Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Evaluating the Health of Your Marriage

07 June 2024

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The speaker discusses the difficulty of finding out whether a person is healthy or needs to improve their relationship. They suggest testing and finding out whether a partner is upset or happy if a partner gets upset. This is a big problem in relationships.

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			and I've got one way to find out
whether you've got a healthy

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			marriage or not, or whether you
need to work on improving, simple,

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			simple test. Do you know what the
test is? Do you get upset if your

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			spouse gets upset? So if I'm
talking to the men, if your wife

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			gets upset, do you get upset that
she's upset if you get upset that

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			she's upset and it makes you
upset, then you will not get her

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			upset. And if she is upset, then
you will try to make her not

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			upset. That's a healthy
relationship. If you don't get

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			upset when she gets upset, or you
actually get happy if she gets

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			upset. And this is a big problem
in the marriage.