Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Once Married it is Halal to Do Whatever is Halal

			I am due to have my kneecap
performed in August and Rock City
		

			early next year. My question is
what is permissible? And what are
		

			the limits after Nica with the
relationship with my future
		

			husband, some people have said is
halal is like Halal dating, while
		

			others have called it a suspended
marriage. However, I find it very
		

			confusing, as I've always thought
Nikka was the essence of marriage.
		

			Yes, both of those
		

			are not really proper
descriptions. Once you've done
		

			Nikka, then nobody can stop you
doing anything. It's like, for
		

			example, you buy something within
the Sharia, if I sell you
		

			something, and I tell you that
I'll sell it to you, but I would
		

			like one month use of it, I'll
sell you my car, but then let me
		

			just borrow it for a month is
wrong, or I sell you something and
		

			I say you must sell it back to me
or you can't sell it on. It's
		

			done. It's yours. Now, that's what
you call a proper sale, within
		

			marriage as well, once husband and
wife are married, then they can do
		

			everything that is halal for a
husband and wife to do. However,
		

			just because of the practicality
of the situation. You don't want
		

			to start considering babies yet.
Right? So you need to take your
		

			precautions, etc. Because that's
the whole reason why you're not
		

			moving in. The other thing is the
only other difference is that he's
		

			not responsible for expenses and
so on. Because a husband is only
		

			responsible for expenses and so
on, if they're living together.
		

			But because the the parents of the
daughter of the wife have not yet
		

			given her over completely and have
allowed her to go and she hasn't
		

			left home as such. They're still
responsible for that. But in terms
		

			of relationship, intimacy, and
everything like that is completely
		

			halal. It's completely halal.
Nobody can tell you don't do it.
		

			Right. That's all purpose of
marriage. You don't have to do it.
		

			You suddenly you're missing the
Sunnah of the first night. Just
		

			take precautions, though. I'm just
telling you in a very practical
		

			way. So don't Don't be fearful of
that.