Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – How to Benefit from Your Suffering [Hikam 105]

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the difficulties of suffering and overcoming the pandemic, including the importance of praying and not losing something. They also touch on the benefits of shayism and the need for understanding and acceptance of one's state of mind. The speakers emphasize the importance of learning from mistakes and working on one's own success, but also acknowledge the need for a mercy for the Affirmation treatment.

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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim
hamdulillah Hamden kefir on the
		
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			uban MOBA, confy Mobarak unnati,
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			Allah Jalla Jalla Allahu I'm
mineral, WA Salatu was Salam o
		
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			Allah say you will Habibollah
Mustafa SallAllahu Taala are they
		
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			who are the the wasafi about Rocco
was seldom at the Sleeman Kathira
		
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			Ira for the Quran Majeed well for
calling in Hamid, Allahu Allah you
		
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			will not mean
		
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			or call it Allah. Allahu Allah,
you Lavina Manu.
		
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			So the Kola hula Aleem.
		
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			hamdulillah Today we continue
		
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			on the HECM of a pinata Allah
Eskandari, his aphorisms, his
		
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			wisdoms, so, may Allah have mercy
on him he says.
		
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			Lee you have fifth?
		
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			LML Bella eirick l mocha Vienna
who Subhana who? Who will Mobley
		
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			luck. So really, really profound
idea. This is you have fifth LM l
		
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			Bella er Lake Elmo cabbie Anna who
Subhana who will Mobley like
		
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			Fernleigh the word gehad come in,
who will aka who will be I would
		
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			like to hustle str
		
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			faladi wa Jahad come in will
akkada who will be awarded
		
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			personal FTR
		
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			what does that mean? The first
part seems to be a bit more
		
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			simpler than the second part. What
he means is that to soften for you
		
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			the suffering of affliction.
		
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			He has taught you that he is the
one who causes the trials to come
		
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			upon you. So in the last session
in the last aphorism,
		
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			if not auto Allah had said, let's
start with a beaucoup aka Rima
		
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			doomed if he had hit Darfur in the
Hama, Abaza Illa, who was the
		
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			hukou was we have a vegetable
narrativa, which basically meant
		
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			so long as you are in this world,
don't be surprised that the
		
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			existence of sorrows for truly the
world manifests nothing but what
		
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			is in keeping with its character.
And its inevitable nature, the
		
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			nature of the world is to include
suffering. So now, he's going to
		
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			the next level. And he's saying,
I'm going to tell you a way to
		
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			soften the suffering. Firstly, you
needed to get your perspective,
		
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			right, which was that why is there
suffering, for you to even seek a
		
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			world without suffering. When we
say suffering is we're not when
		
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			we're not here to suffer. And
suffering is not our objective.
		
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			And when we do not actively cause
anybody to suffer, but suffering
		
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			will come. Even if it's something
as simple as losing someone, how
		
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			many people have been lost in
COVID, nearly everybody knows
		
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			somebody who's been either
afflicted, just afflicted or who
		
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			have either passed away, and if
not, through COVID through other
		
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			means that's a suffering.
		
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			That's a suffering on its own. So
even if you have a child or a
		
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			loved one, and they are traveling,
and you have to suffer them, you
		
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			know, when you miss them, the
departure, the being away from you
		
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			that's suffering. So suffering is
going to happen, but we don't
		
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			cause suffering, actively cause
suffering.
		
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			And we're not here to suffer. But
suffering is part of this. So he
		
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			got that perspective, right, that
they will be suffering. Now, the
		
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			second part he is saying is that
I'm going to try to make it easy
		
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			on you. And this is, obviously
he's doing this through his
		
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			experience. And this is all part
of his understanding of the
		
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			absolute the hate and oneness of
Allah subhanaw taala. I said, this
		
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			book is actually a book of Tawheed
once we understand it, because
		
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			he's saying, now you need to
understand why Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala sin suffering, and that will
then provide you some
		
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			facilitation, and some ease. And
hamdulillah Bring it on, you know,
		
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			because we know that suffering
will be inevitable difficulties
		
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			and setbacks, shortcomings will be
inevitable. And tests and trials
		
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			do happen. And we do face,
sometimes an uphill climb in doing
		
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			something. So anything that can
help us with that. That's
		
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			wonderful. And the reason I'm so
excited about it, is because I've
		
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			seen people who have kind of
realized this, and they just don't
		
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			have the same reaction, the same
negative reaction to a lot of
		
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			other people who don't know the
nature of what suffering is about
		
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			or what the purpose of it is about
and where it comes from. So if
		
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			not, I thought Allah may Allah
bless him. Rocky Mahala
		
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			is literally just telling us that
look, this all the suffering comes
		
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			from one source it comes from
Allah subhanaw taala. So that's
		
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			why he's saying to soften for you
the suffering of affliction. He
		
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			has taught you that he is the one
who causes the trials.
		
