Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Mawlana Ali Mayat The Unassuming Selfless Administrator of Darul Uloom Bury

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of remembering people who have passed away is highlighted, as is the need to help others. The speaker describes a person named Allama who may have missed important events but helped others. The speaker describes a person named Blackman who was helpful and caring about others, but became busy. They discuss a woman named Blackman who had a lot of sadness and how she was praying for her. They also talk about a woman with a lot of sadness who was helping local people and had to redo their clothing.

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			Smilla Rahmanir Rahim
		
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			hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala
Sayyidina Muhammad, were either
		
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			early or Sufi Germaine a mother,
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala will send
people into into this world, and
		
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			then he will take them.
		
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			And when people are gone, when
we're gone or anybody's gone, then
		
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			they leave behind things.
		
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			There's been investment
opportunities and sometimes they
		
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			start benefiting from the
investment. They leave behind good
		
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			memories and the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			My unity love will be higher on
stamina, who, whoever does a good
		
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			deed, whoever Allah subhanaw taala
loves good for what's good for you
		
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			will use him, you will employ him.
		
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			The Sahaba said, what does that
exactly mean? What do you mean
		
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			employ him? So the prophets of
Allah Salam said that before his
		
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			death, he'll give him the ability
to do something by which the
		
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			people around him
		
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			can be pleased with him.
		
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			So if somebody has died from this
world, and there's multiple people
		
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			remembering him, sending to us for
them, speaking well about them.
		
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			Maybe even building a masjid for
them in their name for the salah
		
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			Philip to donate the reward for
them, then isn't that a well worth
		
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			where a life wellworth lived as
such a life well lived. We can
		
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			only know after our death, have we
done enough for that kind of
		
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			thing. So today, you know, as
people die, there's people who
		
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			touch you. And we remember them.
And all the reason for this is to
		
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			talk about some godly people. Some
people rob Danny people, people
		
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			who did things for the sake of
Allah serve the Dean essentially,
		
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			so that we will pray for them. So
this is a person who when I joined
		
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			the data room in very in 1985,
November 1985, very young age 11
		
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			or 1211 and a half or so, this
particular individual Montana
		
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			highly his name was Myatt, he was
the administrator in the office.
		
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			And he was pretty much there until
I finished 11 years later. And
		
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			then he was there
		
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			for many many like three decades
or so or four decades or however
		
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			three decades and he just passed
away a few days ago.
		
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			Now Masha Allah, he left behind
children, and mashallah I know at
		
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			least two of them who are older MA
and they're doing some good work.
		
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			So I remember him today because I
think I need to pay him back for
		
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			all the good that he did for the
double room for the students and
		
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			many other people and then myself
as well as a student there.
		
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			So he starts off, he was born in
Mozambique, which is a country
		
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			just above South Africa, in in
Africa. And then he went to study
		
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			in the late 70s, early 80s, late
70s. He was in binnorie Town
		
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			Pakistan, which was one of the
great mattresses that and he
		
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			studied under shade use of
binnorie Rahima hula, one of the
		
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			great autumn of Pakistan, and who
was part of that established that
		
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			mandalas are there.
		
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			And when he was there, he must
realize he was a foreigner. But he
		
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			had the opportunity to be the
heart of the main heart him of
		
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			service to Sheikh Yusuf Samus have
received a lot of to answer from
		
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			him. He was the one in charge of
doing a lot of things, sometimes
		
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			others would want to do it. And he
was such a humble figure. It's
		
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			like, okay, you do it. And it
looks like on one occasion,
		
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			somebody didn't do something,
right. So your Sheikh Yusuf even
		
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			said to them that why don't you
just let him do it if you can't do
		
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			it, right. So why might you know,
some people you just hit it off
		
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			with and they just do things,
right? They just balanced they
		
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			just on par? And he was like that
he was either class fellows or one
		
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			year below or ahead of move. These
are very hands on, we just passed
		
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			away.
		
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			Big Mufti of Pakistan, mashallah
and Allama. So they used to play
		
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			together, they used to play
together with students together.
		
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			And with these races that I used
to try to go and do kedma of mana
		
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			use of but I couldn't, because,
you know, Manali was just always
		
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			ahead in that regard. Or the one
it says obviously, most is already
		
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			used always come first. And second
class is very, very clever and
		
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			intelligent. So I remember him
since 1985. And he had a lot of
		
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			pressure. He dealt with a lot of
things. He was the administrator
		
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			of a big data looms are dealing
with all sorts of things I
		
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			remember. And then we'd go and
say, Oh, can you do this for us?
		
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			We need this we need that. And you
could see he was always had this
		
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			look on his face. He was always
busy. You know, some people they
		
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			just look always busy, like, Oh,
what do you want? But such a heart
		
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			that even though he spoke to you
like that, sometimes you knew he'd
		
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			get your job done because he was
just always on trying to do
		
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			something.
		
