Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – What are the Devils Footsteps

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
AI: Summary ©
The transcript discusses the concept of shay unless they develop an immune system to fight infection. Shaytan is a major Muslim system that causes people to be vulnerable to infection, and shay spirit is a major Muslim system that causes people to be vulnerable to infection. The importance of following certain steps in a business process, including shay Tedwells and not leaving too many spots, is emphasized. The transcript also discusses the importance of following shaytradels and avoiding mistakes, and emphasizes the need to avoid "unsure" and avoid "unsure" in shay comfort.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:00 --> 00:00:01

Bismillah R Rahman Rahim

00:00:03 --> 00:00:07

Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Hamden Cathedral on the Yibin mobile

00:00:07 --> 00:00:10

rockin fie mobile rockin are they gonna you hate Bora buena where

00:00:10 --> 00:00:16

the jelajah Juan Manuel wa salatu salam O Allah say lil Habib Al

00:00:16 --> 00:00:21

Mustafa SallAllahu Taala are they who are the the he was softly he

00:00:21 --> 00:00:24

or Baraka was seldom at the Sleeman Kathira on Ilario MIDI in

00:00:24 --> 00:00:30

America, the brothers and the sisters dear friends

00:00:31 --> 00:00:36

Ramadan is the month of the Quran and when we read in the Quran is

00:00:36 --> 00:00:40

when we read the Quran, there's one mention of someone in the

00:00:40 --> 00:00:42

Quran that we see often over and over again

00:00:44 --> 00:00:47

that discussion comes over and over again there's a specific

00:00:47 --> 00:00:51

individual that's mentioned is generally mentioned as an enemy.

00:00:51 --> 00:00:54

So these are a few of the verses that relate to that

00:00:55 --> 00:01:00

are all there order him in a shape or new Ragini Bismillah hir rahman

00:01:00 --> 00:01:01

al Rahim

00:01:03 --> 00:01:11

what a beer or how to dish you born in hula kumara do room Moby

00:01:12 --> 00:01:18

next verse. Yeah, you Hello Dina. Um I know the Hulu is still mica

00:01:20 --> 00:01:27

what are the who who do the shaytaan in hula kumara Doom Moby

00:01:27 --> 00:01:33

in their historical and Ireland Allah says gloomy Arasaka common

00:01:33 --> 00:01:40

law who would that be true to the shape on in Hola, kumara Doom

00:01:40 --> 00:01:46

Moby. Then again in Surah Noor Allah says, Yeah, you have levena

00:01:46 --> 00:01:54

and all that who who to show you *. Or many? How to the shape on

00:01:54 --> 00:01:57

if in Huya mobile fracture

00:01:58 --> 00:01:59

you will move.

00:02:01 --> 00:02:04

So the koala hula him there are numerous other verses that talk

00:02:04 --> 00:02:08

about the shaytaan. And Allah is essentially telling us about the

00:02:08 --> 00:02:12

shaytaan. So in one verse, Allah says in the shaytaan, a locum I do

00:02:13 --> 00:02:14

Fatah who, who I do

00:02:15 --> 00:02:17

shaytaan is your enemy.

00:02:18 --> 00:02:23

shaytaan is your enemy. So take him as your enemy. Like make sure

00:02:23 --> 00:02:28

you take him as your enemy. So Allah is making, he's not hiding

00:02:28 --> 00:02:31

anything from us. He's saying shaytan is your enemy, he is going

00:02:31 --> 00:02:35

to seem like a friend, he is going to be an enemy that you're going

00:02:35 --> 00:02:39

to have to have a relationship with a jeep. Not you don't have

00:02:39 --> 00:02:46

to. But it's like people don't like the BBC, and other news media

00:02:46 --> 00:02:49

outlets, but then you still go back to them to get the news.

00:02:50 --> 00:02:53

Because it's the most convenient channel or it's the most

00:02:53 --> 00:02:57

convenient app or whatever the case is, in fact, many news

00:02:57 --> 00:03:00

channels, you don't trust them really, but you still kind of use

00:03:00 --> 00:03:06

them. This weird relationship shaytaan it's just that it's very

00:03:06 --> 00:03:09

difficult to escape from Shaytaan all the time, unless you're

00:03:09 --> 00:03:12

constantly in the remembrance of Allah, Allah has given us a way to

00:03:12 --> 00:03:16

do that. What I want to discuss today is basically the way

00:03:16 --> 00:03:19

shaytaan works, the nature of the shaytaan

00:03:20 --> 00:03:25

and how he's connected to us, and the best form of defense, because

00:03:25 --> 00:03:29

at the end of the day, Allah subhanaw taala in Ramadan has

00:03:29 --> 00:03:32

taken away the shaytaan and locked him up. So he's out of the

00:03:32 --> 00:03:36

picture. We still sometimes actually feel like sinning in

00:03:36 --> 00:03:39

Ramadan if Shaytan was out of the picture, and his shaytaan that

00:03:39 --> 00:03:42

makes us commit sin. Why do we still feel like sinning in

00:03:42 --> 00:03:46

Ramadan? I guess the simple answer to that is, most of the time in

00:03:46 --> 00:03:49

Ramadan, it's not because of shaytaan that people feel like

00:03:49 --> 00:03:50

committing sin.

00:03:51 --> 00:03:54

Che turns out the picture. And the best way to tell this is that do

00:03:54 --> 00:03:59

you ever feel like doing a new sin in Ramadan? Or is it an addictive

00:03:59 --> 00:04:02

sin, a sin that we're already used to that we just feel like doing

00:04:02 --> 00:04:03

again?

