Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Sha’rani’s Etiquette of the People of Allah General Conduct Teachers and Others

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of respect for teachers and students is discussed, as it is crucial for everyone to respect their learning experiences. The crisis of faith in Islam is discussed, with the speakers emphasizing the need for everyone to be mindful of their actions and not be
the person they have been following. The importance of respect for faith and respect for people who have the right to use the Internet is also emphasized. The importance of avoiding false accusations and avoiding double-standing is also emphasized, as it is crucial for everyone to show their true values and avoid double-standing. The speakers also touch on the importance of reading books and taking a sustained mindset.

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			I find it sometimes very
uncomfortable. Sometimes I'm
		
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			giving a lecture and is
		
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			somebody who's taught me you know,
one of my teachers who taught me
		
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			in mclubbe in the local mock them
and they'll be sitting there and I
		
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			find it very uncomfortable even
though you know, sometimes they
		
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			just the half is of the Quran.
		
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			But for me, that's very important
that you respect them.
		
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			In fact, I think you should feel
the same respect even for your
		
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			school teachers.
		
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			You know, to some level that
they've taught you something
		
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			useful.
		
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			Similar Hawkman and Rahim.
		
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			hamdulillah have been around Amin,
WA salatu salam or others say you
		
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			didn't move saline or either the
WASAPI or Baraka was seldom at the
		
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			Sleeman Kathira on Isla Yomi Dean
amerit.
		
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			Inshallah to continue with
		
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			the advice is from Allah, SHA
Ronnie about the other of the
		
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			people of Allah subhana wa Tada.
He continues and he says women
		
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			either be him that Aleem Oda or
ADAMA, Muhammad Tao de manera
		
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			anima will homiletical Quran
Kareem Maha button fear Rasulullah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa salam in the
home Hamlet to Sharia and Mata
		
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			hora. So in in this one he is
saying that among the etiquette
		
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			and the other than the conduct is
that they are
		
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			reviewing of the aroma they
respect and honor or Dhamma What
		
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			am I means people who have the
knowledge of the deen and who
		
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			practice that knowledge of the
deen and who are encouraging
		
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			others to
		
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			practice and who teach others so
they have great respect for their
		
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			own ummah. And they have great
respect for anybody that carries
		
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			the Quran that carries the Quran
here refers to the whole fourth,
		
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			those who have memorized the Quran
who are memorizing the Quran.
		
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			It's not just referring to
somebody who's carrying the Quran
		
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			meaning as a book, but this is
just the way that they carry the
		
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			Quran in their hearts spoken about
people who have memorized the
		
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			Quran. So the aroma and those who
have memorized the Quran, they do
		
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			this out of love for Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi salam
		
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			because the love for us what Allah
Salah lorrison means that you love
		
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			everything related to him, and
because are the inheritors of the
		
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			prophets. So they are inheritor of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wasallam
		
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			Leanna home hemella. To Sherry It
Mota Hara, they are the ones who
		
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			are bearing the responsibility of
the pure faith of the pure sacred
		
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			law. That's why you must respect
them. If you don't respect people
		
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			who have the sacred law, that
we're not respecting the sacred
		
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			law.
		
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			For our Islam to be successful for
any person's Islam to be
		
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			successful, then we need to
obviously, respect everything
		
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			related to it. Because Islam is
not some kind of separate entity
		
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			that has a life of its own.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala is a separate
entity, Allah subhanaw taala is
		
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			independent. But the Sharia that
He's given us, is only as good for
		
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			us as we make it.
		
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			It has all the beauty in it. But
if we don't revere the Sharia, if
		
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			we don't revere our sacred law, we
don't respect it. We don't hold it
		
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			in high esteem. We don't defend
it, we don't understand it. The
		
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			biggest problem with the Sharia
law today for most of us is that
		
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			we don't understand it.
		
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			We have more knowledge about other
things than we have about our own
		
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			Deen.
		
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			And then after that, we are
challenged about our faith, and we
		
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			can't respond. Because we're
confused ourselves. This is the
		
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			case with many, many Muslims
around the world.
		
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			They haven't studied the dean, the
dean is just the fact that they
		
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			are born into the face. So they
carried with them based on how
		
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			much they've learned from their
fathers, their mothers, and maybe
		
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			from some teacher when they were
young, at a time when they weren't
		
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			mature, and they couldn't really
pick up and maybe the teacher
		
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			didn't do a good job maybe. So
that's the extent of a lot of
		
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			people's faith. So when they
challenge the upside in this
		
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			challenging world of this time,
then they become extremely on
		
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			edge. They don't know how to
respond. And this is what creates
		
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			a crisis in faith for many people.
This is basically the crisis of
		
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			faith for most people today.
		
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			People who are confused about
their faith, they don't have the
		
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			conviction, they are keen. The
conviction and Yaqeen is lost
		
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			because they never had it in the
first place.
		
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			New Muslims do better than many
born Muslims. Because they've
		
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			they've this is something that
they've been seeking and they
		
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			found and it's won them over.
		
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			It's given them something to adopt
that they didn't have before it's
		
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			provided it's completed for them
something in their mind and
		
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			hearts. That's why they've taken
it on. The rest of us have been
		
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			extremely fortunate that we didn't
have to do this seeking. But then
		
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			we've stopped short and haven't
really understood what Allah
		
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			really wants from us.
Unfortunately, most people's Islam
		
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			is based on their culture. It's a
cultural form of expression of
		
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			their faith. That's what it is for
most people, not to say that
		
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			culture has no place in Islam.
		
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			But just cultural Islam with no
Islam with no proper Islam and not
		
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			understanding its real essence.
That is a problem. But if somebody
		
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			understands Islam very well, and
they continue to assimilate
		
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			aspects of their culture that have
no contradiction with their faith,
		
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			and that's understandable. What
you have today is two extremes.
		
