Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Announce the Marriage

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of announcing a wedding to avoid being flagged and suggests that it is important for everyone to know that a marriage is not supposed to be secret. The speaker also mentions that a marriage is not supposed to be contracted in secret and that people should know that they are going to be married, rather than just giving birth to their spouse.

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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam encouraged that marriages
		
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			be announced. Alright, Lee knew
earlier, but don't announce them.
		
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			Why should you announce a marriage
because marriage is not supposed
		
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			to be a secret relationship. The
whole point of marriage is that
		
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			everybody knows. So when they see
you together, they know like,
		
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			Okay, you're not committing Zina.
That's how important it is. So the
		
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			reason why you announced the
wedding is so that everybody knows
		
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			that doesn't mean you have to call
the whole world for your wedding.
		
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			If you cannot do that, if you like
to feed people and you got the
		
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			money and no headache, then you
can feed a whole stadium if you
		
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			want to, but if you're doing it
because somebody else did it,
		
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			otherwise people are gonna say You
know, you didn't call me or
		
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			whatever, then all of that, just
forget that to do it as an
		
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			obligation is not a sunnah. The
only reason you announcing you can
		
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			announce it in Joomla that's why
the best place to have a Nika is
		
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			in the masjid because there's
going to be people there, you've
		
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			announced it, right? It doesn't
mean you have to put it into the
		
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			papers, but generally the people
who you're going to be dealing
		
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			with know that now you're married,
therefore a marriage should not be
		
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			contracted in secret