in a position of doubt there's a question mark, and evil fought could could split someone. Current straight away right then and there. He said, Tomoko is relaxed. This is just jealousy. There's no problem. We're all good in the house. This is just normal. That happens emotions between co wives finish. That's it. No one has an evil foot after that. We learn a lot a lot from loss or loss of the law they are. In another story mentioned in Sahih Muslim

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who if you reflect over the last story, something like this would end in a divorce. Nowadays, however, they end up in a divorce. schufa never saw Selim how he keeps it together in two words. So pantalon in another story mentioned in Sahih Muslim, I shall be Allah Juana. Once again, this is a narration for her she narrates she says one night, the prophecy of Ceylon was sleeping at my house was her night.

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Part of the night when by when we saw Salam woke up quietly, so that he doesn't disturb. He dressed because in the past, when they used to sleep, they used to take all the clothes off because there's only one piece of cloth and the Medina was neither the sweat Enos and the heat and so on, it'll dirty the clothes. So they used to remove, he dressed, he put his shoes on. He opened the door. All of this he's doing away done, meaning silently, quietly, still flee. He left the house and he closed the door quietly. My shadow the alarm on her, she's sleeping in the house. She wasn't asleep. She was awake, and she was aware of what was happening.

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So she said, I got up as well put on my clothes and put on my KML which is a delille that Comoros worship and they used to wear it. I wore my shoes. And she said I followed him. Maybe that he's going to another wife's house.

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She said I followed him until he reached alberca, which is the graveyard of Medina. ultraclear is about 100 150 meters from the house of salasar, Salah. She said I saw him he stood there and he began to make while.

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She said, Maybe he'll finish the dryer. And then after that he'll go to another wife's house. So she stood. Me saw Selim finished his dry stood a long time and he made the dryer. Then he started walking back home, he said, and I started walking back home as well. He began to jog, and I began to jog. He started running. And I started running as long as she got to the house and two toes, took the clothes off and back into bed. When Debbie sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he entered the house after her. And he said, Man, lucky, I wish

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he said to her hashey and bla bla, he said, What's wrong with you? Oh, I wish this is how I used to call her and why you breathing heavily for

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So he said the lead to be rhynie a lot of he said that to be really old. A lot of people have either informed me, Allah azzawajal is going to inform me about what happened.

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So she informed him and he said, Van De sala de la Vila a to me. You are the black thing that I saw in front of me running and I was running after it. She said yes, it was me. fadnavis are seldom in this position you can imagine in the house. And how do you feel how desire for lahad? And if you saw the de la Jacques de la haut, what the meaning

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la had any meaning he pushed me on my chest. And also linguistically alert is to bring the pump together like this Jani a fist punch into her chest. And she said, Oh, Johnny, it hurt me.

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So let me set a volunteer near haIf Allahu la quwata solo. Did you assume that Allah and His Messenger are going to oppress you? She said mama echo Nestle. Yeah, Allahu la now she said whatever the people try to conceal Allah knows it. And yes, I thought something's gonna happen you will get to go somewhere else and it's considered as oppression towards me. In other words, she acknowledge what did she did was wrong. Now look at this, a situation like this today would have allowed but how it would have ended. How it would have ended a lot better than us. Police coming someone arrested blood guy to the ICU maybe children screaming terrified children nervous arson and how he's going to

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control the situation now.

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She has dealt with do you go? He's gonna say it's none of your business. Forget it. Stop asking me where I hang out every night. No. He said to her for energy. briella attorney hainault at when you saw me moving around, she please came.

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Fanelli. He called me for hoomin key and he didn't want you to he. He's calling out to me. He didn't want to say he made it very silent for OSHA to fire to me and I answered him and I kept it silent as well.