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			come upon you.
		
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			For the one who confronts you with
his decrees of fate is the same,
		
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			who has accustomed you to his good
choice. That's the second part.
		
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			This is aphorism Heckman number
105, which is on page 191 of the
		
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			commentary, page 191 of the
commentary, and it's hikma number
		
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			105. So with the second part, the
first part is quite simple that is
		
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			telling you that it comes from
Allah subhanaw taala. The second
		
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			part is saying that, just remember
that the one who's confronting you
		
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			with this decree of fate, like
whatever difficulties happened
		
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			happening to you, it's written, so
it's part of your fate. So he's
		
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			saying that this fate, so call
this fate call this decree call
		
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			this your Providence, right?
You're what Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			is this is all coming from the
same one who is also generally
		
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			normally accustomed to having a
for his good choice, which
		
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			basically means that aren't you
generally benefiting and having
		
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			gifts showered upon you, having
your the fact that we've even been
		
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			in we are even in this world, and
we have a Rob and a lord and he's
		
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			looking after us and our tarbiyah
is being done meaning Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala has brought us up
to the stage and allowed us to
		
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			benefit from this world and, and
and so on and so forth. He's the
		
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			same one, who is actually giving
you these difficulties, they're
		
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			not coming from two different
sources. It's not as if the good
		
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			comes from Allah. So then okay,
that's when we thank Allah and
		
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			when, when it's difficult, it's
coming from the shaytaan No, no,
		
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			not at all. Everything comes from
Allah. And Allah subhanaw. Taala
		
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			is the wise one. Allah subhanho wa
Taala knows exactly what he's
		
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			doing. Allah subhanaw taala has
already predetermined and decided
		
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			how everything is going to be
because based on his nature of
		
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			based on his knowledge of what he
knows about everybody, and then
		
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			his just absolute ability to make
a choice regarding everything. So
		
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			it's all coming from the same
place. Now, in other words, what
		
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			this is telling you is that the
only way for you to
		
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			have these difficulties be
lightened, and be tolerable and be
		
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			easy. And then not just that, it's
not just about tolerating them and
		
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			moving on, oh, okay, that's done,
and not getting anything out of
		
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			it. No, Allah subhanaw taala is a
lot more is a lot more profound
		
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			and generous than that he want, he
knows difficulties will come. He
		
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			wants us to tolerate them and deal
with them and have patience on
		
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			them. But then he wants them to be
rewarding. He wants them to be
		
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			rewarding for us. So this is
what's telling us that if you
		
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			correct your perspective, all the
difficulties, not only will you
		
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			learn to tolerate, and deal with
them, and surmount them, and
		
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			overcome them and leave them
behind, but you'll actually be
		
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			able to take a lot of
		
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			a lot of spoils of war, a lot of
good, a lot of reward you can
		
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			carry out of it. So when you
started, the difficulty suddenly
		
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			came upon you, you only had a
certain amount of rewards, good
		
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			deeds, status with Allah. And if
you deal with this mountain that's
		
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			about that you're about to climb
that you're about to ascend, that
		
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			you need to cross.
		
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			If you do it right, the right
perspective, then when you get
		
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			over the top, and you get to the
other side, you'll be much better
		
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			off, you'll have greater rewards,
you'll have more deeds to your
		
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			name, you will be higher up and be
closer to Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			That's what Allah is telling us at
once you recognize where this is
		
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			coming from. And that is all
coming from Allah. And he has a
		
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			purpose and my job and I've got a
responsibility here. So that's the
		
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			thing. It's about knowing the
responsibility. So there's
		
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			actually humans have a
responsibility, when we have good
		
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			in our lives. And we also have a
responsibility. When we have
		
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			difficulties in our life. It's not
like when you're in Islam, even
		
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			when you're sick, you still have a
responsibility. We have
		
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			responsibilities to our body, that
we are going to try to find some
		
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			kind of cure, or we're going to
try to take some precautions. So
		
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			when you're when you're sick, and
Ill, you know, you don't want to
		
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			be meeting people like in the
whole COVID thing. You have to
		
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			take those precautions in every
state so that we have we have
		
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			responsibilities. You know, we are
responsible beings, we're called
		
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			McAuliffe. Right. The conservator
Cliff has mentioned the Quran that
		
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			you can live with love and gifts
and he loves Allah. Allah has made
		
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			us responsible by being human
beings, the highest of all
		
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			creation. Well look at Corona,
Benny Adam, being able to
		
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			subjugate other and weak that
comes with responsibilities being
		
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			a vice John khalifa to lie, fill
out the vice urine of Allah on
		
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			this earth,
		
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			specially selected by Allah
subhanaw taala to be sent prophets
		
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			to
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala has chosen us
but that gives us
		
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			responsibilities. So when you're
sick, you're not just going to
		
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			give it all up. You still have
responsibilities we still have to
		
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			pray
		
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			As far as possible, the only time
you don't have to pray is if
		
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			you're completely paralyzed and
you can't move anything. That's
		
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			generally the situation or you're
sleeping for over 24 hours, then
		
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			meaning you're in a coma rather
for 24 hours not sleeping. If
		
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			you're in a coma for over 24
hours, then those five slots
		
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			become canceled on you. But
otherwise, we have to pray, we
		
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			still have responsibilities just
like we are respond to try to find
		
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			a cure and not afflict somebody
else, possibly.
		
