Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – What is Sufism A Formal Explanation Part 10 The Fourth and Fifth Principle of the Path

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the importance of finding someone who can hold onto something, like a book or a prayer, to avoid losing faith and anxiety. They stress the importance of staying on the edge of fear and not missing the journey. The importance of finding someone who can hold onto something, like a book or a prayer, is emphasized. The speakers also discuss the importance of finding someone who understands the path of Islam and is familiar with the language. They stress the need for guidance and guidance to create fresh ideas for humanity and strengthen their hearts with shaytan.
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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala so you didn't

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more serene. While he was so happy about a cosa limita Sleeman

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cathedral, you know, Yomi Dean and my birth, we were going through

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the 10 principles.

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The 10 fundamental principles as the author said, of, after

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mentioning the 10 stages of the knifes he said, these are the OSU

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lottery. These are the 10 principles of the path to Allah

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subhanaw taala. The first one was the Toba to purify oneself. And

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the second one, which was sugar, and to thank Allah subhanaw taala,

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for what he's already given us. And that's essentially a very good

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way to do that. Because when you do sugar, Allah gives you more. So

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when we already doing sugar or whatever Allah has already given

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us in terms of

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the blessings, he's already given us the Eman that He's given us and

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everything else, then Insha Allah, we can hope for more. So that's as

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a step that we get

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higher up, inshallah.

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Number three, was sober, and patients, because now things are

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gonna start getting difficult. So this is a very logical way that

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we're doing this because firstly, we're trying to take off any

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baggage that we have of sins, and any burden, we're trying to shed

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that load. So we are not weighed down by any kind of baggage for no

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reason, number one, then we do sugar for whatever we already

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have, I'm just having human and being in this world. And having

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the faith that Allah has given us, that's a massive deal, isn't it.

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So that's what we do next. Then number three, what we do is, we

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now have to inculcate patience, because now the going is going to

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get tough.

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Or it could get tough. So it's all about patience afterwards, to

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realize that we can't be just like anybody else and everybody else.

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If there's somebody who doesn't care about anything, and who

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literally does as they please, and they do whatever they want in this

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life, no holds bar, you know, there's no, that there's no bars

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for them. Maybe they just follow the law of the land, and that's

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about it. Then, as Muslims, there's always a law that we have

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that is going to

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we're going to have to abide by, which is the law of Islam. And for

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that you need support and patience. That's why it's a

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massive deal to inculcate sovereign patience, you can't do

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without that today.

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Right. So that's why now you can see how this is going on that we

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need the sovereign patience.

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Then, number four, is a robot will cover it will cover.

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Right? So it's satisfaction with the decree of Allah subhanaw taala

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and his pre ordaining whatever he has done for us.

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And I think one of the biggest benefits of that is that whatever

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is has happened for us in the past, like maybe things have gone

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wrong, or they didn't go as right as we would like to sometimes

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things may have not gone wrong, but we look at others who are who

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are who are our classmates when we were in junior school together.

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Right? You know, when we were 710. Or maybe they were our neighbor.

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And today we look at them, there's somewhere else where we think we

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should be.

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So while we may not think that things have actually gone wrong

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for us, but we don't think they've gone as well for us. But then when

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you focus on cover will cover that everything is predestined by Allah

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subhanaw taala. And whatever is passed, we know that was

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predestined, whatever is in the future, we don't know. Because he

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hasn't happened yet. And we don't know. Nobody, you know, you can't

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log in and find out what's gonna happen tomorrow. Right? Just

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doesn't work that way.

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But whatever has happened, we know. So at least for that, we can

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say, oh, okay, well, that's what Allah wanted from us. So that's

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what he wanted from us. That's what happened. So there's no point

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crying over that now. But we don't want to make mistakes in the

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future. That's the main thing.

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So that's why cover will cover number five, then is,

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once we've gotten ourselves in order, and we get serious about

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this, and we want something to come out from this, then it helps

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for the most part, which is number five, which we'll come to, it

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helps for the most part, that

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we find somebody to guide us. That's why he calls it the burl,

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marshy del Carmen, you have to find somebody accomplished to hold

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our hand and take us along. Right. And I think one of the basic

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reasons for that is very simple. Most people majority of people

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don't have discipline in terms of a routine in terms of doing only

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what's to their benefit, we all mess up, right, we all all of us

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are such that we would like to do something which we would like to

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do lots of things which

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We find it difficult to actually do. Meaning we would all love to

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be people who perform Tahajjud prayer now, we would all love to

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be those people who would never even think of sin. But it's

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difficult to do that regular on their prayer,

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dismount charity, you know, all the good things that we'd like to

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do, it's just difficult to do it and set yourself on to doing it.

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So sometimes somebody needs to hold our hand, sometimes we're

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doing things and we don't know we're doing things wrong.

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So the whole idea of number five, is to try to find somebody that

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can help. That's the purpose of number five.

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So let's go back to number five, number five was a robot will cover

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will cover to be satisfied with whatever Allah had preordained and

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whatever has actually taken place. So that's why he says, For Kula

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who, Musa Lehmann, okay, this lemma, what Tibet, sebelah Nursey,

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keen, Allahu Allah ma. So he says, For canola, who, Musa lemon que

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tous llama,

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be always a submitted to him, Be always one of those that submits

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to him, so that you can remain safe.

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Allahu Akbar, so that you can remain safe. Because if you don't

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submit to Him, you can't remain safe. Because your mind is going

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to be all over the place. Whenever somebody feels that they've got,

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whenever somebody feels that they've got somebody that's

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looking after them, then you just feel a lot more confidence. Let's

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put it this way,

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you've got a car, and it has some problem or the other, even if one

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light is gone, but you have to drive somewhere. And you're gonna

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feel not as confident, because you feel police might see it, and I'm

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gonna run into trouble. Or the engine may come off that, you

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know, when you've got less petrol. Right? You, you think I've done it

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before I managed to get 20 miles out of it the last time it was

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down to that. But you just don't feel comfortable. When you have a

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full tank, you don't worry about to do that you're going to run out

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of it. So when you feel that everything is in order humans when

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they feel everything in order, it just makes them better. Now, I

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know there's some people who live on the edge all the time. Right?

