Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Muhasibi’s Risalah Part 5 The Mirror of Improvement

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the importance of patientism and perseverance in achieving success in a race. They stress the need for personal history and history in understanding actions of judge. The challenges of working in a changing world and the importance of avoiding harms are emphasized. The speakers stress the need for acceptance and guidance from the state of the world and for people to make small small things like walking and doing things like walking.

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			Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu
Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu
		
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			was Salam ala so you will know
Celine while he was off me here
		
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			you have our Casa limiter Sleeman.
gefion Isla yo me Dean Amma Barend
		
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			Manuel has to be says while I'm in
the sobre Minal Imani Beeman Zilla
		
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			T ROTC minute adjusted for either
40 or so the herbal just
		
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			says know very clearly he
understand this, that patients, to
		
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			Iman, patients in the mine are
patients to do with our faith is
		
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			the same as the head is to do with
the body. So he's saying that a
		
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			man is like the body, while
		
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			patients is like the head. That's
how important patients is within
		
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			the dean.
		
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			In fact, our dean is entirely
patients. That's exactly what it
		
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			is. Because it's all about our
deen is all about. What the Dean
		
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			tells us is that it restricts us
from certain things, tells us to
		
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			do other things. And in order to
do those things, even if you don't
		
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			feel like doing them initially,
		
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			is all about patience, and
perseverance.
		
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			This is if we remove the concept
of patients that is generally in
		
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			our minds, which is that it is to
bear a difficulty.
		
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			This is a difficulty in a sense,
it's just that we don't take it as
		
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			a difficulty because it's more
routine we take on routine
		
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			calamities that come about
Southern calamities, we don't take
		
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			those as calamities and
difficulties.
		
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			And then if we're to be patient on
that, then we consider that to be
		
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			sober. But somebody is actually a
lot more universal. And a lot more
		
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			accommodating than that. In fact,
somebody is found in every single
		
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			activity that we probably do. In
most activities that we do. That's
		
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			why he's saying that that's so
important to have somebody with
		
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			iman. So that's why he's saying
that for either co T or ROTC with
		
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			the Hubble just do that. Of
course, if you cut the head off,
		
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			there's no point in having the
rest of the torso the rest of the
		
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			body because he won't function.
The head is that important and he
		
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			puts somebody in the same way. We
have no patience, your your deen
		
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			is never going to be right. And
that's absolutely right. Because
		
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			people who don't have any patience
with Allah subhanho wa taala, then
		
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			they may blaspheme Allah.
		
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			I just received an email saying
that I said to Allah, or if
		
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			somebody says to Allah, it was in
the third person maybe, that if
		
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			somebody says to Allah, that
		
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			if you want to give me this, just
give it to me otherwise, don't
		
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			give it something like this, like
getting angry with the device and
		
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			accepted. So that's all
		
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			the patient's going overboard. A
person not being able to control
		
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			oneself, perseverance,
perseverance in people who want to
		
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			win a
		
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			race, for example, means that
you're going to have to, you're
		
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			not going to be able to eat as
much as other people do, you're
		
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			going to have to have a very
specific diet, which is getting
		
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			restricting yourself. Other people
won't have to worry about those
		
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			things, you're going to have to do
a lot of training, which other
		
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			people don't have to do, right, is
you're gonna have to go beyond
		
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			just staying fit, you're gonna
have to really work towards
		
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			mastery. Work towards going
completely beyond what normal
		
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			people are able to do. All of that
is patience to be able to win
		
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			something you need patience. Allah
subhanho wa Taala wants us to be
		
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			winners.
		
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			foes and foes Fedora in in both
the worlds and that's why Sobor is
		
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			so important in that regard.
		
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			This is sobre Allah Tala and sobre
annual Marcia subhabrata means to
		
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			be to be patiently persevering on
all of the good deeds that we must
		
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			do.
		
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			Despite not wanting to you're
busy, you don't want to go to the
		
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			masjid. But you just tear yourself
away and go to the masjid to pray,
		
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			to pray, you know, just to prove
and at home, maybe sometimes it's
		
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			like that too fast. And all of the
other things that you have to do,
		
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			they're all parts of difficulty.
But when a person has mastered
		
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			server, then all of these things
become easy. The server is made
		
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			easy out of by love, love allows
all of these things to be done
		
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			much more easily.
		
