Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Will Remembering Allah make Me Calm

Will doing vicar increased maternal instinct, I love my

children very much, but sometimes wonder if I should be more

sympathetic and feel more when they fall over and hurt

themselves. Very good question. I love this question. Essentially,

when you do a vicar, there are different types of vicar that

you're given. And one of them for example, the first one, the

maraca, we've done sometimes as well, that's to deal with Shaohua

and desire to take away haram desires, and to leave it as a

perfect equilibrium of permissible desires. Then there's a second

subject which you have to be better to do second, third,

fourth, fifth, one of them deals with the concept of hassad. And

trying to remove jealousy. And number three, it deals with anger.

And I think this is where it brings the compassion in, and so

on. So that does help of course, when you're closer to Allah, Allah

is very merciful. When Allah comes in to you, you should be more

merciful as well. But sometimes, if you think that you have a hard,

harsh harshness about you, then you need to specifically look for

look for there would be specific prescriptions for that as well.

Right certain to us to read, or certain stories that you read of

people who, you know who,

that there's a hadith of that chapter as well, but thicker will

definitely help. And that was one thing that attracted me to certain

individuals who are with a particular Sheikh that I found

there was only so calm, like how you guys so calm? I know that some

of the histories and I mean, what was it it had to be thicker? I

mean, I can't think of anything else. Powerful because bla