Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Being Thankful Could Possibly Change Your Future

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the diversity and similarities in the world, including people with certain disabilities and ways of thinking. They stress the importance of learning from one's own experiences and not repeating mistakes. They also discuss the challenges of working in a diverse society and the importance of gratitude and thanking oneself for one's actions. The speakers emphasize the need to work on one's own mistakes and to focus on the bounties rather than what they don't have. They also touch on the issue of sugar only coming from one or two people and how it is important to recognize and appreciate the bounties of Allah's.
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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim hamdulillah hamdulillah who want

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to start in the point of structural who are not going to be

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here when I taught karate when are all the villa in Manchuria and

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fusina? Women say Dr. Medina May Allah Allah medulla

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one shadow Allah Illa who the hula Sharika want to share the oneness

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a yes or no no learner Mohamed Abu Rasulullah sallallahu Derrida are

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they who are

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or satrapy of ARCA, are seldom at the Sleeman Kathira en la Yomi

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deen and McGarrett God Allah with the baraka with Terada, Philip

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Quran emoji the will for Colonial Hamid Maya Pharrell Allahu

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Berretta, become in Shackleton. And to McCann Allahu Shirkey, on

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Idema MyAccount Allahu be either become in Shackleton, mentum,

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Orca, and Allahu sharqiyah on Idema.

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This world is full of a great diversity, it's full of different

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situations. And that's actually what makes this world a kind of an

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interesting place to live in. Because everything if everything

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was just so predictable, and nothing stood up to chance or the

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coder of Allah subhanaw taala and the typical duck deer and the

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destiny, pre pre ordination from Allah subhanaw taala, then it

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would become quite

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a boring place to live in. So what we have is we have a lot of

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disparities in this world, we have a lot of if the Latin difference

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in this world, we have people who are rich, we have people who are

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poor, we have people who have certain disabilities, and we have

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yet other people who don't have disabilities. So we have a lot of

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diversity in this world. And that's actually the nature of the

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world. That's the way it is. And the sooner that people can

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acknowledge that, understand that take that as their worldview and

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within their worldview, then life in this world becomes easier to

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live in. When a person thinks that everything has to be perfect.

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That's when you get depression. Because when something goes

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against what you think how something should be, then that is

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when you start, there's a there's a difference between what you're

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seeing. And there's a difference between what you're feeling and

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desiring. And that is a very difficult thing to deal with.

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Because if you think that something should be a particular

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way, but it's not that way, then you can just see the kind of

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tension that's going to create in your life. So if we don't

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recognize that this world is going to have differences, ups and

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downs, ebbs and flows, problems, good times, prosperity, adversity,

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moments of thankfulness, moments of patience, then it's very hard

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for such a person to live here. And believe me, you know, from the

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questions that, you know, the discussions that we have with

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people, and a lot of the questions that come about from people, a lot

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of it is to do with this kind of situation. For example, recently,

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a sister, she said that a person she was, they were having some

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kind of communication with the family of a person that was

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interested in marrying her. And it took a bit long, but the person

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had said that he is going to, despite the complications he's

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going to wait to, to marry her. And then she didn't hear back from

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him for a while. And then after that, she discovered through

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another source that he'd already been married elsewhere, that he's

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already married elsewhere. And this really, really hurt her a

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lot. Well, number one, so she wants now to be she's feeling

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really bad, and her arguments are. But that's so bad to do to

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somebody, I can't believe that somebody would do that to me. Why

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would he do that? I feel so bad. I feel so let down. I feel so angry.

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Of course. I mean, don't blame you for feeling angry. But you can't

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feel angry about the fact that this is a possibility. Yeah, that

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somebody did this to and somebody shouldn't do this, completely

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understand. But if a person is feeling angry as to why did it

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happen to me? Right, then that is wrong. Because at the end of the

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day, what I explained was that not everybody is

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not everybody always acts with somebody else's interest in mind

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with goodwill towards somebody, you know, with thought process,

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that I mean, at the end of the day, it could have been that maybe

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the other person, the other side may have thought that it would not

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be wise to, to contact because maybe they found somebody better.