00:04:04 --> 00:04:08

You'll have you'll see that it's hardly ever that you'd actually

00:04:08 --> 00:04:11

start feeling like you want to do a new sin. You're not interested

00:04:11 --> 00:04:13

in music, you don't listen to music much in your car and then

00:04:13 --> 00:04:16

suddenly or in your earphones or whatever and Ramadan comes you're

00:04:16 --> 00:04:20

like I want to listen to music. When I'm going to work, when I'm

00:04:20 --> 00:04:23

going to domestic I'm gonna put some music on. You won't think

00:04:23 --> 00:04:26

like that. If that's a new sin for you, right? If you've never

00:04:27 --> 00:04:30

flirted, well, you're not going to start thinking about doing that in

00:04:30 --> 00:04:33

Ramadan for sure. Right? Because even those who fled outside they

00:04:33 --> 00:04:36

probably don't want to do it in Ramadan. So generally when it's

00:04:36 --> 00:04:39

the new sin that generally comes from Shaytaan because he's the one

00:04:39 --> 00:04:43

who whispers and was was ill Hanna's Allah the US we Sophie. So

00:04:43 --> 00:04:48

do it in us. He's the was was was first means the one who whispers

00:04:48 --> 00:04:52

the one who gives promptings in your ear who gives you ideas?

00:04:53 --> 00:04:57

Harness means the one who retreats shaytaan that generally retreats

00:04:57 --> 00:04:59

when we do any remembrance of Allah say Allah

00:05:00 --> 00:05:03

hamdu lillah Allahu Akbar Subhan Allah stop fear Allah shaytaan.

00:05:03 --> 00:05:04

retreats.

00:05:06 --> 00:05:10

Right? But then as soon as we stop, he comes back. Allah says

00:05:10 --> 00:05:14

Allah the US we suffer used to do in us, the one who whispers into

00:05:14 --> 00:05:18

the chests of people. So do southern means chest.

00:05:19 --> 00:05:20

Good job, he didn't say Kulu.

00:05:22 --> 00:05:26

Kulu means hearts. Because if if shaytaan could do a direct whisper

00:05:26 --> 00:05:29

into the hearts, we'd have no choice. Because something that is

00:05:29 --> 00:05:33

beamed directly into your heart, you don't have a choice, to

00:05:33 --> 00:05:38

accept, or reject, or to follow or not to follow, you just have to

00:05:38 --> 00:05:42

because in your heart, our heart is what governs us. So it says

00:05:42 --> 00:05:46

that it he whispers into the chest area, it's up to the heart,

00:05:46 --> 00:05:50

whether we take it or not. So if we strengthen our heart, with the

00:05:50 --> 00:05:55

remembrance of Allah, then we'll be more immune. It's like those

00:05:55 --> 00:05:58

people who they say have a vaccine are more immune to getting more

00:05:58 --> 00:06:03

debilitating diseases. Allah knows best, but it seems like the case,

00:06:03 --> 00:06:08

right? Don't want to get into that controversy. But if you take

00:06:08 --> 00:06:11

certain foods and certain nutrition, certain nourishment,

00:06:11 --> 00:06:16

certain vitamins, you're supposed to have more immunity. Right? For

00:06:16 --> 00:06:17

example.

00:06:19 --> 00:06:25

Once I came, I was a bit sick bit of cold or something. And I'd come

00:06:25 --> 00:06:29

back from a trip abroad from I can't remember which country it

00:06:29 --> 00:06:33

was. And I'm noticing that I've got a jacket or a coat on and

00:06:33 --> 00:06:36

everybody else doesn't have a coat on. I was like, Is there something

00:06:36 --> 00:06:40

wrong with me? Why am I feeling cold? And they're not is because I

00:06:40 --> 00:06:45

had a lowered immune system at that time. So I was feeling colder

00:06:45 --> 00:06:50

and more vulnerable to catching maybe, you know, a cold or feeling

00:06:50 --> 00:06:54

cold, whereas others will find that they were normal. I was

00:06:54 --> 00:06:58

abnormal there. Right? So likewise, what happens is that

00:06:58 --> 00:07:02

shaytan is going to attack. But if we can develop an immunity, then

00:07:02 --> 00:07:08

we can basically protect ourselves because you probably get viruses

00:07:08 --> 00:07:12

in the air all the time. But if you have more immunity, then

00:07:12 --> 00:07:14

nothing happens if Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want it to happen,

00:07:14 --> 00:07:17

it's not going to happen as well. There's people in the COVID, who

00:07:17 --> 00:07:20

literally the husband had COVID, or the wife had COVID and they

00:07:20 --> 00:07:23

slept in the same bed and the other partner did not get COVID

00:07:23 --> 00:07:26

What, what a system of Allah subhanaw taala it's up to Allah,

00:07:26 --> 00:07:29

He does what he wishes. So now

00:07:31 --> 00:07:34

what we want to understand is that shaytan is your enemy, so take him

00:07:34 --> 00:07:38

as your enemy. We've generally been deceived, the Muslim ummah

00:07:38 --> 00:07:41

has generally been deceived in the past by people coming to them as

00:07:41 --> 00:07:46

though they're their friends, but yet they were enemies. Using that

00:07:46 --> 00:07:51

apparent friendship to divide people, and to play them against

00:07:51 --> 00:07:55

one another. That's how our major civilizations have been destroyed.

00:07:55 --> 00:08:00

Major Muslim governance has been debilitated and incapacitated and

00:08:00 --> 00:08:03

put on the backfoot it's happened throughout it's just, it's a

00:08:03 --> 00:08:08

normal human thing, strategy strategy that they use shaytaan

00:08:08 --> 00:08:10

but Allah is telling us he's clearly your enemy. But the

00:08:10 --> 00:08:12

problem is very, it's a bit difficult for a lot of people to

00:08:12 --> 00:08:13

resist the shaytaan.

00:08:15 --> 00:08:19

So let's just finish the talk about Ramadan. Why do people still

00:08:19 --> 00:08:23

feel like sinning? It's because of the knifes it's a habit. That's

00:08:23 --> 00:08:25

what we feel like doing that's why we don't feel like doing a new

00:08:25 --> 00:08:29

sin. Right so she turns out of the picture in Ramadan. Right now the

00:08:29 --> 00:08:30

next point here

00:08:31 --> 00:08:35

there's a hadith in Sahih Muslim, which says that

00:08:36 --> 00:08:39

Allah subhana wa Tada whenever he creates any human being, there is

00:08:39 --> 00:08:43

a shaytaan that is designated for them an individual shaitan

00:08:44 --> 00:08:49

right for every single human being is not one shaitan for the Han

00:08:49 --> 00:08:54

family, and another one for the Musar family, and one for the most

00:08:54 --> 00:08:59

of our family and the Patel family or one for Redbridge and one for

00:09:00 --> 00:09:04

the you know, Cranbrook area, or London or whatever. It's one

00:09:04 --> 00:09:07

purpose and there's enough Shayateen to go go around.