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			So likewise, when we any
difficulty that any other
		
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			difficulty, which is not
necessarily a sickness, or an
		
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			illness, it's a loss of something.
		
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			It's just a parent who's
oppressing you.
		
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			This some people who are going
through oppressive oppression
		
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			through their parents. For years,
a guy called me is 31 years old,
		
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			and he's going through oppression
through his parents, I said,
		
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			You're I said, Where do you live
is that I still live with my
		
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			parents. So I said, Why don't you
move, I don't have the money to
		
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			move. I said, you're the loser. In
this case, you
		
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			as much to blame, you need to move
out, maintain relationship with
		
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			your parents with an oppressive
parent, because there are
		
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			unfortunately, there are
oppressive parents, unfortunately,
		
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			right, we can't discount that
idea. So they still respect to
		
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			parents. But that doesn't mean
that you need to be with them to
		
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			take the blows all the time, if
they don't really need you to be
		
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			serving them. That's a different
issue anyway. So go find another
		
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			place, work hard, and stop living
off them, write stop living off
		
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			them, and then keep saying that
they're oppressing you.
		
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			Go make your own life and be close
to them. And you'll see that your
		
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			life will improve that way.
		
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			So sometimes we bring on
difficulties to ourselves anyway.
		
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			So we have to obviously look at
that. But what this is saying
		
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			is that a URL in sun, human, you
know, when any kind of difficulty
		
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			reaches you, afflicts you, or any
other kind of test comes upon you.
		
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			Either in your body, in your
family, in your wealth.
		
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			Your car was stolen, or something,
car broke down, the engine packed
		
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			up, then this is maybe the
difficult part that remember, just
		
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			think who brought this upon you.
Like, are we being negative here?
		
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			We're trying to remember Allah as
the Allah is the one who's
		
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			afflicting you? Do we have to
remember Allah subhanaw taala like
		
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			that? No, the purpose of it is
different. It's not to say it's
		
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			Allah. So let's blame him. He's
the one who's doing all of these
		
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			things. That's not the idea.
That's not a believer.
		
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			That's completely the opposite.
		
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			Subhanallah you know, there are
people who have that kind of
		
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			awareness of Allah, that whenever
something wrong happens, they
		
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			think why Allah only be a jeep.
You know, there's some people who
		
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			don't remember at all. They, when
there's a difficulty, they like
		
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			trying to find out who can help
them. They don't think of Allah at
		
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			all. And then some people if they
do think of Allah, they think of
		
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			him negatively. Why me? Why did
Allah do this to me for why did he
		
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			cause me this suffering? Why is it
always me? That's pure shaytaan.
		
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			To try to break that link between
you and such, Have you never seen
		
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			where sometimes you've had this
idea that somebody did something
		
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			to you, and you put all of your
aggression against them, when you
		
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			actually discovered that it was
actually somebody else's person
		
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			had absolutely nothing to do with
this. This is just a massive plot
		
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			of shaytaan. To to spoil and
adulterate and corrupt your
		
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			relationship with Allah subhanho
wa taala. Know the awareness you
		
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			need about Allah subhanho wa
taala, that's going to be positive
		
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			is that look, this is Allah behind
this. And he is the kind of
		
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			generous one he's the
compassionate one he loves.
		
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			The believers, Allah looks after
the believers who Allahu Allah,
		
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			you will mean, Allah who will lead
you live in Ermanno. Allah takes
		
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			care of them. Allah is the rub.
That's his name, he does the
		
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			therapy, which means he looks
after them and nurtures them. How
		
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			can he do that to me, there's a
reason for it.
		
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			So
		
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			So now just remember first will
cause this to come upon you.
		
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			And then remember that Allah
subhanaw taala is Rahim. Allah is
		
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			merciful, He is compassionate. And
Allah has love and Allah has come
		
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			and ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala cares
for you.
		
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			Then after that, it's an exercise.
Once you think of it that way
		
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			positively like that, then you
will start to realize what benefit
		
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			there is in this difficulty.
		
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			That there may be some benefit
some gifts that are wrapped up in
		
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			this difficulty that comes upon
you.
		
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			As this is a way to understand
this.
		
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			This has if this didn't happen, I
would have done that instead. If
		
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			my car did not break down, I was
gonna go and do that and then
		
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			Alhamdulillah this was all averted
sometimes that will come later
		
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			that I, that realization will come
later. Now, if nothing else if you
		
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			can't see any big wisdom of an
aversion of a bigger calamity or
		
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			anything like that, that's fine.
		
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			At the least there are definitely
some things happening by defaults
		
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			if you got it right if you've got
the perspective right,
		
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			while I'm while I will Aamir Khan
Illa dot hero coming up Zulu, if
		
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			there was nothing else in it,
except just purifying you from
		
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			your sins, because one of the most
powerful purifiers like a steaming
		
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			machine or something like that is
sub in difficulty. One is Toba,
		
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			Toba repentance. And the other one
to get closer to Allah and to be
		
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			purified is just connecting with
Allah when a difficulty happens to
		
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			really show your your affinity,
your connection to Allah, that
		
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			creates purity from sin. That's
like a washing machine.
		
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			What am he so criminal or YouTube
and purifying you correcting you
		
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			from defects? How would you get
corrected from defects when you
		
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			have a difficulty? A lot of a lot
of In fact, there's a huge benefit
		
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			in that because your ego gets
		
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			injured. When people have
difficulties, they no longer those
		
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			proud and arrogant and self
confident narcissistic
		
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			individuals.
		
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			They realize their difficulty,
they realize their weakness, they
		
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			realize their vulnerability.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala is just
taking away what's going to be
		
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			harmful to you by making you think
and reflect and above that.
		
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			Another benefit is Dockery boo
caminhada, to Allah, Allah, who
		
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			you
		
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			he's making you closer to the one
who knows all of the unseen hands,
		
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			who is the most profound knower,
the omniscient one of all the
		
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			unseen things. So now you're
crossing this mountain, you're
		
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			crossing this ocean in front of
you, which is the difficulty you
		
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			have to get to the other side. But
Masha Allah, these are the
		
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			treasures you pick up on the way
purification from your sin.
		
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			Purification and correction,
reformation of your defects,
		
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			especially psychologic
		
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			spiritual defects. And number
three, bringing you closer to
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. If that was
all that you get out of
		
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			difficulties, isn't it sufficient?
Lukka that would be sufficient.
		
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			When people are playing fortnight,
they're picking up stuff to
		
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			survive. They get stronger, they
have to be revived. They have to
		
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			get on cabbage and stuff like
that. I don't know if some crazies
		
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			I watch it. I see some people
playing. It's a bit crazy. I don't
		
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			know if you guys play fortnight,
right and hamdulillah right? The
		
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			only thing good about it doesn't
have music. You can shut the music
		
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			off. That's a good advice. All
these other games are crazy,
		
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			right? So you're picking up stuff
in a lot of these games. It's
		
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			about picking up stuff and reward
and going over that's what it's
		
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			like humans love this to pick up
things on the way. Benefit on the
		
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			way. Here you are Allah subhanaw
taala puts the difficulty you have
		
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			to you have to deal with this now.
		
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			If only games that they created,
like fortnight or whatever could
		
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			actually teach you lessons in
life.
		
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			Why don't think I don't know why
anybody doesn't think that way,
		
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			though. Okay, make a game that has
lessons in life that can actually
		
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			teach you some real life lessons.
Problem with this, I know my kids
		
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			were playing this car game where
you bet, where you have to bash
		
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			the cars off or something like
that. So we're driving, like in
		
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			real life and like, just bash him
off. This is not the game. This is
		
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			not the game it's in it was on the
Nintendo Wii U or what's like
		
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			Sonic or something, right? It's
called. Like, That's not. That's
		
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			not the real life. So somehow,
unless somebody needs to think
		
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			about creating a game that's so
immersive, but has some real life,
		
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			positive benefits, otherwise, it's
a waste of time. It's a waste of
		
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			time.
		
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			There's a lot of people that keep
questioning why, you know, why are
		
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			we in this what you know, what can
Islam do? And these guys are, you
		
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			know, gaming people and these guys
are programmers and everything,
		
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			think right, think correctly,
		
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			and do something with the
expertise Allah subhanaw taala has
		
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			given you so the one who has now
confronted you, right, whose might
		
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			have confronted you with this
difficulty. He is the same one who
		
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			has given you all the things in
life is wrong coming from the same
		
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			source, the one who's confronted
you with all of these
		
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			difficulties. He is the same one
from whom comes all goodness, all
		
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			kindness, everything that you were
you eat, and you've done and
		
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			you've achieved and you enjoy this
world.
		
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			The one who is now bringing up and
confronting you with these
		
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			apparent difficulties
		
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			These apparent tests, he's the one
who also can shower you amidst all
		
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			of this with great goodness and
great gifts and benefits. That's
		
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			why there was a poet who says
		
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			they love the legal alarm or if
anthem asked me
		
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			the Hindi for here in the sauna.
What in terms the Hindi for here
		
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			in the sauna.
		
