Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Women praying in congregation

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the issue of drama in relationships, and advises against joining a partner in a prayer when it is too loud. They also suggest praying alone to avoid causing drama and mention a problem with couples not realizing that a partner is missing when praying. The speaker suggests praying with birthdays to avoid drama and mentions a chef's advice on not being too busy at a certain time.

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			Bismillah your man you're
watching.
		
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			I'm
		
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			at university, many of the sisters
in the pair room follow the Jamara
		
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			and sometimes make their own
Jamara. Is this allowed? And if
		
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			not, how can I avoid joining them
without offending anybody? If
		
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			there's a drama going on with men
than a full drama going on, then
		
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			there's absolutely nothing wrong
with joining that, in fact, is
		
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			better to join that. I don't know
some of our people actually think
		
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			it's better to pray alone, even
when there's a drama, which is
		
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			really weird, right? You know, I
know where the prayer at home is
		
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			superior. But if there's a drama
of men, right along with women
		
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			going on, it's superior for you to
join that Jamar. In fact, even at
		
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			home if your husband is not
praying at the masjid, he's missed
		
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			his prayer at the masjid or
whatever, it's actually superior
		
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			to do Jamar. Unfortunately, many
of our people don't know this. And
		
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			it's a real big problem. Right? So
don't don't misunderstand this.
		
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			However, when it comes to a jamaa
of women only, then that's a
		
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			different issue in the Hanafi
school that's considered mcru.
		
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			That's considered undesirable. So
in that you should avoid that as
		
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			far as possible, unless it's going
to cause a fitna, right, and
		
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			you're going to see it as really
weird. Just avoid being there at
		
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			that time if that's the case, but
but it's completely fine.
		
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			According to the chef who is
right. And I believe the medic
		
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			isn't humble. He's right. At least
I know the humble is for sure.
		
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			Right. So that's, that's what it
is. But really, it's better to
		
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			pray with Gemma when there is a
full drama taking place.