00:09:07 --> 00:09:10

Everyone has a shaytaan the province that allows them was

00:09:10 --> 00:09:12

asked even you he said yes, even me.

00:09:13 --> 00:09:16

But my one has been subdued. The province hasn't been given

00:09:16 --> 00:09:20

immunity. You may have heard about the splitting of the chest of the

00:09:20 --> 00:09:23

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam when he was young, right, and then

00:09:23 --> 00:09:26

it happened again, they say up to three times once before His

00:09:26 --> 00:09:30

ascension, not the one before his first revelation. But the famous

00:09:30 --> 00:09:33

one is when he was a small child, in one of those occasions when the

00:09:33 --> 00:09:37

angels came, took out his heart, did that surgery, took out his

00:09:37 --> 00:09:40

heart and took out a pot and he said this is how the shaytani

00:09:40 --> 00:09:42

mink, this is the

00:09:43 --> 00:09:47

I mean, I would probably say this is the shaytani chip. That's how

00:09:47 --> 00:09:50

shaytaan connects to the human being. There's a chip in us of

00:09:50 --> 00:09:54

some sort, some abstract chip, some really futuristic one, right?

00:09:54 --> 00:09:58

That's what the shaytaan connects with. That's out to the process

00:09:58 --> 00:09:59

and doesn't have that that's been removed.

00:10:00 --> 00:10:03

So the shaytaan the bond designator himself doesn't effect

00:10:03 --> 00:10:03

him.

00:10:05 --> 00:10:10

Now the thing shaytaan knows about you more than anybody else,

00:10:11 --> 00:10:14

meaning any other creature, any other creation. Shaytan knows

00:10:14 --> 00:10:18

about us, our shaytaan knows about us more than our parents.

00:10:19 --> 00:10:20

He's been with us since birth.

00:10:21 --> 00:10:26

He's been with us all the time. So he knows exactly what makes us do

00:10:26 --> 00:10:29

things. He knows that when I meet a certain person, this is what's

00:10:29 --> 00:10:34

going to happen fireworks. Right. You know, a certain daughter in

00:10:34 --> 00:10:36

law, when she meets the mother in law is going to be fireworks,

00:10:36 --> 00:10:42

Allah protect, right? When a person meets, so and so there's

00:10:42 --> 00:10:45

going to be haram that will take place, when a person gets online,

00:10:45 --> 00:10:48

this is what's going to happen. He knows that so he just has to

00:10:48 --> 00:10:52

whisper. It doesn't have to do much more. He has to whisper give

00:10:52 --> 00:10:56

you an idea, remind, remind of the pleasure of a previous encounter.

00:10:58 --> 00:10:59

And then you just carry on.

00:11:00 --> 00:11:04

That's what it is. He just has to remind let me give you an example.

00:11:06 --> 00:11:10

If you're a smoker, right, and Allah protect us and relieve us of

00:11:10 --> 00:11:12

this burden, but if you're a smoker, if you've ever been a

00:11:12 --> 00:11:15

smoker, the first guy that made you smoke.

00:11:16 --> 00:11:18

Do you even remember who that is anymore?

00:11:19 --> 00:11:22

The person that got you into smoking that friends so called

00:11:22 --> 00:11:25

friends like, Hey, do you want to try a cigarette? Has anybody ever

00:11:26 --> 00:11:29

at school told you you have you want to smoke?

00:11:30 --> 00:11:34

Right? Be very careful of those people. That person is long gone.

00:11:35 --> 00:11:39

But the habit stays and you're spending huge amounts of money.

00:11:40 --> 00:11:43

You're messing up your health, but that guy's long gone, he may have

00:11:43 --> 00:11:47

even given up smoking Subhan Allah, you know, may Allah make

00:11:47 --> 00:11:50

this Ramadan a means of quitting smoking for people, it's, it's a

00:11:50 --> 00:11:54

very debilitating disease. It's a very debilitating habit rather. So

00:11:54 --> 00:11:56

can you understand what I'm saying? shaytaan just has to

00:11:56 --> 00:12:00

prompt he knows what. So we have to be very careful about that we

00:12:00 --> 00:12:04

have the way you develop immunity against the shaytaan is by

00:12:04 --> 00:12:08

remembrance of Allah. When the heart becomes solidified, and

00:12:08 --> 00:12:10

strengthened with the Dhikr of Allah.

00:12:12 --> 00:12:17

Then it's less prone to those whispers, we can more easily throw

00:12:17 --> 00:12:22

him away, we can easily more easily repel him. Just to give you

00:12:22 --> 00:12:26

an example, a lot of people have said that they do Ramadan very

00:12:26 --> 00:12:30

well, because shaytans out of the picture. They abstain from certain

00:12:30 --> 00:12:33

sins that they've been committing, you know, whole of Ramadan went

00:12:33 --> 00:12:38

very well they did not do it. And then on the day of eighth in the

00:12:38 --> 00:12:39

evening, they messed up.

00:12:41 --> 00:12:46

And they feel so wrecked, so despondent. I did Ramadan, so well

00:12:47 --> 00:12:51

shaytans back out after Ramadan ends, and he tries to come with a

00:12:51 --> 00:12:52

vengeance.

00:12:53 --> 00:12:55

Right. I know, we're still at the beginning of Ramadan, but it's

00:12:55 --> 00:13:00

flying already. Right, five, six days or however many have passed

00:13:00 --> 00:13:03

or a passing. I may not speak to you again before Ramadan. But this

00:13:03 --> 00:13:08

is one thing to keep in mind. If you can survive for the next few

00:13:08 --> 00:13:12

weeks after Ramadan, then you will have a much better year. If you

00:13:12 --> 00:13:17

mess up the day after Ramadan eid day or the day after, then that's

00:13:17 --> 00:13:21

psychologically very debilitating. So be very careful on the day of

00:13:21 --> 00:13:26

Eid. It is not the day when God looks the other way. You know, in

00:13:26 --> 00:13:30

Stamford Hill where I was an Imam, there's one day of the year

00:13:30 --> 00:13:34

there's a big Jewish community. And they celebrate I think it's

00:13:34 --> 00:13:35

called Purim.

