Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Remembrance of Death

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The transcript describes a conversation between multiple speakers discussing the meaning of "be" and its use in Arabic language. They discuss various examples such as "be" being used to describe a situation, "be" being used to describe a situation, "be" being used to describe a situation, and "be" being used to describe a situation. They emphasize the importance of surrounding one's life with kn Transport and not just buying new phones. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of dealing with difficult situations and the importance of finding a way to settle for them.

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			Alhamdulillah Robinair Alameen wa
Salatu was Salam ala say you
		
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			didn't know Selena when he was
asked me he odaka was seldom at
		
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			the Sleeman Kathira and you know
yo MIDI in America called Allah
		
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			Who terracotta Allah Al Quran in
Nigeria will for climbing Hamid
		
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			when in a blue when the commission
in mineral health you will jewelry
		
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			when oxy mineral unworthy well
unfussy when oxy mineral Amelie
		
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			will unfussy with some Marathi or
machinery sabihin Alladhina either
		
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			Asaba to masiva Callooh in La La
he were in LA he Raji Arun, Willa
		
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			eagerly him Salah to me Robbie
Moraga, but hula eco home of doing
		
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			so the colonial theme Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			a crew Vicara the middle of that
		
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			increase
		
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			the remembrance of the destroyer
of all pleasures.
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala says in
the Quran what we read earlier
		
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			will enable wonder, we will surely
		
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			test you.
		
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			Noble one, we will surely test you
		
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			be che in mental health with just
a small amount of health of fear.
		
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			We shade in mental health. While
jus and some hunger, some hunger
		
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			when accessing mental, mental and
work or is it when asked him
		
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			and while he will unfussy with
some rats and with a decrease
		
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			mark these words very well as well
were knocks in Noxon means to
		
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			decrease when actually means
		
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			a decrease in your wealth.
		
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			In your lives, you lose some lives
here and their loved ones, etc.
		
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			And some crops
		
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			if you're essentially farming
talks about sustenance,
		
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			but Well, Bashir is sobbing, but
give glad tidings to those who
		
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			make supper. Now, the way this
sentence is constructed, the words
		
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			that I use the expression that has
been chosen, if a person ponders
		
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			over this, they'll understand
through this the reality of the
		
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			world and then our task in this
world. First and foremost, Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala says, while an
evolution can we will surely
		
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			assuredly with certainty, most
definitely test you. So it's going
		
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			to come a test is going to come.
		
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			Now, if Allah subhanaw taala is
saying that for sure, I'm going to
		
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			do that, then immediately from our
mind, what they should do is they
		
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			should eliminate any idea that we
will have, that we could go
		
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			through this world without having
a single problem. So almost
		
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			acknowledge and recognize and
accept that we are going to have
		
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			problems. When you know you're
going to have problems in your
		
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			business, in your life or in
anything, then what do you do if
		
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			you know you're gonna have
problems?
		
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			You know, you're gonna have
problems underway. We then try to
		
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			humans, what do we do? We then try
to make plans for that.
		
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			Contingency plans. We try to seek
protection, we try to seek the
		
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			best way to deal with those plans.
If you don't know you're going to
		
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			have a problem and you're caught
out cold and you have no idea then
		
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			you're like more like a lame duck.
But if you do No, then you know
		
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			how to deal with it in that
situation, you've taken the tools.
		
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			So understand this fully believe
it our belief is in the Quran,
		
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			that Allah will definitely test
us. Now how much is he going to
		
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			test us? That's for that we look
at the next part well now blowgun
		
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			can be che in Allah subhanaw taala
uses two words here be che in and
		
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			then he says be Noxon, be che him
with a small amount shape B and
		
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			with some amount of health, of
fear.
		
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			And some amount of jus, what does
that mean? Hunger.
		
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			Now, the wording that's used here,
the expression that's used here
		
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			gives us an understanding that
it's not going to be fear or
		
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			hunger, that we cannot stand at
all.
		
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			It is something that is only a
small amount of what could he
		
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			could have given us. It's only a
small amount, because it's not to
		
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			kill people with it's to benefit
them by is to show them the
		
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			reality to remind them of the
reality of this world that this is
		
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			what it's going to be. So I'm
surely going to test you. So let's
		
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			acknowledge that and be willing to
accept and accept that and be
		
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			willing to then deal with it. And
then he says he hasn't given us
		
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			how to deal with it yet. He just
tells us a reality that this is
		
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			going to happen. And if you don't
believe it, look at the people of
		
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			the past. And if nothing has
happened to you until now, just
		
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			wait for it to happen to you. And
then it's only going to be a bit
		
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			of hope, a bit of jus compared to
what it could have been. So when
		
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			we do have it when you do have a
problem, then we can then realize
		
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			that it could have been much
		
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			worse, it's only this much.
		
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			And then B knocks him in baby
knocks him mineral mineral I'm
		
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			worthy well unfussy with
Thammarat. And then with a
		
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			decrease, not an elimination,
		
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			insane elimination. Don't say
totally, we'll just take it away
		
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			from you completely. But there'll
be a decrease be knucks. Noxon
		
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			means na casa, it means to just,
just just decrease of your wealth
		
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			of your,
		
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			of your lives. And because Allah
subhanaw taala always gives you
		
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			something now, if you were to lose
a lost loved one, and you know the
		
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			pain, you feel immediately at that
loss. And for about 234 days after
		
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			it, don't we notice that it
actually gets easier afterwards,
		
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			if our memories were to remain the
same, right? It's very ingenuous,
		
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			the way our memories work.
		
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			If they were to remain the same as
the day that a person that we lost
		
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			somebody that a person died. And
you were to think of it in the
		
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			same way, a year afterwards, a
five year afterwards, can you
		
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			imagine how difficult that would
be? How many miseries would pile
		
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			up? How many difficulties would
pile up, if there would be so
		
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			fresh, you're so it's so fresh,
that you've lost something and you
		
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			feel so bad about it. And if that
same feeling was there after a
		
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			year, and you lost something else
as well, and then two months
		
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			later, you lost? That would be
three major burdens on our mind.
		
