Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – THE GREATNESS OF RAMADHAN

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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Lahore Moni Rahim

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Al Hamdulillah

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Al Hamdulillah Muhammad who are starting you know who and a few

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who are not may not be here you wanted our clue already.

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When I was a biller, Himanshu rhodian fusina Amin sejati Molina

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miyetti Hello fellow mobila For my usual who follow her the Allah

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when a shadow Allah ilaha illallah who are the hula Sharika when I

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said to under say you know Donna Muhammad and Abdi who are pseudo

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SallAllahu Tarida are they who are the LI or Safi about Rocco seldom

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at the Sleeman Kathira on Eli Ahmed been unmarried.

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We started the name of Allah subhanaw taala. We start by

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praising Allah subhanaw taala

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we praise Allah subhanho wa Taala as much as is, as much as he is

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worthy of being praised, as much as he is entitled to be praised.

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We praise him in our way, which is really insufficient. It's a cannot

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encompass the true

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the true level that Allah subhanaw taala needs to be praised, and we

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send blessings. We ask Allah subhanaw taala to send blessings

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on Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, because it's through him

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that we have been given this great faith. And it's great way to live

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in this world and to deal with the different challenges of this

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world.

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At the beginning of this speech, at the beginning of many speech

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when people speak, there's a similar football that people

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generally read, which is when our bIllahi min Shuri and fusina.

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Woman sejati out Marlena,

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Miyagi Hello Philomel de la la la mejor de Lille HuFa Javiera I'm

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sure you've heard this.

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Do you know what it means? Do you know why it's red? The purpose

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behind it.

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I think it's important to understand that because at the end

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of the day, what Ramadan is to tell us Inshallah, this point,

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this part of the hotbar is that important.

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We when a person begins to speak, speak, after praising Allah

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subhanaw taala and sending salutations and Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam we say,

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we seek refuge in Allah, from the evil of our own self.

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I'm sitting here, tomorrow, you may be sitting somewhere else.

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And what happens is that when you're sitting in a place like

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this, then the shaytaan wants to come and spoil the section right

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from the beginning. So if it spoiled for me as the speaker,

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then what I say is useless. What I say may sound may sound good, if

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I'm able to speak well, if I can throw in a few poems, if I can

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give you nice entertaining talk, it might sound very nice, but

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that's what it is. It'll just stay around, they'll become an

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entertainment for our ears, and then it's it will dissipate.

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So generally, the whole focus of saying, Oh Allah, I seek refuge

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from the evil of my own self. So that when I say something, when

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I'm speaking, that I want to speak for the sake of Allah subhanaw

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taala that intention has to be corrected, because shaytaan is

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everywhere trying to corrupt the intention. I mean, surely imposing

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our means sejati Medina, and from the evil of our from from the evil

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of the sins that we commit, because of the evil of the sins we

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commit, then again, that can prevent the dark that's given the

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message that is conveyed. So that's, that's really what I'm

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saying. So inshallah you can say amen to that. Otherwise, this

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whole exercise is you know, it's a wasting of our time on a Sunday

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very important time, especially in London close to Docklands, or in

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documents are you in Docklands? Right? Are you on an island?

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It's an island. I don't want to say what Island It's an island

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because I mean this if they're saying this talk is going to be on

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YouTube and I say I love dogs. I mean, they're gonna wonder where

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am I?

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So far Allah Subhana Allah, Allah. Now I know you've probably got a

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very good reason of why it's called that right? But that's not

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what we're talking about right now.

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hamdulillah it's really nice to be here Mashallah. It's really nice

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to be here. May Allah subhanaw taala make this a full society?

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala make this a full time of fortune, good

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fortune for us in this world in the Hereafter. May Allah subhanaw

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taala unite us together in gender agenda to further those.

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Somebody told me the other day, they said we might get an agenda.

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You know, by some good deed we've done okay. Send him to Jana. By

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maybe some intercession if you've got to have in your family if

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you're happy with yourself.

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In fact, I just heard some time I just heard recently somewhere in

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India, one area

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somebody said to someone you know

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If you make your son half if he says no my other son or somebody

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in my family is already half is and is only seven or eight people

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so far. So when we got 10 People then we'll need another half is to

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take care of the next 10 people because they said if you're half

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is you can take 10 people into paradise.

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So

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somebody mentioned that we will get into gender

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but are we going to get into genital for those? How do you get

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into genital feitos

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the highest level of Jana close to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam.

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So may Allah subhanho wa Taala make this Ramadan that's coming up

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a source of entry into genital for those who are not into just Jana

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itself magenta to fill those the highest level we have to aim high

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Muslims are supposed to aim high. So inshallah that is the ultimate

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success. May Allah give us a Tofik now let's look at Ramadan. So when

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Ramadan comes in, the way I look at Ramadan is generally the dua of

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam before Ramadan even used to

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begin in Rajab and Shabbat and used to make these doors, imams

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are made as well. He said, Oh Allah bless us in Raja and Shaban

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and allow us to reach Ramadan. One of the blessings that the

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blessings in these months for us busy people close to Canary Wharf

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business, you know, very busy individuals, we have so many

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things that are outstanding. I mean, if every one of us thinks

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is there anyone here who absolutely has to not do anything,

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meaning the days are just going perfect, they've got nothing

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outstanding no tasks or no chose no responsibilities that are

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outstanding. Is there anybody like except the retired people

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mashallah, who are taking a day to day they may Allah subhanho wa

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Taala you know, grant you greater Tofik but most of us who are still

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working, we've got something to fix in the house, some shopping

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still to do some projects still to finish some something at work to

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do something to do something. If we don't do that. It's going to

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make us busy in Ramadan. So if we have if we read this door before

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Ramadan, we have Baraka during these months, then Allah will give

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us blessing in time so we can get rid of these things quickly. We

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can fulfill them. So in Ramadan, we can actually focus on Ramadan.