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			Love is the factor that you need
the love of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			conviction in what you get at the
end of it. That is what drives a
		
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			human being. So that's why I think
somebody has to be done. There's
		
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			no way you're going to be so easy,
is no way that it's going to be
		
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			without difficulty. For him not
only come in as then he says what
		
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			either submitter curry mutton, so
similarly in terms of what is
		
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			suburban is a kind of a restraint,
perseverance, struggle, all of
		
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			that comes within sub array. So
then he takes one aspect he says
		
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			were either submitted to Colima,
tanto de Buka, figurado Lika Lika
		
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			for WASPA for in early communism
or more. So then if you do hear a
		
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			word or a statement from somebody
that gets you angry
		
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			worry,
		
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			you're going to hear something
like this throughout your life.
		
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			Right? Even if somebody doesn't
intend to attack you, doesn't
		
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			intend to criticize you doesn't
intend to fear you, what will
		
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			happen is that somebody may say
something which you may
		
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			misunderstand to be an affront to
you. That happens a lot of the
		
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			time you don't mean, a person
doesn't mean to say anything bad.
		
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			But maybe they're just a bit
straightforward in what they say.
		
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			And you're not using your bit
sensitive. So you take an affront
		
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			to that happens often. So people
could be saying it for different
		
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			reasons. But we have to control
ourselves, because you can't see
		
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			what people's intention is. That's
why he's saying that if you do
		
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			hear a claim,
		
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			that angers you, he didn't say
that if you if somebody say
		
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			something to anger you, because
you don't know if that's their
		
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			motivation. Sometimes somebody
could praise you. And you could
		
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			get angry because you didn't want
that to be mentioned in front of
		
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			others.
		
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			Right? So that's why we have to
work on our own, from our side.
		
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			Let's not try to second guess
people, because that then causes
		
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			aggravation, especially if you're
a sensitive individual, then just
		
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			try to avail yourself on what
others may be thinking, just try
		
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			to think the best See, how am I
supposed to deal with it? Allah
		
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			will take care of whatever he's
doing, or she's doing, let's just
		
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			do what I'm supposed to do, which
is that if you do hear of a word
		
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			that angers you fi, it'll DECA
with regards to your honor, so
		
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			you've been defiled in some way
for so just forgiven, overlooked
		
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			pardon? Because that is from the
ISIS mu more, that is from the
		
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			matters of great resolve and
resolution. What does that mean as
		
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			mil or more? Allah says, uses that
in the Quran, right? Fantastic. I
		
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			mean, as much more as them is to
make full resolution, it's to make
		
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			a very, very premeditated, a very
purposeful
		
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			decision about something that is
unwavering. That's what it is.
		
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			It's not something you can do by
accident. Because that's not
		
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			assume that just a fluke,
understand, this is something that
		
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			you decide to do. And you are
fully convinced why you're going
		
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			to do it, and that you are going
to do it. So he's saying that if
		
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			you have the ability to, if you
gain the ability to be able to
		
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			forgive an overlook
		
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			then gaining that ability reaching
that status means that it is from
		
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			those matters which are affirmed
resolve which are praiseworthy in
		
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			the Quran. As mill Omar is very
important.
		
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			Call her Omar Abdullah Hata Brody,
Allah one
		
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			man half Allah Lim yesh, Villa
Eva, who
		
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			I'm going to the Allahu Anhu says
three things. The first thing he
		
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			said is that anybody who fears
Allah,
		
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			he won't let loose his anger, his
anger will never overcome him.
		
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			He will keep the anger in control
because when he knows Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala he will then
realize that Allah has a lot more
		
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			power over him. And I am full of
issues that Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			can seize me on. So
		
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			why should I get angry on somebody
else? When I'm doing the same to
		
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			somebody else? I'm doing the same
to Allah that somebody may be
		
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			doing to me.
		
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			How do I know that the things
which I do that have become so
		
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			routine, may be angering Allah
subhanho wa taala. But I don't
		
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			realize it because I'm doing it.
		
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			I've done it so many times.
		
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			And Allah, Allah is generally
forgiving. That's why when
		
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			there was a criminal that was
somebody got caught, and was
		
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			brought to
		
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			one of the, one of the scholars
one of the beliefs, and he said,
		
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			Look, this is the first time I did
it. And the Khalifa said, No,
		
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			that's impossible. Right? Allah
subhanaw taala forgive so many
		
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			times before he actually ceases
you. Right. So that's, you know,
		
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			sometimes it does happen that the
first time somebody does something
		
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			on the court, which is actually to
their benefit,
		
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			right, which is to their benefit.
		
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			I remember once in a madrasa
		
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			there were a number of students
that used to listen to songs,
		
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			music, right? They had a habit
from before or whatever. Now
		
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			there's one guy, not majority
wouldn't but there were some there
		
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			were people who would listen to
it.
		
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			There was one student who was
never into songs never into music
		
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			music. However, this was the this
was when was it 2000? No. This was
		
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			the end of the this was 8919 89
		
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			a 1990 was coming up.
		
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			So they were playing for several
weeks on Radio One or something
		
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			like this. They
		
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			You're playing the top of the
decades, all the best music of the
		
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			decade. So
		
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			there was one guy no more than one
person I know very well.
		
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			Sometimes I've seen him listen to
music. So what are you doing? He
		
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			says I'm doing door.
		
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			That means that I'm just revising,
which means that he used to listen
		
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			to old music, Michael Jackson,
whatever. He says, I don't listen
		
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			to any new music. That's what he's
saying, right? I don't listen to
		
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			any new music. But I'm just, I
can't help listen to the old ones
		
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			that I'm used to. Because music
captures your mind, it just
		
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			overcomes you, it rings in your
mind, it's just very powerful,
		
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			very powerful. Studies have shown
that anyway. So he says I'm doing
		
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			door. So now when they're playing
the top music of the whole 10
		
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			years, and on top of the songs
that are tops on top of the
		
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			charts, or whatever it is, right.
And this is music that you've
		
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			heard all over the place, because
you know, you can't avoid music,
		
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			generally, if you're traveling or
whatever, they they'll always be
		
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			playing the, you know, going
stores and things like this. So
		
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			then, every you know, there were
more people that were excited. And
		
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			this particular individual never
listened to music got excited as
		
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			well, because it was a countdown
every every day they were playing
		
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			until they got to the top. So it's
you know, when you provide a
		
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			competition in something it gets,
it becomes more attractive,
		
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			attracts more because there's a,
there's a suspense in it. So I was
		
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			like, okay, which is going to be
the top of the whole decade. So
		
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			they're moving on like this. So he
got involved as well, because he
		
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			actually had a, he was one of the
guys we actually had a recorder a
		
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			tape player with a radio.
		
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			So you know, maybe somebody hasn't
can't use it, whatever it is no,
		
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			no first and then after he got
into it, or whatever he got into
		
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			and then he got caught.
		
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			The first time he got into it, and
he got caught. But in hindsight,
		
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			when he looks back, he realized is
that this was actually
		
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			up blessing in disguise.
		
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			Because
		
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			it's the first time he got into
it. It's very addictive. And
		
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			because he got caught and they
were going to take his recorder, I
		
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			can't remember what they did to
that, right. But he then stopped
		
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			and he made Toba and he understood
that this is from Allah Subhan. So
		
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			sometimes that does happen. But
most of the time you get that's
		
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			why once in our class, somebody
did something wrong. And while the
		
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			teacher wasn't there and muftis
Shibuya came in, and he said
		
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			Sorry, sorry, is the first time it
says no doubt Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			doesn't use the same excuse. He
said of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			doesn't generally see somebody the
first time you always do this, and
		
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			it was true, the guy always used
to do these weird things in the
		
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			class. So he got caught.
		
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			So I'm one of the Allahu Anhu says
that. So as I saying that, you
		
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			know, we don't realize that we may
be getting Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			very angry.
		
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			We may not realize that.
		
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			But when somebody gets us angry,
we can't take it because we don't
		
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			have the same patience as Allah
does. Forbearance clemency Hill.
		
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			This is the helm and the Karim of
Allah subhanaw taala. That he
		
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			allows people to do so many
doesn't get them. Hopefully,
		
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			they'll, they'll do toe but
they'll do so but then understand,
		
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			he sends a few signs, few
stumbles. But if the passion is
		
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			too strong, then the stumbles
don't work. You know, we don't
		
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			interpret them correctly. What I
mean is that if something's going
		
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			wrong, and sorry, if some if
you're engaged in something wrong,
		
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			and then something
		
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			some setback happens to us, we
don't connect to that it's because
		
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			of the wrong we did. We just think
it's part of life, just a setback.
		
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			So we don't have the same hill as
Allah does. So we want to get back
		
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			at somebody straightaway. Whereas
when it comes to Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala, we ourselves could be
aggressing against him to such a
		
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			level that we don't even realize
it's an aggression anymore.
		
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			So he's saying have hailed
		
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			as anybody who fears Allah, they
will not let the anger loose.
		
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			Then he says woman is the cow who
will lend me your snapper you
		
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			read. And anybody who fears Allah
subhanaw taala they will not just
		
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			do everything that they please.
		
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			This is the fitna of today.
		
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			This is the fitna of today in the
prosperity that we have,
		
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			especially in the Western world,
that we have in our week we it
		
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			comes into our mind, it occurs to
us, right? A fancy takes place in
		
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			our heart that we can do this, we
have the money or we can get
		
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			access to the money today and all
of these things are available.
		
