Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Wanting Best of Both Worlds for your Children

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The transcript discusses the upcoming events surrounding the Quran and the upcoming century, including the clapping of the UK's clap and hip school, the shortage of food, and the potential for students to wake up early. The challenges faced by children in various countries, including the lack of graduates, high cost of graduation, and the high cost of graduation. The importance of protecting children from "work of the heart" to prevent chaos and chaos, praying for Islam, and being around people who may not know it. The transcript also touches on the benefits of the century, including the transformation of the world and the importance of human satisfaction and balance. The world is always resets itself, causing revolution and causing everyone to wake up and say no, this is wrong. The world is not completely destroyed, but it is. The world is not completely destroyed, but it is. The world is not completely destroyed, but it is. The world is not completely destroyed, but it is.

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			Subhanallah humanity is waking up.
Humanity has woken up all of these
		
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			years of
		
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			deception. Okay, all of these
years are showing
		
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			the bad people is the good. And
the good is the bad. Finally
		
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			people are waking up.
		
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			I don't have to take names. I'm
sure you know what I'm talking
		
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			about. There are so many more
people who are waking up and
		
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			saying no, this doesn't sound
right anymore. This is not like,
		
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			remember, in this world, Allah
says, What are animism. Allah has
		
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			placed the balance.
		
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			The life of the world is very
long. So that's why we think it
		
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			doesn't happen quick enough. But
the word always resets itself.
		
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			Oppression can only last for a
certain number of certain amount
		
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			of time. That could be 70 years
that could be 100 years. But it
		
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			can only last it can't last for
hundreds of years.
		
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			Because the world resets itself,
it corrects itself. Humans are not
		
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			so dead, that humanity is not
completely perished. Humans will
		
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			finally wake up and say no, this
is wrong. This is wrong. We have
		
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			to be those humans who are who
understand who have the balance.
		
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			Because we have a faith that gives
us the balance. We need to share
		
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			this with others.
		
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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa
barakato.
		
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			Masha Allah Al Hamdulillah
hamdulillah hamdulillahi rabbil
		
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			Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala
Ruthie Ramadan, Lila Alameen.
		
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			Wa the early he was socially he
Obama Care was seldom at the
		
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			Sleeman Kathira on Isla Yomi Dean
Amara
		
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			got along with Derrida for the
Quran and multilingual for
		
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			Colonial Hamid Yeah, you have
Lavina Manu coup and forsaken
		
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			leikam Nowra beaucoup de Hannah so
what
		
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			are they have another Italian
villa shaida don't lie ah Soon
		
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			Allah Hama, Mr. Rohan. Were for
Aluna you maroon because the
		
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			Kerala al murder will be Luna Xena
tool hayati. Dunya. So the Kola
		
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			Vilavi. My dear respected Allah ma
brothers, sisters, dear listeners,
		
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			dear friends, absolutely wonderful
to hear all of those children
		
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			Hamdulillah I know it's usually a
distraction to hear children. But
		
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			actually, I'm very excited to
actually hear all these children
		
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			and see all of these children.
		
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			Because all we've been hearing for
the last two months is the murder
		
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			of children
		
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			is the destruction of children.
We've seen all of these pictures
		
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			of these children that are dying.
		
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			And mashallah we sit here and in a
amazing level of security and
		
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			safety. We sit here we don't
expect the bombs to shower upon
		
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			us.
		
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			So, while we here to mashallah
		
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			celebrate an occasion and amazing
occasion of the completion of the
		
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			Quran, which is always a great
celebration, which is a great
		
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			occasion.
		
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			And I'm so happy to see so many
brothers and sisters here and
		
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			especially our children here
making that noise of hamdulillah
		
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			because that's that's our future.
And my task is very, very
		
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			difficult. Because we have about
four different age groups here.
		
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			We have mashallah the elderly.
		
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			We have the middle aged, you can
put yourself into whatever group
		
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			you want, I'm not going to judge
you. We have the elderly, we have
		
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			the middle aged, we have the young
adults, okay, and then we have the
		
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			children. And I don't know how I'm
going to speak to all four of
		
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			these groups and not bore somebody
or put somebody to sleep that's
		
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			very, very difficult. Thank you
for making it so difficult. Allah
		
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			subhana wa Tada helped us, Allah
help us. So a few years ago, we
		
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			had an opportunity to visit a
country in Europe that is 20 to
		
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			25%. Muslim
		
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			20 to 25% was a much more than UK
		
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			and in the whole country, they had
I think, I forgotten now three or
		
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			five half years of the Quran.
		
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			That's all they had.
		
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			And for about 100 years, they've
never had a Quran taraweeh even
		
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			though Muslims have been there for
300 years
		
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			and this is a country in Europe.
		
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			Only three to five half is now
hopefully there's more because
		
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			they just started a hip school.
		
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			And I was thinking that in
Clapton, which is in Hackney, East
		
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			London, just in capsule along
there must be 1000 houses under.
		
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			Just in Captain alone you go to
new home, there's probably 1000 or
		
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			more. You go to Tower Hamlets is
probably the same slough is
		
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			getting there Mashallah.
		
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			This is the second Quran Satsang
and just about a month or two ago
		
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			we went to Wembley and they're
picking up now and mashallah this
		
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			one child became half is at the
age of
		
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			how old is he? Nine. He was he
became half is at the age of nine.
		
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			Now look at the dedication right
dedication
		
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			the parents would put him to sleep
at half past five
		
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			every single day
		
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			put him to sleep at half past five
because he has to wake up at three
		
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			o'clock in the morning
		
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			Subhanallah the child has to wake
up at three o'clock at eight a six
		
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			seven year old is not going to
wake up themselves that means one
		
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			of the parents wakes him up
		
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			at three o'clock every single day
I said Was there no exception? No
		
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			every day come weekdays or
weekends.
		
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			Can you imagine?
		
