Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Women praying in congregation

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the issue of drama in relationships, and advises against joining a partner in a prayer when it is too loud. They also suggest praying alone to avoid causing drama and mention a problem with couples not realizing that a partner is missing when praying. The speaker suggests praying with birthdays to avoid drama and mentions a chef's advice on not being too busy at a certain time.
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Bismillah your man you're watching.

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I'm

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at university, many of the sisters in the pair room follow the Jamara

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and sometimes make their own Jamara. Is this allowed? And if

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not, how can I avoid joining them without offending anybody? If

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there's a drama going on with men than a full drama going on, then

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there's absolutely nothing wrong with joining that, in fact, is

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better to join that. I don't know some of our people actually think

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it's better to pray alone, even when there's a drama, which is

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really weird, right? You know, I know where the prayer at home is

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superior. But if there's a drama of men, right along with women

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going on, it's superior for you to join that Jamar. In fact, even at

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home if your husband is not praying at the masjid, he's missed

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his prayer at the masjid or whatever, it's actually superior

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to do Jamar. Unfortunately, many of our people don't know this. And

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it's a real big problem. Right? So don't don't misunderstand this.

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However, when it comes to a jamaa of women only, then that's a

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different issue in the Hanafi school that's considered mcru.

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That's considered undesirable. So in that you should avoid that as

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far as possible, unless it's going to cause a fitna, right, and

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you're going to see it as really weird. Just avoid being there at

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that time if that's the case, but but it's completely fine.

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According to the chef who is right. And I believe the medic

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isn't humble. He's right. At least I know the humble is for sure.

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Right. So that's, that's what it is. But really, it's better to

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pray with Gemma when there is a full drama taking place.

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