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			All of these things are available.
So then we do them.
		
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			So what it is we do them, right.
Whereas a person in a poor
		
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			situation is very restricted in
terms of the scope of what he or
		
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			she thinks they can do. Think
about it. If you're poor, there's
		
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			just so much that you think you
can do right now.
		
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			You see the in Kensington on for
two weeks during the summer. All
		
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			these rich guys from the Middle
East, fly their cars down
		
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			right
		
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			The cars that have paid literally
hundreds of 1000s for and they
		
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			drive them around, chauffeur them,
and everybody goes to watch. Now,
		
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			if you're even if you're into
cars, you might look at that, but
		
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			you know that I've got a barrier
here, there's no way I can do
		
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			that, because I just don't have
that kind of money.
		
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			So you know, you're not going to
do this to understand, because
		
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			that's a league beyond you.
		
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			But there's other things, which is
within our league, and you see
		
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			some friend doing it, somebody in
the community doing it, right, for
		
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			example, getting an expensive
handbag of a certain you know, to
		
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			show off or whatever the case may
be, then, because it's kind of
		
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			within our budget, or just overall
budget, we'll do it.
		
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			So we generally stay within our
budget,
		
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			right within our scope, and we do
those things, we don't look at the
		
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			higher levels of things.
		
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			But
		
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			so this is, the more wealthier you
are, the more scope you have to
		
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			just do as you please, because we
have a lot of disposable income.
		
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			So this is our challenge of today
that can I just do everything that
		
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			comes in mind.
		
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			This is not this is obviously not
speaking about
		
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			doing everything that is based on
wisdom. Good choice. Of course,
		
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			that's, that is what we must do.
But this is just talking about.
		
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			For example, our Amara, the Allahu
Anhu had actually
		
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			prohibited that people eat meat
every day.
		
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			Because you know, he considered
that to be an indulgence.
		
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			And it was on one occasion that
somebody purchased some meat and
		
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			he came and
		
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			you know, today that's a normal
thing to buy meat. It's not a big
		
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			deal. You cook down and you have
meat inside. Right?
		
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			Otherwise it doesn't taste right.
Why are you putting it's dry? You
		
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			bring meat in oh because it gives
it flavor.
		
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			So you have to be touched by it.
You know, you have to you have to
		
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			have some of it inside there.
		
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			And what's the first thing that
people order when they go to a
		
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			restaurant?
		
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			The mixed grill it's like such a
standard I remember we went to a
		
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			place to eat
		
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			saffron kitchen. I think it was
saffron kitchen. Now I can't
		
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			remember it was there or somewhere
else. So I was saying okay, what
		
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			should we get? So the way to go?
You're gonna get a mixture right?
		
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			Like as though it's a default you
have to get a mixed grill that the
		
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			meat has to be there
		
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			when this person came with the
meat I believe it was harder than
		
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			he says could no match the
heritage to write everything you
		
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			desire you just gone by
		
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			that's our state right now could
no match the hate distillate
		
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			everything you desire you just
gone by the next day you haven't
		
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			because we've got the ability to
have it today.
		
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			You know Amazon prime prime and
everything like this.
		
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			And of course we're not saying
that if you need something you go
		
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			and buy it that's different. Then
he says well hola yo will Thea
		
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			Mattila Khurana hieromartyr own.
If there was no day of judgment,
		
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			then the situation would be
different to what you see today.
		
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			If there was no hereafter, then
and there was no Yeoman hisab
		
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			Yama, Yama a day of reckoning a
day to stand up afterwards again,
		
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			right? That's Yamanaka Yama,
right? Then it would be then the
		
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			matter and the affair would be
totally different to what you see
		
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			today. What does that mean? Think
about it.
		
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			Personally, what I think it means
is that if there was no day of
		
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			judgment there, then all of our
judgment will be done in this
		
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			world. The good would be
		
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			if there was no judgment there,
then the judgment would be in this
		
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			world, which means that anything
bad you did, a punishment would
		
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			come, a punishment would alight
straight away, and anything good
		
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			that we did, right? Then we would
have been rewarded. So the good
		
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			and bad would have been rewarded
here and imagine how many people
		
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			would have been destroyed in that.
		
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			But there would be no distraction
in that regard. There will be no
		
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			deception, there will be no doubt
they'll be it will be very, very
		
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			clear cut. So that's what he says.
He says, Whoever fears Allah, they
		
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			will not let loose their anger
they will keep it under control.
		