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			How would you keep so regular for
mashallah has finished his his
		
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			Alhamdulillah and what Allah
subhanaw taala has given us in
		
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			this country which is actually
giving you know, the majority of
		
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			us the majority of us come from
India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri
		
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			Lanka, I should have said Sri
Lanka first because we're gonna
		
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			get food after this and I'm
thinking we might get some short
		
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			eats
		
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			is a shortage. Now is enough to
what do you call other good too
		
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			it's not good to what is it today?
Biryani Sri Lankan biryani or
		
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			granny video
		
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			okay hamdulillah so
		
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			most of us come from these areas
and other areas mashallah I'm
		
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			sorry if I forgot your
		
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			Egypt, masha Allah mosque right.
Now, what's happening here that's
		
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			different from those countries,
which now they're picking up there
		
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			is that we have in this country
now, because it's one of the best
		
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			in terms of the Western countries
is that we have all Amano, who are
		
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			also major degree holders and PhDs
and doctors and other things. You
		
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			come to East London, you'll see
that
		
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			you will have
		
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			PhDs from Imperial College top
universities in the country that
		
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			are also doing audio in class that
are doing right now. We have a
		
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			student who is has a physics
degree Master's in physics from
		
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			UCL who is doing the Mufti course,
we have another one who had a
		
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			degree from LSE London School of
Economics he did his if that cost
		
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			then he got a master's and now
he's going to be doing a PhD in
		
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			from from Oxford.
		
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			This is amazing to be able to
reconcile and combine both of
		
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			these things. We have seen that
these children who do hips of the
		
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			Quran they bind I know a family
that has nearly all of this
		
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			children four children or or half
is of the Quran or or nearly half
		
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			is of the Quran in GCSE is that
straight A students 789 A stars no
		
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			problem.
		
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			The problem is that many of us
come from countries or cultures
		
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			where you have to instead of Joey
structural,
		
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			either b or ILM and half is in
Malawi sob and in people's mind
		
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			suffer for the rest of your life.
		
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			Or your doctor will become a
doctor engineers are nothing less
		
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			than that.
		
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			No problem. We're telling you,
we're showing you now you can get
		
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			the best of both worlds. And this
will help this. And this is
		
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			something that I think started in
England first. And now I've seen
		
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			this happening in India and
Pakistan.
		
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			And in Sri Lanka, I've seen this
happening afterwards.
		
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			And this is amazing.
		
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			This is amazing. Do the become the
best of both worlds. That's when
		
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			we'll make a change to the world.
That's when we'll bring major
		
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			changes. So Alhamdulillah Allah
subhanho wa Taala has really,
		
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			really blessed this community. Now
if you look at if you're aware of
		
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			London, amid over a million
Muslims in London, about 15 70%
		
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			Muslims in London alone. I was in
Norway last week. And Finland the
		
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			weekend before that. The whole
country has 5 million population.
		
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			London has just London the city
has a bigger population. And
		
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			that's even if you don't come
slow,
		
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			right? It has a bigger population
overall, out of which 1 million or
		
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			more Muslims. You can't. You can't
avoid worse things in London or
		
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			wherever you go 15 to 20% nearly
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala has
		
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			made it so easy for people to
access. Now if you look at the
		
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			different boroughs of London, you
go to
		
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			Hackney Tower Hamlets, new home,
Ilford. There's a difference in
		
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			those boroughs compared to a lot
of other boroughs.
		
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			Even though there's enough Muslims
in all of these burgers.
		
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			The differences is that in those
burgers, there's a lot more going
		
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			on from 20 years ago. There's many
more Islamic schools. There's many
		
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			more mattresses. There's, from
where I live in infants. Within
		
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			five to seven miles, there are 15
Alima Alima courses up teaching up
		
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			to Sahil Buhari
		
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			15 of that was when I counted
about four or five years ago.
		
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			Why is that there and not the
same, for example, in what's the,
		
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			what's his political
		
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			and many other areas, when we pick
big, big areas? Why is it not the
		
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			same? Because 5060 years of our
existence in this country as an
		
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			immigrant Muslims, when it became
an explosion, demographic graphic
		
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			explosion of Muslims started from
around the end of the 50s,
		
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			beginning of the 60s, that's when
martial law people came lock stock
		
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			and barrel from the villages. And
mashallah Muslims came to Britain
		
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			in the big numbers anyways, we've
been here for over 100 years been
		
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			people coming Eastern the masjid
is nearly 100 years old, or maybe
		
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			over 100 years old. I'm not sure
exactly we've had, we've got a
		
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			walking masjid, which is over 100
years old. But in terms of big
		
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			numbers.
		
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			It's been since the 19, end of
50s 1960s, that gives us about 70
		
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			years already in this country.
		
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			So why are these places doing more
where you've got women education
		
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			going on children's education,
men's education, at all levels,
		
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			all sorts of education, up to the
highest level is because they
		
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			focused on their children. They
sacrificed their children to go
		
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			out to study,
		
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			I was sent out at the age of 11.
To go and study in Darwin, very
		
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			many others were sent out to other
countries, India, Pakistan, and
		
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			other places. It's not difficult,
I cried force for several weeks or
		
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			three, four months, my mum cried
missing, but I never went back
		
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			home, we have to do the work, we
have to we have to finish off what
		
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			we went therefore, that is what
made it different than Darwin was
		
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			induced very and very, and then
all the others that came up, you
		
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			have to give sacrifice, especially
in this especially in countries,
		
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			especially in countries which are
Muslim minority countries, the
		
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			sacrifices was going to I went to
a place in India.
		
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			Now you'd expect that India has
much going over there are many
		
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			areas in India, this is a
relatively very wealthy, very
		
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			wealthy area in India. And there's
some people there who have a lot
		
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			of concern for their children.
		
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			They don't want to send them to
the regular modalities because
		
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			most of the mothers in these
countries are built for poor
		
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			people. Because unfortunately,
only poor people, relatively
		
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			speaking, send their children to
study Jerrica Sanchez died and
		
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			extend them to university those
whose they think are
		
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			intellectually more
		
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			astute, they send them to
university instead, unfortunately.
		