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			The hat can be Marta Hawa, who
fear for a nanny for Kieran, Liesl
		
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			Tonle Mahabharata.
		
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			Which basically means that pains
and difficulties and, and griefs,
		
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			they are a source of pleasure for
me when I know that you're the one
		
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			who is making me undergo them.
		
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			And if you're going to, if you're
going to test me, then that is
		
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			fine. I have many, many ways of
dealing with this
		
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			in many, many forms.
		
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			Because I am at the end of the
day, my job and my state is that
		
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			I'm basically I am the one who is
a fakir, who's the needy one who
		
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			has to be obedient to the master
of all love.
		
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			So that's our state with Allah
subhanaw taala Junaid Baghdadi
		
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			Rahim Allah. He said
		
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			that one day, I was sleeping close
to a city Zuccotti. Now these are
		
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			two of
		
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			these great aesthetics and Olia of
the past that pretty much
		
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			everybody recognizes their words
have just proliferated through all
		
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			the books after and everybody's
benefited from them in the path of
		
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			spirituality. So they're together
a study of circuitry. And Junaid
		
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			Al Baghdadi said I was sleeping
close to him
		
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			and then he woke me up. He woke me
up and he said to me Junaid, I've
		
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			just seen a dream. And I've seen
as though I'm standing in front of
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. And Allah
then addresses me and he says,
		
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			Sorry, I created people, I created
all creation.
		
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			And all of them claim to be
		
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			lovers, all of them claim my love.
So then what I did, they all
		
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			claimed my love. So I created the
dunya.
		
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			So nine tenths 90%
		
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			Run away
		
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			from my love.
		
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			Only 1/10 Willis, only 1/10 were
left. So then I created paradise.
		
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			And nine tenths of those that were
left of those 10% 9% Another 9% or
		
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			90% of the tip of that last 10%
They disappeared. How do you
		
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			disappear because of Paradise
because your focus becomes
		
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			paradise and not alive anymore,
which is another pitfall.
		
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			So I, I am left with he said
		
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			he's sending this to study
addressing studies. This is a
		
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			study of Socrates dream, Allah
subhanaw taala is giving him this
		
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			information. So now I've got this
1% left of the original 100%
		
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			So then, I afflicted them with
just an iota, an infinitesimally
		
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			small amount of difficulty and a
test. So now
		
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			another 90% disappeared.
		
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			This to art Shari Laroche. Shari
Laroche.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So then, whoever has now left,
which I forget what the
		
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			calculation is of those who are
left.
		
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			It is not you've not intended the
dunya and you didn't run to the
		
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			world. You didn't run to paradise
and just focused on the Acura in
		
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			that sense. And neither did you
run away from the test and
		
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			hellfire.
		
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			What do you want? Now? What what
are you guys, everybody else they
		
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			found something to run to and they
found some attraction? What is
		
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			wrong with you people? So they
said in Nikitina Monterey, do you
		
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			know exactly what we want? So then
Allah subhanaw taala said to them,
		
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			I'm going to cause
		
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			I'm going to cause to come upon
you
		
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			such difficulties and tests and
trials that will be to the amount
		
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			of your number of your lives. And
it is something that not even
		
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			mountains
		
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			huge, firmly grounded, firmly
settled mountains could confront.
		
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			Would you still be patient? Would
you still remain? So they said,
		
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			if it is you in Quinta, and
they'll move tele if you're the
		
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			one
		
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			who is going to be afflicting us
forever
		
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			I'll mash it, go ahead and do
whatever you want.
		
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			So then he said her hola eBuddy
How can these are my true
		
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			servants? Now that sets a very
high bar, let that not
		
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			make us despondent that we can't
reach that level, we're going to
		
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			try inshallah to reach that level.
		
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			And the way you start is that if
we can deal with more difficulties
		
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			than less so before if we would
just freak out with every little
		
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			test that comes in think it's
against us and and so on. We need
		
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			to start surmounting the smaller
ones the bigger ones and insha
		
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			Allah one day, it will come to a
time when you will be relaxed, you
		
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			will have some grief but it will
not make you freak out. If not I
		
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			Allah in another book of his he
says we're in the My your you know
		
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			whom Allah humbly come for
Tuberville if hum, what helps
		
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			these people, the same people, the
small minority of people or
		
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			whatever they are? What helps them
what helps them to deal with and
		
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			tolerate and overcome these
difficulties and see him in the
		
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			right way? Right? Is
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala has opened
the door of understanding for
		
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			them. That's what you need, you
need understanding. Right? You
		
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			need understanding all the
psychologists the therapist will
		
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			tell you when they deal with
people with weird mental issues,
		
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			they try to change their mind
their perspective, because a lot
		
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			of people have skewed their
perspective for different reasons
		
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			through trauma, to having bad
experiences, and so on and so
		
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			forth. So they try to get them to
think or write again and think
		
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			more positively. There's so many
books out there about thinking
		
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			positively thinking positively. So
that's what he's trying to do. So
		
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			he's saying in another word, you
could also say, Allah subhana wa
		
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			Tada
		
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			is strengthening them will
strengthen you on tolerating your
		
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			difficulties and tolerating your
your tests and
		
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			giving you gifts. You can say it
another way he says
		
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			that Allah subhanaw taala gets you
to understand
		
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			and comprehend
		
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			the various different
		
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			things that will happen in destiny
that this is all happening because
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala knows it's
happening.
		