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Or maybe they discovered something that they didn't like in this

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first proposal, whatever the case was, at the end of the day, what I

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explained was that from a technical perspective, because you

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weren't married and there was no proper promise of marriage, there

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was no agreement, it was just that, yes, I'd like to marry you.

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And you know, I'll wait or whatever it is, at the end of the

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day, that's all it was. And one has to understand that situations

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like this change in this world. And that's, that's what you call a

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diversity that we live through. If we don't understand this

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diversity, and you feel that it has to be a particular way and why

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isn't it that way? Then you're really at the end of the day

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that's just trying to go against

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Is the grain of the reality. And that just doesn't happen, it

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doesn't work that we are going to be losing at the end of it because

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reality is more powerful than anything else. Reality is more

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powerful than anything else. So if we want to challenge reality, then

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that is just being completely absurd. It's essentially like

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somebody stands at their doorstep. And they know that if I take a few

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steps down the steps, I will enter my yard, I will basically step

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into my yard. Now that's a reality. That's the reality that's

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their, that's the way they're going to go. And that's what they

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were going to see. But let's imagine that a person is in India

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or Morocco or somewhere else, you know, where they allow train doors

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to be open while the train is running. And the person is

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standing there by the train. And this has happened so many times,

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right, that I've seen this kind of situation where, you know, people

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are just sitting there, at the doors of the train, the train, the

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trains are moving at high speed. But just imagine that a person

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who's sitting there with a skewed perspective, is imagining that

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this is I'm standing at my doorstep, as I'm standing at my

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doorstep and outside is

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my yard. And if I step off, I'm going to step into my lush green

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yard. Now, you can understand that he is challenging reality here,

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this person is challenging reality here, and he is bound to fail is

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going to go to his destruction. So this is although an extreme

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example, but it really just shows how we need to work in this world,

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especially when it comes to difficulties. When it comes to

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difficulties, we need to start understanding reality is that we

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can't take on reality, we can try to change the course and direction

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of things by asking Allah subhanaw taala and doing different things.

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But once something has taken place, you can't cry over spilt

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milk, you have to manage that situation. And this will, if a

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person has reliance in Allah subhanho wa Taala realizes that

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Allah subhanaw taala can do as he wishes, and whatever he wishes

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than a person, it'll make it very easy for the person to deal with

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these kinds of situations. Otherwise, we're constantly

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constantly fighting with what's happened, what's already happened,

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and we're going to be crying over that. The one thing I told the

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sister though is I said look, we're always told to do is that we

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are told to learn from our situations, not to make the same

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kind of mistakes again, so don't overly rely on people where you're

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not you don't have to rely when a person is not married, there's no

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obligation towards each other. Yes, it would be decent for the

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person to have said look, you know, I'm breaking this off now

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completely. And I don't expect this to work out at all because

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you know, nothing had been agreed this was just a thing that okay,

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you know, I will wait for you or something like that until the

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complications disappear. But that would have been decent for the

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person to have done or at least informed them that okay, we are no

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longer interested at all. But it's a difficult situation. It's a

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difficult situation and we need to get used to these kinds of

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situations. So what I said is that what the prophets of Allah Islam

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did say though, is allotment Allah Yun, the min jehlen, were hidden

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Mortain a believer does not, is not bitten from the same hole

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twice. So that shows that it's not necessary for a believer to to be

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such a simpleton to be so simple that it gets he or she gets

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walked over deceived over and over again, that's not the point of it.

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That's not the point of it at all. A person should not be deceived,

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and especially if they've been deceived once or they've been

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bitten once from somewhere they should not be bitten again. You

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know, it's a possibility that a believers will be bitten once from

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somewhere but not twice, and definitely not three times. So we

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have to learn from these situations.

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The next point I want to speak about today that ties into all of

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this is that with the diverse diversity that we have out there

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with all of the differences that we have out there in the world,

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the Prophet sallallahu sallam said one thing this is related from

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from Sahib. Radi Allahu Anhu that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said, I genuinely mean fame that Amara who could Allah who

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will who hide what an astonishing state of affairs it is for the

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believer, because whatever situation they find themselves in,

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in this world, it's their own, always good for them in their

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there's always good in there is always good in there. And then the

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process that allows them explain that

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well as a director in LA little moment, that this is only for the

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believer, because it's only for the person who has believed in an

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afterlife who believes in salvation, who believes in in

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Jezza in reward in the afterlife, and who believes in matters coming

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to be reckoned to in the afterlife and how everybody will be

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definitely on an equal footing in the afterlife, that this is only

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for that kind of a person for example, a person is walking

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through for example, Euston station, right, and or walking

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through, you know, any, any place where there's lots of like

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diplomats or wealthy people or big businessmen walking through, and

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he looks at the disparities thinking about the disparity

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between different individuals, the poor and the

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The rich, the weak, the influential, the people who are

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making the laws for others sometimes, you know, to the

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disadvantage of many people, and people who feel that they're the

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underdogs that they can't get anything done. When he's walking

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through this, he feels the sense all of these people who are booted

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and suited and going around with these briefcases and looks at

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these people and thinks, you know, I've got no place in this world.

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Now, what is to give any kind of hope, comfort, solace to this kind

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of individual, because this is the reality of the world that he's

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living in. So what is it that's going to help this person to make

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some sense of this life, to look forward to something else, it's

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only a belief in the hereafter mankind, a human or Billahi, when

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the old mill archaea, and the last day that that belief is so

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important, that it's supposed to deal with all of these issues in

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this world, because he knows that this is a world where Allah

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subhanaw taala may have gave given disparity to different people

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given for Donna about Muhammad, Allah been given some people more

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than others, higher status than others. But when it comes to the

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hereafter, everything will be judged according to what a person

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has done with what Allah has given them or not given them. So there's

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patients that require it from somebody who doesn't have and is

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thankfulness that's required from somebody who does have. So when a

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person is in that situation, he feels well, I've got a day of

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judgment to go to where I'm going to stand there neutral with

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everybody else, there's going to be no favors on that day, except

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the one who's done good. And the virtue and good is open to the

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wealthy and to the and to the poor, to the strong and the weak.

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So just being good inside having reliance on Allah subhanaw taala

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Tawakkol, thanking him and making lots of sugar that is open to both

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the rich and the poor. It's open to everybody doing good wishing

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well for people relying, relying on Allah subhanho wa taala,

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keeping one's trust always in Allah subhanahu wa taala, trying

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to think well through these situations, having strong Iman,

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all of this is open to all sorts of people. I mean, this is a

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universal kind of belief that anybody can have. So when a person

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feels that way, and he reckons that there is a day that I'm going

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to go to where everybody will be on equal footing and I can do my

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own. Right, I can do my own because worship is free. At the

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end of the day. Most worships are free except monetary worships. But

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then there are many other non monetary non financial worships

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that a person can do. Okay, if a person doesn't have enough for

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Hajj, that's fine. There's other things that a person can do when

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other people go for Hajj, there are fasting that he can keep doing

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little hijab. There's many, many other things that a person can do.

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So not everything has to be restricted. And not everything has

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to be restricted to wealth. Yes, it does help. But then wealth also

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comes with its own challenges. It's generally the people who have

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lots of wealth that are going to spend it in facade, spend it If

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sir, spend it in corrupting people in correcting themselves. When a

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person has lots at their disposal. That's when they decide that they

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can go out and splash money and go to Holland places for holidays,

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haram forms of tourism, gambling, you know, all the rest of it, you

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know, haram kind of indulgences. A person who doesn't have anything

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who's just about surviving, not to say that they don't have these,

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you know, they may not have these ideas in their mind, but they're

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not able to do it. So at the end of the day, everything comes with

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its challenges. Everything comes with its challenges. So the main

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thing is about realizing the reality of the world, to

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constantly realize that I still have Allah subhanaw taala I'm

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going to be standing in front of you on the Day of Judgment, and

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that's good. That's what's going to happen. That's what and

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everything will be equal on that day because while I already am

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Allah, Allah subhana wa Tada will not oppress anybody shader. Not at

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all. He won't oppress anybody at all. So a few things that we need

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to do which we understand prophets doing for example, when you look

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at Ibrahim Ali salaam, Allah subhanho wa Taala says about

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Ibrahim Ali Salman Surah to Nahal in the Ibrahima Corona, mitten

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carnita, Villa Hanifa Windermere, communal Mushrikeen Shakira only a

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neurone Shakira only and Romi estaba Hua hada, who in US are

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Artemis takim. So Allah subhanaw taala speaks about Ibrahim alayhi

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salam that he is always focused on Allah subhanho wa Taala he's

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always worshiping Allah subhanho wa Taala he is not a mushrik he is

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focused his his class, his sincerity is entirely for Allah

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subhanho wa taala. And then the main thing I want to mention is

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Shirkey are only a neurone he the sugar for the bounties that Allah

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has given him now you know what kind of struggles Ibrahim and

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Islam went through from having to leave where his family were, which

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is from where his paternal family was, and his paternal maternal

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family was yet to leave his father, Father, and go and my

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emigrate from there because of the difference in creed and an

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ideology and the shift that was going on there. He had to leave

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that totally alone. He went with his nephew and then

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After after he settles down yesterday, then go and desert his

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family is his wife and his child that he'd gotten at a much older

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age. So he went through numerous kinds of challenges, but Shakira

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only enrollment only Sugar, sugar, sugar, sugar on the types on the

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bounties that Allah subhanaw taala had given him and that's why Allah

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subhanaw taala says each diver who will have enough sera to stalk him

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Allah subhanaw taala specially chose him and selected him and

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guided him to the straight path about Noah Halle Salaam. Allah

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says the reexamine Hammond Amma I knew that this was a group of

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people that Allah subhanho wa Taala placed on that arc with new

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hallelujah salon for their safety out of that flood. And then Allah

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says in Now who can add them shakoora So despite the

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difficulties in the hookah, I beat them shakoora That he was the

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servant of Allah subhanho wa Taala was extremely gratitude who had a

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lot of gratitude, a lot of gratitude, he he was extremely

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grateful. So again, the gratefulness acid the gratitude

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aspect comes in here. Then, Allah subhanaw taala says in Surah it'll

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cover Nirma min andina near metta min andina katha, Lika Nazim and

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Shakur, that this is a bounty from us. This is the bounties that we

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give from our from from our side, how this is for cathodic energies

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Iman Shakur, this is the way we reward those who are thankful.

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This is the way we reward those who who expressed their gratitude,

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who think Allah subhanho wa Taala and show proper gratitude shaytaan

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in mentions about the shaytaan in the Quran, right shaytaan is

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quoted in the Quran saying it in the home mean by any ad him woman

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Kulfi him one Imani one Shama in him. So this is shaytans promise

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to Allah subhanho wa Taala of how he's going to try to mislead the

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people. So Allah says in surah, Allah are off quoting the shaytaan

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semana at the end, the Khomeini ad him that I'm definitely going to

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come and confront them from in front of them from in front of

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them. And then Allah, Allah subhanaw taala says, and from

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behind them, so the shaytaan is saying, I'm going to come and

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confront them from in front of them from behind them from the

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right and from their left,

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while touchy, do a thorough homeshare Karim

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and what he wants to do, he says, You will not find the majority of

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them to be grateful, you will not find the majority of them to be

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grateful. So that's the point here, gratitude, the absence of it

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allows, opens the door to shaytaan shaytaan wants us not to have

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gratitude, because once a person has gratitude for Allah subhanaw

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taala it means he's connected to Allah, the Mercy of Allah, the

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bounties of Allah sharing upon this person. And the greatest

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bounty, one must realize is not worldly goods, the greatest

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bounty, or the bow is the bounty that a person can have pious

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children that they can leave behind. Right, children that are

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satisfied with

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a heart that's remembering Allah subhanaw taala Kenema La Ilaha

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illa Allah on their deathbed, great place in the Hereafter, all

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the stages of the Hereafter easy for them, fragrant grave and a

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place of rest, full of light, no tightening. And then after that,

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on the Day of Judgment, a great meeting with Allah subhanho wa

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taala, and then a place in the high realms of Jannah. So that's,

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that's basically what it is that a person needs. This is a story

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that's related that once there's a man who

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was blind, along with that he had no arms, no legs. Now, how much

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worse can you be, you know, other than that, you'd be I mean, other

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than that, the next stage is just death, because you've got no arms,

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no legs, and the blind as well. On top of that, I've seen a person

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with no arms and no legs, and he was dragging himself on his

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stomach, dragging himself with his chin, with literally with his face

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that his body is pushing his torso up, he's got no arms, he's got no

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legs, but I think he had said, This person doesn't have sight.

