Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Can’t Help Looking at Haram
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The speaker discusses the benefits of not looking at people who look at them like they are a sub or minus. They also mention a book called Kulu Masada clean, which suggests that individuals can achieve immediate pleasure through their actions. The speaker emphasizes the importance of avoiding distractions and feelings of anxiety.
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You might say, well, he was looking at, well, people look, but
it's what you do afterwards. That's why the look, the first
look is forgiven is considered a sub, the Euro is considered a
minus in the first look, but it's when you perpetually do it. That's
when it's an issue. You might look all the time, you might glance
sorry, a glance may fall all the time. But those are as long as
it's not done purposely with the effects. I'm gonna go into some
because a lot surrounding let me look right, as long as it's not
for that reason. And it's just like a glance. I mean, how can you
avoid it today, especially in the summer, you can look up and you
can look down, you can't left look right, right or left.
You look up on this on you look down on this something else and
you look on the right, there's something you look left, there's
something else. Once I turned my gaze and I'm looking at the shop
window and is a reflection
would you do that's why there was some Tablighi Jamaat, they went to
Vienna, Austria, a friend of mine, and he says it was so difficult in
your in geometry being trying to be even more particular, and the
mistura Jamaats, but the women fall, they were another area of
trance that had to constantly have movement between the two. And he
said there was absolutely no way for us to avoid the bad guys. The
only way eventually was like we took a newspaper even though you
have to pick the right page, right? And you you're like reading
this as you're going on the tube.
But that's why it's been forgiven. If it's just a casual glance,
like, accidental, but then you look back Oh, that's nice look
back then then it becomes a problem.
And believe me, it's a struggle.
But there is only one way to remove it. One way to have some
kind of fortification, and with some some level is in at the end
of the day. If you're with friends you might not look if you're with
your parents you might not look you might be a bit behind or you
might look from the side of your eyes, which Allah subhanaw taala
speaks about the Quran says her initial Aryan the surreptitious
looks of the eyes he's talked about that in the Quran because he
knows it happens. The only way where you can kind of avoid your
gaze and not look and
you know have a bit more strength within you is by doing vicar of
Allah subhanaw taala and when I say dhikr of ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada
I don't mean just what do you call it? Ritual the speech just one
last one as well that that's going to give you a reward for every
display you do you get a reward in paradise, you get a tree in
paradise. What I found to be beneficial is a regimen of vicar
through a che because it's guided it gets you closer to Allah
subhanaw taala. You and the company of a of the Cydia cleaners
Allah says in the Quran Kulu Masada clean, be with the truth
when people there's a benefit, like the Sahaba got benefit,
there's a benefit. I'm telling you this from a personal perspective,
that there is a definite benefit in a sheikh who is there actively
helping you out you have access to them, and you can talk to them and
you fulfill the regimen there is a benefit doing zikr this maraca is
very powerful.
And I've got that I've given the very powerful that is if you've
got a point a * problem or whatever problem it is, these
are the things that will help you get through this time. It is very
important. And there are great rewards for this as you can read
insha Allah the rest of this, we don't have the time
to do this. But essentially what it mentions here, just quick
tidbits here, NIS half of shaytans army is desire. That's what he
uses. The other half of his army is anger.
So through anger he makes so many things happen. And through desire,
he makes the other half of things happen. Another thing that the
Prophet salallahu Salam is reported to have said although
this is of doubtful authenticity, is as either Karma The Kuru,
gradually, the hubba Furuta agree that when a person's when a man's
reproductive organ becomes aroused, two thirds of his actual
intellect goes, because then he doesn't really care as much about
honor, dignity, embarrassment, losing. It's just about that
immediate benefit as such the immediate pleasure to be gained
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