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The worst of the people are those, they go into Ramadan, they

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realize, hey, it's Ramadan, but by the time they get used to it, by

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the time they get into the rest of it and start benefiting from the

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mercies that are available, it's already the 10th day and nowadays

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with the contraction of time, Ramadan flies pass the whole year

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flies pass so Ramadan will fly pass. So by the end of it, it's

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like man, I didn't do enough. Next year Inshallah, but next year is

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the same again. So that's why it's very important for us to prepare

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for Ramadan, like actually prepare for Ramadan. Psychologically, it's

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like a journey because we don't know how many more Ramadan is

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we're going to get. And if we just understand, for example, there was

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this great scholar in the subcontinent whose name was SHEIKH

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AHMED sir Hindi, they consider him to be a Majid of the second

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millennium. Right. The Majid Al Thani, his name is right that he

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says that, from his understanding the amount of blessings and baraka

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and Rama and mercy that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada causes to descend

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in the month of Ramadan in just a moment of Ramadan is not

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equivalent to the whole year. His mercy that Allah subhanaw taala

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gives it's so concentrated it is so concentrated that if we waste a

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moment of Ramadan it's like we're wasting a whole year outside from

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the Hadith Lex explained the prophets of Allah Who are you some

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said that if a person misses a fast in Ramadan, he can fast for

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the rest of his life, and he can't make up for the the reward that he

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would have got for that one day of Ramadan fast. That's amazing, in

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the sense that the value of one day is so great, that if you fast

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outside of Ramadan for the rest of your life, that entire accumulated

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reward is not equivalent to this one day of reward and we're doing

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30 of these days.

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Right. So that is that that is just truly amazing. That's why

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don't miss fast for all of Ramadan for flimsy excuses. flimsy excuses

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because you're losing a lot of reward. You won't be sinful if

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you've got a valid excuse like you're traveling when you're sick,

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or something like that. But don't do it for you know, don't don't do

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it for flimsy excuses. What I would also suggest is that try to

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avoid these dentist appointments in Ramadan, try to schedule them

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afterwards. But if it's important, you've got a major tooth problem

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root canal needed or something like that. Then what you should do

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is try to then

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try to keep the appointment if you have to have to have it try to

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keep it in the morning sometime. Right now this is this is a way to

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get around this. What you do is if you have to have an appointment

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to where your fast may break, right? So one is that if you know

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your fast is going to break and you have to have that appointment

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because a major surgery or something like that, then don't

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fast from the beginning is better, not too fast them too fast and

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break it. Right. But if you don't know if it's going to break or

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not, sometimes you go to a dentist and nothing goes down your throat,

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and sometimes it does. So you don't know. Right? If you don't

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know, and you have to have it and you can't reschedule it, then keep

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the appointment in the morning before half the day.

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Half the day means between Fudger and Maghrib half the number of

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hours because and don't intend to fast yet. Don't eat but don't

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intend to first go and have your appointment. If nothing goes down

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your throat and it's still before half the day. You can just intend

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I'm going to fast for the rest of my day and your fasting will be

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valid right because in the Hanafi madhhab you can fast up to half

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today in the Shafi is you can you have to fast from the night you

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have to intend from the night for the 100 feet from the second you

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know you that's fine. Yeah and if something does go down then you

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fast did not break because you didn't have one to start with. But

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this is only if you have to have to have it. Now let's get to go

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back on how to prepare for this month of Ramadan. Let's understand

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what it's for the whole month of Ramadan, the what I see Allah

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subhanho wa Taala mentions in the Quran he mentions three things. La

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La Quinta Taku

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right when he took a bit of Allah Allah Amma Hidaka and whether

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Allah accomplished Quran. So these are three things that Allah

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subhanaw taala mentions in relationship to fasting. One is so

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that you can gain Taqwa so that you can thank Allah subhanaw taala

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you can be grateful. And number three, so that you could look a

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bit Allah Allah Mahadasha calm so that you could

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glorify Allah

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mentioned and state his greatness on the fact that he gave you

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guidance, He gave you guidance. That is the greatest of the values

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that we have. Then the other benefits that he gives us the

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other gifts he gives us the health, the wealth, etc. you

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thankful for that. And then for our own self, we gain taqwa. What

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is dukkha Dukkha? Is the fear of Allah subhanaw taala What do you

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think is the greatest prevention for our fear of Allah subhanaw

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taala think about it. Everybody believes we should be fearful of

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Allah subhanaw taala

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right. If you're sitting in a masjid, it means you have the fear

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of Allah subhanaw taala you at least have the concept of it and

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you believe in it. But what is it that still makes us do sin, that

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still does not prevent our gazes from going right left and you

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know, where it should not be going, and our ears and etc, etc.

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It's because we don't have control of ourselves. Our knifes inside

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has become so strong and has dominated us that despite the fact

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that intellectually we know that we shouldn't be doing it, we still

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cannot help doing it.

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That is the difficulty that is the dilemma that we're dealing with.

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And Ramadan. One of the main reasons katiba de camassia

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kuchibhotla danamon publikum. Learn Lakota tacos so that you can

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gain Taqwa. Because look, right now, if you feel like it, that you

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want to drink some water, you want to have a drink. Or even if you

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want a chocolate, you can literally walk out go and buy

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something, right? And you can or you can go and have something.