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And he's sitting there thanking Allah subhanaw taala he's saying

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Alhamdulillah Hillary, Bernie Alhamdulillah Hillary I funny meme

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Abdullah who be he mapped Hola, me Metalla be he lady Alhamdulillah

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Allah the earth Bernie mipela Be he lady were for Balani Allah

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cathedral women Holika Tov Lila, it's just such a

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doer of tanks of sugar. It's filled with sugar. What he's

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saying is all praises to Allah, who gave me wellbeing, who gave me

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safety who saved me from that which he has afflicted, so and so

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with all praises to Allah who has given me wellbeing from what he

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has afflicted such and such a person with and he has given me

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priority or preference

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over so many other people in this world. Now this person who's

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listening, there was a person who's listening to this individual

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making this dua, and he is this astonished. He's taken aback

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completely. He says, What does he have to thank Allah for? This was

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his misunderstanding says, What does he have to think? Thank Allah

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subhanaw taala for when he's losing his arms, his feet, he

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can't see what else is there. So then he confronted him he says

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that, yeah, what are you what are you making sugar for? What is your

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thankfulness about what are you being grabbed earlier showing your

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gratitude for? So this was his response? He says, Ash Kuru Allah

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and what have any listen in the Quran. Please turn on the camera.

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Will Kanban Harsha were Kanban Harsha were burdened an island

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Bella Isabela. That's what he said. He said, I am thanking Allah

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subhanho wa taala. Because he's given me a tongue that remembers

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him. He's given me a tongue that remembers him. He's given me a

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heart that is fearful of him that is reverently fearful of him. And

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Allah subhanaw taala has given me a body that is able to persevere,

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that is able to be patient on the difficulty and a kilometer Allah

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subhanaw taala has afflicted with. So such a person even comes with

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this kind of attitude. So at the end of the day, it shows that it's

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about facing the reality, and recognizing what Allah subhanaw

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taala wants from an individual. So what this means clearly is that

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this person understood his reality, and understood that not

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much is going to change here. This is how Allah subhanaw taala wants

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me to be. But I can change this because to be honest, to have a

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tongue which remembers Allah, and a body which is able to withstand

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any difficulty that comes to it, and a heart that is reverently

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connected to Allah subhanaw taala. That is better than having

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anything else in this world. To be honest, we don't hope for just

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that we hope for both. But to be honest, that is because when we go

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back to our belief in the Hereafter, when he will go back to

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belief in the earth clearer than we realize that that is where all

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of this is going to be on benefits. The Reverend heart, the

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the remembering tongue, and the persevering body, that's where

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that's going to be a great benefit. And then after that for

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endless eternity, for for absolutely lifelong, with no end,

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that that is going to be a benefit to the person. When you equate

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things that way, when you compare things that we know then you

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understand, but of course, we don't ask Allah subhanaw taala to

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put us put us into that kind of afflicted situation we asked for

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it and well being but we ask for those for the tongue and for the

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body which is thankful to Allah subhanaw taala that is the most

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important thing another person came to this happens a lot a

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person came to one of the one of the scholars or the owner of Allah

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and he's complaining of adversities complaining that I

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don't have any money. He's complaining complaining of his

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masculine, his fucker is dead, his his he's been without money. He's

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been without substance. Now, what is that a person comes and says,

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Can you give me something to read that can help me give me Bonica

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and so on, that's completely fine to look for, because that person

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is in difficulty when wants to get out of it.

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That's understandable. But what this Sheikh recognize that this

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person was complaining of a situation now complaining or a

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situation like why am I in this kind of situation? You know,

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what's the problem? So it was a complaint as opposed to looking

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for a solution. So the Sheikh said to him, that if you're, if your

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hands were taken away, and you had a million did Hamza dinars or

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pounds or whatever it may be, right, would you like that? Right?