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They always last minute. They always push it to the end, right?

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Even though they could have filled up but they actually push it to

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the end. It's almost like they're testing themselves out. Like you

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know, do can I perform a miracle one day or not? I don't know Allah

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one. Right. So they live on the edge, but they're not happy. I can

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tell you when I used to travel before I used to pack at the last

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minute.

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I used to pack at the last minute, leave late. So your intention all

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the way until you actually sit in the plane.

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That was a long time ago. Since then, what I've done is, I pack in

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advance, I've got a list. So I pack in advance. I try to not go

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so early. I'm not one of those who get to the airport for hours

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early. That's just ridiculous, I think right? Some people you know,

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anytime you're going with a toy, they always tell you make sure you

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come for hours early. Because obviously they don't want you to

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miss the flight. But

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anyway, so you you just it just feels much more comfortable to do

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that. So likewise with your iman, how can you miss her? How can you

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be on the edge with your iman?

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How can we without faith be always on the edge? Just? Oh, it's okay.

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Last minute, last minute last minute? How can it be the case?

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When are we going to get comfortable with our faith? Where

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it's in order where things are going right? Where we're not

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living on the edge of our faith all the time. Man, I messed up

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there, man, I messed up again.

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How many of us are living on the edge of our faith? Right? It's not

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the best policy. It's too much tension. So that's why your robot

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bill covers satisfaction with the decree of Allah subhanaw taala is

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extremely important. So he says

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and that's the whole point that when we know that okay, whatever

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has happened, we leave it to Allah subhanho wa Taala that was the

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best thing now inshallah the future will be better for us. Now

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we're going to change our ways. I'm no longer going to I'm no

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longer going to

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pack at the last minute and then rush to the airport at the last

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minute and then be all sweaty and everything and then finally just

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be able to relax when you go onto the flight because with Allah

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subhanaw taala you we may end up in Jahannam like that man.

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Right at least here you will catch your flight. I mean, miracles

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don't always happen. They happen sometimes. But you can't reach

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that with the Akira. When I went for a tour in South Africa with

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channel Islam international our host was one of the most wonderful

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people was the director of channel Islam but he he's the best host

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I've ever had Allah bless him abundantly assured by his name is

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it's amazing that the three flights we had to take there we

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were always late, but we got the flight somehow. It was a Kurama he

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was expecting to buy new tickets. We get to go from Johannesburg to

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Durban

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We got there with like 10 minutes left. And he had to go and park

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the car. So he gave us He gave us his ID, he said you check in for

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me.

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So we got to the gate. And I checked in for him as well. And

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they let us do that. And then he came and we rushed inside. And we

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managed to make it when we got to Durban and we had to fly back to

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Johannesburg. And as a program we have to get to,

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again, we're late. It just turned out that way. It wasn't we I

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wasn't doing my early, you know, like we're just gonna go late. No,

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this just turns out like that maybe for traffic, I can't

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remember what we got to the airport and the flight was late

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and from the Rila.

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See worked out. And then finally, we're coming back now to the UK.

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Now you don't want to miss that one do you? I shall buy says hold

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on.

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Right, we got small time left small amount of time, he says hold

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on.

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He goes to the chicken shop. We he goes, I'll be back. We're waiting,

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we're waiting. And then he comes back with, you know, lunch or

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dinner for us.

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And we got there and they they're calling our name or something. So

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we'd lucky that we got in there again. And you won't believe it

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when he got it wasn't it hard when he got to Emirates. Somehow we got

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laid there again. And we were the last people on the flight again,

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for flights actually now that I think about it, but it worked out.

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I don't do that as a matter of purpose. Or I don't do that on

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purpose. But that just worked out that was a very Berkut you know,

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journey. But you don't want to mess around like that. Because if

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we're doing that,

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if we're if we're, if we're doing that for the Akira where we're

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just risking it, we might miss the boat already for the Akira so you

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might be able to miss it a flight. And that's fine because you can

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buy another flight, okay, it's going to be very expensive, but

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you can still get to your destination. Whereas if we miss it

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for the hereafter then being in Jahannam for a long time is not a

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good idea.

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So we need to get our past sorted we need to be comfortable about

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our past what I mean by competence we've done wrong and we need to

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know we've done wrong, but we need to know that we've got to

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we've got an Allah who's Rahim Rahman, and whatever's happened in

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the past, okay, it's happened for a purpose. How many people have

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you seen we've had a bad past, they become good people. And then

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they managed to convince, they managed to convince a lot more

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people than a good person on his life. I'm not saying that he's a

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better person than a good person. Because clearly the person who

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never messed around, right has got bit more going for him because

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he's got no sin. But the person who did sin who was involved in

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Haram activities. Due to that haram experience, he can sometimes

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speak in a way that helps people who are engaged in that haram. I'm

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not saying that you do that purposely to get that experience,

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because we may never come out of it. This guy is lucky he's come

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out of it.

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You see the difference? Can't say that, Oh, just because I need to

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experience the I need to sort out these drug guys that let me get

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into drugs and try them out for a while and we may never come out of

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that stuff is bad. All of it is bad. But people who've already

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been there, then Subhanallah you know, they shouldn't feel that

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they should make Toba they should repent now they need to move ahead

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and not let shaytaan overcome them to make them feel that

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you have no chance some some big names of the past are like that.

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Some big names of the pastor like that who have gone down into

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history and people respect them today right there's one story I

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can never get over because I read his name when we're reading the

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books of six you know the six collections major collections the

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font foundation collections of Heidi's when you're reading those

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books, is a name that comes to his name is had the thinner Mohammed

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ignore carnival Carnaby

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now forever until they have judgment. Everybody's going to

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read his name.

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Muhammad dibuka and Al Carnaby. He's from Missouri.

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But he was a guy who spent his youth in drinking.

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Right. It mentions in his story that if no Kodama has mentioned

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Keita with the well being that his he was once waiting around for his

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friends. And it says in his description that he had red

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trousers on

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which is the same in those days nowadays. I think pink trousers, I

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don't even know how bad they are. No, but I mean, those days to have

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a red pair of trousers on meant that you're a bit weird anyway.

