Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Surat al-Hujurat Some Commentary

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of avoiding personal and cultural information on social media is emphasized, along with the importance of manners and hungry behavior in Islam. Personal information is discussed, including shur'ub and kabapm, and the importance of learning and taking on a study in order to become more aware of deemers and deemings. The speaker provides advice on being a good person and avoiding assumptions and backbiting, as well as on the difference between shur'ub and kabapm and on learning from shur'ub learning.
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I remember once there was somebody who came

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to visit and said, can I have your

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numbers? I gave it to him and I

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just started getting forwards. I said, is that

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why you took my number?

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I said, please unsubscribe me.

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Right?

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This is a personal mailing list. So I

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said, please unsubscribe

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me. I said, if you've got anything personal

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to say, please, you're welcome. Then say as

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much as you want, but don't forward stuff.

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I don't have time because we receive all

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of these things from multiple sources.

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So one has to be very careful about

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these things, what you hear, what you see.

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Try to have some sense

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in determining whether what you hear, what you

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receive on your,

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different social media is correct or not. And

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we're living in a post true

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post truth world

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where you don't know what to believe.

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So dear brothers and dear sisters,

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may Allah

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bless our Ramadan.

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We're going we have these next

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one and a half, 2 hours,

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before Iftar, I think.

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What we're going to be doing, inshallah,

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is we're going to,

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first do some tafsir,

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some commentary of the Quran. I have chosen

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a surah.

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It's called Suratul Hujurat.

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It's quite an interesting surah, because it has

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quite a few

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different

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really important points mentioned in there. So

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we'll do a brief tafsir of this and

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just talk about some relevant points. And then

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after that, insha'Allah, if you have any questions

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about any of that, we can take those

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questions.

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So inshallah, we're gonna do Surat Al Hujurat,

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which is chapter 49, surah 49 of the

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Quran. So if you wanna follow it, you

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can.

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And

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Hujarat essentially means

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chambers,

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rooms.

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So why is it called hujarat? Because of

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a particular verse in there that we'll be,

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inshaAllah, looking at. I'm going to start off

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with some of the reading of it, inshaAllah.

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Allahu

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Ghafoorul Rahim

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So I begin in the name of Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. I first seek refuge from

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Shaitan, the accursed, and I begin in the

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name of Allah Allah most gracious and most

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merciful. I'm gonna read the translation of this

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section. This is the first section of the

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surah.

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It's actually relating to some etiquette with the

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Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and how we're

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supposed to

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how the Sahaba and people around the Prophet

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were supposed to interact with the Prophet

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Now how does that relate to us? I'll

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explain, Insha'Allah.

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So,

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Allah

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says, O you who believe,

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do not advance yourself in any affair,

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contrary to the decree of Allah and His

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Messenger.

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And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is all hearing

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and all knowing.

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Don't try to do anything

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in front of Allah

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that he has not sanctioned, that he has

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not allowed.

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That's very general obviously, right?

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Then the Prophet

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then he speaks specifically.

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O you who believe, do not raise your

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voices.

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Do not raise your voices above the voice

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of the Prophet,

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nor speak loudly to him,

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as you are sometimes loud with one another.

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Sometimes we could be loud with one another.

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He says, you might be loud with one

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another and that's okay with between yourselves but

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don't ever do that with the Prophet

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SAW. For then your good works will become

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utterly futile with Allah. Meaning you could lose

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all of your good works, it could actually

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destroy all the good works that you have.

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Though

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you would not even perceive this, you wouldn't

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even know that your good works are being

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lost.

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As to those who lower their voices

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in the presence of the Messenger of Allah,

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these are the ones whose hearts Allah has

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tested pure

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for righteousness,

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for righteous fear of Him.

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For them there is such forgiveness

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and a magnificent reward.

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This is speaking

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about the likes of Abu Bakr and Umar

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and others, who knew exactly how to deal

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with the Prophet

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and they would

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be very

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calm.

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They wouldn't raise their voices like the desert

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Arabs would do. The desert Arabs had a

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style.

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Everything was loud. Because in the desert, you

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have to be loud, I guess.

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Maybe because

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there's a lot of wind there

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and distances and so on. So they're just

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being loud. Right? So that you can hear

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one another. And they think that's cool. They

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think that's okay. People do that in villages.

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They're loud to one another. Right? Some cultures

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have that.

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Some cultures are louder than other cultures.

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For example,

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in this huge

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country called India,

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the northerners are louder than the southerners.

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Right? So

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it just,

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it depends on where you're from. So some

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cultures are louder than others. Anybody here from

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a loud culture?

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Where people like to be loud?

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Yeah?

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A lot of them? Okay.

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So,

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yeah. Some people are just loud. Now when

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you go into another culture which is not

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loud, it's looked on as

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people look on that and said, why are

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you being so impolite for? Why are you

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being so rude for? It's actually not rude

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in your own culture, but in another culture

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it would be rude.

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And that's why when we live in these

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kind of places,

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where Masha'Allah.

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You see,

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50 to a 100 years ago, we would

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never have met maybe.

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You know, masha'Allah, a lot of our Somali

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brothers here, Algerian brothers,

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and,

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Kosovan brothers,

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and

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Bosnian. Masha'Allah. Right?

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Where would an Indian have gone to Bosnia

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or to

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Somalia, you know? Because traveling those maybe would

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have met in Umrah or Hajj, maybe, if

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you're lucky. Right?

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And

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there would be no concept of half Swedish

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and half Pakistani as well. Right? Is that

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Yeah. Masha'Allah.

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So now that we're here,

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we have to be more sensitive to our

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cultures.

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That is everything from our culture which is

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cool maybe in our homes,

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is that okay outside with somebody else?

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It's a really interesting idea, this idea of

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the coming together of multiple cultures.

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And I've been thinking about this for a

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long time.

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Culture is something that you can never divorce

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from yourself.

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Humans can never divorce culture from themselves. There's

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a lot of people who claim that I'm

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not cultural.

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All they've done is they've taken off their

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cult their own culture that they were born

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with, or their parents culture, and they've just

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adopted a new culture and they think they

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don't have a culture.

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Like, let's just say that. Right? Your parents

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are from India, Pakistan, or Sweden sorry. Or,

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Somalia, for example. And you come to this

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country, it's like, I don't want to be

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Somali.

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Meaning, I don't like Somali culture. I don't

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like Indian culture or something like that.

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You can't be without a culture though. You're

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just gonna take another culture.

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Right? Because culture is the way you do

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something, is the way you wear your clothing,

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is the what you eat, is the way

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you behave.

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All of that is culture.

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These people, they say, I don't wanna get

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married to my own background person. I said,

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why? Because they come with baggage they say.

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So who do you want to get married

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to? I want to get married to a

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convert. So okay fine. Do converts come with

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baggages?

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Yeah. Everybody comes with baggage.

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Every culture has baggage,

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right? So

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people have this idea

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But what is our culture and what should

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be our culture?

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If you look at our Bosnian brothers, have

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you been here long enough? When you go

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back to Bosnia, are they do you agree

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with everything of your original culture? You don't.

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Right? When I go back to India, I

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don't necessarily agree with everything.

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Right? I have certain differences now, like what

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I do with Somalia and all other countries.

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So

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our job,

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beautifully,

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because we are Muslim,

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is that Allah SWT has given us Islam.

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We look at all cultural aspects through the

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lens of Islam.

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And what is the most beautiful thing is

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that living in a Western country like this,

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one of the beautiful aspects of it, there

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are challenges, of course, but one of the

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beautiful aspects of it is

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that we get to get the Masha'Allah. We

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get to meet so many different Muslim cultures.

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As I told you, 50 to a 100

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years ago, we would never have met. I

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would have been just pure Indian, and that's

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it. Right? There'd be no fusion. There'd be

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no

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confusion either,

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right? Sometimes.

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So now, alhamdulillah, I get to sit with

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our brothers from different countries.

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And everyone has a different culture, and there's

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positive aspects in every culture, just as there

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are negatives.

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Right? There are positive aspects in every culture

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as there are negatives. Right?

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Our job is to take the positives of

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our culture for sure. Right?

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Get rid of the negatives of our culture.

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And what's going to determine that is Islam.

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Right?

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And we can take the positives of other

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cultures.

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You can take positive foods from other cultures.

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So in my house, we cook Moroccan Harira

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soup.

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Never have done that 50 years ago, or

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maybe even 20 years ago. But now I

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went to Morocco, so Moroccan Harira soup and

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MashaAllah.

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We still haven't had started having bananas with

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food yet.

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Right? Maybe soon, Insha'Allah.

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I have it with breakfast, but not with

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not with supper, not with dinner. Right?

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Masha'Allah.

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You understand what I'm saying? You can take

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the best. Now,

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the way we dress, the way I'm dressed,

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there's nothing Indian about me.

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You understand what I'm saying? We take the

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best, that's the beauty of it. But we

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have to take out the worst of our

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culture.

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We take the best from the Swedish culture.

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We avoid the worst.

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So that's what we do. Alhamdulillah, Allah has

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given us that position. So this is

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what was happening. Sometimes the desert Arabs, because

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they were living in villages

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and in

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the desert, you had to sometimes shout, and

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you could be a bit rude. And it

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was normal for them to be rude, call

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people by names and so on. That's okay.

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Once somebody came to the Prophet as the

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Prophet was going on his animal, somebody came,

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grabbed

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the

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rope of his animal, and he said, I

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want to ask you something.

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So the

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Prophet was very calm.

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So he asked him a question, the Prophet

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responded,

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and then he said okay now let the

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camel go.

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You know, it's like somebody, you're just driving.

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You pull up at a light,

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and your window's down, and somebody came and,

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took your

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switched the car off. I've got a question

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for you. Okay?

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Because you're a scholar, maybe. You know? I've

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got a question for you.

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So

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the Prophet answered him. They said, okay, now

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give me my keys back.

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So they the prophet understood this. And there

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was a lot of benefit in the way

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they did things as well, because they were

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able to ask some really

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rough questions that others might not have wanted

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to ask.

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So anyway, Allah

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is teaching them because Islam is to teach.

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So this is what's going on here. Whereas

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people like Abu Bakr and Umar they

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already learnt and they were from the city.

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So that was the normal culture was much

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more calmer in Makkah, than obviously from the

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Bedouins outside of Makkah Mukar Ramah.