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			We couldn't function. So Allah
subhanho wa Taala has made
		
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			everything just so beautifully.
And then so these things, they
		
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			will just decrease mean oxen
		
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			and also be Noxon, a decrease, how
much is that decrease for how long
		
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			is that decrease? Nothing has been
made definite. It just depends on
		
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			the context. So Allah subhanaw
taala uses the natira here should
		
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			always look at the beautiful usage
of the word nukkad. Arabic is a
		
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			wonderful language, just by the
fact that he's used the word in
		
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			this non particularized way. And
it's Nuxe him not been Naxi they
		
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			say okay, what is this decrease
they're looking for? This has been
		
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			x in his general, it's so
versatile is so fluid, it can work
		
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			in different situations.
		
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			Now the solution hasn't been given
to us. What we must do with this
		
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			hasn't been given to us. Yes. Now
Allah subhanaw taala gives us the
		
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			solution and look in such a
beautiful way he tells us how to
		
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			deal with it.
		
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			Instead of saying, if this happens
to you, now you must do this. And
		
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			the reward for this is this.
That's not the way the court if
		
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			you look at the way the Quran
works, this is the beauty of the
		
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			language of the Quran. It's a
genre of writing and composition,
		
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			which is beyond any other genre of
writing, and you have to
		
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			appreciate and understand it. So
Allah subhanaw taala takes a jump
		
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			from there, and instead of saying,
so if any of these things happen
		
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			to you, then you must do this. And
then you will feel like this, he
		
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			just says, well, Bashir is slavery
and straight, and give glad
		
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			tidings to the ones who are
patient. Now anybody with any
		
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			sense reading this, they're gonna
understand that all of this
		
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			requires summer, I must do summer.
And if I do summer, then Allah is
		
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			good, glad giving Glad Tidings to
this. So all of the irrelevant
		
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			part, which we're supposed to just
think about, which the writer
		
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			doesn't have to write, that's what
he talked about eloquence in
		
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			writing. But that's why the Quran
has to be understood for us to
		
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			benefit from it. Because this is
the kind of filling in of the
		
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			gaps, and everybody's gap is going
to be different here. Because
		
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			everybody's difficulty is
different. Everybody's challenge
		
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			and test is going to be different.
But what we're told to do, or all
		
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			people are told to do is, as Allah
says, give glad tidings to the
		
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			people give glad tidings to those
who have patients now, we don't
		
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			have to go and give credit
happenings to anybody. This is a
		
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			glad setting for us in this
situation, whereby she was
		
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			sobbing, like given the gluttonous
class is done, it's a done deal.
		
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			Then he spends a lot of time now,
as long as he spent on telling us
		
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			what the problems might be, Allah
subhanaw taala spends telling us
		
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			because this is a very important
part, because somebody has to be
		
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			understood. And when you
understand somebody, no problem in
		
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			this world becomes it becomes much
easier, most problems you will
		
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			deal with very easily. Only when
you get really difficult problems
		
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			will you have to exercise a bit
more push in your mind and you
		
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			know, Tawakkol and Iman, but
again, it's easy to surmount, you
		
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			will we will not be thrown out by
small small issues that come our
		
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			way.
		
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			While Bashir disobedience give
glad tidings to the ones who makes
		
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			over
		
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			a Latina now why Allah subhanaw
taala generally doesn't waste his
		
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			words at all. But in this case, he
seems to be really speaking about
		
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			in detail, a Latina either a saga
to masiva those who when a
		
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			calamity reaches them,
		
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			call Lou they say now he's telling
us what to do in LA he were in LA
		
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			Raggio in that Allah who are in LA
urogen We are for Allah and to Him
		
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			we will return this is the dua
when we read when we lose some
		
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			thing when something bad happens
is just to remind us that just as
		
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			this thing faded, this thing
broke. This thing disappeared. It
		
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			didn't happen, something bad
happened. Likewise, our own self.
		
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			We're going to also recede from
this world. So these are just
		
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			examples that if the phone breaks,
that's just an example of what's
		
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			going to happen to us is to remind
us Alladhina either Asaba, Tomas
		
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			Eva Catarina lillahi, wa inna la
Raj, Arun, we are all possessed by
		
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			Allah we are all for Allah we all
belong to Allah. and to Him we
		
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			will definitely return in a
urology room. Willa Iike Ali him
		
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			now Allah subhanaw taala really
wants to emphasize the benefits of
		
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			Sobor Willa Iike Allah him Salah
to me, Robbie him Rama. So then he
		
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			carries on he says, These are the
people upon them is the Salawat
		
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			and Rama. Something that we send
to the prophets of Allah, we ask
		
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			Allah to send to the president
Salam, Allah is saying, I will
		
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			send this to the people who are
patient, these are the people whom
		
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			upon them will be Salah tune
again, the usage of the word
		
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			Salawat is not what I call la
hemos Salah at one salats the
		
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			salah know what I got to him, Son,
Our turn upon them our blessings,
		
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			again, the Nikita is used here the
you know, the non particular
		
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			raised term is used here. What
kind of blessings what kind of
		
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			benefits only Allah knows.
		
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			Anwar that's what they say it's
for 10 We did not realize for 10
		
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			We it's for to show variety. So
upon them will be blessings. Salah
		
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			to me, Robbie him from the Lord.
What Rama tune and again and
		
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			mercy. Again, general mercy. We
won't know what that mercy is. But
		
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			it will come to us, then we will
only realize it's a mercy
		
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			afterwards.
		
