Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Tafsir of the Whole Qur’an in 30 Hours (Commentary) Part 5

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The segment discusses the theory that Islam is a temporary marriage and the use of verse 26 to avoid major sins. It emphasizes the importance of clear conversations and careful actions in situations where one or two people cause harm, as it is common for the monarchy to try to mislead people and avoid deaths. The discussion also touches on praying for peace, avoiding violence, and hesitation during prayer. The transcript covers a range of topics, including discussions on family relationships, justice, and staying true to Islam, as well as a book and quote from a woman named Missy. The discussion touches on various topics, including couples, family relationships, and the importance of showing gratitude towards Islam.
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In a law hookah now already Iman Hakima

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hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala UD Mursaleen.

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While he was so happy about Rocco was seldom at the Sleeman Cathy on

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Isla Yomi Dean and my bad

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hamdulillah Allah subhanaw taala has given us

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the enablement to start with the fifth Jers

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Surah to Nyssa. It's a continuation of Surah Nisa. In

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fact, this entire juice of the fifth juice is taken up by

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the verses of Surah Nisa chapter a chapter pertaining to women. So

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the first discussion in here is a continuation of the last

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discussion from the fourth juice, which is of who you can marry and

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who you cannot marry. So in detail, the discussion was about

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those women that men are not allowed to marry and then you look

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at the same thing the other way around. When it comes to women

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marrying men. Here Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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that this is what's prescribed upon you have anything beyond what

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we've mentioned here, then it's all halal for you to marry those

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women. But a few thing that that I mentioned here is that there has

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to be a mother a dowry must be given to show your seriousness,

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there's a marriage payment that must be provided.

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Now, from some of these verses, where Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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for Muslim data to be him in Hoonah, to Hoonah Jura Hoonah, for

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either the literal translation there about is that whoever you

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take benefit from whoever you enjoy, as husband and wife among

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them, then give them the give them their payment as an obligation.

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Now, some people have tried and this is obviously incorrect, but

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some people have tried to justify and support the idea of motor now

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I use the word motor the other day, but that was in the in the

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sense of giving a divorced your your your divorced wife a gift. So

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a wife who there I didn't go into it in too much detail. But if your

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wife if you had been married to somebody and had not consumated

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and not gotten together with just married and also you did not

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decide on stipulate a man or a marriage payment, so it was just a

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quick Nikka solemnization and you did not get together then because

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there was no Mahara day you still have to give a motor would you

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been like necessarily, and any other wife, even if you paid her

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the Mahara and so on, as I mentioned last time, you have to

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give them a motor, which in that case just meant a gift, generally

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a suit or something like that. Here the concept of motor is

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different because the word motor means an enjoyment, something to

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enjoy. So here the idea of muda is that you a man comes to a woman

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and says I will marry you temporarily. So essentially, the

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concern hooter is a temporary marriage, two days, two hours,

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right, essentially another word for prostitution. This happens in

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some countries, there was a BBC documentary about it happening in

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Iraq, because under the Shia, she is school of thought, this has

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some this has some validity and maybe even virtue, right based on

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the understanding of this. But in Islam, while this may have been

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permitted earlier on, there was a early on in his time may have been

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permitted. But after that, there's a very clear narration from IGNOU,

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magic, etc, that while this may have been done in the beginning,

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meaning there was permission at the beginning. But now since then,

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until Qiyamah, this has become prohibited. So in the in the Sunni

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school, I was suitable Gemma, this is completely prohibited. It's

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huge abuse that as the BBC commentary showed a BBC

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documentary not that everything to be research shows is good, but it

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just showed the abuse that was taking place in that case, so this

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is not

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Got a verse that you can justify the concept of muda or temporary

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marriages as such with that.

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Allah subhanaw taala then discusses several other things

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here.

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Number one,

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there's a discussion there's from verse 26 onwards three, three

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verses are very, very profound. You read the law Julio beggin

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Allah come after mentioning all of these things Allah says, Allah

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wants to make this clear to you. Allah wants to provide you this

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exposition, and he wants to guide you, guide you to the ways of

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those before you and then he wants to forgive you. He wants to accept

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your repentance if you do anything wrong and Allah is Knowing and the

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wise one, then Allah says Allah who you read on your toolbar

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Aleikum, Allah wants to accept your your repentance, when you

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read the Latina atterberry Wanna show hurt, and Dimino Malan Alima,

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while those people who follow their desires, they would rather

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that you basically completely, you completely incline away from the

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faith. So there's always people out there, and you will see that

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in different colors. And as we go along, I'm going to explain some

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of that today in sha Allah that there's a lot of people who want

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people to do wrong because it just makes them feel better. It

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validates their understanding, it validates their practice, it

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validates their abandonment of something. And that's always going

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to be the case so don't come under their pressure. Then Allah

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subhanaw taala says UD doula Who are you happy for uncle? Allah

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wants to lighten the burden upon you. Right? Allah wants to lighten

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it upon you. Well, holy called in son or daughter, Eva, because

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humans, the insan has been created week. That's a declaration of

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Allah, Who created us our Creator. One of the tabs in his explanation

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here was that when a man sees a woman, he can't he he has a tough

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time basically controlling his gaze and managing the situation.

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Not having sticky eyes, which in Ramadan is definitely a, you know,

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it becomes easier for a lot of people as they say. But that's the

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explanation Yeah, that the human has been created weak that he

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knows he can't have something, everybody you see, you can't have.

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Maybe you can have maximum of two, four according to the permission,

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but you can't but every new person they see, they want to look, it's

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this natural desire, which is part of our weakness part of the fitna

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part of the Grands scale of the environment that Allah subhanaw

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taala wants to put us in and wants us to avoid and see if we love

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Allah more by by abandoning the stare the surreptitious look and

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by following the Command of Allah and may Allah make that easy for

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men. Then Allah subhanaw taala says, These are several different

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miscellaneous issues that Allah brings up here. Yeah, you have

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Latina and hula Kulu and one other combined a conveyor belt Hill.

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Verse 29 are people who believe do not consume your wealth between

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you in an unjust fashion unless it's the genre that you're going

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to do straight away the genre is allowed but you can't consume well

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for one another while a duck to do and Fusa come in Allah gonna

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become Rahima so several a woman here for elderly Cora Diwan and

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was Holman for so famously, he narrow what kind of 30 Carla is

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zero then the next verse is 31. It started in touch then evil cabal

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aroma. tahona and

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Luca Farah uncom. Say article, one will kill komoot Hulen, Karima,

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extremely

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promising and very comforting. Because what Allah subhanaw taala

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is saying that if you avoid the major sins, those that you've been

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prohibited from, that you've been warned against the major ones,

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then your other smaller deeds and so on your smaller sins and so on

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that you may commit randomly just like that, inadvertently, maybe

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they we can easily expiate for them, we can easily remove them,

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it make a major effort to avoid the big sins, may may may make a

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big effort to avoid the major sins, and Allah subhanaw taala

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will also forgive our minor sins that we don't even realize

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sometimes that we may be doing.

