Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Treatise For The Seekers Of Guidance Part 40 Others Have More than Me

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of happiness, satisfaction, and rights and obligations are crucial for one's life, and the use of " Ilahaork" in Arabic is a waste of time and effort. The speaker discusses the importance of finding one's own value and finding balance between wealth and quality, and emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and balance in achieving success. They also mention upcoming courses on Islam and its potential outcomes.
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One person, he says that there was a certain perfume that he was

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really interested in. But it's a very top brand and the minimum the

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cost is 170 pound for a bottle.

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So he didn't have the ability to buy one. Then one day he went into

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somebody's house,

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into the bathroom, and that person had toiletries from that perfume

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company, which must have been worth several 100 pounds sitting

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there as just general toiletries, you know, hand washing, stuff like

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that. But for that person, it was a casual thing, because he was

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another level. So there's levels.

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What level has Allah placed you at? Do Shakur at that level?

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As long as you know, you have to be happy with the level. If you

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pretend simply try to get to another level. That's a problem if

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Allah takes you to another level that's different.

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But otherwise, stay at your level and be satisfied.

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Alhamdulillah he Robben Island mean are salatu salam O Allah so

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you didn't know Mohammed Vida early he was sabe o Baraka was

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seldom at the Sleeman Kathira en la Yomi Dean, a mother and Imam

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Hadith al Maha CV he continues in his reseller he says wylam A nama

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habita Levina

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theory la Helia Abdi Alpha Cara?

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de ser sohoton

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were Mohab battle fuckery ma STR de la he lab de Alina, Jo Ron.

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What Colusa Lika horrible Mina Shoukry Nicola till Madiba, what

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are the only Locati mean? quesadilla ilmi.

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This is quite a profound statement.

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A lot of people struggle with this.

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A lot of people struggle with the idea of

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voluntary poverty

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and anger at not having what others have.

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It's a major dilemma for a lot of people. It keeps them awake at

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night. It keeps them frustrated.

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Because maybe they've not been able to make investments like

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others have been able to, well, they don't have a job that pays

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them as much, or they don't have a husband, that can buy them what

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their friends husbands can buy them.

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And for the other people, it's the other way round, lesser on a

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lesser level, it's the other way around.

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They don't value what Allah has given them.

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So what he says this essentially what He says He says no that love

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for wealth.

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Despite Allah subhanaw taala choosing for his servant poverty

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is anger.

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You he's basically anger with Allah.

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It's forcing yourself to become angry for no reason. That's a hoot

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in Arabic, when he sought the concept of becoming angry the

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sofort when you put it into that verb form, then it becomes more of

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a sense of a forced to anger or pretense of anger or an

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unreasonable anger. And then he says the love of poverty, the love

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of poverty, the love of needy love of being media would say

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fucker is actually means if the car which means the need for

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something that someone else, which Why would you do that? Because you

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think yourself poor. That's why.

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So a faqeer is the one who's needy. That's why they use the

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word faqeer for somebody who is needy for people's help and

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assistance and money and food and so on. But they also use the word

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Fakir for the one who's in need of Allah who has considered himself

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in the path

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to be looked after by Allah subhanaw taala to get close to

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Allah. So essentially, they call Sufis faqeer that they call them

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for killers as well. And you wonder why? It's because what it

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really means in its essence is need.

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Need, that's really what it is.

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Now Ilaha illa Allah, so the love of being MIDI, obviously not to

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Allah, that's not what he's speaking because that's

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recommended because we are in need of Allah, we can't escape that.

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Even though Allah subhanaw taala has chosen for that seven,

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enrichment and wealth and abundance, then that's oppression.

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He calls that oppression. And he said, all of this really is away

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from the middle part. Because both of these are not the middle part.

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They both extremes, what the middle path would be, and he says

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each of these things is either running away from sugar for

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thankfulness, gratitude for what Allah has given you.

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little little Meriva because you just don't know enough of why and

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what's the purpose behind these things and the benefits behind

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these things.

