Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Surat alHujurat Some Commentary (Tafsir)

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding regret and the negative perception of forgiveness in relationships. They also mention a woman who talked to a retired man and was advised to avoid regret. The speakers touch on the negative perception of forgiveness and the need for caution in certain places of living. They also mention a woman who had a panic attack and was advised to avoid them.
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I remember once there was somebody who came to visit and said, Can I

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have your numbers? I gave it to him. And I just started getting

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forwards. I said, Is that why you took my number? I said, please

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unsubscribe me. Right? This is person mailing list. So I said,

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please unsubscribe me. I said, if you've got anything personal to

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say, Please, you're welcome. Then say as much as you want, but don't

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forward stuff. I don't have time because we receive all of these

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things from multiple sources. So one has to be very careful about

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these things. What you hear what you see, try to have some sense in

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determining whether what you hear what you receive on your different

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social media is correct or not. And we're living in a post true

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post truth world

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where you don't know what to believe.

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam O Allah and mobile

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Ruthie Ramadan Mila Alameen wa ala early he also he was seldom at the

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Sleeman girthier en la Iommi Deen, Amma Bharath

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so dear brothers and dear sisters

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May Allah subhanaw taala bless our Ramadan

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wig going we have these next one and a half two hours before Iftar

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I think what we're going to be doing in sha Allah is we're going

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to

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first do some Tafseer

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some commentary of the Quran I have chosen a surah is called

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surah Taha gerat.

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It's quite an interesting solar because it has quite a few

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different, really important points mentioned in there. So we'll do a

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brief Tafseer of this and just talk about some relevant points

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and then after that, Inshallah, if you have any questions about any

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of that we can take those questions. So in sha Allah, we're

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going to do sort of Herat

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which is chapter 49, Surah 49 of the Quran. So, if you want to

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follow it, you can and her gerat essentially means

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chambers rooms.

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So, why is it called Hydra because of a particular verse in there

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that will be in sha Allah looking at I'm going to start off with

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some of the reading of it in sha Allah.

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I will do bIllahi min ash shaytani Raji maybe SMIL he rah rah Rahim.

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Yo, yo Khaled Ina and Ola to cut the movie in the year. He was also

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the he was the hula in nulla, semi or Nadeem? Yeah, are you

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hilarious? Man Hola, Donal Farrell, sweater calm focus out in

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OBE what a what a third year how Rula who bill only Caja Haribhau

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the company battled in

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battle man who come to the throne

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in levena Hold Duna sweater whom the rasool Allah he will equal the

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name the Hannah law who call Uber whom lithoco Law whom no zero to

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zero now the

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in Lavina Yuna doing me wound or ill how jurati XR roomlala pinion

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wallow and whom sada ro hat to Raja la him like Erna ha Yala,

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whom? Wala hoo ha fool Rahim.

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So I begin in the name of Allah subhanaw taala. I first seek

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refuge from Shaytaan, The Accursed and I begin the new Allah subhanaw

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taala most gracious and Most Merciful. I'm going to read the

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translation of this section. This is the first section of the surah

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it's actually relating to some etiquette with the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and how we're supposed to

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how the Sahaba and people around the Prophet said, listen, we're

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supposed to interact with the rough service. And how does that

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relate to us? I'll explain in sha Allah. So Allah subhanaw taala

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says, Oh, you who believe do not advance yourself in any affair,

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contrary to the decree of Allah and His messenger and fear Allah,

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indeed, Allah is all hearing and all knowing.

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We don't try to do anything

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in front of Allah subhanho wa Taala that he has not sanctioned,

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that he has not allowed. That's very general obviously right? Then

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the Prophet is awesome. Then he speaks specifically, Oh, you who

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believe Do not raise your voices.

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Do not raise your voices above the voice of the Prophet.

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Know speak loudly to him.

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As you are sometimes loud with one another. Sometimes we could be

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loud with one another. He says you might be

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allowed with one another and that's okay with between

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yourselves. But don't ever do that with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wasallam

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for then your good works will become utterly futile with Allah,

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meaning you could lose all of your good works, it could actually

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destroy all the good works that you have.

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Though, you would not even perceive this, you wouldn't even

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know that your good works are being lost.

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As to those who lower their voices in the presence of the Messenger

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of Allah, these are the ones whose hearts Allah has tested pure for

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righteousness, for righteous fear of Him. For them, there is such

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forgiveness and a magnificent reward.

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This is speaking about the likes of Abu Bakr, Muhammad Ali, Allah

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and others who knew exactly how to deal with the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, and they would be very calm. They wouldn't raise

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their voices, like the desert Arabs would do the desert, Arabs

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had a style, everything was allowed. Because in the desert,

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you have to be allowed, I guess, maybe because there's a lot of

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wind there. And distances and so on. So they just being loud,

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right? So that you can hear one another and they think that's

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cool. They think that's okay. People do that in villages, they

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loud to one another. Right? Some cultures have that some cultures

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are louder than other cultures. For example, in this huge country,

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in this huge country called India, the northerners are louder than

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the Southerners. Right? So it just, it depends on where you're

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from. Some cultures are louder than others. I anybody here from a

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loud culture, where people like to be loud. Yeah. A lot of them.

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Okay. So

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yeah, some people are just loud. Now, when you go into another

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culture, which is not allowed, it's looked on as people look on

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that and said, Why you being so impolite for why you being so rude

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for, it's actually not rude in your own culture, but in another

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culture, it would be rude. And that's why we live in these kinds

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of places. Where mashallah You see, 50 to 100 years ago, we would

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never have met maybe, you know, Marsha, a lot of our Somali

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brothers here, Algerian brothers, and

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Kosovo and brothers and,

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and, and Bosnian, mashallah, right? Where would a Indian have

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gone to Bosnia or to Somalia? You know, because traveling, those

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maybe would have met in Omaha Hodge, maybe if you're lucky,

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right. And there would be no concept of half Swedish and half

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Pakistani as well. Right? Is that? Yeah, Mashallah. Hamdulillah.

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So,

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now that we're here, we have to be more sensitive to our cultures.

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That is everything from our culture, which is cool, maybe in

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our homes, is that okay? Outside with somebody else.

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It's a really interesting idea, this idea of the coming together

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of multiple cultures.

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And I've been thinking about this for a long time.

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Culture is something that you can never divorce from yourself.

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Humans can never divorce culture from themselves. There's a lot of

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people who claim that I'm not cultural. All they've done is

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they've taken off their culture, their own culture that they were

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born with, or their parents culture, and they've just adopted

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a new culture, and they think they don't have a culture. Like, let's

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just say that, right? Your parents are from India, or Pakistan, or

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Sweden, sorry, or

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Somalia, for example. And you come to this, and he's like, I don't

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want to be Somali. Meaning I don't like somebody's culture, I don't

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like Indian culture or something like that.

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You can't be without a culture though. You just gonna take

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another culture, right? Because culture is the way you do

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something is the way you wear your clothing is the what you eat, is

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the way you behave. All of that is culture. These people they say, I

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don't want to get married to my own background person. I said,

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Why? Because they come with baggage, they say. So who do want

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to get married to I want to get married to a convert? So okay,

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fine. To convert is coming packages. Yeah, everybody comes in

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baggage. Every culture has baggage, right? So people have

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this idea.

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And but what is our culture and what should be our culture? So

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now, if you look at our brothers and brothers, we've been here long

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enough, when you go back to Bosnia, or they do agree with

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everything of the original culture, you don't right? When I

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go back to India, and honestly, I agree with everything. Right, I

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have certain differences now, likewise with Somalia and all

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other countries. So our job beautifully, because we are

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Muslim, is that Allah subhanaw taala has given us Islam. We look

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at all cultural aspects through the lens of Islam. And what is the

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most beautiful thing is that living in a Western country like

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this, one of the beautiful aspects of it, there are challenges of

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course.

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But one of the beautiful aspects of it is that we get to get the

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mashallah we get to meet so many different Muslim cultures. As I

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told you 50 to 100 years ago, we would never have met, I would have

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been just pure Indian. And that's it. Right? There'd be no fusion,

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there'd be no confusion either, right? Sometimes. So now

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Alhamdulillah I get to sit with our brothers from different

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countries. And every one has a different culture. And there's

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positive aspects in every culture, just as there are negatives.

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Right? There are positive aspects in every culture as there are

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negatives, right? Our job is to take the positives of our culture

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for sure. Right? Get rid of the negatives of our culture, and

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what's going to determine that is Islam.

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Right. And we can take the positives of other cultures. You

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can take positive foods from other cultures. So in my house, we cook

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Moroccan Harira soup.