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And we will enter you into a noble place. Then Allah subhanaw taala

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says in verse 32, this is just to manage our expectations in the

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world, because the way the world is made up, the way humanity is

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distributed, is that you're going to have a spectrum of people,

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you're going to have the very, very, very wealthy, the filthy

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rich, the I don't know how many percentage it is that own half the

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wealth of the world, then in every community, then you're going to

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have the quite wealthy, then you're going to have those that

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are doing well. Those that are just getting by those that are

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struggling to get by and those who have absolutely nothing, and those

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who are literally dying of hunger. So you've got a spectrum all the

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time. Now everybody just like when it comes to knowledge and things

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is always

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is going to be something someone else will have even the wealthiest

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person there's going to be something that someone else has.

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And he's going to look. And he's going to get attracted by that. So

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Allah subhanaw taala is saying that it doesn't matter where you

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are, do not look at those above you. Because when you look at

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those above you, it encourages you. I mean, I've got two watches,

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which I've had for about 15 to 20 years, but 10 to 20 years, and

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they both work. Right, they've lost their waterproofing, but they

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work and I can't justify buying another one. Because I think it's

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a waste is still working. They're giving me the time. But just a few

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years ago, I remember this very vividly, there was another scholar

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come he had a really nice rather watch a really nice thin one. And

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I looked at I was like, I should get one of those. Right until

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then, because there's always gonna be something that will catch your

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fancy.

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Right? There's always something that's the dunya that's our

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attraction to the world. So Allah says, What are teta men, no, man,

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Fidel, Allah who he bought the Kumala bug, do not

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desire that which we've given Additionally, as Grace to some

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over the other. And this could be numerous things this could be men

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to women, women to men, because Allah then says literally no Cebu,

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Mactan Cebu, were in Nyssa, in Acebo, mimic the certain men are

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going to basically account for their own deeds, and women are

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going to account for their own deeds. So if there's something

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given to women that men would love and said, don't look at them feel

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bad about it. And likewise, if there's something that men have,

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that women do not have, then don't feel like I must have that as

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well. Because Allah subhanaw taala says that each one of you is going

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to be judged according to whatever you have been. Whatever you earn

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was a Lula Hammond for the night you can ask for Allah's grace in

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Allah have equilibria in Idema. Then after that,

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from this, from verse 34, starts the discussion about male and

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female interaction, husband and wife interaction, and basically

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just the nature of men and women in general, which we don't have to

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which we don't have the time to go into in depth otherwise, it's a

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very profound verse that everybody should read and understand. And

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unfortunately, there's aspects of this that are misunderstood,

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misapplied, and because of that, it brings a lot of abuse. So that

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is original Yukawa Mona, Lisa ebmm, Fidel, Allahu, Allahu Allah

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about men, the Qalamoun. That's how I'm going to translate it upon

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women, or for women, because of the grace that Allah subhanaw

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taala has provided some over the other and because they spend upon

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them from their wealth. So men have been given a certain

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authority, a certain incharge certain responsibility, let's call

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it right, so the in a family paradigm in Islam, the man is the

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head of the household. And I don't mean head of the household in the

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sense that he has to come in sit on a throne, right, the special

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arm chair or the special massage chair, right that cost 1000 pounds

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or whatever. And then he just basically says, Okay, bring me

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this, bring me that and gets very angry, if they don't, he's not

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supposed to be a dictator. That's not the idea. The idea is that

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he's in charge, meaning he is responsible for anything goes

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wrong in the family, he is in charge. If there is no tarbiyah,

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and he doesn't discipline, train the people to train the children

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properly, he is going to be His neck is going to be grabbed on the

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Day of Judgment. That's, that's very important to understand it's

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a responsibility is not some position to enjoy an abuse and

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take advantage of like that you can take advantage of in the right

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way that okay, I'm the maid the head of the household. So Allah

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has given me a very important mission, a very important role to

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play. And I want to do this properly. And the best person to

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understand this from is the messenger of allah sallallahu

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alayhi salam, who at one time had nine wives and children and the

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way he dealt with them. So that's the discussion that that is the

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idea. And because they spend upon them, that's a very important

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characteristic that men are the ones who are in charge Subhanallah

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you get stories of men forcing their wives to go and work and

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they don't, they get a menial job. They don't they sit at home and

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just say they're on the stock market. Right? And they're not

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really doing much in the stock market. And they're getting their

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wives to have a stable job. In fact, I was once a woman called

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and said that she's an ecobee. She She covers her face, the husband

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says he can't find a so called Halal job in which there's no male

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female interaction. So he forced her to go out to work is like get

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your priorities right. So the man's responsibility is that he is

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in charge in making sure all the affairs are taken care of. That

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doesn't mean that the mother is not in charge at all that the wife

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is knowing she can be in charge of. You can designate you can

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delegate tasks, you can designate various different areas. And in

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many houses, it works very well. Likewise for tomorrow, the Allahu

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anha an ally to the Allah who aren't one of the best couples in

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Islam. They had a very, very

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A nice distribution of idea rather than being in charge of everything

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outside and bringing in the money and 13 out of the Allahu anha was

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in charge of everything inside.

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And of course, you're going to have to make amends. If you want a

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lot from the outside, then the wife may have to take pots. And if

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you want a lot more inside, then the men is going to have to take

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part in that as well. You can't expect more beyond kind of the the

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average, and then expect not to take part and make it burdensome.

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For example, a man in forcing the his wife must also work full time

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while he does. And then she also has to do everything else that's

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inside the house.

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But the main thing is that they must spend, that's why you get a

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big imbalance when the wife is bringing the money. And the

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husband is not bringing in any money. He's not contributing. And

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thus it creates a huge emotional imbalance, psychological

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imbalance.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala speaks about the case of discipline,

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which is a really controversial, so called controversial versus

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some people like to make it because if you look at 20

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Different Quran translations, for the third aspect in here, you're

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going to see different translations. Basically, the idea

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here is that if there is some tyranny from the wife, because the

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husband is supposed to be in charge to make sure it's alright,

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as I said, you know, we must be careful, because unfortunately,

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some husbands are like the oldest son for the wife, they have to

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look after him, like the oldest son, unfortunately, which is

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really messing up the whole role there and then expect to still be

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the man of the house. So the idea here is that if a wife is acting

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tyrannically and she's not fulfilling her side of the

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bargain, and basically trying to overcome

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where the husband's responsibilities are, then Allah

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subhanaw taala provides a method for discipline. So listen to this

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very carefully, I'm gonna say in brief only. So Allah subhanaw

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taala says, we're lucky to have one and we choose the Hoonah verse

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34, for a through Hoonah, your first job is to give them advice.

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Maybe they just forgotten, maybe they don't realize in so many

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husband wife situations, you have it where one person, one couple,

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or one partner is doing something, but it's not realizing the impact

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it's having on the other. We get this all the time. When you tell

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them and hamdulillah they wake up and they understand they get

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consciousness. Sometimes we have men and women who tell others to,

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they expect the other to be doing a certain thing. But they don't,

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they don't tell them and then they just have this gripe inside until

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one day they blow up. That's not the right way to do things. You

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need to have an open conversation and an open relationship where you

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mentioned these things. So Allah says first for a zoo Hoonah first

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give advice. Why would you ruin a second, if that doesn't work, then

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the second way to show your displeasure is to stay away in

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bed. So do not sleep together. Which means go away, sleep

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somewhere else, don't push her out of the bed You go and sleep

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soundly to show your displeasure. Hopefully that should sorted out

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in most cases, one and two more than enough. Then it says if that

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doesn't work, Allah subhanaw taala then says after that strike, hit.