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			He hails from this little village
called Songhai, which is close to
		
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			where my parents came from. So our
family he knew his family and he
		
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			was married. I used to go to visit
my auntie
		
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			Blackmon in the orderly range
area, and I would see him
		
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			sometimes outside his father in
law shop called the Dora shopper
		
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			the door at stores. It's on that
Queen's road or Queen's Park Road
		
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			or something, if anybody's been to
Blackman ever seen it. So he's
		
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			actually helped out there as well.
He used to also be there to lead
		
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			the press, sometimes in the local
Masjid as well. And
		
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			genuinely a helpful person. That's
what I remember, genuinely, I just
		
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			remember that look on his face,
but he would always get things
		
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			done. You know, we're from London.
So dark bloomberry was about four
		
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			to four and a half hours away for
us. We certainly come back to
		
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			London, four times a year. The
locals there, they used to go home
		
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			more frequently, they used to get
food from home, they used to get
		
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			their clothing washed from home,
they used to get food sent from
		
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			home, we four times a year, we got
a bit of pocket money. And you
		
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			know, mother's alive. That's,
that's how it was. So we had to
		
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			wash our own clothes. So I
remember, you know, when you're
		
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			1112 years, you're washing your
own clothes. It's kind of crazy,
		
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			you don't know what you're doing.
So I'd learned that what you do is
		
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			you put your clothes in a bucket,
sorry, you get some water, you put
		
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			a bit of soap powder in there, you
mix it up hot water, and then you
		
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			put your clothes in there and you
let it soak for a while.
		
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			Right for two, three hours because
it loosens the dirt, then you take
		
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			them and then you scrub them and
dry them. Oh man, there was every
		
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			stage of that was kind of crazy.
Sometimes you'd put it then you'd
		
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			forgot. So it stays for 234 days,
you go back in there smelling bad.
		
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			So you have to redo the whole
thing. I remember once I had a
		
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			really nice top. And I was very
excited about it. I watched it for
		
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			the first time came and put it on
a radiator to dry and it got all
		
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			rust marks on it that could not be
taken off.
		
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			You know those are when you get
your first kind of in those days,
		
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			people didn't have the kind of
money that kids have today. Right?
		
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			This morning, I think there was
one occasion where he started
		
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			taking some students clothes in
these black bags to Blackburn to
		
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			some laundrette and getting them
washed and bringing them back I
		
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			still remember that and I really
pray for him. Because during that
		
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			phase, it just became a bit easier
because you don't have to wash
		
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			your own clothes. So we just send
the clothes and he would take it
		
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			in his car he didn't have to this
was not part of his job but he was
		
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			just such a thoughtful person
mashallah and just such a helpful
		
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			person. So
		
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			that's all I want to say. That's
what I want to say Allah reward
		
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			him abundantly. And I'm just
hoping that
		
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			I believe that he has a status
with Allah that's what I believe
		
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			because Masha Allah so many people
are praying for him and his
		
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			janazah had a lot of people as
well and as people are remembering
		
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			him this people have started a
project to build a masjid for him
		
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			that people can donate to we'll
put a link up online for that as
		
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			well. And
		
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			inshallah he's got an A status
with Allah. So I mentioned that
		
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			here, number one for us to make
dua for him. And number two, that
		
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			we pray to Allah that we can also
be fondly remembered that we also
		
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			do decent things in this life and
good things and Allah protect us
		
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			from the disgrace of this world
and especially disgrace of this of
		
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			the Hereafter. And that Allah
subhanahu wa Tada
		
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			can accept us and people we can be
remembered with the dewasa people
		
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			and good fond memories after we go
as well. We're here with that one
		
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			and Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil
Alameen Allah bless him and grant
		
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			southern Jamil to all of his
family and loved ones and allow
		
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			all of us to also live a good
memory behind and good children.
		
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			Tawana Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil
Alameen. The point of a lecture is
		
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			to encourage people to act to get
further an inspiration and
		
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			encouragement, persuasion. The
next step is to actually start
		
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			learning seriously to read books
to take on a subject of Islam and
		
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			to understand all the subjects of
Islam at least at the basic level,
		
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			so that we can become more aware
of what our deen wants from us.
		
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			And that's why we started Rayyan
courses so that you can actually
		
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			take organize lectures on demand
whenever you have free time,
		
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			especially for example, the
Islamic essentials course that we
		
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			have on there, the Islamic
essentials certificate which you
		
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			take 20 Short modules, and at the
end of that inshallah you will
		
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			have gotten the basics of most of
the most important topics in Islam
		
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			and you'll feel a lot more
confident. You don't have to leave
		
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			lectures behind you can continue
to live, you know to listen to
		
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			lectures, but you need to have
this more sustained study as well.
		
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			JazakAllah harem Salaam Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh