Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Important Advice to University Students From

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers stress the importance of learning about one's values for health and safety, being conscious contributors, and balancing one's mind and heart for success. They also touch on the need for flexibility and proactive management in bringing on one's religion and being aware of one's values. A story about a man who was captured and murdered by his parents is mentioned, but there is no clear context or purpose to the story.
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Bismillah your man you're watching

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu

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was Salam ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Baraka was

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selling them at the Sleeman Cathedral on Ely on 18 Barrett

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one a single the Allah one who got caught also to lie sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam either or other law will be acting for your own

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aesthetic metaphor.

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For key, the key for stamina who your rasool Allah pada your Cebu

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and Yama inside in public note.

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Our Tirmidhi Wakata had even Sahai who has an answer he Sahil

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we're feel your way out in Ofra.

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Cada Asada who

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for Karla K for ya see who call the gift of Allah Azza wa Jalla wa

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Ramadan so they haven't been able to hit the yellow Darren who Gilan

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a woman Hala

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are the Revive,

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revive you must kill Athan into Halloween with the hockey

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book called a shotgun either but of all Fatah are actually in our

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element.

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Whack just the whole the whole philosophy whole

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we'll call either Olympus with fee the Adi Shiva we follow suit

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Maresh them embarked in?

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Well helcim There America Illa Chabot who will help me do one

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atom hidden.

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My dear

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officials of the university

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very inspired to actually be here.

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Especially when I hear the officials, the chancellor, the

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Vice Chancellor and the president of The Guild, the president of The

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Guild is speaking about working with a sister working with

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brothers. He wants to be on the team. I was like wow, he's got the

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lingo.

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Right so it seems like things are going really well here. But I do

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feel a bit out of place. It reminds me of my 11 years of in

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Lancashire. I studied for 11 years in Lancashire in Barrie, and I

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remember the accents. And that's why I hope you even understand me

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today. Right? I'm from London. Anybody from London here.

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Okay, some friendly faces. Okay. Well, hopefully you can understand

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me today anyway, I mean, I really revenue marvel at

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the northern exits, very interesting.

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Anyway.

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What I'm going to speak about today is really just a disparate,

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you know, few notes here and there that I've picked up during my

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student days. I mean,

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I'm still a student, I'm trying to finish my PhD, I have an isolated

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studying when I was about 11 years old. Until I was 11 to 22, I was

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up in Lancashire. That's where I spent most of my time except one

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year out somewhere else. So these are just just some disparate notes

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that I found to be helpful for myself. And I want to share with

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you, I want to share these notes with you today that Insha Allah,

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Allah make it beneficial for all of us.

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First and foremost, if I just explained to you the narration

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that I read in the beginning,

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the narration was that as rated by Imam Timothy from Anasazi, Allah

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Juan Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that when Allah

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wishes well with someone, when Allah subhanho wa Taala wishes

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when when someone is that matter, which means he uses him, puts him

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in service.

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The Companions who heard this statement of Rasulullah sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam The Prophet said, how does the game for stepmother

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who How does he use him? How does he put them in service? So that's

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when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said he gives him to

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feel it gives him divine providence divine guidance to do

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something before his death by which his neighbors and others,

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other people become happy with him. Essentially, some kind of

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community so

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service by which people will remember you, by which people will

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remember you. Well, that was a very generous person, that person

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was a very

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sociable person, a very helpful person, and so on. That's, that's

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the whole purpose. What this hadith does, is that it gives us a

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reason to do things. It helps us focus why we're doing what we're

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doing, it can help to cut away some of the arrogance that may

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come by achieving many accolades, or many positions or

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certifications or qualifications in you know, various different

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fields. The other version of this narration, which is related by

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Muhammad, in that it mentions that the word the person loves him uses

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is that when Allah subhanaw taala, wishes well with somebody asset

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level, which is a very similar word to start motherhood, but the

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word acid also means something else. It means honey in Arabic. So

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it almost seems like he sweetens the deal for the person. Right?

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Almost as if the prophets of Allah ism is saying that, and the way to

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sweeten the deal for a person in any field that you're in, and it

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doesn't matter whether you're doing social work, whether you are

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working as a doctor, it doesn't matter. If you're doing it for the

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right sake, with the right things in mind, your deal will be sweet

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and your you will have an ulterior motive that will be more

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altruistic, as opposed to selfish. Right now, I know in England, the

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doctors don't make as much as the doctors do the physicians do in

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America. Now whether they stay in America for eight years, every

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single Indian Pakistani parents, it was a dream for them to have

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their children become doctor.

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And poor liar,

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doctors or lawyers, they made a particular doctor banana, liar,

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banana liar, you know, and I felt really sorry for some of these

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children, because I would go to university, meet with some of

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these old dead email and they say, Hey, I want to be a doctor. You

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know, I don't want to be a lawyer, I want to be something else, you

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know, I want to political science computer, you know,

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something to do with computers or whatever. Right? And I'm sure some

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of you are dealing with that dilemma. I don't think for a

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second, I don't think that compulsion to become a doctor is

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not such a big thing. Although I'm actually very happy that the

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majority of you are not becoming computer science majors. Because

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seriously, everywhere I go, what do you do computer science or

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accounting? And there are good things. We do need them. Right.

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But there's so many people who are doing that. That's the problem

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with that, is that, in a sense, that kind of dead end? Right,

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called the SEC kind of careers? And I'm really sorry if that's

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what you're in. But I don't mean it that way. Right?

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What I'm trying to say is that Muslims in this country need to

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stop just being consumers. Right? Letting other people make policies

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that effect them, because Muslims are in the media big time, or was

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it? What what's your favorite word? Massive? Right, in a massive

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way? Right? Yeah.

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Okay, our great chairperson.

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So

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the whole idea is that Muslims really need to start thinking that

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what fields do we need to go into that can be of benefit, not just

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to the Muslims, not just to oneself, but for everybody that we

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can be part of the dialogue? I think that's what's missing.