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Now, then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says, as

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to those who lower their voices

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in the presence of the Messenger of Allah,

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these are the ones whose hearts Allah has

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tested pure for right righteous fear of him.

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For them there is much forgiveness

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and a magnificent

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reward.

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O Prophet,

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as to those

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who call out to you from behind the

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chambers of your residences,

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most of them do not understand good manners

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and civility.

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Now what happened, there were some people who

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wanted to come and visit the Prophet

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and talk to him.

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Prophet had multiple wives. Each one of them

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had their own rooms,

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which means that like these little

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chambers,

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right, made up of whatever he was made

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up of. These were independent.

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The only one left is Aisha

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has 1, where the Prophet is buried today

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in the Roldah.

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Not this Roldah,

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that Roldah. Right?

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So that's Aisha

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room in which the Prophet got buried.

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And then Abu Bakradi and her father got

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buried there, and then Umaruddin got buried there,

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and there's a small space left, they say

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for Isa when he comes back and then

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he passes away there, and he passes away,

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then that's what they say.

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Behind that, if you look at the roda

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carefully, behind that there's another room. That one

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is

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the daughter of the Prophet Fatima radiAllan's room.

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That's still preserved.

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But all the other rooms, they were incorporated

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into the Masjid. So around Aisha

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room there were other rooms.

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Like separate little, you can say cubicles,

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separate little buildings.

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Now

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the people who would visit they don't know

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where the Prophet is.

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And they're not soundproof. These little rooms are

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not soundproof.

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In fact a lot of them just had

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curtains for doors.

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They're not soundproof, so they wanted to see

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the Prophet They're just calling

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out. Oh Muhammad, where are you? Which room

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are you in?

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Because they don't know which room. So that's

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why Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says you can't

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do that. That's not what you do.

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As for those who call out to you

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from behind the chambers of your residence,

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most of them do not understand good manners

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and civility.

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This is to comfort the Prophet

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as well.

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And it's also

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telling them that look, you need to have

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more manners now. You don't come and just

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call out.

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Right? For were they to remain patient

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until you were to come out to them

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of your own accord,

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it would be better for them.

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Yet

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Allah is all forgiving

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and mercy giving.

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If they make tawbah, and if they regret

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what they've done. And they've done it, they

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they've they've done it out of mistake.

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Ibn Abbas

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was only 13 years old or something like

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that when the prophet

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passed away. But his but for all of

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his childhood,

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Masha'Allah, he grew up with the Prophet

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and he learned a lot from him.

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After that, after the Prophet passed away, there

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were big Sahaba and he would go to

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them to learn

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what the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam had taught,

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the Hadith.

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What he would do is he would go

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to a Sahabi's house. Now remember he's a

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cousin of the Prophet

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But if the person was sleeping in the

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afternoon, taking a nap, you know the siesta,

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Kayloola, we call it. Right? Duhr time, around

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that time. He wouldn't go and disturb him.

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He would actually

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sit down outside the door of his house

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and maybe fall asleep there.

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He himself would

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have a little snooze.

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And then when that Sahabi would wake up,

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that companion would wake up,

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You would find out Abdullaibnu Abbas

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there.

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And he would say, you should have told

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us,

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we would have come out for you, you

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know? He said, no no no. Because he

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said that they had a lot of respect

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for me because of my position and relationship

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with the Prophet

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But I didn't want to

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abuse that and disturb them because I was

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there to learn from them. So Masha'Allah, look,

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he's understood the Adab. He's understood the Adab.

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Now before,

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about 10 years ago,

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Masid al Nabawi

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used to be closed that night.

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Right now,

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just like the masidul Haram in Makkah is

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open 24 hours. Right? It's always something going

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on. Right? Masid al Nabawi,

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now is like that as well. 24 hours,

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it's open. They close a lot of the

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doors, but there's still some doors open. You

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can go inside. But before, they used to

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actually close it.

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Right?

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Around at nighttime, maybe,

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11 o'clock, 12 o'clock, or something like that

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for a few hours to clean up and

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everything.

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Then they opened it a few years ago.

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So I was told about a story of,

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some Bedouins who came,

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and the doors were closed that night.

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So these were modern day Bedouins. There's still

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Bedouins there. Right? They do camels and things

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like that. So they came and knocked on

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the door. You Rasulullah, we're here, we're Bedouins,

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we've come to visit You, open the door.

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They came at night time. Right? And they

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thought that the Prophet

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is inside and he can open the door.

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Can you do that?

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So, Masha'Allah, one of our guys from India

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Pakistan, Badani, where he was from, he went

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to the Kaaba. He got to the door

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of the Kaaba.

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He knocks on the door of the Kaaba

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and he said, Allah, how are you? Is

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everything well?

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Somebody has to tell him, Allah doesn't live

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in a in a place. Allah is beyond

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space. It's just a special house.

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So we don't do crazy things like that.

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Right?

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Mashallah.

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So anyway, this this is, this is what

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this was the, you know, beginning part of

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Islam, and

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there's a lot of the different cultures were

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there. So,

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mashallah. All of these verses there to teach

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different things. So that's how that starts off.

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Now this part here, the first verse here

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which says

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that Don't do anything

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without consulting or without it being approved by

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Allah

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and his messenger

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Abu Bakr and Umar

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they had a small,

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difference of opinion.

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Right? Whether

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they should make this specific individual, Aqra ibnu

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Habis.

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So there was a person called Aqra ibnu

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Habis or Kaqa ibn Muhammed.

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They had a difference of opinion as to

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which one of these we should make the

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amir.

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These these first verses, they were revealed regarding

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that.

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Then the second verses were obviously revealed regarding

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those people who had

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raised their voices in front of the Prophet

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One Sahabi, who was a poet of the

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Prophet

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Hassan ibn Nuthabit

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I believe it was him, he had a

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very loud voice.

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When some of these verses came down, he

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felt that

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they were against him. Because he had a

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loud voice.

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So he didn't even show up for some

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days. Then when the Prophet found out, he

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said, no, no, it's not about you.

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You use your loud voice to defend the

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Prophet

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Sahaba were very very particular.

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Sahaba were very particular. They tried to follow

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everything

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very very

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refined way. So they felt that it was

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against him. Now something very interesting, I was

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told about this one individual.

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His mother's very old.

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Whenever he would come to visit his mother,

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because he lived separately, whenever he would come

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to visit his mother,

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she would tell him whatever, and he would

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just shake his head and just smile and

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say yes, yes, yes.

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He wouldn't speak to her.

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Can you believe that? He wouldn't speak to

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her. He would just say yes yes yes

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smile to her and just listen to her

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and just sit with her.

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The only time he would speak to her

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would be on the phone.

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He would never say anything to her

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while sitting in front of her.

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He would then go pick up the phone

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and call her and say whatever he needed

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to say, and have a conversation.

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Does anybody know why?

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Is it because she has a loud voice?

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No. She doesn't have a loud voice,

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but she couldn't hear properly.

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So he would have to speak loudly

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to speak to her, in front of her.

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He would have to speak loudly for her

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to be able to hear.

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And he

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now the Prophet

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is what this verse is about.

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But what we understand from this is respect

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of your elders and especially your parents.

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So he did not want to raise his

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voice in front of his mother.

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So he doesn't say

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anything. On the phone, it's easier because she

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can hear it's amplified,

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you know, it's more direct.

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There's nothing to confuse her. So he will

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speak to her on the phone only, but

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he won't speak to her when he's in

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front of her. So he does not have

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to raise his voice because some people they

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can't hear loudly. So then you have to

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raise your voice and it sounds quite rude.

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I've seen

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interaction

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between those people who have older parents.

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And Allah

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protect us from going to that stage, because

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there's a special dua.

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Which the Prophet says, made Allah

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O Allah, I seek your refuge from

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evil old age.

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O Allah, I seek your refuge from being

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returned to this senile age.

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When a person becomes like a kid sometimes,

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they become dependent,

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They can't hear properly. They can't do their

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own things. They can't sometimes understand

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properly. Allah protect us. They get diseases like

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dementia and things like this. Then their own

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children are speaking to them, as though

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they're guiding a child.

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Allah protect us from ever getting into that

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situation.

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So that's why he was just very careful,

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the way he spoke to her. May Allah

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allow us also. It's difficult sometimes, because sometimes

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our parents can be quite tough.

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Right? Very challenging, mashallah.

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But what do we do?

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You can't change parents, can you? You can

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change everything else but you can't change parents,

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brothers, and children.

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You can't change parents, can you?

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Right, there's no shop you can go and

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say, let me change them.

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Right,

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so

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that's our challenge from Allah and that's our

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Jannat.

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We just have to

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a lot of people what they feel

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is why can't my parents be good?

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Why can't they change? They're 70 years old.

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Why can't they just be different?

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Forget it. It's not gonna happen.

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That's the way I have, found from experience

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is the best way to treat

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older parents, especially if they're difficult,

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is just know they're gonna be difficult, and

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they're never gonna change.

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I need to just be cool

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to deal with it and minimize any problems.

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And, Insha'Allah, we'll go through this life with

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success. There's nothing else you can do.

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You can't reprogram them, can you?

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You can't change a chip or something and

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reprogram. There's nothing you can do. So you

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just, Alhamdulillah, Allah make it easy.

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And let's

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minimize any kind of damage,

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and just do the best that you can.

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Right. Let us move on now

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to the next section,

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which is

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a very interesting section.

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Allah

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So this is the next cluster of verses.

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This is what it means.

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O you who believe,

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if an ungodly person comes to you and

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ungodly

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means somebody who's a sinner, a transgressor,

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who's not righteous.

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So if an ungodly person comes to you

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with any news

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informing you about something, he did this,

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look what he's doing.

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Then be discerning,

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be careful,

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so that you do not afflict a people

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out of ignorance.

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So that you don't jump to conclusion and

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you do something about that and it turns

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out to be wrong, it turns out to

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be a mistake, it turns out to be

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miss misunderstanding,

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it turns out to be

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actually manipulation.

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We got a lot of that nowadays.

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We got a lot of that nowadays. You

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have to be very careful. Right?

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And

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so then you go and afflict a people

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out of ignorance, meaning you go and do

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something,

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and thereafter you become regretful about what you

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have done.

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Moreover

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know that in your midst is the Messenger

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of Allah.