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Right? Never have done 50 years ago, or maybe even 20 years ago,

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but now I went to Morocco. So Moroccan Harira soup and Masha

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Allah, we still haven't had started having bananas with food

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yet. Right? Maybe soon inshallah. I have it with breakfast, but not

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with not with supper, not with dinner, right.

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Mashallah, you understand what I'm saying? You can take the best now.

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The way we dress, the way I'm dressed, there's nothing Indian

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about me. You understand what I'm saying? We take the best. That's

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the beauty of it. But we have to take out the worst of our culture.

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We take the best from the Swedish culture, we avoid the worst. So

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that's what we do. Alhamdulillah Allah has given us that position.

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So this is what was happening. Sometimes the desert Arabs because

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they were living in villages. And in the desert, you had to

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sometimes shout and you could be a bit rude and it was normal for

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them to be rude call people by names and so on. That's okay. Once

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somebody came to the Prophet sallallahu is as the person was

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going on his animal, somebody came, grabbed the rope of his

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animal. And he said, I want to ask you something. So the products I

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sell them was very calm. So he asked him a question for us on

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responded. And then he said, Okay, now let the camera go.

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You know, it's like somebody, you just driving, you pulled up at a

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light and your windows down and somebody came in, took your switch

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the car off? I've got a question for you. Okay. Because you're a

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scholar, maybe, you know, I've got a question for you. So

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the Romans answered him, and they said, Okay, now give me you know,

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let me give me my keys back. You know, so they, the person

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understood this, and there was a lot of benefit in the way they did

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things as well because they were able to ask some really rough

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questions that others might not have wanted to ask. So anyway,

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Allah subhanaw taala is teaching them because Islam is to teach. So

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this is what's going on here. Whereas people like Abu Bakr and

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Umar Radi Allahu Anhu. They have already learned and they were from

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the city. So that was the normal culture was much more common in

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Makkah than obviously from the Bedouins outside of Maka Maka,

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Rama. Now, then Allah subhana wa Tada says, As to those who lower

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their voices in the presence of the Messenger of Allah, these are

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the ones whose hearts Allah has tested pure for right, righteous

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fear of Him. For them, there is much forgiveness, and a

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magnificent reward. Oh prophets as to those who call out to you from

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behind the chambers of your residences, most of them do not

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understand good manners and civility. Now what happened there

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were some people who wanted to come and visit the Prophet

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salallahu Salam and talk to him prophesy, some had multiple wives,

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each one of them had their own rooms, which means that like these

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little

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chambers, right made up of whatever it was made up of these

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were independent. The only one left is Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu was

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one where the prophet saw some is buried today in the rover not this

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roller that roller right so that's a shot of the Allah one has room

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in which the province was on got buried. And then a bunker there

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her father got buried there. And then Amara didn't got buried

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there. And there's a small space left they say for a Saudi so when

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he comes back and then he passes away that and he passes away then

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that that's what they say.

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Behind the if you look at the road or carefully behind that, there's

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another room that one is

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the daughter of the process and for the amount of the allowance

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room that still preserved but all the other rooms they were

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incorporated into the Masjid. So around Asia, the Allah one has

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room there were other rooms, like separate little, you can say

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cubicles, separate little buildings. Now, the people who

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visit they don't know where the process allows them is

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okay. And they're not soundproof these these little rooms are not

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soundproof. In fact, a lot of them

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Just had curtains for doors. Right? So

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they're not soundproof so they wanted to see the professor or

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somebody just calling out.

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Oh Mohamed, where are you? Which room are you in? You know, so

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because they don't know which room so that's why Allah subhanaw taala

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says you can't do that. That's not what you do.

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As for those who call out to you from behind the chambers of your

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residence,

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most of them do not understand good manners and civility.

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This is to comfort the prophets, Allah Lord ism as well that and

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he's also, you know, telling them that look, you need to have more

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manners. Now you don't come and just caught out, right? For worthy

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to remain patient until you were to come out to them of your own

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accord.

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It would be better for them. Yet, Allah is all forgiving, and mercy

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giving if they make Toba and if they regret what they've done, and

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they've done it, they, they've they've done it out a mistake.

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If not a busser, the Allahu Anhu was only 13 years old or something

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like that when the process and eventually passed away. But his

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but for all of his childhood, mashallah, he grew up with the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And he learnt a lot from

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him. After that, after the person passed away, they were big Sahaba.

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And he would go to them to learn what the prophet Sam had taught

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the Hadith. What he would do is he would go to a sir Hobbes house,

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remember, he's a cousin of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

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But if the person was sleeping in the afternoon, taking a nap, and

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then on the siesta, a ruler, we call it right the whole time.

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Around that time, he wouldn't go and disturb him, you would

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actually sit down outside the door of his house and maybe fall asleep

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there. He himself would have a little snooze. And then when

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that's the hub, you would wake up, that companion would wake up or

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the Allahu Anhu. You would find out, Abdullah University, Allahu

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Anhu. There. And he would say, You should have told us, we will come

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out for you, you know, said no, no, no, because he said that they

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had a lot of respect for me, because of my position and

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relationship with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but I didn't

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want to abuse that and disturb them, because I was there to learn

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from them. So Marsha, look, he's understood the adab. He's

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understood the other.

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Now before, about 10 years ago, my student never we used to be closed

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at night. Right now, just like the Haram Masjidul haram in Makkah is

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open 24 hours, right? It's always something going on, right? Let's

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see, the number we have now is like that as well. 24 hours, it's

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open. They closed a lot of the doors, but there's still some

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doors open, you can go inside, but before they used to actually close

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it right around at nighttime, maybe

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11 o'clock, 12 o'clock or something like that for a few

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hours to clean up and everything. Then they opened it a few years

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ago. So I was told about a story of some bedouins who came and the

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doors were closed that night.

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So these are modern day Bedouins, they still Bedouins there, right?

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They do camels and things like that. So they came and knocked on

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the door. Yeah rasool Allah, we're here. We're Bedouins we've come to

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visit you open the door. They came at nighttime. Right? And they

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thought that the prophecy was sent me is inside and he can open the

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door.

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Can you do that?

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So mashallah one of our guys from India, Pakistan. But anyway, he

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was from he went to the Kaaba until he got to the door of the

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cover. You know, slavery, Kamala Alaba gets a tick tock out,

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knocks on the door of the Kaaba. And he said, Allah, how are you is

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everything well?

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Somebody has to tell him Allah doesn't live in a place Allah is

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beyond space. It's just a special house. So we don't do crazy things

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like that right?

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Mashallah, so anyway, this this is this is what this was the, you

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know, beginning part of Islam and there's a lot of the different

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cultures were there, so Masha, Allah, all of these verses there

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to teach different things. So that's how that starts off. Now,

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this part here, the first verse here, which says that you have

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Latina Aminullah to cut the mood, don't do anything,

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without consulting or without it being approved by Allah subhanho

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wa Taala and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Abu Bakr and Omar Radi Allahu Anhu they had a small

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difference of opinion, right, whether they should make this

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specific individual ACARA IGNOU habis.

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So there was a person called Akira IGNOU habits or called a nomad.

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They had a difference of opinion as to which one of these we should

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make the Emir. This these first verses they will read

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We'll regarding that. Then the second verses were obviously

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revealed regarding those people who would raise their voices in

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front of the Prophet sallallahu. Listen, once a hobby who is a poet

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of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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has served hypnotherapists Radi Allahu Anhu I believe it was him.

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He had a very loud voice.

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When some of these verses came down, he felt that they were

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against him, because he had a loud voice. So he didn't even show up

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for some days. Then when the Prophet saw some founder, he said,

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No, no, it's not about you. You use your loud voice to defend the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Sahaba were very, very particular Sahaba were very particular, they

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tried to follow everything. Very, very, in a refined way. So they

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felt that it was against him. Now, something very interesting. I was

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told about this one individual.

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His mother is very old.

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Whenever he would come to visit his mother, because he lived

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separately whenever he would come to visit his mother. She would

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tell him whatever, and he would just shake his head and just smile

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and say, yes, yes, yes. He wouldn't speak to her.

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Can you believe that? He wouldn't speak to her. He would just say

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yes, yes, yes, smile, too, and just listen to her and just sit

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with her. The only time he would speak to her would be on the

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phone.

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He would never say anything to her. While sitting in front of

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her. He would then go pick up the phone and call her and say

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whatever he needed to say, and have a conversation. Does anybody

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know why?