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Now the word hit and strike, you have to be careful about that I

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like the word beat is a lot of people do a translation beat her.

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If you look at a dictionary definition of beat, it means to to

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strike somebody with the intention of wounding. And that definitely

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is not what is meant here. The one of the best people we're gonna go

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to look for the Tafseer of this. For example, as I've said, our one

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of our earliest published of series tell us which is Tafseer of

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Tabari. He relates directly with this chain to Abdullah and Ibis

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are the Allahu Anhu. The meaning of this is that with something

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like a to stick, a miswak like a straw, literally like a straw,

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just to show displeasure, it's not to wound or anything like that.

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That is what the Quran is saying here. However, the Prophet

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sallallahu sums his sunnah. Right was to never hit. And that is what

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I follow. And that is what I encourage is that you never hit in

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fact, when I get calls of women who call and say, I'm getting

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beaten up, I say go to the police straightaway. It's a very

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difficult thing to for them to do that because there's so much

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family, and that involves that, how can I go? But really, unless

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you take a strong stance, things don't generally change because

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it's generally hereditary. Right? Somebody called me once I beat my

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wife, I knew this guy.

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Why did he hit his wife? I don't think he ever did it again

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afterwards, because he is shocked. And I think the reason he did it

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at that time was probably because he had been married newly, and

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you've probably seen his parents do it. His father do it. A lot of

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the time. It's hereditary. You don't need to do it.

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You don't need to do and a lot of people who actually do hit their

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wives, they do not do it this way. Even though they might be saying

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it's in the Quran that you can do that. They do not advise them. Oh,

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I've advised him for the last 20 years. You've been beating them

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off for 20 years. Right? That's what that's what that's the idea.

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And then separating from the bed they would never do that. In fact,

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they'd make sure they

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In bed and they Subhanallah right? Anyway,

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then Allah subhanho wa Taala says where he lived him shikaka By any

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Hema. Now sometimes relationships are irretrievably broken down, and

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they just you can't just see it. Unfortunately you have some

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cultures where you must stay together is it like Catholic

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Catholic culture in Islam almost which completely wrong. It's only

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the Catholics that kind of insist that you must stay together till

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death till death, do we not part or something like that? In Islam,

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it's allowed, but we do have some cultures where, no, you have to

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live together and stay together even if it's either irretrievably

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broken down, they sit there sleeping in separate rooms, they

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don't see one another.

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I had a case like that. A guy saying literally I'm just having

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to stay together for numerous economic children other reasons.

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And they live in separate rooms. But he goes when I see her in the

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passage,

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and it was actually before last Ramadan says in Ramadan is coming

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I want to be particular can do I have to say salaam to her Do I

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have to say anything to her because

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it was a very unique situation.

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So in Islam, it's allowed the first the first step though here

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is that if you do fear, a dispute between them and such separation

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like that, then send

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send an arbiter from each side so that they can go and try to solve

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the issue. get the family involved, get an arbiter, involve

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somebody who can stand in for demands, because sometimes they

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don't even want to speak to one another. There's so much

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suspicion, there is just so much mistrust distrust, that it doesn't

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work. That's why you need somebody else to step in and just change

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the whole game. That's the way sometimes you read Islam and you

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offer killer Vayner humor, if they do want reform, then Allah will

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provide that Tofik and that reconciliation between them, Allah

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subhanaw taala is most knowing. And Allah is is all all aware and

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all knowing. Then Allah subhanaw taala says, kind of a round up

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where Abdullah worship Allah, in verse 36, worship Allah do not

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ascribe any partners to him, and then deal excellently show

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excellent behavior to your parents, to your relatives, to the

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orphans, to the miskeen, basically, the needy people and

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your neighbors. In Islam, neighbors are very important. Now,

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neighbors are three categories. And the higher the category, the

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more your responsibility towards that neighbor. Because generally

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in most communities until our modern metropolis, and our modern,

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global world, most people lived among their family members, they

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lived in their village, the area of the town or city, and everybody

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lived there, you got a job close by, or you had your own fields or

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your own business or something. But in this new globalized world,

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where everybody's trying is in America, there's very few

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families, for example, in North America, very few families that

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are all together, as in all the siblings are together, one brother

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is in New York and other ones in Texas, and the other one is in San

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Jose, California, the only time they actually get together is on

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Thanksgiving. Right? Alhamdulillah in England is not that bad, right?

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And then England is not that big either. So you can easily get

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together, right. But still, I think our families are closer

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together in the UK, and as in other places, but generally, that

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was the case. So now, if your neighbor is just the neighbor is

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not related to you, and he's not a Muslim, you still still has a

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right, as being a neighbor, you live together, the first person to

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understand something's gonna go in your house is gonna be your

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neighbor. So you can see that there's a practical advantage

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there as well that you must be good to one another. And believe

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me to have a bad neighbor, that you're on bad terms with Subhan.

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Allah is saying that if you're a Bedouin, and you have a bad

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neighbor in the tent next to you, that's fine. Because the neighbor

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in the bad year, you have to how well, you're going to move around,

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because you're nomads you move around. But when you're in harder

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when you're in a fixed place, can you imagine for the next 3040 50

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years, you don't want to sell up, they don't want to sell up. So you

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must have good relationship with them, give them things, just ask

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behind them, don't bother them, and so on. If they also now a

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Muslim, that's two rights practically as well, because

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there's going to be EAD that you're going to be celebrating

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together, right? There's going to be other other things that you're

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going to share from a religious perspective. So there's going to

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be more rights there. And number three is if they're also related

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to you, which in many cases, your neighbors generally your brother

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or somebody, now you got three rights neighbor, Muslim, and your

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relative. So you have to do that much more. So a lot of practical

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considerations in that case, and her communism about neighbors is

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such that we've all we've got it to such a level that the privacy

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laws have said that do not even enter certain things in your

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house, right without giving them because if their children for

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example, if you're giving your children ice cream to eat and

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they're outside and your neighbors guys, neighbors, children are

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playing outside, and you only give your children ice cream and not

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them. That's probably one of the worst persecutions you can do.

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Right. Can you imagine a child without ice cream and he watches

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everybody else eating ice cream? That's just a no no if you want to

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do it, give them to him in the house, make sure they eat them in

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the house so that the neighbor doesn't see the neighbor's

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children do not see. Okay. Allah subhanho wa Taala then continues

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discussion about spending in the path of Allah that keeps coming up

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because that's again a very important aspect of Islam. Then,

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Allah subhanaw taala brings some issues relating to the Bani Israel

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and especially at the time of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam

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and the deception that was used by them and that untruths that they

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would say, the lying that they would they you know, the lies that

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they would tell, and

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that's discussed, they're told that Be careful about all of this.

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And then Allah subhanaw taala says that Allah forgives everything.

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In Allah, Allah if you don't use Shakopee. Well, Pharaoh Medina,

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radically Manisha, which is verse 48. Allah forgives everything

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except shitcan ascription.

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Then there's a number of other warnings with regards to your

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enemies and the non Muslims of the time that used to cause a lot of

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enmity and a lot of opposition. It was a quite a tough time at that

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at that time, because there was clear demarcation that you or

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someone else there was there was no in between in that case.

