Abu Bakr Zoud – Breaking Haram Relationships – The Story of Marthad Al-Ghanawi

Abu Bakr Zoud
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The speaker describes a woman who attempted to achieve her goals of freeing some hillb restarted, but chose a disidentical woman who was embarrassed by her lack of leadership. She describes the struggles of a man who lost his love to a woman and became an alcoholic, but eventually found one. He also talks about how he became an MBA after the death of his mother.

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			Believe it or not over him hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah while he
was such a big Marine, all praise and thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala May the peace and
blessing of Allah be upon his servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			as to what follows my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam, what I wanted to begin with is a
story. And this is a story of a companion by the name of model said, urban Abbey model for the
learner. We all be a lover, I'm not very famous. We haven't heard about him, but let's get to know
about him. And what we can learn from him as being a true follower of the messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam. So my brothers and sisters modified probably a lot more until he lived in Mecca.
And he had a girlfriend in Makkah, her name was Anna. And of course, they weren't married. So they
had a relationship that is just like any other relationship in where he would spend bytes with her.
		
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			He would spend time with her, he would drink with her, and so on. A few years go by, and Islam
comes, it finally arrives, and he accepts Islam. And the event of the visual art takes place to
Almudena. So eventually, he had no other choice but to sacrifice his relationship with this go on
out. He sacrificed that relationship for the sake of Allah. And he migrated with lasala muscle
Allahu alayhi wa sallam from Makkah, until he reached at Medina and all the other Sahaba of their
loved one who did the migration as well.
		
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			A few months ago by in Medina, it was very difficult for most of the labia Allahu anhu, to give up
what he gave up. I mean, there was intense and strong love between them, which over in this story,
you'll find out exactly what that means. So when he's in Medina, the problem is that in Mecca, there
are still prisoners of the believers, that as they were trying to escape Mecca, they were captured
by Polish, and they were imprisoned and they were tortured and they weren't able to go anyway. So
when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam arrives to Medina, the first thing he does is that he
hand picks he selects, and he chooses some of the Sahaba that were strong, that were tough, that
		
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			were full of light and power. And he chose them so that he sends them back to Medina. So back to
Makkah, so they can go into Mecca, and free the prisoners of the believers and get them out of
trouble. So he in the bizarre Salaam is choosing some Sahaba. And he chooses from among them, model
federal law. No, he probably a loved one who motherfuck was a tough man. He was strong, and he had
just accepted Islam is migrated. And he's, he's selected for this mission to go and free some of his
brothers that are still trapped in bunker. So now he comments and he narrates the story. And he
says, I left Medina and I began to approach Mecca. And as we got close to Mecca, he said, Fanta
		
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			Hato, Ilaha impingement. However, if we Mecca feel a lot in Macmillan, he says, as I reached Mecca,
it was a it was a night of full moons night. So it was a bright night, the moon was out. And he
reached at night. And he said, I went until I reached one of the walls of Makkah. And he stuck
himself to the wall, because obviously he doesn't want to be found and he doesn't want to be seen.
And he began to walk alongside this wall. And he says, as I'm walking, I see and out, he saw me. And
she said, Martha, she found me. She recognized him from his shadow that will allow him at home
alone. And they discussed this hadith. They said that the intense love that was between them, that
		
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			as a matter of she just saw his shadow. And she knew he was. So she said, Martha, is that you? And
he kept quiet. He didn't say anything. Obviously it doesn't want to put himself into trouble or want
to expose himself. So he remained silent. But where is he going to go? She said I got modified. And
now this time he gave in. And he said Martha, it's me. So then she said to him.
		
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			Hello, my bit. And Anna Laila. She said, Oh, welcome. She's remembering the old days that she had
with Martha lovano reliving those days and what we used to live in. So she said to him, hello, Matt,
between Dan and Layla, she said come tonight, come over and slip asleep over my place tonight. So
without hesitation, without the Aloha, no. He stood right in front of her. And he said Your Honor,
in the Maha Brahma Zina. He said,
		
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			Allah has made Xena has made adultery impermissible. It's how long I'm in a different religion and
things are very good.
		