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Right. And I'm really happy that there's some level of this

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dialogue taking place here. Right. I was just very, you know,

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inspired and used by the Vice Chancellor and the prisoner of the

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gills remarks today, it seems like people are working together, it's

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really good. That kind of harmony is extremely important. But most

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of them just need to stop being consumers. They need to start

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becoming conscious contributors. They need to think ahead. So if

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you're going to become a physician, then think ahead and

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see if you can also go into ethics, because policies with

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regard to medicine are made by ethicists. Right? I remember when

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we published a book on birth control and abortion in Islam, and

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we were looking for an ethicist to write something for us. And

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everybody pointed me in the direction of University of Chicago

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was in America. And

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obviously, the person who, you know, was not a Muslim, right? I'm

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not saying you have to be in every place. But I'm saying I couldn't

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find somebody within the Muslim society that could that could do

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that for me. So we really need to start thinking about these things.

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Don't just toe the line. Don't just do what everybody else is

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doing. But think of what's going to be really beneficial. For

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example, a friend of mine, I mean, the last time that I came to

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Liverpool was Subhanallah, about probably at least 1012 years ago.

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And that was because a friend of mine was studying here was

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actually

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A colleague of Dr. Hudson, right. I just discovered today's

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colleague of Dr. Hansen, we, myself and him had memorized the

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Quran together. I've been very and that he came to do His medicine

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here. And that's, that's when I met him. Now one of the things

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that I remember him saying, I said, What are you studying, he

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says, what I'm studying medicine. But then what he did beyond that,

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is he took tropical medicine. And his focus for doing tropical

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medicine was so that

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he's just not a normal GP, but his intention was that I can go and

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help Muslims in their countries, and Muslims tend to be in tropical

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climates. So let me study tropical medicine with the intention that I

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can do something with my degree. That's, that's really important to

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think that way to think what more you can do. That's really

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important to think that way. Right? Because if you think that

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way, you'll be you'll have higher Hinman, you'll have higher

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aspiration, you'll be more successful because you've got a

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higher goal. For example, in the field that I come from one of our

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one of our teachers, he would say, aim to teach Sahil Bihari, which

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is the highest book in the curriculum aimed to teach that

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when you're studying as a student in the first year, second year,

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your aim should be that when I grew up when I finished when yet,

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when I graduate, I'm going to be teaching Buhari because even if

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you don't get to Buhari, you'll get halfway somewhere. But if your

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intention is that I'm just going to teach a little book here and

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there, then your your preparation, your focus, your work is going to

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be according to that. That's what you should hope for something

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really high. Now, if there are people among you who are forced

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into careers, by their parents that they don't really want to be

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in, right? Or don't even know why they're doing the career that

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they're in, even if there's not our first they just happen to be

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here. I spoke to one brother, right? And I said, What are you

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doing? So he says, you know, I'm doing whatever he was doing. And

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he said, I don't know how I got here, though, right? Like, you

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need a drive, you really need a drive, you need to know why you're

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doing what you're doing. You know, when you're studying you, you must

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have at least 10 ideas of what you're going to do after you

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graduate. All 10 will not materialize. But at least one or

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two, if you come out, and you don't really know. And you just

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kind of walk through the course, you know, and I don't know, I

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don't think Liverpool is a party school. But where I used to be in

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Santa Barbara, California, it was on the beach in California. That

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was a party school. So the parties would begin Thursday, Friday,

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Saturday, Sunday. And I don't think Liverpool is a place like

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that. Right? In Sharla. I'm sure there are party places, but you

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want to avoid that you want to avoid that's not what you're here

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for. Look, that's completely fine to go out with your friends and do

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something Hello. Right? I would suggest to you now because I've

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seen students who are just so into it, meaning just so into their

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work that they just don't know anything else. And sometimes they

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lose it. Right? So I don't suggest that that's all you do. But at the

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same time, you don't want to just do everything else except study or

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just 30 or exam times. You want to do the best that you can, because

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you wanted to be the best that you can. And you want to be able to

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contribute because you want to be part of this honey, let me take us

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back to a very simple example. I went to Egypt and to the to the

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museum, the Pharaonic Museum. Has anybody been to the museum, the

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Egyptian Museum of Antiquities, it's about 100 years old, built by

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the British with the pharaohs, and mummies and it's got everything in

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it. So it's about three floors. It's got everything in there from

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a needle that was used in that time, all the way to the chariots

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of the Pharaoh. I mean, it's all preserved. And when did Pharaoh

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live? Anybody know how many years ago?

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3000 is close 4000 I mean, don't teach history here.

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Anyway, 4000 years ago, 4000. That's 2000 years before Jesus

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decides. And we're 2000 years after that. So we're talking about

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4000 years ago, but everything's preserved or slave labor. Right by

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the baby is right. But what's the interesting thing there was that

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you then had to I think it was 14

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Egyptian pounds to get into the museum. And then I think it was 80

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or 90 to actually go into the mummy chamber, or the mummy room

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to see the mummies and so on Allah subhanaw taala says in that in the

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Quran, that we will give you respite with your body so that you

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will be a sign for the people after you and Ramses the second

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bedroom today are preserved. Right one of them was the pharaoh of

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during the time of Moses Musa Musa Islam peace be upon him. Now the

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interesting thing is this, this man had capability. That's what I

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want to get. Right? Why Pharaoh Pharaoh had capability. It takes

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some amount of ability to enslave a whole people and to think

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yourself as God. That's the negative aspect of it right now.

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In Arabic very interesting, the word for ability is Gharbi the

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and the root of that is Tov Birla

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right. So, he had cabine.

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However, he did not have

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another word that also comes from the same route to Boulia which

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means acceptance. And that is what we will aspire to give you another

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example, the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he gay

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he made a dua in the first initial period of Islam he made the DA O

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Allah support this Deen this religion through one of the two

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angles.

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And the two cameras that he was speaking about were both leaders

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of the Quraysh the Meccans both very able people individuals, one

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was

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Omar ignorant

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and the other one was Omer ignore ignatia. Again, Omar and Ahmed

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come from the same route as a neighbor it means to to inhabit to

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make a civilization This is very powerful, very powerful term that

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is and that's why Romans 10 years martial law with the Allah on he

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did what he did, I'm gonna read no he Xiang. His other name that you

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might know him by is Abuja. But in those days, he was called Abu

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HECM, the father or the father of judicial understanding, because he

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was very intellectual, especially in the judicial matters. So from

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that today, we know him as a Bucha, the father of ignorance,

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the prophets of Allah some said, Oh, Allah support this Deen

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strengthened in this thing with one of these two, both with Vidya.

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But who got the kuliah who receive the Kabuli, who received

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acceptance from our ignorant Hunter, not AmeriGlo. Hisham, he

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became a Bucha.