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			And this is all the choice of
Allah, nothing is beyond the
		
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			choice of Allah. It's not shaytaan
doing this, it's, it's coming from
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. But shaytaan
can affect the way you think about
		
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			this. Also, Allah subhanho wa
Taala wants you to know that he
		
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			knows and he's aware of what's
happening to you. So that way, you
		
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			will understand that you're in
good hands when you know that the
		
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			difficulty is there must be a
reason for why Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala is doing this. Allah
subhanho wa Taala wants you to
		
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			know that if you are patient in
this, this will help you to get to
		
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			the next stage of being satisfied
with his decree, which is the
		
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			highest state. Allah subhanho wa
Taala also wants you to know that
		
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			if you if you do deal with these
difficulties in the correct way
		
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			and you have the right patience,
Allah subhanaw taala will give you
		
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			a lot more basura Allah will grant
you a lot more insight, you will
		
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			become a lot more wiser. And you
will know why things happen a lot
		
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			more than then being well like in
the past. And above all, Allah
		
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			subhanaw Eventually you will also
start seeing the benefits of why
		
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			these difficult comes,
difficulties come. So it's going
		
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			to have to be a progression as you
see. Right you will eventually
		
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			have to understand Understand,
Allah will open it up more and
		
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			more and more. But you have to get
ready to deal with these in the
		
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			way Allah subhanaw taala wants
them wants you to do it. That's
		
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			why the next aphorism here which
we're not going to look in detail
		
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			at today, it's for next time but
he says mon vana infy caca lotfy
		
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			and Kadri furtherly Kalia kusuda
NaVi. We'll look at that one next
		
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			time. Whoever supposes that
Allah's gentleness is separate
		
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			from his decree of fate, that when
he is challenging you in some way
		
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			when he's testing you in certain
way, whenever his decree is
		
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			occurring upon you, that that
doesn't have any of his gentleness
		
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			and compassion. Then anybody who
thinks like that is doing that out
		
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			of short sightedness. You just
haven't understood Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala. That's why the vicar of
Allah, repeating the name of Allah
		
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			thinking about Allah is going to
help us the difficulties of the
		
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			dunya. So I'm going to read to you
what Sheikh Abdullah Gringo, he
		
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			says, As a conclusion of this, in
commentary says, When you keep in
		
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			mind that the misfortunes that
befall you are from Allah Most
		
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			High, the worldly causes having
absolutely no significance in this
		
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			regard. Yes, it was that guy who
did it to you. It was that person
		
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			who smashed in your car. It was
that person who said this to you.
		
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			But remember behind all of that,
Allah subhanaw taala knows. So the
		
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			worldly causes have obviously no
significance in this regard. They
		
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			just tools. So don't put your
aggression against that person.
		
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			Right then
		
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			grief and sorrow will be lessened.
		
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			When you realize the bigger
picture, like, Okay, I understand
		
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			this, you will realize that the
being who has afflicted you with
		
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			the misfortunes is the same being
who has always acted for your
		
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			welfare in all your affairs until
now he looked after you, you just
		
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			come across a small difficulty. Or
maybe you've got more
		
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			difficulties, but there's been all
lots of good things that have
		
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			happened in your life, he has
always treated you with love and
		
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			kindness.
		
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			Now, of course, if there's a
person who has had so many
		
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			difficulties, probably because
they've been making some big
		
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			mistakes, and they're not dealing
with the right way, like I said,
		
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			there's a person who's stuck in
his house, and who is not willing
		
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			to stand on his own feet, even
though they're over 30 years old.
		
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			Right. And that's as much as I
know, maybe there's some other
		
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			reasons which I don't know, in
view of Allah's kind and loving
		
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			treatment in all your affairs, you
will understand that there most
		
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			certainly is some benefit for you
in the hardship. There's people,
		
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			they can't get married in 10
years, I can't get married, I
		
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			can't find the right person. You
need to really go to somebody and
		
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			think of the way you're looking at
this.
		
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			I just can't see why you can't get
married is it there's no women
		
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			around, there's no men around,
there's so many women men around,
		
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			it's just you've got some weird
way of looking at this. So go and
		
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			think, for yourself to change the
way you're looking at things. Go
		
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			and talk to somebody, somebody
more reasonable more, you know,
		
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			who's got some experience of why
do you think that is? What's my
		
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			perspective? You know, tell them
the options you didn't have? And
		
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			why you why you because I that's
where I was like, What options did
		
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			you have? So that was that, maybe
you're just being overly
		
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			sensitive. There's some people, I
can't get my daughter married,
		
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			that's just surmounting my head
for the last three, four years.
		