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			You have certain people who think
that all culture has to be just
		
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			dismissed, whether it's neutral
aspects of our culture, humans
		
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			have culture, from based on where
they come from, the British would
		
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			have a culture, the Indians will
have a culture that Pakistanis
		
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			would have a culture that
Egyptians will have a culture and
		
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			the Senegalese people will have
their culture. But Islam is
		
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			something that can be enacted in
all of these different places. You
		
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			can't say that you can have an
Islam that's devoid of any kind of
		
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			culture, because they will be some
culture, they will have to be some
		
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			culture, they will be an
environment in which that Islam is
		
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			practice. And there is an
allowance for that culture. And
		
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			yet, there's other people who are
fully cultural Muslims. So much so
		
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			that if they were shown a hadith
that kind of that contradicts some
		
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			aspect of their, their cultural
Islam, they will be very, very
		
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			much surprised. And they may even
initially disregard that
		
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			narration, thinking that this is
impossible. I've been taught by my
		
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			forefathers and my culture, this
Islam and this Islam, that you're
		
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			showing me, this other Islam that
you're showing me seems to be
		
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			foreign. So this is the crisis of
faith today, for the most people,
		
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			for the majority of people. Now,
what happens is a lot of these
		
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			people who haven't understood
their faith properly, and
		
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			sometimes there are edge, they are
in a sensitive time of their life,
		
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			maybe they are in a crisis, maybe
of some sort, whatever the case
		
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			may be something may have gone
wrong in their faith, and they are
		
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			a bit
		
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			they are seeking seeking
something. Now in this particular
		
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			void as such, you have these
people who will come with an
		
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			extreme sense of faith, saying
that most of the people that you
		
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			know of your faith are lazy
people, they're not willing to
		
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			stand up for the rights of the
believers. Remember, for a lot of
		
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			people, this is vulnerable time
when they feel the aggression
		
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			towards them, the aggression
towards the Muslims in general. So
		
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			there's an opening in their
hearts, they want to do something.
		
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			So now you have this extremist
elements that come and take
		
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			advantage of the situation. So
they show them that the faith that
		
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			you have been following until now
the bit of faith that you've been
		
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			following this culture of faith is
not real Islam, the real Islam is
		
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			taking up arms, for example,
		
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			is going and doing something for
the believers that matters that
		
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			will make a difference that will
make a big bang, making a
		
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			difference means making a big
bang, and make you huge cry. This
		
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			is how a lot of these people who
are in this form of crisis can be
		
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			taken advantage of. Whereas people
who are strong in their faith
		
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			they've studied the faith from the
Quran, and Sunnah directly and
		
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			through good scholars, then very,
there's a great, there is a very
		
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			small likelihood that they will
ever go to an extreme because
		
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			they, the faith in its original
form gives a great amount of
		
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			strength and conviction. And that
conviction is difficult to shake.
		
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			It's when you don't have that
strength, then it becomes
		
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			difficult to shake. So here just
part of maintaining our faith is
		
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			to respect and revere their
orlimar because they're the ones
		
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			who are doing the job of trying to
maintain the faith and explain the
		
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			faith preserving the faith. That's
where he said, This is the adab of
		
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			the people of Allah subhanho wa
Taala that they will do this. In
		
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			fact, even people who may not be
Allah ma, but they are just half
		
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			is of the Quran, because they
actually priests helping to
		
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			preserve the Quran. See, in our
communities, we have many, many,
		
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			many who fuzz of the Quran. So
when somebody new becomes a
		
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			harvest, it's not a big deal for
many of us. We think it's just
		
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			another one. But this is not the
the normal state of people around
		
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			the world. If you look at the
majority of Muslim communities
		
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			around the world, they don't have
as many profiles of the Quran as
		
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			we do. And for them, if there's
one half is in the family or in
		
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			the community, it's such a big
deal that it's such a major
		
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			achievement. It's a massive
achievement, and that this is just
		
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			the nature of human beings and
when they see too much of
		
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			something then they don't respect
it as much. It's just the nature
		
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			of human beings. But we need to go
above that communal nature that
		
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			people have. We need to do things
for the sake of Allah which means
		
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			to respect what he wants us to
respect
		
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			Regardless even if there's
hundreds of them around us, so we
		
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			must respect our father in our
demo. The next point that he
		
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			brings up is warming Adobe him.
		
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			Again this is just levels of adab
is saying
		
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			also among the etiquette is Elia
Marina rocky Bina Adam analemma
		
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			home che Emanuel Quran Illaoi
		
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			whoa sorrow me Masha if philosophy
what I am shooting Imam wala and
		
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			Sunnah who Minal Hadiya to Shoukry
with dua What are in Sona who will
		
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			Hadiya? They were Shoukry with
Dora Iowa it is original nomoto
		
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			loca or Imran at a matter and what
are we alone Allah who will leave
		
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			at an ISIL or was Ilana what also
it will be her Liana who abou
		
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			roar. Now, this is probably very
specific to the days in which this
		
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			was written. But to give it a
modern understanding and saying
		
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			that, I'll give you the literal
meaning first, it says that the
		
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			adab of the people of Allah is
that they do not
		
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			pass by
		
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			mounted, if they're on a horse or
a camel or something, they will
		
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			not pass by somebody who is not
mounted, who's ever taught them
		
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			even a bit of the Quran. So any
teacher of theirs that they have
		
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			benefited from, even in the
smallest amount, they will not go
		
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			past them writing, they will get
off and walk past them just out of
		
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			respect that they're not higher
than that person. Now, none of
		
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			this is funneled, it's not haram
to ride while you know your
		
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			teacher is seated. But this is
just out of respect for the person
		
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			from whom you gain your knowledge,
the knowledge that you gained is
		
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			actually from a pseudo loss of
Allah yourself through his
		
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			teaching from the sahaba. But this
final connection, the tap that
		
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			gave you the water was this, this
teacher of yours, so they wouldn't
		
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			do this. So now in a modern sense,
I mean, we generally don't have
		
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			that kind of thing. Above and
walking people walking in people,
		
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			you know, it's generally a matter
of convenience cars, and things
		
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			are accessible to one on already.
So it's just about not being in a
		
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			superior state, trying not to put
yourself in a higher state than
		
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			somebody that you studied with.
		
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			I find it sometimes very
uncomfortable, sometimes I'm
		
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			giving a lecture, and is
		
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			somebody who's taught me, you
know, one of my teachers who
		
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			taught me in mclubbe, in the local
mock them, and they'll be sitting
		
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			there. And I find it very
uncomfortable, even though, you
		
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			know, sometimes they just the half
is of the Quran.
		
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			But for me, that's very important
that you respect them.
		
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			In fact, I think you should feel
the same respect even for your
		
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			school teachers,
		
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			you know, to some level that
they've taught you something
		
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			useful.
		