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And he says, it also leads to wasting your time.

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Because you're wasting your time in the redundant if that's what

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Allah has chosen for you accept it and take it and fulfill the rights

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of that position that Allah has given you. Otherwise, you're

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wasting your time and trying to do the opposite, to get to the

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opposite.

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Now, you're obviously as you know, there's a lot of wasting of time

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to try to make more money, or to try to get more, there's no doubt

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about that, that that does take a long time. But Allah has given us

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the stream that we have that we're on. To get more than that, you're

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going to have to make more effort, that's a waste of time and you're

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not doing maybe there's going to be negligence, generally, there's

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going to be negligence, where very few people are able to make a lot

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of money, if it's not just coming easily, without sacrificing a

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number of other things.

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Because it's all require sacrifice, people don't become

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wealthy just like that. Most people don't. And likewise, the

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other way around, which is a bit more complicated. If you already

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have a lot a lot than to try to have nothing. Why would you do

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that there's a way to there's a way to deal with that is an easier

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way to deal with that. So he says all of that is a wasting of your

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time due to just having a deficiency in knowledge. What is

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this, this principle that he's laying out this advice that he's

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giving? What's the background to it, some of it is clear to

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understand some of it is a bit more complicated, because I think

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many of us, I think, as I said, the majority of people are trying

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to become wealthier than they are.

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And they think they're needing What does need mean, what does

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poverty mean? That's relative.

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There's people who have very, very, very little, and they think

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they're fine. And there's people who have a little and they they

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are poor. And they need because they have to keep going to ask

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them, they're constantly worried about what's going to happen

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tomorrow, and whether you're going to be able to feed their family.

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And there's other people who have a lot and they have abundant more

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than anybody else. And they still think they are in need. And they

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still think they have to because they're competing with somebody

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else. So whenever it's an unhealthy form of need at whatever

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level you are, that's what he refers to. That's why I believe

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that it's rough depends on the person and their culture, and what

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they have.

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If you're used to a certain, and it's easy for you to have that

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standard of living, which may be a lot higher than somebody else. But

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that's just normal for your your family, you don't do any extra

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effort for that, that's what you do,

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then SR for you will be beyond that. But this would be extra for

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somebody else, who's much at a lower level. The simplest way to

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understand that is

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an example that once we were in Hajj in the European tents, you

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know, the European American tents in Mina, which is of a decent

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standard, even there, you get a few different classes, you know,

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you get some without the ACS and some with the ACS and some that

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are slightly smaller, better, more plush sleeping facilities and

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others that just have a little rug on the floor, and you have to take

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your own sleeping bag, and you do get that difference. So once what

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happens is, as you probably know that there's always those people

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that then sneak in, or however they get in, and they then sleep

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on the streets outside the tents, and they put up rough shelters or

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they just put a sheet on the floor and they stay there. They

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generally from other countries, they generally not. They don't

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have permits to come for Hajj. So what happens is that the people in

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the tent from primarily from the UK, and maybe some Americans or

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whatever, they start to feel really angry that why are the

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Saudi government doing this to these people? Why are they leaving

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them on the street for

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so is a lot of frustration? And rightly so but maybe misplaced

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completely? You know, the emotion was right, maybe. But I said,

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look, the thing is that they're not supposed to be there. You

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know, they have a system of accommodating this many pilgrims

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and each area has their own according to the standard in those

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areas. I mean,

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according to their country, and according to an each country has

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probably, you know, highest standard tents and lowest and the

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tendency is what you pay for you get.

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So they they're not really supposed to be here. They come in

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here and then in a day or two on the second day or third day, it'll

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make it a market. You know, they're selling everything and

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they come here for a reason. And they've chosen to do this because

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they can

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they can deal with this. We couldn't see out there. I said you

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guys could not sleep out there. Like you could not do a hedge like

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that. That's why you've paid for this. There's other people who

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could not even do your hedge. That's where they've paid to be

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next to the gym rat in absolute five star tents, where they have

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food running the whole day and ice cream available whenever you want

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and so on and so

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fourth, that's not what you've chosen that would have cost you

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like three or 4000 pounds more. But you've chosen this, and

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they've chosen that.

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So that's not as rough.

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That's not as rough. The other story that I think I may have

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mentioned to you before when I was studying in southern poor,

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that's in up. And Jerry people they are poorer than they are in

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Gujarat because Gujarat state has a lot of people outside. So they

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tend to be a bit wealthier. But there was some Gujarati students

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there. I was from England, and I was there with my wife and child

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living in a house outside and not in the madrasa. But when they had

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to do a bit of shopping

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after class, and then we had to go somewhere. So I took this student

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along with me he was not a up student or from Bengal or Bihar,

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or one of the poorest states. He was actually from Gujarat. Okay.

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But he didn't come from a very wealthy background either.

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So quickly what we did I went into a shop and I spent 200 rupees 200

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rupees and very quickly just bought like a few things that I

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needed for the house because I had a family with me. 200 rupees is

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about just two pounds something but $3.02 pounds something it's

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not much money, right?

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That was kind of my two three days shopping.

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And I came back and then we went wherever we needed to go and then

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after the next day in class, he says, You did so much ethnicity

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Fazal hijiki.

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Like you

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how do you say that in English, you squandered so much money

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yesterday, you know, squandered so much money. It's like extra for

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tab zero. You know?

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I didn't realize that what he's saying like, What do you mean?

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You go to England, I mean, you can you spend, can you go into any

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shopping spend just to partner like any supermarket? You know?

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It's like impossible, right? Okay, we are talking about 20 years ago,

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but still.

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So you see where he was coming from, he got a monthly stipend

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from the madrasa of 40 rupees.

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And in 10, in five minutes, I had spent five months of his salary,

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his stipend. So for him that was like,

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you know, it's like, somebody takes you to a really posh

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restaurant, and they spend, I don't know, 1000 pounds there. In

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one meal, like, are you crazy? You know, we just about spending

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40 50% If you're lucky, you know. And this is like he spends several

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100 pounds, is that kind of crazy. So it's the everybody looks at it

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from their perspective. And if what you're doing is just normal

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for you, not pretenses, not over the top, not arrogant not for

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show, then that's your level.

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One person, he says that there was a certain perfume that he was

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really interested in. But it's a very top brand and the minimum

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because he's 170 pounds for a bottle.

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So he didn't have the ability to buy one. Then one day he went into

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somebody's house

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into the bathroom, and that person had toiletries from that perfume

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company, which must have been worth several 100 pounds sitting

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there as just general toiletries, you know, hand washing, stuff like

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that. But for that person, it was a casual thing, because he was

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another level. So there's levels.

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What level is Allah placed you at? Do Shakur at that level?

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As long as you know, you have to be happy with the level. If you

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pretend simply try to get to another level. That's a problem if

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Allah takes you to another level that's different.

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But otherwise, stay at your level and be satisfied.

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That's what he's saying. He's saying with Artica and Eman al

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honey EULA Usili who who alphacom Because at the end of the day,

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it's the faith we have to get by in the world but then it's the

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faith that counts for the purpose of the Hereafter for the ultimate

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life. And he says with Erica Eman oh honey yella Usili who will

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fucker what Emmanuel 40 Rila Usili hoo hoo Alina

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Camacho I feel hungry and Allah Hytera hole in them in arriba the

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man la Usili who Imana who inland Fokker

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Wello an A to hula of Sega who Dalek we're in the mean Eva de

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Manila Usili. Who who Imana in la marina. Well, of course, to who

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the sender who Dalek? Well, that really hits it on the head. He

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says because

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ultimately, the asset of value that we need to be concerned about

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is our faith and developing that faith and maintaining and

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preserving that faith, augmenting, enhancing, strengthening that

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faith. So he says that the faith of a wealthy one.

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Poverty can never reform that person's faith and

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Be very hard,

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it will be very hard for that person to be reformed by poverty.

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And the faith of poor person cannot be reformed by

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cannot be reformed by wealth or substance.

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And then he quotes a hadith,

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a hadith Bootsy. He says the Hadith could see so Allah subhanho

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wa Taala says that among my servants are those

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whose Iman can only be enhanced and made better by poverty.

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I know that Allah is saying that that is what's good for the Iman.

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And if I had enriched them, it would corrupt them.

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They'd be corrupted

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by wealth, there's a lot of people who have been corrupted by wealth.

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I mean, you must have seen it. There's a lot of people who've

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been corrupted by what they were fine when they were getting

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getting by. And when they had too much, they just changed their

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character and he messed up everything their behavior,

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conduct, Outlook. And he says there's some of my servants whose

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Eman can only be reformed by

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the by Xena by independence, by wealth, and if I was to

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force them into need that would corrupt them.

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Essentially, this is almost like saying the radar will cover.

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Ultimately, that's what it is right to be satisfied with Allah's

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decree about you. This doesn't mean that if you are genuinely

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struggling that you don't make an effort, the effort is there. But

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effort for what that's that's the thing. Everybody makes an effort,

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the wealthy make an effort, the poor make an effort, but what are

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we making an effort for? We made an effort to be satisfied. But

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then what satisfaction? That's the question. And how does one gain a

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satisfaction for a balanced satisfaction, because some people

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are not satisfied with abundance, and some people are satisfied with

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less? Well, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave us many ways of doing

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that. And he said, don't look at people above you in wealth,

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because then that is what you will be encouraged to do.

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And others are saying don't be

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low. In fact, look at the people below you so you can actually have

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thanks.

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It's a dilemma. It's a dilemma. The world is a dilemma. The world

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is a fitna the world is

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it's an it's unnecessary, it's a place to be in because that's

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where we are. And that's where the value is to be able to prepare our

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hereafter but otherwise difficult.

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So let's just say you've got a house and you're trying to now

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decorate your house. And you want because you want to do some other

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work, which is more important for you, you just want to decorate it

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to a decent level and then carry on. So you talk to somebody you

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see other places and somebody gives you an idea now don't get

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that paint, do it a very specific color dewar. So do a would you

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call it the the one wall needs to be special? Would you call that a

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feature wall? And for that, oh, this special wallpapers and

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finishes and, and all of that you can do for there? Like why? Why

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would you do that just need just basic decent white paint and get

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on with it. So now that's where you're going to be bringing your

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guests so you know it's something you do once and for all the last

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few 10 years you know you're not going to do it every two years or

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whatever some people do actually do. I do did know somebody who

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used to decorate their front room and middle row maybe as well.

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Every two three years on an effort Subhanallah that's like literally

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I live to be here you know Subhanallah

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it's a it's a crazy one. So this made the person quite confused

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because just wants to get it over and done where they made it

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confused. said should we do that then then discussed with his wife

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and said no, no, no, no, this so says we've got a feature wall

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already. It's going to be the books. The key tabs, they're going

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to be the feature. That's the future for us finish. You just

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need white paint.

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Henry there's no end to this otherwise and it's not haram that

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you decorate it. It's not haram either. This is what's your

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priority. What do you want to do?

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You just want something function functionable and decent.

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That's where it gets confusing. That's where it gets confusing

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because it dunya will provide to you mashallah, it lays down you

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know everything behind the theory. The dunya will lay down all of his

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glamorous all of his adornments and there is no end to it of what

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you can get.

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For from you know, intricate decorations to intricate finishes

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of, you know everything. It's just you can do it.

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Yes, you don't want to get the cheapest

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That's another dilemma. You can't get the cheapest because you're

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going to be fixing it again soon. So you can't get that either. So

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then it requires you to make an effort to find the right balance,

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the right quality at the right price and the right standard. And

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it's difficult, it's confusing.

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Some people enjoy this.

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They thrive on it. Allah make it easy. I guess it depends on what

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your goal is in it.

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If that is your goal, that's your showpiece of your life. I worked

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hard and this is my showpiece. Now, let me invite you into my

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showpiece. It's not just a place of temporary stay, but it's a

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showpiece that I need to show you this is my accomplishment.

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A lot of get people get caught up in that May Allah protect us

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there's a there's a there's a temptation that's difficult. So

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this hadith

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is related this hadith al kotse that we just read Hadith al Kotze

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it's related from an asymptomatic or the Allahu Anhu that

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La ilaha illallah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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related from Jibreel allihies Salah who related from ALLAH

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SubhanA wa Tada that meant 100 D When Ian forgot the bars and he

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will Mahara.

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So, that's the beginning of the Hadith that I just mentioned

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earlier, that whoever

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humiliates

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disgraces thinks lightly and looks down upon a friend of mine, then

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he's essentially call for a war with me is declared a war with me.

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And then it carries on it sir, is related by Abu yalla bizarre, the

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Barani and ignobly dunya. In Kitab, Al Olia, the vocal Kitab

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Alia. So this is what a person should think this hadith tells us

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that what a person should think, which is that if Allah has

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dealt recently with a person who has a

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very advanced position, in a particular field of research, like

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cutting edge, extremely important research.

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That is a really important, it's a really important aspect of human

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life and research. And he's made a lot of money in that. But he's

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become religious, and turned to Allah subhanaw taala. And now, I

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think it's the shaytaan, who came to him and said, You need to give

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all of this up, go on retreat somewhere. And

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and

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I spoke to him I had him speak to another big shake, and ended up

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that we both said to him, that you're, it's a mistake what you're

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making, because you may feel fine about it for a few months

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afterwards, and then you start missing it, because you're not

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used to that. And what we want you to do is, so until now you're in

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full dunya your your whole pursuit was the dunya. And now mashallah,

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you've got the consciousness, and the conscience of Allah subhanaw

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taala. So you want to make it full Dean. But you can't really escape

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the dunya you just have to make sure it's not in your heart. And

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what you have is an asset that you can help a lot of people with,

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both in terms of influence of position and the expertise and the

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money, you know, that there's a lot that you can do. So what we

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need you to do, and this is what the accomplishment is that you

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marry the two together. So you carry on, but then you are making

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sure that you maintain your faith, enhance your faith, make up your

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cover prayers, etc, etc. And make sure that you are able to achieve

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both.

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So now what happens is that

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when you start doing it, because you don't know how to do that,

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there's a lot of people who don't need know how to balance the deen

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and duniya

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the faith and the world. They've been so much interval they just

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don't understand they think that Allah ma don't have any fun or

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righteous people don't have any dunya at all. Because why? Why do

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they think that because generally, a lot of the time when we

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mentioned the stories of the righteous ones we mentioned, the

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rather extreme stories, the perf stories of absolute perfection,

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where people like Imam was already saying you should have nothing,

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you know, the absolute Zoid stories. And that's they are

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they're valid stories and they're good stories, but they're not easy

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for everyone to attain not not straight away anyway. So they they

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miss understand where they're supposed to go with this. So what

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happens then with such people is that they go either back too much

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into the dunya because they don't know the balance or they go. I

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mean, there's probably less too much to the dean because the dunya

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pulls further. So you have to help them balance themselves to get

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both rights.

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And that's important.

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Then their work will become their dunya will become Dean, when

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they're doing that for the right reason. That will become a source

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of

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reward for them as well because you just have to change the

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intention now. So why give something like that up?

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May Allah make it easy for people to move over? Otherwise a lot of

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people think that there's no fun and enjoyment in the deen. It's

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dry and there's nothing what Catholica facility was second. The

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next point he makes is what cathodic of his sanity was

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Secondly, from an out of Allah Allah Miata him who woman for Hema

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and Allah, he wrote the Ebihara E, while hola Mia Coonley earlier

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enemy ILAHA The hill is like a fat tomb. Rob Booker, Yeah, hello,

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coma Yasha way after Mark and Allahumma Fira.

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He says the same dilemma people have with regards to say,

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regards to good health and bad health.

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When you in bad health and you want good health, of course you

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want good health.

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And you should want good health. I mean, you can have good health but

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of course you can also decide with Allah subhanaw taala that I'll

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leave it to you.

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And likewise, if you have saved her, why would somebody wants to

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come? I'm not sure. So but he says that whoever knows Allah, the main

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purpose is that when you know Allah, the whole purpose of all of

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this is that once you know Allah subhanho wa Taala and that He

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cares for you, especially if you're doing the right thing, and

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it's not going to be a punishment. As long as you you're making an

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effort and you love Allah, then Allah will love you, then Allah

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loves you anyway. So the main thing is that whoever recognize

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Allah subhanaw taala will not be suspicious of Allah will not

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accuse Allah will not have bad ideas about Allah subhanaw taala.

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Right. And whoever then understands this from Allah,

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Whoever understands Allah has wisdom, and Allah subhanaw taala

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is decree gets an understanding of it gives himself up around the

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cover he he will be satisfied satisfied with Allah's decree, and

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then they will make the most of the situation they're in. That's

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why he says that for the people of knowledge, if they can, if they

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just had one verse, that would be sufficient. This one verse just

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gives them everything for the people of knowledge, those who

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have an understanding of how, who need an understanding of how

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things work within the divine realm. And the verse is, your Lord

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creates what he wishes and chooses what he wishes. Your Lord chooses

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and create as and what he wishes, they have absolutely no option.

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It's Allah's choice. So go with that choice.

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Allah subhanho wa taala. Grant us a balance. May Allah grant us a

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balance may Allah grant us satisfaction with what we have.

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And when the when the dunya does come to us.

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If it's good for us, Allah allow us to accept it in the best of

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ways, and if it's not good for us, then Allah do not indulge us in it

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do not allow us to become engrossed in it. And in the

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pursuit of it.

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Utility utility is important. Utility is important when you do

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something for its benefit, but you better have your idea of benefit,

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right? All of these things are subjective, that's what I want you

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doing because it's useful, like what do you mean by useful how

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useful it is, is it and a way to find out if we're going wrong or

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if we if we're thinking it's too if we're, if our idea of what's

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useful and beneficial is a bit beyond what it should be, then we

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ask others as two or three people and you will get the right kind of

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idea from them as to where the balance is. Find people that you

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respect for their moderation. Find people that you respect for the

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balance and ask them what do you think in this situation?

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And that's how you'll get it right. These are practical

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considerations because subjectivity is a really big

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dilemma for a lot of people. People think haram things that

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correct for them are justified for them because of a subjective way

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of thinking about them. So we can't rely on ourselves many of

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the time we have to ask others

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and I think that's how we will get a balance may Allah grant us a

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balance. Well, he did that run and Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen

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Allahu mantis.

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Anybody Quran? Allah Who are you pay your medical stuff? He's,

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yeah, Hannah and Yamuna and Illa illa Anta Subhanak in Konami.

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Novare mean? Jamar I didn't do the welcome caramel acromion were

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higher on Miss Ali were higher on Martine, where they'll generally

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well a Quran just Allah horn, Muhammad,

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Allah, my feeling our Hamner, Allah Who filled on our hands or

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if you know how to you know what

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Allah

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On my failure on medicine in medicine Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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law home Nathaniel Muslim you know and a Muslim out on what many you

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know,

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even human and what Allah homophily Mota and Muslim you know

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let the inertia he do and it could be any homage to Allah, Allah

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Hungerford Luna when he when he Dina Ali Masha if you know when he

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asserted that you know what the hola Denali as well as you know

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when he when you know where they are how about you know when you to

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Lavina whether you call him in Lahore Hakuna Lena when you call

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him and also on Dora Allahumma home home where I see him Where f1

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Home

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yeah Allah we ask you for your special mercies we ask you for

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your love your Allah we ask you for your benevolence we ask you

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for your generosity we ask you for your SN here Allah here Allah we

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ask you you are hamre he mean we asked you for your Rama and your

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forgiveness your mafia. Forgive us our sins, Oh Allah, especially

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those that we have forgotten. Oh Allah, we ask you forgiveness for

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those sins that create darkness is in our in, in our in US of Allah

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that bring about darkness is in our homes that bring about fitna

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and

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and this and discord within ourselves. Oh Allah forgive us our

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sins that have taken the blessings away of ALLAH forgive our sins

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that have become entrenched in us and we don't even consider them

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sins anymore. Yeah, Allah, enlighten us, illuminate our path

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guide us right grab us by the forelocks and put us on the path

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of paradise. put us on the path of your satisfaction. Oh Allah.

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Make your obedience Beloved to us and make your disobedience hated

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in our hearts. Oh Allah bless all of the scholars that we benefit

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from their books who we read that guide us, Allah send Your abundant

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blessings on our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam bless all of our mache all of our shakes all of our teachers

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up to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, allow us to be

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with them in their company in the hereafter allow us to follow the

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best of their lifestyles in this world the best of their

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approaches. So Allah allow us to remember you the way they used to

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remember you. Allow us to thank you the way they had thankfulness

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for you. Oh Allah grant us the satisfaction that you granted them

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of Allah grant us the Hello that you had granted them. Oh Allah

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grant us the own CEO and the congeniality and the harmony that

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you had granting them, Oh Allah grant us the balance that you had

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granted them. Oh Allah bless us and grant us beneficial knowledge

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of Allah and righteous actions and satisfaction with your decree

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contentment with what you have given us. And Allah you have given

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us abundantly more than so many others in this world of Allah all

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that is required from us is to thank you, but our Allah we have

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shortcomings in our things. So Allah forgive us our

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transgressions, our shortcomings, or our weaknesses, our

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inabilities, our in capacities are Allah we ask that you make us

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complete beings the way you would like us to be oh Allah make us

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like the way you would like us to be. Oh Allah put us on the path of

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your messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Make every

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sunnah have his every aspect of his beloved in our hearts and

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facilitate for that to become part of our life. And our Allah allow

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us to become true Muhammad, these two representatives of Allah both

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for the benefit of the Day of Judgment, so that he can recognize

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us and he doesn't turn his face away from us. And for people to

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understand who Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam was truly was in

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this world of Allah, there is no other way they will find out who

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the Prophet said Allah was unless they except with what we can

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display on ourselves in the behavior that we can

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show them how Allah make this easy for us. Oh Allah make this easy

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for us. Oh Allah bless us and protect us from all the evil

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witches out there all the temptations and the difficulties

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which is out there fulfill our permissible needs. Make it easy

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for us and allow allow our our perspective is to be in balance

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with your with what you are pleased with our law protects us

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from extremes protect us with the wrong form of subjectivities of

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Allah grant us, grant us a blessing in everything that you do

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for us and accept us for the service of your dean, except us

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for the service of your dean Subhanallah decarbonize that

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yamnaya Say phone was salam ala l Mursaleen. Al Hamdulillah, he

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opened

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the point of a lecture is to encourage people to act to get

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further an inspiration and encouragement, persuasion. The

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next step is to actually start learning seriously to read books

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to take on a subject of Islam and to understand all the subjects of

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Islam at least at the basic level. So

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so that we can become more aware of what our Dean wants from us.

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And that's why we started Rayyan courses so that you can actually

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take organize lectures on demand whenever you have free time,

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especially, for example, the Islamic essentials course that we

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have on the Islamic essentials certificate which you take 20

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Short modules, and at the end of that inshallah you will have

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gotten the basics of most of the most important topics in Islam and

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you'll feel a lot more confident. You don't have to leave lectures

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behind you can continue to live, you know, to listen to lectures,

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but you need to have this more sustained steady as well as aka la

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harem Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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