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Right? You were like on the wrong side of town.

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So he's there waiting for his friends. He's invited his friends

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over his mom's cooking, and he's got all the drinks there.

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Now as he is there, there's a big there's a big entourage of a big

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shake that's going past that's coming towards him. And in there

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was this big Hadith scholar who also comes in the transmissions of

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Buhari, Muslim etc is shot by YBNL Hajaj, who was also originally

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from one set, but then he moved to bustle and he stayed in Basara,

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one of the big Mohabbatein of Basara so he's like on a third

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level

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fourth level that you have to his name comes into transmissions of

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the Hadith that you read today and Buhari etc.

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So he's coming along and he's got people with him. So this person

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just thinks, who is this guy? It looks kind of interesting. So he

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goes, and he says, Who is this? He says, Don't you know this is shot

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by YBNL Hajaj, the big Muhaddith, the big Hadith scholar. So he goes

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then up to shorba.

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And just imagine jump some guy off the street, and there's some big

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shake coming along with the taxpayers money or somebody's

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coming along. It's like, Who is this guy? Everybody's like going

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after him making shaking his hands. So he goes up to him

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himself. And he says, Can you relate to Hadith to me at Disney?

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relator Hadees to me, so short, but looks at him and he thinks you

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don't look like a student. Like you're telling me to narrate a

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hadith to you because generally our students that came and said,

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Can you narrate your Hadith to me because we can then be connected

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via you up to the royal sallallahu alayhi wasallam that I can say, I

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heard this Hadith from you. You heard it from your teacher, from

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your teacher, from his teacher from his teacher until voxalot.

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So he looks at him and he says, You don't look like a student. So

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the only language he knew he pulled out a dagger and he said, I

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pulled out a knife, you know, typical London crime, right? He

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pulled out a knife. And he said, If you don't, if you don't relate

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the Hadith to me, I'm gonna stab you.

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He didn't he didn't say it in such a polite way. He said it in his

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gangster style, whatever that was, right, this hadith, Neo Jrock

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that's what he said. Right? So then short was this okay? You

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know, I'll relate a hadith you said a hadith related to him, was

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that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that if you lose

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your modesty, your shyness, your chest, your, your bashfulness,

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your modesty in front of Allah subhanaw taala, then you can do as

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you wish. Now that penetrates his heart,

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right, it was just that moment. He goes back home, and

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he tells his mother, that when my friends come, because he couldn't

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WhatsApp them, like, you know, I'm not going to see you anymore.

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Like, you didn't do those things in those days. Right? He said,

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when when my friends come feed them, but he took all the drink

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and he pulled it out. And he went to Madina Munawwara

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and I think he studied with Imam Malik, and he becomes a big

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Muhaddith.

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So much so that now you have to say his name every time you read

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the isnaad. Right. So it's just amazing, isn't it? And there's so

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many people like that.

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Some of the biggest Sufis, some big Sufis have the password

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highwayman. And they suddenly turn around. That's why Let not your

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past spoil your future. Because you don't know what your future

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is, you only know what your past is. You only know the duck deer of

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your past, you don't know it of the future. That's very important.

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So he says, What Robbie Oh, a reader. The fourth principle of

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the path towards Allah is to be satisfied, which is what will hold

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your unread or NFC, he beat the whole if you read or rugby, which

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is to eventually come out of just being satisfied with your soul, to

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entering into the satisfaction of his Lord, that we must only be

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satisfied with what Allah wants for us. What does Allah want from

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us? What does he want from us? How does he want to deal with us, we

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must have a level of satisfaction. Because if we are so independent,

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and we don't

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think that anybody else has a right to dictate for us, and if

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something goes slightly wrong in our lives that we start

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complaining, then we have not recognized Allah, we haven't

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understood his power. It's like a guy who goes to work, right? Who

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he needs. The employment is not like he's doesn't need the job.

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And somebody is forcing him just to take the job. Or he's like,

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some special consultant, right that people have to hire. And he

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does, as they call data giddy, right? Like he acts, you know,

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like, he's a big consultant. And everybody wants him. So he's like,

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Okay, you want me 100,000? Right? And then he goes in, has is about

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him. No, you need the job, man. Right? You can't get it. You go

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there and then you don't like something like you start keep

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complaining.

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Right. Now, one is that maybe you got the right and you got the law

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on your side, and you're living in England, so you can sue anybody.

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So then maybe that's the case. I mean, I'm not sure that these laws

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are good, but sometimes I think they're abused, right? In other

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countries where there are no laws, you just have to like keep your

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mouth shut and carry on.

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Allah What a nightmare we have. What a nightmare we have.

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So

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can you imagine that's our case with Allah, we need everything

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from him and then something doesn't happen, right? And we

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start complaining, whereas we need this job, man. We need this.

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From Allah subhanaw taala.

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We need him to be on our side. So we need to be on his side. That's

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why he said for the person to enter into whatever satisfies

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Allah subhanaw taala bitness li Milaca mill as Alia

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by Safale submitting to the eternal commands

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eternal

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commands, meaning whatever Allah has decreed to realize that only

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that is going to happen.

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Which means we try, because we don't know what's going to happen

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in the future. But then if it doesn't work out the way that I

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wanted it, then I'm not going to cry about it. So if I didn't marry

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the one I was supposed to marry, I did Hamdulillah. But I'm just

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saying, if somebody doesn't marry, who they think they should, and

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they lose them, they shouldn't be crying about that.

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If you don't get the job that you really wanted, but then you got

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another job, Inshallah, maybe you will find out in five years that

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that was the better deal.

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But right now we're angry about it. So you say no RIDOT will

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cover. And once you can do this, then you know, it just makes

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matters so much easier, because you have something to fall back

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on. You might get flustered a bit in the beginning. But then you

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start thinking, Well, you know, what, Allah, if you, you know,

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people get depressed because of this.

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People are depressed because of this, because they have nothing to

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fall back on. And they see this as the biggest loss because this is

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everything for them. This is not everything.

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There's people who had to leave a certain country, like Indian

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Pakistanis, we're living in one of the countries of Africa. Right.