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			Either you're doing you're not
doing something the right way. But
		
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			you should definitely not be
grieving. That's a test from
		
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			Allah. Right? That's a test from
Allah, you need to be trying in
		
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			every way.
		
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			That's why our Mushrik they tell
us that, you know, I remember once
		
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			there was a difficult, there was a
project that I wanted to do, but
		
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			it was proving very difficult. So
the Sheikh said, Look, you just
		
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			carry on your efforts, you have to
carry on the efforts of the world
		
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			in the right way, in a intelligent
way, in a strategic way. But at
		
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			the same time, read husband,
Allahu Annette Milwaukee as well.
		
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			So don't just sit and read Hassan
Allah Who and Mr. luckyland Just
		
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			sit back and not do anything, or
do things in the wrong way. You
		
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			have to do things in the right
way. And sometimes, we may be
		
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			doing things in the wrong way for
many, many years, and we don't
		
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			realize it gone, ask somebody else
how they did it.
		
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			Get some help get somebody to
scrutinize the way we're doing
		
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			something, inshallah that will be
a benefit. So, in view of Allah's
		
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			kind of loving treatment in all
your affairs, you will understand
		
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			that the most certainly is some
benefit for you in the hardship.
		
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			While ostensibly the hardship
appears to be a misfortune. In
		
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			reality, it is for your benefit.
In fact, it is a mercy for you,
		
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			we've detailed all of that
already, that these are the
		
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			benefits that you get from the
rays of status purification
		
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			correction, when this knowledge
develops into a state in you. So
		
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			you see, all of this has to become
a state, not just something that
		
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			oh, man, I wish I that was the
difficulty I freaked out I
		
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			shouldn't have done that state
means that when it happens, that
		
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			is your organic and natural way
that you will deal with it, that
		
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			will only come with practice.
Right? That will only come with
		
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			practice. So when this knowledge
develops into a state in you, your
		
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			worry and grief will disappear.
Although the hardship will produce
		
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			pain, to your physical body, or to
your physical heart, so you will
		
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			be pained, you know, you may have
been wounded. So there will be
		
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			pain, right? There will be
difficulty that you have to get up
		
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			in the morning to go and take your
car to the mechanic on a Sunday
		
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			morning because you need it for
Monday. You need it, you need it
		
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			for Monday, there will be
difficulties not like it's all
		
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			going to be now okay? The angels
are going to come and sort
		
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			everything out for you. No, you
will still have to do it. But in
		
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			your heart, you will not freak
out, you will be very calm. That's
		
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			the benefit of this. Your
spiritual heart will become
		
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			contented and delighted. So we ask
Allah to do this, because I think
		
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			this is so profound, this is so
profound, so many people because
		
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			we're dealing with these, you
know, we're dealing with these
		
00:34:10 --> 00:34:14
			kinds of questions on a day to day
basis. Some people are just
		
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			miserable in their life,
especially during the COVID
		
00:34:17 --> 00:34:20
			because they just think that
everything is against them, Allah
		
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			does not love them. And it's all
about just correcting that idea to
		
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			look at things positively to
increase our remembrance of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa taala and
		
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			then
		
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			in sha Allah when this becomes a
state, the difficulty will happen
		
00:34:35 --> 00:34:38
			and immediately you will know what
to do not after you freak out and
		
00:34:38 --> 00:34:40
			then you talk to somebody said
when you should have been a bit
		
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			patient, yeah, no, I should have
been a bit patient, you will be
		
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			patient. So we ask Allah for Tofik
We ask Allah for Tofik Allah make
		
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			this easy for us. Allah opened
this up for us, Allah facilitate
		
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			this for us. It's not easy,
obviously for some people,
		
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			especially when it's been years
and years of trauma years and
		
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			years of difficulty. So may Allah
make it easy for us but you
		
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			That is the only thing that's
gonna get you out of this
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:06
			law Houma and the Scylla more I
mean consider multiple rock
		
00:35:07 --> 00:35:12
			jewelry very Quran Allah may call
you Mirotic and study Allahu Maya
		
00:35:12 --> 00:35:16
			Hannah and Yamuna and La ilaha
illa and Subhanak in condemning
		
00:35:16 --> 00:35:17
			Awali mean
		
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			Allahumma salli wa salam ala
Sayidina Muhammad wiener Ernie so
		
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			even more about equal Salam. You
have original hum oil cash if Alon
		
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			y'all are hamara he mean you're
here on Miss Olean where Hiral
		
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			Motrin
		
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			or hammer Rahimi rahimian Yeah,
they'll generally will Ekrem your
		