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No, she doesn't have a loud voice. But she couldn't hear properly. So

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he would have to speak loudly. To speak to her. In front of her, he

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would have to speak loudly for her to be able to hear. And he now

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is what this verse is

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about. But what we understand from this is respect of your elders,

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and especially your parents. So he did not want to raise his voice in

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front of his mother. So he doesn't say anything. On the phone, it's

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easier because she can hear it's amplified. It's more direct.

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There's nothing to confuse the so you will speak to her on the phone

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only, but he won't speak to her when he's in front of us. So he

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does not have to raise his voice because some people they can't

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hear loud this then you have to raise your voice. And it sounds

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quite rude. I've seen interaction between those people who have

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older parents, and Allah Allah protect us from going to that

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stage because there's a special dua, Allah who may be surprised to

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meet Allah how many hours to becoming al haram.

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of Allah I seek your refuge from evil old age Allahumma inni I will

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do becoming an aura the Illa or the little Omar? Oh Allah I seek

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your refuge from being returned to this senile age. When a person

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becomes like a kid, sometimes they become dependent. They can't hear

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properly they can't do their own things they can't sometimes

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understand properly Allah protect us they get diseases like dementia

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and things like this. Then their own children are speaking to them

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as though you know they guiding a child's Allah protect us from ever

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getting into that situation.

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So that's why he was just very careful the way he spoke to me,

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Allah allow us also, it's difficult sometimes because

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sometimes our parents can be quite tough. Right? Very challenging,

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masha Allah. But what do we do?

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You can't change parents, can you? You can change everything else.

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But you can't change parents, brothers and children.

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You can't change the parents, can you?

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Right, there's no shop, you can go and say let me change them. Right.

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So that's our challenge from Allah. And that's our agenda.

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It's, we just have to a

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lot of people what they feel is why can't my parents be good? Why

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can't they change? They're 70 years old. Why can't they just be

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different? Forget it, it's not going to happen.

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That's the way I have found from experience is the best way to

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treat older parents, especially if they're difficult, is just know

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they're going to be difficult and they're never going to change. I

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need to just be cool to deal with it and minimize any problems. And

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inshallah we'll go through this life with success. There is

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nothing else you can do.

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You can't reprogram them, can you?

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You can't change a chip or something and reprogram, there's

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nothing you can do. So it just Alhamdulillah Allah make it easy.

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And let's minimize any kind of damage. And just do the best that

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you can.

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Right let us move on now to the next section.

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Which is

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a very interesting section.

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come first the ACOEM be never ill for the bayou to Cebu Coleman be

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Jaha

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to Cebu Coleman Beija holla to you for those be who either fall to

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the mean

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where I learn more and if you can Rasul Allah Hello yo to your own

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fee. cathedra Minal Manila I need to what a kin Allah had Baba la

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como Eema and I was a Jana who feel Kulu will be comarca Raha la

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comunidad que fravel Fuzu Cavalleria sia

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with eco humo Rashi dune for the LEM in Allah He went near Amma

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Walla wa Lehmann hacky. So this is the next cluster of verses. This

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is what it means, Oh, you who believe.

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If an ungodly person comes to you, an ungodly means somebody who is a

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sinner, a transgressor who is not righteous. So if an ungodly person

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comes to you, with any news, informing you about something, he

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did this, look what he's doing, then be discerning, be careful, so

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that you do not afflict a people out of ignorance.

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So that you don't jump to conclusions and you do something

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about that. It turns out to be wrong, it turns out to be a

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mistake, it turns out to be misc, misunderstanding, it turns out to

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be actually manipulation. We got a lot of that nowadays, we got a lot

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of that nowadays, you have to be very careful, right?

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And so then you go and afflict a people out of ignorance, meaning

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you're gonna do something, and thereafter you become regretful

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about what you have done. Moreover, know that in your midst

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is the messenger of Allah.

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We're here to follow the inclinations you express in most

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matters, meaning if he was to just listen to whatever you say,

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you would most most surely become overburdened with hardships,

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because you would have forced the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wasallam, to do something that's wrong and then you would have been

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punished and there would be a lot of burden. Some new laws may have

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come out because of that. However, Allah has endeared faith to you,

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and adorn the in your hearts, this talking about the good people that

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mashallah they, Allah has made the faith adorned in their hearts,

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they they beautify their faith inside.

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And thus he has made unbelief hateful to you, as well as

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ungodliness and disobedience all of that is hated for you. It is

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these who are the rightly guided one, rightly guided ones. This is

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a bounty from Allah and a blessing for Allah is all knowing, and all

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wise. So this is the second cluster of verses. And

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what this is about is there's a person called Walid ignore aucuba

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Waleed ignore Akbar the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sent him to a

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tribe called a balloon booster lick. The Ben will Masonic

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for collect to collect their zakat to collect the charity.

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And he had some issue, he had had some history with them from before

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so he was scared of them. There was some fear when he got there

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because of something that happened in ignorance many years ago. So he

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came back. And he said to the Prophet salallahu Salam that they

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don't want to give zakat they've refused to give zakat. Now the

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Prophet sallallahu Sallam got a few see upset with this, that how

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can they refuse to give zakat their their Muslims, how can they

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refuse to give zakat. Now, in those days, and even now, in many

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countries, there are two types of wealth that people have, mostly in

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the in the West, except for some people, most of us have only one

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type of wealth, which is what they call a wild belting, which is

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liquid assets, which is cash, and maybe stocks and maybe properties

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and things like that. But what they call it and while they're

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here, that the most apparent money is people who have, for example,

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crops and they have animals. So their assets are animals. They've

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got goats and cows and camels and horses and things like that.

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There's a cut on those, though there's a cut of that would be

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collected by as a card collector from the state, the state would

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send us a card collector, he'd come to your farm, your ranch,

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whatever it is, and say, Okay, this is you know, here's a card

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here. Let me take this again. And so in five camels, there'll be one

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goat that you would take, for example. So there's a certain

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quantity a certain criteria, right. However, the

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way the jurisprudence is that they can't come and take your money

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because your money is not evidence. You know, you don't

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boast your people shouldn't boast their bank balances, you know, for

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everybody to see, you know, you might boast your Rolex but you're

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not going to boast your bank balance. Right. So that is the

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responsibility individual to give.

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So when the profit center person this Walid Abner AKBA

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to the bedroom was stuck, he came back and he said, so the province

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awesome, got a bit upset and he was actually going to go with a

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with a force that what's going on, you know, to implement the Zakat

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on them. However, they heard, right, that this is what's

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happening. So they quickly came, they quickly came. And they they

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cleared up that no, that wasn't the case. We're not withholding

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the Zakat. There was some other problem here, right with them. So

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that's why Allah subhanaw taala tells us and tells the people who

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believe that Be careful about who's giving you news, you could

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have had a war right now, there would have been an attack because

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of this is a misunderstanding, or it was, you know, manipulation, or

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miscommunication or purposeful. So he says, in another era, for those

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who understand the different modes of reading instead of Fatima,

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Eunice Fattah Thurber, too. So establish the point of view,

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right, establish the point of view before you do anything. Otherwise

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you could be in ignorance, you're gonna do something in response,

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right? Let's just say you hear from one of your friends that

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another friend said something about you.

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Now the guy who told you he's not very trustworthy, but you just

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believed him and got very angry and you started attacking the

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other guy was like, What? Are you attacking me? For All? Because you

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said this about me? I didn't say that about No, no, you're lying.

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Can you see how bad it's gonna get? It was all made up by the

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other guy to cause a conflict between you. That's why be very

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careful when people bring you news. Right? Be very careful,

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don't be such that you want to do something about it straightaway.

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Be very considerate in what you do. And obviously leaders need to

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be very careful about these things. People in authority need

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to be very careful about this. People who run organizations need

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to be very careful about this Imams, and religious leaders and

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teachers. And in any position that you are where you have authority,

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you have to be very, very careful about this. Otherwise, it's caused

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a lot of problems. Now today, we have the biggest fantasy team

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going around telling us things, the biggest transgressors telling

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us things most of these news media's as finally the world has

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understood, or is understanding the hypocrisy before people who

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say no, it's not that hypocritical. There was a bit of

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hypocrisy. But now there's become a very simple criteria of what's

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going on now. Right. And so one has to be very careful. A lot of

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the time, you have to be careful of WhatsApp as well. There's been

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people who have been killed on WhatsApp. And they're still alive.

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One of our local big scholars in the UK, he was not dead yet. But

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the news goes out that he's dead. And his family has to pull out No,

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no, he's still alive.

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So I don't know people like to be Trigger Happy on their phones to

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make up messages or to get a message and just forward it. One

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has to be very, very careful.

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Otherwise,

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the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said it is GAFA Bill Maher,

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Caliban, and you had the Therby Colima Samia

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GAFA, Bill Maher II can't even and you had this before Lima Summit,

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it is sufficient for a person to be considered a liar. That he just

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says everything he hears.