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			What will our Eco humulene Worth
and then Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			clinches again says and these are
the people who are the guided
		
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			ones. Because now they realize how
the biggest lesson of this life,
		
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			they've recognized the nature of
this world that there's going to
		
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			be issues,
		
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			there's going to be issues. And
they've realized how to deal with
		
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			them. Because they have done. They
have done patients, anybody who's
		
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			got any turmoil in their life,
anybody who's had any problem in
		
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			their life, if they just focus on
this verse, and just sit and
		
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			reflect the 15 minutes half an
hour, how it relates to them what
		
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			they should be doing, then they
will find so much scope in this,
		
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			they will find so much solace, so
much comfort in this. Now, to
		
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			understand the nature of the
world. Allah subhanaw taala has
		
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			made it very clear it's going to
happen. So now to understand the
		
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			nature of the world and bring the
other Hadith in that I mentioned,
		
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			which is x zero Decra has Imola
that
		
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			make abundantly make remembrance
or abundantly remember, the
		
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			destroyer of all pleasures.
		
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			abundantly remember the destroyer
of all pleasures.
		
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			So by remembering death, there's a
number of things that happen.
		
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			That's why the machete they tell
us to do more aka to remote when
		
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			you can, too, every now and then
to sit and think about death. And
		
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			if you do remember your diff, once
every now and then it's really,
		
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			really beneficial. So one of the
things that you will do
		
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			is that there are two things that
happen to us in this world. One
		
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			are the bounties that we get one
of the good things that happen to
		
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			us times of prosperity,
		
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			when things go very well in our
life.
		
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			And number two is the adversities
which we already kind of spoke
		
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			about, and difficulties happen for
us.
		
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			Somebody just having a bad time
finding a decent job, the only
		
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			jobs that he can even see alcohol
related. Haram related happens so
		
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			much to people. And you look at
these people and you think
		
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			Subhanallah
		
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			some of these people, sometimes
they are people who you know are
		
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			trying to do the right thing. And
this particular challenge comes to
		
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			them.
		
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			So you wonder why it comes to
them? Not always. But a lot of the
		
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			time what I've seen is somebody
who has come to me with that kind
		
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			of question. It's a person who's
trying to do the right thing who's
		
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			trying to become close to Allah
subhanaw taala This is the kind of
		
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			challenges put to him that the
only job he can find is a haram
		
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			job. Because now it looks like he
has made an advance to get close
		
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			to Allah subhanaw taala and Allah
wants to give him a kind of
		
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			shortcut and to test him. So if he
is test goes right in this case,
		
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			then Allah will speed up his
closeness to him.
		
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			There's some people I've seen
		
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			very nice people, but they're
always in some kind of trouble.
		
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			was one brother in Allah bless
him, he was the one who was you
		
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			can say partially
		
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			the cause for my moving to
America, I was gonna intending to
		
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			move there anyway but he was the
representative of the masjid
		
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			looking for an imam in Santa
Barbara.
		
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			And you know the way he was the
smallest of the four places that
		
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			invited me after I finished
studying in India.
		
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			And,
		
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			but they were the most persistent
all the others are big mustards.
		
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			This was the smallest Masjid
100 100 people for Juma. But they
		
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			were the most persistent, and it
just drew my heart that side. So I
		
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			decided to go there. Then after
the eight years that I was there.
		
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			After a few years, he moved out to
another but then we stayed in
		
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			contact. But sometimes he's
involved in an accident. Sometimes
		
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			he's got this problem, that
problem, and he's the nicest man
		
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			down there.
		
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			And lucky, I've done business with
him. So he will be willing to give
		
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			up his share, if there's a
problem. See, he's that kind of
		
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			very honest individual. But Allah
has put him through many of these
		
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			troubles, many of these troubles,
but I think it's only to make him
		
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			closer to Allah subhanaw taala and
he's able to deal with them.
		
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			He's able to deal with them.
		
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			So we must ask Allah whenever we
have a trouble, we must ask Allah
		
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			give us the ability to deal with
it, then because we're in that
		
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			situation anyway. We want it
removed, of course, but we ask
		
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			Allah Allah grant us the ability
to deal with it in the right way.
		
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			If we ask Allah that and he helps
us, then when we do come out of
		
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			it, Inshallah, and you have to
come out of it, because in the
		
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			illusory usara, with every
difficulty will come use certain
		
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			ease. And another Hadith, a hadith
mentions that, no, you know, you
		
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			will never be,
		
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			you know, you will never have two
difficulties together. So, you
		
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			know, maybe one big compound
difficulty, but then they'll
		
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			always have to come some ease
after it, it's the nature of the
		
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			world. So we're gonna go through
it anyway, insha Allah, but if we
		
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			can go through it by picking up
many bonus points along the way,
		
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			and getting closer to Allah
subhanaw taala in that way, then
		
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			why not?
		
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			Because we will just only do
better for us. So what mode does
		
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			is it does two things. One is
		
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			the difficulties that we go
through, when we know that we're
		
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			eventually going to die ourselves
anyway. And we're gonna have all
		
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			of these difficulties that we're
going through Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			has promised great things for the
people who are patient, then
		
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			remembering death only makes it
more of a reality, that things are
		
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			going to end
		
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			the for the person who it's the
most difficult to deal.
		
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			Difficulty is the most difficult
to deal with, for, you know, for
		
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			what kind of person for the person
who thinks they're gonna stay in
		
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			here forever, they want a smooth
ride through the world completely
		
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			without any difficulty, they have
no focus on the hereafter. But
		
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			when you know that, whatever
difficulty is happening here is a
		
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			reality that is going to happen.
And I can use it to my benefit,
		
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			and it will benefit me in the
hereafter where I have to
		
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			definitely go, then all of this
becomes easier.
		
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			Because for example, in this
world, if I'm going to, if I know
		
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			that I have to go to a certain
place to pick up an award of
		
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			something, now on the way I have a
few problems, those problems, I
		
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			will not focus on because
mashallah I have a big prize in
		
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			mind. And all of this sacrifice
that I'm giving in between is much
		
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			easier, I wouldn't have gone there
normally sit normally in that
		
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			situation, normally in a different
situation, because it would just
		
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			be too much hassle for me to go
there. All of these things, then
		
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			if I was going to go there,
because if you're gonna go
		
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			somewhere begrudgingly, and
something happens, then you start
		
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			blaming people around you. Look
what happened. This is what
		
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			happened. Let me remind somebody
encourages you, pushes you forces
		
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			you pressures you to go somewhere.
And then all these little things
		
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			happen in between, right? You get
late or you're going late when
		
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			this happens, or you get a burst
higher, or whatever the case is,
		
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			you start complaining. But if
you're the one who's driving, who
		
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			who's motivated to go somewhere,
and all of these things happen,
		
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			there's no complaint whatsoever,
your silence, right, because
		
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			that's the way human beings are.
So Allah subhanho wa Taala is
		
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			reminding us to do this on a macro
level with our life in Ghana and
		
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			the hereafter, then all of these
minor things in this world,
		
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			however big they seem, they are
minor compared to the hereafter,
		
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			the old, the old like that, right?
So what death will remind us of
		
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			that if we're going to go then
what's all of these little things
		
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			that happen anyway? And if I'm
make supper, then Subhan Allah,
		
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			look at the bounties that are
getting the hereafter. Number two,
		
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			the other benefit that remembering
death gives us what this hadith
		
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			mentions
		
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			is it's a has Imola that it is the
destroyer of all pleasures. So you
		
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			know, the other problem that we
have in the one problem that
		
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			people have is when they have
difficulty, they don't know how to
		
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			deal with it. So they fail. Number
two is when we have too much
		
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			prosperity, we get too indulgent.
And then we lose ourselves. That's
		
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			the other fear.
		
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			So both of these are problems. So
for example,
		
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			I want a new phone.
		
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			Right? Because, you know, my phone
is fine, but I want to give this
		
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			to my son. So I want to buy a new
phone.
		
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			Right? Now, clearly what happens
is, when you're buying a new
		
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			phone, you don't just go into I
mean, the way phones work these
		
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			days, with all the choices that
you have, most people don't just
		
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			go and pick up a new phone, they
decide which one they want, you do
		
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			a bit of research, you get a bit
excited, because if my new phone
		
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			is going to have dual sim, right,
which it does give you from an
		
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			example, right, it has dual sim,
then that for me is, you know, a
		
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			really good factor. Because when I
travel, then I don't have to carry
		
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			two phones. So all of these things
make you feel good.
		
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			All of these things are incentives
that make you feel good. Now how
		
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			much am I allowed to indulge
because you know, phonebank
		
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			experience for a lot of people
carbine experience, they are very
		
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			great experiences. And companies
really exploit these experiences
		
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			that people have, it's all based
on knifes, right? At the end of
		
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			the day, it's all based on knifes,
but they exploit this and they
		
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			know how to explain it with the
right kind of, you know, the steel
		
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			frames and you know, the fineness
and the hardness and the
		
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			flexibility and the curve. And,
you know, all of this is just to
		
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			exploit our knifes at the end of
the day. Right? A lot of it is
		
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			gimmick, a lot of it is aesthetics
at the end of the day is not just
		
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			about utility, but a lot of it is
about aesthetics. So you indulge
		
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			How much are you allowed to
indulge? If we remember our death
		
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			more, then it will cut out the
indulgence part. And in sha Allah,
		
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			it will streamline it to just the
utility.
		
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			The even if we get something
that's nice, and there's nothing
		
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			wrong with getting something
that's nice, but we're not going
		
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			to be overly obsessed with it is
not going to lead us to boast is
		
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			not going to lead us to exalt and
to think we're better than anybody
		
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			else. Or love it to such a degree
that we give up everything else.
		
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			But it will cut out all of that
because we will think at the end
		
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			of the day, this is also going to
be straight, this phone was very
		
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			nice when it came out. But look
what happened to it, my new phone
		
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			will be the same thing.
		
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			In fact, what the world is
teaching us today is that the more
		
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			you get of new things, and the
more frequently they come out, the
		
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			less happiness and satisfaction
you have before you would have
		
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			much more satisfaction with a new
product for a much longer period
		
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			than now because by the time
you've got your new phone,
		
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			there'll be another one that comes
out two weeks later, with some
		
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			other feature and immediately half
of your heart becomes on that one.
		
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			So then you lose when once your
heart becomes a surgery, something
		
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			else you lose the heart with this.
So where is the satisfaction? If
		
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			you don't if you realize that
right from the beginning, yes,
		
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			I've got this Alhamdulillah Allah
has given me this for the utility
		
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			of it and hamdulillah that's fine,
you will not you will not be
		
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			unsatisfied. That's why I'm still
inshallah satisfied with this
		
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			form.
		
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			You know, it still does the job, I
don't feel the necessity to get
		
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			rid of it.
		
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			Now, if you do want to get rid of
something, then give it as a gift
		
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			to somebody.
		
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			The general ruling is, for
example, I go to Hajj and I find
		
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			another job I want to buy. And I
remember I've got so many at home.
		
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			The only justification for me to
buy another one is if I give the
		
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			others away, and sadaqa or I sell
them I mean, who's going to sell
		
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			your bus, you know, this way, you
can't keep too many things.
		
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			Abundance as extravagance, but
giving away things and getting new
		
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			things are probably still awesome,
good that he got a really
		
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			expensive garment, then he gave it
away. So that's completely fine,
		
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			to give away things.
		