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Right now for us, right on a very practical level. You can be doing

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what you're doing. And you don't have to be the best student out

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there.

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You don't have to be the sharpest pencil in the box, as they say,

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right.

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But if you pray to Allah, and your intention is right, Allah will use

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us in some way. And that's what I was. That's what I want to talk

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about. Right? That's our focus today, especially for those who

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are starting, and those who are ongoing, who are progressing

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through the ranks, that we need to orient ourselves as to why we

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study, bring them out a praiseworthy motive for your

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study, a praiseworthy, sincere, objective and goal and intention

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and the same study that you're doing, which you're going to do

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anyway, with or without that intention, is just going to be

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augmented with the blessing of Allah subhanaw taala. You will

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have more Believe me, blessing comes from God, what is blessing?

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Right? A simple way to understand blessing is you know, when you've

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got a wallet full of money, and you're going shopping, let's just

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say you're going marriage, wedding shopping, right? So you go to an

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ER which you guys know for wedding shopping. Manchester, where's the

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famous strip of, you know, this ugly or whatnot? I'm sorry, what

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are this wedding stuff?

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All these red golden glitter? I mean, in London, we've got a

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number of places. I mean, what ways at least in North

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Oh, you guys are too far from getting married yet. Okay,

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whatever. So you go and you start shopping. Now, you're not really

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looking at how much you're spending, I'll get 20 rounds. Here

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you go. 50. Here you go. Here you go. And then after about two

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hours, you got all of these bags. And you think, wow, I've got a lot

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for the 350 pounds that I had in my wallet. Then you think me open

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the meat chicken. And now you check all you got 27 pounds left

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now you'd only have 27 pounds left. But until now it just seemed

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like you were able to get so much with your money. There's a hadith

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to that effect.

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Hurry Rhodiola Han was given a little bank right updates, a small

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bag of dates by the profit and loss. I mean, he said eat from it.

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So he would just keep it with him and just put his hand in. And he

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would take out dates and he would eat.

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And after a number of days he thought to himself, how many

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things are in this in this bag seems like an endless supply been

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eating for so many days. I mean, he doesn't finish there's still

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some dates in there. So he decided to actually open the bag and check

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and then there were only that number and then then they they

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depleted. Allah works behind the veil. Allah works behind the veil.

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Magic doesn't happen in this world like, hey, presto, you know, he

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just suddenly appears if Allah wants to give us something out of

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the ordinary extraordinary it will happen through something somebody

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will come and give you something. I give you an example.

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This is only you have to put your trust in God. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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give you some real life examples of people I know. There was a

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Brother Mohammed is a Moroccan student who used to be in another

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state before he was in California in my community and he

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until he, he tells me that when he was studying his father used to

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send him some money for his fees, tuition, and so on. And on one

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occasion, his father wasn't very wealthy from Morocco, trying to

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pay American fees, you know, foreign fees. It's not it's not

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cheap, he ran out, he had to get a job. And the thing is that he

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couldn't find any Hello job as such, the only thing that he could

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find, eventually it was a was a

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was a job in a gas station. Right gas station petrol station, right.

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That's what they call it. But it's sold liquor right now. And you

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know, as Muslims, we can't drink, we can't serve, we can't sell

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liquor. So he was like, can't take that job. Now, the thing is that

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in his situation where he was event, he was going to be

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homeless, in a sense, absolutely nothing. Right, there's no welfare

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system, there is a foreign student. So

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one of the local kind of knowledgeable people even told

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him, Look, it's fine for you to do that you're in that kind of

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situation, but he just held on, he kept praying to Allah, you know,

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eventually what happened, he got a job at the university, they

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offered him a job at something, when you get a job at the

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university, your fees are paid. So your fees are paid, which was his

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biggest concern. And then the salary that he was getting was

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over and beyond that, had he taken that job just a few days earlier,

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at the gas station, he would have been struggling with that just to

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face fees, he wouldn't have had anything much more than that.

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Allah wants to see how much you're willing to do. And our level of

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Tawakkol our level of reliance in him, this is a real life story.

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It's in doesn't necessarily, it's great, you know, the same thing

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doesn't have to happen to all of us. But something will happen if

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you place your trust in God. Another example, a friend of mine,

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again, who was in my community, he used to work for a, he does, he

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works for a software firm accounting software, niche niche.

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And he's been with them for a number of years, he's a very good

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employee of theirs and so on. And he had a mortgage on his house.

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Now interest based mortgage, he's been trying to come out of it for

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a number of years, I know, he's been trying to pay off as much as

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possible. So he doesn't have to involve himself in this user.

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Right? That, you know, we've had so much problems within the last

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several years, with the whole economy coming down because of

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the, you know, the leverage and so on. Anyway, so he wants to get

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himself out of this.

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He probably makes a decent amount, maybe, you know, $100,000, maybe

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more, I don't know. But he came to visit me two years ago. And he

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says, This is what happened.

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In Ramadan.

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I was really praying to Allah, that helped me really relieve me

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of this debt. Right, relieve me of this steps. And it just occurred

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to me one evening, one night, that you know, what, he came up with a

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crazy idea. And believe me.

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It was, I mean, when you hear it, he wrote an email to his manager

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to his boss of the company. He says,

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I know this sounds crazy or whatever. But, you know, this is

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what my proposal is, can you pay me for my whole year salary

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upfront, and then I will work for free for the next 12 months?

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So if that's $100,000, for example, can you pay me $100,000

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within the next week or two, because I've got a mortgage to pay

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off. And then I'll work for free for the rest of the 12 months

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fulfilling my contract, which boss is going to do that for you?

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Right, which boss is going to do that for your brother wouldn't do

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that for you? Right? You know, so I don't know, you know, Hola.

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Hola. Hola. So he writes his email, there's no harm in it. The

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worst he can say is no, he's not gonna throw him out of the

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company. Right. So the next morning, he goes to work.

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I don't even remember if you remember who he is, you know what

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his anticipation was. His boss meets him at the door. He says,

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you know, can see the finance department, we've got a proposal

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for you. We thought there must be something maybe they give me you

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know, 10,000, extra 20,000. Whatever. It goes to them. They

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said, Look, this is what we're going to do for you. We're going

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to give you your yearly salary upfront.

