Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Can’t Help Looking at Haram

You might say, well, he was looking at, well, people look, but

it's what you do afterwards. That's why the look, the first

look is forgiven is considered a sub, the Euro is considered a

minus in the first look, but it's when you perpetually do it. That's

when it's an issue. You might look all the time, you might glance

sorry, a glance may fall all the time. But those are as long as

it's not done purposely with the effects. I'm gonna go into some

because a lot surrounding let me look right, as long as it's not

for that reason. And it's just like a glance. I mean, how can you

avoid it today, especially in the summer, you can look up and you

can look down, you can't left look right, right or left.

You look up on this on you look down on this something else and

you look on the right, there's something you look left, there's

something else. Once I turned my gaze and I'm looking at the shop

window and is a reflection

would you do that's why there was some Tablighi Jamaat, they went to

Vienna, Austria, a friend of mine, and he says it was so difficult in

your in geometry being trying to be even more particular, and the

mistura Jamaats, but the women fall, they were another area of

trance that had to constantly have movement between the two. And he

said there was absolutely no way for us to avoid the bad guys. The

only way eventually was like we took a newspaper even though you

have to pick the right page, right? And you you're like reading

this as you're going on the tube.

But that's why it's been forgiven. If it's just a casual glance,

like, accidental, but then you look back Oh, that's nice look

back then then it becomes a problem.

And believe me, it's a struggle.

But there is only one way to remove it. One way to have some

kind of fortification, and with some some level is in at the end

of the day. If you're with friends you might not look if you're with

your parents you might not look you might be a bit behind or you

might look from the side of your eyes, which Allah subhanaw taala

speaks about the Quran says her initial Aryan the surreptitious

looks of the eyes he's talked about that in the Quran because he

knows it happens. The only way where you can kind of avoid your

gaze and not look and

you know have a bit more strength within you is by doing vicar of

Allah subhanaw taala and when I say dhikr of ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada

I don't mean just what do you call it? Ritual the speech just one

last one as well that that's going to give you a reward for every

display you do you get a reward in paradise, you get a tree in

paradise. What I found to be beneficial is a regimen of vicar

through a che because it's guided it gets you closer to Allah

subhanaw taala. You and the company of a of the Cydia cleaners

Allah says in the Quran Kulu Masada clean, be with the truth

when people there's a benefit, like the Sahaba got benefit,

there's a benefit. I'm telling you this from a personal perspective,

that there is a definite benefit in a sheikh who is there actively

helping you out you have access to them, and you can talk to them and

you fulfill the regimen there is a benefit doing zikr this maraca is

very powerful.

And I've got that I've given the very powerful that is if you've

got a point a * problem or whatever problem it is, these

are the things that will help you get through this time. It is very

important. And there are great rewards for this as you can read

insha Allah the rest of this, we don't have the time

to do this. But essentially what it mentions here, just quick

tidbits here, NIS half of shaytans army is desire. That's what he

uses. The other half of his army is anger.

So through anger he makes so many things happen. And through desire,

he makes the other half of things happen. Another thing that the

Prophet salallahu Salam is reported to have said although

this is of doubtful authenticity, is as either Karma The Kuru,

gradually, the hubba Furuta agree that when a person's when a man's

reproductive organ becomes aroused, two thirds of his actual

intellect goes, because then he doesn't really care as much about

honor, dignity, embarrassment, losing. It's just about that

immediate benefit as such the immediate pleasure to be gained

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