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From Bella Mia con la mia Konya, la ke waka Baba de Bercy and GB it wasn't going to enter into the house when you were undressed out who allegedly will not enter into the house of Rasulullah saw seldom if his wife is in the undressed well, Fernando woven into an encoder Kitty, and I assumed that you were foreign to sleep for Katie to an okie dokie. I dislike to wake you up and

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show for loyalty and love in a situation that was almost about to erupt. He seemed I didn't want to wake you up. And I dislike to wake you up to understand he and I feel that you might get worried and disturbed all of a sudden what's happening. So I addressed site silently, and I opened the door silently and I closed it silently. Then he said

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jabril came to me and he said in not Becker morioka and Dr. Anil Baka to stop for Allah home. Allah azza wa jal commanded me that I go to the Baqir and I seek forgiveness for them, call it and then she began to respond to him. And she said then if I go and visit them, What do I say? And then he said, if you go and visit them, say Assalamu alaikum Allah de la mina Mina al muslimeen. While Harmon lavon was stuck, the mean was almost up the mean I mean, now we'll we'll start hearing, we're in sha Allah who become lexicon and we all know the end of the Hadith and Hadith that you see when you visit the cemetery. But the story behind it is a gem is gold in how one is supposed to deal is

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that any what I can kind of relate these hobbies to a contemporary current example is that when a wife is asking her husband, where did you spend last night if you say

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If there is nothing to hide, which should be the case, nothing to hide, say, say, one time two times three times and then house, she won't ask me if nilla anymore. But if there's something to hide, are you going to make a big story out of it? Like and maybe some of the Mohatta yourself. He didn't say that it's none of your business Go back to sleep and forget it. I sat down and explained that it took a conversation. And then she spoke back and he taught us something at the end of it, we came out and if you will, my benefit with ahaadeeth what to say when we visit the graveyard for any my brothers in Islam and Nevis are seldom is our role model. And there is no other role model after

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this. For follow him. He's a role model in the fact that he was a husband, in the fact that he was a father, in the fact that he was a general of his army, a leader of his community, a judge, a spiritual, whatever it is in all facets of life. He's a loose little hustler to be followed some Allahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Yeah, and we've discussed that the shape bonds was was that can affect the person in his relationship with Allah, and in his relationship with the creation. What do we have left?

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What's the last one?

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relationship of what you mean by Ethan. Mahalo Salah relationship with oneself very quickly, what does that mean? It means a shape on how does he give us was a person in the relationship with himself, he makes him doubt his abilities. Only a person wants to memorize the plan. He said, The mentor will know your old he can't memorize. And now Hello, when you get children, invest in your children and make them memorize a plan with your children at the two different things. But that's how you distract you wished I bought as a plan for your children later on anyway. But you failed to see that. Right? So you're asked for the ID here will the house let me put my time and effort in

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them and we all get the same reward? Why do you work on yourself? Right?

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That's That's how it is. That's a suicide between oneself relationship between with himself a shared bond with begin to keep on dropping his abilities, abilities. And this is where mental illness comes up. And I promise the last time I'll speak about it, I don't have time. But let's just end it here with this kind of question. What do we mean by mental illness really, this is where mental illness begins. depression and anxiety, sorrow, worry, sadness, OCD, whatever it is, all of it comes from this one here. Allah swears relationship between yourself that was worse leads to these mental illness issues. We'll speak about them in depth be of the light either next time. And as I said to

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will differentiate, and we'll speak about his mental illness or punishment of a lot of social, and how do we justify it for a person that is on his worship? And he still is a victim of mental illness or a patient of mental illness? How do we explain all this? And one of the solutions for mental illness? And and I I told you from the beginning, this is my research, I've collected a few things I've researched, I've come to certain conclusions. I'm not a doctor or anything, you're gonna have to go seek professional advice. But I'm going to mix some of that with some of the teachings of Islam. And what a lot of Xhosa has taught us in the Quran. of evening. later on. I'll share with you

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what I believe to be something of a solution and Chatelet Allah will leave that for next time. We ask Allah subhanaw taala to give us a deeper understanding of the plant. Ask him some Hana data to make us people who follow the plan and the sooner for solar solar in the holy vertical father Ali Hassan Aloha, cinemavilla, Cardona, Vienna, Mohammed Ali, or some big money