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Were he to follow

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the inclinations you express in most matters, meaning

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if he was to just listen to whatever

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you say,

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you

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would

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most surely become overburdened with hardships.

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Because you would have forced the Prophet

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to do something that's wrong and then you

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would have been punished and there would be

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a lot of burden. Some new laws may

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have come out because of that.

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However,

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Allah has endeared faith to you

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and adorned it in your hearts. He's talking

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about the good people that Masha'Allah, they

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Allah has made the faith adorned in their

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hearts.

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They beautified their faith inside.

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And thus He has made unbelief hateful to

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you,

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as well as ungodliness

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and disobedience all of that is hated for

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you. It is these who are the rightly

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guided ones.

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Rightly guided ones, this is a bounty from

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Allah and a blessing for Allah is All

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Knowing and All Wise.

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So this

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is the the second cluster of verses.

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And what this is about is,

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there's a person called Walid ibn

00:28:19 --> 00:28:20

Uqbah. The Prophet

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sent him

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to a tribe called Banul Mustalik,

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the Banul Mustalik,

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to collect their zakat, to collect their charity.

00:28:33 --> 00:28:33

And

00:28:34 --> 00:28:37

he had some issue, he had had some

00:28:37 --> 00:28:39

history with them from before, so he was

00:28:39 --> 00:28:42

scared of them. There was some fear when

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he got there,

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because of something that happened in ignorance many

00:28:46 --> 00:28:46

years ago.

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So he came back

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and he said to the Prophet that they

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don't want to give zakat. They've refused to

00:28:52 --> 00:28:53

give zakat.

00:28:53 --> 00:28:54

Now the Prophet

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got obviously

00:28:56 --> 00:28:57

upset with this that how can they refuse

00:28:57 --> 00:28:59

to give zakat? They're Muslims, how can they

00:28:59 --> 00:29:00

refuse to give zakat?

00:29:01 --> 00:29:03

Now in those days

00:29:03 --> 00:29:05

and even now in many countries, there are

00:29:05 --> 00:29:08

2 types of wealth that people have. Mostly

00:29:08 --> 00:29:09

in the in the West, except for some

00:29:09 --> 00:29:11

people, most of us have only one type

00:29:11 --> 00:29:13

of wealth, which is what they call Amwalbawtina,

00:29:13 --> 00:29:15

which is liquid assets, which is cash,

00:29:16 --> 00:29:19

and maybe stocks, and maybe properties, and things

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21

like that. But what they call the Amwal

00:29:21 --> 00:29:21

Dahira,

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the more apparent money, is people who have

00:29:25 --> 00:29:27

for example crops and they have

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animals.

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So their assets are animals. They've got goats

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and cows and camels and horse and things

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like that. There's zakat on those.

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The zakat of that would be collected by

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a zakat collector from the state. The state

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would send the zakat collector, he'd come to

00:29:43 --> 00:29:45

your farm, your ranch, whatever it is, and

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say okay this is, you know, your zakat

00:29:47 --> 00:29:49

here, let me take your zakat. And so

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in 5 camels, there would be 1 goat

00:29:51 --> 00:29:53

that you would take, for example. So there's

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a certain,

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quantum. There's certain criteria. Right?

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However,

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the way the jurisprudence is that they can't

00:30:02 --> 00:30:03

come and take your money because your money

00:30:03 --> 00:30:04

is not evident.

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

You know? You don't

00:30:07 --> 00:30:10

boast your well people shouldn't boast their bank

00:30:10 --> 00:30:12

balances, you know, for everybody to see.

00:30:13 --> 00:30:15

You know, you might boast your Rolex, but

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you're not going to boast your bank balance.

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Right. So that is the responsibility of the

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individual to give.

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So when the Prophet sent a person,

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this Walid ibn Uqba

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to the Banu al Mustariq.

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He came back and he said so the

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Prophet got a bit upset, and he was

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actually gonna go

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with a force.

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What's going on? You know, to implement

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the zakat on them.

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However, they heard, right, that this is what's

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happening. So they quickly came.

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They quickly came,

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and

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they cleared up that no, that wasn't the

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case. We're not withholding the Zakat, there was

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some other problem here with them.

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So that's why

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Allah

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tells us and tells the people who believe

00:31:03 --> 00:31:06

that be careful about who's giving you news.

00:31:06 --> 00:31:08

You could have had a war right now,

00:31:08 --> 00:31:10

there would have been an attack because of

00:31:10 --> 00:31:11

this, it's a misunderstanding,

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or it was you know manipulation,

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or miscommunication,

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or

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purposeful.

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So he says, in another kira'a, for those

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who understand the different modes of reading, instead

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of fatabayun, it's fatabbatu.

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So establish the point of view.

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Establish the point of view before you do

00:31:31 --> 00:31:34

anything. Otherwise you could be in ignorance, you're

00:31:34 --> 00:31:36

gonna do something in response.

00:31:36 --> 00:31:38

Right? Let's just say you hear from one

00:31:38 --> 00:31:40

of your friends that another friend said something

00:31:40 --> 00:31:41

about you.

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Now the guy who told you is not

00:31:43 --> 00:31:46

very trustworthy, but you just believed him and

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

got very angry and you went started attacking

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

the other guy. It's like what are you

00:31:49 --> 00:31:51

attacking me for? Oh because you said this

00:31:51 --> 00:31:52

about me. I didn't say that about No

00:31:52 --> 00:31:53

no you're lying. Can you see how bad

00:31:53 --> 00:31:54

it's gonna get?

00:31:55 --> 00:31:56

It was all made up by the other

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guy to cause a conflict between you.

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That's why be very careful when people bring

00:32:00 --> 00:32:01

you news.

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

Be very careful. Don't be such that you

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

you want to do something about it straight

00:32:06 --> 00:32:07

away. Be very considerate

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10

in what you do. And obviously leaders need

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

to be very careful about these things. People

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

in authority need to be very careful about

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

this. People who run organizations need to be

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

very careful about this. Imams

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

and religious leaders and teachers.

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

And in any position that you are where

00:32:22 --> 00:32:23

you have authority, you have to be very

00:32:23 --> 00:32:24

very careful about this.

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

Otherwise, it's caused a lot of problems. Now

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

today we have the biggest Farsiqeen

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

going around telling us things.

00:32:33 --> 00:32:35

The biggest transgressors telling us things. Most of

00:32:35 --> 00:32:36

these news medias,

00:32:37 --> 00:32:38

as finally the world has understood

00:32:39 --> 00:32:40

or is understanding

00:32:40 --> 00:32:42

the hypocrisy. Before,

00:32:42 --> 00:32:44

people say no it's not that hypocritical, there

00:32:44 --> 00:32:46

was a bit of hypocrisy. But now,

00:32:47 --> 00:32:50

there's become a very simple criteria of what's

00:32:50 --> 00:32:51

going on now.

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

Right and

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

so one has to be very careful a

00:32:55 --> 00:32:56

lot of the time

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

you have to be careful of WhatsApp as

00:32:58 --> 00:33:01

well There's been people who have been killed

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

on WhatsApp,

00:33:02 --> 00:33:03

and they're still alive.

00:33:04 --> 00:33:05

One of our local,

00:33:06 --> 00:33:09

big scholars in the UK, he was not

00:33:09 --> 00:33:12

dead yet. But the news goes out that

00:33:12 --> 00:33:13

he's dead, and his family has to put

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

out, no no, he's still alive.

00:33:16 --> 00:33:18

So I don't know. People like to be

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

trigger happy on their phones to make up

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23

messages, or to get a message and just

00:33:23 --> 00:33:24

forward it. One has to be very, very

00:33:24 --> 00:33:25

careful.

00:33:27 --> 00:33:28

Otherwise,

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

the Prophet said:

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It is sufficient for a person

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

to be considered a liar,

00:33:45 --> 00:33:45

that he just

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says everything he hears.

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

He just forwards everything

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

he receives.

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

Oh this is a really cool hadith.

00:33:54 --> 00:33:56

I mean is it really a hadith?

00:33:56 --> 00:33:58

Right? It sounds too fantastic.

00:33:59 --> 00:34:00

It sounds too

00:34:01 --> 00:34:04

it it sounds a bit too, you know,

00:34:04 --> 00:34:05

a bit

00:34:06 --> 00:34:06

sensational.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09

Yes. Right? And you just forward it on.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

I hardly forward anything on. And there's some

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

people, they just love forwarding. That's their job,

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

is forwarding.

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

Right? I remember once there was somebody who

00:34:17 --> 00:34:18

came to visit and said, can I have

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20

your numbers? I gave it to him. And

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

I just started getting forwards. I said, is

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

that why you took my number?

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

I said, please unsubscribe me.

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

Right?

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

This is his personal mailing list. So I

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

said, please unsubscribe me. I said, if you've

00:34:31 --> 00:34:34

got anything personal to say, please, you're welcome.

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

Then say as much as you want, but

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

don't forward stuff. I don't have time because

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

we receive all of these things from multiple

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

sources.

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

So one has to be very careful about

00:34:42 --> 00:34:44

these things, what you hear, what you see.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

Try

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

to have some sense

00:34:47 --> 00:34:50

in determining whether what you hear, what you

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

receive on your

00:34:52 --> 00:34:55

different social media is correct or not. And

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

we're living in a post true post

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

truth world,

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

where you don't know what to believe.

00:35:03 --> 00:35:04

You go on to facebook and other places,

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

and there are so many remedies

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

that they tell you about.

00:35:09 --> 00:35:11

For a sore throat, do this. For this,

00:35:11 --> 00:35:12

do this.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

And recipes for different things. I don't know

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

what to trust anymore.

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

There'll be 10 recipes for a sore throat.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:20

We don't know. Do they really work? We're

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

just somebody making something up.

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

Right? Because a lot of things have been

00:35:24 --> 00:35:27

found, you know, for example, they will have

00:35:27 --> 00:35:27

recipes

00:35:27 --> 00:35:30

for how to make this really beautiful cake

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

or something.

00:35:31 --> 00:35:32

And then later they found out that I

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

was actually it won't make that kind of

00:35:34 --> 00:35:34

cake.

00:35:35 --> 00:35:36

Just cut and paste job.

00:35:37 --> 00:35:40

Because it just sounds really cool and miraculous.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

So I don't know what to trust anymore.

