Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Prayer of Istikharaa

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker talks about a proposal that is being made by a woman named Kadir Leath, and how it is being criticized by her employer. The proposal is designed to make people feel
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			Read the DUA obviously Hora is the
Hora de da is Our Allah, I ask you
		
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			now listen to this carefully it's
I asked you Allah Khomeini is the
		
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			hero can be ill Mika what a
stalker de roca be Karateka what a
		
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			stalker DeLuca because erotica was
a LUCAM in follicle Aleem for in
		
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			Nicotiana, what a Artland? Oh
Allah, I ask you, because you
		
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			know, I don't know, meaning, you
know, the consequences of things,
		
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			you know, what's going to happen
in five years or 10 years or 20
		
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			years, or 30 years and 50 years,
you know, essentially everything
		
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			and I know nothing. I really have
no idea I can only see what's
		
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			happening right now, just about,
and I asked you from your Goodra,
		
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			from your Omnipotence from your
power, because I have no power,
		
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			because I have no real power to
really do things and I am in this
		
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			in this state of helplessness.
		
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			And I asked you from your great
and mighty grace mean for biblical
		
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			alim. Because you know, and I
don't know, I asked you is the
		
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			hero look, it means I asked you
for the best. I asked you for the
		
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			head, I asked you for the most
excellent thing. And that's what
		
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			it is, is the harder comes from
the word Higher, higher means good
		
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			and excellence. Right virtue is
the harder is the heart is the
		
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			horror from Estacada it's the it's
the heart as the hero is the heart
		
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			and essentially means to ask for
this goodness. Because we don't
		
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			really know in what is goodness
whether to do the business or not
		
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			to marry this person or not. So
then we say, Oh Allah in Canada
		
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			Lamoreaux Hiren Lee Phoebe new
Amanda she YRP Betty Emery it's
		
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			such a comprehensive to Aswan
Allah, if this matter that I'm
		
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			contemplating or that I am so
emotionally attached to, if it is
		
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			good for me, if it is good for me
for my if it's clear, and if he'd
		
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			been in for my dean, right is good
for my dean warmer, ashy, and it's
		
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			good for my livelihood and my life
in this world. Right, my ashy wild
		
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			liberty, Emery, and it's also good
for the consequence of my affairs,
		
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			meaning, my my, the last thing
that's going to happen to me or
		
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			the life hereafter, so essentially
for my future that is so
		
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			comprehensive, because we're not
only asking is it good for my
		
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			team, but we also asking is good
for my deen and my dunya it good
		
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			for my my life in this world. And
it's also good for my deen and
		
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			it's also good for my akhira it's
such a comprehensive door. So if
		
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			this thing this activity this
proposal is good for me for this
		
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			world and the hereafter and for my
deen and duniya then give it to me
		
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			for it says Haley Medina you are
ash morass, you were okay. But to
		
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			me the fact that they really were
serially automatically fee then
		
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			ordain it for me. For Kadir holy
then ordained it for me. And then
		
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			make it easy for me, facilitated
for me. So it's not that it's
		
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			ordained from a you will get it.
But you will get it after a lot of
		
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			hardship. No, give it to me
ordained it to me and make it easy
		
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			for me. All right. Now, look how
comprehensive the profit center
		
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			lessons words are. Give it to me,
make it easy for me to get it
		
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			right now sometimes a thing you
could get, it could be easy for
		
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			you to get it. But it's going to
be bad for you. So then it says
		
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			what Barry cliffie And give me
Baraka in it. Bless me in it. So
		
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			if it's good for me, then don't
just give it to me. But give it to
		
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			me make it easy for me and even
bless me in it so that I'm happy
		
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			with it. And it's good for every
aspect. We're in Ghana have a
		
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			number of short run short run DVD
knew about Archie and if this
		
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			matter is evil for me, bad for me.
Negative for me, harmful for me,
		
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			in terms of my dean, my livelihood
and consequence of my affairs,
		
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			which means my hereafter and the
rest of my life and my hereafter,
		
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			then
		
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			turn me away from it.
		
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			Right? Suddenly, Phoebe numr as
you are arguably a foster youth
		
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			who only firstly foster youth who
Annie and take it away from me.
		
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			What's really funny, and who
knows, sometimes we're in a state
		
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			where we really want something
because we got emotional
		
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			attachment, but it's not
forthcoming. It's not coming to
		
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			us. So we're saying take it away
from me, well, it's already out,
		
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			right? Maybe we can't get it. The
problem is that we're still
		
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			attached to it, we're attached to
something we can't get. So far
		
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			stiff knee was really funny and
who take it away from me and then
		
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			take me away from it turn me away
from it as well. This is the part
		
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			that I want to focus on. This is
the part which will D touch you
		
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			from your emotional attachment.
This is really powerful. Because
		
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			you're saying if this is bad for
me, and my emotional attachment is
		
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			all in vain and is bad for me.
Then take it away from me and not
		
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			take me away from it as well. So
it's not that okay, I can't get it
		
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			because it's bad for me. But I
also now don't want it and I've
		
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			realized that it's not good for
me. And I'm not going to get it
		
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			and I'm not going to pursue it
anymore. And I'm out of my
		
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			emotional attachment. I'm out of
my depression that is so powerful,
		
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			and then it's not finished at the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam has the best in mind for
all of us.
		
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			So then he says, what a deadly or
painful gun some Maldini be. And
		
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			decree for me, ordained for me the
best replacement essentially,
		
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			wherever it is. So if it wasn't
that guy we were after. Right? If
		
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			it wasn't that boy, that man that
you wanted to get married to, but
		
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			he's not agreeing to it. Right?
He's not agreeing to it. And now
		
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			you've asked Allah subhanaw taala
to remove it from you and remove
		
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			you and turn you away from it as
well. Well, obviously, you want to
		
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			get married to somebody that's
nice. So you ask Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala is part of the same da you
say and ordained for me the best
		
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			wherever it is because I might not
know where it is. I may have
		
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			overlooked this point before but
give me the best wherever it is,
		
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			and then out of the need, and then
make me satisfied and pleased with
		
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			it as well.
		
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			Bla