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That's all he had asked for. Right? He got it says dumbstruck

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already,

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your whole year salary upfront, then, for the next 12 months,

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we're going to give you 50% of your salary for the next two

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years, which will make up your next year's salary so that you're

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not without a salary for any of these months.

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So full salary upfront for this year, the next year salary cut

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distributed over the two years over the 24 months.

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This is something this is not out of. It is not our book. It's not

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mythical, believe me this is what happened. This is what he told me

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himself.

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What I'm trying to say is that as Muslims we call to a higher power

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we believe

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we are we are occasional lists, which means that everything

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that happens in this world, including a leaf that follows God

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is behind it. God is not a mundane entity, a passive entity. You

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know, some people believe that God, there is no God, then you've

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got those who believe in God, they some of them believe that God

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created everything, gave each thing its intrinsic ability to do

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what it does. And then he's taken a backseat. Out of those, some

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people would believe that God can interfere. And yet there are

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others who believe that God cannot interfere. But as Muslims, Wallah,

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yeah, who do who has the will. Now what are you know, when we just

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read the throne verse in the Quran, one of the most powerful

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verses of the Quran tells you, Allah is in control of everything,

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every movement that takes place, and it doesn't. It's not, it

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doesn't wear him out, it doesn't tie him for us, we would think,

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well, let's delegate, we get more work done before Allah, He can do

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countless and multiple things together at one any one time, and

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he can be permitting things to happen. That's just who God is.

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And we must not make him any less than that. We must not make him

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any less than that. And Allah subhanho wa Taala says, God says

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in a Divine narration. And in the Vani app dB,

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which means I am as the server thinks of me, I am as the servant

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thinks of me, which means that if you think God can do this for you,

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and your reliance is there, then it will happen. Now, that does I

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mean for higher things to be achieved? It does require a higher

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set of reliance, which needs to be learned. But for example, famous

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narration Harlequin Walid what the Allah one, how is he able to take

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that view of poison that was being offered and saying, I will drink

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this and nothing will happen to me. I'm not telling you to do that

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at home,

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alright, that requires a very high level of Dorko. To say, I can take

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this poison, nothing will happen and he drank it and nothing

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happens. Yet in other cases, if people are drinking poison, it

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will happen. Reliance is a Tawakkol is is is for example,

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Ibrahim alayhis salam, the Prophet Abraham, when he's being flung

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into the fire, the angels come to him. And they say,

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we can save you. We can do whatever you want, we're there for

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you. He says, God is watching me he can he'll take care of me.

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He doesn't listen to the angels his reliance is on God that God's

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watching me he'll deal with me the way he wants to. And thus God says

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good, important. Masala Miranda Ibrahim, become cool and a place

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of

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a place of peace and wellbeing. For Ibrahim, so he goes into the

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fire people think he is in the fire, but there's nothing

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happening to him in the fire. And that's our forefather Abraham

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forefather of the Jews, the Christians and the Muslims.

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But that requires a high level of tobacco, there are people who will

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come and ask or consult with the scholars about how much the local

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they should have, how much reliance they should have. And

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sometimes they will do a very high level of token I would know return

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that if you talk to these like Ibrahim alayhis salam, or they

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call it when we need them, fine, do it. But otherwise, if we are

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weak like myself, right, then we need to take the means of the

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world because that's what God has told us to do. Adopt the world,

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the means of the world. That's why they say tie your camera and then

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rely on Allah. That is the ThoughtBot for normal people that

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is relaxed to normal people. We can't say we're going to leave our

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camera here. We rely on Allah, we just walk away and then we find

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out he's not there. Yes, if you are like Abraham, Ibrahim Hassan,

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then maybe it will be there.

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But there is a level so we wasted learning. And that's what he was

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going back to.

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There are some of us, as I said, who are maybe not the sharpest in

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in this studies. But that doesn't mean that you must feel doomed.

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And this is an issue that I had, you know when with my colleagues,

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and I think back and I feel sorry that there were a number who just

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didn't

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do well in exams. So then it almost psychologically affected

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them to make them feel that way. Nothing. were useless. So they

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were just mess around and pass through the course. And I think

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that is just such a waste. Because even if you don't do well in your

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studies,

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you can do well otherwise you mustn't become a slob.

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Just because you can't do something. Ask Allah. And this

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hadith is general it's for anybody. It's not just for the

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scholars. It's for anybody there was a there was an individual in

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Leicester. We used to be very,

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we used to be very helpful to people. Right in terms of wherever

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people needed help, he will be there, which is well known for

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that just totally selfless kind of person. When he died, he was not a

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scholar of any sort. Right and of any qualified

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He was in, you know, he didn't have any certifications in

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anything, he was just a good guy, the amount of people that turned

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out to his funeral when he died, right was as though a Greek

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scholar had died. I mean, for what, since you understand what

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that means that when number of people come to your janazah, to

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your funeral, it means you're accepted to a certain degree,

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because that's how many people are praying for you. That's how many

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people are praying for Your forgiveness when you're going to

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the other world, because as much as we're very connected to the

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other world, but while we're in this world, we don't want to waste

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his time away. Right? We don't want to waste his time away.

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Finally, the poem that I read, and I would assume that most of us fit

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into this category, right of youth, it's all about youth.

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Right? Now, according to ignore Josie, about the model, the

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buckden scholar urban foraging and Josie says that youth is from your

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teenage years to when you're about 33. So I've just made you younger,

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right? So until 33. Now, that's the age of youth, then you get

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into middle age. Okay.

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It says at this point, it says either bonneval fatta, actually

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Nirman. If a young if a youth reaches the age of 21, just the

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whole the whole philosophy

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and he is not able to achieve anything to be proud about, then

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after that he won't be able to achieve anything. It's not an

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absolute statement, but it's a sign that you achieved the most

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during your days of youth, for example, people have heard of EPI

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center, the famous so called Muslim philosopher, Agustina IV

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center, right?

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He was from both and which is in currently Afghanistan, but he

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traveled the trans ox area. He says that everything that he

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studied, he's a celebrated scholar in the west today, right for, you

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know, as a philosopher, right with the likes of

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will you call it

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as somebody who redefined reconcilable Aristotelian and

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platonic philosophies and so on? Right? He says that I had studied

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everything that was of substance to me by the age of 18.

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Anything that I used in my life later, that was of some substance,

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I had studied all of those things by the age of 80. Some of us are

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just starting at the age of 80.