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He just forwards everything he he receives. Oh, this is a really

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cool Hadith. I mean, is it really a hadith? Right, it sounds too

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fantastic. It sounds to

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me it's a sounds a bit too, you know, a bit.

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Sensational. Yes. Right. And you just forward it on. I hardly

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forward anything on and there's some people that just love

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forwarding, that's their job is forwarding. Right? I remember once

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it was somebody who came to visit and said, Can I have your numbers?

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I gave it to him. And I just started getting forwards. I said,

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Is that why you took my number? I said, please unsubscribe me.

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Right? This is person mailing list. So I said, please

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unsubscribe me. I said, if you've got anything personal to say,

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Please You're welcome. Then say as much as you want but don't forward

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stuff. I don't have time because we receive all of these things

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from multiple sources. So one has to be very careful about these

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things. What you hear what you see, try to have some sense in

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determining whether what you hear what you receive on your different

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social media is correct or not. And we're living in a post true

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post truth world

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When you don't know what to believe,

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you go on to Facebook and other places. And there are so many

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remedies that they tell you about. For a sore throat, do this for

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this do this. And recipes for different things. I don't know

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what to trust anymore.

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There'll be 10 recipes for a sore throat, we don't know, do they

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really work with just somebody making something up? Right,

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because a lot of things have been found, you know, for example, they

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will have recipes for how to make this really beautiful cake or

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something. And then later, they found out that I was actually a

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won't make that kind of cake. Just cut and paste job. Because it just

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sounds really cool and miraculous. So I don't know what to trust

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anymore. It can you believe it? You know, when you want a bad

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place that is to be where you don't show it to trust.

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That's a really sad place to be. Because we can't take what we see

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for granted. Because we don't know whether I mean you guys don't

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really understand is, you know, our little brothers here, don't

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really understand because you haven't dealt with too much of

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that. But the adults, the world we're living in is just very

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confusing. We don't know what you have to be so careful what you

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listen to what you want to take and what you believe that's why

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I've just become a lot more careful.

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The world is going through a writing system or right to set the

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to set the record rate.

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And I don't know what's going to happen, but we just need to be

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careful. We need to protect ourselves because Allah subhanaw

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taala gives us these indications in the Quran that Be careful,

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otherwise, you're going to cause a lot of conflicts and problems

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because of misunderstandings. So don't ever do that. The Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then actually sent they went back they

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told the person then they went back then the prophecy was sent

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Khalid bin Walid to them.

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He sent Heidi though the Allahu Anhu to them, to just check them

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out to make sure that it is as they said, and they're not just

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making an excuse, and mashallah they they were decent people, they

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were not trying to cause problems or anything like that. So

00:37:04 --> 00:37:08

alhamdulillah a big issue was was averted.

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And that's why I've been told that look, if the Prophet sallallaahu

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son was just to take everything you said, there would be a lot of

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problems that would be caused because of Brexit Rossum is the

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leader. And if he's to listen to all different advice and just take

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everything, that's why especially people who are in positions, they

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have to be extra careful. But Masha Allah. Now,

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for those who are reading this carefully, there seems to be an

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exception made here an exclusion. And it seems to say that, however,

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God has endeared faith to you and adorned it in your hearts. This is

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not a real exclusion from the previous part, that it's saying

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that even if you do this, but Allah has made, even if you do

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these weird things, but Allah has made the faith strong in your

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hearts and adorned in your hearts, now this talking about a

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difference. So this is actually to two different groups. For those

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who understand Arabic and grammar, this is is this non grata? In a

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sense, right? So this is has no connection to the previous part.

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It's a new idea that now there are good people who Allah has adorned

00:38:16 --> 00:38:20

in their heart, good Iman and Islam and so on. So they don't

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make these kinds of mistakes. May Allah make us of these kinds of

00:38:23 --> 00:38:26

people? I'm going to tell you the story.

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For the next set of verses, the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam was

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once riding a

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donkey, Mr.

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And they were in one place and suddenly the donkey started to

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urinate.

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release some water. You know, that means started to release some

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water. Have you ever seen a donkey release water? No. Okay, so

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there was a hypocrite whose name was OB, OB.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:08

Abdullah if not obey Ben cellule. He is massive here but he was

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

actually reason why he had so much anger in him is because he was

00:39:11 --> 00:39:15

going to become the one of the leaders of Madina, Munawwara but

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

after the process on came,

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he lost his value. So he's very angry, but he used to show himself

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to be a believer, because it was just better and more profitable to

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be that but he used to undermine things and cause problems. So when

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this event happened, he put up his nose,

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put his hand on his nose and made it out like this is being foul,

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you know, that. So, Abdullah, ignore rawa or the Alon, who's a

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great Sahabi and he's also a poet. He got

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angry and he said that Wallahi the urine, right? The urine of the

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the dog

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King of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is much more

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excellent and beautiful in terms of its odor than even your mask.

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

Right? It's much better than he was Why are you putting up your

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nose for and why are you covering your nose for? So, in those days,

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they were tribal. So

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these two people, they were from different tribes. So each person's

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tribe came to their defense, and they started having a bit of about

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they started fighting with one another.

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So, in order to how to resolve that conflict, the next set of

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verses are telling us that when two groups of Muslim mean two

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groups of believers, two factions, right, when they have an issue,

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what should you do? Rather than taking sides? What should you

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really do? Right? So that's the next set of verses. Allah subhanaw

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taala says,

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what you thaw if attorney Mina Mina Cortelyou ously who been a

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homer for in Bella Ada, Houma, okra Katene, Letty, he had the fee

00:41:11 --> 00:41:16

for fall asleep who may you know whom Erbil ideally well consider

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to in Allah and your hipbone mocha CP in in ML Mina were to firstly

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Hubei in a hallway gum, what the hula hula i Look whom door Hi

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moon.

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Yet, if ever two groups of the believers fight one another,

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then set things right between them.

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So,

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in a committee, in an organization, in a neighborhood,

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to groups of people, to families, they begin to fight one they both

00:41:51 --> 00:41:54

believers, you need to try to reconcile between them rather than

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make it worse.

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But if one of them remains unreconciled, and commits

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injustice against the other, one of them is the transgressor then

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fight the one that commits injustice then go against those

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guys. Don't support them then. Because remember, in those days,

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the tribal way of doing things was you had to support your tribe, and

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your family even if they were wrong.

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Even if they were wrong. Also a ha. A haka. volumen, ona lumen,

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fame famous statement in those days, you need to assist your

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brother, whether he's the oppressor, or whether he's the

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oppressed. So even if he was the oppressor, you had to support him,

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you come out, you take his side, even if he's wrong.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

The province has changed that afterwards, he still made the same

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

statement, he took a different meaning because they got the when,

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once when the person said this, you got to be surprised. Why are

00:42:50 --> 00:42:55

you saying that? He said, the way you help you have to help your

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

brother, even if he's the oppressor, even if he's the one

00:42:57 --> 00:43:01

who's doing wrong, how do you help him stop him. That's how you help

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

him, you don't help him by going along with him and fighting the

00:43:04 --> 00:43:08

other guy and helping him to wrong the other person. So the person

00:43:08 --> 00:43:11

really cleverly just changes and you need to help your brother.

00:43:12 --> 00:43:16

If he's the oppressor, you need to help him to stop. And if he's the

00:43:16 --> 00:43:20

oppressed one, then of course, you need to defend him. So that's the

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

discussion here.

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That if one does commit injustice against the other, then fight

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against the one go against the one that do injustice, until the group

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reverts to the rule of Allah. And of course, if this is the Muslim

00:43:35 --> 00:43:42

leader, then he can use force, you can use force, right? yet. So this

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would be related to us according to our status. If we don't have

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any force and of imposition, and so on, we're not the police, then

00:43:49 --> 00:43:53

we just do our best through words and convincing, convincing and

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persuasion and so on. Yet, if it so reverts, then again, set things

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right between them, meaning if they mess up again, and they start

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

conflicting again, then set it right again.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:11

Between them with equity, and be just because indeed, Allah loves

00:44:11 --> 00:44:15

those who are just, indeed all the believers are brethren. All the

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

believers are brothers and sisters, thus set a right

00:44:18 --> 00:44:22

relations between your brothers and fear Allah so that you may

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have you may be shown mercy historically, historically, there

00:44:26 --> 00:44:31

was Sims when they were the major rulers of the world, and in

00:44:31 --> 00:44:34

different places, and even today, in the different countries we

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have. One of the biggest problems that is being caused is no unity.

