Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Stop Competing at Weddings
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The speaker advises against doing something that will make people forget about their wedding and look outdated. Instead, they suggest doing something that will make people remember their wedding and cater to their needs. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being flexible and not just catering to everyone's needs.
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Wedding season is coming.
Just don't do something because it's going to
look good and it's going to look as
as good as somebody else because somebody else
did that.
That's not what we're doing it for.
If you're doing something because you want to
match up to somebody else, there's no satisfaction
in that.
It's just a competition.
And why the competition?
You're not going to win a prize afterwards
and any praise you're going to get is
going to be short-lived.
Nobody's going to remember your wedding for the
rest of their life.
You know, nobody's going to remember your wedding
for the rest of their life unless you
do something really weird.
Then people will remember it.
But you don't want to be remembered for
things like this.
So just because somebody else did a wedding
of this nature and they had this type
of thing and they had this type of
food or whatever, doesn't mean you have to
do it.
If that's something you liked and you felt
people would enjoy that and you've got the
ability to cater for that, then go ahead
and do it.
That's different.
Don't do things just because somebody else.