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Now, the reason why youth is just such a important part, right? The

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problem is, there's a saying, in Arabic, a Shabbat was short, but

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to middle June,

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right? A Shabbat was short, but to middle June, youth is a degree of

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insanity.

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Right? What does that mean? It means that when we become youth,

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we've suddenly developed our own minds. So now we start looking

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down upon our parents, especially if they're from back home. Right?

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Well, where's back home? Yeah. But especially if they don't speak the

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same way we do. So we start looking down upon them, we start

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thinking, they don't know anything. We know everything.

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We're on Facebook, they're not. All right. We're on Twitter,

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they're not. Now think of this hadith. There's a hadith of the

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prophets of Allah. I'm digressing slightly. There's a Hadith of the

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Prophet sallallahu sallam, which says,

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before the Day of Judgment, a time will come. And it's a sign of the

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Day of Judgment, that people will distance their parents and bring

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close their friends. I read that hadith. And then

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one thing that I understand from that is you're sitting in your

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living room, your mom and dad are there, your brothers are all

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there. And all the brothers and sisters, they're on their phones,

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or laptops, or pads. And they're talking to their friends all over

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the world. And the father sitting right next to them, but they're in

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a different world. Despite the physical closeness, they are so

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far apart. And this is 24/7.

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Now, I guarantee you this has become such a big problem. That

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glad that there's not much light here and it's all on. It's all

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here. But

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how many of you have not touched their phone at all to check their

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email, an update on their Twitter? Or an update on the

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Facebook page? How many of you have done that?

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have not checked in the time that we've been here. Okay, that's one.

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I'm glad is the vice chancellor.

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Anybody else?

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I mean, unless you're just very humbling. Someone put your hand

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up. There's about five people here. That's her. The rest of us

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are checking in. Why are we waiting for an important call out

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we're waiting for an important update. Like get out of here? In

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Sharla? Nope.

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Right

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Sharla that's just a joke, right? So it's just such an addiction.

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And if that encroaches on our studies that we're studying that,

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I mean, I'm going somewhere else. But believe me, what it is, is

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that if you're working, and you check your phone, your stream of

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understanding and comprehension will be disturbed. So although it

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just takes three seconds, five seconds to check your phone, it'll

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actually take you another 30 or 40 seconds to get back on track.

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Right, it's like you're driving. And you see something, if you just

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stop to say, hi, it will take you that much of you only saying hi

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for two seconds, but then it will take you so much longer to carry

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on, we must minimize our distractions. We use these things,

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we're not saying a ban of Facebook, we were saying use them.

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They're just a new facility and new way of communication. But

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there's other that we need to have with these things. You know,

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there's other binnorie universal laws and told us these other for

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example, a professor Morrison said that I don't want you guys sitting

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on the streets, because people are passing by, you know, you're

00:36:04 --> 00:36:07

looking at them, there's women are passing by, but I don't want you

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

to sit around on the streets and talk.

00:36:10 --> 00:36:12

The Sahaba said to him, you know, it's necessary for us to have

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these gatherings, that's where we exchange ideas, that's where we

00:36:14 --> 00:36:17

speak and sit in the province. And a lot of them said fine, I

00:36:17 --> 00:36:20

understand that. But there are certain rights that you must

00:36:20 --> 00:36:26

fulfill, which is keep your cases down, you know, give the right of

00:36:26 --> 00:36:29

the streets. So he gave them certain other the same thing will

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apply now to your Facebook and everything else that we use, you

00:36:33 --> 00:36:37

use it but do not become obsessed with it such that it encroaches on

00:36:37 --> 00:36:40

your studies, and it makes you less than what you could have

00:36:40 --> 00:36:44

been, because then believe me, I would love to go back and study a

00:36:44 --> 00:36:48

number of different subjects that I missed out. Right. Another thing

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is

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

waste speaking about Baraka blessing.

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This is just some simple advice on a personal level that I have

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benefited from.

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If especially if you're I mean this will benefit both those who

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are very studious, they have all the you know, this wants to just

00:37:07 --> 00:37:12

fully study, right in a good way. And also those who are not

00:37:12 --> 00:37:16

studying to write they're not focusing, what we need to do is we

00:37:16 --> 00:37:20

need to spend time for Allah subhanaw taala, which means we've

00:37:20 --> 00:37:22

pray off a daily press that will

00:37:23 --> 00:37:27

keep us Morrow, it will keep us connected to spirituality. And

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

spirituality is extremely important. What one scholar says

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is that if you have a very intellectual mind, a very fiery

00:37:35 --> 00:37:40

mind, you need a generous and compassionate heart to balance

00:37:40 --> 00:37:44

that smartness that you have in your head. Otherwise, it will lead

00:37:44 --> 00:37:48

to arrogance. Think about it. Somebody who is just so arrogant,

00:37:48 --> 00:37:51

when he walks in the room, he thinks he's the best out there

00:37:51 --> 00:37:54

that he knows more than anybody else. So self conceited. If he

00:37:54 --> 00:37:57

doesn't have a heart of compassion, humility, then that's

00:37:57 --> 00:38:01

not going to be balanced. You need to balance both the mind and the

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

heart. And it's extremely important. And the way we do that

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

is to learn the arc of our forbearers and approximate love

00:38:07 --> 00:38:11

while yourself and to spend some time doing thicker and remembrance

00:38:11 --> 00:38:14

of Allah subhanho wa taala. I give you an example. There was a

00:38:14 --> 00:38:19

student in our madrasa in our seminary, a very studious student,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

I mean, didn't play football or anything like that. It was just

00:38:21 --> 00:38:24

always studying, you know, a very smart student, there's always

00:38:24 --> 00:38:25

study.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

There used to be a gathering of vigor of remembrance that used to

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take place in the madrasa and he would avoid that he would go, he

00:38:33 --> 00:38:36

would say that that waste half of my half an hour of my time, I'd

00:38:36 --> 00:38:39

rather be studying something in there. Alright, Tuesday, just a

00:38:39 --> 00:38:44

proper studio students. On one occasion, he decided to go.