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And you know, there's several countries in Africa where regime

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changed overnight. And then literally, people have to just

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escape with whatever they could carry. And they had a lot of money

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there. It's been 3040 years and they still crying over it.

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Now had they not cried and they just worked hard, they allow could

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have given them something back because Allah is always with those

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whose hearts are broken.

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But if you're going to keep crying over the past, it's just the life

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everything dies in this world. That's why we read in LA, he were

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in LA, he Raja is one of our car, that way for Allah to him, we're

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going to return because everything perishes, there's nothing in this

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world. That's why you have to, that's why they sell you new

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phones every two years because your phone

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has to be updated. Because it gets you know, if nothing else, at

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least the battery starts diminishing faster. Right? That's

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the world were the same.

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And the quicker we can understand that the more satisfied with life

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we will be which is amazing, isn't it? The better we can deal with

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our losses, the more satisfied we'll be with life. And if you're

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more satisfied, you will get more out of it.

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The more focused on losses we are

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the more they pull us back.

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We I mean, those people who lost all those things is bad. But just

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imagine if they didn't have it in the first place.

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can just think like that, okay. It says if I didn't have it in the

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beginning, that's a good policy.

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Of course we learn lessons but we don't cry.

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What if we do let that be rattle Vidya and then for a person to

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consign the matter to Allah subhanho wa Taala for all other

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future planning, you plan but then you can sign the matter to Allah,

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you have to plan don't get me wrong, you can't just sit back and

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expect it all to happen.

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You have to plan you have to make an effort you have to work hard as

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part of your plan. You can ask others for help, you can consult

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with others you can do whatever you have to do as you would do in

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this world. But always be remembering that behind is Allah

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and Allah has a plan as well.

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Below a rod in wala at Robin, wonderful expression. without

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ignoring Allah and without complaining and objecting to Allah

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we need to be in between the two. Neither are we ignoring Allah that

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you know we don't even consider him we just doing whatever we

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think we can do in our with our independence. And neither are we

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thinking Allah is part of it. But in the wrong way. You see some

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people who do think about Allah when they do things.

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The problem is that because they haven't recognized Allah properly

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they start objecting to Allah.

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Which is worse the one who thinks Allah is there but who objects to

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him or the one who just ignores him completely.

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Is that even a question? Right? It's just they're both bad. So

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there's no point like, let's let's not be any of them. So Bella,

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arrived in Wallah at Robin, without ignoring Allah and being

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heedless of him completely, and also not objecting to him. Why la

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he assured me holy haemophilia and Allah Coppola who couldn't Are you

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her tolerably Redondo Hula, hula, hula Allah Musa lemon, the Colima

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kadaga Who are Kedah Oh Mr. Ravi min Akademie dunya oh Na Anhu

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so be Oh seeker of the satisfaction of his Lord, be to be

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for Allah in submission or be in submission to Allah in everything

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that he is predestined and decreed for you or that which He has

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commanded for you to do of the

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laws of the dean.

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Oh, that was such a wonderful deal I could have got but it was Jumar

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time.

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There was a really, I lost the bid on eBay.

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Right? Because it was it was finishing Jumar time. So I put my

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highest bidding. But somebody outbid me. But had I been there I

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could have maybe, you know

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Subhanallah, you missed it because of Joel,

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did you miss?

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Should you have Miss Juma instead and got the deal?

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That's where you have to be that, okay? Because I think I'm sure

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I've lost things because I've had to teach or, you know, I've had to

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go for Salah to you've lost things. But

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I'm not saying that you go late to the airport, and then you have to

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pray for your prayers and missed the flight. That's just stupidity.

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Because that's bad planning. But the other one is where it would

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just happen to be solid and you couldn't get it.

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But you know, the salaat of JC gives us much more. And

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you're not even comparing rewards here. What we're saying is that

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because of me praying, Salat, I missed that deal. Right? Or

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because somebody was out in the feasibility law in the bliss or he

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was in hij. There was some a house that he was looking for, and he

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lost and somebody else to get. Or man had you been here it was such

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a wonderful house, but it was just snapped up. I was in hudge? Did

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you really lose that? Were you really going to get that is the

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question.

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You are in Hodgman, you are getting so much more out there.

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And Allah will give you something better. This wasn't for you. Yes,

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it was a good deal. And it was exactly your friends told you,

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your brother told you somebody told you that it was exactly what

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you're looking for.

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Now that you feel gutted, don't you when you when when when you

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see a deal, that's gone. In fact, I don't know if you've noticed

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that if you're the careful type, not the guy who are not the person

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who's an early adopter, just something comes out, you start

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buying it straight away. You're a person who lets it. So for

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example, if you're buying a house, you don't just buy the first house

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you see, or the car you don't. But generally, when you don't know the

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prices of things, sometimes the first thing you see is the best

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deal. But you're cautious so you don't buy it. And then you can

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never find the same thing again. Have you ever experienced that

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before? Right? I remember I was looking for a particular car. I

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think it's mine. You sent me that. But it was a bit far it was in

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another city. It was a very good deal. But I was like, I'm not sure

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is it really worth going there because I didn't really see other

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prices just started looking. And I lost it. Then I had to wait for

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about six months to find another good deal. But that was the way it

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was supposed to be. How much how much am I going to cry about that?

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Oh, man, that was such a good question. I've got them

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every day that you should have gotten that I should have got

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that? How much you're gonna beat yourself up for that kind of a

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thing.

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But you see, we

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won Is that okay? Forget about crying over the other one is, it

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wasn't to be because Allah didn't want me to have it. That's a

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higher level to think that. That's how Allah can make us much more

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satisfied. If we remember him at those moments.

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So then he says yes, so that you'll be some in submission to

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Him for everything that he has pre ordained and decreed, and

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everything that He has commanded of the ACO dunya or anything that

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he is prohibited from. Right, that was a really good deal.

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Everybody's made so much money. But you know, I'm with the so and

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so said It's haram.

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Like these movies, man, what's wrong with them? Some says halal,

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some says haram. What's wrong with them? Can they agree on something,

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man, Muslims are gonna get left behind?

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Look, all of these others, they are doing this deal and they're

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making big bucks out of this. The Muslims are gonna get left behind,

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we need to do this.