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What happens in the month of Ramadan is you're going to work

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you're going to school wherever and you feel like having a cup of

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tea or a drink, and you go to the vending machine, you go to the

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coffee machine or whatever, like, Oh, I'm fasting. Now you're not

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just telling you you need to drink.

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I'm fasting I can't do it. So you're just you're talking to

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yourself, you just suppress yourself. The second day, the same

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thing happens. Now I can't my mouth is dry but I can't I'm

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fasting. Well after three or four days you get used to it you're not

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stops even telling you it can't bother anymore because he knows

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that mashallah you are not going to break your fast for it.

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So, eating is fine. Eating is halal. Generally speaking,

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drinking is halal generally speaking, but in Ramadan, Allah

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tells us do not eat or drink in these days in these hours of the

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day. So that if Allah is preventing us,

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telling us to stop ourselves from eating, drinking and sexual

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* for this number of hours in the day, he is telling us

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to stop something that is generally permissible for us as

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long as we're doing it permissibly. But in Ramadan, we

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don't do it. So hopefully the idea is that that will also stop us

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from doing sins.

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It will stop us from doing sins.

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Because if we can prevent ourselves when we strong enough,

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no, we're not going to eat, we're not going to drink, then we're not

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going to look around. We're not going to look at the wrong things.

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We're not going to put it on you know we're not going to put the

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music in our car. We're not going to watch TV. We're not going to do

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this. We're not going to speak badly to someone slow those things

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are more difficult.

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Because

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the it's not like eating or drinking which is so blatant.

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Right? So it's supposed to help us like that by curbing the knifes

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the self, the soul by curbing it, controlling it, turning it

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slapping it down. No, you can't do this. You can't do this. That's

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not then we're helped in this by the fact that the Hadith in

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Bukhari mentioned Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said Abu Huraira

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the Allahu unrewarded reports Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said, when Ramadan comes for the hat abou summer, or for

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the hat available, Jana, the doors of the heavens, the doors of

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paradise are opened up. Well, we'll look at Abu Abu Jahannam the

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doors of Jahannam are closed. And we're still silletti shayateen and

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are so fidgety Shayateen, the shayateen are locked up.

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So Allah helps us

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by telling us to stop eating, drinking and sleeping and sexual

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*. He keeps the shaytaan away from us. So there is not

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going to be extra whispering from the shaytaan to make us do it. And

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I don't know if you've experienced this or not, but it's much easier

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to do right in Ramadan than it is in any other time of the year.

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Right? Rather than goes and suddenly it's just like, oh, you

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know, the shell fina back and you can actually feel it, and the back

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with a vengeance.

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There are two times when shaytaan is going to attack really heavy.

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One is just before Ramadan. And when it's just after Ramadan. The

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reason is that shaytan is going to be put away so he wants to do he

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must eat he wants to wreak as much havoc create so much problems

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before he goes in. And one of the best tools he has is, for example,

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the moon issue

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when Ramadan is about to start, when that happens, people are

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fighting about it for at least seven eight days. And then it

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comes down but he's already messed up the first week for the first 10

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days.

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So normally what people have noticed is that oh, he gets you

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into some other kind of dilemma with someone and you're arguing

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about something and that just cuts away from the sin. The other thing

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we have to be worried about is at the end of Ramadan. We've done so

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well for the entire month of Ramadan. And there have been

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people who have come and they've said literally you know

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I did so well in Ramadan, I avoided this thing I was doing and

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I avoided this and I read this much Quran and I made sure I was

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in the masjid every day. And I fasted every day of the month. And

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you know, on the afternoon on Eid day, I went back and I messed

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myself up.

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Shaytan has just come out he's gonna come and try to despite

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everything that we've done for 30 days. That's why be very careful

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before the month, prepare yourself psychologically, emotionally,

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spiritually. And then after a month, you have to preserve it.

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One of the one of the wisdoms I see in the sixth facet of Chawan

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you know, there's a sunnah to keep six faster shawan And you get

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reward for fasting the entire year. They say if you fast that

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one of the other psychological benefits I see is I see once

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Ramadan finishes, you're no longer fasting, the shaytaan is out as

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well. So suddenly you're like naked in the world, you know, the

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shaytaan can attack us. If we immediately after eat if we start

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fasting the six days, then we will become accustomed to living in a

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world which shaytaan after Ramadan has finished when shaitan wasn't

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there, but we're still fasting so it'll still keep on the tradition

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of Ramadan we still feel with fasting so we should still be

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careful. And if we can survive at least a week or 10 days after the

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month of Ramadan without spoiling what we have done, then inshallah

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there's greater hope.

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There's greater hope. Because what shaytaan always tries to do is he

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tries to make us feel hopeless despondent, a you've lost

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everything. It's not worth it, you've lost everything. The days

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are too long, you've lost everything but Subhanallah

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there was a one of the great scholars of the subcontinent

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Hakimullah with Monash have eaten weed he his analysis of fasting is

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very interesting.

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Right? His analysis of Ramadan is very interesting. He said that the

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whole purpose of Ramadan I see is three things. He says basically

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look Tom,

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He says there are three things. One is to decrease your food.

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That's one of the purpose of fasting. Number two are Ramadan,

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rather. The second one is to decrease your sleep. And number

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three, to decrease your meeting with people. How does that apply?

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If in Ramadan, we're supposed to eat less in the sense that there's

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one less meal that you're supposed to have. Now of course, if I start

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time we're going

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stuff ourselves and do one and a half meals there. And then one

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after taraweeh, you know, half a meal after taraweeh. And then

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inside you have another whole meal, then it were really wasting

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our time. And in these days, it's unhealthy as well. Because you've

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got what have like, five, six hours, window to eat in, and

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you're gonna have two meals in that that's crazy, isn't it?

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Right? So be very careful of what we eat during this time, because

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the whole purpose of it is to decrease the food. You know,

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there's a hadith in which you mentioned the Prophet sallallahu

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sallam said the Sahaba in the vicinity Baraka

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make Sadie have that pre Dawn meal, because it provides baraka

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and blessing. So, when I would mention this, there's a lot of

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busy people who what they do is they will eat something after

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taraweeh and then they'll go to sleep and then wake up for Fudger

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at the last moment, you know, federal end of time prefetcher

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they won't have Sandy, they won't fulfill this sooner. I know it's

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soon only sunnah as such, but there's a bollock in the province,

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Allah Simpson.

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And then it Why do you? Why do you do that? said because I can't have

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a meal at that time. I can't have big biryani at that time. When

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who's telling you to have a video near that time? Who's telling you

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how to have food at that time? The Prophet Muhammad said do so who?

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What is so would have one day the glass of water who's telling you

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to have a meal? You know? So the whole purpose is to fulfill the

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Sunnah. What did the Sahaba used to do? You eat a bit? Right? You

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eat a bit, and you carry on. Now one thing I would I would really

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suggest that people are fast finding it difficult to fast.

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Sometimes it's vitamin deficiency. It's our diet. It's the nutrition

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problem, right? What I found to be very effective and very beneficial

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is that if you get a nice,

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good, expensive, potent multivitamin, in the month of

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Ramadan, it really helps

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to sustain your day. Because you don't want to fast in the month of

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Ramadan, and you have absolutely no energy to worship. So you're

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staying hungry, but that's it, your work, you come back and you

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go to sleep, you wake up, you go and pray in your back and you go

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to sleep again. So you're eating, sleeping and working, and then

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relaxing as much as possible. You want some vibrancy in the month of

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Ramadan to make the most use of it. So if you have problems with

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your diet, contact a dietitian. And I'm sure you know some of

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these older, older people and older women, they know the best

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foods to sustain yourself, especially with pregnant women,

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women, feeding their children and so on. It's always a good idea to

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find this information through dieticians, just so that you can

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sustain yourself, you have to be practical about it, we have to

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look at because our diets are not very wholesome anymore. A lot of

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artificial foods are in our diets nowadays, right. And the problem

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with that is we lose the nutritional level. So our body

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doesn't have enough and we feel really tired. And at the end of

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the response on Ramadan. And it's not we want to be vibrant in the

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month of Ramadan, so we can take care of it. But the whole point of

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Ramadan is a little time to decrease the food. So make sure

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that it is decreased.

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Make try in Ramadan to go and buy something that is more wholesome,

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even if it's expensive and needs a little than to eat lots of junk.

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Right? If you need to take a Red Bull for tarawih, I feel sorry for

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you.

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Really.

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And you know, for those who smoke, this is the best Ramadan for you.

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Because there's only about five hours from the McRib, to Iftar to

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set the time. So just avoid it completely. And within 30 days,

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hopefully and then after that you need to keep the strength up to

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not and there's people who Ramadan is one of the best times to stop

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smoking. Right? We're forced into not having for so many hours, so

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just avoid it. Use something else for that time. Something Khaled.

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So, he says decrease your food. So that's very important number to

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decrease your sleep.

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Essentially, in Ramadan, our whole system gets upset. It's all

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destabilized. Because due to taraweeh, especially nowadays,

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you're going to have to sleep later. Right? And you're going to

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have to wake up for Saturday time.

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And for Fajr inshallah tahajjud. So you get less sleep. And if you

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do make up your sleep, it's in, you know, it's in patches. So this

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instability of the times that we eat, and how much we're eating,

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and how much we're sleeping actually helps this Duff's because

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when the enough's is in a comfort zone where it gets its food on

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time, and it sleep on time and everything, then there's no

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challenge to it. But when you upset the system, and you put

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worship in its place, and you're doing it for the right reason, and

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spiritually, you're connected to Allah of why you're doing it, then

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that is going to be really effective for us in terms of why

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we fast in the month of Ramadan.

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And then he says, The ugly duckling, the ultimate, our

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decrease in your meeting with General people how

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Does that happen in Ramadan, it doesn't happen unless you do it

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cough.

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So the whole purpose of the 10 days of our take off is that you

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only stay in the masjid. Now in the masjid, the only people you're

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going to meet, is he in Islam hermit shoot is not allowed. We

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just go away in a cave for a year or something and you don't want to

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be anybody. There's no perfection in that we are social human

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beings. We're very social creatures. That's how Allah made

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us to live among people. That's why the laws of Islam, about

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dealing with people, he doesn't want us to just go be alone.

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That's easy. Once you get over the difficulty of the aloneness,

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right? He wants us to be with the people and still be able to

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worship Allah subhanho wa taala. Now the benefit of being 10 days

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in the month of Ramadan in the masjid, in an empty cough is that

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we're only going to meet we're going to meet some people, but

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it's only going to be people who are believers. The Prophet

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sallallahu sallam said, anybody who comes to the masjid, Then bear

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witness that he is a believer.