00:13:36 --> 00:13:40

And they go kind of crazy on that day they go on the back of trucks

00:13:40 --> 00:13:43

blare the Music start drinking you never see the very dignified

00:13:43 --> 00:13:45

genuine, they're walking around they're very well dressed and

00:13:45 --> 00:13:48

dignified and you know very solemn. But on this day they go

00:13:48 --> 00:13:50

crazy says that God looks the other way.

00:13:51 --> 00:13:54

So that's the kind of day they were delivered from somewhere

00:13:54 --> 00:13:57

there's a historical story so they think they can just go out we

00:13:57 --> 00:14:01

don't that's not eat for us either as a day of yomo Jaya is a day

00:14:01 --> 00:14:05

when we get reward for the Ramadan efforts. Right? That's really what

00:14:05 --> 00:14:09

it is. And Allah says, Eat and drink and enjoy the halal. Now,

00:14:10 --> 00:14:12

the verses that I quoted at the end just to get an understanding

00:14:12 --> 00:14:16

of how shaytaan works, and this is inshallah hopefully insightful so

00:14:16 --> 00:14:19

that we can be careful. I'll give you an example. There's a girl,

00:14:19 --> 00:14:23

right? She's 1112 years old, she has been to a Muslim school.

00:14:23 --> 00:14:27

Right? She has not interacted with boys outside of a family. It's

00:14:27 --> 00:14:31

from a very chaste, very religious, very productive home,

00:14:32 --> 00:14:36

you know, very religious home. Now, they can't find a secondary

00:14:36 --> 00:14:38

school that's not mixed. So she goes to a mix secondary school

00:14:38 --> 00:14:40

high school academy.

00:14:41 --> 00:14:45

And there's a guy there, and he says, Oh, you look really nice.

00:14:47 --> 00:14:50

You know, you're really beautiful. You're gonna have a lot of people

00:14:50 --> 00:14:55

saying that. Right? And you get a lot of guys saying these things

00:14:55 --> 00:14:59

unfortunately, haram obviously. Now, what do you think her

00:14:59 --> 00:15:00

reaction is?

00:15:00 --> 00:15:03

is going to be like taba stuff a little bit of embarrassment.

00:15:04 --> 00:15:07

right a bit of embarrassment. She has never dealt with this kind of

00:15:07 --> 00:15:12

stuff. Do you expect this woman, this girl rather to go all the way

00:15:12 --> 00:15:16

and commit haram on that first day that she is been praised. You

00:15:16 --> 00:15:19

know, every few days is somebody saying, hey, you know your bag is

00:15:19 --> 00:15:22

really nice and your clothes are very nice. You got a really nice

00:15:22 --> 00:15:25

smile. Right? And saying other weird things this is flirting,

00:15:25 --> 00:15:30

right? You think she's ever going to commit haram like straightaway?

00:15:30 --> 00:15:34

No. It's a big taboo you can't do that generally doesn't happen.

00:15:36 --> 00:15:38

Children don't end up in gangs.

00:15:39 --> 00:15:43

The next day, right, there's always a trajectory. There's

00:15:43 --> 00:15:47

always steps. And this is what Allah says number of places in the

00:15:47 --> 00:15:53

Quran. Whether that be through hoto T shaped on do not follow the

00:15:53 --> 00:15:57

steps of the shaytaan. several places in the Quran, Allah repeats

00:15:57 --> 00:16:01

that same thing, don't follow the steps of shaytaan. Because then

00:16:01 --> 00:16:04

Allah subhanho wa Taala says in Surah Noor, verse 21, he adds

00:16:04 --> 00:16:09

something he says, and the one who does follow the steps of the

00:16:09 --> 00:16:13

shaytaan shaytaan only commands people with unchaste things

00:16:13 --> 00:16:15

immoral things and wrongs.

00:16:17 --> 00:16:19

She doesn't command for anything, right?

00:16:20 --> 00:16:25

It's always step by step, the process is always step by step. So

00:16:25 --> 00:16:27

for example, let's give you an example. This girl, what's going

00:16:27 --> 00:16:30

to happen then is that the onslaught is going to be on her.

00:16:31 --> 00:16:34

She's there's going to be constantly guys on her back

00:16:34 --> 00:16:37

because everybody else is doing it. So she is going to have to be

00:16:37 --> 00:16:42

very protected. Slowly, slowly. One day, she is going to give a

00:16:42 --> 00:16:43

smile back.

00:16:45 --> 00:16:48

She is going to give a smile back. That's it, the connection is made.

00:16:48 --> 00:16:51

Until now she kept turning away she was embarrassed. She didn't

00:16:51 --> 00:16:54

say anything. She rejected the advances. One day, she is going to

00:16:54 --> 00:16:58

give a smile back. That's that weak spot. She's going to give

00:16:58 --> 00:17:00

that smile back the Shakedowns. They're playing, you know,

00:17:00 --> 00:17:04

shaytans they're working hard. He likes you, you should be

00:17:04 --> 00:17:04

interested.

00:17:07 --> 00:17:09

It gives a smile back. That's it, the connection is made.

00:17:11 --> 00:17:16

And then after, then after that, numbers are exchanged, then and

00:17:16 --> 00:17:20

then the Hola Hola. Hola. Predict, step by step. That's what it was.

00:17:20 --> 00:17:23

It's step by step. You'd never expect somebody to do that on the

00:17:23 --> 00:17:26

first day. There's a guy who has just started working

00:17:27 --> 00:17:29

right at a chicken shop.

00:17:30 --> 00:17:33

Young college guy, he needs some extra money. He started working at

00:17:33 --> 00:17:37

a chicken shop. Where else do people work? Their first jobs?

00:17:40 --> 00:17:43

Retail that one? Yeah, maybe in retail go on stacking shelves in

00:17:43 --> 00:17:46

Sainsbury's, for example, or something like that.

00:17:47 --> 00:17:51

Now, what happens is that it's the end of the day. And there's a

00:17:51 --> 00:17:53

customer that comes in, but you've done all the cash collection,

00:17:53 --> 00:17:56

you've done all the, you know, the cash register, you've closed it

00:17:56 --> 00:17:59

up, and then somebody comes to last and you've got some extra

00:17:59 --> 00:18:02

chicken there to sell. So you send it to him. And there's three pound

00:18:02 --> 00:18:06

50 there. What am I going to do? I've already done all the hisab

00:18:06 --> 00:18:10

I've done all of the accounts. 350. I mean, am I going to like

00:18:10 --> 00:18:14

open up everything and then do it again. shaytan comes to you step

00:18:14 --> 00:18:14

by step.

00:18:16 --> 00:18:20

You should just nobody's going to miss it. Just three pound 50

00:18:22 --> 00:18:25

You could say one pound, you know, whatever. It's not much, who's

00:18:25 --> 00:18:28

gonna miss it. make enough money anyway. That's the justification.

00:18:29 --> 00:18:31

They make they charge enough already. So we're allowed to cheat

00:18:31 --> 00:18:35

them. Right? Because they charge too much already. I mean, you

00:18:35 --> 00:18:37

signed up for the charge, you know? So

00:18:39 --> 00:18:42

then what happens is that so you, you say no, no, no, hola, hola.

00:18:42 --> 00:18:46

Hola, como de La Villa. Next time, same thought that thought will

00:18:46 --> 00:18:49

continue unless you're connected in the vicar to Allah that thought

00:18:49 --> 00:18:51

will continue. And then eventually one day and say, yeah, man, put in

00:18:51 --> 00:18:55

my pocket. But you know what, I'll put it in my pocket. I'll give it

00:18:55 --> 00:18:58

to the boss tomorrow. That's the real excuse that I'll put in my

00:18:58 --> 00:19:00

pocket. I'll give it to the boss tomorrow. And then after that, you

00:19:00 --> 00:19:02

forgot the next day.

00:19:03 --> 00:19:06

You forgot the next day, and you forgot. And then after that it was

00:19:06 --> 00:19:09

just too complicated. And then you'd spent the money by mistake

00:19:09 --> 00:19:11

and then it's like, oh, forget, he was gonna find out. He never said

00:19:11 --> 00:19:13

anything. So he probably didn't realize he didn't check the

00:19:13 --> 00:19:18

cameras, step by step. Then after that, you will become a bit more

00:19:18 --> 00:19:19

brave.

00:19:20 --> 00:19:25

So this time was two to three pounds. Then a 10 pound note who's

00:19:25 --> 00:19:28

not going to miss it. There are so many people in this retail

00:19:28 --> 00:19:32

business that complain of the employees cheating them. I mean,

00:19:32 --> 00:19:36

you guys, businessman, anybody businessman here, right? It's one

00:19:36 --> 00:19:40

of the beans of business. You can put cameras you can do what you

00:19:40 --> 00:19:44

want. And sometimes the guy is a good worker. So and then they

00:19:44 --> 00:19:48

blackmail you Subhanallah these are the perils of doing business.

00:19:49 --> 00:19:49

Right?

00:19:50 --> 00:19:52

It's like I'm teaching you how to do this.

00:19:53 --> 00:19:56

I'm not teaching you how to do this. I'm telling you that this is

00:19:56 --> 00:19:59

the steps that you do not take from the beginning.

00:20:00 --> 00:20:03

Let's take another example. There's two partners in a

00:20:03 --> 00:20:06

business, they've just started business together. And you know,

00:20:06 --> 00:20:08

each one is in charge of a certain aspect of the business.

00:20:10 --> 00:20:10

Again,

00:20:11 --> 00:20:14

a bit of cheating here and there, I can make this bit of extra

00:20:14 --> 00:20:18

money. And subhanAllah, sometimes you've had in businesses where one

00:20:18 --> 00:20:23

of the partners will actually go to the client, or the cost

00:20:23 --> 00:20:26

potential customer and say, buy from us, but I'll give you this

00:20:26 --> 00:20:31

price. But then you give me a side, amount on the side so that

00:20:31 --> 00:20:34

the official money coming into the business that we're going to

00:20:35 --> 00:20:39

share is a certain amount. But then the other part you get me in

00:20:39 --> 00:20:41

private, so I make more money than my partner.

00:20:43 --> 00:20:46

You would never do that. First you start off with small things, then

00:20:46 --> 00:20:49

it goes to begin, these are criminal started. They started off

00:20:49 --> 00:20:54

with small things. Friend of mine, works in prisons as a chaplain.

00:20:55 --> 00:20:58

And once he was, you know, these are young offenders between I

00:20:58 --> 00:21:02

think 17 and 20. Or something. It's a special prison for young

00:21:02 --> 00:21:03

offenders. Right.

00:21:04 --> 00:21:08

One of the kids in there he was talking to this Maulana the sheikh

00:21:08 --> 00:21:12

about he says, I blame my mother for my being impressed.

00:21:14 --> 00:21:18

By what did you make you do on steel? Now, what she did was, you

00:21:18 --> 00:21:21

know, when we used to go to people's houses, you know, when

00:21:21 --> 00:21:23

you go to your relative's house, and when you're a little kid,

00:21:25 --> 00:21:30

do you ever remember wanting to take your cousin's car? Or cousins

00:21:30 --> 00:21:33

toy that can I take it home? Do you ever remember doing that? We

00:21:33 --> 00:21:33

never do that.

00:21:35 --> 00:21:35

I'm asking you.

00:21:38 --> 00:21:42

Have you ever thought of taking your cousin's toy home so that you

00:21:42 --> 00:21:45

can play with it at home? Yeah, I mean, every child does that.

00:21:45 --> 00:21:51

Right? What does? What do the what does the host family? What do the

00:21:51 --> 00:21:55

parents say? Generally? What do they tell you? Take it right. laid

00:21:55 --> 00:21:55

out.

00:21:57 --> 00:22:01

Right? Let it go in go like, let them take it. It's a bit

00:22:01 --> 00:22:05

embarrassing. Say no, no, no, you can't take it. Even if they don't

00:22:05 --> 00:22:07

when you're taking that off to say, let them take it.

00:22:09 --> 00:22:13

His mom, she never used to say no, he's like, Yeah, I mean, good

00:22:13 --> 00:22:17

parents. I say no, you can't take it. As bad habit. You can't just

00:22:17 --> 00:22:20

take everything you see. We've got taught enough toys at home, here's

00:22:20 --> 00:22:22

what you say, Oh, we got enough toys at home. They don't even play

00:22:22 --> 00:22:23

with their toys. It's just something new.

00:22:25 --> 00:22:28

Here's my mom never used to say they just let him take it on

00:22:28 --> 00:22:31

either. Right? Let it come in. I don't know for what reason she's

00:22:31 --> 00:22:37

just very calm or just too laid back or whatever. So he got into

00:22:37 --> 00:22:37

this

00:22:40 --> 00:22:44

culture you can say of entitlement that I can take whatever I want.

00:22:45 --> 00:22:48

So slowly, slowly, he started when you know the local shop. He used

00:22:48 --> 00:22:53

to go and take from there, steal the local shop used to go

00:22:54 --> 00:22:58

and steal. And nobody go to Shabnam supermarket. Okay. Right.

00:23:00 --> 00:23:03

He used to take I'm getting used to the area, right learning the

00:23:03 --> 00:23:08

names of the local shops. So he would take take something, it

00:23:08 --> 00:23:13

became, it became worse, he got his sister involved, to watch out

00:23:13 --> 00:23:18

at the corner of the aisles and so on. And then it wasn't a local

00:23:18 --> 00:23:21

shop anymore. It became the mall. I don't know which model it was,

00:23:21 --> 00:23:25

it became a local mall. And he would use his sister and others to

00:23:25 --> 00:23:28

watch out and then eventually, remember, you will always get

00:23:28 --> 00:23:33

caught. Just remember children, you will always get caught. You

00:23:33 --> 00:23:38

may escape 1234 or five times, but eventually you will get caught.

00:23:39 --> 00:23:42

Right. And generally when you get caught, it means you've done it a

00:23:42 --> 00:23:45

few times, unless you're very lucky to get caught the first

00:23:45 --> 00:23:45

time.

00:23:47 --> 00:23:50

That's happened as well. I know a few people who they got caught the

00:23:50 --> 00:23:53

first time they tried and Hamdulillah that didn't get it,

00:23:53 --> 00:23:56

there was a small one, but that put the fear of God in them, you

00:23:56 --> 00:23:59

know, so they didn't do any more. Now this guy is in prison and he

00:23:59 --> 00:23:59

blames his mom.

00:24:01 --> 00:24:05

Again, it was a trajectory it was step by step do not follow the

00:24:05 --> 00:24:10

footsteps of the shaytaan. So you have at school, you'd have

00:24:10 --> 00:24:17

somebody who tells you go and do this, go and do graffiti. Now. How

00:24:17 --> 00:24:18

do you feel about that?

00:24:19 --> 00:24:21

No, no, I can't do that. What they're going to do is they're

00:24:21 --> 00:24:25

going to put peer pressure on you. I have to speak to the children.

00:24:25 --> 00:24:27

They're here. I can't ignore them. That's why it's become sorry for

00:24:27 --> 00:24:29

the elders. Right. You guys are not going to be interested in

00:24:29 --> 00:24:33

graffiti. But so they're gonna start to pressure you they're

00:24:33 --> 00:24:35

gonna call you chicken. They're gonna call you all of these

00:24:35 --> 00:24:39

things. They actually did a test they actually did a

00:24:40 --> 00:24:44

a test on this where they got some guys to get these kids and try to

00:24:44 --> 00:24:47

get them to do graffiti. And you know, who were the ones that

00:24:47 --> 00:24:51

resisted? Were those who had a very solid home solid relationship

00:24:51 --> 00:24:52

with parents.

00:24:53 --> 00:24:56

They had that Congress said, No, I'm gonna go from here and they

00:24:56 --> 00:24:59

ran off. If you don't run away, and you stay there, try

00:25:00 --> 00:25:03

fit in? Why are you trying to fit in? Because you don't have a good

00:25:03 --> 00:25:05

relationship at home. That's why you're trying to fit in with

00:25:05 --> 00:25:10

friends. If you've got a good reader, you don't care about bad

00:25:10 --> 00:25:13

friends and parents have taught them about that, then they kind of

00:25:13 --> 00:25:15

resist May Allah protect all of our children.

00:25:17 --> 00:25:18

Some of the examples of this

00:25:20 --> 00:25:24

for the adults, wives are constantly complaining, my husband

00:25:24 --> 00:25:28

is being flirtatious. I'm going to use these complicated words. So

00:25:29 --> 00:25:33

to keep it a bit veiled. My husband is very flirtatious after

00:25:33 --> 00:25:38

ours is on the WhatsApp. Right? And she's getting paranoid a lot

00:25:38 --> 00:25:40

of the time it's from that side, it could be the other way as well.

00:25:41 --> 00:25:43

And then you talk to the husband is like no man, that's just

00:25:43 --> 00:25:44

innocent banter.

00:25:45 --> 00:25:47

It may not be halal banter. He says it's innocent, though,

00:25:47 --> 00:25:51

because he says I've got a boundary. I will not do the act.

00:25:52 --> 00:25:55

Right. But don't you understand that you're really messing in his

00:25:55 --> 00:25:58

heart on what you're doing. This is the trajectory of the shaytaan

00:25:58 --> 00:26:00

SubhanAllah. Think about this.

00:26:01 --> 00:26:05

The freshers day, hours of your day of anybody's they are the

00:26:05 --> 00:26:09

morning, waking hours and the first half of the morning, right?

00:26:10 --> 00:26:12

There's many people who are spending this

00:26:14 --> 00:26:17

in the company of the opposite gender, because they have to go to

00:26:17 --> 00:26:20

work in a mixed environment. And

00:26:21 --> 00:26:25

you have to dress up to go to work, and so on. You've got a wife

00:26:25 --> 00:26:29

at home. But you've got these stunning other people at work,

00:26:29 --> 00:26:33

you're on projects together, you're doing tasks together,

00:26:34 --> 00:26:36

you're experiencing

00:26:38 --> 00:26:41

the capabilities of one another. And humans are

00:26:42 --> 00:26:47

humans, they really inclined towards good qualities or

00:26:47 --> 00:26:54

capabilities and strengths. You're sharing successes. You're sharing

00:26:54 --> 00:26:59

failures, high fives, and whatever else there is right.

00:27:00 --> 00:27:03

And you come home and you're tired. And then you start

00:27:03 --> 00:27:04

comparing,

00:27:05 --> 00:27:09

speaking the language, you start comparing, and then your marriage

00:27:09 --> 00:27:12

is on the rocks. Because this one isn't as bright as that one. This

00:27:12 --> 00:27:16

one isn't as charming and as attractive, doesn't carry

00:27:16 --> 00:27:21

themselves in that certain way. Maybe she's gone to work as well

00:27:21 --> 00:27:25

as she's also tired from work. Right? Allah make it easy. These

00:27:25 --> 00:27:28

are sometimes inevitable things that people find themselves in.

00:27:28 --> 00:27:31

May Allah make it easy. May Allah make it easy. These are all the

00:27:31 --> 00:27:35

steps that have shaped on so many marriages break, they say that one

00:27:35 --> 00:27:36

of the highest

00:27:38 --> 00:27:41

records, or highest days of divorce is on the third of

00:27:41 --> 00:27:42

January.

00:27:44 --> 00:27:46

Because they have Christmas parties where everybody lets their

00:27:46 --> 00:27:51

hair down, and it goes crazy. And marriages just it's the time for

00:27:51 --> 00:27:54

destruction of of marriages. Christmas time is the destruction

00:27:54 --> 00:27:56

of marriages, Christmas parties.

00:27:58 --> 00:28:04

Same thing, you see something that is haram. But it's not that bad.

00:28:04 --> 00:28:08

It's just something that stunning, you know, something that is very

00:28:08 --> 00:28:12

attractive, but it's still haram for a man to look at. So you look

00:28:12 --> 00:28:16

at that. And then after that it just gets worse and worse and

00:28:16 --> 00:28:20

worse until people end up in * and they're addicted

00:28:20 --> 00:28:23

and they can't do anything about it. It started off with something

00:28:23 --> 00:28:27

small. It started off with one step. It may have started with a

00:28:27 --> 00:28:30

friend trying to show you something on their phone.

00:28:32 --> 00:28:35

That's why these high schools that banned phones are should be should

00:28:35 --> 00:28:40

be celebrated. Because they're the worst things that you can have. If

00:28:40 --> 00:28:40

you have a

00:28:43 --> 00:28:47

high school that doesn't allow phones to be used on the premises,

00:28:47 --> 00:28:50

then that's really good because that is where most of the trouble

00:28:50 --> 00:28:51

is beginning nowadays.

00:28:53 --> 00:28:57

steps of the shaytaan some other issues like mashallah, you've

00:28:57 --> 00:29:01

learned to pray and you do all of your prayers. You do your father,

00:29:01 --> 00:29:04

you do your sunnah, you do your wajib, of course and you do your

00:29:04 --> 00:29:08

Knuffle prayers as well. And then eventually you get a bit busy. So

00:29:08 --> 00:29:13

you start dropping your knuffel prayers. You drop going to the

00:29:13 --> 00:29:17

masjid for your prayers, you start delaying your prayers. You still

00:29:17 --> 00:29:21

praying them though, you start delaying them, then comes a time

00:29:21 --> 00:29:25

when you make them up all at night, this period. I you know,

00:29:25 --> 00:29:29

I've really messed up I do try to get all my prayers done before

00:29:29 --> 00:29:33

before I go to sleep though, right because of x, y and Zed it started

00:29:33 --> 00:29:36

off where the person was doing it well. These are trajectories,

00:29:36 --> 00:29:41

these are steps. This was shaytaan does. He carries on like this

00:29:45 --> 00:29:48

numerous examples, numerous examples. I guess the point here

00:29:48 --> 00:29:51

is not to give every example there is but it's to give us an answer

00:29:51 --> 00:29:57

how shaytan works. His starts bit by bit giving a taste, breaking

00:29:57 --> 00:29:59

one taboo one stigma and then he can

00:30:00 --> 00:30:04

is on until it gets worse and worse, we need to put a stop to it

00:30:04 --> 00:30:08

from the beginning and to strengthen ourselves. And the most

00:30:08 --> 00:30:13

amazing thing, despite all of this shaitan Allah says about the

00:30:13 --> 00:30:18

plotting of shaytaan that in the K the shaytani can adore Eva that

00:30:18 --> 00:30:21

the plotting of the shaitaan is actually very weak.

00:30:23 --> 00:30:26

Whereas for men, when Allah subhanaw taala spoke about the

00:30:26 --> 00:30:29

attraction to women he says in Qaeda Hakuna Aleem

00:30:31 --> 00:30:35

that your challenge is much greater, but when it comes to data

00:30:35 --> 00:30:38

is is is weak. How is it weak because as soon as you make vicar,

00:30:39 --> 00:30:42

c'est la ilaha illa Allah stockfeed Allah will the biller

00:30:42 --> 00:30:43

shaytaan goes

00:30:45 --> 00:30:48

but you might think sometimes I'm in namaz, I'm in Salah and I'm

00:30:48 --> 00:30:53

thinking of a sin. Salah is full of vicar because think about it.

00:30:53 --> 00:30:56

If you do think of a sin insula is not going to be a nuisance, it's

00:30:56 --> 00:30:59

going to be an addiction. It's the knifes that's craving it.

00:31:01 --> 00:31:04

That's all it is, is the knifes that's craving it

00:31:06 --> 00:31:10

that is what Ramadan is for. Allah has taken shaytaan all the defeats

00:31:10 --> 00:31:14

that is two forces of evil in our life when the shaytaan shaytans

00:31:14 --> 00:31:18

out of the picture. The second one is that knifes the soul the ego

00:31:18 --> 00:31:23

that generally works based on habit. So Allah is telling us now

00:31:23 --> 00:31:26

abstain from permissible things food, drink and

00:31:27 --> 00:31:33

intimacy in the daytime, the halal things to do generally, you're not

00:31:33 --> 00:31:37

allowed to do them. So what happens is then the self stopped

00:31:37 --> 00:31:40

asking for you for food or drink during the day because like, okay,

00:31:40 --> 00:31:44

he's fasting. So we've just overcome the self. So it should

00:31:44 --> 00:31:49

just become easier to overcome the self after Ramadan from

00:31:50 --> 00:31:54

wrong things. Because if we're told to abstain from Halal things

00:31:54 --> 00:31:58

and we're getting used to that, then we should become it should

00:31:58 --> 00:32:00

become easier for us to abstain from haram things. That's what

00:32:00 --> 00:32:04

Allah said. Yeah, you hold the denominator cote, Bharati calcium

00:32:04 --> 00:32:08

Kamakoti ballerina mean, publikum La La Quinta. Takuan fasting has

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

been prescribed upon you just as it was on the people before you so

00:32:11 --> 00:32:14

that you can gain Taqwa. So the purpose is not that just for

00:32:14 --> 00:32:19

Ramadan, we be different. But it's more like a training ground. For

00:32:19 --> 00:32:22

example, as young children, I mean, our parents teach, don't

00:32:22 --> 00:32:26

they teach us to respect our elders? They do, right? Our

00:32:26 --> 00:32:30

parents teach us to respect our elders. Now is that just for when

00:32:30 --> 00:32:33

you're small and you can start disrespecting them when they get

00:32:33 --> 00:32:36

when you get older, you understand that that is actually respecting

00:32:36 --> 00:32:40

them for the rest of your life. That's the training, we're

00:32:40 --> 00:32:43

supposed to carry it on. Likewise, Ramadan is a training ground to

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46

get the taqwa in Ramadan, not just for that, that one day of Eid

00:32:46 --> 00:32:49

comes everything goes back to what it was before Ramadan, but to

00:32:49 --> 00:32:52

carry on it's a training ground every year Allah gives it to us.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:56

May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us the trophy. May Allah accept

00:32:56 --> 00:33:00

from us May Allah protect us from the hotel world is shaped on the

00:33:00 --> 00:33:02

steps of the shaytaan be very careful about the steps are

00:33:02 --> 00:33:06

shaytaan try to recommend try to get clever recognizing this is

00:33:06 --> 00:33:09

shaytaan. Man, let me run a mile out with a bIllahi min ash

00:33:09 --> 00:33:12

shaytani regime, may Allah give us a trophy to do that this is useful

00:33:12 --> 00:33:15

for adults and children because we're all prone to shaitan is

00:33:15 --> 00:33:19

after all of us. Right? That's why let us develop immunity and

00:33:19 --> 00:33:22

Marcela. There's one person who told me that in Ramadan, he really

00:33:22 --> 00:33:26

made an effort that year. And then after that, the extra effort that

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

he didn't Ramadan for, you know, for the next seven months after

00:33:28 --> 00:33:31

Ramadan, he didn't even feel like doing the sin that he was used to

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

doing. He didn't even feel like it.

00:33:34 --> 00:33:39

Right. Then after that he started becoming weak. And I don't know if

00:33:39 --> 00:33:43

he pulled it through or not. He says, a year or two later, I again

00:33:43 --> 00:33:47

made a huge effort in Ramadan, lots of DUA and UScar, and

00:33:47 --> 00:33:50

everything. And then I did kick off as well, he said, and he said

00:33:50 --> 00:33:54

this time, the immunity that I got from Ramadan lasted nine months

00:33:56 --> 00:33:57

or 10 months.

00:33:58 --> 00:34:02

No, actually, yes. He said it lasted for nine months. Yes. Now I

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

remember. And he said now I started feeling weak again, study

00:34:04 --> 00:34:08

feeling inclined. But he said Look, I can't mess up. Now. This

00:34:08 --> 00:34:14

is the first time in nine months without the sin. So then he said

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

I've only got two months left, until I get to my sanctuary, the

00:34:16 --> 00:34:19

next Ramadan. And he said I managed to pull it through. That

00:34:19 --> 00:34:22

was my first time in so many years that a whole year had gone without

00:34:22 --> 00:34:26

a sin. So Ramadan is extremely powerful. And if on top of that,

00:34:26 --> 00:34:30

you get Hajj that gives you a another boost of thing another

00:34:30 --> 00:34:35

boost of fortitude and immunity as well. May Allah make Ramadan, that

00:34:35 --> 00:34:38

source of immunity for all of us and give us the highest reward and

00:34:38 --> 00:34:42

may Allah make this Ramadan better than any Ramadan before it for us,

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

allow us to be closer to him than we've ever been before working

00:34:45 --> 00:34:48

with that one and he'll hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen. The

00:34:48 --> 00:34:53

point of a lecture is to encourage people to act to get further an

00:34:53 --> 00:34:58

inspiration and encouragement, persuasion. The next step is to

00:34:58 --> 00:34:59

actually start learning seriously

00:35:00 --> 00:35:04

to read books to take on a subject of Islam and to understand all the

00:35:04 --> 00:35:07

subjects of Islam at least at the basic level, so that we can become

00:35:07 --> 00:35:11

more aware of what our deen wants from us. And that's why we started

00:35:11 --> 00:35:17

Rayyan courses so that you can actually take organize lectures on

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

demand whenever you have free time, especially, for example, the

00:35:20 --> 00:35:24

Islamic essentials course that we have on the Islamic essentials

00:35:24 --> 00:35:29

certificate which you take 20 Short modules and at the end of

00:35:29 --> 00:35:34

that inshallah you will have gotten the basics of most of the

00:35:34 --> 00:35:37

most important topics in Islam and you'll feel a lot more confident.

00:35:37 --> 00:35:40

You don't have to leave lectures behind you can continue to live,

00:35:40 --> 00:35:43

you know, to listen to lectures, but you need to have this more

00:35:43 --> 00:35:46

sustained study as well just like a law here in Santa Monica when I

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

have to live record

Share Page