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

It can can you believe it? You know,

00:35:45 --> 00:35:46

when you

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

what a bad place that is to be,

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

where you're not sure what to trust?

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

That's a really sad place to

00:35:54 --> 00:35:54

be, because

00:35:55 --> 00:35:56

we can't take

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

what we see for granted,

00:35:59 --> 00:36:00

Because we don't know whether I mean you

00:36:00 --> 00:36:02

guys don't really understand this. You know, our

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

little brothers here don't really understand this because

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

you haven't dealt with too much of that.

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

But the adults,

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

the the world we're living in is just

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

very confusing. We don't know what you have

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

to be so careful what you listen to,

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

and what you want to take, and what

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

you believe. That's why I've just become a

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

lot more careful.

00:36:19 --> 00:36:21

The world is going through a writing system,

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

a right,

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

to set the

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

to to set the record right.

00:36:26 --> 00:36:28

And, I don't know what's gonna happen, but

00:36:28 --> 00:36:29

we just need to be careful. We need

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

to protect ourselves because Allah

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

gives us these indications

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

in the Quran that be careful. Otherwise, you're

00:36:35 --> 00:36:37

going to cause a lot of conflicts and

00:36:37 --> 00:36:38

problems because of misunderstandings.

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

So don't ever do that. The prophet

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

then actually sent they went back, they told

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

the Prophet, then they went back. Then the

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

Prophet sent Khali bin Walid

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

to them.

00:36:51 --> 00:36:52

He sent Khaled

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

to them, to just check them out, to

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

make sure that it is as they said,

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

and they're not just making an excuse. And

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

mashallah,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:02

they were decent people. They were not trying

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

to cause problems or anything like that. So

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

Alhamdulillah, a big issue

00:37:07 --> 00:37:07

was

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

averted.

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

And that's why you've been told that look,

00:37:12 --> 00:37:12

if the Prophet

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

was just to take everything you said, there

00:37:15 --> 00:37:16

would be a lot of problems that would

00:37:16 --> 00:37:19

be caused. Because the Prophet is the leader,

00:37:19 --> 00:37:21

and if he's to listen to all different

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

advice and just take everything, that's why especially

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

people who are in positions,

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26

they have to be

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

extra careful.

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

But Masha'Allah,

00:37:30 --> 00:37:30

now

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

for those who are reading this carefully,

00:37:33 --> 00:37:36

there seems to be an exception made here,

00:37:36 --> 00:37:37

an exclusion.

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

And it seems to say

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

that

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

however

00:37:41 --> 00:37:44

God has endeared faith to you and adorned

00:37:44 --> 00:37:45

it in your hearts.

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

This is not a real exclusion from the

00:37:47 --> 00:37:50

previous part that it's saying that even if

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

you do this, but Allah has made

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

even if you do these weird things, but

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

Allah has made the,

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

the faith strong in your hearts and adorned

00:37:59 --> 00:38:00

in your hearts. No. This is talking about

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

a difference. So this is actually talking about

00:38:01 --> 00:38:02

2 different groups.

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

For those who understand Arabic

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

and grammar, this is

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09

in a sense. Right?

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

So this is has no connection to the

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

previous part. It's a new idea that no,

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

there are good people

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

who Allah has adorned in their heart, good

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20

iman and Islam and so on. So they

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

don't make these kind of mistakes.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

May Allah make us of these kind of

00:38:23 --> 00:38:24

people.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

I'm going to tell you the story

00:38:27 --> 00:38:28

for the next set of verses.

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

The Prophet

00:38:31 --> 00:38:32

was once

00:38:32 --> 00:38:33

riding a

00:38:34 --> 00:38:35

donkey,

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

Himar.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

And they were in one place, and suddenly

00:38:40 --> 00:38:42

the donkey started to urinate,

00:38:43 --> 00:38:44

release some water.

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

You know what that means?

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

Started to release some water.

00:38:48 --> 00:38:50

Have you ever seen a donkey release water?

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

No?

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

Okay.

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

So

00:38:57 --> 00:39:00

There was a hypocrite whose name was Ubay.

00:39:04 --> 00:39:06

Abdullah ibn Ubay bin Salul.

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

He was a massive hibbut. He was actually

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

the reason why he had so much anger

00:39:10 --> 00:39:11

in him is because he was going to

00:39:11 --> 00:39:14

become the one of the leaders of Madinah

00:39:14 --> 00:39:16

wannawwala. But after the prophet came,

00:39:17 --> 00:39:19

he lost his value. So he was very

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

angry, but he used to show himself to

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

be a believer because

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

it was just better and more profitable to

00:39:25 --> 00:39:28

be that. But he used to undermine things

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

and cause problems.

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

So when this event happened,

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

he put up his nose,

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

put his hand on his nose and made

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

it out like

00:39:38 --> 00:39:39

this is being foul.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:43

So Abdullah ibn Rawaha

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

who's a great Sahabi and he's also a

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

poet,

00:39:48 --> 00:39:49

he got

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

angry and he said that, wallahi,

00:39:53 --> 00:39:54

the urine

00:39:57 --> 00:39:57

of

00:39:59 --> 00:40:02

the donkey of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

is much more excellent and beautiful

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

in terms of its odor than even your

00:40:07 --> 00:40:07

musk.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

Right? It's much better than your mask. Why

00:40:11 --> 00:40:12

are you putting up your nose for and

00:40:12 --> 00:40:14

why are you covering your nose for?

00:40:15 --> 00:40:15

So

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

in those days,

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

they were tribal.

00:40:18 --> 00:40:19

So,

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

these 2 people, they were from different tribes.

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

So each person's tribe came to their defense,

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

and they started having a bit of a

00:40:26 --> 00:40:27

bout.

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

They started fighting with one another.

00:40:31 --> 00:40:31

So

00:40:32 --> 00:40:33

in order to

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

how to resolve that conflict,

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

the next set of verses are telling us

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

that when 2 groups of Muslimin,

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

2 groups of believers,

00:40:42 --> 00:40:42

2 factions,

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

Right? When they have an issue, what should

00:40:45 --> 00:40:45

you do?

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

Rather than taking sides, what should you really

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

do? Right? So that's the next set of

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verses.

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Allah

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says,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:41:27 --> 00:41:27

Taqollah

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

Khul Tahamun.

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Yet if ever 2 groups of the believers

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fight one another,

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then set things aright between them.

00:41:41 --> 00:41:41

So

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

in a committee,

00:41:44 --> 00:41:45

in an organization,

00:41:46 --> 00:41:47

in a neighborhood,

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50

2 groups of people, 2 families, they begin

00:41:50 --> 00:41:52

to fight 1. They're both believers. You need

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

to try to reconcile between them rather than

00:41:54 --> 00:41:55

make it worse.

00:41:56 --> 00:41:56

Right?

00:41:57 --> 00:41:59

But if one of them remains unreconciled

00:41:59 --> 00:42:02

and commits injustice against the other, one of

00:42:02 --> 00:42:03

them is the transgressor,

00:42:04 --> 00:42:06

Then fight the one that commits injustice. Then

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

go against those guys.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:11

Don't support them then. Because remember in those

00:42:11 --> 00:42:12

days the tribal

00:42:13 --> 00:42:14

way of doing things was you had to

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

support your tribe

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

and your family, even if they were wrong.

00:42:19 --> 00:42:21

Even if they were wrong. Unsur

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Famous statement in those days. You need to

00:42:28 --> 00:42:31

assist your brother whether he's the oppressor or

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

whether he's the oppressed.

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

So even if he was the oppressor, you

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

had to support him. You come out, you

00:42:38 --> 00:42:40

take his side, even if he's wrong.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

The Prophet changed that afterwards.

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

He still made the same statement, but he

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

took a different meaning because they got when

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

once, when the Prophet said this, they got

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

a bit surprised. Why are you saying that?

00:42:51 --> 00:42:52

He said,

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

the way you help you have to help

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

your brother, even if he's the oppressor,

00:42:57 --> 00:42:58

Even if he's the one who's doing wrong.

00:42:58 --> 00:42:59

How do you help him? Stop him.

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

That's how you help him. You don't help

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

him by

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

going along with him and fighting the other

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

guy, and helping him to wrong the other

00:43:06 --> 00:43:06

person.

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

So the Prophet really cleverly just changed it

00:43:09 --> 00:43:11

and said, you need to help your brother.

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

If he's the oppressor, you need to help

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

him to stop. And if he's the oppressed

00:43:16 --> 00:43:18

one, then of course you need to defend

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

him.

00:43:19 --> 00:43:21

So that's the discussion here.

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

That if one does commit injustice against the

00:43:25 --> 00:43:28

other, then fight against the one go against

00:43:28 --> 00:43:29

the one that do injustice

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

until the group reverts to the root of

00:43:31 --> 00:43:32

Allah.

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

And, of course, if this is the Muslim

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leader, then he can use force. He can

00:43:38 --> 00:43:38

use force.

00:43:40 --> 00:43:40

Right? Yet

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so this would be related to us according

00:43:44 --> 00:43:45

to our status. If we don't have any

00:43:45 --> 00:43:48

force of imposition and so on, we're not

00:43:48 --> 00:43:48

the police,

00:43:49 --> 00:43:51

then we just do our best through words

00:43:51 --> 00:43:52

and convincing

00:43:52 --> 00:43:53

and persuasion

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and so on.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:56

Yet, if

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it so reverts,

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then again set things aright between them. Meaning,

00:44:01 --> 00:44:03

if they mess up again and they start

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

conflicting again, then set it right again.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10

Between them with equity and be just, because

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

indeed Allah loves those who are just.

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

Indeed all the believers are brethren. All the

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

believers are brothers and sisters. Thus

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set aright relations between your brothers

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

and fear Allah, so that you may have

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you may be shown mercy. Historically,

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historically,

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the Muslims,

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when they were the major rulers of the

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

world and in different places, and even today

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35

in the different countries we have, one of

00:44:35 --> 00:44:37

the biggest problems that is being caused

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

is no unity.

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And the reason for a disunity

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is that

00:44:43 --> 00:44:43

each

00:44:44 --> 00:44:44

group

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or country

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has been made to hate their neighbor. There's

00:44:49 --> 00:44:51

so many countries like that. Muslim countries.

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

They don't see eye to eye. The borders

00:44:53 --> 00:44:54

are closed.

