Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Don’t Trust Your Father

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses trusting someone's father and the importance of letting them know if they need to complain. They also mention that the father may be difficult to deal with in a situation where something is going to happen.

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			You know, how can you trust him?
It seems like a casual statement
		
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			to make by a wife about a husband.
You know, how can you trust the
		
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			Look at that? You know, he's
always saying that what does that
		
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			tell the children don't trust your
father, he's never going to be on
		
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			time for you. Even if that's the
case, do you have to make them do
		
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			you have to lose, you know, take
away their hope, right? Or things
		
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			like that.
		
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			Your father doesn't buy us
anything. You know, he's always
		
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			out with his friends. He may be
and that might be a reality. And I
		
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			can understand in that situation,
you know, you may want to
		
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			complain, but it's just about
trying to deal with that
		
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			situation. So complaints only when
necessary, and only to those who
		
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			might help. If you want to do it
to feel good, then complain in
		
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			front of Allah subhanaw taala
because that's when something's
		
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			going to happen. That's where
you're going to get something out
		
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			of it.