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Now, Islam is the religion of

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justice, and fairness and equality. And that's why Allah

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subhanaw taala tells us in Allah Hi yah moto COMM In this verse 58,

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and 59, which are basically the consider the verses of Adam, the

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verses of justice, right? Of course, the one of the biggest

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declarations of justice in the Quran is in surah Rahman, Waldo al

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Meezan, Allah placed the scale everything is within a balance in

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the world and anybody upsets that is abusing it. So, Allah subhanaw

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taala has commanded you that you basically

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fulfill your Trust's anything which is entrusted to you, you

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must fulfill it in the right way to adult Amana de la Alia, whoever

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that is, trust to your wife, trust your husband, trust to your

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children, trust to your community, trust to humanity trust to Allah

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trust to the messengers of the Lord is Allah and welcome to beta

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nasty and Docomo Bill Adams. Whenever you do have to make a

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decision among people whenever you have to judge between people

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doesn't mean like you sit as a judge. But in any kind of

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situation where you are made to judge between Let not your family

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ties, Let not your business relationships, let not anything

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else come in the way but be just those people will always be

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remembered forever. Those people will always be remembered who are

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just regardless of what comes in between. in Allah and Mar Ito

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commit this is a big issue that Allah is advising you about. Allah

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is all hearing and all seeing ya you have the nominal to Allah wa T

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O Rasool, what will Emory mean come the next verse 59. O people

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who believe, obey Allah and obey the messenger and obey those in

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authority over you. I mean, imagine it, if you, your employer

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has the authority over you. If you're part of a committee, the

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head has authority over you, the leader of your, your place, your

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country, whatever has authority over you, you're supposed to obey

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them in anything in which they're not being abusive, at least.

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Right. Otherwise, you protest and you do the right thing, right. But

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otherwise, wherever it's right, you have to obey that is basically

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a rule for social, for social consistency for social harmony. So

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just not that you do worship, but you also have to make sure that

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you obey those who are above you, in certain positions. Allah has

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given them that position, and there's a reason that we need to

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maintain the harmony.

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Now from verse 60, there's a alum Tara eldini is Ramona Nahum alum

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and will be mountain Zilla, elite women on Islam in public. There's

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a

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this came down because of a specific incidents. A very

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interesting incident. That's very telling. What exactly happened

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here is that, as I said, the whole discussion is that Islam talks

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about fairness and balance, it doesn't matter who it is. So if

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there's a case of a Muslim against the non Muslim, and the Muslim is

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in the wrong, then you would have to judge for the non Muslim. And

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that's exactly what happened here with Manny butala. There's a

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famous story about Earth ammonium Natalka.

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He was they were in charge that family and especially with

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ammonium Natella was in charge of the key of the kava, that's a very

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prestigious prestigious position. So one family was in charge of the

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water and other was in charge of the Hajaj and one was in charge of

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the key. So he was not a Muslim at the conquest.

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The taking of Makkah, he was not a Muslim. So initially they taken

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the key away from him. Right some of the soldiers some of the

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Muslims have taken the key of away from him. But

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Allah subhanho wa Taala the prophets of Allah Islam said, No,

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give it back to him. That's their right, give it to them And

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subhanAllah seeing this justice, the Earthman Radi Allahu Anhu

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became a Muslim. Right? He became a Muslim. And

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there's another story here, which is that there was a

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name Muslim, Muslim by name, I'm gonna pick essentially, right, a

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hypocrite. He had a case against a Jewish person, right, a Jew of

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Madina, Munawwara and they came to the Prophet salAllahu alayhi

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wasallam with their case, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wasallam. With his justice, he ruled in favor of the Jewish

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person, right? Not because this guy was a monastic or something,

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but because the truth was this with the Jewish person, this guy

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claimed to be a Muslim, but the other one was a Jewish person he

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gave him it was his rate. Now this obviously start a study creating a

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big issue because the monarchy can reduce any anything to create

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rumors and so on.

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Now, now, what actually happened is this

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malefic then goes to Amara, the allones house, and this is drama

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or the allowing you to judge between us. I've got a case on

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whether the law one who does not know that I promised the law some

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has already made a judgment. So he says, Okay, what is the case? What

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is the story? So he says, he was about to tell him when the Jewish

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person said, Jamar, the prophets, Allah, Allah has already judged

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between us in my favor. Someone who said, Okay, wait, he went into

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his house, he was outside, he went into his house, brought a sword

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and basically finished the guy off, not that you, the monastic,

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the one who called himself a Muslim. And first you think it was

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just kind of a haphazard, arbitrary. I mean, those days, I

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mean, taking somebody's head off was not a big deal, to be honest,

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that doesn't justify it, right? Because they carried their swords

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pretty much everywhere. It was they were in constant skirmishes

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and so on. Life was cheap. In many cases, Islam came to do away with

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that, the justification here, and I remember when I first read, it

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was like, how do you do that? The justification here is that the

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this person, according to Islam, anybody who goes against the

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Prophet sallallahu, his command, especially in front of him like

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that, that means he's apostasy sized, and apostasy has the, you

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know, has the penalty of being killed. So that's exactly what I

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want to do. Alana did in that case, this is not something you do

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at home here. Right? This is something that was done in Medina,

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Illinois in a very particular way. And normally they knew what he was

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talking about. So now because of that, they started causing a lot

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of problems. And that's why Allah subhanaw taala now mentions a

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number of verses from 15 from 60, and onwards that discussed this,

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that discuss all of these, all of these things. And

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the main the main point in all of this is follow our basic law you

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Mina had you had Kito coffee, Masha jobina Hum through Mala Ji

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Doofy and fusi him ha Raja me Mercado eats where you sell him

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with a sliema. That no by your Lord. They cannot be true

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believers until they make you the judge in what they dispute among

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them. And then once you've made the judgment, they do not find any

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problem with that. They have no reservations about your judgment.

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About what about the judgment you made, and they fully submit, they

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fully submit.

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But this was the problem with the monarchy they were the additional

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one was to have non Muslims who are against you. Then it was those

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that who were actually non Muslim inside but they showed themselves

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to be muslims outside they were even a bigger problem. That's

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where Allah subhanaw taala speaks about a woman Utair Allah rasool

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Allah Iike. Now this is one of the wonderful verses which is actually

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a Tafseer of a part of Surah Fatiha right after the Quran with

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the Quran, which is verse 69. That those the one who obeys Allah and

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His Messenger, they are the ones who will then be with those that

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Allah subhanaw taala showered his blessings upon untidy him those my

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Alladhina Anam Allahu Allah him the prophets Siddiqui in the

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champions of truth, were shahada, the martyrs and the Saudi Hindu

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righteous ones. Well Hassan Hola, Erica Rafi, Erica, and what a

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beautiful company and friends these are, may Allah make us among

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them vertical for grooming Allah Wa Kafa BiLlahi Idema. Now the

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next discussion is all about Jihad and preparation for jihad.

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Remember, Islam was an entity, it was a entity of rule, right? Their

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whole rule was according to Islam. So within that, the whole concept

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of defense, the whole concept of fighting, the whole concept of

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preparation for that, being on preparation, all that had to be

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part of the system. Right? And that's where it is. Now. That's

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why we find it so difficult in the West, which has its own laws,

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right, and who sometimes use so called Bucha

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Even when it suits them, like they did in Bosnia, right in the

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Bosnian was the Balkan Wars, but then after that, that they're

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fearful because some people do do some crazy things, they get a bit

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misunderstanding of that of how unreal jihad is. That's why I

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mentioned before as well that this is something that we're going to

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have to work out, because the Quran is just replete with this.

