Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Avoiding Unnecessary Disputes and Bad Character

You just have to be careful about the way you do it.

There was one brother, he came out of the masjid and he had a bit of

an issue with somebody else from before. So, you know the prophets

Allah Some said that if somebody does try to engage you in dispute

or some kind of problem, just tell him I'm fasting. And he's supposed

to do it nicely because Allah says in the Quran as well that way the

hotter Muhammad Jaya he Luna Callooh Salama that when the

ignorant people confront them, they say Salam is not like they

say salam, it's they get through it peacefully and they avoid it

averted. Your brother, it's not the right time. You know, I'll

talk to you later. Somebody

now one brother, he had a problem with somebody else. So to show him

to be agile, he said, we have a hotter Bon Jovi. Assalamu alaykum

now he's inflaming right? So it's just about using your wit to say

Brother You know, mashallah, that's good. You know, somebody

starts telling you something, so like, Okay, that sounds good,

whatever. You know, let's talk about this a bit later, somebody.

Now then it just depends if the guy is a persistent person, there

are some people who will not let you go and they know that they

just mashallah they just speak and speak and speak and speak, then

you might have to not rudely but you might have to say just

sometimes,

trying to say something will not work. Just try to kind of hold on

to them and sometimes touching them might make a difference,

brother solid, not sorry, brother. Just like a look here for that. I

really need to go right now. I'll talk to you later. Something like

that. You just have to use your tact.