Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Buying a New Car

21 August 2023

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The speaker discusses their desire for a new car and their plans to test drive a model. They also mention their frustration with a spouse's lack of emotional expression and the potential sadness it could produce if they don't get attached to them. The speaker emphasizes the importance of getting emotionally attached to others in order to achieve their goals.

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			If I'm looking for a new car, and
I decided that I'm going to buy a

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			BMW two series, what happens I
didn't know much about that car.

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			But now that it's a candidate, I
will start learning more about it.

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			I'll go for a test drive, I asked
other owners about it, I'll check

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			online reviews. And slowly,
slowly, if it's worth it, then the

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			qualities of it will stand out,
and they will find the place in my

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			heart. That's why when you're
trying to buy a house or a car,

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			don't ever get emotionally
attached, because if you don't get

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it,

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			then you're going to be really
sad, likewise with a spouse,

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			because we get emotionally
attached, the only one that you

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			should be getting emotionally
attached with Allah and Rasulullah

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			because that's where that emotion
is going to produce something for

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			us, in this world in the
Hereafter. Only get emotionally

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			attached with them in that sense.
That's and then you can be

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			emotionally attached to anybody
else for their sake, but not for

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			anything else's sake on its own.