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And if it can help humanity in the right way, then that's an

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important idea that needs to be discussed openly. Right? Because

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otherwise, it creates a major conundrum in the minds of Muslims

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and non Muslims. So that's why we need clarity, we need to provide

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some clarity, for this in work on some clarity for this in the West

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Inshallah, but numerous isn't folio cartel visa vie de la, the

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idea is Allah subhanho wa Taala is saying that look, at the end of

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the day when you need to defend yourself, when you need to

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undertake certain battles, for good reasons, then, if you're

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going to be killed in it, it's because Allah has written it to be

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so if Allah had written for you to be killed, for you to die, you

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would die on your on your bed, you would die at home, you die in your

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field, you die doing something that would not have been

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considered to be dangerous. So at the end of the day, your death

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your life is written in the hands of Allah. But where does it just

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toward the end, you need to take part in it in the right way when

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there's a call for it. So all of this discussion is there and

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discussing how the monarchy will try to mislead and say no, don't

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go, they will try to demoralize on numerous occasions, they would

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actually go out with them as a contingent, and when they've gone

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like half the way they would retreat that would demoralize

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everybody else that hey, we've already lost 25% of our people or

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10% of our people.

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Because Allah says in verse 7878, a no matter who you drink Kool Moe

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to wear a condom fee Guruji Masha Jada, right, another very clear

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cut idea about death, wherever you are, wherever you be, wherever you

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will be, death is going to catch up with you. Even if you are in

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these lofty towers, nobody has access, you need a special crane

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to take you up there. So nobody can come and kill you there. But

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death will even come there. Right where no other man can reach and

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you're the only person even on the moon or wherever it is. And that's

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why waiting to see Balmaceda 2002 heavy him in in the law then

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saying that whenever something good happens, then people say

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okay, this is from Allah. And we're in to Seville Satan yaku how

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the human are in the Coulomb. And in the law, everything is from

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Allah, whether it's good or bad, everything Allah is in, but Masaba

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come in hasenhuttl Wherever good does come to you. Then understand

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that Allah wants to favor you. Well, ma Saba come in, say year,

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whatever there seems to be like some people might say there's a

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contradiction between verse 78 and 79. So I'm just clarifying. In the

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first one, Allah is just saying that everything comes from Allah,

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whether it's good or bad, it's all on the Allah's plan. He's the

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creator of it. And the second verse is saying that, yes,

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whenever something good and positive happens to them, Allah is

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gifting you something. When something negative and wrong and

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adversity takes place, then it's because of some sin, or some

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wrong, some blameworthiness that you've committed so introspect.

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Yes, it's created by Allah, but it's most likely either punishment

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or something for you may have done, then Allah subhanaw taala

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speaks about a number of other things.

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discussing how you need to be careful of your enemies plotting

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against you, they're making plans behind your back, then openly

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telling you one thing, and then after going behind and plotting

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against you speaking against you, joining up with your enemies and

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so on and so forth. You know, this is the situation today as well.

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Right? And this is very telling for us. Allah subhanho wa Taala

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says in verse 88, right for murder Kornfield whenever you pay mana

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for your tea in a fee attain wala who arkessa hornbeam aka Cebu to

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read una and doom an adult Allah Allah. When when you read Allah

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fell into J Dilla. Huzzah, Bella, the existence of the monarchy.

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Keane was a very complicated matter. It was very confusing,

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very challenging. The reason is, you've got people who are calling

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themselves Muslim. Now, they're not aggressive every day. They're

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very clever. Right? They're hiding their aggression. They're smiling

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at you, right. Now, for some people who have not felt the brunt

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of it. They're thinking that these are decent people, why you

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aggressing against them, they are our brothers, they Muslims, they

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are our brothers, others who felt it, right, who have experienced

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it, who know the reality and seeing the deception. They want to

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take some measures. So that's creating a problem. Today that

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creates the same problem. There's people out there Islamophobes or

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actually Muslim Islamophobes I mean, you know what a statement,

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right? And Muslim Islamophobia in a sense that they will write in

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reports and in the media and so on things that actually go

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against Islam, but say I'm a Muslim.

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How can I be against Islam? So this is justified. Most of the

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time is to do with changing of laws liberalization, changing

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haram into halal and so on. And for a lot of people that creates

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confusion that he's saying as a Muslim, so you should call him a

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Muslim. Now we're not saying call a person can fit here. And of

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course their situation will nothing was different. But Allah

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makes it very hisses, what's the problem? What is wrong with you,

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that you've become to you become two parties with regards to the

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the monarchy and whereas Allah subhanaw taala is going to take

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them to task for what they do. Do you think you can guide basically

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those that Allah subhanaw taala has missed as allowed to stray?

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Right? Because anybody that Allah has allowed to stray, you will not

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find any path for them. They What do Allah is in his Jalil here in

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His Majesty is what do Deltec follow and I cannot care for data

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just want you to disbelieve just like they disbelief but Hakuna

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Salah so that you become the same, right they all disbelievers for

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Lattakia dooming him Oh, they don't make any friends among

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people like that.

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So that's why there's some this happens a lot. This happens a lot,

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that a person who

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can't do something like he can't fast in Ramadan, he's going to try

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to justify to others why fasting is not necessary, because just

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makes them feel a bit better. One thing good is that at least they

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seem to have one foot still in Islam. So like they want to be

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another one is I don't wear hijab, right? But hijab is not necessary.

00:41:33 --> 00:41:36

Why do you have to wear it for Why do you insist on that? Of course,

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it's necessary. It's one of the Orthodox substratum of beliefs is

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no question. It's an axiomatic belief of Islam, the hijab, you

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don't even need evidence for it, to ask for evidence clear cut,

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just like solid is, but now you've got people who say that just so

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that it makes them feel better? Well, Allahu Allah. I mean, this

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is psychological. You know, they feel better. They want to justify

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a lot of other things. That's why the way I look at it, right, the

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simplest advice, the best advice I've seen, is that look, we are

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not perfect, right? But Akula musta taught to fear Allah as much

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as you can. Right? To our best stability if today I cannot wear a

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hijab. If it's a woman, that's fine. intend to wear it tomorrow?

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No, you're doing wrong. Know that you're in. It's a challenge for

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you. Do it tomorrow. At least leave the door open. If you

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justify it. I can't pray Salat in the masjid. I had a guy who didn't

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pray Juma. I said Wayne is a lovely person. He helped out the

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masjid and so on. Oh, because very busy. So but the prophecy was him

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said that three Juma is you miss? While taking them lightly. So

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don't put that on this COVID time, right? Allah puts a smile on your

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heart. So yeah, that was this. They were not so busy to solve,

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but they were like not very busy. So like, come on. Come on, you

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know, don't justify justification of a wrong is the worst thing that

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you can do because there's no chance then just say, Okay, I'm

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weak right now. I can't do it. Tomorrow, I'm gonna do it. And

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Allah will give you Tofik sha Allah, Allah will divinely enable

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you. So now, when we move on, there's a whole discussion about

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killing people that you're not allowed to just kill people like

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that. Subhan Allah, don't misunderstand that from the Quran.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:18

Allah says we're not gonna limit meaning a yoke to the minion.