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Now you've got a you've got a toaster, nice, sound body, you've

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got everything, you know, you're able able bodied in mind, etc.

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Let's just imagine that your hands were taken away and you were given

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a million. Would you like that? And the person thought, he says,

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No, this is what happens if your eyes were taken away, and you had

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2 million in place of it. He says, he thought about it. So no, no,

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no, I'd rather keep my eyes. So he asked him a number of questions

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like this, if you're, if your legs were taken away, and you were

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given a million if this was taken or you're given a million, so he

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he enumerated for him, he can't find all the benefits and the

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bounties that he did have, we're in debt, we do Namath hola hola to

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Suha and he gave the kind of value to him. And eventually the person

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realized that he does have a lot and he still has potential to do

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more. So it's all about being thankful to Allah subhanaw taala

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what He has given for us and facing the reality of these

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things, that is one of the most important thing they say that for

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sugar, there are three fundamentals. Now we hear about

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sugar all the time people you know orlimar tell us about sugar all

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the time. I want to I just want to mention

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as a as a you know, one of the final points as to what is sugar,

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if Allah has given us something and he has given everybody

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something, so we all have something or the other to be

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thankful for what is required of us. So He says that there

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are three elements there are three integrals of sugar, three cans of

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sugar. One is that a person will tell off banana to recognize

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essentially to recognize that Allah has given us something, this

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will take away the complaint. So we recognize that we do have a

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tariff been there, too confess realize, acknowledge the bounties

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that we do have of Allah subhanho wa Taala Balticon insight insight

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to recognize that truly inside and internally that we do have

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bounties from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. And at the same time, have

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love for the one who gave them to us, which means to have love for

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Allah subhanho wa taala. So to recognize the bounties are from

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Allah subhanaw taala, Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us a

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nice house to live in Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us

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safety, Allah subhanaw taala has given the ability for our children

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to have an education, Allah subhanaw taala has given us the

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ability to eat the foods that we want to, to wear, the clothes that

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we desire, all of these things are bounties for us. So that's number

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number one. Number two, at the Hadith we have at the head of visa

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vie Iran to openly declare them as well that Oh Allah subhanaw taala

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is so I'm so grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah must be

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praised for what He has given me to thank Allah subhanho wa Taala

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to thank Allah subhanho wa Taala Massana and Allah with praising

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Allah subhanaw taala

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there's a there's a person who needed some money,

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he needed some money. So he went to borrow from here and to ask a

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few people if he can borrow money from them. So he must have asked

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five, six different people. And what he noticed was that despite

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the fact that these people were not well known to have money,

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only one or two of them, the main minority of them actually thanked

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Allah. So most of them would say, would make things up, like, Oh, my

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money is all tied up, or I've got this issue that came up, despite

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the fact that the person has lots of money, lots of assets, lots of

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you know, real estate, whatever it may be the person, most of these

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people, they were they were, they were they were basically making

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excuses. They you did not see the thanks from Allah subhanaw taala

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come from the and they were literally like hiding what they

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have, right? Allah knows best of their situation. But this is what

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the person mentioned that he felt there was only one or two people

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who said, Look, I don't want to lie to you, Allah subhanaw taala

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has given me so much Alhamdulillah Allah has given me so much, and

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I'm glad that you've come to me, and inshallah I've tried to help

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you out with something, right? But and there was another person who

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said that Hamdulillah, Allah has given me a lot, I'm not able to

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give you anything right now. But maybe Inshallah, in a few months

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or something, I'll be able to give you something. But the sugar only

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came from two out of those six or seven people that he spoke to, the

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sugar only came from about two of those people, right, which is kind

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of amazing, because at the end of the day all of these people have,

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but there's very few people who actually make sugar, who actually

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make sugar. And the second integral of it is not to show off

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with your wealth, but to thank Allah subhanaw taala. And to thank

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Allah for what one has given us. You don't have to tell people Oh,

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Allah has given me this much of a bank balance. I mean, believe me,

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I mean, what I say to people generally is that Allah has given

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me everything that I want, and I can't ask for anything. Allah has

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given me everything that I want. And I cannot Yes, there are things

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that I may still want to have a desire for, for whatever reason,

