Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Avoiding Unnecessary Disputes and Bad Character

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			You just have to be careful about
the way you do it.
		

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			There was one brother, he came out
of the masjid and he had a bit of
		

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			an issue with somebody else from
before. So, you know the prophets
		

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			Allah Some said that if somebody
does try to engage you in dispute
		

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			or some kind of problem, just tell
him I'm fasting. And he's supposed
		

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			to do it nicely because Allah says
in the Quran as well that way the
		

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			hotter Muhammad Jaya he Luna
Callooh Salama that when the
		

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			ignorant people confront them,
they say Salam is not like they
		

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			say salam, it's they get through
it peacefully and they avoid it
		

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			averted. Your brother, it's not
the right time. You know, I'll
		

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			talk to you later. Somebody
		

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			now one brother, he had a problem
with somebody else. So to show him
		

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			to be agile, he said, we have a
hotter Bon Jovi. Assalamu alaykum
		

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			now he's inflaming right? So it's
just about using your wit to say
		

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			Brother You know, mashallah,
that's good. You know, somebody
		

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			starts telling you something, so
like, Okay, that sounds good,
		

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			whatever. You know, let's talk
about this a bit later, somebody.
		

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			Now then it just depends if the
guy is a persistent person, there
		

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			are some people who will not let
you go and they know that they
		

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			just mashallah they just speak and
speak and speak and speak, then
		

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			you might have to not rudely but
you might have to say just
		

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			sometimes,
		

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			trying to say something will not
work. Just try to kind of hold on
		

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			to them and sometimes touching
them might make a difference,
		

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			brother solid, not sorry, brother.
Just like a look here for that. I
		

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			really need to go right now. I'll
talk to you later. Something like
		

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			that. You just have to use your
tact.