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			And whoever fears Allah, then
whoever, whoever has taqwa, they
		
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			will just not do everything that
they intend that takes their fancy
		
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			and on if there was no day of
judgment, it would be very
		
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			different to what you see today.
Worre, E. Hammacher Worre a
		
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			humbucker. And
		
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			B, be very considerate of
		
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			your thoughts,
		
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			your decisions and your thoughts
about
		
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			To what about what others are
doing about what you're doing. Be
		
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			very careful and monitor and
police your thoughts
		
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			are a realia, which means to
really take care of someone
		
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			to really consider all of its
affairs and to nurture it
		
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			properly. She says, Be very
considerate of your thoughts,
		
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			power of your thoughts about
things washed up will be a slur
		
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			enough seeker and I believe it and
this is very important. So until
		
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			now, it was about our personal
issue. We're dealing with Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala and other things.
Now it is about
		
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			looking after our own affairs, and
not
		
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			occupying ourselves in other
people's affairs that do not
		
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			that do not have anything to do
with us. So He says wish there
		
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			will be Islam in Africa and I
believe in engage yourself in
		
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			reforming yourself away from the
defects of others. What does that
		
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			mean? Just don't be just don't
worry about other people's
		
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			defects.
		
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			Just focus on your own defects. If
you get so engaged in your defects
		
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			believe me you will make excuse
for others Subhanallah
		
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			for example,
		
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			see somebody
		
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			who doesn't seem to be as
practicing.
		
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			Maybe he doesn't have a beard
doesn't seem to be very
		
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			practicing.
		
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			But then
		
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			you see that he does five times
Salah in the masjid and you can't
		
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			do five times salata Nelson. So
you will think that yes, he
		
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			doesn't have a beard. I've got a
bit of Hamdulillah he doesn't have
		
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			a beard, but something in him that
is driving him to the masjid five
		
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			times a day.
		
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			So let me not think bad about this
person.
		
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			Let me not think bad about this
person.
		
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			This is just to prevent you from
thinking bad about people
		
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			to do our will Moreover, no
Hanuman car in a wise way that's
		
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			something separate.
		
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			Do you understand this shouldn't
stop you from trying to do is love
		
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			people and yourself. This is just
that don't let don't go and
		
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			criticize people.
		
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			Focus on yourself and you will
make excuses for others. You will
		
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			not get involved in things that do
not concern you for in a in a
		
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			hookah you call
		
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			it used to be said GAFA Bill
Murray I even yesterday in Allahu
		
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			minha nursing Maya Lee human, Nuff
said.
		
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			He said that there was a famous
statement this was a popular
		
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			statement that used to be said
what was the statement, it is
		
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			sufficient
		
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			defect for a person meaning for a
person to be considered defective,
		
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			it is sufficient that
		
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			defects of others become clear to
his eyes,
		
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			but not his own defects. His own
defects stay hidden. But somebody
		
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			else's defects become very vivid
and very clear. That is enough for
		
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			a person to themselves be
considered defective.
		
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			What a wonderful statement that is
what a truthful statement. That
		
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			is. That's why one of the scholars
said if you're looking into the
		
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			mirror when you go and look into
the mirror, and you're going to
		
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			look at how good you look.
		
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			Right, then
		
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			you are arrogant.
		
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			You love yourself. But if you look
into the mirror to see what
		
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			blemishes you have,
		
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			then that is what are mirrors for
		
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			the mirror is to show our
blemishes so that we can see them
		
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			isn't that what the blemishes do?
		
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			Isn't that what the point of the
mirror is? Why do you look into a
		
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			mirror the mirror looking
presentable or not?
		
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			But if somebody knows that they're
present and they keep looking into
		
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			it, that's narcissism.
		
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			But the reason why we look into a
mirror isn't his job is to look
		
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			into a mirror is so we see what's
the problem is all over the place
		
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			I need to look presentable.
		
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			But he said here that it is
sufficient defect for a person
		
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			that other people's defects become
clean and clear on a person that
		
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			they've got defects but you can't
see your own Maya it humaneness
		
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			and you know, it's the same defect
that you've got, but you don't see
		
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			it another's and this is talking
about a particular psychological
		
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			complex. When a person has a
pretty like if somebody has OCD,
		
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			they will generally see it on
others.
		
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			If somebody has greed, they will
generally see the greed in others
		
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			they will notice it
		
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			and sometimes a protest against
that. Sometimes a protest against
		
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			that is
		
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			protest against the self in this
weird skewed way.
		