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			But the main thing in our life is
how to manage our life. Because at
		
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			the end of the day, we're not
talking about a particular
		
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			situation. We are talking about a
general approach to life. And as
		
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			Sally Keane, as people who are on
the path wanting to make some
		
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			sense of this all if we can, if we
can deal with this aspect of
		
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			remembering our death and
remembering that this is
		
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			eventually where we are going to
end. Then what happens is that it
		
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			will take the obsessive pleasure
out of worldly things, the
		
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			obsessive pleasure out of worldly
things, you will still get the
		
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			pleasure, but it won't be
obsessive. You will not be
		
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			excessive. It'd be moderated. In
fact, you like your things for
		
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			longer. You will be satisfied with
them. When you stop liking your
		
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			phone even if it's fine. You stop
liking your car, even though it's
		
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			fine is because your heart is
attached to something else and the
		
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			next one something else. When that
doesn't happen you
		
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			You're satisfied with what you
have, then isn't that a good
		
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			thing?
		
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			How difficult is it buying a new
phone? How difficult is buying a
		
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			new car and how difficult is
buying a new home? it difficult to
		
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			do these things they waste a lot
of our time.
		
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			Especially in this day and age of
variety, when you had no variety
		
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			was easy, just go and buy it. But
now it wastes a lot of our time.
		
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			And that's time taken away from
what we should be doing in this
		
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			world.
		
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			This is all excessive. So
remembering our death will will
		
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			eliminate will not eliminate will
reduce and maybe eliminate the
		
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			pleasures of what we have. And
there's nothing wrong with having
		
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			pleasure of something new.
		
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			The prophets of Allah isn't was
wonderful, he hardly ate meat.
		
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			He hardly ate a decent meal,
		
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			dates and water, nothing will be
cooked in the house, you couldn't
		
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			buy ready meals. In those days,
you had to eat whatever you could,
		
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			and most of it was uncooked dates
and water. But then once he's at a
		
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			doubt, you know he is he's at some
food where they've cooked an
		
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			animal. And he says to the person,
he says, give me the shoulder. So
		
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			it gives him a shoulder and the
promise of awesome eating. Because
		
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			give me another one. He gave him
another one. Give me another one.
		
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			And the person said you had a sort
of an animal only has two
		
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			shoulders.
		
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			SubhanAllah. Now this was the
promise a loss of his own way of
		
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			doing something. So then he said
had you had you look for another
		
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			and given it to me you could have
continued to give me one until I
		
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			asked you
		
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			are you restricted the Mercy of
Allah Subhana Allah you restricted
		
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			the book of Allah. So now they
were no more in there.
		
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			This was very different from
earlier the Allahu Anhu. There was
		
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			another case where I forget the
exact story. But the wrestlers
		
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			have asked him to do something.
And although it was all beyond all
		
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			odds, he says, Okay, fine, I'll go
and it happened. Yeah, it was
		
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			about the tree giving dates.
Personal awesome. There was some
		
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			people who needed some food for us
and set us the date for some
		
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			trees. So he went up. And he could
have said as well like this
		
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			person, that all the way doesn't
have any dresses the wrong season
		
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			or something. Now he went he says
the president wants you to give
		
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			dates and it just started dropping
dates on them.
		
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			So it's the work cool on Allah
subhanho wa taala. And
		
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			remember, remembering our death,
this will take out the excessive
		
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			and obsessive pleasure in things
that wastes a lot of our time. And
		
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			that makes us do nearly people too
much. And number two, it will make
		
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			it easy for us to deal with our
hardships. And what more do we
		
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			need than that?
		
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			Because that's the only two states
we have in this world states of
		
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			prosperity, streets of adversity.
Remember our death that that's
		
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			where we're going to end up. And
when Allah subhanho wa taala. Now
		
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			you might be thinking, but this is
so difficult, I don't know how to
		
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			go through with it. What do I make
sober? Make sober, sober means Oh
		
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			Allah, I leave it to you.
		
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			Tell me the best way to deal with
this. I'm going to be patient, I'm
		
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			not going to overly cry about this
issue. Then Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			will bring about a good turn from
this as difficult as it may sound,
		
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			because a lot of the time we look
very logically at things and that
		
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			then takes away the spirituality
of it. Because we're very well we
		
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			are logical beings at the end of
the day. So we think no, but this
		
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			is so difficult. Whatever it may
be, whatever the situation may be,
		
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			but I've lost this. I am lumbered
with this,
		
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			right? But you don't know that
things could turn out to be much
		
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			better. You may, we may think that
we're not in the ideal situation
		
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			right now.
		
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			But Allah subhanaw taala has the
ability to change things,
		
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			regardless of what the world
thinks. Regardless of the way we
		
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			may think, right now that how can
this become a better situation?
		
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			That's the most important thing.
But for that, how does one get
		
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			this understanding?
		
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			How does one get this
understanding? How does one
		
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			remember death? We can't wait for
difficult things to happen to us.
		
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			We can't wait for accidents. That
that's when we remember death. We
		
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			can't wait for people to die and
say well remember death? How many
		
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			people do we want to die every
day? That you know people die
		
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			every day anyway? We don't even
think about them. People die every
		
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			day. Subhanallah look at that
Palestinian story. Those settlers
		
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			they put that thing inside the
house and kill the child now the
		
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			father's died as well.
		
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			May Allah subhanaw taala granting
Jana at the end of the day Shaheed
		
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			you know at the end of the day
Shaheed Subhan Allah so for them,
		
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			it's inshallah probably better
than the misery they were living
		
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			in Walla Walla. But it's difficult
for the people around them, and
		
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			for the remnants of their family,
the mother, the daughter, right?
		
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			But at the end of the day,
		
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			all of these things, all of these
things, they're nothing compared
		
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			to what they are essentially the
temporary nature of this world.
		
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			That's what it is. Some just
happens earlier. Some just
		
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			happened later.
		