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So when you're in the masjid, you're going to visit somebody,

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you might speak to someone, you will do worship and you speak to

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somebody, but it's only going to be believers, you're not going to

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be visit anybody else. So you've just had this aloofness, but not

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not to yourself, so Shavon can't attack you anyway. So that's one

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of the benefits of being alone like that in a manner. So it's a

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destabilizing process for the benefit. Now, the other thing is

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this think back to ourselves, why do we fast?

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Why in all of these years that we have fast, why are we fasting? The

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mashallah the most amazing thing is that there are people who don't

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pray five times a day outside the month of Ramadan. But when it

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comes to Ramadan, they want to fast

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because our community, right, our society thinks it's very, very bad

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for somebody not to fast. One is okay, he doesn't pray. That's bad

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enough. But if he doesn't fast is a big facet. Right? In fact, the

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other thing that is taraweeh prayer,

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people might not pray five times a day outside the month of Ramadan

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when it comes from Allah, if He doesn't comfort that oh, man, this

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guy is a big fat sick, he is a big transgressor.

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So people come for tarawih why do we come for tarawih? And why are

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we fasting? Let's ask ourselves that question, is it because we

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became habituated to it because we were born in a Muslim household

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everybody was fasting, and it was kind of weird, not too fast. We

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fast as well. Is that why we're fasting?

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I mean, is that why we fast? Not why we should fast but is that why

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we are fasting?

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Just culturally out of habit?

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Or are we fasting just because it's a fault? And we're going to

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be punished for it?

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Most people will be for that second reason. Some people will be

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for the first reason most people will be for the second reason that

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are it's fun. It's an obligation. But man, it's a lot of hours just

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for an obligation. It's a lot of hours just for an obligation.

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The other thing is okay Tara with Tara is not even formed. It's a

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pseudonym AKA, why do you make Tarawih prayer? Because so people

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don't say man you don't pray You know, you just go to sleep. Why do

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we do it?

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There are two Hadith that Asahi the Prophet sallallahu sallam

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said, Men sama Ramadan Iman and Whitey Serban who fear Allah Who

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massacred the momentum.

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And the other hadith is muncom Ramadan, Iman and YT Serban who

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fear Allah Houma, Takata Moomins MB,

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Whoever fasts during the month of Ramadan, for what reason? For

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Iman, he's got this. Every time you feel hungry, I'm doing this

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formula. That thought should come in our mind. Not that man. I can't

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break it. So Medina is going to look at

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the difference. Can you see the difference in that? No, I'm doing

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it for the sake of Allah, you're doing our own love. I want Allah

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to be happy with me. Iman, out of iman first, you know that is a

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serious that is your motivation. And the Serban. The sub it means

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you are hoping, anticipating the reward from Allah anticipating

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Allah's pleasure with you.

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So we are fasting for the right reason we you know, all it is, is

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that if we've been fasting all of these years, this year, let us

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make our fasting more spiritual, by orienting our intention in the

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correct way. We are fasting because we believe in Allah and

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this is what Allah wants. And we want to make Allah happy. And this

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is the demands of us being his servant, his servants, and we hope

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for him from him for reward, and that he's going to bless us. He's

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going to give us genital filled dose and he's going to give us

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happiness. He's going to give us give us everything we want. If

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somebody fast with this intention, connecting himself to Allah

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through this hunger that he's having, then all of his previous

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sins are forgiven automatically.

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That's beautiful. But that is the power of

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intention, motivation and just direction. Same with Ravi, whoever

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stands in the month of Ramadan we stand and the problem with us

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people from non Arab countries is we don't even know what they're

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reading.

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They're going to finish the whole Quran in the month of Ramadan. We

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don't even though the reading,

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right? So we just want them by agility grow fast, fast, fast why

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this image reads so slowly

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get another one well what's wrong with this guy and you're gonna

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tell him man Don't you know we work all day long you need to read

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faster. Right now everybody relaxes like you do and just reads

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Quran all day, right? So

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you know. So what I'm saying is that we're going to have to stand

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if we have to stand rather than get upset about it and get all

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irritated about and agitated about it and go and make complaints and

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trying to hurry things up when it's not going to happen. You're

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just going to just relax and enjoy it. Think of this hadith and that

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happens when you're standing in is tiring and you've been working all

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day. And now you're standing, you know 20 rockets Subhanallah right,

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and you're standing there, just think of this hadith just remember

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this Hadees whoever stands in the month of Ramadan in worship Allah

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subhanaw taala with iman, and with anticipation for the great rewards

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from Allah subhanaw taala all of his previous sins have been

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forgiven. It's a sense of purification. Keep these two

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Hadith in mind whenever you feel hungry. When you start your fast

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when you end your fast and when you are standing in prayer. Just

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think of that it is extremely important. The prophets of Allah

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some said list saw me for Hatun for the fasting person there are

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two instances of happiness. One is in the fifth three he when he

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makes Iftar you know that feeling when you make a thought after a

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long day Subhanallah the pleasure that you get from whatever you eat

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and that time ajeeb Allah Subhana Allah you know the other thing is

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that Ramadan is full of Baraka but think about it in your family I'm

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sure you must see this. Don't you see these women who are fasting as

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well mashallah they're able to produce so much food, different

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types of food every day than they are throughout the whole year,

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compared to the whole year. Where does that Baraka country? It's a

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jeep, where does that Baraka come from?

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Right? And take it easy on the Mishti

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you know, the jalopy just take it easy on that. I know my dad has a

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jalopy shop Savera but I'm still telling you take it easy, right?

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So it's, it's, you take it easy on the food. But there's Baraka in

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Ramadan is baraka in every sense of it.