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			They've taught you something
useful. That's why he says that
		
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			this is how a person should be
that, even if the person who is
		
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			speaking about has become one of
the greatest scholars of the time
		
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			now. But he should still, he
should still be humbled in front
		
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			of his teachers, even if they have
a lower status. Now, they are
		
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			where they are, but he's grown up
and he is become extremely
		
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			knowledgeable and alarma, and so
on. They shouldn't walk in front
		
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			of him.
		
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			He shouldn't walk in front, they
should walk behind them. He should
		
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			never forgive him in terms of
giving him an idea. Or thanking
		
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			him and praying for him making the
offer.
		
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			So you should always thank them
for that because you're benefiting
		
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			from the seed that they planted.
Although you've gone beyond now,
		
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			you studied Sahil Buhari, he's
only taught you though, the how to
		
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			read as an old cover it, for
example, Noorani Kaido, you know,
		
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			whatever it is,
		
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			and now you studied Buhari
somewhere else, doesn't matter,
		
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			the seed that was planted for
your, for all the studies later on
		
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			came from this individual.
		
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			He then goes on and says, you
know, Allah, Mashallah. And he
		
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			goes really to the extreme in many
of these things, he says, And he
		
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			shouldn't even marry a woman that
he divorced. I mean, this, these
		
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			kinds of things generally don't
happen in our communities. But
		
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			this is speaking about the
community when divorcees would
		
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			never have a problem in marrying
again. Now in nowadays, a poor
		
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			divorce, he is lucky if she ever
marries, again, because of the
		
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			stigma that's attached to our in
our communities. So he so this
		
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			probably doesn't apply to us. But
it gives us an understanding of
		
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			what he says that if the if that
Sheikh died and he left a widow,
		
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			you shouldn't be marrying that
widow,
		
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			which tells us that that was a
possibility in those days, but not
		
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			anymore.
		
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			Likewise, if they had a position
somewhere and they had to leave
		
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			that position, for some reason,
you should not take their position
		
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			out of respect. If it's a position
that they did not abandon
		
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			themselves, but rather they were
like, evicted from it or they were
		
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			given a notice or something of
that.
		
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			nature
		
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			because this is where you're
getting your spirit from. That's
		
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			why That's what he said. Now,
again, it would depend on a lot of
		
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			these situations, if, for example,
you were in that situation where
		
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			they had to leave that position
for some reason or for started
		
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			that position, if you didn't take
that position, then somebody not
		
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			very worthy would come there, then
you know, to save that position.
		
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			So all of these are general
guidances. Just to show respect,
		
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			the underlying point here is to
show respect. So for example,
		
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			there's a xenophobia through the
hola Juan, you heard of Zaytoven.
		
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			With habit, he was one of the
older he was older than Ignacio
		
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			the Allahu Anhu. But he was
considered to be one of the great
		
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			orlimar of the time.
		
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			He is considered to be one of the
great aroma of the time, he was a
		
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			category where he very close to
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wasallam. Anyway, he approaches
one day on a mule. He approaches
		
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			one day on a mule. So I'm
delighted our bus was now later on
		
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			consider one of the greatest
orlimar among the Sahaba as well.
		
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			He
		
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			suddenly stands up, takes hold of
the reins of this mule, until he
		
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			helped Zaytoven The Hobbit or
until the advent of Italy, Alana
		
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			came off the moon. So say the
Allahu Anhu says that, why are you
		
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			doing this?
		
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			He's younger than Abdullah Abbas
is younger than him anyway. But
		
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			Zaidan with habitat is saying to
him, why are you doing this?
		
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			You're doing this and you're a
cousin of the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam. Now he's showing
respect for the family of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, even
though that family member is
		
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			younger than him. So even our
Basilian says, haka.
		
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			omiana, enough. alveolar miner,
this is how we've been commanded
		
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			and instructed to act with our Ma,
that we respect them like this.
		
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			So then they don't have it to the
Allahu Anhu said, Tim, come, come,
		
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			come closer. So he brought him
closer. And
		
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			zero, the alarm kissed Abdullah
and I busted the alarm said, so
		
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			I'm delighted are busted. Why did
you do that? Why did you do that?
		
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			You know, what's the reason for
that? Out of respect, they
		
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			generally can't give them a kiss
on the forehead, or on the hand.
		
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			This is the way of respect like,
like Abu Bakr, the other one came
		
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			and kissed the forehead of
Rasulullah sallallahu after he
		
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			passed away.
		
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			So they didn't do that. We said,
Why did you do that? So he said,
		
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			This is what we have been told.
Sorry, Abdullah Abbas asked, Why
		
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			did you do that? Why did you kiss
me? He said, It's because this is
		
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			what we have been commanded to do
with the family members of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu with the
household of the prophets of
		
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			Allah, Allah yourself.
		
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			So you see, the respect is both
ways each person is finding an
		
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			excuse for or has a reason for
respect of the other person. This
		
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			is the beautiful oho and
brotherhood in Islam.
		
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			That's why there was a shake was a
Shamsul shamsudeen a de rooty. He
		
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			was one of this, he was actually
one of the teachers of the author.
		
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			He was an extreme ascetic, and
		
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			known for his great devotion and
his worship. But he had a lot of
		
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			awe and respect. People would be
really overawed by him all the
		
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			time.
		
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			The author mentions the author
mentions about this teacher of his
		
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			that when he would give his
lessons in Azhar in the in the
		
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			University of Missouri at the
time.
		
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			His gatherings would be filled
with people that would just be
		
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			constantly weeping and crying.
That was his effect on the people
		
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			at the time.
		
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			Anyway, so it's mentioned about
the Shake Shack shamsudeen de
		
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			rooty.
		
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			Once he passed by a jurist, a
scholar of the Sharia, and he
		
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			quickly got off his animal. And he
started them
		
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			driving the animal in front in
front of him, and then he kissed
		
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			the hand of this jurist, and then
until he hadn't passed by a
		
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			distance from this jurist, from
this jurist, he didn't get back on
		
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			the animal.
		
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			Even though he was such a great
scholar himself, he would respect
		
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			other scholars like this.
		
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			He had actually written a
commentary of one of the great
		
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			Shafi books, Ullman Hodge. And the
jurists that he was just going
		
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			past showing all of this respect
to was just the normal jurists
		
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			that were teaching the markups of
the time in the local madrasahs of
		
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			the time, whereas this man was a
specialist, but he still had this
		
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			respect for others. But then as
the author says, we're cut for
		
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			condominium
		
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			Under the Arctic, if you had as a
man, there's very few people who
		
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			would show respect to that level.
So again, this is just an example
		
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			that he's showing here.
		
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			Okay, this is a another aspect,
which is probably more related to
		
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			people who are advancing in their
Sharia studies or in their worship
		
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			and so on. He says lightly soon a
little mushy. Whoa, what are we
		
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			still mad at him? She wrote to her
iLab ethanolamine Allah Allah Amin
		
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			Bobby Hill, oh them sallallahu
alayhi salam and shake Omen
		
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			shaking out if in Nasik for
inophyllum Evany al Baraka was
		
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			salam I mean, alpha t mostakbal is
the man while Murad Bill Ethany
		
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			Minh Allah, Allah al her Masai,
another of the etiquette is that
		
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			they will not sit to become a
sheikh.
		
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			So somebody goes and studies for a
few years, somebody goes and stays
		
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			in the company of a great Sheikh,
for some time studies with a few
		
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			scholars here and there one year,
two years, or in their summer
		
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			holidays, right from the
university and they come back and
		
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			they become a chef. It's happens
often, many people like that read
		
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			their bios just says they've
studied with some of the greatest
		
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			scholars of the world. Right, they
probably studied in their summer
		
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			holidays, or maybe taken a year
off, you know, a gap year from
		
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			university to go and study with
this and they come back. And
		
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			because around them, there's not
many people who are very learned,
		
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			they become the learner people
don't because because they learn
		
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			to speak in Arabic a bit, maybe
they can quote a few books,
		
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			they've studied a few books,
they've you know, they've covered
		
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			a bit of ground, and they sit to
former Shiva, which means they sit
		
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			in this official capacity in a
sense. So in a formal capacity as
		
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			a as a shape. He's saying that a
person should not sit like that, a
		
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			person should not take up that
position. Even if he has all even
		
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			if he meets all the conditions,
even if he meets all the general
		
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			conditions that he has special
authorizations in Quran and Hadith
		
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			and in Tafseer, and in Akita and
so on and so forth, he should
		
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			still not do so.
		
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			Now he's talking about somebody
who's gone and studied well, and
		
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			then the person goes and takes up
a position like that. We're
		
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			talking about our situation when
people haven't even studied well
		
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			enough.
		
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			Haven't even studied well enough.
And they do this. So he's saying
		
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			that somebody who studied well
like that now should they take up
		
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			that position, he says, No, unless
they have permission from Allah,
		
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			how you're going to get permission
from Allah, where you get a
		
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			special, you feel a special
inspiration that I must take this
		
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			job. And you find it difficult not
to say it's a divine kind of
		
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			intuition.
		
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			inspiration that you get from
Allah subhanaw taala, not from the
		
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			shaytaan. Or you see Rasulullah
sallallahu Mihnea dream, and he
		
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			tells you to do something like
this, or one of the great sheiks
		
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			who are in tune with Allah
subhanaw taala, they instruct you
		
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			that you must do this, because the
people here are in need. And you
		
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			must do this. And even though you
feel incapable,
		
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			you do not feel capable at all.
You do not feel yourself capable
		
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			to do this. And the person who's
accomplished will never feel
		
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			capable, because they will all
feel always feel small in front of
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. That's why
you need this instruction from
		
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			someone else.
		
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			Because if you do do it, after
this kind of instruction is
		
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			received from any of the sources,
then in that you will get baraka
		
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			and blessing in your work. And you
will be safe from efforts you will
		
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			be safe from calamities.
Otherwise, a person gets into this
		
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			position, and he gets intoxicated
by the respect and everything that
		
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			people will give him. Now, for
many of you, this is one of the
		
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			signs that you must look for in
people who consider themselves
		
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			scholars.
		
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			You know, how much have they
studied? And who have they been
		
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			authorized by otherwise today in
this world of the online world,
		
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			it's everybody can say something.
		
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			Everybody can say what they want.
		
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			And everybody for everybody,
there's going to be somebody that
		
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			they resonate with, and they're
going to follow them and they're
		
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			going to have a following.
		
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			In fact, the crazier you are the
bigger following you will probably
		
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			get on YouTube. That's the way of
YouTube
		
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			the crazy you are the crazier
things that you do.
		
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			The more outlandish things that
you say.
		
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			Then you attract that kind of a
crowd who's just looking for an
		
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			excuse. Allah preserve us, Allah
protect us. So He says that this
		
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			is the way where you will get
Baraka in your work and you will
		
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			stay away from calamities for the
future. And this is this is very
		
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			important. Allah help us Wamena W
him. Another of the etiquette is
		
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			lions who don't have a dunya Illa
Lakonia mucholder they lie to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			You know, this whole we before
this, we had this course about
		
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			the
		
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			The Record course which means the
softening of the hearts course, in
		
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			which talks about the dunya, and
its nature and so on and so forth.
		
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			So now if a person wants to cut
himself away from the dunya, What
		
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			should his intention be?
		
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			Like, if you just get tired of the
world, what why is your tiredness
		
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			of the world, a worthy
		
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			practice?
		
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			That's what he's saying. They do
not
		
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			abstain from the dunya.
		
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			Except for one reason, because it
is not liked by Allah.
		
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			Dunya Mahood do dunya is not
something that is beloved to Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala what it means by
Beloved, you still have to be
		
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			here. But it's not something that
Allah loves us to be after. So for
		
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			that reason alone, Lally in Latin
okra not for any other reason.
		
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			Bring him in raw Tibetan. I just
don't want to work anymore. I
		
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			can't bother. You know, I don't
care. I don't want the money.
		
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			Because I can't bother. I'd rather
rest and sleep. That's the wrong
		
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			reason. Because we're told not to
do that we're not told to be lazy.
		
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			Of the Fifi, hey, Serbian. I mean,
subhanAllah, what are thoughts? I,
		
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			I'm going to have less of the
world because I don't want to have
		
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			too much to answer for on the Day
of Judgment. Like I don't want all
		
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			these other businesses or
whatever, because I don't want to
		
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			have to fill in extra tax forms.
You know, because you've got a
		
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			simple income, then that's it done
and dusted. But if you've got two,
		
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			three income sources, then you
have to fill in more forms. So
		
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			it's like that on the Day of
Judgment. Now, I don't even know
		
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			who would have that kind of
thought today. But I'm assuming
		
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			there will be some people who will
think that way. That's why he says
		
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			not for that reason.
		
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			Likewise, they should not abstain
from what other people have,
		
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			except to fulfill the command of
the Allah subhanaw taala, that
		
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			they should avoid looking at what
other people have.
		
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			So they shouldn't do it. Because
if they do that, then people will
		
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			love them. So you just want to
attract the love and reverence and
		
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			respect of people. That's why you
do that. It should be purely for
		
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			the sake of Allah says, this is
all about correction of intention.
		
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			So the reason should be that I'm
doing this because this is what
		
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			Allah saw. Somebody told me, then
people will love me for that
		
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			reason, right? People will love me
for the reason. And then on the
		
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			day of judgment, they will
intercede for me. If it's for that
		
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			reason, then that's a praiseworthy
reason. That's a praiseworthy
		
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			reason. But if it's for, oh, I'll
become more respected. People will
		
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			say, Oh, look at that guy, he is
cut away from the dunya.
		
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			Now, in this world, that in this
world today, we have received, we
		
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			revere people who have made it
big.
		
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			But then there are a lot of people
who revere people who don't care
		
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			about the dunya, either. When
other people will look down upon
		
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			them, what has he done for
himself, that's what they say.
		
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			They just don't understand that
the person is so happy in his
		
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			absence, the person is so happy in
his small possession that he has.
		
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			But there will be some people who
respect that idea who've got some
		
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			faith in their heart, they will
respect that idea that the person
		
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			is not into the dunya. So you
shouldn't do it for that reason.
		
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			The next point he makes, he says
is that it is also of the
		
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			etiquette that they keep away,
they keep a distance from anybody
		
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			that they see among the other ma
who do not act on their knowledge.
		
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			So there are scholars who have
studied, but they seem not to act
		
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			on their knowledge. They do
transgressions, they say things
		
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			which are bordering the
reprehensible. They are giving
		
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			fatwas that seemed to
		
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			be permitting things that have
been well known to be haram or
		
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			wrong or frowned upon. So they
stay away from such Allah Ma, ma s
		
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			and Yvonne Nabi him. They keep a
good opinion about them within
		
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			themselves. They don't think bad
about them, but they stay away
		
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			from them.
		
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			That's why he says one of his
teachers say the ideal worker said
		
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			The other man was so adorable
either Nassim and Iblees. The evil
		
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			scholars are more harmful to
people than the Iblees.
		
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			Evil scholars are more harmful to
people than a bliss, the shaytan
		
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			himself how is that possible?
		
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			A bliss is the worst. So how does
		
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			a corrupt scholar, an Evil
Scholar?
		
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			Whatever you want to call that
scholar, Allah protect us from him
		
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			becoming that or from being misled
by one. That person that scholar
		
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			is worse than the Iblees. Then he
gives his explanation. His
		
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			reasoning he says because he
believes
		
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			If he gives a whisper he whispers
to a believer to do something
		
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			wrong, then that believer will
understand that this Iblees is my
		
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			enemy. He's a clear enemy, as
Allah says in the Quran.
		
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			And if he does end up following
that whisper, if he does end up
		
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			falling for that whisper, he will
know that he sinned.
		
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			At the end of it, most of us will
record if we if we don't recognize
		
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			that this is an evil thought from
the shutdown, and we actually go
		
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			and do the evil. After the evil is
being done, we do realize that
		
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			we've just done something wrong.
		
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			We know it's wrong. So then, the
person will try to make Dober he
		
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			will try to repent from it. So he
knows he's done wrong. And he will
		
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			try to do is too far to his Lord.
Whereas when an an Evil Scholar
		
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			will corrupt the truth in front of
you, show you the wrongest truth
		
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			that Oh, it's okay to do this.
There's nothing wrong all these
		
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			other scholars, they don't know
what they're speaking about. This
		
00:31:00 --> 00:31:03
			is the rhetoric that you hear
nowadays, from certain
		
00:31:03 --> 00:31:06
			individuals. This is what you
hear, Oh, this is completely
		
00:31:06 --> 00:31:10
			right. This is the proof of it.
This is the proof of it. And these
		
00:31:10 --> 00:31:13
			other guys they don't know they
just dry scholars, they just like
		
00:31:13 --> 00:31:16
			hermits, they have no idea what
they're doing. They're not in the
		
00:31:16 --> 00:31:20
			true world. They're not in sync
with things. This is what this is
		
00:31:20 --> 00:31:25
			the way they go about you will be
soon unhackable bottle, they
		
00:31:25 --> 00:31:29
			confuse the truth with the
		
00:31:30 --> 00:31:34
			with the falsehood where you are
Ronal Agha Allah with a lot of
		
00:31:34 --> 00:31:39
			him, we are to him. And what they
do is they twist
		
00:31:40 --> 00:31:45
			the rulings according to what they
think it should be, according to
		
00:31:45 --> 00:31:51
			their corrupt worldview, because
once you've developed a worldview
		
00:31:51 --> 00:31:54
			about something, then you will
twist everything to conform to
		
00:31:54 --> 00:31:57
			that. One is that you're mistaken
genuinely mistaken about the
		
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			ruining of something. The other
one is that we're you've developed
		
00:32:00 --> 00:32:05
			a philosophy that you want people
to follow, and then you will
		
00:32:05 --> 00:32:08
			corrupt everything for them.
Thurman, Athol our home builders,
		
00:32:09 --> 00:32:15
			anybody who follows such a, such a
scholar, such a leader, then all
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:19
			the efforts are in vain. All the
efforts are in vain. What were yes
		
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			he will under him, you know, in a
sunnah while they will be thinking
		
00:32:22 --> 00:32:25
			that they're doing good And
subhanAllah there are people like
		
00:32:25 --> 00:32:32
			this in today where they were
decent, practicing individuals
		
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			stay away staying away from many
undesirable aspects. A lot of this
		
00:32:38 --> 00:32:41
			is to do with the kind of gray
areas a lot of the corruption
		
00:32:41 --> 00:32:45
			starts with the gray areas before
it goes into haram it's very
		
00:32:45 --> 00:32:47
			difficult for somebody to take a
complete haram and make it halal.
		
00:32:48 --> 00:32:52
			Having a girlfriend is halal for
somebody to say that is extreme
		
00:32:53 --> 00:32:56
			but then they'll start off with
other things like free mixing is
		
00:32:56 --> 00:32:59
			okay as long as you keep you know
you do this or you have a pure
		
00:32:59 --> 00:33:03
			heart or whatever the case is, you
know dressing in a particular way
		
00:33:03 --> 00:33:07
			is okay for men and women as long
as they do this that or the other
		
00:33:07 --> 00:33:12
			they they will try to make things
they will try to give
		
00:33:14 --> 00:33:16
			the extreme possibility in that
regard
		
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			so this is where people will think
they're doing the right thing
		
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			that's why so many people who are
fine and started following such
		
00:33:24 --> 00:33:29
			authorities as such have have lost
themselves which their neighbor
		
00:33:29 --> 00:33:32
			whom he says so stay away from
them what could Masada you know
		
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			always be with the truthful ones
for in negative stuffy admin hula
		
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			Amel Bianca Midian becolourful
moot notify hippin for in a
		
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			calendar stuffy admin who will
that will earn what the Cobra al
		
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			Muslimeen stay with the truthful
ones because they from them, you
		
00:33:46 --> 00:33:50
			will get the true impetus for good
action. Whereas if you're with
		
00:33:50 --> 00:33:54
			those people who are just
expressing their virtue, rather
		
00:33:54 --> 00:33:57
			than having the real virtue, then
the only thing that you will get
		
00:33:57 --> 00:34:01
			from them is that they will claim
to have a lot of knowledge. They
		
00:34:01 --> 00:34:04
			will claim to have a lot of
knowledge and they will just be
		
00:34:04 --> 00:34:06
			they will just have this arrogant
		
00:34:08 --> 00:34:09
			approach to the muslimeen.
		
00:34:12 --> 00:34:15
			In regards to that, he says the
next other the next etiquette that
		
00:34:15 --> 00:34:20
			he speaks about is kufra to inky
baldy him. phenol fusi him either.
		
00:34:20 --> 00:34:24
			Oh, I'm Ron Mohali Felicia, this
is a test of somebody's faith this
		
00:34:24 --> 00:34:24
			one.
		
00:34:25 --> 00:34:29
			This is that it's from the
etiquette that they will feel an
		
00:34:29 --> 00:34:34
			extreme level of internal
tightness
		
00:34:38 --> 00:34:40
			when they see something that is
opposing Michela
		
00:34:41 --> 00:34:45
			when you become used to seeing
things that are opposing the
		
00:34:45 --> 00:34:48
			shitty and it doesn't matter to
you anymore, it doesn't provide
		
00:34:48 --> 00:34:50
			any kind of restriction.
		
00:34:51 --> 00:34:54
			It doesn't provide any kind of bad
feeling and it's like, okay, big
		
00:34:54 --> 00:34:57
			deal. You know, it's it's okay.
It's the times that we're living
		
00:34:57 --> 00:34:59
			in. It's alright
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:03
			which eventually happens when you
get exposed to it too much. It's a
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:09
			natural kind of development, that
you eventually become totally
		
00:35:09 --> 00:35:12
			desensitized to evil when you've
seen it so many times.
		
00:35:14 --> 00:35:18
			And then those things so can so
easily come into your own
		
00:35:18 --> 00:35:22
			practice, because one is that you
just have to remove the taboo of
		
00:35:22 --> 00:35:27
			it. You have to get used to it.
And then after that, it becomes
		
00:35:27 --> 00:35:29
			easy for us to assimilate that
practice.
		
00:35:31 --> 00:35:34
			That's why our doors to Allah
subhanaw taala should be that, Oh
		
00:35:34 --> 00:35:36
			Allah, show us the truth as the
truth and allow us to follow it
		
00:35:36 --> 00:35:39
			show us the wrong as the wrong and
allow us to abstain from it. And
		
00:35:39 --> 00:35:44
			to seek forgiveness for all those
sins that have come into our life.
		
00:35:44 --> 00:35:47
			And we don't we no longer even
think they're wrong any no longer
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:49
			feel that they're wrong.
		
00:35:50 --> 00:35:53
			That is probably a very, very
difficult one is you we know we're
		
00:35:53 --> 00:35:55
			doing something wrong. The other
one is we don't know that we're
		
00:35:55 --> 00:36:00
			doing what we're doing is wrong.
So anyway, he says that this is
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:04
			another of their attitudes is that
they are constantly feeling
		
00:36:04 --> 00:36:05
			extremely
		
00:36:06 --> 00:36:10
			restricted in themselves, and bad
in themselves when they see
		
00:36:10 --> 00:36:12
			something that is against the
Sharia.
		
00:36:14 --> 00:36:17
			Why because they have so much
respect for Allah, so much
		
00:36:17 --> 00:36:20
			reverence for Allah, that
something is going against Allah
		
00:36:20 --> 00:36:23
			subhanaw taala. So even though
it's happening every day, for
		
00:36:23 --> 00:36:26
			them, their respective Allah is so
much that they see this as
		
00:36:26 --> 00:36:27
			disrespect to Allah subhanaw
taala.
		
00:36:29 --> 00:36:32
			And they feel compassion for the
person who's doing it that the
		
00:36:32 --> 00:36:35
			poor guy is involved isn't
involved in this and doesn't
		
00:36:35 --> 00:36:39
			realize he does make a
clarification because maybe he was
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:42
			dealing with a lot of these
juristic thinkers. So he says
		
00:36:42 --> 00:36:47
			that, they don't say that this is
also an act of ALLAH because ALLAH
		
00:36:47 --> 00:36:51
			is behind every act. So this is
also an act of Allah. So why
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:54
			should you feel bad about an act
of Allah? You know, because
		
00:36:54 --> 00:36:57
			everything is from Allah. But
that's just taking it to the other
		
00:36:57 --> 00:37:00
			extreme, because he says, you
know, gentlemen, that's pure
		
00:37:00 --> 00:37:00
			ignorance.
		
00:37:03 --> 00:37:06
			Because the Prophet sallallahu ala
ism, he says, used to get angry,
		
00:37:06 --> 00:37:09
			when the Allah subhanaw taala has
rights are violated.
		