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			So
		
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			he's asking how can I do
something, I said, Look, you're
		
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			gonna have to send your child
somewhere else, you're gonna have
		
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			to make that sacrifice, then you
can actually start to Larissa
		
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			locally.
		
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			When your children come back, and
when others from the area come
		
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			back then it will make a
difference. This is all about our
		
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			deen is all about sacrifice. It's
all about sacrifice. And
		
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			Alhamdulillah. The OMA don't
suffer.
		
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			The ordermark do not suffer.
		
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			I give you an example. I used to
be imam in California.
		
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			And I was in city north of Los
Angeles, two hours north of Los
		
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			Angeles, very small area. One guy
from one guy from Los Angeles, he
		
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			really wanted to study the dean.
		
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			He really wanted to study the
dean.
		
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			But his father wouldn't let him
says no, you have to get your
		
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			degree this that and other and so
on. Everybody's intoxicated with
		
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			education, secular education.
Right? Not saying it's a bad
		
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			thing. But some people are just
over the top that if you don't
		
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			have secular education or career
planning, you're not gonna get
		
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			this you're not gonna get that
you're not going to be able to
		
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			survive. And hamdulillah after a
few years, he managed to convince
		
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			his father nearly convinced his
father, that
		
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			I should be able to go and study
meaning he should be able to go
		
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			and study I don't know in Egypt or
somewhere. But he said he wants to
		
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			speak to a scholar to he as of
last few questions, I said, Okay,
		
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			fine. Let him we can speak to him
inshallah. They said, Let me warn
		
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			you of one thing when you speak to
him. When you speak to my father,
		
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			don't talk about Tawakkol
		
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			Don't talk about reliance on
Allah.
		
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			Meaning you're going to have to
prove to him that if I if my if
		
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			your son if my son becomes an
island, he will not suffer. He
		
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			will still be able to survive in
this world. But you can't say
		
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			Allah will help you that it has to
be scientific. It can't be based
		
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			on the word cool.
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			But to be honest, masha Allah,
Allah subhanho wa Taala helps.
		
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			That is exactly what he does. I
have never seen an audience
		
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			struggling. At least not in this
country anyway.
		
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			I've not seen an animal
struggling, at least not in this
		
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			country. Allah Tala does look
after you. And mashallah, anyway.
		
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			So
		
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			the biggest challenge in this
country now moving on the biggest
		
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			challenge in this country
		
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			is that our children become good
believers, good human beings.
		
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			And contributors. That's the
biggest challenge. Now look, I
		
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			want to tell you one thing, I tell
my children, what do you want to
		
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			be? If they tell me they want to
be x, y, and Zed I said, that's
		
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			the wrong thing. You can be x, y
and Zed, you can be a doctor. You
		
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			can be an engineer, you can be
whatever you want. But really what
		
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			I want you to be is I want you to
be a contributor to the world.
		
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			I want you to be somebody who will
make a change in this world who
		
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			will benefit people. Yes, you can
go ahead and benefit people by
		
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			becoming a doctor. But becoming a
doctor is not the end all. That is
		
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			not your goal. Your goal is not
just to be a doctor. Your goal is
		
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			to serve people and Allah by being
a doctor.
		
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			What we've just done is we've just
elevated their mindsets.
		
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			Otherwise, there's a lot of
children, a lot of young people
		
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			that I meet in universities and
other places, that parents forced
		
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			them to do something because it's
their parents ambition. Mira
		
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			Bucha, Dr. William,
		
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			nothing less than that. No, let
them be what they want, but they
		
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			should do it for a higher reason
for the sake of Allah subhanho wa
		
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			Taala for helping mankind and for
helping themselves and the people
		
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			in this world and the Hereafter,
just changing mindsets.
		
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			And we should have that desire. So
Allah subhanho wa Taala says, A
		
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			man who will balloon Xena to
hieratic Dhulia your wealth and
		
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			your children, wealth and children
are your adornment in this world.
		
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			You can have as much as many good
clothing as you want. Or you can
		
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			have the best car best looking
car. Everybody looks at it when
		
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			you pass by. Okay? What's a good
car by the way?
		
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			Last Last week, my friend there he
was taking me around and I didn't
		
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			even know this car existed. It's
called a Porsche taken is a full
		
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			electric Porsche never heard of it
before. All right. You can have
		
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			all of these things. But if you're
miserable with your children,
		
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			because your children are not
		
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			the coolness of your eyes, then
what's the point of all of these
		
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			other things? Would you be happy?
If your children are mashallah
		
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			productive, successful,
		
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			pious, righteous,
		
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			and they're looking after
themselves in this world, that is
		
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			your greatest adornment?
		
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			That is your greatest adornment
Subhanallah but that comes after
		
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			tarbiyah you can only have Korea
to iron in your children which
		
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			means gladness and joy of the eyes
after therapy or therapy is needed
		
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			for that Allah subhanaw taala
Quran gives us the whole method
		
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			and process to do this. So Allah
says first, that your wealth and
		
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			your your children are used for
you to adorn yourself. That's your
		
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			Zenit, right that's your
beautification in this world. Then
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala talks about
the tarbiyah of children Yeah, you
		
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			Alladhina Minako and fusuma Alikum
Nowra Oh, people who believe
		
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			protect yourselves
		
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			and your families from the
Hellfire
		
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			because there's a Hellfire
waiting, both in this world and
		
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			the hereafter. The Hellfire of
this world is the difficulties and
		
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			the torment and the mischief and
everything else and in the
		
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			hereafter. It's the real hellfire.
		
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			We want to protect our children
from that. The way to do that is
		
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			to give tarbiyah and Allah
subhanaw taala gives multiple
		
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			examples in the Quran.
		
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			Want to give you the whole
		
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			story of
		
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			look man and allergy Salaam and
his advice to his children as
		
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			well. But what I want to say is
what exactly is tarbiyah tarbiyah
		
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			in Arabic is a word. It's a word
that means to nurture something,
		
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			to bring up something, basically,
from the
		
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			the beginning
		
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			plants, trees and anything else
they require at every level they
		
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			lead and they need certain
		
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			types of intervention and care and
focus. And the carer the therapy a
		
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			person needs to adjust that focus
according to what's required. When
		
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			our children are just born,
there's a certain focus we need to
		
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			end the sleepless nights based on
the crime.
		
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			Then as they grow older, then is
going to school making sure
		
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			everything is done for them when
they get older, then our
		
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			responsibility changes again, and
then when they get old enough,
		
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			then our responsibility is to find
somebody to for them to get
		
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			married to. And then once they've
got married, then we're hoping
		
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			that everything will be fine. And
that does not make us that does
		
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			not bring us more agony and
sleepless nights afterwards. Our
		
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			job never ends with our children.
That's what you call tarbiyah
		
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			tarbiyah. And that's what Allah
does. Allah is the rub. Rub means
		
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			the one who Disturbia that's where
Allah is Rob will Adaline he is
		
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			the one who does tarbiyah which
means nurturing, and training and
		
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			disciplining all the all the
various different universes. Our
		
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			job is just to do tarbiyah of our
children.
		
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			And to look after them step by
step so they don't grow like
		
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			weeds.
		
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			We have to prune and fertilize and
look after our children. If you
		
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			don't look after your your yard,
then what happens, the weeds
		
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			overgrown, and everything becomes
chaotic. And it becomes ugly.
		
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			That's not what we want to do with
our children. So that's 30 year.
		
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			Now this job of tarbiyah are gonna
have explained this in an amazing
		
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			way.
		
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			Or they might have explained
		
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			that
		
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			the Rubia is multiple things put
together what exactly is thermea?
		
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			Are you and I prepared for the
therapy of their children? Are we
		
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			qualified for that?
		
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			Are we qualified for that? For
example, let's just say that your
		
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			child came home from school it's
his second or third day at high
		
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			school first time is going to high
school 11 years old child comes
		
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			home from school and the mother
asks him Did you do the hair in
		
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			school because by the time you
come home Salah will be finished.
		
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			Right? High School guys. Did you
do your hair at school? So this
		
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			kid says no, I didn't. Now you
tell me should you be happy or sad
		
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			with this answer? So let's let's
start with sad how many of you
		
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			would be sad by this answer if
this child said I did not pray my
		
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			daughter at school. Please put
your hand on I really mean that.
		
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			Okay, majority are going to be
sad. Okay, how many of you would
		
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			be happy with the answer?
		
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			Now however la cote La Villa
What's wrong with you guys?
		
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			What about the rest of you? How
come you didn't put your hand up?
		
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			Are you happy? Sad? What are you
You don't know what to think.
		
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			So when I heard it I was very
happy here the child did not say
		
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			no I didn't pray I don't want to
pray why you keep telling me it
		
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			wasn't like this. He was like no,
I didn't pray Why didn't you pray?
		
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			I couldn't find an empty room to
pray
		
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			Subhanallah now imagine he could
have easily come home How old are
		
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			you
		
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			14 You could have easily come home
and said I prayed
		
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			who's going to find out in fact if
you call if the parents call the
		
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			school did my son trade they'll
probably
		
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			report you to prevent
		
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			right so for that child to say the
truth as amazing Why did he tell
		
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			the truth
		
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			because he doesn't pray for his
parents
		
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			he could have prayed even without
will do this a lot of children
		
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			pray without will do as well.
		
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			He could have done anything it
could have just said yes I prayed
		
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			End of story nobody's gonna ask
any more questions. The mother
		
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			said why didn't you pray said I
couldn't find an empty room so
		
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			then she gave him some ideas that
look why don't you find a
		
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			classroom that has a teacher you
know doing work, you know in the
		
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			lunch break and just say Look, I I
would like to just pray here for
		
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			five minutes. He won't bother
anybody I just like hamdulillah
		
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			after that he never had a problem
again.
		
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			Never had a problem again. We have
to work some people are choosing
		
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			Why do you pray you should
		
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			I found the place to pray but have
no ideas. And some people don't
		
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			even care. I've been to one
country where everybody's focused
		
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			majority, not everybody, but
majority are focused on just
		
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			education. And in many of the
smaller towns in that country,
		
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			it's a, it's a Western country.
And I would I believe that many
		
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			children have actually lost their
faith. And you know what, the
		
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			parents don't even know it.
		
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			What do you mean, they don't know
it? In this country I've had in
		
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			the last one and a half years,
I've had at least three or four,
		
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			about three, I think 316 17 year
old girls that are either
		
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			questioning their faith or let
lost their faith through
		
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			through a social media contact
with somebody and they're
		
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			confused. They somehow clearly out
one had become actually a
		
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			Christian. When I started speaking
there, she was telling me about
		
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			the greatness of Christianity.
		
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			These places, they've lost their
faith, but they don't know they
		
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			lost their faith. Why? Because the
parents don't practice much
		
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			anywhere. They go for eat salad,
which is a nice yearly Christmas
		
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			celebration. So we all go there
anyway. In Ramadan, they go for
		
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			Iftar programs, and then they
leave before Tara Lee is the life
		
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			social events. And they there's a
market of prayer that happens, but
		
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			there's no discussion of Allah in
the house. But he I've spoken to
		
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			guys I've spoken to now that 2030
years old, I just talked to
		
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			somebody who is 45 or 50 years old
last week, he said, When I was
		
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			brought up, I didn't know who
Allah was.
		
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			I didn't know who allowed us.
Basically, he was asking me how
		
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			much cover prayer he has to do.
		
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			He said, Because I only understood
what Islam was. I mean, I thought
		
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			I was a Muslim. I had no idea what
it meant to be a Muslim.
		
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			I didn't know who Allah was, none
of that discussion would happen in
		
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			our house. They never went to the
masjid nothing.
		
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			So, we have these kinds of
situations. That's why therapy is
		
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			very, very important. Now what is
therapy
		
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			is to get our children lead to
Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			If we can get our children linked
to Allah subhanaw taala, then our
		
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			job becomes suddenly much more
easier.
		
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			The way to test this is very
simple that are our children doing
		
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			things for us or for Allah is when
we don't tell them to pray. If
		
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			we're not around and they're
alone, or they're somewhere else
		
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			do they pray or not when they lay
too early, but do they pray? If
		
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			they pray still without us telling
them, then that means they pray
		
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			for Allah. Otherwise, they're
praying for us? We need to change
		
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			that.
		
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			Now give you an example. There's a
seven to eight year old girl.
		
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			She has an older brother two years
older than How old are you by?
		
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			Yeah, you're you're 10 So there
was a kid about you? He was nine
		
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			or 10 and he's got a little sister
seven years old. So have you been
		
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			to the opticians yet? Okay. He had
to go to the optician to test his
		
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			eyes. And the optician said you
will need glasses.
		
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			So the sister started making fun
of him. You're gonna get glasses,
		
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			you're gonna get glasses, right?
So imagine so the mum said to the
		
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			sister, your dad wears glasses.
Your mum has glasses. Your older
		
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			brother has glasses. So you're
probably going to have glasses as
		
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			well don't make fun of him.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And then I think she must have
stopped or whatever. Nothing more
		
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			says 10 years later how old is
that girl now 10 years later
		
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			Mashallah. Good maps, right?
What's your name?
		
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			Louder.
		
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			Hottie
		
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			Muhammad Ali Muhammad the guide,
Allahu Akbar, masha Allah,
		
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			definitely be your guide today.
hamdulillah Allah bless you and
		
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			all of every one of these children
Masha Allah. So when she is now
		
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			1718 She has younger brothers as
well. They have glasses as well.
		
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			The father mother, older brother,
younger brothers, they will have
		
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			glasses, and she doesn't have
glasses. La ilaha illa Allah isn't
		
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			she had glasses?
		
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			Because she read she revealed this
later on 10 years later, that mum
		
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			Do you remember when you were
telling me not to make fun of my
		
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			brother? I started making dua to
Allah subhanaw taala that Ya
		
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			Allah, I don't want glasses.
		
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			I don't want glasses. protects me
from glasses for now.
		
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			And she doesn't have glasses.
		
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			question is where did she learn to
connect yourself to Allah and ask
		
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			Allah for this? She must have felt
man, I'm gonna get glasses. What
		
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			do I do? Let me ask Allah who told
her to do that?
		
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			You're right. Nobody told them
that they did a few years before
		
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			they had told her, my shoulder How
old are you? You're fine. What a
		
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			clever kid, Mashallah. He said no
one. Actually, you know, a few
		
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			years before when she was five
years old and four years old, her
		
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			mum and dad used to tell her that
whatever you want, you have to ask
		
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			them why. So she remembered that.
		
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			That's why when she was eight
years old, was seven years old.
		
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			And she wanted something she asked
Allah.
		
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			Now the mother could have told
her, You better make dua to Allah
		
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			but she forgot to tell her. She
said Don't make fun of your
		
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			brother. But because that tarbiyah
was there already, masha Allah,
		
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			now that do our work for her,
imagine her connection to Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala.
		
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			The only way this is going to work
is if we have a connection, we
		
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			can't force our children to think
this way. It has to be organic.
		
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			The children need to see us when
we're in trouble. Allah help us,
		
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			You Allah help us. They need to
see this organically. They need to
		
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			see they need to see our
connection to Allah. We have a
		
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			good food multiple times a week Al
Hamdulillah.
		
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			And every time we have good food,
I should say, Yeah, we have to
		
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			thank Allah, He gives us so much
good food, doesn't it? Right,
		
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			Allah gives us so much good fruit.
All thanks to Allah. Imagine our
		
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			brothers and sisters. In other
places, they don't get even this
		
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			much.
		
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			We're not telling our children to
say anything. But we're just
		
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			teaching that this all comes from
Allah, we should thank Allah, it
		
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			has to be organic teaching.
		
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			The only way we can do that
therapy without children is if we
		
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			become connected to Allah. It's
the only way to do it. I give you
		
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			another quick example. In America,
I used to teach the older children
		
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			and my wife used to teach the
younger children. So what happened
		
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			once is that these new students
came they were 678 years old.
		
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			They've never been to a doctor
before. Never been to a doctor
		
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			before Muslim family. Right?
Muslim background.
		
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			Arab country so they speak Arabic
at home but never. So my wife was
		
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			when they came. My wife was
teaching the class about Allah.
		
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			Allah is the Greatest. He is the
mightiest. He can do whatever he
		
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			wants. Nobody can stand in front
of him. He has the most power. Do
		
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			you know what one of those kids
suddenly shouted up? Power
		
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			Rangers?
		
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			It reminded him of Power Rangers.
Do you know what Power Rangers
		
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			is these guys who think they're
really tough. Okay. So he thought
		
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			they were talking about Power
Rangers.
		
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			They're 67 years old. Imagine it.
If we have if we've not been able
		
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			to teach our children Allahu
Akbar. Literally, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			Allah is the Greatest.
		
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			Compare that to another story is a
family with children who are with
		
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			a child who's about two or three
years old.
		
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			And they go to the beach or Hala
beach and the ocean. Huge amount
		
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			of water. If it wasn't for him or
beach, right? This was in America.
		
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			So he wasn't calling a beach is a
really nice beach in Sri Lanka. If
		
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			you guys ever go, right. Sorry.
		
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			Vacation.
		
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			The location. It was in Santa
Barbara, California, right. Maybe
		
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			you have to go to Sharm el Sheikh,
maybe he's nice there as well.
		
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			So
		
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			this little kid said nobody asked
him anything. He's just looking at
		
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			the ocean, this huge expanse of
water coming in. And he said Allah
		
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			created this. He's in a coach
named Bucha Wasco. Nobody asked
		
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			him anything. He just said it. He
just connected Allah to this
		
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			because from a young age, Allah
Allah greatest was in the house.
		