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Illa. Hatha, right? The only way that one woman could end up

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killing another believer is by mistake. There's no other way to

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do it. And even if you do that, then you need to free a slave and

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you need to give a ransom and there's the whole discussion about

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what the procedure is, even if you mistakenly kill someone. Right?

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Then Allah says very strongly on the Yocto remote Minamata and

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Meidum for Jessa, who Johanna Mohali, then fee, that's verse 93.

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them right? The one who kills a believer on purpose

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Premeditatedly. Right, purposefully, then there is

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nothing for him except jahannam. Meaning

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his toe but to be accepted is going to be very difficult, but

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the orlimar do I do believe that if he makes a sincere, sincere

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toe, but Allah could forgive him, but it's just to show that he is

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going to be in Hellfire for a very, very long time. And Allah is

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angry upon him. Allah curses him and Allah has prepared prepared a

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mighty punishment for him. That's just not something you do. And

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subhanAllah you've got people claiming to be the Islamic State,

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giving themselves that name and killing primarily Muslims.

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Right, primarily Muslims and destroying everything. Then Allah

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subhanaw taala

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discusses because the war situation and that requires a

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special circumstance. How do you pray in that time? How do you pray

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when you're traveling? So Allah subhanho wa Taala from verse 94.

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Then you will have the nominees adopting visa vie de la he Fatima

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Yeah, and what are the Pulu?

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Actually, that it carries on were you that later 101

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versus the moon more specifically, why the.of The philosopher Lisa

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Alikum Jana Han and Duk soo Mina, Salah when you're traveling, it's

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allowed for you to short, shorten your prayers.

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And then Allah subhanaw taala says that when you are traveling and if

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you fear the enemy, then you need to take precaution. Now look at

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this, it's so interesting that because of this circumstance of

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fear and precaution, Allah subhanaw taala has actually

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changed.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has actually changed the whole way the

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prayer is done. Number one is shorten number two, if everybody

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insists that they're going to pray behind their commander or the

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leader. Now how are they going to do that? If everybody starts

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praying who's going to defend the front lines? Or who's going to be

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in the lookout? So Allah says, look at this, it's like the whole

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salad is distributed. Half the group stand. They're not praying

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yet. They're outside, they're on the front lines, they're

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protecting the other half start the solid with the Imam, Imam

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does, let's say it's a fajr prayer. So two rockets, right? He

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does one Raka. With with these guys. They literally in their

00:46:01 --> 00:46:06

prayer, after they finished the first rocket of sujood, they move

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away and they go to the frontlines. It's as if they're

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still in prayer, right, the second group come and they join in with

00:46:11 --> 00:46:14

the Imam. So it's their first record the Imams second, the man

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finishes off, they, after the man finishes, they go back to the

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frontline, the other ones come back and they finish their prayer.

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Basically, the idea is that they both get to pray behind the imam

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who they want both on the private. Of course, if they're happy to

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pray behind two separate Imams separate times, that's fine as

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well. So the whole Salah is split up because of the importance of

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this factor and the importance of preparedness. So even when you're

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when you're praying that make sure that you have your weapons close

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by, well who do Hydra come as inverse 102 and so on.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala moves on to a slightly different theme,

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which is from verse 105 105 years in unzila, illegal Kitab we've

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revealed this book to you

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with the truth so that you can basically use it to judge between

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people because it provides the criterion of right and wrong.

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Well, the cool little ha Nina Halsema. Now what happened here is

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that this is another story. Just Just one thing that I forgot to

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mention related to that I missed out actually on verse 100, which

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is when you heard UniFi simulate the concept of Hijra is part of

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the migration because sometimes if you if it's just unbearable, and

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you can't practice your deen somewhere, then migration is the

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option for you right sometimes even becomes necessary. So now

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what happens is people are migrating from Morocco, Morocco,

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Morocco, Madina, Munawwara because this persecution so there's a

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Sahaba who's very old, very sick, his name is Hamza ignore case or

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the Allah one say that a Hamza ignore case or the Allah one. Now

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he sees this verse, He sees the Virtus and everything else and he

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feels like I can't travel to Madina, Munawwara I can't migrate,

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I don't have the energy. So what does he do? And this shows that

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when you can't do something, you do the best that you can and Allah

00:47:53 --> 00:47:56

will accept that's the intention of the believer. So what he does

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what he tells his children, put me on a bed put me on a platform put

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me on a bed and carry me towards Madina Munawwara

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as soon as they left mucca McCollum another night had passed

00:48:07 --> 00:48:10

when he passed away. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Where are

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you headed visa vie de la Egypt, velocity Morocco and cathedra was

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Sarah Omiya herdsmen Beatty he Mahajan in Allahu wa SULI. This

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part of verse 100, whoever leaves his house, migrating to Allah and

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his messenger through my youth recoil mode, but then death

00:48:25 --> 00:48:28

catches up with him before he gets there. So called worker or a Jew,

00:48:28 --> 00:48:33

who Allah, His reward is binding upon Allah. Allah will give me his

00:48:33 --> 00:48:35

reward. That's why I say that even your color prayers or anything

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else, as long as you've started and you're doing your best, Allah

00:48:39 --> 00:48:42

insha Allah will forgive the rest and will give you the reward for

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it. And Allah is all forgiving and all merciful. Now, another story

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here, which is related to further on to verse 100. And

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all of this discussion is then about Mauna Kea, and, and all of

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that until Allah subhanaw taala says, yes, in unzila illegal kita

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will happily Takoma Bina Naseby Morocco Allah Allah taco lil Ha,

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La Nina hacia, the one I read early 105. What happened here is,

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there was another case of a Jewish person and a monastic,

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a Muslim,

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outwardly Muslim person.

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Now what happened is that this person and his family, they were

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very influential and they came and kind of tried to convince the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam that they were in the right

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whereas right was the other side and the Prophet sallallahu sallam,

00:49:34 --> 00:49:37

I mean, he had no way he had come to him and just from the face of

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it, felt that they may have been more on the right so he was going

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to inclined in that direction. Allah subhanaw taala corrects this

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reveals this verse. And look what Allah says, look at the words that

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we have revealed the book to you with the truth so that you can

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judge between people according to what Allah shows you. Do not ever

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be

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a

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proponent for the deceivers for those who do not keep their trust.