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You see what I'm saying?

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These are the parts where the decree comes in.

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And seriously, you do feel that loss sometimes when you see some

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other people, right, whether that be people outside your family,

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outside your religion outside your community. People as I said,

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they've made more money than us, or they have more property than

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us. Oh, this guy owns all of these. Right? Everything you can

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see owns it. And we don't own anything.

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Or we do own but we don't own as much as them we do own we don't

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own as much as them. It just makes you feel bad, doesn't it? But then

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we don't think what else do I have that they don't have? And I've got

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Allah especially when it's you know, somebody who believes in

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somebody who doesn't believe then there's no comparison there.

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Does doesn't mean we have to be stupid about it, or lazy. But at

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the end of the day, it is because something was haram and that's why

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we didn't get it. There's a lot of people who made a lot of money

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because

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they did haram business.

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them money, their original seed capital, or their original

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investments all along.

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And today they're sitting on that they may have made Toba now, but

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should I feel bad because of that?

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If my dad didn't do that, and somebody else did that, should I

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feel bad? Why didn't my dad also buy 10 houses a mortgage?

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Because my dad never did that. So should I feel bad about the

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shaytaan? Make me feel bad about it. Today, I wouldn't have had to

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work hard to get a house because my dad would have already had a

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house for me. I don't know how to worry about buying it.

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You see it? Can you see the feeling? I mean, these are ways

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that shaytan attacks us. And Allah wants us to be content in this

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world. And the only way to be content is with Allah.

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Right? So yes, my dad, may Allah bless him that he protected him,

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right, from doing all of that weird stuff. And he focused on us

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having the dean, right, that was good. I'm not Alhamdulillah in

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that sense, I don't feel bad at all. I meet some very wealthy

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people, very influential people. And I've done a different thing. I

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could have been there but I'm very satisfied as where I am. Because I

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just I just pray to Allah that Allah Allah accept, and don't make

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let us mess up. That's that's the most important thing.

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So

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yes, if you've made mistakes in the past, and we need to just

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learn from those mistakes and not make the same but otherwise, we

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have so much to thank Allah for that. It's just

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Okay, so then he says, so never feel bad if you've lost something

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because there was some haram element in it. Never, never.

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That's just that shouldn't even apply, because it wasn't something

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you should be doing in the first place. Right? Yes, they may have

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more money may have more influence. But that's not the way

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to do it is not through haram. B and tadoba, the common lady

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arrived in water at Rodin, that you are satisfied. You're

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satisfied with all of this without any kind of objection or without

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any kind of negligence or objection. Kay, Aly Ashley and

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Tesla mom in our 30 Dunya, Allah Hera. And the benefit, he's

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saying, He's saying he's saying the benefit of this is so that you

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remain safe and sound both from the calamities of this world and

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the calamities of the Hereafter telling me out of this, what would

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be the calamities of the worlds that you would be staying stay

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from if you always

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consign your matters to Allah?

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What are we avoiding there? What are we staying safe from?

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We're staying safe from greed. We're staying safe from a feeling

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of inferiority. We are staying safe from wasting time, haram

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business possibly haram aspects, maybe missing things that are

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obligations that were supposed to do. But I think right at the

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bottom of it, we are satisfied with ourself with because of

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Allah.

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We don't feel depressed. I don't mean the clinical depression,

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that's a different issue. Right? I mean,

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you feel this anguish that doesn't leave you right.

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And then of course in the Hereafter, then there's mashallah

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lots of places, lots of bounties and lots of calamities to avoid in

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of the Hereafter that's quite clear anyway. So we ask Allah

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subhana wa Taala for for the blessing.

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Number Number six, sorry, number five now is now that we understand

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all of this and we understand the importance of this, he is saying

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that the fifth principle he actually puts us as a principle of

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the path and if you want to leave Allah, if you're if you want to

00:33:30 --> 00:33:34

reach Allah subhanaw taala and leave the dunya then he says etbr

00:33:34 --> 00:33:40

will murshid El Carmen. So I'll Hamas at Barrow shaken I riffin

00:33:40 --> 00:33:46

called Celica consolekit tariqa Lillahi wa ala Yadi shavian

00:33:47 --> 00:33:51

Karateka Isla Yun de la sala he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

00:33:53 --> 00:33:57

He says basically, you're gonna have to find somebody who

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recognizes this path, who's known who's

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who's gained knowledge and awareness of Allah subhanaw taala.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

Who has

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who has trodden the path of the people of Allah, himself also

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

under the tutelage of somebody else.

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And likewise him to someone else, him to someone else, until they

00:34:25 --> 00:34:29

get to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam. So we were speaking

00:34:29 --> 00:34:34

about a bless it chain. We're not speaking about the new kid on the

00:34:34 --> 00:34:40

block. Somebody who comes randomly studies here and there starts to

00:34:40 --> 00:34:44

criticize everybody, all of the organized and

00:34:46 --> 00:34:50

the traditionally established massage in an organization's

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

right.

00:34:52 --> 00:34:55

Okay, they've got weakness with them, right? Everybody has

00:34:55 --> 00:34:59

weakness. So these are the established ways of doing things

00:34:59 --> 00:34:59

that are established.

00:35:00 --> 00:35:03

Madonna is the established massage. That is, they've got

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

weaknesses, everybody has weaknesses. You haven't proven

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

anything yet this new kid on the block hasn't proven anything yet.

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

He hasn't shown anything yet. But he does know how to criticize, and

00:35:13 --> 00:35:18

he knows how to write. So he criticizes. For what?

00:35:19 --> 00:35:24

Why don't you first develop a stream, or a series of

00:35:24 --> 00:35:28

alternatives, and then criticize, then maybe we can see what's

00:35:28 --> 00:35:32

better, you're speaking with no experience. It's easy to

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criticize. And then, because they're quite savvy in the way

00:35:37 --> 00:35:40

they discuss things. And, you know, I think this is a

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

temperament thing.