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			He that is absolutely incorrect for me to pursue if you're in go home tonight. So she being a
disbeliever. She's got no idea what this means and what the Xena is. So she's confused. And she said
to him, What do you mean Xena Jani? It's as though she she felt like she's been accused in her in
her dignity and her honor. She felt like she's being slandered. So she said to him, listen, if you
don't come tonight with me, I'm going to scream out from here, that you're the one who's coming into
Mecca picking up the prisoners and freeing them. For he heard that. And he began to run. And he
said,
		
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			as he is running, he's running towards a mountain in Mecca called Alhamdulilah. And she screams out
		
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			in the
		
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			middle are slow Slocum, she said on people of Mecca. This is the man who comes in and carries your
prisoners and you freeze them. So he began to run as fast as he can. He gets to the mountain on
Candela. And he hides in a cave that he knows he was a Mexican boy. So he knows around, he gets into
the cave in your hygiene. And he says, I can count almost eight men of the strong men of Makkah,
they warm their horses, and they're following me. So they get to him. And they're following me on
the mountain and they're searching for him. And they said they spent a while on the mountain. And
he's hidden in the cave. And he's really silent so that obviously they don't catch him out. And he
		
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			says, until they gave up the search. So everyone got on to their horses, about to go down the
mountain and just go back to their houses. And he says except for one of him. And this is a hadith
in Timothy, Rama Hola. He says one of them. He came and he wanted to urinate. So he began to urinate
and his urine Bella, see hearing aids on my head, far mela who I need and alone blinded him that he
did not see me. So this was a karma Allah subhanho wa Taala give him a miracle that happens to
mankind other than you and it happens to human beings other than the prophets. That's what he's
saying in the narration. So they went and what would you think modify your loved one who's going to
		
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			do he did not just pick himself up and go straight back to Medina. He didn't do that. He's there.
He's on a mission. He doesn't want to upset
		
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			him and his brother in Mecca that is waiting for him. So he goes back into Macau once again. And
this time he gets there successfully. He finds the man chained on the floor and he is put in the
middle of Mecca. So he unties him basically, and he puts him on his back. Remember, Mulford was a
strong man, and he walks with him until he reaches a place known as an infill, which is just outside
Mecca. Once he gets there, he puts the brother down the Sahaba down, and he cuts off the iron
feathers that were feathers that were on his feet and the chains that were in his hand and so on. So
that the Sahaba of the Allahu anhu could walk on his own. And then they make their way until they
		
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			reach and Medina when hamdulillah successful. He got his brother released. Now so Pamela, he gets to
Medina.
		
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			And the next day, they listen to this part really carefully. He comes to Nabhi sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam,
		
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			and he says Jada Salalah she's gonna ask him a question. You wouldn't even imagine he's going to ask
this question. He says three metal suomela ven Lee and Kiana he says jasola Please give me
permission that I go back to Mecca and get married to my old my ex my girlfriend, I now give me
permission to go.
		
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			When the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam in the narration it says and by the way, she almost killed
him. She almost killed him. But this is the intense love that was between them. He says give me
permission to go back and marry her. In the narration. It says in Abu Dawood, it says from cecotto
Salalah his son Allahu Allahu wa sallam in a Timothy says for circa todo sobre la la la Vallejo
Salah. Powerful. The narration says in the visar Selim remained silent. He did not speak. He was
speechless. And
		
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			they began to explain this speechlessness of Rasulullah saw Salah Why did he remain silent? Even
though the answer is very clean? I mean, the Quran has already revealed way before a few months, a
lot of Zoysia Allah said 110 Kevin machete karate hottie Minh, Allah has made that law very clear
that it's not allowed for a believer to get married to a disbeliever
		
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			That's exactly what an app is. So the answer is no Goodbye, but seldom does an answer. When
		
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			they explain that. They see that in the vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam was feeling what murphysboro
the Allahu anhu was going through. It's not easy. He loves the girl. And so just to dismiss him, and
just give him a bold answer, look at how long just go, if he's not going to swallow that really
easy, and he's going to remain hurt all his life, when there is some alarm while he was in them. He
acknowledges this sensitive situation. And that's something we're supposed to do. There are some
people that would come in, they would complain about something, for example, is this how long can I
do this? I've been doing this for the rest of for all my life. Am I able to continue in it? And we
		
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			just brother.
		
