Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Absolutely Shameless

Right now, shyness and modesty and higher. There are different types

one is modesty in front of Allah. One is modesty in front of others.

Then there's some wrong modesty, misunderstood modesty. So we'll

quickly go through that. The best modesty is modesty before Allah.

Because if you're modest before Allah, and Allah is always

watching that we're always going to be modest because Allah is

always watching, followed by modesty before people.

However, only in those things which entail no disobedience and

is not disliked.

hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Maga Ruthie

Ramadan EULA al Amin, or either early he was Safi or Baraka was

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Okay, let us

talk about shamelessness behind shamelessness in Arabic work AHA

it's called waka opposite of higher.

Now we have to be careful here is that what is higher what is

modesty? Higher is modesty hierarchy or cheesy right? So

firstly, higher and modesty refers to this capacity and power to

restrain oneself.

Why I'm going to restrain myself from doing this out of fear of

committing a morally repulsive Act.

The Buddha fell may it's gonna he can Machado. I can't let myself in

May I see But naked secto Massa Dominica Seto that feeling is

higher.

That means we have to have boundaries. We have to have

principles. If you don't have boundaries and you're willing to

do anything then you can't have higher higher boundaries get no

this is my line. I know he's doing this but I can't do this.

Some people will swear or others but they will never swear back.

That's not something I do.

It is narrated that Abdullah Masuda the Allahu Anhu said that

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Be shy in front of

Allah. This is the beautiful Hadith have higher from Allah

have higher which is modesty shyness in front of Allah as much

as this is right.

So the Sahaba said, we are ashamed in front of Allah, Ya rasool

Allah, we are ashamed.

May Allah be praised Alhamdulillah the Prophet salallahu Salam said,

No, you have not understood it correctly. That's not what I mean.

Shyness in front of Allah. Now look how comprehensive This is,

shyness in front of Allah. Proper, higher is meaning proper, higher,

according to the right that Allah deserves from us that much higher

is that you safeguard your head, which means the whole head, your

stomach, and all of your limbs and faculties and everything they

contain. So if we're protecting, if we're safeguarding our head,

that means we're safeguarding our ears, safeguarding our tongue,

safeguarding our eyes. And the next point, he says, and that you

remember death, and the decaying bones in the grave. That's a wake

up call that keeps us grounded. Then he says that a prophet saw

some said, Whoever truly seeks the afterlife, just whoever seeks the

hero

will inevitably definitely discard the ornaments of this life.

Meaning he won't be running after just

he'll get what he needs. But he's not after just beauty. So is his

phone works. He's not going to buy the next one just because it's the

new one.

If he needs it, you'll buy it. But he's not going to buy a new one.

I'll give gender to Apple every year. Even though there's nothing

extra you're getting. Some people they give gender charity to Apple

every year by getting a new iPhone, even though they don't

need it. As McQueen He is new to it just slightly different design

and is the number 15 instead of 16 instead of 10 or 15 or 14 That's

what it is. She's giving charity because they need your charity

Mashallah. Give it to the Muslims.

So,

if you need it Bismillah go ahead and buy it if you can. hamdulillah

so he says that whoever truly seeks the afterlife will discard

the ornaments of this life and prefers the everlasting life over

this fleeting life. Whoever does all of this he has been truly shy

in front of Allah as much as it is right? That's the beautiful

Hadith.

Right now, shyness and modesty and higher. There are different types

one is modesty in front of Allah

When is modesty in front of others? Then there's some wrong

modesty, misunderstood modesty. So we'll quickly go through that. The

best modesty is modesty before Allah. Because if you're modest

before Allah and Allah is always watching then we're always going

to be modest because Allah is always watching followed by

modesty before people

however, only in those things which entail no disobedience and

is not disliked. What does that mean? For example, you're a

naturally shy person somebody's doing something completely haram

and wrong.

Should you exercise your shyness there

by not saying anything? Because you don't want to upset the boat.

You don't want to be seen as somebody saying something so yeah,

you happy you you you even smile at the person is doing completely

haram Zina Corrado that shyness is blameworthy, It's haram, it's not

right.

So the shyness we're talking about is shyness for the deen. Many

people are naturally shy. So when co-coach Bonacini doctor, they

don't like to step out. They don't like to make themselves that they

don't want to

make a point, you know, that's natural shyness. It is no reward

for that.

The reward is when you abstain and withhold yourself where it's

strategically beneficial for the sake of the dean. What leads you

to be shy, is the Dean even though you are outgoing, maybe even

though you would have done something you would have said

something. But in this case, now for the sake of Allah, I'm not

saying anything, because it's bad. So higher, we're talking about is

higher, and the shyness, which is religious shyness, religious

shyness, not just natural sort of shyness. If you're an introvert,

you don't say anything to anyone, then it might be fine most of the

time, but sometimes when you shouldn't be saying something, or

somebody tells you give a damn, you can't give a run.

Because you're too shy to give a run. You're too shy to do the

iqama you're too shy to lead the prayer.

That's not right. And you're the best person lead the prayer but

no, I'm to magician Luxuria

Shemitah you know, so

if shyness is going to create disobedience

shut such as shyness from commanding good or forbidding

evil, or leaving the Sunnah out. For example, you're shy to use the

miswak you're shy to wear Toby and cover your head. You're too shy to

shorten your garment. So you let it dangle.

You're too shy to keep it above you know, above the ankles. You're

shy to wear patch the garments.

If you had to, for example, right? You're shy to walk barefoot if you

needed to. You don't have to. It's not a sunnah to walk barefoot like

that, just like that wear shoes. But for example, if you had to get

some men do their knee and what are you going to do now? He says

riding a donkey because in those days donkeys horses were better so

you're shy to ride the donkey doing that you're shy to sit in a

small car, you have to have a big car.

They matter so God got him into the Mexico, but you gotta love it.

You're too shy to lick your fingers after you eat or clean up

the dish or finish off your tea. There's some people they feel that

it's some kind of special etiquette to leave a bit of tea at

the end in the cup.

I don't know some people think it's high class people do that.

Some people think that it's mega, which Jadoo Holgado

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vie, and drink it. You're too shy to eat the food that falls off

your plate. Maria

does evening here. This is against our style. You're too shy to say

salam

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you're too shy to say salam or reply to the salam Radha too shy

to lead the prayer and the like. This is very, very blameworthy.

This is blameworthy. Since really what this is is was Dilly

cowardice.

Weakness in religion. Your your keen isn't strong enough.

Or it's arrogance or ostentation, depending on which one it is, even

if we agree that it was just me a shyness, then why you being shy.

Why you being shy from people. So you don't want to do this in front

of people on set of course Shrimati but not from Allah

subhanho wa Taala you're not shy in front of Allah subhanaw taala

for the same thing

and you can't even say this is wrong or you can't even turn away

and you can't even move away. But you're too shy of them and not shy

have ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.

Allah and His Messenger have more rights for people to be shy of

them. For indeed, what is the state of the one he says, who has

no shame before his very creator? If you don't have any shyness,

Allah case, I'm gonna shut up now. You know, what have you got? What

is it?

He is your Sustainer your guide your Savior.

And if you're being shy by neglecting divine commands and

prophetic signals, yet

who feels ashamed in front of important creatures in other

people, weak people, you feel shy in front of them just so that you

can get their praise or pleasure or you can gain unlawful wealth

from them or you can just be free of blame. You don't want them to

criticize you or look down upon you or something like that.

Yet, this person does not take care to flee from a severe

punishment in the hereafter, nor from being excluded from the

shofar at an intercession of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

sallam, we seek refuge in Allah from such a wretched state.

Now we understand that there are two types of shyness, the natural

shyness, you're not rewarded for that, unless you use it correctly.

If it's going to stop us from doing what's right, then that's

not praise worthy at all. The real praise worthy higher and shyness

and modesty is further is what we do according to what Allah wants

from us. May Allah subhanho wa Taala give us that Tofik May Allah

grant us that tofi quickly read that one and you'll hamdulillahi

rabbil Alameen

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Thea Hana Yama and Allah Allah Allah and Allah Subhana Allah in

could nominally mean just Allahu Allah and Mohammed Amma Hua Hello

Yeah Allah have mercy on us yeah Allah have mercy on the entire

room. Yeah Allah bless us all. Yeah, Allah accept whatever little

worships that we can do. Our Allah allow us to do many many deeds. Do

not allow us to consider even small deeds to be insignificant

Yeah, Allah. Allah Allah Allah bless us abundantly. Allah Allah

Allah Allah bless us abundantly yeah Allah have mercy on our the

entire OMA especially our brothers and sisters who are suffering in

Palestine in Missouri and other places grant them their freedom

and their their respect. Oh Allah grant them the honor of Allah

grant us all mercy for an grant the sole concern and compassion

for others. Grant us religious chivalry of Allah grant us Maru

and decency of Allah grant us Waqar and honor of Allah grant us

self respect of Allah, protect us from hardness and harshness, Yet

Allah protect us from hardness and harshness, especially if it's part

of our Tabia if it's part of our nature, Allah to assist us in

overcoming this fear Allah allow us to correct ourselves and

improve ourselves and enhance ourselves before we die Allah so

that we can die in the best of state to Allah do not allow us to

die in a bad state to Allah protect us from such shyness which

is incorrect, which makes us fail to reveal what Allah subhanaw

taala wants to reveal. Yeah, Allah, Oh Allah assist us in this

regard, protect us and our children from all of the fit and

the challenges which are out there, Allah and Allah grant us

blessing in our entire family and our descendants until the day of

judgment of Allah bless all of those who contribute to this

masjid, who organize these programs, the Imams, yeah, Allah,

the committee members, and all those who attend and who support

the misogyny in the various different ways. Oh Allah, whatever

projects this machine our other masajid have, oh Allah allow them

to be completed. Allah protect them remove the obstacles and the

hindrances from their path and Allah make these truly the stars

for the inhabitants of the heavens to look down and see these places

as illuminated places. Yeah, Allah. Oh Allah accept from all of

us and make this Ramadan more blessing than any Ramadan before

it make us closer to you than we've ever been before. Yeah,

Allah and allow us to remain close to you and to gain the shefa of

your messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So Hannah

rhombic Rob belies that the Amna Josefina was salam ala al

Marcelino Al Hamdulillah.

The point of a lecture is to encourage people to act to get

further an inspiration and encouragement, persuasion. The

next step is to actually start learning seriously to read books

to take on a subject of Islam and to understand all the subjects of

Islam at least at the basic level, so that we can become more aware

of what our deen wants from us. And that's why we start

added Rayyan courses so that you can actually take organize

lectures on demand whenever you have free time, especially for

example, the Islamic essentials course that we have on the Islamic

essentials certificate which you take 20 Short modules and at the

end of that inshallah you will have gotten the basics of most of

the most important topics in Islam and you'll feel a lot more

confident. You don't have to leave lectures behind you can continue

to live, you know, to listen to lectures, but you need to have

this more sustained study as well as aka la harem salaam aleikum wa

rahmatullah wa barakato.