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The foods that are able to be produced during the month of

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Ramadan and the women, Allah give them reward. I don't know how they

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do it. But they do this Subhanallah they do. This is so

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much food. So one is in the factory, he were in the data

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robbing the second one is when he will meet with Allah subhanaw

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taala. If you if we can just think to ourselves, how much pleasure we

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get out of doing Iftar after a long day of fast can you imagine

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if Allah subhanaw taala gives us that same kind of pleasure in the

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hereafter when we meet with him how great that will be.

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If we can get that same pleasure, that we have an Iftar time and

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Allah gives it when we meet with him, that will be so great. That's

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why there's a dua for that, Oh Allah, the dogs who are still

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awesome. Oh Allah make the best of my days, the day that I meet you.

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If you think the best of your days is the day you bought your house,

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the day you got married, the day we got our, our first child, the

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day we got our degree, the day we got our job, or a promotion or

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this much money or whatever it is. No, make the best of my day, the

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day that I meet you, Oh Allah, then everything else can be good,

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but that will be the best. So may Allah subhanaw taala. Accept that

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from us. And I don't want to take too much time. These are basic

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things that we hear all the time. This is just a sense of reminder

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for myself and for everybody else. The other thing that I'd like to

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say is that on a practical note, we've learned how to deal with our

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first pangs of hunger, right to connect it to Allah subhanaw taala

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because the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, come inside him

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in. There are so many people who fuss but they have nothing from

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their staying hungry, except hunger. They don't get anything.

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And there are so many people who stay awake at night, but they get

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nothing out of staying hungry, staying awake at night, except

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sleeplessness. So we need to fill it with something. And we don't

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want all of us to be like that. Essentially, it's like you're

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sitting in the car. And on one you're one foot is on the

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accelerator and you're one foot is on the brake and you're giving the

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guests and you're wasting the petrol but you're not going

00:34:41 --> 00:34:42

anywhere because the brake is on.

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Right. We don't want that to happen. Ramadan, the barakaatuh

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coming, the blessings are there. But so we've got the AC on. We've

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got the air conditioning on but we left the windows open. We've left

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the door open, what's the point? So we have to avoid since now. You

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know we have to think to ourselves what is the major sin that we

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commit. What is it? That is our biggest challenge ourself,

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

everybody's individually has, you know, whatever challenge if it's,

00:35:05 --> 00:35:08

I think one of the biggest challenges that we live in cities

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

like this in the West is is just

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what you look at and what you see. That is, I think one of our

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biggest challenge because everything else, okay, I'm not

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going to do this. I'm not going to do that. I'm going to keep the TV

00:35:18 --> 00:35:21

off. I'm going to do this. But you go outside and you have to go

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outside. You can't stay in the masjid all month. I mean, if you

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can, it's great.

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You look up, you look down, you look left, you look right,

00:35:28 --> 00:35:31

wherever you are. One person he said he went somewhere on the

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tube. And he says, we're looking up, we can look up, look down, you

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can look down. I mean, when you look, newspaper,

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newspapers still use paper.

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He said it was so tough.

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Right? So Wallah, who are the mullah who Island, hola Juana,

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

what I'm one of my friends, he says that he goes to the

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

supermarket in the middle of the night, 24 hour supermarkets

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because there's less people that you have to worry about. But in

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the month of Ramadan, we need to for ourselves however, we can just

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to decrease to let more of the goodness in. And you know, the

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

benefit of that is you may think, well after Ramadan is going to be

00:36:07 --> 00:36:11

the same thing. Allah has put within us if we work hard enough,

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a resistance against these things, but this resistance has to first

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build up. And Ramadan is the time to build a resistance up. So for

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the for for many months in Ramadan, depending on how much

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effort that we have placed in the month of Ramadan. That is how many

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months it will benefit us for a person about two years ago, he

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mentioned, you may observe something he said that month that

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year in Ramadan, he did a lot of good deeds, he Luigi made a lot of

00:36:36 --> 00:36:42

dua, he did a lot of reading, he was very careful. And he made lots

00:36:42 --> 00:36:45

and lots of dua. And you know what he said? He said, It benefited him

00:36:45 --> 00:36:49

him personally, for seven months. There were things that he was

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habituated to before that, for seven months after Ramadan, he

00:36:53 --> 00:36:56

didn't even think about them, he didn't even have the urge to go.

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And after seven months, he noticed that he got worn out, and then he

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started getting back into them. So if we essentially what if we work

00:37:07 --> 00:37:12

very hard in the month of Ramadan, hard enough to strengthen ourself

00:37:13 --> 00:37:16

for the next 11 months, then the next Ramadan comes up, then we

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great, right? And this person, he said, I felt the difference with

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

the other years at this month for seven months. And he countered, he

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said, Subhan Allah, I remember then committing the sin that I

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hadn't done for seven months, right? And subhanAllah. So Ramadan

00:37:31 --> 00:37:34

is that time when you can fortify ourselves is very important. That

00:37:34 --> 00:37:37

is one of the benefits, we just can't waste a moment of that time.

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That's why I get a lot of our activities out so that we can

00:37:41 --> 00:37:42

focus on it. And I think finally

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we want to do a few things in the month of Ramadan.