00:38:46 --> 00:38:51

Right, he decided to go. And he sat there for half an hour, in the

00:38:51 --> 00:38:56

remembrance of God, half an hour for somebody who really values

00:38:56 --> 00:39:00

their time for studying is a is a big thing to do. Right? It's like

00:39:00 --> 00:39:03

saying half an hour without checking your email. I mean, how

00:39:03 --> 00:39:08

bad would that be? Right? So what he noticed though, was that in the

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

subsequent days, he carried on doing that for a week or so he

00:39:11 --> 00:39:15

found that he could get more accomplished in the day. In terms

00:39:15 --> 00:39:19

of his other work. I will tell you from personal when I went when I

00:39:19 --> 00:39:23

finished my spirit world, when I graduated my own started, I became

00:39:23 --> 00:39:26

an imam of the masjid in California, I found that I just

00:39:26 --> 00:39:30

didn't have any Baraka in time, any blessing in time thing that

00:39:30 --> 00:39:33

day was just whizzing past as the Hadith mentions that closing the

00:39:33 --> 00:39:35

Day of Judgment, that's what's going to happen anyway, I called

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one of my teachers. And essentially, he says, Look,

00:39:40 --> 00:39:44

time is in the hands of God, to make it seem like you've done a

00:39:44 --> 00:39:48

lot or that you've done less, it's in the hands of God. Give some

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

time to God he will open your time up for you. Remember these words

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these are the these are really powerful, believe me, that you

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give some time for God. Remembrance and it will add

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to your benefits, how is it possible that somebody like huzzah

00:40:04 --> 00:40:11

Ali, he died at the age of 55. And yet, he becomes such a celebrated

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

scholar that in Liverpool today we mentioned him and he was a scholar

00:40:13 --> 00:40:17

of bothered and Deus, which is in Iran today. And we're saying, May

00:40:17 --> 00:40:20

Allah forgive him. Because of the work that he did as being the

00:40:20 --> 00:40:24

proof of Islam and the work that he did. We look at Imam nawawi.

00:40:24 --> 00:40:27

And who hasn't heard of him unknowingly. He died at around the

00:40:27 --> 00:40:32

age of 40. And he wrote the Riyadh Saudi him, he wrote a commentary

00:40:32 --> 00:40:35

on Sahih Muslim, he wrote this huge works, he was only 14 When he

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passed away. And there are so many other examples, or whatever it is,

00:40:39 --> 00:40:43

the famous hadith is another example he died before he died

00:40:43 --> 00:40:48

around 14 or 15, as well. Allah make them Allah allowed them to do

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so much more in the short amount of time that they have because

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time is in the hands of Allah, squander your time away and you

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will see that it will just fly away and nothing will happen. And

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they say that you do citizen the day your time will just go. But if

00:41:02 --> 00:41:05

you spend some time for God, you will see the baraka and the

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

blessing in your time. You see the baraka and the blessing your time.

00:41:09 --> 00:41:09

And

00:41:11 --> 00:41:14

the other poet, the point that the point says,

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If you do not become a leader, which means if you don't gain

00:41:19 --> 00:41:22

leadership skills, if you don't become accomplished, if you don't

00:41:22 --> 00:41:26

get something, Lundestad feel a Orisha Bobby, if you don't achieve

00:41:26 --> 00:41:30

something during the nights of your youth, then fall asleep, the

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Mirage the back the hidden, then you will never achieve anything

00:41:34 --> 00:41:37

for as long as you live after that. Right? You know,

00:41:38 --> 00:41:41

hopefully for those of us who have squandered our this is a bit

00:41:42 --> 00:41:46

overly pessimistic, right. And inshallah it's not that bad. I

00:41:46 --> 00:41:49

mean, it's not a saying of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. But

00:41:49 --> 00:41:53

you understand what he's saying. He says, Well, Illa Shabaab. In

00:41:53 --> 00:41:57

fact, he says, that isn't the major part of your time, your

00:41:57 --> 00:42:02

youth in where you will really achieve your foundations and what

00:42:02 --> 00:42:05

you will eventually be who they have them in one atom, Helen,

00:42:05 --> 00:42:10

which means take your portion from it, make sure you use it well. And

00:42:10 --> 00:42:14

take advantage of it. And do not waste Do not leave it do not

00:42:14 --> 00:42:17

procrastinate. And that is extremely important. Now, I want

00:42:17 --> 00:42:20

to just reiterate again, whether you're a good student, or not such

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

a clever student, Allah can open things up for you. I give you

00:42:23 --> 00:42:26

another example. And I know that I'm giving you these examples.

00:42:26 --> 00:42:31

That sounds difficult. But that's in our tradition. And, and I gave

00:42:31 --> 00:42:35

you examples of things that were recent, right that were seemed

00:42:35 --> 00:42:38

mythical, but they are off today. There's a great scholar called

00:42:38 --> 00:42:43

Lufthansa great theologian. Right? He was not the sharpest student in

00:42:43 --> 00:42:47

the class. And he would be in the class of out of the dinner eg.

00:42:48 --> 00:42:53

Right. And on one occasion, there was a very complex issue of

00:42:53 --> 00:42:57

theology that the teacher didn't even understand properly. So he'd

00:42:57 --> 00:43:00

come to the class, but he hadn't understood it properly. And he

00:43:00 --> 00:43:04

explained it somewhat. And then he said, has anybody understood it?

00:43:04 --> 00:43:09

Now, this particular student suddenly puts his hand up and

00:43:09 --> 00:43:13

says, I know it. And they will looked at, can you imagine like,

00:43:13 --> 00:43:17

the guy in the closet never says anything? He's like, I know it,

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

you know, what, what are you going to think? Like? What's he going to

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

look at? You know, what does he know? And this is the teacher

00:43:22 --> 00:43:26

said, Fine, explain. And he gave such an exposition

00:43:27 --> 00:43:32

that clarified everything, even in the mind of the teacher. So the

00:43:32 --> 00:43:35

explanation was sufficient even for the teacher, they asked what

00:43:35 --> 00:43:39

happened to and this is what happens. And again, it sounds out

00:43:39 --> 00:43:43

of the world. But he says, Last night, I had a dream of Rasulullah

00:43:43 --> 00:43:46

sallallahu is Allah, the Prophet Muhammad salah, some I saw him in

00:43:46 --> 00:43:52

my dream. And he put some of his saliva onto my, onto my tank. And

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

he says, You will be cured now.

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And the next day I woke up, I started reading this stuff, and

00:43:58 --> 00:43:59

God just opened it up for me.