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			It's that there's a certain word
for this, which I don't know at
		
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			this time. Right, but that's what
it is. And some, unfortunately,
		
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			sometimes they like to use this,
you know, for preachers in
		
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			Christianity and even Muslim
preachers that tell you about
		
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			morality. A lot of these media,
they will criticize them for
		
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			saying that, they will try to say
that this is a complex that they
		
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			have, that they have these
problems themselves. And that's
		
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			why they're telling others. So
they try to use this particular
		
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			concept on shutting people up as
well.
		
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			Right. But there is an existence,
there is a concept that's
		
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			existence, I mean, to a certain
degree, I mean, we mustn't get too
		
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			much into this, because it could
be for any reason. But a lot of
		
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			the time we do react more
aggressively against somebody for
		
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			something that we have in
ourselves.
		
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			It takes us off, because we
recognize it in our subconscious.
		
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			Oh, yum, Kuta NASA FEMA T Mithila.
Who? Right? So same thing, it is
		
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			sufficient defect on a person that
they hate somebody for that which
		
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			they do themselves? Isn't that
what I'm talking about? They hate
		
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			somebody else for the same thing
that they do themselves.
		
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			Now, you remember that guy who
killed people in in that nightclub
		
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			in bomb in Florida. But gay
nightclub, right? They use that
		
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			same same condition on him as
well. That it was something that
		
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			he was trying to resist against
something that he was doing
		
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			himself. But he couldn't, because
they're trying to say that because
		
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			the religion conflicted with it.
He was in two minds.
		
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			Right? Since you blame the
religion that they should just
		
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			allow him to do it. You
understand? But because he was
		
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			really he wanted to be religious
at the same time, Allahu Allah,
		
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			right? You wanted to be religious.
And thus he felt guilty about
		
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			doing it though he was doing it.
He then went and did this really
		
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			aggressive thing because he hated
others for doing the same thing.
		
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			When he was in that half a mode.
		
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			Same kind of thing that he's
talking about. Or a person gets
		
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			angry on things that they do
themselves. Oh, you the Jalisa
		
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			who?
		
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			Or that the person who you sit
with who your companions with? You
		
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			are constantly harming that
individual. You're constantly
		
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			inconveniencing that person that
is all ape.
		
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			Oh, yeah. Who would have been
nasty Marla. Yeah. And he
		
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			or
		
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			you speak about people
		
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			in regards to things that do not
concern you.
		
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			And this is obviously going into
things that should be best left on
		
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			somebody's got a smoking problem.
You go and talk to talk to others
		
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			about it. Somebody's got a problem
that's very personal. And you have
		
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			no Islam in mind. You have no
reform in mind. You just want to
		
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			bring it up to people. Of course
that's, that's understood. So if
		
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			you can ignore Hussain Al YCT.
		
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			He relates whilst it is between
		
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			Basra and Kufa city in between
seats in Iraq.
		
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			famous city of scholars, Sofia and
even her sandal. YCT says that,
		
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			once I just mentioned I was with
ERCP. No more idea. I'll use any
		
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			who was the call the of bizarro?
		
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			He was the judge of bizarro. He
has no more idea was the judge of
		
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			bizarro. So what I did was I
mentioned somebody in a bad way in
		
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			front of him. I criticized him. He
said something bad about
		
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			this call, your buzzer is more.
Sorry, ERCP. No more alvia. He is
		
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			cardiovascular. These are tabby.
And he was considered to be very,
		
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			very intelligent, you durable
mythical beast aka he, meaning his
		
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			intelligence was a proverb. He had
provoked proverbial intelligence.
		
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			And you say that man, he is
disguised as intelligent as ER
		
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			signal muawiya. That's how
intelligent he was.
		
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			So when I mentioned when I
criticize this,
		
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			when I criticize this individual,
in front of somebody in front of
		
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			him, he looks at my face and he
said,
		
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			Look at this answer. Look at these
responses. So to room.
		
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			Have you waged war against room
against the Romans? These were
		
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			those were the enemies at the
time, right? Have you waged war
		
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			against the Romans?
		
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			Call to law, no, no, call a sin
will hinder Hindware torque and
		
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			all the other enemies of the time,
you know, the Cindy's and the
		
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			Turkish, and the and, and the the
Hindi? The Indians? Right? Those
		
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			were the probably the fourth.
Those are probably the boundaries.
		
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			And those were probably the
frontiers of war against these
		
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			people for the Muslims at the
time. Right. So have you gone and
		
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			fought with them?
		