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			Medina Judy. Well, Karim, Allah
have mercy upon us. Forgive us, O
		
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			Allah purify us, of Allah correct
us, O Allah reform us of Allah
		
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			shower us with Your Mercy of Allah
shower us with your generosity of
		
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			Allah above all, grant us all
encompassing forgiveness for every
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:03
			misdeed we have committed, or
Allah the small and the large,
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:06
			those we have forgotten
especially. And those of course
		
00:36:06 --> 00:36:11
			that we remember, of Allah, but
especially those that are now part
		
00:36:11 --> 00:36:15
			of our life, and we no longer
consider them sins anymore. Give
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:18
			us the ability to extract
ourselves and extricate ourselves
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:23
			from these, Oh Allah, we asked you
for a life of purity and Dukkha we
		
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			asked you for a life of
understanding, a life of awareness
		
00:36:27 --> 00:36:30
			of you a life of correct
understanding of what happens in
		
00:36:30 --> 00:36:36
			this world, a life of basura a
life that is full of good a life
		
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			that is full of those things which
make you happy, oh Allah make us
		
00:36:40 --> 00:36:45
			the way you want us to be. Oh
Allah, we can't do this ourselves.
		
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			We try in the morning but we fail
by the evening. We start in the
		
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			evening we have failed by the
morning of Allah. If you do not
		
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			hold on to us if you do not grip
us. And if you do not stabilize us
		
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			or Allah, we will be destroyed of
Allah for you. It's just the
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:07
			decree. For us. It's a lie. It's a
life full of toil. It's our love
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:10
			for you. It's just the decree,
grab us by the four locks and
		
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			enter us into paradise. Enter us
into your satisfaction of Allah
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:18
			allow us to do those things which
satisfy you, make you obedient,
		
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			Beloved to us, of Allah make your
disobedience hated in our sight.
		
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			Oh Allah, this will help us, Oh
Allah, this will help us of Allah.
		
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			This is the way of the world that
when others need help, then
		
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			there's someone who assist them.
Oh Allah, we know you have every
		
00:37:32 --> 00:37:36
			power of Allah we have you have
every Mercy of Allah that you have
		
00:37:36 --> 00:37:39
			everything at your disposal of
Allah grant us assistance. So
		
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			Allah make us worthy of your
assistance, remove this pandemic
		
00:37:42 --> 00:37:45
			from us, oh Allah remove these
difficulties, this change in the
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:48
			world of Allah allow us to take
heed and a lesson from this, Oh
		
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			Allah, this huge mountain, this
huge ocean that we are having to
		
00:37:52 --> 00:37:56
			cross that we're having to
surmount, oh Allah allow us to
		
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			have the right tools and pick up
the right things on the way so
		
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			that when we come out of this, oh
Allah that we will be better than
		
00:38:04 --> 00:38:07
			when we entered it, of Allah when
we come out of this pandemic that
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:11
			will be better than we entered it
of Allah do not let us perish on
		
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			the way of Allah do not let us
perish on the way those who have
		
00:38:14 --> 00:38:18
			passed away of Allah those who
have departed from us, of Allah,
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:22
			we ask, we know that they've
departed exactly on the times that
		
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			were allotted for them. COVID was
just an excuse of Allah grant us.
		
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			Grant has beautiful patience of
Allah. Nearly everyone here knows
		
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			someone who has been afflicted or
who has passed away, or Allah
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:39
			grant us beautiful patients, or
Allah make us worthy, worthy,
		
00:38:39 --> 00:38:43
			worthy people that they have left
behind, so that we can be a source
		
00:38:43 --> 00:38:46
			of sadaqa jariya for them, Oh
Allah, your messenger SallAllahu
		
00:38:46 --> 00:38:49
			Sallam has told us that when
somebody dies, then their deeds
		
00:38:49 --> 00:38:53
			become stopped and suspended of
Allah. But there are a few things
		
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			that continue. And one of them is
a righteous son, who prays for
		
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			them. Oh Allah make us of those
righteous sons or righteous
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:05
			children, righteous relatives,
righteous friends, who will pray
		
00:39:05 --> 00:39:08
			for their friends who have been
deceived, pray for their family
		
00:39:08 --> 00:39:12
			members who have been deceased of
Allah and make it such that when
		
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			we die also that we have we have
inspired people to make dua for us
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:20
			we've left a legacy as well. Oh
Allah accept us for the service of
		
00:39:20 --> 00:39:24
			your deen of Allah makers keys for
goodness except our coming here
		
00:39:24 --> 00:39:27
			today and listening to this. I
know Allah Forgive our mistakes
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:29
			and shortcomings. Oh Allah send
you abundant blessings and our
		
00:39:29 --> 00:39:32
			messenger Muhammad sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, and grantors his
		
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			company in the hereafter Subhan
Allah because Allah is almost
		
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			saying I want him to rely on me