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			vicar of Allah remembrance of
Allah has to be
		
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			the only way to give tribute to
our children. Connect them to
		
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			Allah, let them become organically
connected to Allah and our job
		
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			will become easier, because Allah
will look after them. They'll be
		
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			they'll be conscious of Allah
subhanaw taala they will be
		
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			conscious of Allah subhanho wa
taala. So the concept of tarbiyah
		
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			in Islam, the concept of tarbiyah
in Islam is multiple things when
		
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			we do in Korea, what are we doing?
There's a greatest reward for
		
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			tarbiyah. Why because tarbiyah
includes so much in it, that would
		
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			be is that we're inviting somebody
to Allah. When you do 30 of our
		
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			children or anybody else, we're
inviting them to Allah so you get
		
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			the reward for that. Well, number
two, it is that leam you're
		
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			educating them. And Taleem Allahu
Akbar. That's the job of the
		
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			prophets, that you are doing the
job of the prophets.
		
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			have educated so you're an
educator, you're an inviter,
		
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			you're an educator. Number three,
it includes Naziha knows, which
		
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			basically means advice. So you're
giving advice tarbiyah includes a
		
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			nurse, which means to give advice.
		
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			It includes earshot, which means
guidance. It includes Amel and
		
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			practice. Because you're going to
have the best therapy you can do
		
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			is to your own action.
		
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			That's the best thing you can do.
And the next point is a good doer.
		
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			You are a role model. As I said,
the best tarbiyah you can do is by
		
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			being the person to follow rather
than just telling them pray or
		
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			whatever the case is, we're gonna
pray inshallah they will pray
		
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			when not only will follow the will
Mustafa tarbiyah you are
		
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			benefiting an individual but by
benefiting an individual you are
		
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			benefiting a whole community, a
whole society. If everybody can do
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:07
			tarbiyah our society will be much
better. This is tarbiyah now I
		
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			have to I have to finish off I'm
gonna really really give
		
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			mashallah, congratulations
Mobarak. To those who have
		
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			mashallah heard this 40 children
here in his class for teachers
		
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			diligently working in the morning?
May Allah subhanaw taala give them
		
00:36:25 --> 00:36:29
			success? May Allah subhanho wa
Taala give Tofik to everybody
		
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			else, as I told you
		
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			aim for the best of both worlds.
You want your child to be a big
		
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			businessman or whatever, no
problem make him a half is of the
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:40
			Quran as well.
		
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			If you think he's got a brain, can
you not do hips of the Quran?
		
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			His brain, the brain is a muscle
it will only make it faster and
		
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			stronger. And if you have
facilities and we should be
		
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			thankful that we have these
facilities locally, otherwise,
		
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			someplace that they just don't
have phone calls from people.
		
00:37:01 --> 00:37:03
			Where can I send my children away?
That's it. You don't have anything
		
00:37:03 --> 00:37:05
			locally? No, we don't have
anything locally.
		
00:37:06 --> 00:37:10
			You have anything locally? Allah
subhanaw taala accepted. Now
		
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			wherever you see a child doing his
hips is not easy. Memorizing the
		
00:37:13 --> 00:37:17
			Quran is not easy. Allah has
promised people who memorize the
		
00:37:17 --> 00:37:21
			Quran, Allah has promised them
about them that they will
		
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			intercede for 10 people on the Day
of Judgment that we will take into
		
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			paradise inshallah.
		
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			Now, how do I increase my chances
of going to paradise? When I see
		
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			HIV students, you encourage them,
		
00:37:36 --> 00:37:38
			the best way to encourage them
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:44
			is give them some money. This is
because you're doing hips, hips is
		
00:37:44 --> 00:37:49
			not easy. Right? Many students
fail unfortunately. So what I
		
00:37:49 --> 00:37:51
			sometimes do is I give them some
money I said this is because
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:54
			you're doing hips I'm hoping that
he's going to remember I'm buying
		
00:37:54 --> 00:37:57
			I'm doing I'm bribing him, that
he'll remember me in the hereafter
		
00:37:57 --> 00:38:00
			and maybe intercede for me so I'll
go region that inshallah with him
		
00:38:01 --> 00:38:03
			because I can't go with my own
actions I'll go with his
		
00:38:03 --> 00:38:07
			intercession inshallah. Right. So
you know, the virtues the Father
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:10
			will be given a special crown
there's so many virtues of some
		
00:38:10 --> 00:38:13
			somebody who memorizes the Quran,
but I've come to you with the
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:16
			proposal that you let them do
Hibbs, and you let them do the
		
00:38:16 --> 00:38:19
			best thing in this world, but with
that, DEEN Inshallah, in their
		
00:38:19 --> 00:38:23
			hearts, they become good citizens,
good humans, and SubhanAllah.
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:26
			Going back to our situation, the
		
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			Subhanallah, humanity is waking
up. Humanity has woken up all of
		
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			these years of
		
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			this deception. Okay, all of these
years of showing
		
00:38:43 --> 00:38:47
			the bad people is the good. And
the good is the bad finally,
		
00:38:47 --> 00:38:47
			people are waking up.
		
00:38:49 --> 00:38:51
			I don't have to take names. I'm
sure you know what I'm talking
		
00:38:51 --> 00:38:54
			about. There are so many more
people who are waking up and
		
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			saying no, this doesn't sound
right anymore. This is not like,
		
00:38:58 --> 00:39:02
			remember, in this world, Allah
says whatever animism, Allah has
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:03
			placed the balance.
		
00:39:04 --> 00:39:07
			The life of the world is very
long. So that's why we think it
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:11
			doesn't happen quick enough. But
the world always resets itself.
		
00:39:11 --> 00:39:16
			Oppression can only last for a
certain number of certain amount
		
00:39:16 --> 00:39:20
			of time. That could be 70 years,
that could be 100 years. But it
		
00:39:20 --> 00:39:23
			can only last it can't last for
hundreds of years.
		
00:39:24 --> 00:39:30
			Because the world resets itself,
it corrects itself. Humans are not
		
00:39:30 --> 00:39:35
			so dead, that humanity is not
completely perished. Humans will
		
00:39:35 --> 00:39:38
			finally wake up and say no, this
is wrong. This is wrong. We have
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:42
			to be those humans who are who
understand who have the balance,
		
00:39:42 --> 00:39:46
			because we have a faith that gives
us the balance and we need to
		
00:39:46 --> 00:39:49
			share this with others. This is a
really good talking point to
		
00:39:49 --> 00:39:53
			discuss this, to educate ourselves
and to discuss so that we can
		
00:39:53 --> 00:39:59
			bring back equilibrium balance,
moderation among humanity. So that
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:05
			oppression and wrongdoing can be
eliminated. May Allah subhanho wa
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:08
			Taala give us the Tofik and may
Allah subhanho wa Taala accept
		
00:40:08 --> 00:40:12
			from the teachers, from the
parents, and of course from the
		
00:40:12 --> 00:40:16
			children and anybody else and
everybody else who facilitates
		
00:40:16 --> 00:40:19
			this, who encourages this, who
contributes to this, who assists
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:24
			this? And may Allah subhanaw taala
also, for everybody else who now
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:28
			has this desire that yes, I want
my child to be a coolness of my
		
00:40:28 --> 00:40:32
			eyes in this world and the
hereafter May Allah subhanaw taala
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:35
			allow our dreams to come true as
well. And just that Allah for your
		
00:40:35 --> 00:40:39
			patience, just like Allahu Allah,
may Allah reward us for spending
		
00:40:39 --> 00:40:43
			this Saturday very valuable Sunday
evening in the masjid and may
		
00:40:43 --> 00:40:45
			Allah bless all of our children
and protect all of our children
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:49
			across the world. And may Allah
bring back dignity and honor to
		
00:40:49 --> 00:40:53
			all of our wrong people working
with that woman. We've Allah Houma
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:58
			yeah Hannah yum and La Ilaha illa
Allah subhana Anika in condemning
		
00:40:58 --> 00:41:03
			authority mean just Allah one
Mohammed Amma Hua Liu Yaga
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:11
			Setagaya Hafiz er salaam yah Latif
del jewellery will Quran, Allah
		
00:41:11 --> 00:41:14
			Houma fildena or Hannah where if
you know what Dina was O'Connor
		
00:41:14 --> 00:41:18
			Allahumma filet o Medici dinner
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:22
			sallam Allahumma Filion Muslimeen
almost imagine what mean you know
		
00:41:22 --> 00:41:27
			a minute here even human M word
Allah whom Allah who may notice a
		
00:41:27 --> 00:41:30
			Luca Tama Mala interfere with the
worm and if you are Shukra eyelid
		
00:41:30 --> 00:41:35
			Alfia Allah homophobia Musa Mina
Allahu my father Jimmy animal
		
00:41:35 --> 00:41:39
			semana mineral Bella you will 30
will Meaghan Allah homage a nibble
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:43
			fava Aisha Muhammad How am I
baton? Allahu Allah Dima Taheebo
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:46
			Tara Dominic Cody will fairly
Willamette even Nia ya Allah Ya
		
00:41:46 --> 00:41:51
			Allah have mercy on us, Ya Allah
except from us, our Allah except
		
00:41:51 --> 00:41:56
			our sitting here today. Oh Allah
except from these five, Oh ALLAH
		
00:41:56 --> 00:41:59
			from these people who have
memorized, Oh ALLAH from their
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:03
			parents of Allah from all their
teachers, from the arrangers and
		
00:42:03 --> 00:42:07
			organizers and the administrators,
Oh ALLAH from everybody, of Allah
		
00:42:07 --> 00:42:11
			allow all of us, all of us to know
more of the Quran of Allah allow
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:15
			us all to become people of the
Quran of Allah elevate us from the
		
00:42:16 --> 00:42:20
			through the Quran. Allah bless us
through the Quran. Oh Allah, Oh
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:24
			Allah honor us through the Quran.
Allah make us readers of the Quran
		
00:42:24 --> 00:42:28
			make us comprehend as of the
Quran, make us defenders of the
		
00:42:28 --> 00:42:33
			Quran of Allah make us recite as
of the Quran. Oh Allah, Oh Allah
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:37
			allow this Quran to illuminate our
way in this world of Allah allow
		
00:42:37 --> 00:42:41
			the Quran to guide us in the
hereafter of Allah allow it to
		
00:42:41 --> 00:42:45
			become a source of difference for
us to enter us into paradise of
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:48
			Allah to enter us into the
pleasure of Allah subhanho wa
		
00:42:48 --> 00:42:52
			Taala Oh Allah make this Quran
easy for us, our Allah Allah this
		
00:42:52 --> 00:42:56
			Quran to remain not just in our
immediate children, but in our
		
00:42:56 --> 00:43:01
			progeny until the day of judgment
of Allah allow us to be those who
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:06
			make the difference and set in
motion. People in our family to
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:10
			become half is of the Quran and
allow this to continue in our
		
00:43:10 --> 00:43:14
			generations until the day of
judgment of Allah. Oh Allah, we
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:18
			ask you forgiveness for all our
delays and our wrongdoings, our
		
00:43:18 --> 00:43:22
			distractions and our heedlessness
of Allah we seek Your protection,
		
00:43:23 --> 00:43:26
			your forgiveness from all the sins
and transgressions we have
		
00:43:26 --> 00:43:31
			committed. Oh Allah, you have
given us abundantly more than so
		
00:43:31 --> 00:43:34
			many others in this world. We
can't thank you enough. Oh Allah,
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:38
			all the wealth that you have
granted us. Oh Allah, the access
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:41
			to the various different
facilities. Oh Allah, the health
		
00:43:41 --> 00:43:45
			facilities, the security
facilities, everything that you
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:48
			have granted us the safety you
have granted us our Allah we are
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:53
			understanding the value of it now.
Oh Allah. Oh Allah forgive us for
		
00:43:53 --> 00:43:57
			our ingratitude, makers of the
shack, Corinne makers of the
		
00:43:57 --> 00:44:01
			Valkyrie in our Allah that Karim
Allah make us of those who
		
00:44:01 --> 00:44:06
			remember you constantly have Allah
forgive us, all our sins that have
		
00:44:06 --> 00:44:10
			brought darkness is in our life,
all of those sins which have
		
00:44:10 --> 00:44:13
			turned families against one
another which has taken the
		
00:44:13 --> 00:44:17
			blessing away from us, our Allah
which has caused calamities to
		
00:44:17 --> 00:44:21
			descend upon us, Oh Allah, we
especially ask you forgiveness for
		
00:44:21 --> 00:44:25
			those sins, which have now become
part of our life and we don't even
		
00:44:25 --> 00:44:29
			think of them being sins anymore.
Oh Allah grant is beneficial
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:32
			knowledge of Allah grant us
closeness and understanding to you
		
00:44:32 --> 00:44:37
			of you. Oh, Allah make us the way
you want us to be. Oh Allah, we
		
00:44:37 --> 00:44:40
			try our best we have we wake up
with a good intention in the
		
00:44:40 --> 00:44:44
			morning, but by the evening we
have failed. Oh Allah we have good
		
00:44:44 --> 00:44:48
			intention in the evening. But by
the morning of Allah we have been
		
00:44:48 --> 00:44:49
			lost. Oh Allah.
		
00:44:50 --> 00:44:54
			Our brothers and sisters in
Palestine and in the USA, and our
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:58
			line all the other places. Oh
Allah remove the indignity from
		
00:44:58 --> 00:44:59
			them. Oh Allah removed
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:04
			Remove remove the subjugation and
the oppression of Allah grant them
		
00:45:04 --> 00:45:07
			their freedom, grant them their
honor, grant them their dignity of
		
00:45:07 --> 00:45:11
			Allah grant them their freedom or
grant them elevation of Allah
		
00:45:11 --> 00:45:16
			grant them their victory. Oh Allah
grant them steadfastness. Oh Allah
		
00:45:16 --> 00:45:20
			those who have died accept them as
much as Oh Allah, those who are
		
00:45:20 --> 00:45:24
			troubled who are injured. Oh Allah
grant them several patients and a
		
00:45:24 --> 00:45:28
			quick recovery. Oh Allah, Oh Allah
assist us to do that which is
		
00:45:28 --> 00:45:33
			correct. Oh Allah assist us to be
productive. Oh Allah, protect us
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:39
			from laziness, procrastination. Oh
Allah protect us from wasting our
		
00:45:39 --> 00:45:43
			time. Oh Allah protects us from
the evils of social media, from
		
00:45:43 --> 00:45:46
			the evils of all of the modern
things that are there. Allow us to
		
00:45:46 --> 00:45:50
			use it further in the right way.
protect us from using it in the
		
00:45:50 --> 00:45:53
			wrong way. Oh Allah protect us
from the mischief of money. Oh
		
00:45:53 --> 00:45:57
			Allah. Oh Allah, protect our
children. Oh Allah elevate the
		
00:45:57 --> 00:45:58
			status
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:03
			of Allah elevate the status of
this Masjid. Oh Allah everybody
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:06
			who prays here, oh Allah allow us
all to enter into the agenda in
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:11
			the hereafter. Oh Allah, Oh Allah
make this a true place of delivery
		
00:46:11 --> 00:46:15
			to paradise. Oh Allah make this a
true place of delivery to
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:19
			paradise. Oh Allah, we ask that
you accept a soul for the service
		
00:46:19 --> 00:46:24
			of your deen of Allah We ask that
all of the desires that we have We
		
00:46:24 --> 00:46:28
			now hold in our hearts and all the
righteous desires, that you allow
		
00:46:28 --> 00:46:31
			them to come to fruition and
completion, that we don't lose
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:34
			these desires. As soon as we go
home. Oh Allah, all of the
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:37
			blessing that has come down right
now in this gathering all of the
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:41
			Rama and mercy that has come down
all of your generosity which has
		
00:46:41 --> 00:46:46
			come down allow us to allow us to
be blessed by this for many many
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:49
			weeks and years to come. Our Allah
do not allow us to lose it allow
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:53
			there to be many, many who falls
in or Allah MA and mathies and
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:57
			Olia O Allah make us all from the
Olia of Allah again, bless all of
		
00:46:57 --> 00:47:01
			those who have made an effort and
guide us all to make an effort and
		
00:47:01 --> 00:47:06
			to be accepted in some way, shape
or form for the for the kidnap of
		
00:47:06 --> 00:47:10
			your dean and grant us company of
your messenger Muhammad sallallahu
		
00:47:10 --> 00:47:13
			alayhi wa sallam and allow the
heifers to ascend, allow the
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:17
			heifers to ascend. And to keep
this Quran and let it illuminate
		
00:47:17 --> 00:47:20
			their life in everything they do,
allow them the best of this world
		
00:47:20 --> 00:47:24
			and the hereafter Suhana Robbie,
gobbler is that Jana, Yossi Fonasa
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:26
			Ramana and Mussolini Orlando.
		
00:47:28 --> 00:47:32
			The point of a lecture is to
encourage people to act to get
		
00:47:32 --> 00:47:37
			further an inspiration and
encouragement, persuasion. The
		
00:47:37 --> 00:47:41
			next step is to actually start
learning seriously to read books
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:44
			to take on a subject of Islam and
to understand all the subjects of
		
00:47:44 --> 00:47:48
			Islam at least at the basic level,
so that we can become more aware
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:52
			of what our deen wants from us.
And that's why we started Rayyan
		
00:47:52 --> 00:47:57
			courses so that you can actually
take organize lectures on demand
		
00:47:57 --> 00:48:00
			whenever you have free time,
especially for example, the
		
00:48:00 --> 00:48:04
			Islamic essentials course that we
have on the Islamic essentials
		
00:48:04 --> 00:48:09
			certificate, which you take 20
Short modules and at the end of
		
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			that inshallah you will have
gotten the basics of most of the
		
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			most important topics in Islam and
you'll feel a lot more confident.
		
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			You don't have to leave lectures
behind you can continue to live,
		
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			you know, to listen to lectures,
but you need to have this more
		
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			sustained study as well just like
a law here in Santa Monica when I
		
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			have to lie over a card