Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Should Men Help With the Cooking

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of helping spouse and children during quarantine, especially during the early days of the pandemic. They suggest providing help for folding and ironing, even putting laundry out, to alleviate the burden of the household. The speaker admits they had difficulty making proper arrangements and feeling frustrated with the process.

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			Should men be encouraged to do
chores in the house and do the
		
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			cooking and everything now, purely
from a sunnah perspective? Helping
		
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			is there helping the spouse and so
on? So definitely so as far as
		
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			possible I just don't see any
Hadith enrich the prophets Allah
		
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			was cooked the meal. From what I
understand that he used to come
		
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			and say to the, his, his wife, or
the Allahu anha that is there any
		
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			food in the house, and if there
wasn't, then he just fast. So I'm
		
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			understanding that the food he
didn't really take well, but their
		
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			food was simple, right? Anyway,
that doesn't mean that you can't
		
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			help in the house. If the husband
is doing enough, and the wife is
		
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			doing her share and husband is
doing a shed and can understand
		
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			that the roles are divided like
I'll yridians role was outside the
		
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			house, Fatima Dylan's role was
inside the house. However, now
		
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			that we're all at home, and if
you're not doing much anyway, then
		
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			it's a good idea that you help,
especially since more people are
		
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			going to be in the house, there's
going to be a greater burden. So
		
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			help with the folding of the
laundry with maybe putting it out
		
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			maybe with ironing. Maybe you
don't have to what they call Phil
		
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			the services, right? I actually
tried to do that yesterday but got
		
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			a bit frustrated because I
couldn't make them proper
		
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			triangle, right? In the right way.
But I did try. I did make an
		
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			effort. And but no, I thought that
was not for me. So so I tried to
		
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			do other things.