Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Boost Your Relationship a Love Bank Account Strategy

11 January 2024

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The speaker discusses how everyone does things over and above what is expected, and how deposits are made based on what is expected. They explain how a woman named Yvonne made her own meal and how she just made a special meal for herself. The speaker emphasizes that deposits are made based on what is expected and that people need to deplete from the love bank account to fix problems.

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So what is a love bank account?

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Everything you do over and above what is expected, what is the

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norm, you're depositing into the love bank account. So, for

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example, I actually make my wife's tea both times of the day. If I

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went and bought some flowers to her, how is she going to feel?

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It's going to feel really good, right? What I've just done is I've

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deposited into our love bank account, I'm gonna make you know

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this, I made this specially for you. But she went out of her way

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to make it I'm going to feel good. Right? So she's just deposited

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into the love bank account. Don comes into the picture immediately

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and tries to aggravate that and make it worse than it is just

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bought me some flowers the other day. She just made my special meal

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the other day, do you understand? So you will deplete from that your

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take from that love bank account when you have these issues and you

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need this

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