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And I could understand the reason, because at the end of the day,

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

there are definitely people who are smarter than others. There are

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10

definitely people who can retain things faster than others, but who

00:44:10 --> 00:44:13

makes them like that? We might say genetics, but who makes the genes

00:44:13 --> 00:44:17

that way? Who's behind it, we have to always go back to the source,

00:44:17 --> 00:44:23

which is God. So essentially, God can change things around. Right?

00:44:23 --> 00:44:26

And who's there to who's there to deny that that's the person's

00:44:26 --> 00:44:29

experience. We can't deny that person's experience. I'm not going

00:44:29 --> 00:44:33

to say that I'm it's going to happen to me. But it can happen to

00:44:33 --> 00:44:36

somebody and you must have your reliance on Allah subhanaw taala

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38

and that is what that is what's important

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

to things, another thing, which is very detrimental is disputes.

00:44:49 --> 00:44:54

You want to stick with your Muslim society. Right? Firstly,

00:44:55 --> 00:44:59

you know, there may be other societies out there that people

00:44:59 --> 00:44:59

might want to join

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

mean just, you know for the Bhangra music or something like

00:45:03 --> 00:45:03

that.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:08

Take it easy. That's not what you're here for the benefit of the

00:45:08 --> 00:45:11

Muslim society in sha Allah, right? And I'm quite impressed by

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

what I've seen so far, right? Is that in sha Allah, it will help

00:45:14 --> 00:45:18

you. Right? Because they're very varied in what they do in terms of

00:45:18 --> 00:45:22

donations, and, you know, collections, fundraising, and

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

everything else. I'm hearing some really good things. And it seems

00:45:24 --> 00:45:28

like it's a great thing. So I would really, I would really

00:45:28 --> 00:45:31

impress upon you that you really take benefit of this. There are

00:45:31 --> 00:45:36

some people I went to one program in, in Arizona, and this sister

00:45:36 --> 00:45:40

comes up. And literally, she says that this is the place where I'm

00:45:40 --> 00:45:44

first learning about my religion, because her father was a doctor in

00:45:44 --> 00:45:47

some community where there were no other Muslims. And he was the only

00:45:47 --> 00:45:52

guy in town. Right? The American Pakistani doctor, right. Dr. Hahn?

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55

Dr. Hussain, every university has one, sorry, every hospital has one

00:45:55 --> 00:45:59

a doctor hire a doctor will say, all right. So first time she's

00:45:59 --> 00:45:59

learning.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:03

But what you don't want is you don't want disputes disputes,

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

where you waste a lot of money, you know, to get on with this

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

section or that faction. I mean, from what I see of the Muslim

00:46:10 --> 00:46:13

organization here, they seem to be very comprehensive in in their

00:46:13 --> 00:46:18

selection in their pool of people that they bring on, right, we just

00:46:18 --> 00:46:21

don't want to become a person of dispute where we start thinking

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

we're on the Absolute Truth, and everybody else is in the hellfire.

00:46:25 --> 00:46:29

That is a very dangerous way of looking at things. Right? It

00:46:29 --> 00:46:32

culminates eventually into some of the worst things that we've seen

00:46:32 --> 00:46:34

happen around the world for us, which have not been a benefit to

00:46:34 --> 00:46:39

the Muslims. It's only made it difficult for Muslims to travel

00:46:39 --> 00:46:43

and to do things. It's made people, not people hate them, and

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46

so on, we need to be really careful about those kinds of

00:46:46 --> 00:46:48

things, right, we need to be really careful about those kinds

00:46:48 --> 00:46:52

of things. There is a way to invite people, there is a way to

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

strive for your religion. And you need to get that understanding

00:46:55 --> 00:46:59

from the qualified and reliable scholarship. And you don't take it

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

from just people who are just hyped up, right, because a lot of

00:47:02 --> 00:47:06

it is just hype. And that's really unfortunate. We need to have a

00:47:06 --> 00:47:09

measured way. For example, recently, we had the whole fiasco

00:47:09 --> 00:47:14

with the images, sorry, with the with the the depiction of the

00:47:14 --> 00:47:18

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam in the ugly movie.

00:47:19 --> 00:47:22

If we hadn't run onto the streets and made such a big deal out of

00:47:22 --> 00:47:25

it, then maybe the guy who made it and a few of his friends who would

00:47:25 --> 00:47:27

have known about it, and nobody else would have known about it.

00:47:28 --> 00:47:30

But the worst part of it is that this is not the first time it's

00:47:30 --> 00:47:34

happened. We've had the cartoons just a few years ago, we've had

00:47:34 --> 00:47:37

the Rushdie affair before that. We're never going to Weizen up.

00:47:37 --> 00:47:42

Why can't we focus on for example, lobbying the UN, and lobbying the

00:47:42 --> 00:47:46

government to make it a to make an anti Blasphemy Law, just like we

00:47:46 --> 00:47:51

haven't a Holocaust denial, law in place? Why can we be intelligent

00:47:51 --> 00:47:55

about these things? And just be reactionary instead? Why can't we

00:47:55 --> 00:47:57

be proactive? And that's why I'm saying that people who are going

00:47:57 --> 00:48:00

to be doing some people in universities, the students because

00:48:00 --> 00:48:03

they, you know, most of our parents who are sitting at home,

00:48:03 --> 00:48:06

if they're not professionals, they don't know how to do these things.

00:48:06 --> 00:48:09

It's the youth that need to do these things. It's the people who

00:48:09 --> 00:48:12

have studied that need to do these things. Right. So we need to have

00:48:12 --> 00:48:15

a proactive approach. We need to be doing these things before they

00:48:15 --> 00:48:18

happen, especially when we know they've happened 234 or five times

00:48:18 --> 00:48:21

before. Now it's all come down, we will go back to sleep.

00:48:22 --> 00:48:25

Right? So it's really important that we talk about these things

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

from beforehand. We need to educate people about really

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

humongous and Larson was I give you my final story.

00:48:31 --> 00:48:35

Everybody's heard about most abnormal May. He was the *

00:48:35 --> 00:48:40

of maca. Makara. Right, who literally have anything he wanted.