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but Allah has given me so much I can ask, seriously, you know, I

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have so much I can't, I can't thank Allah subhanho wa Taala

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enough, but the focus is on the bounties, then the less focus will

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be on what we don't have. And that's what's important, then

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Allah will give you even more and that's a wonderful thing because

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Allah says Allah insha Allah as he then the committee, thank me, I'll

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give you even more. This is what the Prophet stated they they

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thanked Allah subhanaw taala number three, number three, which

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is the most important one, which is the most important one, after

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recognizing it in the heart, and after thanking Allah subhanaw

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taala openly as well. Number three, is that Sophie thought

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Atilla which is to spend it in the obedience of Allah subhanaw taala

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What about Allah T and everything that satisfies Allah subhanaw

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taala and above all, which the Naboo ma see, and not to spend it

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in the disobedience of Allah subhanaw taala This is where a lot

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of people fail. When they get money, as they say basic you must

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be the mystery for money, right? This is what happens when people

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get too much money, then then they have the ability to go and spend

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it in the Haram then they get ideas shaitaan comes and gives

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them different ideas. So that's that's the issue here. That is one

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of the most important things we need to realize that we could not

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be using.

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The wealth that Allah subhanaw taala has been has given us and we

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should think to ourselves and even thinking that way that this is

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wealth that Allah has given us. I can't use this in the Haram. It's

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not allowed for me and Allah could take it away from me. And so

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Hello hola this has been an occurrence on many occasions that

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Allah has taken things away from people when they did that. Above

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all the final point is, Allah says in the Quran, Maya Allah Allah who

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will be either be cool in Chicago and to walk around Allah will show

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Kevin Idema which is my f and Allah will be either become What

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does Allah get out of punishing you in Chicago toma am unto if you

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are thankful to him, and you believe

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because Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah subhanaw taala values

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people, Allah values the contributions of people, SHA Kiran

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Ali and Allah is well aware of everything that you do, nothing is

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hidden of him. So whereas with somebody else, if you do something

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good for them, it may be lost on them, they may not recognize it,

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they may be ungrateful to you, but Allah subhanaw taala is grateful

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for anything that we do for Allah subhanaw taala Maya for Allah who

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be either become, what does Allah get? What does he benefit out of

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punishing you, if you're if you do sugar, and if you have Iman, and

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the sugar has to be based on these three conditions that we don't use

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it for the wrong and we have that focus, above all at the end of the

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day, the conclusion of all of this is

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realize the reality. You can't challenge the reality of what's

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already happened. You can try to change what's in the in the future

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by asking Allah subhanaw taala and playing doing the right things.

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thank Allah for everything that He has given us. Keep your focus on

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there and read the DUA Alhamdulillah to the earth Ernie

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Matala mean Abdullah, who we are for Delaney Allah cathedral mahalo

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Lila, whenever you see somebody that has less than you, and you

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will be thinking Allah subhanho wa Taala constantly be thinking Allah

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subhanaw taala and I've seen people who do Shakur of Allah

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subhanaw taala just Allah gives them, Allah gives them they may

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not have even sometimes a capability that others have have

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ingenuous business ideas, or anything of that nature. But

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somehow they're doing better off than other people sometimes, and

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see many people like that. And it's so nice to actually see

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somebody doing SCHUCHART of Allah subhanaw taala it just feels good.

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It sends a good vibe, it removes the depression. You know, when

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somebody thinks Allah, Allah has given me so much, it just makes

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everybody else feel good, because that is what it is. It's the

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reality everybody speaking about that reality. It's wonderful. I've

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got a friend in in American news was the one distinctive feature of

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this person. He's always whenever you asked him how he was, he'd

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always take a great moment to thank Allah subhanho wa Taala and

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you could see that it's coming from his heart, that he's actually

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thinking about the bounties Allah has given us and given him and

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he's thanking Allah subhana wa Tada and Allah has given him

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Subhanallah so there's, it's extremely important that a person

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focused on the reality. Get used to and accustomed to the reality

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and ask Allah for better and thank Allah subhanho wa Taala and may

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Allah subhanaw taala make us all of the shagreen Well, I think that

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I mean hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen

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