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			Said No. So then he said a
stellium in Korea was sin duel
		
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			Hindupur talk, while I'm Yesler
Minca, hookah Muslim. What a way
		
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			to look at it what a huge way to
look at this is this. So that
		
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			means the Romans, the Turks, the
Indians, and the Cyndi's, they
		
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			stay safe from you. But your
Muslim brother is not safe from
		
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			your criticism. You're sparing
those guys and you're criticizing
		
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			your Muslim brother. So Sofia
unsaid that was such a reminder
		
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			for me further back to her. I
never returned to criticizing
		
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			anybody after that.
		
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			Never criticize anybody after
that. That taught me my lesson.
		
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			That yes, I've got bigger things
to do.
		
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			It's mentioned in Kali Ayyad. He's
got a famous book called
		
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			turntable. medallic
		
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			he relates from
		
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			he relates about Abdullah Abdul
Wahab Al Quran he
		
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			was famous in famously known as
the mum ignore her people you've
		
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			probably heard of him. Abdullah
Abdullah Al Qureshi and mystery
		
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			Zen Qureshi tried from from Egypt.
He was an Imam and had this fucky
		
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			an Arabic and Azhar had mashallah
he had it all.
		
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			And he was a companion of Imam
Malik. He was one of the students
		
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			of Imam Malik Rahim Allah and of
Imam lathe and of Imam Sophia and
		
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			authority and others. He died in
197.
		
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			So he says about himself now this
is how the people used to
		
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			nurture themselves discipline
themselves. He said John to Allah
		
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			knifes equal nama tab to insert
and I made it binding upon myself
		
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			that every time I would do he but
about anybody. See, I'm a Yeoman.
		
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			I would do one day fast.
		
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			Putting five pounds in little, I
think is probably easier than
		
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			doing a fast, right? Unless you're
used to fasting. Right? So he says
		
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			every time I do a bit of somebody
I would do one fast.
		
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			Then what happens afterwards he
says that for HANA Aliya, it
		
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			became easy for me to do that.
		
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			Because one FOSS was easy for me
to do.
		
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			For gen two other you have Calama
Illa tab to insert and so the kata
		
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			determine
		
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			that you see when when a port when
you got when you don't have enough
		
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			I said to us five Pong in the
little I would probably be easier
		
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			than a fast, wouldn't it? That's
what I said about us. Do you think
		
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			that's wrong? What do you think
that's true?
		
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			That's much easier people pay
themselves out of it. There's so
		
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			many questions you get in Ramadan,
can I just pay because I'm
		
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			breastfeeding? Can I just pay for
my first because I'm pregnant? You
		
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			get a lot of these questions from
women generally right? So it's a
		
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			rich man's game and you can just
pay yourself out of it. Right? But
		
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			for them it was different. They
didn't have enough disposable
		
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			income they were struggling right?
So he says Joel to Allah no SQL
		
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			lemma is to insanity I mean when
when that became when that became
		
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			so easy on me and it wasn't
effective anymore basically saying
		
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			right I could do this. So then he
said I every time I do he but of
		
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			somebody I am supposed to pay one
didn't have a sadhaka for coolala
		
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			that became difficult because I
was probably earning a few
		
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			Durham's anyway, and that would be
taking a lot of wealth like if
		
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			somebody is earning
		
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			1000 pounds a month, a 1500 pound
a month, and I'm supposed to give
		
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			500 in South Africa every time I
do it, but will will warn that
		
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			affect you. That's 1/3 of your net
worth right of your monthly salary
		
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			for sacoolas Alia Ouattara to
lever
		
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			I became so difficult on me and I
abandoned riba but that is only
		
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			going to work because it's
personal discipline. It's only
		
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			going to work if you're really
serious about this.
		
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			May Allah subhanaw taala help us
may Allah allow this, this is
		
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			awareness. Some of these things
obviously we've heard before,
		
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			right? But it's just to create
awareness once in a while. So
		
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			slowly, slowly, slowly, the but
will come out of our life. And I
		
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			can tell you it is possible. Just
just cringe when somebody does
		
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			leave it just cringe and just
don't want to do it and remind
		
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			people sometimes
		
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			remind people and mashallah, when
you when people are open minded,
		
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			they do they do benefit from your
reminder.
		
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			As one guy was sitting within the
cars can't remember who it was
		
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			recently and he started talking
about somebody.
		
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			And I said, mashallah, but you
don't like them and you're saying
		
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			what are these things about, but
you're just giving them all your
		
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			reward. So because yeah, that's
right.
		
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			You realize straightaway, because
that's essentially what we're
		
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			doing right
		
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			here, but it's very bad. It's just
useless.
		
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			It's just absolutely useless. It's
just a pastime. And it creates a
		
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			lot of acrimony. Creates a
negative attitude, attitude.
		