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			But this is the master lesson of
this life. I think that if you
		
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			remember that, how do you remember
your death? How does how does this
		
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			become a point in our mind though,
as I said, you can either have
		
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			difficulties and then you might
remember
		
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			But that's not the way to do it.
The way to do it is to be
		
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			perpetually and that's why the
vicar of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			will help this because what the
vicar of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			does is that it creates love for
Allah subhanaw taala it creates a
		
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			reminder about him, that's what it
is. It's a reminder, when you
		
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			remember what Allah subhanaw taala
we may be just doing it as just a
		
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			rote liquor, remembrance, Lila
Hill, Allah Allah, Allah, whatever
		
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			he may be doing, right the maraca,
but whatever we may be doing. But
		
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			what it does is that eventually
gives Allah a place in our heart
		
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			where he should have been. And
when Allah comes back into our
		
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			heart the way it should be, then
we become fully human beings. Then
		
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			we start seeing the right things.
A distorted human being is a
		
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			disoriented human being a human
being devoid of Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala is a disoriented human being
this orientation means that we're
		
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			not oriented in the right
direction. We keep going into the
		
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			wrong direction. Our likes are
what Allah subhanaw taala doesn't
		
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			want us to make the likes for us.
		
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			Our hatred is not what Allah wants
us to hate. The hatred of Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala become our likes,
and the likes of Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala become our hatred. That's a
disoriented human being who we
		
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			call high, Iran in Arabic,
astonished, befuddled, confused.
		
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			So when vicar comes into our
heart, then we start aligning
		
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			ourselves. This is the means of
aligning ourselves reorienting
		
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			ourselves, because when you take
the name of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			It's so powerfully man because it
says that the word Allah is so
		
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			powerful that even if it's taken
in heedlessness, like somebody
		
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			just mentioned it, it still has a
benefit.
		
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			It still has a benefit.
		
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			That's how powerful is if you are
sitting down and doing your
		
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			thicker, then this is the benefit
that you will get from it.
		
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			And
		
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			vicar for for different people is
different. We don't have any time
		
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			right now. But I'll just read you
one of the categories which
		
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			relates to us. He's saying here
that vicar having a regimen of
		
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			liquor, a series of thicker, a
routine of thicker, it's called a
		
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			word in Arabic word, where this
comes from modes, it's a place
		
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			where you go to somewhere for
water mode, it is the place of
		
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			water, place of drinking for
animals, for anybody. It's the
		
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			mode of source, the font of life,
essentially. So weird, is a way to
		
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			get to the font. It's the
methodology behind that. That's
		
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			what you call with. A rod is where
you get the word comes to becomes
		
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			our that refers to, you know, a
spiritual world of some sorts. So
		
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			he's saying that word is split up
into three different types. First
		
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			is you've got the word of the
Abaddon zoo heard of the
		
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			Mujahideen? Right if you want if
you want to understand this, read
		
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			the beginning of guidance of Imams
Azadi, the Buddha in hedaya.
		
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			Essentially, he's got a vicar for
every moment of the day. And if
		
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			you read that, you think, how do
you do that? When do you have time
		
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			to work. And he even says in
there, if you really, really,
		
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			really have to work and have no
other means of sustenance, then
		
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			you spend this amount of time
going out to look for something to
		
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			it, otherwise you can stay and do
thicker. So he's got two hours for
		
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			every occasion. He's got, you
know, something for every moment
		
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			of the day. It's like extreme. But
this is the word of the abandoned
		
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			Zoho people who have literally
given up cells themselves up to
		
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			zero abstinence from the world
they'd want no care, they have the
		
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			emotional healing and those who
are just constantly trying, that's
		
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			that that's one category of
people. The second category is our
		
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			category what to do early sulukim
in Ursa it in the people of the
		
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			salute, those who are trying to
follow the path trying to be on
		
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			the path, they will do something
different. And number three, is
		
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			the word of the ILO musulman
allottee theme, these are the high
		
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			ones who've already reached there
will become something different.
		
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			There will become something
different.
		
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			And this we don't have time to go
into this in detail, but I'll just
		
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			mention
		
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			the word of the first people
emotional healing I've already
		
00:34:10 --> 00:34:12
			explained that night and day
they've got a thicker cut out
		
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			they've got an activity for every
moment that relates to Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala, which is extremely
difficult.
		
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			And to ask me do that in this
world, in this time, in this place
		
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			where we live, it's very, very,
it's virtually impossible. And
		
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			anybody who tries to do it will
probably suffer. Because one thing
		
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			we have to realize a lot of the
time what people do is they miss
		
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			understand the deen for Mohalla
for tune for Mujahid the two
		
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			knifes sorry for eliminating the
knifes completely so they don't
		
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			allow the enough pleasures. The
Profit and Loss I'm used to. He
		
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			asked for he asked for the third
leg. Now, isn't that against the
		
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			normal that you would think of man
who has been greedy that people
		
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			somebody might say obviously he
had a reason to explain why he did
		
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			what he did. But the promise the
loss of when there was pleasure
		
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			around you would take
		
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			it, you will use it.
		
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			So that is the balance that needs
to be there. The majority needs to
		
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			be for the hero. But then you are
allowed, you're allowed to express
		
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			your satisfaction sometimes the
differences I mentioned this
		
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			another not token I'll mention
this more detail sometime later.
		
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			But when the for the live no Al
was hardly ever seen smiling. But
		
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			the day his son died, he was
smiling.
		
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			weird situation. And, you know,
because that's what he felt that
		
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			he had to kind of go against his
Nuptse feeling of the loss of his
		
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			son. So he smiled to prove his
satisfaction with Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala. But when the prophets Allah
was losing his granddaughter, he
		
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			didn't do that. He cried.
		
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			So that is releasing the right
emotion at the right time. And
		
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			only a prophet can do that.
		
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			He didn't smile. He wept to the
surprise of the Sahaba who around
		
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			him and he said, why do you weep?
He said, it's allowed to have that
		
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			expression of grief, but not too
well about it. See, that's the
		
00:36:09 --> 00:36:12
			difference. So the deen is not
what for the liberal al did,
		
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			although it's, that's fine. That's
his expression of it.
		
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			It's what the province allows. So
it is allowed.
		
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			That's the dean.
		
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			And then he says what am I with
the siding, the people who are on
		
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			the path there were this Alhaji
Mina Shiva, Shiva really was
		
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			Shiva.
		