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			Sister, what are you talking about a talam good Bart. Nan de la masa like that. He would actually
look into the person to easy situation. Someone has loved the girl for all his life in Mecca. And he
spent most of the time with her and he's coming to you for direction. How are you going to answer
the situation? Very sensitive. for newbies I send them remain silent. It was so sensitive, that
Allah sends down an ayah from above seven heavens to treat this case of Martha Gobi Allah subhanaw
taala
		
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			philosophy social reveals on total solar loathsome alojado us alum, Zenn LA and gorilla Zenyatta and
Omar shreeka. was near to lay and Kira Illa Zen in oceanic Metallica, Alan mini in the bizarre celeb
received this way. He gets up and he faces modified. And he says to me that Allah has just revealed
a Xeni lion gorillas and eaten oceanica the adulterer shall not marry anyone except an adulterous or
a disbeliever. And the adulterous shall not get married to anyone except an adulterer or a
disbeliever was a Metallica mini and Allah has made this impermissible upon the believers, Latin
cahaya Martha don't get married to her overfed. monferrato, the Allahu anhu who listens to this
		
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			and he listens to the advice of Rasulullah Salim. And he gets up and he is so happy. He is so young,
he is full of joy, and he is full of pleasure and contentment from the inside. You know why? Because
Allah declared him from among them. I mean, Allah said, What hurt me Metallica, Mini, Yamato said,
You're from the momineen you're from the believers. And you're not supposed to do that. When Allah
and you're missing, just say something, listen to it, and do it straightaway. He gets up, and it's
as though nothing has ever entered his heart of love in his life. These are the true followers of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. That was their attitude, no matter how much they're
		
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			attached to something, they would let it go in an insert. If they knew that this would displease
most of Hannah who Medina
		
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			Allahu anhu understood. If I pursuing this marriage, it'll upset Allah. It'll anger, love, it will
earn me a lot of punishment. It's not worth it. So he lets it go. And he moves forward in life with
Subhanallah my brothers and sisters, look at this motherfucking lovely Allahu anhu he did not the
next day, he didn't go around to the Sahaba and say to them, the Sahaba Someone please find me a
solution. Allah, I can't live my heart, how I need this girl in my life.
		
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			I sleep at Ico my dream. I wake up and I see in front of me. He could have spent the rest of his
life depressed and worried and upset. But he didn't do that. He understood that wouldn't bring him
the pleasure of Allah. So he pursued in life. And look at this. Look how beautiful this is. Martha
broadley Allahu anhu. After this incident, he lived one and a half years, one and a half years he
lived. He couldn't live that one and a half years in depression. But because he made the decision to
step over his own desire, and to step over his own knifes and what he wants for himself for the sake
of Allah, and in obedience of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and because he did that
		
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			decision, look what he gained throughout the Allahu anhu look what he gained. Number one, he gained
a karma Allah subhanho wa Taala gave him a miracle during his life, and that is that when that
person of Mecca urinated on him and did not see him, Allah gave him a miracle in his life. Number
two, Allah social would bless model sir modified Allah who I know that he would please him under his
shade on the day of today.
		
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			But, you know, the Hadith and the bizarre Salam he says that one of the seven types that get too
young to be shaded under the shade of a loss of Hannah died on the Day of Judgment is a person in
which a woman came to, and she called him and he said to me a half Allah, that's exactly what the
Allahu anhu did. So he gave that kind of reward that he's under the shade of Allah subhanho wa Taala
on the Day of Judgment further to this modifiability Allahu anhu pursued in life, and he went ahead
in his knowledge, and he became an expert in the Quran. Imagine he kept recalling that woman, what
would have happened to it? Well, I have no knowledge, nothing would have happened to him. But
		
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			because he put it behind his back. He became an expert in his school and he became a student of
knowledge of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to the point where after he when the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sends an army, he sends an army out to Palo Alto. And this battle was
called that the law here. He was an Amir. He became an Amir after it on a group and an army that
nobody saw Selim said, to fight the disbelievers for a betrayal they did to be some of them. And it
is over there, where he attained martyrdom and that's how he died as a shady. Look how much he
gained because he understood what it means to be a follower of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam