Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A How Can I tell if I am Humble or Arrogant

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses how to determine someone's transparency and arrogance, and how it can be difficult to determine one's actions. They suggest that it's best to deal with the situation slowly and slowly, but also acknowledge that it's important to determine the reason for the behavior.

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			How can a person tell if he is
humble or arrogant? Is there a
		
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			litmus test? I think the main
thing that the way to tell this is
		
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			to determine what you're doing
whatever you're doing for, is it
		
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			to show yourself to somebody else?
Is it for fame and gain? Or is it
		
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			for the sake of Allah subhanaw
taala that's something that you
		
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			have to decide yourself. Sometimes
other people can help. But at the
		
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			end of the day, sometimes what
your display of things can be a
		
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			bit deceiving, and times the
person is not arrogant, but may
		
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			come across as arrogant have
absolutely no, you No, no feeling
		
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			of that in their heart. So you are
the best, but remember, if last
		
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			takes a very long time to learn.
So it has to be dealt with slowly,
		
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			slowly. But the main thing is that
you just try to determine why and
		
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			for what reason, am I doing this
act? Am I arrogant? Or am I doing
		
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			it for the sake of Allah? If
nobody praises me, if there's
		
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			nobody to see me, would I still do
the act? Would I still behave like
		
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			this? Would I still have this
conduct? These are some of the
		
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			ways that you can deal with this