Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Dealing Nightmares

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The concept of bad dreams is discussed, with shay keywords being used to describe them as fear and desire. Shayteens are seen as a signal of fear and desire, and they can lead to feelings of anxiety and discomfort. Shaytan, a guy who wants to avoid pain, will focus on shaytan's
the way they live in a shaytan regime, go to sleep, and you'll live in a shaytan regime. Shaytan is going to focus on shaytan's
the way they live in a shaytan regime, go to sleep, and you'll live in a shaytan regime.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
hamdu Lillahi wa Salatu was Salam
		
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			ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi
wa sahbihi wa Baraka was the limit
		
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			the Sleeman the fear on Eli Yomi
Dean Amma ban
		
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			the issue of dreams it's something
which is make it something which
		
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			makes some people very happy. And
it's something which also causes a
		
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			lot of grief to other people.
		
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			The there are just so many people
that constantly become really, you
		
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			can say besotted really engrossed
in a particular dream. It then
		
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			makes them really paranoid. And
essentially what this is all about
		
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			is that this is normally to do
with nightmares. Now I want to
		
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			clarify something. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			and men and women, Allah will
Hello, Mina shaytaan.
		
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			Dreams are from ALLAH SubhanA, WA
Tada
		
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			and the hilum, which is a
particular type of dream, that
		
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			which causes fright, it's a
nightmare essentially, is from the
		
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			shaytaan. So first and foremost,
we understand that bad dreams are
		
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			from the shaytaan, though they are
from Allah subhanaw taala, because
		
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			Allah is the Creator of
everything. But specifically, when
		
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			a bad dream happens, the shaytaan
has got a lot to do with it.
		
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			You might think, why is it that
shaytaan or when you see a bad
		
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			dream, it could be related to
something that happened 10 years
		
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			ago, it could be something that
happened to when you were very
		
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			young, something that happened to
somebody that you know very well
		
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			that you love, for example, and it
could be just seen them in some
		
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			really bad states.
		
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			Not to say that any dream that
frightens you has to always be
		
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			from the shaytaan it could
actually be a message from Allah
		
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			subhanho wa taala, it could be
something else as well. But in
		
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			general, whenever we see a, a
dream that is considered to be
		
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			nightmarish, that is frightening,
it's going to be from the
		
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			shaytaan. Now you're wondering,
how is it possible for all of
		
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			these particular details, because
sometimes you in your dream,
		
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			you're recalling something that
happened so long ago, and it's got
		
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			a really bad twist to it.
		
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			With all these details come from
Well remember, every human being
		
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			has a shade bond with them, which
is designated for that particular
		
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			person from the beginning. From
the birth, Hadith, a Muslim speaks
		
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			about the shaytans being
designated with a human being when
		
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			a person does dhikr. The shaytaan
retreats comes back whatsoever in
		
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			hundreds everybody has the
shaytaan prophets of Allah Islam
		
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			said, I have the shade plan as
well, but mine has been subdued or
		
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			mine has become a Muslim. Right?
Mine has been overcome. But every
		
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			human being has a shaytan that
tells them to do bad things that
		
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			whispers
		
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			so having said that, it's not far
fetched to realize, you know, to
		
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			to understand now that these
really particular details that you
		
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			might see in your dream, the
shaytaan has been with you has
		
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			retained all of this information
he can bring in these bits of
		
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			information. Now, the thing is
that the shaytaan is quite
		
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			pathetic in the sense that if you
read our Altavilla administrate
		
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			Tanya regime, the shaytaan will
retreat.
		
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			As opposed to a very persistent
friend as such, like a human,
		
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			human Shavon when they want you to
do something you can be sitting
		
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			and reading are ultimately live in
a shape on your resume as many
		
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			times as you want. And they're not
going to retreat, they're going to
		
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			keep coming at you Oh, it's only
just do it once. You know you have
		
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			to be with me, come on, you can't
let me down. You can't do this.
		
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			You can't do that. But when it
comes to dreams, the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu sallam said one thing
very similar, very simple. He
		
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			said, spit likely to your left
three times when what that is
		
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			like,
		
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			right? Not like, you know, it's
not to, you know, muster up a lot
		
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			of saliva and like throw it up.
It's just an act a symbolic
		
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			gesture of degrading someone.
Right of floating, someone
		
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			repelling someone shaytaan says
turn around, go to sleep.
		
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			And subhanAllah you must have
realized you must have you may
		
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			have noticed this but dreams are
the fastest things to be
		
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			forgotten.
		
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			Because then there's no reality to
them as such. They just clear that
		
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			their imagination, just thoughts
and raw through our lamb. That's
		
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			what the king was told the king
the medic missile during term use
		
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			varicella when he saw this great
dream about what was to happen the
		
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			years of drought and the years of
prosperity. He was told by his
		
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			people who are not very good dream
interpreters at Allahu Allah Rama
		
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			nanometre.
		