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And the reason for a disunity is that each group or country has

00:44:46 --> 00:44:50

been made to hate their neighbor. There's so many countries like

00:44:50 --> 00:44:53

that. Muslim countries, they don't see eye to eye that the borders

00:44:53 --> 00:44:57

are closed. And they both Muslim countries. You can't go from one

00:44:57 --> 00:44:58

country to the next

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

who's right who's wrong? Just silly things sometimes.

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And that is the only way you can weak that's the best way to weaken

00:45:07 --> 00:45:10

somebody if you want to weaken somebody divide them. That's

00:45:10 --> 00:45:14

exactly what's happening. Now, the next set of verses they are the

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middle set of verses.

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They have some really interesting guidance on some really

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interesting add up. So let me read the verses and you'll understand

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

from here the laws that we're talking about. Next verse, verse

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number 11. Yeah, uh, you Halina Amendola is called poem mill

00:45:36 --> 00:45:43

coalminer as a cool new hire on main home, while an ISA mean Nisa

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in Eisah. A con Hiram in one. What I tell me is you fullcycle Mother

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Earth and Bezu bill a job Bitsa surly small fosu co, back then,

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Imani Wama lemmya to buffer hula, eco humo volley moon, I'll take

00:46:03 --> 00:46:05

these verse by verse because each one of these dimension a very

00:46:05 --> 00:46:09

specific, very important guidance. This one is Oh, you who believe

00:46:09 --> 00:46:15

men shall not scoff at other men. SCAF means you speak in a

00:46:15 --> 00:46:20

demeaning tone about others. You speak in a sarcastic way about

00:46:20 --> 00:46:23

others. Do you do that to your brother? You don't do that. Right.

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Okay, good. Do you do that? Does he do that? Are you two brothers?

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Yeah. You're older than him? By how many years?

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Are you two years older than me? Just one.

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Oh, he's older. You look so big. Mashallah. So, men shall not scoff

00:46:43 --> 00:46:48

at other men. For those whom they scoff at, may actually be better

00:46:48 --> 00:46:52

than them. By Allah, they may be better than you and you're

00:46:53 --> 00:46:55

demeaning them and humiliating them and saying bad things to

00:46:55 --> 00:46:58

them. No shall women's coffered other women

00:47:00 --> 00:47:03

for those whom they scoff it may be better than them.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:09

It's, it's just wrong to scoffer other people. Right? Okay, a

00:47:09 --> 00:47:12

little bit of a joke, maybe understandable, but to demean

00:47:12 --> 00:47:15

somebody and look down upon somebody, that's a major issue.

00:47:15 --> 00:47:18

Just because I'm from a certain tribe, or a certain country or a

00:47:18 --> 00:47:21

certain area or a certain ethnicity does not make me

00:47:21 --> 00:47:25

superior, because I didn't even choose to be from the ethnicity is

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

not something I designed.

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Allah just placed me there. Yes, if you have good qualities, in

00:47:32 --> 00:47:37

your background, in your ethnicity, then thank Allah. But

00:47:37 --> 00:47:40

that's not a way because they'll they'll have also some good

00:47:40 --> 00:47:44

points. We all have good and bad points, we all have a set of

00:47:44 --> 00:47:48

qualities, and a set of challenges and weaknesses, every one of us,

00:47:48 --> 00:47:52

right. So don't do that. And then Allah says,

00:47:54 --> 00:47:56

nor shall you slander each other.

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Make up stuff about one another. Nor shall you revile each other.

00:48:04 --> 00:48:09

revile means you say bad things about one another and insult one

00:48:09 --> 00:48:13

other like that. Nor shall you revive each other by way of

00:48:13 --> 00:48:18

abhorrent nicknames, meaning evil nicknames, bad nicknames you make

00:48:18 --> 00:48:19

for one another.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

When you're young, you do that usually right.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:26

And some people do, and they all know you know what the worst part

00:48:26 --> 00:48:29

of a nickname is? Why I never make nicknames for anybody, I feel very

00:48:29 --> 00:48:32

bad. Even if I make a joke about somebody that it doesn't become a

00:48:32 --> 00:48:37

nickname. Let's just say that I made a nickname about you. Right?

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

in all innocence or whatever, you don't like it.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:45

And people picked it up. Is there any stopping them?

00:48:46 --> 00:48:49

Once five people pick that up, they tell other people, it does

00:48:49 --> 00:48:52

not stop. It's very difficult. Like if you make a name up about

00:48:52 --> 00:48:55

somebody, and somebody heard it, and he told somebody else. Now,

00:48:55 --> 00:48:59

even if you try to stop it, it's very difficult to stop.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:04

But every time somebody is going to use that nickname, and the

00:49:04 --> 00:49:08

person who you made it about, is upset by that you're getting

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

sinful.

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

It's like this investment gone wrong.

00:49:13 --> 00:49:16

Right? It's just this investment gone wrong. That's why I'm very

00:49:16 --> 00:49:22

careful about what I say about somebody. Because, oh, you know,

00:49:22 --> 00:49:28

and I Subhanallah the sometimes it could become Reba once in my

00:49:28 --> 00:49:34

class, when we were studying Sahil Bahati or one of the books and our

00:49:34 --> 00:49:39

shake was sitting there. My neighbor, the person who sat next

00:49:39 --> 00:49:42

to me was I was the tallest in the class and he was the shortest in

00:49:42 --> 00:49:47

the class. And mashallah, we had a healthy competition in terms of

00:49:47 --> 00:49:51

studies. A beautiful brother, may Allah bless him. So one day he

00:49:51 --> 00:49:57

wasn't there. So the Sheikh said, Who's missing? I said, So and so I

00:49:57 --> 00:50:00

mentioned his name, said Who's that? I said, you know,

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

The short guy went like this. So the sheikh didn't say anything.

00:50:04 --> 00:50:08

Then when my, when my colleague came in, and he sat down, then the

00:50:08 --> 00:50:12

Sheikh said, seek forgiveness from him because you back by to them.

00:50:13 --> 00:50:16

It's like, how did I back bite him by saying that because he may not

00:50:16 --> 00:50:20

like that, right? But I went like this by meaning is short. Right?

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

So something similar happened between the Prophet salallahu

00:50:24 --> 00:50:26

Salam and Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu.

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She said something about somebody in Prosser or some told her.

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So one needs to be very, very careful because these are Quranic

00:50:34 --> 00:50:37

injunctions there to keep our society because if you notice,

00:50:38 --> 00:50:42

this is about maintaining society, maintaining communities,

00:50:42 --> 00:50:46

maintaining families, maintaining a cohesion between them, these are

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

things that just mess everything up between families is what

00:50:49 --> 00:50:53

happens in between friends. So then Allah says, right, do not

00:50:53 --> 00:50:58

revile each other by way of abhorrent nicknames. woeful is the

00:50:58 --> 00:51:03

ungodly name after attaining faith, thus, whoever does not

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

repent from this. So

00:51:06 --> 00:51:09

after you've brought faith, how can you be doing all of these bad

00:51:09 --> 00:51:12

acts that we've been saying you shouldn't do? So Allah subhanaw

00:51:12 --> 00:51:15

taala is discouraging them that you're a believer. Now, how can

00:51:15 --> 00:51:19

you do this? This is not something that a believer should do.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:25

Thus, whoever does not repent from this, then it is these who are

00:51:25 --> 00:51:30

wrongdoers, and godless in heart. Allah as always remember, in

00:51:30 --> 00:51:35

every, every time Allah condemn somebody, right, he always gives

00:51:35 --> 00:51:40

away out, he always gives them except those who make Toba except

00:51:40 --> 00:51:44

those who seek forgiveness, except those who make amends always

00:51:44 --> 00:51:46

because Allah doesn't want to condemn anybody for ever.

00:51:48 --> 00:51:52

He always gives away out always, so he says except those

00:51:53 --> 00:51:57

you know, women who make Toba fine but woman Lamia to whoever does

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

not repent, then they're going to be the oppressors.

00:52:02 --> 00:52:07

Now the next part here you have Loreen manager Tony whoo Kathy

00:52:07 --> 00:52:14

Romina Vaughn in the knee is more than just so what are they just

00:52:14 --> 00:52:17

says Who are your water BELL Do come back.

00:52:19 --> 00:52:24

Are you Hey, Bo ahead. Welcome a cola Murphy. He made fuckery

00:52:24 --> 00:52:29

taboo. What the Kula in Allah had the wobble Rahim.

00:52:31 --> 00:52:34

Okay, this is probably one of the most pertinent verses here. Oh,

00:52:34 --> 00:52:35

you who believe?

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

avoid much suspicion.