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And they're both Muslim countries. You can't go

00:44:57 --> 00:44:58

from one country to the next.

00:44:59 --> 00:45:02

Who's right, who's wrong? Just silly things sometimes.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:05

And that is the only way you can

00:45:05 --> 00:45:07

weak. That's the best way to weaken somebody.

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

If you want to weaken somebody, divide them.

00:45:10 --> 00:45:11

That's exactly what's happening.

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

Now the next set of verses, they are

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the middle set of verses.

00:45:17 --> 00:45:18

They have some really

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interesting guidance

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

on some really interesting

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23

adab.

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

So let me read the verses, and you'll

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understand from here the laws that we're talking

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about.

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Next verse, verse number 11.

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I'll take these verse by verse because each

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one of these, they mention a very specific,

00:46:06 --> 00:46:08

very important guidance. This one is, O You

00:46:08 --> 00:46:09

Who Believe,

00:46:09 --> 00:46:11

men shall not scoff at other men.

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Scoff means you

00:46:14 --> 00:46:17

speak in a demeaning tone about others.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:20

You speak in a sarcastic way about others.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:22

Do you do that to your brother?

00:46:22 --> 00:46:24

You don't do that, right? Okay good. Do

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

you do that? Does he do that? Are

00:46:26 --> 00:46:28

you 2 brothers? Yes. Yeah?

00:46:29 --> 00:46:31

Are you older than him? By how many

00:46:31 --> 00:46:31

years?

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

Are you 2 years older than him or

00:46:35 --> 00:46:35

just 1?

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Oh, he's older. You look so big.

00:46:39 --> 00:46:40

Masha'Allah.

00:46:41 --> 00:46:41

So

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men shall not scoff at other men,

00:46:44 --> 00:46:46

for those whom they scoff at

00:46:47 --> 00:46:49

may actually be better than them.

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

By Allah, they may be better than you,

00:46:52 --> 00:46:53

and you're

00:46:53 --> 00:46:55

demeaning them, and humiliating them, and saying bad

00:46:55 --> 00:46:58

things to them. Nor shall women scoff at

00:46:58 --> 00:46:58

other women,

00:47:00 --> 00:47:02

for those whom they scoff at may be

00:47:02 --> 00:47:03

better than them.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:07

It's, it's just wrong to scoff at other

00:47:07 --> 00:47:07

people.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

Right? Okay. A little bit of a joke,

00:47:10 --> 00:47:11

maybe understandable,

00:47:11 --> 00:47:13

but to demean somebody and look down upon

00:47:13 --> 00:47:15

somebody, that's a major issue.

00:47:16 --> 00:47:17

Just because I'm from a certain tribe or

00:47:17 --> 00:47:19

a certain country or a certain area or

00:47:19 --> 00:47:20

a certain ethnicity

00:47:21 --> 00:47:22

does not make me superior because I didn't

00:47:22 --> 00:47:23

even choose to be

00:47:24 --> 00:47:26

from that ethnicity. It's not something I designed.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

Allah just placed me there. Yes, if you

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

have good qualities

00:47:31 --> 00:47:34

in your background, in your ethnicity,

00:47:35 --> 00:47:35

then

00:47:36 --> 00:47:36

thank

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Allah. But that's not a way, because they'll

00:47:39 --> 00:47:41

have also some good points.

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

We all have good and bad points. We

00:47:43 --> 00:47:45

all have a set of qualities,

00:47:45 --> 00:47:47

and a set of challenges and weaknesses.

00:47:47 --> 00:47:49

Every one of us, right?

00:47:49 --> 00:47:51

So don't do that.

00:47:51 --> 00:47:52

And then Allah says:

00:47:54 --> 00:47:57

nor shall you slander each other,

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

make up stuff about one another,

00:48:01 --> 00:48:04

Nor shall you revile each other.

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

Revile means

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

you say bad things about one another, insult

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

one another like that.

00:48:10 --> 00:48:13

Nor shall you revile each other by way

00:48:13 --> 00:48:15

of abhorrent nicknames.

00:48:16 --> 00:48:19

Meaning evil nicknames, bad nicknames you make for

00:48:19 --> 00:48:19

one another.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

When you're young, you do that usually. Right?

00:48:23 --> 00:48:25

And some people do when they're old. Now

00:48:25 --> 00:48:26

you know what the worst part of a

00:48:26 --> 00:48:28

nickname is? Why I never make nicknames for

00:48:28 --> 00:48:30

anybody. I feel very bad, even if I

00:48:30 --> 00:48:31

make a joke about somebody that it doesn't

00:48:31 --> 00:48:32

become a nickname.

00:48:33 --> 00:48:35

Let's just say that I made a nickname

00:48:35 --> 00:48:36

about you.

00:48:36 --> 00:48:39

Right? In all innocence or whatever, you don't

00:48:39 --> 00:48:40

like it.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:42

And

00:48:42 --> 00:48:45

people picked it up. Is there any stopping

00:48:45 --> 00:48:45

them?

00:48:46 --> 00:48:48

Once 5 people picked that up, they tell

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

other people it does not stop. It's very

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

difficult. Like if you make a name up

00:48:52 --> 00:48:53

about somebody and somebody heard it and he

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

told somebody else.

00:48:55 --> 00:48:57

Now even if you try to stop it,

00:48:57 --> 00:48:59

it's very difficult to stop.

00:49:01 --> 00:49:03

But every time somebody's gonna use that nickname,

00:49:04 --> 00:49:06

and the person who you made it about

00:49:06 --> 00:49:09

is upset by that, you're getting sinful.

00:49:10 --> 00:49:12

It's like this investment gone wrong.

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

Right? It's just this investment gone wrong. That's

00:49:15 --> 00:49:18

why I'm very careful about what I say

00:49:18 --> 00:49:18

about somebody.

00:49:19 --> 00:49:19

Because

00:49:21 --> 00:49:22

Oh, you know.

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

And I SubhanAllah,

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

sometimes it could become ghiba.

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

Once in my class,

00:49:29 --> 00:49:30

when we were studying

00:49:31 --> 00:49:32

Sahil Bukhari

00:49:32 --> 00:49:34

or one of the books,

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

and our sheikh was sitting there.

00:49:36 --> 00:49:36

My

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

neighbor, the person who sat next to me,

00:49:40 --> 00:49:41

was I was the tallest in the class

00:49:41 --> 00:49:43

and he was the shortest in the class.

00:49:44 --> 00:49:46

And, mashallah, we had a healthy competition in

00:49:46 --> 00:49:48

terms of studies.

00:49:48 --> 00:49:51

A beautiful brother, may Allah bless him. So

00:49:51 --> 00:49:52

one day he wasn't there.

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

So the sheikh said,

00:49:54 --> 00:49:55

who's missing? I said,

00:49:56 --> 00:49:58

so and so. I mentioned his name. I

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

said, who's that? I said, you know, the

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

short guy. I went like this.

00:50:02 --> 00:50:04

So the sheikh didn't say anything. Then when

00:50:04 --> 00:50:07

my, when my colleague came in and he

00:50:07 --> 00:50:10

sat down, then the sheikh said, seek forgiveness

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

from him because you

00:50:11 --> 00:50:14

backbited him. It's like, how did I backbite

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

him? By saying that because he may not

00:50:16 --> 00:50:19

like that. Right? I went like this by

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

meaning he's short. Right?

00:50:21 --> 00:50:22

So

00:50:22 --> 00:50:24

something similar happened between the prophet

00:50:25 --> 00:50:25

and Aisha

00:50:28 --> 00:50:30

She said something about somebody and the Prophet

00:50:30 --> 00:50:30

told her.

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

So one needs to be very, very careful

00:50:33 --> 00:50:34

because these are Qur'anic injunctions.

00:50:35 --> 00:50:37

They're to keep our society. Because if you

00:50:37 --> 00:50:37

notice,

00:50:38 --> 00:50:40

this is about maintaining society,

00:50:41 --> 00:50:41

maintaining communities,

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

maintaining families, maintaining

00:50:45 --> 00:50:47

a cohesion between them. These are things that

00:50:47 --> 00:50:49

just mess everything up. Between families, this is

00:50:49 --> 00:50:50

what happens and between friends.

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

So then Allah says,

00:50:53 --> 00:50:55

do not revile each other by way of

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

abhorrent nicknames.

00:50:57 --> 00:51:01

Woeful is the ungodly name after attaining faith.

00:51:02 --> 00:51:04

Thus whoever does not repent from this

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

So after you've brought faith, how can you

00:51:07 --> 00:51:09

be doing all of these bad acts that

00:51:09 --> 00:51:12

we've been saying you shouldn't do? So Allah

00:51:12 --> 00:51:15

is discouraging them that you're a believer now.

00:51:15 --> 00:51:16

How can you do this?

00:51:17 --> 00:51:19

This is not something that a believer should

00:51:19 --> 00:51:19

do.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

Thus, whoever does not repent from this,

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

then it is these who are wrongdoers

00:51:26 --> 00:51:27

and godless

00:51:27 --> 00:51:28

in heart.

00:51:29 --> 00:51:33

Allah's always remember, in every time Allah condemns

00:51:33 --> 00:51:33

somebody,

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37

right, He always gives a way out. He

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

always gives away. I said, Except those who

00:51:39 --> 00:51:41

make tawba, except those who seek forgiveness,

00:51:42 --> 00:51:44

except those who make amends, always. Because Allah

00:51:44 --> 00:51:46

doesn't want to condemn anybody forever.

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

He always gives a way out, always.

00:51:50 --> 00:51:52

So He says, except those

00:51:55 --> 00:51:56

who make Tawba are fine, but women who

00:51:56 --> 00:51:57

make Tawba, whoever

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

does not repent, then they're going to be

00:51:59 --> 00:51:59

the oppressors.

00:52:02 --> 00:52:03

Now the next part,

00:52:31 --> 00:52:32

Okay. This is probably one of the most

00:52:32 --> 00:52:35

pertinent verses here. O you who believe,

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

avoid much suspicion.

00:52:40 --> 00:52:41

Avoid suspicion.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:47

For indeed, certain kinds of suspicion are sinful.

00:52:48 --> 00:52:49

That's the first point here.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

Suspicion. What is suspicion?