00:48:40 --> 00:48:43

His parents are very rich and they really indulged him. He became a

00:48:43 --> 00:48:46

Muslim and his father and mother took everything away from him and

00:48:46 --> 00:48:50

locked him up. He escaped to Madina, Munawwara right to the

00:48:50 --> 00:48:55

city of Medina, his brother during the battle, his brother was

00:48:55 --> 00:48:59

captured up during the Battle of butter. And he's there among the

00:48:59 --> 00:49:02

prisoners. His brother was not a Muslim, his brother relates this

00:49:02 --> 00:49:05

which is related by IGNOU cathedra, in his opinion, when

00:49:05 --> 00:49:10

they hire from employees hug this generation, he says that

00:49:13 --> 00:49:17

his name was Aziz ignore homemade Hypno, Hashem was ignored by his

00:49:17 --> 00:49:20

brother. He says that I was one of the captives, and the Prophet

00:49:20 --> 00:49:24

Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam had told the Muslims who are looking

00:49:24 --> 00:49:28

after the captors, is those who beat him higher on, which means

00:49:28 --> 00:49:31

treat them well. These are prisoners of war, but he said

00:49:31 --> 00:49:35

treat them well. And look, that's very understandable. Because when

00:49:35 --> 00:49:37

you've got your prisoners that have been attacking you for so

00:49:37 --> 00:49:40

long, and now you've you've got the upper hand over them. You can

00:49:40 --> 00:49:45

just expect some people to maybe get really angry in New Zealand

00:49:45 --> 00:49:48

really do some really gruesome stuff like, unfortunately, the

00:49:48 --> 00:49:52

Americans and others have done in in these countries. Right and not

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

just a very good way to Syrians have hobbies. They've been doing

00:49:54 --> 00:49:57

the same thing, right? It's not just Americans who do this. It's

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

not just Israelis who do this. It's you got the

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

is a, you know, so called so called Muslims who do that as well

00:50:03 --> 00:50:06

to the other people and that's just just the human failing

00:50:06 --> 00:50:08

essentially, right? It's not necessarily restricted to any

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

religion. It's just the human failing. So the Prophet salallahu

00:50:11 --> 00:50:15

Salam said, it's those who beat him who treat them well treat them

00:50:15 --> 00:50:18

with excellence. Now they think, okay, fine, treat them with

00:50:18 --> 00:50:22

excellence. So we'll do a bit of excellence. You know how excellent

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

he was. This is the prisoner that is relating this, he says

00:50:26 --> 00:50:30

that when they would get the bread, the food, they would give

00:50:30 --> 00:50:34

us the food, because it was just a small supply, they would give us

00:50:34 --> 00:50:37

the food, and they would eat the dates instead of dates was like

00:50:37 --> 00:50:41

stable, that was just around, right? dates were everywhere. But

00:50:41 --> 00:50:44

food was something that was scarce, when they would get the

00:50:44 --> 00:50:48

food because the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu had advised them to

00:50:48 --> 00:50:53

treat the prisoners, well, they would give us the prisoners, the

00:50:53 --> 00:50:56

food, and they will be eating the dates. And I felt embarrassed. He

00:50:56 --> 00:51:00

said, I felt embarrassed, I would push the food back to them, and

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

they would push it back to me and they will not eat it.

00:51:03 --> 00:51:06

That is what you call the companions of the prophets, Allah

00:51:06 --> 00:51:09

lorrison them and that is what you call the instruction of the

00:51:09 --> 00:51:12

product. That's what you call mercy. But people don't know this.

00:51:12 --> 00:51:14

I guarantee you most of us here didn't even know this particular

00:51:14 --> 00:51:17

story. Right? It's it's related by Luca theme.

00:51:19 --> 00:51:23

This is what Muslims are about generosity. And this is what we

00:51:23 --> 00:51:24

need to be thinking about.

00:51:26 --> 00:51:29

Musa people who made he comes along, and he says he had time off

00:51:29 --> 00:51:32

properly. It's his brother, right? Time, a property. He's got a very

00:51:32 --> 00:51:36

rich mother, and she paid a lot to rents in him. Right? That was on

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

so we would always, you know, personal thing with his brother,

00:51:38 --> 00:51:42

but the others, they were like, we're going to treat them well.

00:51:42 --> 00:51:43

We're going to give them our food and we're going to say who would

00:51:43 --> 00:51:48

do that? I mean, others would eat in front of them, told them

00:51:49 --> 00:51:53

and this is not a made up story. Subhanallah but there are many

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

stories like this, and I end here my dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala

00:51:56 --> 00:52:00

is Allah use all of us for the service of his Deen? We don't

00:52:00 --> 00:52:03

know, each one of us has an ability. Some of us know those

00:52:03 --> 00:52:06

abilities that we have. Maybe we put up this that or the other and

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

some others don't even know because we've never looked for

00:52:08 --> 00:52:13

what we can do. Ask Allah Allah tofield ask Allah for ability. And

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

believe me, whatever you're studying, it will just become

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18

better it'll be enhanced. You will see that Allah will give you

00:52:18 --> 00:52:22

better in your time. Stick to some sort. You know your your prayers

00:52:22 --> 00:52:26

of the day, read a bit of Quran even if it's a page a day, you

00:52:26 --> 00:52:30

know, read some basic the species have a regimen of vicar, which

00:52:30 --> 00:52:34

means for example, 100 times a stuffy of Allah O Allah forgive me

00:52:34 --> 00:52:37

for the mistakes that we make each day. 100 times is too far. It

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literally takes a minute because you can do two in a second but

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just think over what you're saying. Then Salawat democratic

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socialism 100 times salat wa salam ala wai you send them along so the

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other Muhammad

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100 times and 100 times Subhan Allah Al Hamdulillah, Allahu

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Akbar, Allah when Allah to Allah heal it and Aleem. These are five

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of the most powerful formulas for medical right after the degree law

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in either law so you just read Subhan Allah he will hamdu Lillahi

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wa ala in Lahore, Allahu Allahu Allah what authority and they'll

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be laid out in only 100 times a day that will take about four or

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five minutes, but that's only five minutes of your day you do that

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and inshallah you will be spiritually infused. You won't be

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depressed in sha Allah. Anything that happens will not depress you

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will not make you down as such, and you will be able to take on

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whatever it happens. May Allah give a solid tool for you. Welcome

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to dharma nine in hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen. I'd really like to

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thank the organizers here and

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management for this great event. And may Allah make it a source of

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light and inspiration for everybody, you know, for the

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coming year. And may Allah give all of us success in our studies

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that we're doing, except this whole for the service of his team.

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In whichever way Allah subhanaw taala wants us working with

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me

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