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Some people are just naturally inclined towards radical

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

individuals, because they themselves just want to be

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

different.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

Initially, they were different, because they want to be different

00:35:55 --> 00:35:59

from their community. So that's why they may have gone into the

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

wrong things. Now, they may Towba. From that shaytaan is just giving

00:36:02 --> 00:36:06

them another fish to hook in the wrong way.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:10

Allah protect us from this. Because if you've got a radical

00:36:10 --> 00:36:14

bent, it could be very positive in the sense that you will actually

00:36:14 --> 00:36:18

see things that others don't, if Allah guide you, you will be able

00:36:18 --> 00:36:22

to fill in gaps that needed need to be fulfilled. But If Allah

00:36:22 --> 00:36:25

doesn't guide and you're not looking for guidance, you're just

00:36:25 --> 00:36:28

looking for fame and gain, then you will be radical, you will

00:36:28 --> 00:36:31

start something new, or you will take the newest idea on the block,

00:36:31 --> 00:36:32

and you will get messed up.

00:36:33 --> 00:36:37

Just remember, that's what it is, some of us are just prone to that

00:36:37 --> 00:36:42

I take the weird things, because maybe we had some bad experience

00:36:42 --> 00:36:46

with the status quo. Because of one individual, we're just going

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

to discount the whole thing.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:52

Which is quite normal. That's why I understand this, this is very

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

important to understand.

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And I'm saying this after years and years of observing this stuff,

00:36:58 --> 00:37:01

and maybe being part of some of this myself and being burnt, you

00:37:01 --> 00:37:05

know, and hamdulillah Allah, I pray Allah is protected. Right,

00:37:05 --> 00:37:09

and Allah protect us. But that's why you have to be very careful

00:37:09 --> 00:37:14

about just new people who claim things. Right? Because where did

00:37:14 --> 00:37:17

they get it from? You think if somebody comes to me and tells me

00:37:17 --> 00:37:20

that for 1000 years, and there was a claim like that, nothing about

00:37:20 --> 00:37:24

1200 years, some of the main terms of Islam, some of the main

00:37:24 --> 00:37:29

religious terms of Islam, were misunderstood by about 12 years of

00:37:29 --> 00:37:33

Islamic scholarship and common people. And now I'm going to tell

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

you what they really are, the way they were in the time of

00:37:35 --> 00:37:38

Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and 1200 is they've been lost. So I'm

00:37:38 --> 00:37:41

the next Prophet on the block. You might as well say you're the next

00:37:41 --> 00:37:44

Prophet, right? If you're going to claim something like that, for

00:37:44 --> 00:37:45

1200 years, 1100 years.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:51

Nobody knew these most important terms of Islam that our deen is

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

based on, somebody actually made that claim.

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

Can you believe it?

00:37:57 --> 00:38:00

Right, just sounds upset. But for some people, wow, man, this guy

00:38:00 --> 00:38:03

knows his stuff is the next best thing out there.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:10

There's a lot of reasons why people get

00:38:11 --> 00:38:15

attached to people a lot of different reasons. If it's not for

00:38:15 --> 00:38:19

the right reason. And if the right things are not underlying it, it's

00:38:19 --> 00:38:23

a massive, massive form of deception. Because Shakedowns

00:38:23 --> 00:38:24

always there to mislead.

00:38:25 --> 00:38:29

And I think everybody's trying to be the interpreter for

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

for the self nowadays, aren't they?

00:38:35 --> 00:38:37

I give you the best interpretation, or the best

00:38:37 --> 00:38:41

representation of what the Sahaba did, or what the earliest

00:38:41 --> 00:38:44

generation did. That's where the fight is. That's where all

00:38:44 --> 00:38:47

argument is, like, everybody's claiming that they've got the best

00:38:47 --> 00:38:51

representation of that. The way I look at it is for me, it's quite

00:38:51 --> 00:38:55

simple. Right? It's quite simple. I know. It's confusing, but it's

00:38:55 --> 00:39:00

really quite simple. Why is it quite simple? Just look at right?

00:39:00 --> 00:39:03

Just look at chains of transmission.

00:39:05 --> 00:39:08

Just look at traditions that have gone up. Yes, there will be

00:39:08 --> 00:39:12

weaknesses in many of these. I'm not saying that the perfect thing?

00:39:12 --> 00:39:15

No, right. Because we have weakness, the further we go away

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

from a sort of awesome, we're going to be more weaker, right?

00:39:17 --> 00:39:21

We're gonna have weaknesses. But that doesn't mean that you need to

00:39:21 --> 00:39:25

totally do away with this system. Take the best from it. And even

00:39:25 --> 00:39:28

among them, there will be some that will be better than others,

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

you just have to find the better ones. That's all. Just because

00:39:31 --> 00:39:34

you've had a bad experience with a weak link doesn't mean it's all

00:39:34 --> 00:39:34

bad.

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

Doesn't mean you have to do something else.

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

I don't want to take names and things like that because I wanted

00:39:41 --> 00:39:44

this to be generic so that we can understand that I want to limit it

00:39:44 --> 00:39:48

to something but I hope you can interpret this in your whatever

00:39:48 --> 00:39:52

challenges everybody's having, or have had, that you can interpret

00:39:52 --> 00:39:57

this for yourself, just so that we are clear in what we do and we

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

don't get misled in life. You have to be very careful.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

You have to be very careful because it's one life that we have

00:40:03 --> 00:40:07

right in this world, and it governs the next life. So that's

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

what he says, he says,

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to follow a sheikh, who is the knower of Allah, who has followed

00:40:17 --> 00:40:22

the path of who has a West traverse the path of the Lula at

00:40:22 --> 00:40:26

the hands of another shake similar to him, right or similar in a

00:40:26 --> 00:40:30

similar characteristic who has done so likewise, on another Shake

00:40:30 --> 00:40:33

until they went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so

00:40:33 --> 00:40:37

woman Lumiose have shaken your doula who Allah 30 ki il Allah,

00:40:37 --> 00:40:42

whoever does not follow a che who can help indicate to him the path

00:40:42 --> 00:40:46

towards Allah was the cannula Bhima in the human, a bird that in

00:40:46 --> 00:40:54

our element, and he remains in he thinks is independent, because of

00:40:54 --> 00:40:58

the worship that he has and the knowledge that he has, then forgot

00:40:58 --> 00:41:03

the orderly era is shaytani Allah who he has then put himself

00:41:03 --> 00:41:06

forward for shaytaan to deceive him.

00:41:08 --> 00:41:11

When he has Akela Mandla che kala HuFa shaytaan. Who che who who

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

is very controversial statement this is that's why it has been

00:41:15 --> 00:41:19

said that who has the one who has no shake, then shaytan is a shake.

00:41:20 --> 00:41:23

Now remember, this is not an absolute statement, there are

00:41:23 --> 00:41:28

people who didn't have a formal shake, but they shaytaan was not

00:41:28 --> 00:41:32

their shake. But I need to put this in perspective because

00:41:32 --> 00:41:35

there's no aside from the Quran. Even though even the Quran sunnah,

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

you can interpret their interpretation, they're not always

00:41:37 --> 00:41:41

absolute statements. So how can this statement be absolute? Right,

00:41:41 --> 00:41:45

that you can just apply it indiscriminately. What this means

00:41:46 --> 00:41:50

is that generally speaking, I keep mentioning this for the majority

00:41:50 --> 00:41:50

of people.

00:41:52 --> 00:41:57

If they don't have supervision, or somebody to look up to, and to

00:41:57 --> 00:42:01

bounce ideas off and make matura with and maybe even tell them off,

00:42:01 --> 00:42:06

you know, to ask for reproach when it's necessary, then it's much

00:42:06 --> 00:42:10

easier for such a person to miss understand something and do

00:42:10 --> 00:42:13

something that will end up being haram or wrong or degenerated.

00:42:15 --> 00:42:18

I'll tell you this, from my own experience, if I didn't have a

00:42:18 --> 00:42:23

tradition that I was in a living tradition, and living elders, that

00:42:23 --> 00:42:27

my teachers that I can bounce ideas off and go back to and get

00:42:27 --> 00:42:31

advice from, then I have been in various different positions and

00:42:32 --> 00:42:36

circumstances, you know, having been lived in different countries,

00:42:36 --> 00:42:39

having been many mom in different countries and the pressures that

00:42:39 --> 00:42:42

people want, you know what you to change and do this time than the

00:42:42 --> 00:42:42

other.

00:42:44 --> 00:42:49

It was so easy just to bow to pressure. It is just so easy to

00:42:49 --> 00:42:52

bow to pressure, because that's what 10 People are telling you,

00:42:53 --> 00:42:57

right? So let me just change it, let me just do it this way. But

00:42:57 --> 00:43:00

there's a clear haram that's taking place, or at least a

00:43:00 --> 00:43:03

massive doubtful act. But you know, 10 people are telling me

00:43:05 --> 00:43:09

it's so easy to bend, bow to that pressure and say, Okay, forget all

00:43:09 --> 00:43:09

of that.

00:43:10 --> 00:43:14

Now, that doesn't mean that everybody that I have studied with

00:43:15 --> 00:43:18

may agree with everything that I say, because I'm, you know, so

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

many teachers are in other countries, and there's a different

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

reality.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:26

But for the most part, they would agree in principle, inshallah.

00:43:26 --> 00:43:30

Well, I hope so. Because I wouldn't like to be independent of

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

them, because I would feel like a lost sheep.

00:43:34 --> 00:43:37

Seriously, because it's dangerous out there.

00:43:38 --> 00:43:41

You see things and the pressure on you and then the shaytaan and

00:43:41 --> 00:43:44

everything and you can't trust yourself. Nobody's guaranteed

00:43:44 --> 00:43:44

until they die.

00:43:46 --> 00:43:49

And then you know, what scares you is that you see so called Big

00:43:49 --> 00:43:54

influential names and people who do fall. So anything I'm never I'm

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

not even anything like them, I could fall.

00:43:58 --> 00:44:03

Right? If big people can fall, big names can fall and they can make

00:44:03 --> 00:44:08

big mistakes. And a whole world or or part of the world finds out why

00:44:08 --> 00:44:11

can I fall? They're human beings. I'm human being as well. What's so

00:44:11 --> 00:44:13

special about me that I can't follow?

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17

Right? I'm not mad assume I'm not a prophet. Only prophets are not

00:44:17 --> 00:44:20

soon especially predicted. I don't have that.

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

Can you see the benefit of being under supervision?

00:44:26 --> 00:44:30

It's just a logical conclusion. There's no doubt about it. But

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

that doesn't mean that anybody who doesn't have a shape, I'm gonna

00:44:32 --> 00:44:36

call him a shape. And I'm not going to do that. Because I have

00:44:36 --> 00:44:37

some I have seen some people who

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

when I say, you know, this is probably talking about somebody

00:44:42 --> 00:44:45

who just does everything himself and just doesn't bother with any

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

any tradition or anything he wants to think for himself. Because at

00:44:48 --> 00:44:50

the end of the day, the world is quite a generic place and ideas

00:44:50 --> 00:44:55

are quite generic and there is a accepted substratum of beliefs

00:44:55 --> 00:44:59

that have come down, right clearly, there is an accepted

00:44:59 --> 00:45:00

substratum of

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

have beliefs and ideas and ideologies, which have been passed

00:45:03 --> 00:45:07

on for centuries, who are you that you can come and produce some

00:45:07 --> 00:45:10

absolutely fresh ideas for humanity that they've never heard

00:45:10 --> 00:45:10

before.

00:45:11 --> 00:45:16

Nobody can do that. You can make a new technology you can, you can

00:45:16 --> 00:45:19

invent something new. That's different, though. But human

00:45:19 --> 00:45:22

ideology, philosophy, I don't think there's anything new

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23

generically.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:31

You can refine something, but you can't make up something new. So

00:45:31 --> 00:45:36

that's why it's best to be in a tradition that has proven itself.

00:45:37 --> 00:45:41

Find the tradition that has proven that has a track record.

00:45:42 --> 00:45:46

Right, of producing good people, and being infinite. That's what we

00:45:46 --> 00:45:47

need to do.

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

New traditions that have just come out.