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We're still fear Allah, Allah is telling the prophets Allah awesome

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and seek forgiveness for this. This has gone down in history in

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the Quran, to show that justice is so important, even the province of

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lorrison and when he didn't know the situation, and he was about

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to, he was going to go on that he felt like he was going and I said

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Allah subhanaw taala made it very clear. But then Allah immediately

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says in Allah Canada for Rahima you don't make a mistake, Allah is

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always forgiving, whether to Jordan AnnaLena afternoon and

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Busan and do not argue on behalf of those who basically deceived

00:50:41 --> 00:50:44

themselves as well. Because Allah subhanaw taala doesn't like those

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who are deceivers. Now, what's interesting is that when the

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Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam then made a judgment for the for

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the Jewish person against that so called Muslim person, He then ran

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away. I mean, it was now clear that he had caused the problem so

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then he secretly ran away to mocha mocha Rama and that's where he

00:51:03 --> 00:51:06

openly became an apostate. He openly became an apostate

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and that's why Allah subhanaw taala then says that in Hola Hola,

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El Faro and you Shaka be. ALLAH does not forgive that anybody is

00:51:20 --> 00:51:23

great partners to him. Well, Pharaoh Medina directly Manisha

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and he forgives everything else basically speaking about that

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person. Then Allah subhanho wa Taala has a number of verses here,

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which discusses the shaytans problem. So shaitan is there again

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saying Allah says Lana hula will call Allah hidden I mean,

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everybody cannot see bomba and shaytaan is promising that I'm

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going to take a lot of people with me there's a portion of people

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that I'm going to mislead them, whether or the learner whom I'm

00:51:46 --> 00:51:49

going to mislead them whether Omen, Nia, Nahum, I'm gonna give

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them a lot of hopes. And that's, you know, that one of our biggest

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failings is when we just hoping for more than we can basically

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deal with a hoping what's haram, what are more unknown, and I'm

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going to command them in a very, very particular way for you, but

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they couldn't have done Al Anon, they're gonna actually disfigure

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the, the ears of, of animals, this show that they're going to do some

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cruelty to animals or change them. Today, people are doing more than

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that. They're changing bodies, they mutilating bodies, they're

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changing, that they're changing men to women, when women to men, I

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mean, there's a lot going on today, right? Because all of that

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is possible now, according to the medical community, I mean, it's

00:52:28 --> 00:52:32

not a full change generally, it's the they have to keep taking

00:52:32 --> 00:52:35

hormones, while Miranda when I'm going to order them for the urine,

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the Hulk Allah, they're going to change the creation of Allah.

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Right very relevant verse.

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When we're talking the shaytaan, a William in doula forgot Hasakah

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Salama, but whoever takes shaytaan as a Willie, as a friend, besides

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Allah, or leaving out Allah, then they've been full loss. And that's

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verse 119. Yeah, you do Houma, human need him. He's going to

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constantly try to promise you things and give you different

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desires and hopes and so on. But the shaytaan is only giving you

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deception will come out, well, how would you handle these people? The

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ending is in the hellfire.

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Then to finish off the war, there's two last themes left,

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starting from where step two in a coffin Nyssa which is verse 127.

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They asked you about women. I mean, remember, this is the

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chapter of women, right? So there's a discussion about women,

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that Allah subhanaw taala gives you a fatwa about them. And Allah

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subhanaw taala is encouraging good behavior with women again, but

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then it's also saying that if you want and you can't reconcile

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together, then it's okay for you to agree to something was so was

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so high. Right? What were the little emphasis, sure, but for you

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to be excellent in your behavior, and you fear Allah, then that is

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what's most important, again, the reiteration that do not be unjust

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and unfair when you have more than one wife. Well, under study on the

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lubaina Nisa, you will not be able to be just between women, even if

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you try your best. So, some people are trying to use this verse today

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

to say that that means that more than one wife is disallowed

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completely. That's what Allah is trying to say they say, but that's

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not true. It's just saying that look, you always have to be

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suspicious, because it's going to be always a conundrum for you.

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Right? When you have more than one wife, you may just incline more to

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the one to the other. Now what what you can't help then maybe

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Allah will forgive you. But for Allah TAMIU Kuhlmann. One thing

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you do not want to do is that you fully inclined to one further

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through heckle more unlocker.

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And you basically leave the other one

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completely suspended. Right. We're in to see whether the window lock

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gonna go forward or Rahima. And this is the best verse. Keep this

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in mind for all of those who have a problem and know that divorce is

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the right thing in that case, but are not divorcing. They're

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persecuting their wives and not letting them go and it's been two

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years

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they've not seen each other three years even and more. Allah says

00:55:03 --> 00:55:06

this tonight when I tell people this just makes a lot of sense.

00:55:06 --> 00:55:12

Allah says, we're in the Farakka Yogen Allahu coulomb inside. If

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the husband wife do have to separate, fine, Allah says Allah

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will enrich each one of them from his broadness. And Allah is

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worship. And Hakeem.

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And believe me, when people eventually do let go, because

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there's a huge psychological conundrum that takes place in

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there. It's not easy for a lot of people. But if you do eventually

00:55:34 --> 00:55:37

let go for the right reason, Allah will enrich you both. And we've

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seen that in so many cases, but you have to let go and you have to

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

have trust in Allah. So I'm gonna get to Surah two Talaq, you'll see

00:55:42 --> 00:55:46

more that there's three verses of Taqwa there, really, when it talks

00:55:46 --> 00:55:49

about divorce, but all the women out there who still holding

00:55:49 --> 00:55:52

grudges, men who are persecuting their wives like that, and women

00:55:52 --> 00:55:56

who've been divorced now and not allowing their husbands to the

00:55:56 --> 00:56:00

fathers to see the children, the malicious parents syndrome, you

00:56:00 --> 00:56:03

need to look at this verse. If you want to be open and you want

00:56:03 --> 00:56:06

vastness from Allah, then you need to let it go. You need to let it

00:56:06 --> 00:56:12

go and do what's in the best. Now, the last verses then, is again, in

00:56:12 --> 00:56:17

verse 135. It's about standing up for justice theme is just over and

00:56:17 --> 00:56:21

over again. But then, finally, the last discussion is again about the

00:56:21 --> 00:56:28

munaf up to pages, right from verse 138. To the end of the

00:56:28 --> 00:56:29

chapter is all about Mafia teen.

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And

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in the midst of all of that Ibrahim Ali salaams mentioned

00:56:35 --> 00:56:38

comes in there that his way is the best. I mean, he Bryson's

00:56:38 --> 00:56:41

constantly comes up, right his discussion, but anyway, the final

00:56:41 --> 00:56:45

discussion here is, well, Bashir will Mona FET, in Vienna, Lomasa

00:56:45 --> 00:56:49

and Lima verse 138. give glad tidings to the munaf 18 that for

00:56:49 --> 00:56:53

them is a severe punishment kind of a sarcastic tone, give glad

00:56:53 --> 00:56:55

tidings to them, like give them the tidings.

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And

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in the Munna Filipina, you heard your own Allah, the munaf et in

00:57:02 --> 00:57:06

the hypocrites, they think that they're deceiving Allah, whereas

00:57:06 --> 00:57:09

wha hoo ha ha, there him is he's really deceiving them because

00:57:09 --> 00:57:12

everything is in his control. And when they stand for prayer,

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because they had to show that they were Muslim, so they would come to

00:57:15 --> 00:57:18

the prayer Subhanallah right, they would actually come to Pebble

00:57:18 --> 00:57:22

lounge around calm will Kosala they will actually stand around

00:57:22 --> 00:57:28

lazily your own * just to show people because they're if you

00:57:28 --> 00:57:31

didn't come to the masjid, you were probably a monastic. Like why

00:57:31 --> 00:57:34

would you come to the masjid in those days? And today that's such

00:57:34 --> 00:57:38

a difficult task for us. I mean, not saying today in COVID times

00:57:38 --> 00:57:42

but even in general times. And what I have Quran Allah hayleigh

00:57:42 --> 00:57:45

kalila they they hardly remember Allah would have been obeying

00:57:45 --> 00:57:47

authority and they're poor guys there sometimes this side

00:57:48 --> 00:57:51

sometimes they are on this side. Like should we believe no we

00:57:51 --> 00:57:54

shouldn't I mean, these people were not necessarily all full

00:57:54 --> 00:57:57

Catherine side. Some of them were and they were hiding it but others

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

they were like should we be should we not be they just weren't making

00:58:00 --> 00:58:04

up their minds as well. Anyway then Allah subhana wa Tada finally

00:58:04 --> 00:58:06

says in the Luna if you clean if it doesn't kill us Valley Mina now

00:58:06 --> 00:58:10

the seven layers of hellfire. Can you believe it? The Muna 15 are

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the worst of them. They're in the lowest one. And you have to go