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			It's for them to come out of
everything that is going to take
		
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			you away from Allah subhanaw taala
to kind of detach yourself, try
		
00:36:37 --> 00:36:40
			your best to detach yourself of
things that make you heedless.
		
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			What Torquil Allah, if you will
our
		
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			and to abandon these unnecessarily
real unnecessary relationships and
		
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			to come away from anything that's
an obstacle in the path of Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala what not, he will
call the middle Messiah we will
		
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			Are you and then to purify the
heart from bad habits and from
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:07
			defects? What Leah to her bill
further led by the Togliatti
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:12
			Homina Rosa, Rosa ill after
removing the blameworthy traits of
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:14
			the HUD than to adorn them with
the praiseworthy traits of the
		
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			huts were a burden to whom the
current were hid. Well, who am I,
		
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			you're, you're a unilateral shape.
They're a bada is one type of
		
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			vicar, meaning one regimen of
vicar, which is the one he says
		
00:37:27 --> 00:37:31
			that the sheikh tells them to do,
lie as he do it, he, they should
		
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			not do more than that. And they
should not do more than that,
		
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			that's all they must do. So you
know, some people, they just want
		
00:37:38 --> 00:37:40
			to do more and more and more, they
think, you know, when they have
		
00:37:40 --> 00:37:42
			that vibrancy in the beginning,
they just want to do more, give me
		
00:37:42 --> 00:37:44
			more, give me more, give me more
that the Sahaba did that with a
		
00:37:44 --> 00:37:47
			promise the lesson as well. They
shouldn't do that. Because that is
		
00:37:47 --> 00:37:51
			not you have to regularly you have
to slowly slowly coaxed the
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:55
			Ibaadat in our life, and make it
find the place get used to it,
		
00:37:55 --> 00:38:00
			then increase, try to do too much
at once your knifes is going to
		
00:38:00 --> 00:38:04
			That's enough, is going to
protest. So slowly, slowly,
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:08
			slowly. And mashallah, you see,
right. You know, when you've had
		
00:38:08 --> 00:38:10
			this experience with different
people and their journeys, you
		
00:38:10 --> 00:38:13
			actually see that the people who
do it slowly, but regularly, they
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:14
			are always more successful.
		
00:38:16 --> 00:38:18
			It's not to say that the person
can never be successful, no,
		
00:38:19 --> 00:38:22
			there's a more difficult way, it's
a risky way, the one when you take
		
00:38:22 --> 00:38:25
			on too much, but the one who would
and eventually those people have
		
00:38:25 --> 00:38:28
			to calm down, they realize it
afterwards, because our days
		
00:38:28 --> 00:38:31
			aren't the same. But the people
who take it easy, or you see their
		
00:38:31 --> 00:38:34
			regular, okay, they might not have
a bit you know, they might not
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:39
			come and start having a big beard
image immediately. Right? That you
		
00:38:39 --> 00:38:41
			can tell the having a difficulty
about it, but they are being
		
00:38:41 --> 00:38:45
			regular in the car, they've been
regular in their persistence and
		
00:38:45 --> 00:38:48
			then slowly, slowly mashallah it
allows the beard to come, he
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:51
			allows the hijab to be covered,
you know, and so on. And so, with
		
00:38:51 --> 00:38:53
			the small small things like that,
sometimes people will do it
		
00:38:53 --> 00:38:56
			straightaway and then they they
deal with all of these
		
00:38:56 --> 00:38:58
			difficulties in front of them,
people challenging them, people
		
00:38:58 --> 00:39:01
			making fun of them, or you know,
them finding difficulties, then it
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:04
			gets difficult. It is slowly
slowly you get coaxed into it, it
		
00:39:04 --> 00:39:05
			makes a big difference.
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:10
			Of course, whatever is fun, it has
to be done. Whatever is Haram has
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:13
			to be abstain from there's no
doubt about that. But for
		
00:39:13 --> 00:39:15
			additional things additional
additional Nawab Phil
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:20
			ADKAR and worships and things of
that nature has to be coaxed him.
		
00:39:21 --> 00:39:26
			Unless it's a special day 27th of
Ramadan, Ramadan or something like
		
00:39:26 --> 00:39:27
			that is different story anyway.
		
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			So they must not increase on this.
But then all of this should be
		
00:39:32 --> 00:39:38
			done by Jim alkyl. Who do to him
or Rob with the heart fully
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:41
			focused on it? And then in being
in the presence of Allah subhanaw
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:44
			taala that's eventually what needs
to happen, which is that a person
		
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			gets into the presence of Allah
prisons of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			Okay, let's do our maraca.
alojamento Salon woman because
		
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			salon tomorrow theater jewelry
will you Crom allow me Are you
		
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			able to use your rock medical
studies Allahu Mignon damn Yemen
		
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			De La Ilaha illa Allah subhana wa
COVID nominal Lottie mean
		
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			Allahumma salli wa salam ala
Sayyidina Muhammad you are either
		
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			early so you don't know how many
more Burdick was salam.
		