00:45:52 --> 00:45:56

They could be good. But we're not going to know until about 100

00:45:56 --> 00:45:59

years. They may look good right now. But when you read history,

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

there have been many traditions that have come and gone many,

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

many. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala for guidance, because I

00:46:06 --> 00:46:10

think ultimately we have to ask Allah for guidance. Oh Allah, show

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

me the truth is the truth and allow me to follow it and show me

00:46:12 --> 00:46:15

the wrong is wrong and allow me to abstain from it. So we ask Allah

00:46:15 --> 00:46:20

for Tofik because this world is a challenge. This world can be a

00:46:20 --> 00:46:24

very, very, very difficult and a dirty world. And of course, the

00:46:24 --> 00:46:28

more you want to be an achiever, the more difficult it gets. Right?

00:46:29 --> 00:46:31

But we all have to stand in front of Allah subhanaw taala one day so

00:46:31 --> 00:46:35

we ask Allah for Tofik and guidance and we ask Allah to

00:46:35 --> 00:46:39

protect us from criticizing the wrong things and just basically

00:46:39 --> 00:46:43

running with the wrong ideas. While he did that run and

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46

hamdulillah her beloved Amin allotment this morning because

00:46:46 --> 00:46:49

along the journey when it Quran

00:46:51 --> 00:46:55

Allahumma salli wa salam either so you know, Hamid Vida and you say

00:46:55 --> 00:46:57

you didn't know Mohammed? Well during the course

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

of Allah, we ask for your mercy. While Allah we ask for your

00:47:01 --> 00:47:06

forgiveness of Allah, we ask for your guidance of Allah show us the

00:47:06 --> 00:47:10

truth and allow us to follow it. Oh Allah show us the wrong is

00:47:10 --> 00:47:14

wrong and allow us to abstain from it. Oh Allah strengthen us. Oh

00:47:14 --> 00:47:20

Allah strengthen our hearts. Oh Allah grant us love for you. Oh

00:47:20 --> 00:47:23

Allah fill our hearts with your love of Allah grant us your love

00:47:23 --> 00:47:28

and the love of those things which are which you are satisfied with?

00:47:28 --> 00:47:33

Oh Allah, we ask that you give us good company. Oh Allah that You

00:47:33 --> 00:47:38

give us 100 only. Allah forgive us all of our sins of Allah forgive

00:47:38 --> 00:47:42

us all of our wrongdoings of Allah forgive us all of our defects own

00:47:42 --> 00:47:47

our shortcomings. Allah forgive us all of those wrongs that we have

00:47:47 --> 00:47:51

done, whether we remember them or we forgotten them, or Allah, those

00:47:51 --> 00:47:55

that we continue to do or Allah allow us to stop from doing them.

00:47:57 --> 00:48:00

Oh Allah and specially allow us to see the wrongs that we're doing

00:48:00 --> 00:48:04

even if we don't think they're on of Allah, they may be some wrongs

00:48:04 --> 00:48:07

that we're doing which which we don't realize that they're wrong

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

because we become so accustomed to them for Allah what a crime This

00:48:11 --> 00:48:15

is in your site. And oh Allah shaytaan has misled us and made it

00:48:15 --> 00:48:19

part and parcel and we've made it part and parcel of our life of

00:48:19 --> 00:48:22

Allah allow us to weed these things out of Allah before it's

00:48:22 --> 00:48:27

too late. Allow us to change and allow us to submit and allow us to

00:48:27 --> 00:48:31

prepare for our death. Allow us to be not of those who

00:48:32 --> 00:48:35

those who risk everything and who live on the edge of Allah with

00:48:35 --> 00:48:39

terms of our deen make us completely comfortable of Allah

00:48:39 --> 00:48:43

make us completely comfortable and confident with regards our grant

00:48:43 --> 00:48:48

as you're keen on Allah grant us conviction in our hearts so that

00:48:48 --> 00:48:52

we're proud of our faith of Allah do not let us become doubtful and

00:48:52 --> 00:48:58

depressed over small small issues or any issues. Oh Allah, you're

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

always there but Oh ALLAH for us. Sometimes we don't think of you

00:49:01 --> 00:49:05

were negligent. Oh Allah do not allow us to be negligent Forgive

00:49:05 --> 00:49:10

us our negligence. And for forgive us for any objections that we may

00:49:10 --> 00:49:13

have shown. Oh Allah we are in need of you we have nobody but

00:49:13 --> 00:49:18

you. Oh Allah we are in need of you. We have nobody but you how

00:49:18 --> 00:49:22

can we object to you yet due to our weaknesses and our

00:49:24 --> 00:49:27

ignorance sometimes we may say things or do things or express

00:49:27 --> 00:49:33

things which which are totally inappropriate. Oh Allah forgive us

00:49:33 --> 00:49:38

for this. Oh Allah if you forgive us, then we benefit from this. Oh

00:49:38 --> 00:49:42

Allah make it easy for us to be obedient to you. Oh Allah make

00:49:42 --> 00:49:46

your love make your obedience beloved in our heart and our Allah

00:49:46 --> 00:49:50

make your disobedience hated in our hearts. Oh Allah grant us

00:49:50 --> 00:49:54

baraka and blessing in what you have given us. And our Allah allow

00:49:54 --> 00:49:58

us to always find good company in this world. Oh Allah allow us to

00:49:58 --> 00:49:59

reach you

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

Allow us to allow us to reach you or Allah grant us your love of

00:50:03 --> 00:50:06

Allah grant us your love and the love of those whose love benefits

00:50:06 --> 00:50:11

us in your court. And Allah make the latest later part of our life

00:50:11 --> 00:50:14

better than the previous parts of our life. And oh Allah make the

00:50:14 --> 00:50:18

best of moments the moment that we stand in front of you. And Allah

00:50:18 --> 00:50:22

grant has generated a fair dose of Allah protect us and our assets,

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

and Our Allah, our children, our progeny, and all the muslimeen

00:50:25 --> 00:50:28

around the world and bring back humanity back into the human being

00:50:29 --> 00:50:33

of Allah O Allah, we ask that you grant your abundant blessings on

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that you

00:50:36 --> 00:50:40

grant us his company in the hereafter. So Hannah robic

00:50:40 --> 00:50:43

Robinair is at your mercy for when I was when I did more Serena

00:50:43 --> 00:50:44

Williams.

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