00:58:13 --> 00:58:16

through all the others to get there. They it's like once you get

00:58:16 --> 00:58:19

there, then there's no coming back. Right because all the others

00:58:19 --> 00:58:23

are lighter as you go up. Because the top one is for the believers

00:58:23 --> 00:58:26

who have made made sins and if they're going to be punished as

00:58:26 --> 00:58:30

the top one is the lightest one. Then you go down it gets worse, it

00:58:30 --> 00:58:33

gets worse. So they are in the worst of the positions worse than

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all other disbelievers as such, Ill Alladhina taboo assalamu but

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Allah Allah is gives away out except those who make Toba and who

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reform and hold on to Allah and who then purify their faith, their

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Deen for Allah for Allah Ikoma l meaning these people are going to

00:58:48 --> 00:58:52

be with the believers. And Allah will soon give the believers a

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huge reward. That verse 146 And then Allah the way this chapter

00:58:59 --> 00:59:02

ends the fifth chapter EMS is beautiful. Maya Allah Allah will

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be either become in shakar toma Armand

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Maya for Allah Allah who be either become in Shackleton mentum what

00:59:10 --> 00:59:15

can Allah Who Shakira Nerima What is Allah gonna do by punishing

00:59:15 --> 00:59:18

you? Like why should Allah punish you? What does he get out of

00:59:18 --> 00:59:21

punishing you? If you are thankful? And you believe, just

00:59:21 --> 00:59:24

show thanks to Allah believe his thanks to Allah that you recognize

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

He gives us everything. We owe everything to him, that's believe

00:59:27 --> 00:59:32

it's part of it. Just give Thanks to ALLAH and believe, and why

00:59:32 --> 00:59:35

would Allah want to punish you? That is so much hope in there. The

00:59:35 --> 00:59:38

reason we're doing that even if we've done something wrong, Allah

00:59:38 --> 00:59:41

is saying Why should I punish you? I'm going to give you so many

00:59:41 --> 00:59:45

excuses to get out. And the being the month of Ramadan, this just

00:59:45 --> 00:59:49

asking for forgiveness just thank him. What can Allah Who Shakira

00:59:49 --> 00:59:53

Nadeem Allah subhanho wa Taala really, really values thanks. And

00:59:53 --> 00:59:57

he's the old knowing. Let's just see. We've got a few additional

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points.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:05

Firstly it starts off with some into family relationships, as I

01:00:05 --> 01:00:09

said, then Allah subhanaw taala talks about not just worship of

01:00:09 --> 01:00:13

Allah, but also that you need to be good with your parents and your

01:00:13 --> 01:00:17

neighbors and all the other segments of the community. Then

01:00:17 --> 01:00:18

Allah subhanho wa Taala says,

01:00:20 --> 01:00:22

especially this is something that you need to go and check the

01:00:22 --> 01:00:27

Tafseer of. Verse Surah Nisa 41 for K for either jednom in Cooley

01:00:27 --> 01:00:31

uma timbi Shahidan wodgina Vika Allahu La Isha Hida how the

01:00:31 --> 01:00:34

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know, reacted to that

01:00:34 --> 01:00:40

verse, right? What how will it be if we bring from every Amma a

01:00:40 --> 01:00:45

witness, and then we bring you as the witness as a witness to all of

01:00:45 --> 01:00:45

these people?

01:00:47 --> 01:00:53

Then there's the discussion, reminder about not hoping and

01:00:53 --> 01:00:55

having these huge ambitions for things that you don't have and

01:00:55 --> 01:00:59

that are difficult and that other people have, and so on. And that

01:00:59 --> 01:01:03

works in every sense. Then the important emphasis on justice in

01:01:03 --> 01:01:08

verse 57. In Allaha Monumento Abdullah Amma, not an Amana, one

01:01:08 --> 01:01:11

of the Amana is tarbiyah to olade to look after your children is an

01:01:11 --> 01:01:14

Amana is not just okay, I owe you money. So I better give you back

01:01:14 --> 01:01:18

No, it's not just that it's my Amana is that I look after what

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

I've been made responsible for. So for my children, my wife, from my

01:01:21 --> 01:01:25

husband's perspective, all right, and if you're in a committee of a

01:01:25 --> 01:01:29

masjid, or MSA, then you're in charge there. It's your

01:01:29 --> 01:01:32

responsibility. Allah says you better fulfill that trust and

01:01:32 --> 01:01:34

responsibility in anything that you've been given.

01:01:37 --> 01:01:41

And following Allah and His messenger and be totally satisfied

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

with their commandments, even though they might be difficult,

01:01:44 --> 01:01:46

you just have to say I agree with this otherwise you cannot enter

01:01:46 --> 01:01:49

into Islam for is a lot of people saying I can't, I just can't agree

01:01:49 --> 01:01:54

with this aspect of Islam. Go and find out more. And maybe it's

01:01:54 --> 01:01:56

because you're colored with a different mentality. That's why

01:01:56 --> 01:02:01

you you have this issue. And one of the verses which we're doing

01:02:01 --> 01:02:05

right now hamdulillah which we're fulfilling right now is verse 82.

01:02:05 --> 01:02:10

And again, look at this 82 fella at the balloon and Quran to do a

01:02:10 --> 01:02:14

not reflect on the Quran today not reflect on the meaning of the

01:02:14 --> 01:02:19

Quran. May Allah accept us for for this purpose. And they then he

01:02:19 --> 01:02:22

says well, okay and I mean in the hydrilla if it was to have been

01:02:22 --> 01:02:25

from other than Allah, the veggie Doofy hit the love and get here or

01:02:25 --> 01:02:28

they will have have found so many discrepancies and but when you

01:02:28 --> 01:02:32

read the Quran, you will not find that then the importance of

01:02:32 --> 01:02:36

maintaining security and Sanctuary especially between Muslims as well

01:02:36 --> 01:02:39

and the huge punishment for killing Muslims, especially

01:02:40 --> 01:02:43

shortening the prayer, change of prayer during a battle and so on.

01:02:44 --> 01:02:48

And hamdulillah and finally, the discussion was about the monarchy

01:02:48 --> 01:02:51

May Allah save us from all the characteristics of the FARC and

01:02:51 --> 01:02:55

hypocrisy like lying and so on. May Allah subhanaw taala bless you

01:02:55 --> 01:02:58

all, may Allah subhanho wa Taala accept this endeavor, you guys

01:02:58 --> 01:03:03

sitting wherever you are in the world, right and listening and may

01:03:03 --> 01:03:06

Allah subhanaw taala accept this from all of us to get a better

01:03:06 --> 01:03:09

understanding of our deen our Quran and to allow it to infuse

01:03:09 --> 01:03:13

our hearts and Illuminate our hearts and illuminate our life so

01:03:13 --> 01:03:17

that we can meet Allah in a better state than we're in working with

01:03:17 --> 01:03:18

that one only hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen

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