Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Will Remembering Allah make Me Calm

			Will doing vicar increased
maternal instinct, I love my
		

			children very much, but sometimes
wonder if I should be more
		

			sympathetic and feel more when
they fall over and hurt
		

			themselves. Very good question. I
love this question. Essentially,
		

			when you do a vicar, there are
different types of vicar that
		

			you're given. And one of them for
example, the first one, the
		

			maraca, we've done sometimes as
well, that's to deal with Shaohua
		

			and desire to take away haram
desires, and to leave it as a
		

			perfect equilibrium of permissible
desires. Then there's a second
		

			subject which you have to be
better to do second, third,
		

			fourth, fifth, one of them deals
with the concept of hassad. And
		

			trying to remove jealousy. And
number three, it deals with anger.
		

			And I think this is where it
brings the compassion in, and so
		

			on. So that does help of course,
when you're closer to Allah, Allah
		

			is very merciful. When Allah comes
in to you, you should be more
		

			merciful as well. But sometimes,
if you think that you have a hard,
		

			harsh harshness about you, then
you need to specifically look for
		

			look for there would be specific
prescriptions for that as well.
		

			Right certain to us to read, or
certain stories that you read of
		

			people who, you know who,
		

			that there's a hadith of that
chapter as well, but thicker will
		

			definitely help. And that was one
thing that attracted me to certain
		

			individuals who are with a
particular Sheikh that I found
		

			there was only so calm, like how
you guys so calm? I know that some
		

			of the histories and I mean, what
was it it had to be thicker? I
		

			mean, I can't think of anything
else. Powerful because bla