Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Evaluating the Health of Your Marriage
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The speaker discusses the difficulty of finding out whether a person is healthy or needs to improve their relationship. They suggest testing and finding out whether a partner is upset or happy if a partner gets upset. This is a big problem in relationships.
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and I've got one way to find out whether you've got a healthy
marriage or not, or whether you need to work on improving, simple,
simple test. Do you know what the test is? Do you get upset if your
spouse gets upset? So if I'm talking to the men, if your wife
gets upset, do you get upset that she's upset if you get upset that
she's upset and it makes you upset, then you will not get her
upset. And if she is upset, then you will try to make her not
upset. That's a healthy relationship. If you don't get
upset when she gets upset, or you actually get happy if she gets
upset. And this is a big problem in the marriage.