Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Once Married it is Halal to Do Whatever is Halal

I am due to have my kneecap performed in August and Rock City

early next year. My question is what is permissible? And what are

the limits after Nica with the relationship with my future

husband, some people have said is halal is like Halal dating, while

others have called it a suspended marriage. However, I find it very

confusing, as I've always thought Nikka was the essence of marriage.

Yes, both of those

are not really proper descriptions. Once you've done

Nikka, then nobody can stop you doing anything. It's like, for

example, you buy something within the Sharia, if I sell you

something, and I tell you that I'll sell it to you, but I would

like one month use of it, I'll sell you my car, but then let me

just borrow it for a month is wrong, or I sell you something and

I say you must sell it back to me or you can't sell it on. It's

done. It's yours. Now, that's what you call a proper sale, within

marriage as well, once husband and wife are married, then they can do

everything that is halal for a husband and wife to do. However,

just because of the practicality of the situation. You don't want

to start considering babies yet. Right? So you need to take your

precautions, etc. Because that's the whole reason why you're not

moving in. The other thing is the only other difference is that he's

not responsible for expenses and so on. Because a husband is only

responsible for expenses and so on, if they're living together.

But because the the parents of the daughter of the wife have not yet

given her over completely and have allowed her to go and she hasn't

left home as such. They're still responsible for that. But in terms

of relationship, intimacy, and everything like that is completely

halal. It's completely halal. Nobody can tell you don't do it.

Right. That's all purpose of marriage. You don't have to do it.

You suddenly you're missing the Sunnah of the first night. Just

take precautions, though. I'm just telling you in a very practical

way. So don't Don't be fearful of that.