00:52:40 --> 00:52:41

avoid suspicion.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:48

For indeed certain kinds of suspicion are sinful as the first

00:52:48 --> 00:52:49

point here.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:57

Suspicion what is suspicion? Let's just say that you came out of the

00:52:57 --> 00:52:58

masjid.

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And there's somebody who you usually you say salaam to, you

00:53:02 --> 00:53:06

know, the brother, et cetera. He came out at the same time, put his

00:53:06 --> 00:53:08

shoes on there were a lot of other people and he put his shoes on and

00:53:08 --> 00:53:09

he went

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and he did not make it out to you.

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

He did not acknowledge you.

00:53:18 --> 00:53:20

He did not acknowledge you. So

00:53:22 --> 00:53:25

you now start thinking he's got a problem with me.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:31

Why would if you think somebody's got, you know, because he did not

00:53:31 --> 00:53:35

say salaam to you. And he did not look at you and smile at you. You

00:53:35 --> 00:53:39

think why didn't he do that? Right? Because he's got a problem

00:53:39 --> 00:53:42

with me. Okay, then you're gonna think why is he got a problem with

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

me?

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

Why is he got a problem with you? Then you're gonna think back over

00:53:47 --> 00:53:52

the next over the last few days a week. Oh, you know what, it's

00:53:52 --> 00:53:56

probably that day I said this or he said this, or he's doing this.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

And you'll just create this whole story.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:03

Big Story, mashallah that you can write about? Right?

00:54:04 --> 00:54:09

And you then tell somebody else. So that person then goes and tells

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

him

00:54:12 --> 00:54:15

what is he talking about? Nothing like that. Oh, but you did not

00:54:15 --> 00:54:19

make salam to him that day. Which day, you know, last Friday, or,

00:54:19 --> 00:54:21

you know, last Friday I had.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:26

I was so busy that I prayed my just about mediate for Joomla and

00:54:26 --> 00:54:30

I had to run somewhere for a meeting. And I just wasn't even

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

thinking correctly.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:36

That's it. There was no bad feeling. He just was busy that

00:54:36 --> 00:54:36

day.

00:54:37 --> 00:54:43

He just was busy that day. Now as an Imam, I've had this experience

00:54:43 --> 00:54:48

where one day somebody came to me said brother Mustafa right? thinks

00:54:48 --> 00:54:49

that you don't like him.

00:54:52 --> 00:54:54

I don't have any posts anything personally. Most of us are nice

00:54:54 --> 00:54:58

guy. He was actually my neighbor. Right? I'm just making the name up

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

right now

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He was my neighbor. I've got no issues, nothing, no issue. So I

00:55:03 --> 00:55:08

started I said, What's the issue? I don't have not had any issues in

00:55:08 --> 00:55:12

it. I don't speak to him on that kind of such formal, sorry, a

00:55:12 --> 00:55:15

personal level that they could even go anything wrong, you know?

00:55:18 --> 00:55:22

I said why? He said, Okay, I'll find out. So he said, Oh, because

00:55:22 --> 00:55:27

sometimes you come outside the masjid. And you don't speak to

00:55:27 --> 00:55:27

him.

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So, you know, as an Imam, when you come out of the masjid, everybody

00:55:32 --> 00:55:32

wants to meet you.

00:55:34 --> 00:55:37

Right? You know, as soon as you come out, if you've been an Imam,

00:55:37 --> 00:55:39

you'll know you come out of the machine, and everybody wants to

00:55:39 --> 00:55:42

meet you. So what happens is that you think somebody comes, somebody

00:55:42 --> 00:55:45

comes to my wedding? Have somebody come, right? You can't talk to

00:55:45 --> 00:55:49

everybody for two minutes. Because then everybody will be waiting.

00:55:49 --> 00:55:52

You know, like, if I meet you, and then I start talking to Brother,

00:55:52 --> 00:55:55

how are you and everything then everybody's waiting? So I'm a very

00:55:55 --> 00:55:57

fast guy, usually I try to just get things done. So I was like,

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

somebody could well how are you? You know?

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

So it was one of those things.

00:56:04 --> 00:56:07

So you make this whole story up. But then that taught me a lesson

00:56:07 --> 00:56:13

that look I need to be maybe show a bit more attention, because if I

00:56:13 --> 00:56:16

missed I'm not going to be able to

00:56:18 --> 00:56:22

go and explain to everybody so I better be careful. So that so I

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

tried to be a bit more

00:56:25 --> 00:56:29

but still, you know, I tried to be a bit more careful in doing that.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:33

And my mashallah, there's some people you meet them outside the

00:56:33 --> 00:56:36

masjid, they're retired people. So they'll hold your hands for five

00:56:36 --> 00:56:37

minutes and talk to you.

00:56:40 --> 00:56:44

So there's one brother in my previous locality and he's a

00:56:44 --> 00:56:48

retired guy, mashallah comes to five daily prayers, Mashallah. And

00:56:48 --> 00:56:52

outside salamati Come and then he'll hold your hand and talk to

00:56:52 --> 00:56:55

you. And I need to get away because I've got something else to

00:56:55 --> 00:56:59

do. So then I started avoiding him. So I would see him there and

00:56:59 --> 00:57:03

I would say salaam to him from afar. Somebody can carry on right.

00:57:05 --> 00:57:08

Then one day, I said look, how long am I going to avoid this?

00:57:08 --> 00:57:12

Well, because we have to educate. So I went I said, mentioned his

00:57:12 --> 00:57:13

name. I said you know what?

00:57:16 --> 00:57:20

Mashallah, you have a lot of time. You know, we said that you have a

00:57:20 --> 00:57:23

lot of time, but others don't have that much time and sometimes

00:57:23 --> 00:57:27

mashallah we make salaam with you, and shake your hands. And it

00:57:27 --> 00:57:31

takes, you know, three minutes. So I think you understood, right that

00:57:31 --> 00:57:34

you know, we have so I think then he became, because then people

00:57:34 --> 00:57:37

don't really think is good. This there's one person I've noticed

00:57:37 --> 00:57:42

that when you make salaam with him, he kind of very holds very

00:57:42 --> 00:57:47

tightly, and then he slides his handout. Right? And he thinks is

00:57:47 --> 00:57:50

cool, but I'm guarantee there's gonna be some people who don't

00:57:50 --> 00:57:54

like that. But what is he doing? You know, he is completely honest,

00:57:54 --> 00:57:57

you know, he's completely innocent, but just getting

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

different cultures maybe, you know, or something like that.

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

He says, How do you tell somebody these things? So the Quran is

00:58:05 --> 00:58:09

giving us these different guidances. So this one,

00:58:09 --> 00:58:12

especially, I mean, we don't have too much time. Otherwise, we'd

00:58:12 --> 00:58:15

really open this up much more. But one of the biggest issues that

00:58:15 --> 00:58:20

causes problems between husband and wife and families is just bad

00:58:20 --> 00:58:23

thoughts. Just this suspicion.

00:58:24 --> 00:58:29

Suspicion, oh, she'd not text me today. While I'm at work, there's

00:58:29 --> 00:58:33

something going on. Maybe he's got somebody else. Maybe she's got

00:58:33 --> 00:58:34

somebody else.

00:58:36 --> 00:58:39

Allahu Akbar. And it leads to paranoia. I've had women.

00:58:41 --> 00:58:44

I mean, it could be men as well. But you know, I've had women who

00:58:44 --> 00:58:47

will wake up in the middle of the night to go and check their

00:58:47 --> 00:58:52

husband's phone to see they're literally mining for misery. Let

00:58:52 --> 00:58:55

me find something to be miserable, miserable, abandoned, some, some

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

men are a bit weird. They do do these weird flirting things

00:58:57 --> 00:59:01

thinking they've got boundaries. So that's very wrong for them to

00:59:01 --> 00:59:04

do that. That's why we're told that you need to avoid

00:59:05 --> 00:59:11

it the cool miroir to him avoid places of suspicion avoid being in

00:59:11 --> 00:59:12

a place where

00:59:13 --> 00:59:17

you could be under suspicion because it's not right to create

00:59:17 --> 00:59:20

that purchasing Oh, they should just understand No, I mean, you

00:59:20 --> 00:59:24

have a responsibility as well. Right? Once the profit and loss

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

and I'm after a nighttime after Isha sometime. He was walking with

00:59:27 --> 00:59:31

one of his wife Sofia. Been to her Yeah, Radi Allahu Allah. Now it's

00:59:31 --> 00:59:35

all dark and she's covered up and everything. So there's two Sahaba

00:59:35 --> 00:59:39

on the other side, and they suddenly see him so they started

00:59:39 --> 00:59:44

walking fast. Right? So you know, let's ignore what's going on. I

00:59:44 --> 00:59:47

mean, Allah knows best exactly what the prophets Allah has

00:59:47 --> 00:59:53

immediately said Allah is eurycoma Wait, hold up. This is Sofia been

00:59:53 --> 00:59:58

to her a just so they said Hola. Hola. Hola. You know, they said we

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

had no no bad ideas.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:05

He said, That's fine, but shaytaan courses through the human being

01:00:05 --> 01:00:10

like your blood does, he is going to create shaytaan will cause you

01:00:10 --> 01:00:13

suspicion. Who is he with?