00:37:11 --> 00:37:15
			So yes, it is everything Allah is
giving the power behind
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:18
			everything, providing the power
and strength behind everything,
		
00:37:18 --> 00:37:21
			even the evil that goes on in the
world in a sense, but that doesn't
		
00:37:21 --> 00:37:24
			mean that you must be satisfied
with evil that goes on in the
		
00:37:24 --> 00:37:25
			world because it's wrong.
		
00:37:28 --> 00:37:32
			That's why the earlier might have
mentioned that a believer should
		
00:37:32 --> 00:37:32
			have
		
00:37:33 --> 00:37:39
			multi level perspectives, multi
level visions, different ways of
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:44
			thinking of things. One vision
should show him every issue by the
		
00:37:44 --> 00:37:47
			he should be looking at everything
that is happening in the world,
		
00:37:48 --> 00:37:52
			from the divine perspective of how
Allah subhanaw taala is behind
		
00:37:52 --> 00:37:55
			everything. What is his
recognizing that Allah has power
		
00:37:55 --> 00:37:59
			behind everything. But that
shouldn't confuse for him good and
		
00:37:59 --> 00:38:04
			evil. Evil done by the perpetrator
is still an evil. So his other AI
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:07
			needs to recognize that fact.
While is one it needs to
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:11
			understand that Allah is behind
everything. But don't confuse the
		
00:38:11 --> 00:38:12
			two things together.
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:15
			It's a very sophisticated
understanding that needs to be
		
00:38:15 --> 00:38:15
			there.
		
00:38:17 --> 00:38:19
			So he needs to understand that
Allah is behind everything. And
		
00:38:19 --> 00:38:21
			there's a wisdom behind all of
these things. But yet the
		
00:38:21 --> 00:38:24
			perpetrator, I'm going to look at
him from a different perspective,
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:26
			because he's a criminal at the end
of the day. Otherwise, the
		
00:38:26 --> 00:38:30
			murderer is never going to be
culpable. The murderer is never
		
00:38:30 --> 00:38:33
			going to be guilty. Because if you
think Allah is behind everything
		
00:38:33 --> 00:38:37
			anyway, so why should you punish
the murderer, the murderer is
		
00:38:37 --> 00:38:39
			punished for what he did with his
free will.
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:46
			The next point he brings up is hot
duel buzzer and for dueling
		
00:38:46 --> 00:38:46
			another.
		
00:38:47 --> 00:38:50
			Another of the other of the people
of Allah is that they keep their
		
00:38:50 --> 00:38:57
			gaze away from things that are
redundant to look at, that don't
		
00:38:57 --> 00:39:02
			concern them from extra from
things that are beyond their need.
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:08
			They don't try to get into
everything that is around them,
		
00:39:08 --> 00:39:10
			but they avoid all of these
things. Well, it's about Phil
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:14
			Mishima Sakina. At the same time,
the other thing that they do is
		
00:39:14 --> 00:39:19
			they try to move forward quickly
with their life and in walking,
		
00:39:19 --> 00:39:25
			etc. But with tranquility. Number
three is Allahu that will beam.
		
00:39:26 --> 00:39:30
			They're trying to constantly
reconcile between people. If some
		
00:39:30 --> 00:39:34
			issues taking place, they try to
constantly reconcile between
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:39
			people, what Turanian are up nurse
and they become blinded.
		
00:39:40 --> 00:39:45
			They make themselves unaware of
what people's defects are. So
		
00:39:45 --> 00:39:49
			they're not focused on the defects
on people. They are purposely
		
00:39:49 --> 00:39:53
			making them putting blinders on. I
don't want to know why do you tell
		
00:39:53 --> 00:39:59
			me this? Why should I know? It's
not affecting me. Why do you tell
		
00:39:59 --> 00:39:59
			me of
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:02
			He's doing this, that or the
other? How is it going to affect
		
00:40:02 --> 00:40:08
			me? Why do I need to be told. So
to me, to me means to do something
		
00:40:08 --> 00:40:11
			by force to pretend you are blind
by force.
		
00:40:13 --> 00:40:19
			To make yourself out to be having
to have blinders on, you don't
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:22
			want to know. And then if you do
find out then to conceal it,
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:24
			to rather
		
00:40:26 --> 00:40:31
			spread the virtues, unless the
person is an innovator,
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:36
			unless the person is guilty of
reprehensible innovation, then you
		
00:40:36 --> 00:40:39
			need to tell people that this
person is guilty of these things.
		
00:40:39 --> 00:40:43
			Stay away from him. You do this
out of compassion for believers
		
00:40:43 --> 00:40:44
			that they don't also fall into
that.
		
00:40:46 --> 00:40:49
			It's also actually actually out of
compassion for the person who's an
		
00:40:49 --> 00:40:52
			innovator that you tell people
about his bitter, why would it be
		
00:40:52 --> 00:40:53
			out of compassion for them.
		
00:40:55 --> 00:40:58
			And this is the reach of this
person's thought of the author's
		
00:40:58 --> 00:41:05
			thought it is to warn people of a
person's innovation is compassion
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:10
			for the innovator as well, because
when a person innovates something,
		
00:41:10 --> 00:41:13
			and he expects people to follow
him, he's getting everybody sin.
		
00:41:14 --> 00:41:17
			Because he says, Manson, as soon
as sent sooner than a year, Adam,
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:24
			whoever starts and innovates, a
new evil path, and people follow
		
00:41:24 --> 00:41:27
			him, he gets a set of all of these
people. So if you want people,
		
00:41:27 --> 00:41:29
			then there's going to be less
people that will follow him and
		
00:41:29 --> 00:41:30
			thus he'll get less sin,
		
00:41:31 --> 00:41:32
			because he will have less
followers.
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:37
			While I asked him what I had him
be Sebby, and also other people
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:42
			will not become sinful, because of
his reason. Now, it's only a
		
00:41:42 --> 00:41:45
			person who has compassion for even
the sinner that would think like
		
00:41:45 --> 00:41:50
			this. Otherwise, where would we
think, in that regard?
		
00:41:51 --> 00:41:55
			This is something that's probably
very contemporary, right, but it's
		
00:41:55 --> 00:41:59
			a very historical and traditional
thing. Anyway, another of the
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:02
			debates that Adam was sub Bill
Gulati were in djaro
		
00:42:03 --> 00:42:09
			they do not really take recourse
to swearing, cursing, saying bad
		
00:42:09 --> 00:42:13
			or giving bad names to their
leaders, even if they are
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:14
			oppressive.
		