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We want to do lots of Quran reading because Quran reading is

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extremely beneficial in the month of Ramadan. Right now to make that

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Quran reading even more powerful for us than just reading,

00:38:01 --> 00:38:05

especially us who don't understand Arabic, you know, non Arabs

00:38:08 --> 00:38:14

is we read, but we also spend some time in with a translation or a

00:38:14 --> 00:38:19

commentary. And we read, and we understand and we reflect over

00:38:19 --> 00:38:23

what Allah is telling us, that has such an impact on us.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:30

If we can read a translation, or get some CDs or tapes of the

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

Quran, tafseer or translation, whatever language you you're used

00:38:33 --> 00:38:38

to, and we can the part that is going to be recited in therapy

00:38:38 --> 00:38:43

that night, if we can just try to get a gist of the main message of

00:38:43 --> 00:38:47

those spirits and the you know, that part of the Quran, then it

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will benefit us even when we're listening to although we won't

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

understand every word, but we'll understand the gist of what's

00:38:51 --> 00:38:55

being read. And it will help us and it will help us in the long

00:38:55 --> 00:38:58

term as well. And then the other thing is spend a sample. So let's

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just say you're spending one hour in reading every day. Most people

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

spend more than that. But it's just as an example, if we're

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

spending, let's just say the one hour out of the 50% of the time do

00:39:06 --> 00:39:11

reading the Lord's you know, just just reading 25% of the time,

00:39:12 --> 00:39:13

memorize something

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by heart. If you've memorized something when you're young and

00:39:17 --> 00:39:21

you've forgotten it, let's use this time to memorize that you

00:39:21 --> 00:39:25

will get more reward than just reading. Why? Because let's just

00:39:25 --> 00:39:29

say you're trying to memorize sort of rock man or rock man why lemon

00:39:29 --> 00:39:32

Quran you get 10 rewards for every letter

00:39:33 --> 00:39:37

right? Or wrong, man, you get 50 rewards for that.

00:39:38 --> 00:39:43

And lemon Quran. Now you could read one Jews of the Quran or one

00:39:43 --> 00:39:45

whole Surah of the Quran get reward but you read it slowly

00:39:45 --> 00:39:48

because that's how you read. But if you're trying to memorize

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

suited to ramen, for example, using ramen or living Quran or

00:39:51 --> 00:39:55

ramen or lemon, you get faster and faster. You will read it more

00:39:55 --> 00:39:59

often. And each time you read it you get that same amount of reward

00:40:00 --> 00:40:04

and it gets in your it's preserved. So now even when you're

00:40:04 --> 00:40:07

traveling in your car, you're going somewhere on the underground

00:40:07 --> 00:40:11

or wherever it is. Now you can actually start reciting yourself.

00:40:11 --> 00:40:14

If you stand up in tahajjud, you can read more than Kuruvilla who

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

hadn't cloth available for the cloth robbing as you got more

00:40:16 --> 00:40:21

Quran in the hereafter? Allah subhanaw taala will say, Read and

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ascend. So the more Quran you know, the higher you can get in

00:40:24 --> 00:40:29

Jannah. And so you get worrywart in trying to memorize okay, you

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might not be able to finish the entire Quran like that, because

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you know, most people are not going to memorize the whole Quran

00:40:33 --> 00:40:38

there. But it just seems like a better deal. So spend some time

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

reading but spend some time memorizing something doesn't

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matter how old you are.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:46

Doesn't matter how old you are, if you don't know sort of the scene,

00:40:46 --> 00:40:52

the Barack Sajida sort of such the sort of the walker, right, sort of

00:40:52 --> 00:40:57

dull calf. These are things we want to know there's a benefit the

00:40:57 --> 00:40:59

promise a lot of Simpson anybody who recite Surah

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

Surah, to milk, the baraka, Lady via the milk every night, it will

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

be

00:41:06 --> 00:41:10

an advocate for him in the hereafter. Literally, there's a

00:41:10 --> 00:41:13

hadith which mentions that as soon as the angel of the angel comes to

00:41:13 --> 00:41:16

ask questions to this person, the angel will come and say what are

00:41:16 --> 00:41:21

you doing? Sorry, that sort of milk Tabarak will come and start a

00:41:21 --> 00:41:26

discussion with the angel and say he used to read me every day, the

00:41:26 --> 00:41:29

engine will get frightened, say look, I've come to do my task. If

00:41:29 --> 00:41:33

you've got any issues, go and talk to Allah subhanaw taala This is

00:41:33 --> 00:41:38

the best barista you can get in town. Literally, it will go to

00:41:38 --> 00:41:41

Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, so and so used to read me everyday

00:41:41 --> 00:41:45

you want to punish him? Right? This is Allah's words talking to

00:41:45 --> 00:41:49

Allah. Right? Because certain milk is the words of ALLAH. So ALLAH

00:41:49 --> 00:41:51

will say, Well, what he said, Well, if you want to punish him,

00:41:51 --> 00:41:56

then take me out of the Quran. Certain book bold. I mean, you

00:41:56 --> 00:41:59

can't have anybody bold, who can speak to Allah subhanaw taala take

00:41:59 --> 00:42:02

me out of the gun from Hooni. You know, like, take me out of the

00:42:02 --> 00:42:06

Quran. Then Allah subhanaw taala said no. So it will preserve the

00:42:06 --> 00:42:08

person or you might think well, okay, I'll do all the bad in the

00:42:08 --> 00:42:11

in my life, but I'll just read certain work every night. You

00:42:11 --> 00:42:15

want, it doesn't work that way. You don't get the Tofik

00:42:16 --> 00:42:21

though feek means Allah gives this divine ability only to those who

00:42:21 --> 00:42:24

deserve it. So if it's so easy, I'll marry certain milk every

00:42:24 --> 00:42:27

night. And I'll do everything else wrong in the day, it's just not

00:42:27 --> 00:42:31

going to work. You just forget, you just can't remember. Even

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

though it's so simple debacle that he wants, you know it by heart, it

00:42:33 --> 00:42:36

takes about five minutes to eat if even at three minutes, four

00:42:36 --> 00:42:37

minutes to read, right.