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			will allow me behind me in the
hall for Allah Allahu Allah means
		
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			scattered thoughts. Scattered
thoughts means these are just
		
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			thoughts that you've been thinking
about in the last few days. And
		
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			now it's come in the form of a
dream. When when that happens,
		
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			people get really paranoid
Subhanallah and they start getting
		
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			really worried that I've seen in
my Drina Well, you've been
		
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			thinking about, you've been
besotted with this, just Altavilla
		
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			get out of it. So if it's a truly
an evil dream, that is from the
		
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			shaytaan anyway, otherwise, it's
clear that now when we say it's
		
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			completely from the shaytaan, when
we say that we were speaking about
		
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			something that you haven't really
been thinking about something 10
		
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			years old, and suddenly, you've
seen a bedroom, maybe you didn't
		
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			read your doors properly before
going to sleep, if you read your
		
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			doors, you will be protected more
from that. The other thing is that
		
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			it depends on the time that you
see the dream as well. Going I
		
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			mean, let's just finish off the
the one fact is that if you do see
		
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			a bad dream, literally the Promise
of Allah some said spit lightly to
		
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			your left, turn around and go to
sleep. Don't ever tell anybody
		
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			that is he? What happens sometimes
you see even a good dream, you may
		
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			see some really pious dream. And
by the end of the day, the details
		
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			of that, if you haven't said it to
anybody, if you haven't rehearsed
		
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			it to yourself, if you haven't
voiced it over yourself and kind
		
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			of written it down or anything
like that, details of that will
		
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			become really, really hazy. And
you'll start forgetting it. In one
		
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			or two days, it'll be totally
forgotten. You know, we forget
		
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			even things that happen in real
life in a few days, thanks to
		
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			forgetfulness. If it wasn't for
forgetfulness, as a human faculty,
		
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			can you believe it, that we would
have such such great problems,
		
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			because all of our losses would
constantly add up and our losses
		
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			will, will will be all combined.
And we'd feel as bad as we did the
		
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			day that it actually occurred. The
benefit of forgetfulness is that
		
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			we start getting used to it, we
start thinking about other things.
		
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			So we need to ignore it. Shaytan
is going to prey on us.
		
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			Shaytan is going to prey on us. If
we become frightened by it. Yes,
		
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			this is a guy, you know, when you
want to bother someone, right? You
		
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			know, when you're younger, you
want to just kind of mess around
		
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			with someone, you're normally not
going to pick on someone who
		
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			doesn't really care who's so laid
back, you can say whatever you
		
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			wanted, and they're just gonna sit
back and do nothing. Normally,
		
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			it's people who get irritated.
They're preyed on by bullies and
		
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			others, because they that the face
they make, the expressions that
		
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			they do, when they break down and
they start crying, then they
		
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			become emotionally affected by it,
that really bothers them. So,
		
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			people who are mean, they prey on
that kind of attitude, that kind
		
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			of mentality, that kind of
behavior. shaytaan is the same
		
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			thing. Shaytan finds a person that
is going to be able to frighten,
		
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			he's going to frighten him more
wants to frighten them to take
		
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			them away from the deen from piety
from trusting Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			I will be live in a shaytani
regime, go to sleep, inshallah
		
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			you'll overcome it. Now, if you've
already been engrossed in a dream,
		
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			and you've been frightened about
something for a few days, because
		
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			you've really built it up.
Obviously, it's going to take a
		
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			bit longer to come out of it, pray
to Allah subhanaw taala and try to
		
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			forget it. I mean, I get so many
emails, subhanAllah write so many
		
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			emails, it's about a dream. And I
have to say look, I don't
		
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			interpret dreams, but yours just
seems so clearly from the shape
		
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			and just our older Biller, just
try to forget it. It's very
		
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			difficult to forget it after a few
days, because you've been so
		
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			besotted, you've been going over
and over, you've told so many
		
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			different people, right? You've
been thinking about it, it'll take
		
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			a bit longer, but that will also
inshallah be removed.
		
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			So that is specifically to speak
about the bad dreams. If you see a
		
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			dream before Fajr, meaning around
future time, then those are most
		
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			likely going to be more true.
Because of Rosa Rosa said that in
		
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			a circle. route you have it as her
that the truest of dreams are seen
		
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			at that time. If it's seen
afterwards, in your extended
		
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			sleep, then the less likely to be
truthful. Having said that, it
		
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			doesn't mean that every dream you
see at Fajr time are going to be
		
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			definitely true. And that's
something you have to be really
		
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			concerned about. And so when you
see a good dream, then it's a good
		
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			idea if you want to to go and seek
a
		
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			interpretation for it. But again,
don't become so. So fixated by
		
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			your dreams that your whole life
is then run by your dreams. For
		
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			example, when you're doing
istikhara as well. You don't have
		
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			to necessarily see a dream. There
are people who until they don't
		
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			see a dream, then they'll think
that my istikhara is not complete.
		
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			I have to get somebody else to do
it. It's the horror and a dream
		
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			that there is not much of a
connection between the two in the
		
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			Hadith. Yes, some people do see a
dream. They see some glad tidings
		
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			about something or maybe maybe
they see something negative about
		
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			something they're making us the
horror about in their dreams, but
		
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			it's not necessary.
		
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			So don't become too indulgent talk
too engrossed too infatuated, and
		
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			paranoid when it comes to
especially the bad ones, because
		
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			the promise that was visited her
Lumo minute shaytaan are all the
		
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			bIllahi min ash shaytani regime,
and just pray to Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala to protect us from the
shaytaan. Because remember, she
		
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			knows everything about us from the
time that we were
		
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			from the time we were born, so
he's going to use that against us.
		
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			May Allah subhanaw taala protect
us from bad dreams and from the
		
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			shaytaan you know, even if you
wake up sweaty or whatever, it
		
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			doesn't matter, just older,
beloved Turner goes to sleep.
		
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			Don't tell don't tell it to
others. Once you start telling it
		
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			to others, you've just solidified
it, and shaytan is going to start
		
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			attacking you a bit more. There's
obviously then the fact that if
		
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			you see the promise of a loss in
your dream that's covered, you
		
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			know, different in a different
session anyway, just like a lot
		
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			later on.