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			Allah help us along into cinema
and
		
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			the Quran, Allah homea
		
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			Hey me out there Hugo metachronous
Deli alone me I had no no yum and
		
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			then you know he learned the
Subhanak inoculum you know what I
		
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			mean? Allahumma salli wa sallim
ala so you know Muhammad wanna say
		
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			you did Muhammad are vertical
Salam.
		
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			O Allah accept our das Oh ALLAH
these are blessing days we ask you
		
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			for the greatest benefit from
them. Oh Allah we ask that you
		
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			purify our hearts we ask that you
assist us in benefiting from these
		
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			days
		
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			will love we ask you for the
		
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			the blessings that are found in
these days that you envelope us in
		
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			Your Mercy of Allah we ask you for
Mercy of Allah there may be many
		
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			things that we are doing, which
anger you, but Oh ALLAH because of
		
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			your clemency because of your
clemency you have not seized us
		
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			for them. of Allah we ask you for
understanding for recognition of
		
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			Allah we ask you for recognition
we ask you for understanding. We
		
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			ask you the ability to do Toba and
to return to you, of Allah we ask
		
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			you for
		
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			to make our hearts the way you
want them to be. Allah filled our
		
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			hearts with the obedience of Allah
make your obedience beloved in our
		
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			heart, Allah make you make our
hearts make make your disobedience
		
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			hated in our hearts. Oh Allah we
ask you for beneficial knowledge
		
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			and accepted actions and deeds of
Allah we ask you for expansion in
		
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			our disk or Allah we ask you for
expansion in our homes. Oh Allah
		
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			we ask you for Jana to refill
those. Oh Allah we ask you to
		
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			grant us baraka and blessing in
everything that you have given us.
		
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			And our Allah we ask that you keep
away from us those things which
		
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			are harmful for us. Oh Allah, we
ask that you keep away those
		
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			things which are harmful to us,
even though we may think that they
		
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			are beneficial to us. Oh Allah, we
ask that You grant us the
		
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			abilities to see the truth as the
truth and allow us to follow it to
		
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			see the wrong as the wrong and
allow us to abstain from it. Well
		
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			Allah we ask that You grant us
baraka and blessing in completing
		
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			our, our permissible projects and
everything that is beneficial for
		
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			us. Or Allah we ask that you keep
us undistracted or Allah that you
		
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			do not allow us to be distracted
by all the distractions of the
		
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			world today. You keep us focused
on what's beneficial for us of
		
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			Allah that you allow us to do that
which is beneficial for us. Oh
		
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			Allah to fulfill all of our
permissible needs and desires of
		
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			Allah we ask you for assistance we
ask you to accept us for the
		
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			service of your dream. We ask you
to make
		
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			remove any obstacles in our path
in regards to that we ask that You
		
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			grant us your grant us the and the
Muslim Ina and grant us and the
		
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			Muslims great sense of unity grand
sense of purpose, oh Allah great
		
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			sense of understanding and our law
you increase our sensibilities
		
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			towards the things which are best
for our best for us. And you, you
		
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			keep the Muslims undistracted from
all the things which are
		
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			distracting Muslims all over the
world. Oh Allah we ask that You
		
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			grant us an understanding to see
the plots of our enemies to see
		
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			through the plots of our enemies
and to not fall for those plots of
		
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			Allah we asked for great guidance
for this world Kadima on our
		
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			deathbed, or is is for all of the
stages of the Hereafter is for all
		
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			the stages of the Hereafter. And
Oh Allah, we ask that You grant us
		
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			the company of the great people
who you have showered your
		
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			bounties upon in the hereafter the
prophets and the martyrs, the
		
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			Siddiqui and the Saudi hain, we
ask that you make us from among
		
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			them, even though our actions are
not to that degree. Oh Allah, the
		
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			people who have gone for Hajj make
and who are going for Hajj make it
		
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			easy for them. Oh Allah allow us
to be included in all the great
		
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			doors that will be made there this
year. Oh Allah though we're not
		
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			there. Oh Allah, we ask that You
grant us with mercies that are
		
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			similar to what people will be
getting there. Our land that you
		
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			allow us to go over and over again
back to the home, or Allah to your
		
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			heart to your home, or Allah grant
granted protection from all of the
		
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			evils that may be out there. And
from all the people that seek to
		
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			harm the people that that are
there. Oh Allah we ask You for
		
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			protection. Oh Allah accept our
doors except our doors except our
		
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			doors and forgive us. Subhan Allah
be globalized it yeah, my Aussie
		
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			phone was salam anonymous.