00:52:54 --> 00:52:57

Let's just say that you came out of

00:52:57 --> 00:52:58

the Masjid,

00:52:59 --> 00:53:01

and there's somebody who you usually you say

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

salaam to, you know the brother, etc.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

He came out at the same time, put

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

his shoes on. There were a lot of

00:53:07 --> 00:53:08

other people, and he put his shoes on

00:53:08 --> 00:53:09

and he went.

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

And he did not make salaam to you.

00:53:15 --> 00:53:17

He did not acknowledge you.

00:53:18 --> 00:53:20

He did not acknowledge you. So,

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

you now start thinking, he's got a problem

00:53:24 --> 00:53:25

with me.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:29

Why would if you think somebody's got, a

00:53:30 --> 00:53:31

you know, because he did not say salaam

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

to you, and he did not look at

00:53:33 --> 00:53:34

you and smile at you,

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

you think, Why didn't he do that?

00:53:38 --> 00:53:40

Right? Because he's got a problem with me.

00:53:40 --> 00:53:42

Okay. Then you're gonna think, Why has he

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

got a problem with me?

00:53:44 --> 00:53:46

Why has he got a problem with you?

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

Then you're gonna think back over

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

the last few days, a week, Oh, you

00:53:51 --> 00:53:53

know what? It's probably that day I said

00:53:53 --> 00:53:56

this, or he said this, or he's doing

00:53:56 --> 00:53:56

this.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

And you'll just create this whole story.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:02

Big story, mashallah, that you can write about.

00:54:03 --> 00:54:03

Right?

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

And

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

you then tell somebody else.

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

So that person then goes and tells him.

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

What is he talking about? Nothing like that.

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

Oh, but you did not make salaam to

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

him that day. Which day? You know last

00:54:19 --> 00:54:21

Friday. Oh, you know last Friday I had

00:54:21 --> 00:54:22

a

00:54:22 --> 00:54:23

I was so busy

00:54:24 --> 00:54:25

that I prayed my I just about made

00:54:25 --> 00:54:27

it for Jumu'ah, and I had to run

00:54:27 --> 00:54:28

somewhere for a meeting.

00:54:28 --> 00:54:31

And I just wasn't even thinking correctly.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

That's it. There was no bad feeling. He

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

just was busy that day.

00:54:37 --> 00:54:39

He just was busy that day.

00:54:40 --> 00:54:41

Now as an imam,

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

I've had this

00:54:42 --> 00:54:45

experience where one day somebody came to me

00:54:45 --> 00:54:46

and said, brother Mustafa,

00:54:46 --> 00:54:47

right,

00:54:47 --> 00:54:49

thinks that you don't like him.

00:54:51 --> 00:54:53

I said, I don't have any person anything

00:54:53 --> 00:54:55

personal. Mustafa is a nice guy. He was

00:54:55 --> 00:54:56

actually my neighbor. Right?

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

I'm just making a name up, right?

00:55:00 --> 00:55:02

He was my neighbor. I've got no issues.

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

Nothing, no issue. So I started and said,

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

what's the issue?

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

I don't I have not had any issues

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

in it. I don't speak to him on

00:55:10 --> 00:55:12

that kind of such formal sorry,

00:55:12 --> 00:55:15

personal level that they could even go anything

00:55:15 --> 00:55:16

wrong, you know.

00:55:18 --> 00:55:20

I said, why? He said, okay, I'll find

00:55:20 --> 00:55:20

out.

00:55:21 --> 00:55:22

So he said, oh, because sometimes you come

00:55:22 --> 00:55:23

outside the Masjid,

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

and

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

you

00:55:26 --> 00:55:27

don't speak to him.

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

So you know, as an imam, when you

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

come out of the Masjid, everybody wants to

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

meet you.

00:55:34 --> 00:55:34

Right?

00:55:35 --> 00:55:36

You know as soon as you come out

00:55:36 --> 00:55:38

the if you've been an imam, you'll know.

00:55:38 --> 00:55:39

You come out of the Masjid, and everybody

00:55:39 --> 00:55:41

wants to meet you. So what happens is

00:55:41 --> 00:55:43

that you're saying, Assalamu Alaikum Assalamu Alaikum Assalamu

00:55:43 --> 00:55:45

Alaikum Assalamu Alaikum. Right? You can't talk to

00:55:45 --> 00:55:46

everybody for 2 minutes

00:55:47 --> 00:55:49

because then everybody will be waiting.

00:55:49 --> 00:55:51

You know, like, if I meet you and

00:55:51 --> 00:55:52

then I start talking to you, brother, how

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

are you? And everything, then everybody's waiting. So

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

I'm a very fast guy. Usually, I try

00:55:56 --> 00:55:57

to just get things done. So I was

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

like, someone like you, brother, how are you?

00:55:59 --> 00:56:00

You know?

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

So it was one of those things.

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

So you make this whole story up. But

00:56:06 --> 00:56:07

then that taught me a lesson that, look,

00:56:07 --> 00:56:08

I need to,

00:56:09 --> 00:56:09

be,

00:56:10 --> 00:56:13

maybe show a bit more attention because if

00:56:13 --> 00:56:13

I missed

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

I'm not gonna be able to

00:56:18 --> 00:56:19

go and explain to everybody.

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

So I better be careful. So that so

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

I try to be be a bit more,

00:56:25 --> 00:56:27

but still, you know, I try to be

00:56:27 --> 00:56:28

a bit more careful,

00:56:28 --> 00:56:29

in in doing that.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:33

And, masha'Allah, there's some people you meet them

00:56:33 --> 00:56:35

outside the Masjid. Masjid. They're retired people.

00:56:35 --> 00:56:37

So they'll hold your hands for 5 minutes

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

and talk to you.

00:56:40 --> 00:56:42

So there's one brother in in my previous

00:56:42 --> 00:56:43

locality,

00:56:44 --> 00:56:47

mashaAllah. He comes to 5 daily prayers, mashaAllah.

00:56:48 --> 00:56:48

And outside,

00:56:49 --> 00:56:51

salaamu alaykum. And then he'll hold your hand

00:56:51 --> 00:56:52

and talk to you.

00:56:53 --> 00:56:54

And I need to get away because I've

00:56:54 --> 00:56:56

got something else to do. So then I

00:56:56 --> 00:56:57

started avoiding him.

00:56:58 --> 00:56:59

So I would see him there, and I

00:56:59 --> 00:57:01

would say salaam to him from afar.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:05

Salaam Alaikum, salaam, carry on. Right? Then one

00:57:05 --> 00:57:06

day,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:08

I said, look, how how long am I

00:57:08 --> 00:57:09

gonna avoid this for? Because we have to

00:57:09 --> 00:57:10

educate.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

So I went, I said I mentioned his

00:57:12 --> 00:57:14

name. I said, you know what?

00:57:16 --> 00:57:18

Masha'Allah, you have a lot of time. You

00:57:18 --> 00:57:20

know? Masha'Allah, you have a lot of time.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:22

But others don't have that much time. And

00:57:22 --> 00:57:25

sometimes, masha'Allah, we make salaam with you and

00:57:25 --> 00:57:27

shake your hands and it takes, you know,

00:57:27 --> 00:57:28

3 minutes.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

So I think he understood. Right? That, you

00:57:31 --> 00:57:32

know, we we have so I think then

00:57:32 --> 00:57:35

he became Some people don't. I think it's

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

good. There's one person, I've noticed that. When

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

you make salaam with him,

00:57:39 --> 00:57:42

he kind of very holds very tightly and

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

then he

00:57:43 --> 00:57:45

slides his hand out.

00:57:46 --> 00:57:46

Right?

00:57:46 --> 00:57:49

And he thinks that's cool. But I'm guaranteed

00:57:49 --> 00:57:50

there's gonna be some people who don't like

00:57:50 --> 00:57:51

that.

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

But what is he doing? You know, he's

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

he's completely honest. You know, he's completely innocent,

00:57:55 --> 00:57:56

but,

00:57:56 --> 00:57:59

just getting different cultures maybe, you know, or

00:57:59 --> 00:58:00

something like that.

00:58:02 --> 00:58:04

It's just how do you tell somebody these

00:58:04 --> 00:58:07

things? So the Quran is giving us these

00:58:07 --> 00:58:07

different guidances.

00:58:08 --> 00:58:10

So this one, especially I mean, we don't

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

have too much time. Otherwise, we'd really open

00:58:12 --> 00:58:14

this up much more. But one of the

00:58:14 --> 00:58:17

biggest issues that causes problems between husband and

00:58:17 --> 00:58:17

wife

00:58:18 --> 00:58:21

and families is just bad thoughts.

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

Just this suspicion.

00:58:24 --> 00:58:27

Suspicion. Oh, she did not text me today

00:58:27 --> 00:58:28

while I'm at work

00:58:28 --> 00:58:32

there's something going on maybe he's got somebody

00:58:32 --> 00:58:32

else

00:58:32 --> 00:58:34

maybe she's got somebody else

00:58:36 --> 00:58:38

Allahu Akbar. And it leads to paranoia.

00:58:38 --> 00:58:39

I've had women,

00:58:41 --> 00:58:42

I mean it could be men as well,

00:58:42 --> 00:58:44

but you know, I've had women who will

00:58:44 --> 00:58:46

wake up in the middle of the night

00:58:46 --> 00:58:49

to go and check their husband's phone to

00:58:49 --> 00:58:49

see.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:51

They're literally mining for misery.

00:58:52 --> 00:58:54

Let me find something to be miserable miserable

00:58:54 --> 00:58:55

about. And some some men are a bit

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

weird. They do do these weird flirting things,

00:58:57 --> 00:58:59

thinking they've got boundaries.

00:58:59 --> 00:59:01

So that's very wrong for them to do

00:59:01 --> 00:59:03

that. That's why we're told that you need

00:59:03 --> 00:59:04

to avoid

00:59:08 --> 00:59:10

Avoid places of suspicion.

00:59:11 --> 00:59:12

Avoid being in a place where

00:59:13 --> 00:59:15

you could be under suspicion,

00:59:15 --> 00:59:18

Because it's not right to create that purpose.

00:59:18 --> 00:59:19

Or they should just understand. No. I mean

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21

you have a responsibility

00:59:21 --> 00:59:22

as well.