01:00:14 --> 01:00:16

Is he with another woman? That kind of an idea.

01:00:18 --> 01:00:21

So our job is that we don't be suspicious.

01:00:22 --> 01:00:27

Right? Because most things don't even concern us. And the people

01:00:27 --> 01:00:30

who are involved in things they should just avoid and be careful.

01:00:31 --> 01:00:34

And try not to do things that are suspicious. Do you think do do

01:00:34 --> 01:00:40

things that are suspicious? Okay, that's that point now. Then the

01:00:40 --> 01:00:43

prophets Allah then Allah subhanaw taala says, wala Yatta battle

01:00:43 --> 01:00:44

Dokkan Battle the

01:00:46 --> 01:00:50

next part, and do not back by one another. Don't do Hiva don't back

01:00:50 --> 01:00:51

by one another.

01:00:52 --> 01:00:57

Now to make it to show how bad Backbiting is Allah subhanaw taala

01:00:57 --> 01:01:01

gives a very graphic example. He says would you think of this?

01:01:01 --> 01:01:02

What's your name?

01:01:03 --> 01:01:08

Abdul Rahim? Would any of you like to eat his dead brother's flesh?

01:01:11 --> 01:01:16

Exactly. Sounds. I mean, would you like to eat your living brother's

01:01:16 --> 01:01:20

flesh? Now, right? That brother says she's even worse. Can you see

01:01:20 --> 01:01:21

how gross that sounds? Right?

01:01:23 --> 01:01:26

You would most surely abhor it, meaning you'd hate to do that.

01:01:28 --> 01:01:31

But that's exactly what Reba is.

01:01:32 --> 01:01:35

That is exactly what Backbiting is like eating their flesh, because

01:01:35 --> 01:01:36

you're consuming they are saying something bad about it's like

01:01:36 --> 01:01:40

you're consuming them. There's a hadith that Imam Ahmed has

01:01:40 --> 01:01:45

transmitted in his mustard, where two women kept her fast and they

01:01:45 --> 01:01:49

started feeding very, very hungry. Like so hungry. That is like I

01:01:49 --> 01:01:51

need to eat right now. So they sent a message to the promise.

01:01:51 --> 01:01:54

Awesome. Can we break our fast promises and probably understood,

01:01:54 --> 01:01:58

so he sent them a bowl? And it said vomit in here.

01:01:59 --> 01:02:03

What did they vomit, not what they had for suhoor. They vomited fresh

01:02:03 --> 01:02:04

blood and fresh meat.

01:02:06 --> 01:02:11

So then the promise that I've said, you guys were backbiting

01:02:12 --> 01:02:13

you are backbiting.

01:02:14 --> 01:02:18

Now, you might say, if I backbite somebody is the flesh gonna come

01:02:18 --> 01:02:19

in my stomach, we'll try it

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

back, bite somebody and then vomit up and see what happens.

01:02:27 --> 01:02:31

That was just probably special in that was probably a miraculous

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

occurrence at that time, just to prove the point that don't. So

01:02:34 --> 01:02:38

backbiting and what is backbiting to say anything about your brother

01:02:38 --> 01:02:39

that they would dislike?

01:02:40 --> 01:02:45

Anything, even making a face or doing anything with your with your

01:02:45 --> 01:02:50

body that they would dislike like making that is even if it's true?

01:02:51 --> 01:02:54

Even if it's true, is still backbiting Yes. The only time

01:02:54 --> 01:02:59

you're allowed to back by the halal Backbiting is the guy's

01:02:59 --> 01:03:03

conning people. He's cheating people. So you need to tell people

01:03:03 --> 01:03:06

look, this is it. Or, for example, somebody comes and asks you for a

01:03:06 --> 01:03:07

marriage

01:03:08 --> 01:03:11

proposal for somebody and you know that there's going to be no

01:03:11 --> 01:03:15

compatibility. So you're allowed to just diverge and do just enough

01:03:15 --> 01:03:18

Lee but you know enough backbiting, right? If you want to

01:03:18 --> 01:03:22

call it that, that would that would just give them the right

01:03:22 --> 01:03:25

information. You can't now tell them the whole history, because

01:03:25 --> 01:03:28

that's not relevant. You have to be very, very careful about this

01:03:28 --> 01:03:31

because Allah subhanaw taala speaks about this in the Quran.

01:03:32 --> 01:03:37

And then just to finish this off, says, you would most surely have

01:03:37 --> 01:03:41

heard that Sophia Allah indeed God is unrelenting and mercy giving.

01:03:43 --> 01:03:46

That's always acid always. Allah subhanaw taala speaks about the

01:03:46 --> 01:03:50

web. Allah subhanaw taala speaks away out. Indeed. Allah is

01:03:50 --> 01:03:54

unrelenting and mercy giving. So if you've made a mistake before,

01:03:54 --> 01:03:59

ask forgiveness, because Allah is Forgiving and mercy giving. And

01:04:02 --> 01:04:06

I think we'll just do the last verse to finish this off. You're a

01:04:06 --> 01:04:13

human so in Kalapana come meal, the curry you Oh, why'd you?

01:04:15 --> 01:04:23

Why'd you come show Ruben Elita raffle in a chronicle de la he

01:04:23 --> 01:04:27

come in Allah Holleyman hobby.

01:04:29 --> 01:04:33

Oh, humankind. Indeed we have created all of you. Now this is

01:04:33 --> 01:04:36

like a collective verse to bring it all together. And say why you

01:04:36 --> 01:04:39

should be careful with one another. Why you should treat

01:04:39 --> 01:04:42

people with respect one another with respect is because oh

01:04:42 --> 01:04:46

humankind. Indeed we have created all of you from a single male and

01:04:46 --> 01:04:51

female Adam Ali Salam and Hawa Alia salah. Moreover, we have made

01:04:51 --> 01:04:55

you then yes, now you're different. We have made you into

01:04:56 --> 01:04:59

peoples and tribes. So that you may come to know

01:05:00 --> 01:05:00

one another.

01:05:01 --> 01:05:05

And indeed, the noblest of you in the sight of Allah is the most God

01:05:05 --> 01:05:09

fearing of you. Indeed, Allah is all knowing, and all aware.

01:05:11 --> 01:05:15

Now, Allah tells us the wisdom behind creating people different

01:05:15 --> 01:05:19

to one another, even though we're all from one another Marisa Rahman

01:05:19 --> 01:05:23

how it is. Because throughout the world, people have different

01:05:23 --> 01:05:26

cultures, different things they eat, some people can eat chili,

01:05:26 --> 01:05:31

and some people can't eat chili. Now, if I being a typical Indian,

01:05:31 --> 01:05:36

create, you know, have food, that's chili, and then I invite

01:05:36 --> 01:05:40

some Syrians over, or people who don't eat chili, right, without

01:05:40 --> 01:05:44

considering that the food's gonna go to waste. They're going to be

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

crying.

01:05:46 --> 01:05:48

Right? They'll take a few bites, and then they're going to be

01:05:48 --> 01:05:51

crying, they're going to be sweating. So if I know that, you

01:05:51 --> 01:05:55

come from a certain culture, I can try to cater for that. I can try

01:05:55 --> 01:05:58

to cater for your norms. I can try to cater for your sensibilities

01:05:58 --> 01:06:00

and your culture. It makes a difference. Once in Madina

01:06:00 --> 01:06:04

Munawwara there was a local grocery store, I went to buy

01:06:04 --> 01:06:07

something, and I try to look at people and try to understand where

01:06:07 --> 01:06:10

they're from. It's just some personal thing that I like to do.

01:06:10 --> 01:06:13

So I couldn't place this individual I couldn't place him.