00:42:38 --> 00:42:43

But it's a matter of Tofik it's a matter of Tofik. But Ramadan is

00:42:43 --> 00:42:46

the time to just get it all together. And then the other 15

00:42:46 --> 00:42:49

minutes or 25% of the time, a translation or commentary and just

00:42:49 --> 00:42:53

focus on it. Right. So that was about the Quran. And finally,

00:42:55 --> 00:42:59

one of the greatest secrets of people who will go into genital

00:42:59 --> 00:43:06

for DOS is that they do Tahajjud prayer. Because Tahajjud prayer is

00:43:06 --> 00:43:10

the prayer that is done when other people are sleeping, or so Lubin

00:43:10 --> 00:43:12

was some noble lady when nurse Sunni and that's what the Prophet

00:43:12 --> 00:43:16

sallallahu sallam said, in fact is when somebody did something for a

00:43:16 --> 00:43:19

pseudo allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam liberalism said to him, ask

00:43:20 --> 00:43:24

ask a question. As for whatever you want, he said, a little more

00:43:24 --> 00:43:28

Africa. takaful Jana, I want your companionship in Jana, and

00:43:28 --> 00:43:31

probably the last one said our Hyaluronic, something else. Is

00:43:31 --> 00:43:34

there something else you want? Is that really you want this big

00:43:34 --> 00:43:38

thing? So he said, Yeah, that is what I want. You said, Okay, fine.

00:43:38 --> 00:43:42

Help me then assist me in getting you to this position by doing

00:43:42 --> 00:43:49

extra like adds extra roku. Extra sujood helped me right now.

00:43:49 --> 00:43:53

tahajjud is the secret of the lovers of Allah subhanho wa taala.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

In the in during the year, we don't get the opportunity. But in

00:43:57 --> 00:44:02

Ramadan, the women as well who are listening. And the men were waking

00:44:02 --> 00:44:05

up for Saturday time, which is before Friday, which is the 100th

00:44:05 --> 00:44:11

time and just be very disciplined and disregard. If it takes you 10

00:44:11 --> 00:44:16

minutes to eat, right 10 minutes to eat five minutes to go and do

00:44:16 --> 00:44:19

wudu and prepare and 10 minutes to eat. And then after that you're

00:44:19 --> 00:44:23

going to focus on Fudger just get up 15 minutes before that. All

00:44:23 --> 00:44:27

you're doing I mean it's so easy five minutes for we'll do five

00:44:27 --> 00:44:30

minutes to record so four cans of tahajjud. If you don't know many

00:44:30 --> 00:44:33

sources, you read for a cartoon show short Twitter cards longer

00:44:33 --> 00:44:38

ones. All I'm asking is less say that this year. We want to make

00:44:38 --> 00:44:41

sure every single day of this month, we're going to make at

00:44:41 --> 00:44:45

least two records of the hundreds, if not four, Twitter cuts of the

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

104 cards of tahajjud takes about five minutes, three, four minutes

00:44:48 --> 00:44:49

of dua,

00:44:50 --> 00:44:55

you've got the deal. Then go and eat or eat first and then do this

00:44:55 --> 00:44:59

half an hour eating and yes if you take half an hour for eating then

00:44:59 --> 00:45:00

you need to have 50

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

means extra for this. But I'm just saying that all this takes is 10

00:45:04 --> 00:45:10

to 15 minutes extra. But from now, say I want to do this, I'm not

00:45:10 --> 00:45:13

going to miss a single day, but I'm going to do it. Even if I wake

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

up late one day, I'm going to make that two rockets. I'll do my door

00:45:16 --> 00:45:20

when I'm eating, but I'm going to do my two rockets. Right? The

00:45:20 --> 00:45:21

women as well, they do the same thing.

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

And that way, if we can for 30 days due to the cuts extra, for

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

cuts of the hedges, and the DUA that we make after that for

00:45:30 --> 00:45:32

ourselves and our families and everybody else, it will go a very,

00:45:32 --> 00:45:36

very long way, will go a very long way. May Allah subhanaw taala give

00:45:36 --> 00:45:39

us the Tofik May Allah subhanaw taala give us Baraka in these

00:45:39 --> 00:45:42

remaining days, so that we can psychologically prepare. We can

00:45:42 --> 00:45:45

get many chores out the way and like give us Baraka in these days

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

so that things just happen very quickly. And may Allah subhanahu

00:45:48 --> 00:45:52

wa taala give us the best of this month of Ramadan right from the

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55

beginning, the Mercy, the forgiveness, the freedom from the

00:45:55 --> 00:45:58

hellfire, and may Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us a place in

00:45:58 --> 00:46:01

general for those that make us worthy of that position by making

00:46:01 --> 00:46:05

us really enjoy this month of Ramadan. And by increasing us in

00:46:05 --> 00:46:08

our love for Allah subhanho wa Taala and increasing our Taqwa

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

giving us the ability to do be great grateful to him for all the

00:46:11 --> 00:46:15

bounties that he was he has given us and may Allah subhanho wa Taala

00:46:15 --> 00:46:18

give us many many better Ramadan me every Ramadan better than the

00:46:18 --> 00:46:21

previous one working with that one and hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen

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