00:59:22 --> 00:59:25

Right? Once the Prophet after at night time,

00:59:25 --> 00:59:27

after Isha sometime, he was walking with one

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

of his wives, Safiyyah Bintuhayyah

00:59:31 --> 00:59:33

Now it's all dark and she's covered up

00:59:33 --> 00:59:35

and everything. So there's 2 Sahaba on the

00:59:35 --> 00:59:36

other side,

00:59:36 --> 00:59:39

and, they suddenly see him. So they started

00:59:39 --> 00:59:40

walking fast.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:41

Right?

00:59:42 --> 00:59:44

As a you know, let's ignore what's going

00:59:44 --> 00:59:46

on. I mean Allah knows best exactly what

00:59:46 --> 00:59:49

the but the Prophet immediately said, Alar Risikuma,

00:59:49 --> 00:59:49

wait.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:51

Hold up.

00:59:52 --> 00:59:54

This is Safiyyah bintu Hayay.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:57

Just so they said, La holla, you know,

00:59:57 --> 01:00:00

they said we had no bad ideas. He

01:00:00 --> 01:00:02

Said that's fine, but shaytan

01:00:03 --> 01:00:06

courses through the human being like your blood

01:00:06 --> 01:00:08

does. He's going to create.

01:00:08 --> 01:00:09

Shaitan

01:00:09 --> 01:00:10

will cause

01:00:10 --> 01:00:11

you suspicion.

01:00:12 --> 01:00:13

Who is he with?

01:00:14 --> 01:00:15

Is he with another woman?

01:00:15 --> 01:00:17

That kind of an idea.

01:00:17 --> 01:00:20

So our job is that we don't be

01:00:20 --> 01:00:20

suspicious.

01:00:22 --> 01:00:24

Right? Because most things don't even

01:00:25 --> 01:00:25

concern

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

us. And the people who are involved in

01:00:28 --> 01:00:30

things, they should just avoid and be careful.

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

And try not to do things that are

01:00:32 --> 01:00:33

suspicious.

01:00:33 --> 01:00:35

Do you think do you do things that

01:00:35 --> 01:00:35

are suspicious?

01:00:36 --> 01:00:38

Okay, that's that point. Now,

01:00:39 --> 01:00:41

then the Prophet then Allah Subhana Wa Ta'la

01:00:41 --> 01:00:42

says,

01:00:46 --> 01:00:49

Next part. And do not backbite one another.

01:00:49 --> 01:00:51

Don't do hiva, don't backbite one another.

01:00:52 --> 01:00:55

Now to make it to show how bad

01:00:55 --> 01:00:55

backbiting

01:00:56 --> 01:00:56

is, Allah

01:00:57 --> 01:00:59

gives a very graphic example. He says would

01:00:59 --> 01:01:02

you Now think of this, what's your name?

01:01:02 --> 01:01:06

Abdul Rahim. Abdul Rahim. Would any of you

01:01:06 --> 01:01:10

like to eat his dead brother's flesh?

01:01:11 --> 01:01:13

Exactly. That sounds

01:01:13 --> 01:01:15

I mean would you like to eat your

01:01:15 --> 01:01:16

living brother's flesh?

01:01:17 --> 01:01:19

No, right? Dead brother's flesh is even worse.

01:01:20 --> 01:01:22

Can you see how gross that sounds, right?

01:01:23 --> 01:01:25

You would most surely abhor it. Meaning, you

01:01:25 --> 01:01:26

would hate to do that.

01:01:28 --> 01:01:31

But that's exactly what riba is.

01:01:32 --> 01:01:33

That is exactly what backbiting is. It's like

01:01:33 --> 01:01:36

eating their flesh, because you're consuming. You're saying

01:01:36 --> 01:01:37

something bad about it. It's like you're consuming

01:01:37 --> 01:01:38

them.

01:01:38 --> 01:01:40

There's a hadith that Imam Ahmad has transmitted

01:01:40 --> 01:01:41

in his musnad,

01:01:42 --> 01:01:45

where 2 women kept a fast and they

01:01:45 --> 01:01:47

started feeling very very hungry.

01:01:47 --> 01:01:49

Like so hungry that it's like I need

01:01:49 --> 01:01:51

to eat right now. So they sent a

01:01:51 --> 01:01:52

message to the prophet can we break our

01:01:52 --> 01:01:55

fast? Prophet probably understood, so he sent them

01:01:55 --> 01:01:56

a bowl.

01:01:56 --> 01:01:58

And he said, vomit in here.

01:01:59 --> 01:02:01

What did they vomit? Not what they had

01:02:01 --> 01:02:04

for suhoor. They vomited fresh blood and fresh

01:02:04 --> 01:02:05

meat.

01:02:06 --> 01:02:07

So then the prophet

01:02:08 --> 01:02:08

said,

01:02:09 --> 01:02:09

you

01:02:10 --> 01:02:10

guys were backbiting.

01:02:12 --> 01:02:13

You were backbiting.

01:02:14 --> 01:02:14

Now,

01:02:15 --> 01:02:16

you might say,

01:02:16 --> 01:02:18

if I backbite somebody, is the flesh gonna

01:02:18 --> 01:02:20

come in my stomach? I'll try it.

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

Backbite somebody and then vomit up and see

01:02:23 --> 01:02:23

what happens.

01:02:27 --> 01:02:29

That was just probably special in

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

that was probably a miraculous occurrence at that

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

time just to prove the point That don't

01:02:34 --> 01:02:37

so backbiting and what is backbiting? To say

01:02:37 --> 01:02:38

anything about your brother that they would dislike.

01:02:40 --> 01:02:44

Anything. Even making a face or doing anything

01:02:44 --> 01:02:46

with your body that they would dislike, like

01:02:46 --> 01:02:47

making

01:02:48 --> 01:02:50

that is even if it's true.

01:02:51 --> 01:02:53

Even if it's true, it's still backbiting. Yes.

01:02:53 --> 01:02:55

The only time you're allowed to backbite, the

01:02:55 --> 01:02:56

halal backbiting,

01:02:57 --> 01:02:57

is

01:02:58 --> 01:03:00

the guy's conning people.

01:03:00 --> 01:03:02

He's cheating people. So you need to tell

01:03:02 --> 01:03:05

people, look, this is it. Or, for example,

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

somebody comes and asks you for a marriage

01:03:08 --> 01:03:10

proposal for somebody and you know that there's

01:03:10 --> 01:03:13

going to be no compatibility. So you're allowed

01:03:13 --> 01:03:15

to just divulge and do just enough ghibat,

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

you know enough backbiting,

01:03:17 --> 01:03:19

right, if you want to call it that.

01:03:20 --> 01:03:20

That would

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

just give them the right information. You can't

01:03:23 --> 01:03:25

now tell them the whole history, because that's

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

not relevant.

01:03:26 --> 01:03:28

You have to be very very careful about

01:03:28 --> 01:03:30

this because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala speaks about

01:03:30 --> 01:03:31

this in the Quran.

01:03:32 --> 01:03:35

And then just to finish this off, says,

01:03:35 --> 01:03:38

you would most surely abhor that, so fear

01:03:38 --> 01:03:40

Allah indeed God is all relenting and mercy

01:03:40 --> 01:03:41

giving.

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

That's always I said always Allah

01:03:46 --> 01:03:47

speaks about the wab. Allah

01:03:48 --> 01:03:51

speaks a way out. Indeed, Allah is all

01:03:51 --> 01:03:53

relenting and mercy giving. So if you've made

01:03:53 --> 01:03:55

a mistake before, ask forgiveness.

01:03:55 --> 01:03:58

Because Allah is forgiving and mercy giving.

01:03:59 --> 01:03:59

And

01:04:02 --> 01:04:04

I think we'll just do the last verse

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

to finish this off.

01:04:29 --> 01:04:30

O humankind,

01:04:31 --> 01:04:33

indeed We have created all of you. Now

01:04:33 --> 01:04:35

this is like a collective verse to bring

01:04:35 --> 01:04:35

it all together

01:04:36 --> 01:04:37

and say why you should be careful with

01:04:37 --> 01:04:39

one another, why you should treat people with

01:04:39 --> 01:04:42

respect, one another with respect, is because, O

01:04:42 --> 01:04:42

humankind,

01:04:43 --> 01:04:45

indeed We have created all of you from

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

a single male and female,

01:04:47 --> 01:04:47

Adam

01:04:48 --> 01:04:49

and Hawa

01:04:50 --> 01:04:50

Moreover,

01:04:51 --> 01:04:53

We have made you then, yes, now you

01:04:53 --> 01:04:53

are different.

01:04:54 --> 01:04:55

We have made you into

01:04:56 --> 01:04:57

peoples and tribes,

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

so that you may come to know one

01:05:00 --> 01:05:00

another.

01:05:01 --> 01:05:02

And indeed,

01:05:02 --> 01:05:04

the noblest of you in the sight of

01:05:04 --> 01:05:06

Allah is the most God fearing of you.

01:05:06 --> 01:05:09

Indeed, Allah is All Knowing and All Aware.

01:05:11 --> 01:05:14

Now, Allah tells us the wisdom behind creating

01:05:14 --> 01:05:17

people different to one another, even though we're

01:05:17 --> 01:05:18

all from 1, Adam

01:05:19 --> 01:05:19

and Hawa

01:05:20 --> 01:05:21

Because

01:05:21 --> 01:05:23

throughout the world people have different cultures,

01:05:24 --> 01:05:26

different things they eat. Some people can eat

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

chili and some people can't eat chili. Now

01:05:28 --> 01:05:29

if

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

I, being a typical Indian,

01:05:31 --> 01:05:35

create, you know, have food that's chilli, and

01:05:35 --> 01:05:38

then I invite some Syrians over, or

01:05:38 --> 01:05:41

people who don't eat chilli, right, without considering

01:05:41 --> 01:05:43

that, the food's going to go to waste.

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

They're going to be crying,

01:05:46 --> 01:05:47

right? They'll take a few bites and then

01:05:47 --> 01:05:48

they're going to be crying. They're going to

01:05:48 --> 01:05:49

be sweating.