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			O Allah we are unity servants of
Allah we are your sinful servants
		
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			of Allah, Allah we are your
blameworthy servants or Allah
		
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			however we are whatever we are, we
are Your servants and we can only
		
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			we can only take you as our
master. Oh Allah we ask that You
		
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			grant us the ability to do the
right things in this life. You
		
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			grant us the ability to understand
the reality of this life. Or Allah
		
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			forgive us our sins Forgive us our
wrongdoings Forgive us our
		
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			defects. But Allah we have so many
defects we have so many wrongs we
		
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			have so many faults. Oh Allah we
parade around as though we're fine
		
00:40:46 --> 00:40:48
			but oh Allah we have many issues
when we really think about
		
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			ourselves of Allah We ask that you
give us the ability to deal with
		
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			our issues. Oh Allah, Allah Allah
guide us all right. Oh Allah do
		
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			not allow us to be to succumb to
our knifes even for a moment of
		
00:41:00 --> 00:41:04
			Allah. O Allah shall show us the
truth is the truth and allow us to
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:07
			follow it and show us the wrong as
the wrong and allow us to abstain
		
00:41:07 --> 00:41:12
			from it. Oh Allah, forgive us our
sins. Oh Allah we have committed
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:17
			many Oh ALLAH and our sins they
bring on many different issues for
		
00:41:17 --> 00:41:19
			us. Oh Allah, we deal
		
00:41:21 --> 00:41:24
			Oh ALLAH remove the obstacles in
our life from your path. Oh Allah
		
00:41:24 --> 00:41:29
			forgive us our sins. Since we've
committed openly brazenly those
		
00:41:29 --> 00:41:33
			we've done in secret. Those we
think we've been successful in
		
00:41:33 --> 00:41:37
			committing Oh ALLAH dos we do
privately and nobody we think
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:41
			nobody knows about oh Allah Oh
Allah forgive us our sins. Oh
		
00:41:41 --> 00:41:45
			Allah forgive us our sins. Forgive
us our wrongdoings purify our
		
00:41:45 --> 00:41:49
			hearts of Allah there are certain
sins in our life that no longer
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:53
			even us sins in our minds. Oh
Allah that we have made part and
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:58
			parcel of our life. But what Allah
is so intertwined with our life
		
00:41:58 --> 00:42:03
			that we don't even find it we
don't even we can we hardly have
		
00:42:03 --> 00:42:07
			any chance to avoid it. Or Allah
we don't even think about them
		
00:42:07 --> 00:42:10
			anymore. Oh Allah give us
realizations of our problems give
		
00:42:10 --> 00:42:14
			us realizations of our problems.
Oh Allah don't let us die in the
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:18
			state of Jehovah and ignorance of
Allah don't let us die in the
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:22
			state of Jehovah and ignorance of
Allah what big? Jehovah and
		
00:42:22 --> 00:42:25
			ignorance is there then a person
who doesn't even know what seems
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:28
			is committing is wrong? Oh Allah,
Oh Allah protect us from such
		
00:42:28 --> 00:42:32
			ignorance of Allah show us the
right way. Oh Allah make us
		
00:42:32 --> 00:42:36
			complete human beings of Allah
make us the human beings that you
		
00:42:36 --> 00:42:40
			want us to be? Oh Allah, infuse
our hearts with your love of Allah
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:43
			make it make us those beings that
understand the right from the
		
00:42:43 --> 00:42:48
			wrong Oh ALLAH. Oh Allah improve
our insights of Allah make our
		
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			insights pious and righteous and
make our inside superior to our
		
00:42:53 --> 00:42:58
			outside and our Allah make our
exterior pious as well of Allah
		
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			the difficulties we have in life,
life, remove them. Have Allah
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:04
			allow us to deal with them in the
right way in the correct way and
		
00:43:04 --> 00:43:09
			bring us out of it in the best of
ways. Oh Allah, Allah we realized
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:12
			from the verse that we recited
today that there will be
		
00:43:12 --> 00:43:15
			difficulties in our life Oh ALLAH
but we asked you for RFP we asked
		
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			you for RFP and we asked you for
our fear and our law don't let
		
00:43:19 --> 00:43:22
			difficulties make us fall down. Oh
Allah removed difficulties from
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25
			our life. Keep us in fear. For
there are many servants that you
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:28
			can send to gender with our fear
of Allah we ask You for this
		
00:43:28 --> 00:43:31
			special blessing of Allah we ask
You for this special blessing of
		
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			Allah Allah Allah grant a strength
of Allah grant a strength of
		
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			Allah. Oh Allah strengthen us
remove our weakness, but make it
		
00:43:39 --> 00:43:42
			for the sake of your Taqwa of
Allah grant is your taqwa in our
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:46
			hearts. Oh Allah grant us your
taqwa in our hearts. We're all
		
00:43:46 --> 00:43:48
			going to stand in front of you in
the hereafter.
		
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			We're all going to stand in front
of you in the hereafter. Oh Allah
		
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			treats us with mercy in this world
and especially in the hereafter.
		
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			What Allah treats us with Your
Mercy, treat us with Your Mercy,
		
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			treat us with Your Mercy of Allah.
		
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			All the permissible needs that we
have that we have in our minds, Oh
		
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			Allah, fulfill them for us, of
Allah grant us all the tofi to do
		
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			what is right in this world, and
to do something that will invest
		
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			for us for the heat for our
hereafter. Oh Allah accept us all
		
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			for the service of your lien. Oh
Allah accept us all for the
		
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			service of God. Your Messenger has
Allah Allah Hi, listen and I said
		
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			whoever Allah intends goodwill,
then he accepts them for the
		
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			service of his Deen. We ask that
you all accept us all for the
		
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			service of your Deen in whatever
capacity it may be. Grant us the
		
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			strength to continue with those
things. Oh Allah, all the good
		
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			things we're doing in our life.
Allow us to continue with them.
		
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			All the bad things Oh Allah, Oh
Allah allow us to come away from
		
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			them immediately. And our Allah
grant us baraka and blessing bless
		
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			our families, bless our teachers,
our students. Oh Allah our
		
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			associates in all those who have
told us to make dua for them and
		
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			those who expect us to make the
offer them Oh Allah, Oh Allah
		
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			those who would have liked to be
here today but are unable to be
		
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			here Allah bless them to Allah
grant us that
		
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			will seek to be on this path and
to remember you, oh Allah accept
		
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			our daughters except for us except
our daughters. Oh Allah send your
		
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			blessings on our messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and
		
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			grant him a suitable reward on our
behalf. And oh Allah grant is
		
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			genitive for DOS in the hereafter
Subhan Allah because Allah is at
		
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			IOC foon was Salam on Alamosa Nene
Well, Hamdulillah he Robben Island
		
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			Amin