01:06:13 --> 01:06:16

So where you from? He tried to avoid the questions because he

01:06:16 --> 01:06:19

probably gets his question in Medina whenever there's hundreds

01:06:19 --> 01:06:22

and 1000s of people all the time. So he says, I'm just from the land

01:06:22 --> 01:06:24

and I'm from the earth and I'm a Muslim and so no matter which

01:06:24 --> 01:06:29

country you're from, and then finally, I persisted and he said

01:06:29 --> 01:06:32

he's from Mauritania. Now, I just been to Mauritania before that,

01:06:32 --> 01:06:35

so, so when he said that I suddenly started the Mauritanian

01:06:35 --> 01:06:38

greetings. They do like a five minute greeting when you meet

01:06:38 --> 01:06:43

somebody. Yeah. colobus er Kumar will clean your cabin. They just

01:06:43 --> 01:06:47

like repeat these words over and over again. Right. And as soon as

01:06:47 --> 01:06:52

I did that, he just his face just lit up beamed. And he's like, Oh,

01:06:52 --> 01:06:55

you've been to Mauritania. And that's it. It's like take it for

01:06:55 --> 01:06:59

free. You know, take your your purchase for free. People are

01:06:59 --> 01:07:03

mashallah they just amazing, right? The other day, I told

01:07:03 --> 01:07:06

somebody that in the masjid is one of the guys who was listening. I

01:07:06 --> 01:07:08

said, You're from Afghanistan, I've been to Afghanistan a few

01:07:08 --> 01:07:12

months ago, and mashallah, he got so excited. Right? He got so

01:07:12 --> 01:07:15

excited people get very excited hamdulillah because that's how you

01:07:15 --> 01:07:21

connect with one another. And now, for those who just the final

01:07:21 --> 01:07:24

points about the tribe, right, which is very, very,

01:07:25 --> 01:07:26

very interesting.

01:07:27 --> 01:07:28

So

01:07:29 --> 01:07:35

Allah says, that we created you from Adam and from from one single

01:07:35 --> 01:07:37

set of parents, right, but then we made you into separate tribes.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:40

Now, I just want to show how tribes are very important. They

01:07:40 --> 01:07:44

were for the Arabs, but many other cultures are losing it. They don't

01:07:44 --> 01:07:46

even have a tribal surname anymore. They just take the

01:07:46 --> 01:07:49

father's first name as their surname, which is a bit strange,

01:07:49 --> 01:07:53

to be honest. A surname is your family name. It's what you are

01:07:53 --> 01:07:59

known as that. Okay, you are all the hands. Right? Your hand,

01:07:59 --> 01:08:02

right? Yep. So you're on the hands. You are all

01:08:03 --> 01:08:07

what you're saying. You have no tribal names at all. We have a

01:08:07 --> 01:08:10

tribal name, or you do Yeah, what is that?

01:08:11 --> 01:08:15

Oh, that's the coolest. Huck's Oh, that one. Okay. All right. What

01:08:15 --> 01:08:20

about you? The body, the body mashallah does abaris Right. And

01:08:20 --> 01:08:21

Kim, What's your surname?

01:08:23 --> 01:08:27

A frame son. There you go. Masha, Allah, my name is Mangueira.

01:08:27 --> 01:08:30

Right. So surname. So you ended up Oh, I know, someone gave us you

01:08:30 --> 01:08:32

know, like, I know them, I understand who they are because

01:08:32 --> 01:08:38

tribes have certain qualities or challenges or weaknesses or

01:08:38 --> 01:08:41

issues. So you know, all that kind of stuff. Now, I just want to

01:08:41 --> 01:08:43

share this with you because I think it's really um, so that you

01:08:43 --> 01:08:46

understand this a bit more. Allah says, which I know I'm sure Ruben

01:08:46 --> 01:08:51

Wakaba ill. What's the difference between Shroob and kabbah? Right.

01:08:51 --> 01:08:56

So Shroob is the plural of Shab. Today Shut up just refers to like,

01:08:57 --> 01:09:02

community of people. But really what Cheb refers to is that is the

01:09:02 --> 01:09:06

highest tribal that's the that's kind of you can say the mother

01:09:06 --> 01:09:06

tribe.

01:09:07 --> 01:09:09

Right? The mother tribe is the Shab

01:09:11 --> 01:09:16

then it so that that's you know the answer. They were the house

01:09:16 --> 01:09:19

and the hazard edge. They were actually from one tribe from Bhanu

01:09:19 --> 01:09:22

kala right but if you look at the Prophet sallallahu CEMs tribe,

01:09:23 --> 01:09:25

right, so the main head person

01:09:26 --> 01:09:31

and the overall arching name, they that is what you call the sharp

01:09:31 --> 01:09:31

okay.

01:09:33 --> 01:09:36

The kabbah il then is the second level the Kabbalah is the

01:09:36 --> 01:09:41

subcategory of the sharp it's a subcategory The second category,

01:09:41 --> 01:09:46

okay. Now it doesn't stop there, right. After that, you have ama IV

01:09:46 --> 01:09:52

or Aymara. So if that device further they become Aymara. Okay,

01:09:52 --> 01:09:57

that one you don't hear used so much. Okay. Then after that, you

01:09:57 --> 01:10:00

have Batoon button on you

01:10:00 --> 01:10:05

Quraysh button the stomach, so then you get a further fourth

01:10:05 --> 01:10:08

level subtribe called a button right there the button right then

01:10:08 --> 01:10:14

after that you get the other half or the fuck of which means the you

01:10:14 --> 01:10:14

call

01:10:16 --> 01:10:21

the thighs that's it's kind of almost like making it into a human

01:10:21 --> 01:10:25

being lifestyle that good becomes further subdivided into the fuck

01:10:25 --> 01:10:30

of right that part of the tribe right and then fossa il four sila

01:10:31 --> 01:10:36

that's a subcategory of the fucking right. So, if you know the

01:10:36 --> 01:10:37

if you know the

01:10:38 --> 01:10:41

the family tree of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, then to take

01:10:41 --> 01:10:44

that as an example the highest level there whose aim is the

01:10:44 --> 01:10:51

shower, right? Kena is the Kabila Quraysh is the Imara. Kosei is the

01:10:51 --> 01:10:57

button. Hashem is the fuck of an Abbas. If we use a bursary on

01:10:57 --> 01:10:59

Uncle Boris, I seldom he becomes the vasila.

01:11:01 --> 01:11:04

And the purpose of this is so you can get to recognize one another,

01:11:04 --> 01:11:07

and your understanding and your cultures and we can be sensitive

01:11:07 --> 01:11:11

to that. That's one of the benefits of that. So Allah

01:11:11 --> 01:11:14

subhanho wa Taala is telling us that ultimately, you're all from

01:11:14 --> 01:11:18

one. But yeah, you do see differences in color, style,

01:11:18 --> 01:11:22

languages, and so on. That's just the worldly aspect of it, because

01:11:22 --> 01:11:25

of where you come from, where you live, what you eat, and so on. But

01:11:25 --> 01:11:29

ultimately, you're still from the same mother and father, so don't

01:11:29 --> 01:11:32

be racist, don't look down upon one another. If you've got a good

01:11:32 --> 01:11:36

quality in your tribe, hamdulillah thank Allah for it, but don't use

01:11:36 --> 01:11:38

it to look down upon somebody else, because they're probably

01:11:38 --> 01:11:42

going to have some really good points in their tribe as well. So

01:11:42 --> 01:11:45

with that, we're going to stop here because our time is up, there

01:11:45 --> 01:11:49

are about four or five verses left on a slightly different subject,

01:11:49 --> 01:11:52

but Alhamdulillah we've covered two of the main categories of

01:11:52 --> 01:11:56

subjects of this verse of the surah May Allah subhanaw taala,

01:11:56 --> 01:11:59

accept, and may Allah subhanho wa Taala bless us all with the Quran

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

and illuminate us with the Quran. Let's take any questions that you

01:12:02 --> 01:12:06

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01:12:06 --> 01:12:12

further an inspiration, and encouragement, persuasion. The

01:12:12 --> 01:12:15

next step is to actually start learning seriously to read books

01:12:15 --> 01:12:19

to take on a subject of Islam and to understand all the subjects of

01:12:19 --> 01:12:23

Islam at least at the basic level, so that we can become more aware

01:12:23 --> 01:12:27

of what our deen wants from us. And that's why we started Rayyan

01:12:27 --> 01:12:32

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01:12:32 --> 01:12:35

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01:12:35 --> 01:12:38

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essentials certificate which you take 20 Short modules, and at the

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end of that insha Allah you will have gotten the basics of most of

01:12:48 --> 01:12:51

the most important topics in Islam and you will feel a lot more

01:12:51 --> 01:12:54

confident. You don't have to leave lectures behind you can continue

01:12:54 --> 01:12:57

to live, you know to listen to lectures, but you need to have

01:12:57 --> 01:13:00

this more sustained study as well as Accola here and Salaam Alaikum

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