00:42:15 --> 00:42:18
			You know, Bush is like this, and
Saddam is like this, and this
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:22
			person is like this. And Clinton
was like this and Blair is like
		
00:42:22 --> 00:42:26
			listen, and just just go around
swearing at them and Kritis and,
		
00:42:26 --> 00:42:29
			and saying bad, giving them bad
names.
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:31
			Even if they are oppressive why?
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:36
			Because he turns it around, he
says the end the whole muscle tone
		
00:42:36 --> 00:42:40
			early and homosalate tone of Olive
and other ear or masala tuna or a
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:45
			banana or A or B has to be at
Maliki money Yachty generally, you
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:50
			get such leaders over people
because of the people's own
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:51
			actions and their intentions.
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:57
			Very difficult for a lot of people
to stomach this
		
00:42:58 --> 00:43:02
			because people are so geared up
but this especially in many of our
		
00:43:02 --> 00:43:05
			Arab countries, unfortunately,
some of the some of you say at
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:11
			Morocco and Morocco, your actions
your deeds or your leaders, how
		
00:43:11 --> 00:43:15
			your deeds will be your reflect
that they will be reflected in
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:20
			your leaders what Kamata Kulu you
Allah they come the way you will
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:24
			be. That's kind of that is the
type of person that will be put
		
00:43:24 --> 00:43:25
			above you.
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:30
			Then there's the question is that
ma he'll fatty the whole module
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:33
			and Sybil wallet. What are you
going to get out of swearing at
		
00:43:33 --> 00:43:33
			Blair?
		
00:43:35 --> 00:43:38
			He's a effing this an effing NDA,
as some people might want to say,
		
00:43:39 --> 00:43:40
			what are you going to get out of
it?
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:43
			Is it polite to say if it?
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:46
			What does it mean anyway?
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:51
			It doesn't mean anything. But you
know what I'm talking about.
		
00:43:52 --> 00:43:55
			Some people get mistaken that you
know, we're supposed to do nasiha
		
00:43:56 --> 00:43:59
			even for our leaders. So they
think swearing at the leaders
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:04
			Ignacia is an advice is advice and
counsel. So he's saying that look
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:08
			at the what's the why Jim, for
people, for ilm, for example, is
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:09
			that he should give Naziha
		
00:44:11 --> 00:44:14
			when you give Nasi hand counsel to
somebody you expect some benefit
		
00:44:14 --> 00:44:17
			to come out of it because you're
saying some good words. When
		
00:44:17 --> 00:44:19
			you're swearing at somebody
cursing someone,
		
00:44:20 --> 00:44:24
			then would you get out of that
you're probably going to get a few
		
00:44:24 --> 00:44:27
			swears back or you're going to get
worse back. So what do you get out
		
00:44:27 --> 00:44:33
			of that? Likewise, he says, Well I
you che infill and shaytani when
		
00:44:33 --> 00:44:37
			FC su you were duniya wa the Kula
shadow map.
		
00:44:38 --> 00:44:43
			What do you get out of swearing at
the shaytaan? Or the knifes
		
00:44:44 --> 00:44:46
			the Iblees, the dunya, whatever?
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:50
			You don't get anything out of
that. So why would you swear at
		
00:44:50 --> 00:44:53
			somebody for no reason. So taking
a bad word to your tongue is not a
		
00:44:53 --> 00:44:58
			good idea. That's why the dua of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
		
00:44:58 --> 00:44:59
			sallam was ALLAH Humala to Selita
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:08
			Elena Bizu Bina mon liar hamona Oh
Allah do not put over us, do not
		
00:45:08 --> 00:45:11
			put over us because of our sins.
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:16
			Those that will not have
compassion for us. Those that will
		
00:45:16 --> 00:45:20
			not have mercy on us because of
our sins, He says. So he's saying
		
00:45:20 --> 00:45:24
			that we are have sins, but Oh
ALLAH still do not put people
		
00:45:24 --> 00:45:27
			above us for that reason, because
that's a punishment.
		
00:45:28 --> 00:45:29
			And this is what
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:35
			might sound very pacifist, that
there will be exceptional cases
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:41
			where this doesn't apply. Maybe.
But in general, this is the case.
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:44
			That's why even when people came
to Hassanal bacilli Rahim Allah,
		
00:45:44 --> 00:45:48
			He told him not to fight against
the hijab, because he said that
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:51
			her judge may be a punishment
against you, and how can you fight
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:55
			with the punishment of Allah with
your swords? Her judge may have
		
00:45:55 --> 00:45:59
			been sent to you as a punishment.
So why do you fight how you're
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:01
			going to fight against the
punishment of Allah with your
		
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			thoughts?
		
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			That's why for the love not yards,
set makes a statement, which is a
		
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			very, very far reaching statement.
Very insightful statement. He
		
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			says, Lo Kennedy that word to Mr.
Job. lum Ajala Illa, Phil Imam, if
		
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			I had one dua that was guaranteed
to be accepted, if I was given
		
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			that one wish, as such that was
going to be accepted, I would make
		
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			that for the imam for the leader.
Because if he becomes right,
		
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			everybody will be in peace. So if
I was to give $1, one $1, I
		
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			wouldn't use it for myself, I'd
use it for the email.
		
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			That's how important this role is.
And that's why we need to change
		
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			our actions to have a better
person above us. May Allah help
		
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			us?
		
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			I think we'll
		
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			finish here.
		
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			The point of a lecture is to
encourage people to act to get
		
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			further and inspiration and
encouragement, persuasion. The
		
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			next step is to actually start
learning seriously to read books
		
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			to take on a subject of Islam and
to understand all the subjects of
		
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			Islam at least at the basic level,
so that we can become more aware
		
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			of what our deen wants from us.
And that's why we started Rayyan
		
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			courses so that you can actually
take organize lectures on demand
		
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			whenever you have free time,
especially for example, the
		
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			Islamic essentials course that we
have on the Islamic essentials
		
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			certificate which you take 20
Short modules, and at the end of
		
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			that insha Allah you will have
gotten the basics of most of the
		
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			most important topics in Islam and
you'll feel a lot more confident.
		
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			You don't have to leave lectures
behind you can continue to live,
		
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			you know to listen to lectures,
but you need to have this more
		
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			sustained study as well as Aquila
harem salaam aleikum wa
		
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			rahmatullah wa barakato.