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

So if I know that you come from

01:05:52 --> 01:05:54

a certain culture, I can try to cater

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

for that. I can try to cater for

01:05:56 --> 01:05:57

your norms. I can try to cater for

01:05:57 --> 01:05:58

your sensibilities

01:05:58 --> 01:06:00

and your culture. It makes a difference. Once

01:06:00 --> 01:06:01

in Madinah Munawwara,

01:06:02 --> 01:06:03

there was a local grocery store. I went

01:06:03 --> 01:06:05

to buy something and I tried to look

01:06:05 --> 01:06:07

at people and try to understand where they're

01:06:07 --> 01:06:09

from. It's just some personal thing that I

01:06:09 --> 01:06:12

like to do. So I couldn't place this

01:06:12 --> 01:06:13

individual. I couldn't place him. So I said,

01:06:13 --> 01:06:15

where are you from? He tried to avoid

01:06:15 --> 01:06:17

the questions, because he probably gets this question.

01:06:17 --> 01:06:19

In Madinah, there's 100 and thousands of people

01:06:19 --> 01:06:21

all the time. So he says, I'm just

01:06:21 --> 01:06:22

from the land and I'm from the earth

01:06:22 --> 01:06:24

and I'm a Muslim. And I said, no,

01:06:24 --> 01:06:25

I don't know which country you're from.

01:06:26 --> 01:06:27

And then finally,

01:06:27 --> 01:06:30

I persisted and he said, he's from Mauritania.

01:06:30 --> 01:06:32

Now I'd just been to Mauritania before that.

01:06:32 --> 01:06:34

So as soon as he said that, I

01:06:34 --> 01:06:36

suddenly started the Mauritanian greetings.

01:06:36 --> 01:06:38

They do like a 5 minute greeting when

01:06:38 --> 01:06:39

you meet somebody.

01:06:43 --> 01:06:45

They just like repeat these words over and

01:06:45 --> 01:06:46

over again, right?

01:06:47 --> 01:06:48

And as soon as I did that, he

01:06:48 --> 01:06:51

just his face just lit up, beamed.

01:06:51 --> 01:06:53

And he's like, oh you've been to Mauritania?

01:06:53 --> 01:06:55

And that's it. He's like take it for

01:06:55 --> 01:06:56

free, You know,

01:06:57 --> 01:06:57

take

01:06:57 --> 01:07:00

your purchase for free. People are Mashallah. They're

01:07:00 --> 01:07:01

just amazing.

01:07:01 --> 01:07:03

Right? The other day I told somebody that,

01:07:03 --> 01:07:05

in the Masjid, he's one of the guys

01:07:05 --> 01:07:07

who was listening. I said, You're from Afghanistan?

01:07:07 --> 01:07:08

I've been to Afghanistan a few months ago.

01:07:09 --> 01:07:09

And,

01:07:10 --> 01:07:12

Masha'Allah, he got so excited. Right? He got

01:07:12 --> 01:07:15

so excited. People get very excited, alhamdulillah, because

01:07:15 --> 01:07:17

that's how you connect with one another.

01:07:17 --> 01:07:18

And now,

01:07:18 --> 01:07:19

for those who

01:07:20 --> 01:07:20

just

01:07:21 --> 01:07:23

the final points about the tribe, right, which

01:07:23 --> 01:07:24

is very very,

01:07:25 --> 01:07:26

very interesting.

01:07:29 --> 01:07:30

So Allah says

01:07:30 --> 01:07:33

that We created you from Adam and from

01:07:33 --> 01:07:36

from, one single set of parents, right? But

01:07:36 --> 01:07:37

then We made you into separate tribes.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:39

Now I just want to show how tribes

01:07:39 --> 01:07:41

are very important. They were for the Arabs,

01:07:41 --> 01:07:43

but many other cultures are losing it. They

01:07:43 --> 01:07:45

don't even have a tribal surname anymore.

01:07:46 --> 01:07:48

They just take their father's first name as

01:07:48 --> 01:07:49

their surname, which is a bit strange to

01:07:49 --> 01:07:50

be honest.

01:07:50 --> 01:07:53

A surname is your family name. It's what

01:07:53 --> 01:07:55

you are known as. That okay you are

01:07:55 --> 01:07:55

all

01:07:56 --> 01:07:56

the Khans.

01:07:57 --> 01:08:00

Right? You're a khan right? Yep. So you're

01:08:00 --> 01:08:01

all the Khans.

01:08:01 --> 01:08:02

You are all,

01:08:03 --> 01:08:06

what's your surname? You have no tribal names

01:08:06 --> 01:08:08

at all? No. We have a tribal name.

01:08:09 --> 01:08:10

Oh, you do? Yeah. What is that?

01:08:11 --> 01:08:13

Oh, that's the coolest hax. Yeah. Oh, that

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one. Okay.

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Alright. What about you? Zabari. Zabari. Zabari. Mashallah.

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The Zabaris.

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Right? And Kim, what's your surname?

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Ephraimson.

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Ephraimson.

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There you go. Mashallah. My name is Mangeira.

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Right? It's a surname. So you understand, oh,

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I know some Mangeras, you know, like I

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know them. I understand who they are because

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tribes have certain

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qualities or challenges or weaknesses or issues. So

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you know all that kind of stuff. Now,

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I just want to share this with you

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because I think it's really so that you

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understand this a bit more. Allah says

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What's the difference between shur'ub and kaba'il?

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Right? So shur'ub is the plural of shaab.

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Today shaab just refers to like community or

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people.

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But really what

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shaab refers to

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is that is the highest tribal that's the

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that's kind of you can say the mother

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tribe.

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Right? The mother tribe is the shaab.

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Then it so that that's,

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you know the Ansar,

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they were the Aus and the Khazraj.

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They were actually from one tribe, from Banu

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Qayla.

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Right? But if you look at the Prophet

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tribe,

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right? So

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the main head person

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and the overall arching name,

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that is what you call the shaab.

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The Kaaba'il then is the second level. The

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Kabila

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is the subcategory of the shaab. It's a

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subcategory,

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the second category.

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Now it doesn't stop there.

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After that, you have

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or

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So if that divides further, they become

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Okay. That one you don't hear used so

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much. Okay.

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Then after that, you have batun,

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batun, min Quresh.

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Baton, the stomach.

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So then you get a further 4th level

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sub tribe called the Batun. Right? They're the

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Batun. Right? Then after that you get the

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Afhar or the Faqiv.

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Which means the the

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what do you call that?

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The thighs.

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That's it's kind of almost like making it

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into a human being like style that it

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becomes further subdivided

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into the fakhiv.

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That part of the tribe.

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And then fasal, fasila.

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That's a subcategory

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of the fakhiv.

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So

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if you know

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the family tree of the Prophet

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then to take that as an example, the

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highest level there Khuzayma is the sha'r.

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Kinana is the kabeelah.

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Quresh is the imara.

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Khusay is the button.

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Hashim is the Fakhid, and Abbas,

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if you use Abbasidiyun the uncle of the

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Prophet

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he becomes the Fassila.

01:11:01 --> 01:11:02

And the purpose of this is so you

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can get to recognize one another and your

01:11:05 --> 01:11:07

understanding and your cultures and we can be

01:11:07 --> 01:11:08

sensitive to that.

01:11:09 --> 01:11:10

That's one of the benefits of that. So

01:11:10 --> 01:11:11

Allah

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is telling us that ultimately you're all from

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1, but yeah, you do see differences in

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color, style,

01:11:18 --> 01:11:21

languages, and so on. That that's just the

01:11:21 --> 01:11:23

worldly aspect of it because of where you

01:11:23 --> 01:11:25

come from, where you live, what you eat,

01:11:25 --> 01:11:27

and so on. But ultimately, you're still from

01:11:27 --> 01:11:29

the same mother and father. So don't be

01:11:29 --> 01:11:30

racist.

01:11:30 --> 01:11:32

Don't look down upon one another. If you've

01:11:32 --> 01:11:34

got a good quality in your tribe, Alhamdulillah,

01:11:34 --> 01:11:36

thank Allah for it, but don't use it

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to look down upon somebody else because they're

01:11:38 --> 01:11:40

probably going to have some really good points

01:11:40 --> 01:11:41

in their tribe as well.

01:11:42 --> 01:11:44

So with that we're going to stop here

01:11:44 --> 01:11:46

because our time is up. There are about

01:11:46 --> 01:11:48

4 or 5 verses left on a slightly

01:11:48 --> 01:11:51

different subject But Alhamdulillah, we've covered 2 of

01:11:51 --> 01:11:53

the main categories of subjects of this verse,

01:11:54 --> 01:11:55

of this Surah. May Allah

01:11:56 --> 01:11:57

accept, and may Allah

01:11:58 --> 01:12:00

bless us all with the Quran and illuminate

01:12:00 --> 01:12:02

us with the Quran. Let's take any questions

01:12:02 --> 01:12:03

that you the point of a lecture

01:12:04 --> 01:12:06

is to encourage people to act, to get

01:12:06 --> 01:12:07

further,

01:12:07 --> 01:12:08

an inspiration,

01:12:09 --> 01:12:09

an encouragement,

01:12:10 --> 01:12:11

persuasion.

01:12:11 --> 01:12:13

The next step is to actually start learning

01:12:14 --> 01:12:14

seriously.

01:12:14 --> 01:12:17

To read books, to take on a subject

01:12:17 --> 01:12:19

of Islam, and to understand all the subjects

01:12:19 --> 01:12:21

of Islam at least at their basic level.

01:12:21 --> 01:12:23

So that we can become more aware of

01:12:23 --> 01:12:24

what our deen wants from us.

01:12:25 --> 01:12:28

And that's why we started Rayyan courses. So

01:12:28 --> 01:12:30

that, you can actually take organized

01:12:30 --> 01:12:31

lectures

01:12:31 --> 01:12:34

on demand whenever you have free time. Especially

01:12:34 --> 01:12:36

for example, the Islamic essentials,

01:12:37 --> 01:12:38

course that we have on there. The Islamic

01:12:38 --> 01:12:42

essential certificate which you take 20 short modules.

01:12:43 --> 01:12:44

And at the end of that Insha'Allah, you

01:12:44 --> 01:12:45

will

01:12:45 --> 01:12:47

have gotten the the basics of,

01:12:48 --> 01:12:50

most of the most important topics in Islam.

01:12:50 --> 01:12:52

And you'll feel a lot more confident. You

01:12:52 --> 01:12:53

don't have to leave lectures behind. You can

01:12:53 --> 01:12:55

continue to leave, you know, to listen to

01:12:55 --> 01:12:57

lectures. But you need to have this more

01:12:57 --> 01:12:58

sustained study as

01:12:58 --> 01:12:59

well.

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