Abdullah Oduro – Iman Cave – Ufc Fighter Abdul-Kareem Al-Selwady Is Unbreakable

Abdullah Oduro
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The importance of learning to be a male and addressing issues that men face is discussed in a video interview. Martial arts is recommended for achieving discipline and bravery, and cutting a fight can lead to loss. The importance of preparing for potential disaster by being mindful of the situation and not letting fear or anxiety hold you to long periods at work. The speaker emphasizes the need to be ready and not letting down before a fight, protecting one's body and protecting one's neck. The importance of learning to be resilient and staying true to one's values is also emphasized.
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You don't lose if you get knocked down.

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You lose

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if you stay down.

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Failure is a part of fortification.

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It's getting up and continuing forward is what

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makes the man.

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Learning how to take those hits,

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take the pain,

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and push through it.

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That is what makes us stronger and more

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honorable.

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How's everyone doing? I'm Abdullah O'Duro. Yes. I'm

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outside. I'm not in the cave, but I

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still have the cave vibes talking about male

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excellence.

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Stay tuned. Every month, we're going to have

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action based episodes on a particular subject matter

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that deals with male excellence as all of

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us want to embody

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masculine excellence for the sake of Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. And with that being the case,

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this episode is something special.

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It's something that is very, very important to

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all of us as we want to understand

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what does it mean to be a male

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and particular issues that men face.

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Oh, lo and behold, as you see who

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I was waiting for is draped up

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Draped up. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Here he

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is, the pride of Palestine,

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none other than Abdul Karim

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Salwa. How you doing? How you doing? Good.

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Brother, brother,

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we are gonna be here. You're in for

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a treat. We're going to go into his

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home gym where he does personal training.

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Abdul Kareem Esawadi is an MMA fighter. He's

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been doing this for a long time. There's

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gonna be a number of stories and insights

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that he is going to share with us.

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It is very important that you stay tuned

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for this beautiful interview. We're going to go

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inside his beautiful gym and see what's in

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store, inshallah. Let's

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go.

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Cousin to be here again.

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Of course. The blue floor,

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The same bag and the shelf,

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I see you got the nice pic here.

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So what have you what are you doing

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right now in fighting? What were your previous

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fights and what are your current fights coming

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up? So, you know, I'm always looking to

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train and learn. I don't look at training

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for fights as just, like, a routine that

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you do the same every day. I'm always

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trying to develop,

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like, getting better,

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my skills, my techniques, because,

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you know, fighting is a world that that

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changes as well, and it evolves. So you

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have to evolve

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with it. Alhamdulillah, I have a really good

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setup going on and training 4 to 6

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hours a day.

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6 days a week, and then they'll have

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a day where I just do full recovery.

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So I always try to have

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some type of competition or fight scheduled, and

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that just keeps me sharp. It keeps me

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going. Like, I just finished for my fight

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in ADXC in Paris a couple weeks ago,

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and now I'm fighting in Abu Dhabi, August

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3rd for UFC. And it's it's just and

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inshallah, after that, I'm healthy and I'm good,

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and I'll do the ADXC jujitsu again before

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I get my other 3rd UFC fight. So

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just trying to stay sharp, stay busy. Interesting

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story is when I was younger, even in

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Baton Rouge, Louisiana, I was always getting in

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trouble in school just by being, like, you

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know, really energetic and rough and always, like,

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roughhousing wrestling. You know, even in the Masjid,

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we used to love those Friday nights wrestling.

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I was never a bully, and I was

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never bullied.

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But it was it was my father was

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very strict on me, and it was one

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of the reasons why I wasn't allowed to

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do martial arts as a kid is because

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I was just so aggressive. Mhmm. And he's

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like, if you do martial arts, you're gonna

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even be more aggressive. -Mm -Which later turned

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out to be the complete opposite. You know,

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martial arts actually humbles you and keeps you

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disciplined. My dad taught me very well that

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to never be a bully with the strength

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that you have and to stand up for

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others.

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So that was actually my excuse of how

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to get in fights in school Mhmm. Was

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I was always fighting the bullies.

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Uh-huh. Every single time I got in trouble

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for hitting someone, it was never actually my

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fight. I just stood up for someone else,

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and, you know, teachers were like, You can't

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just do that.

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But alhamdulillah, as soon as I got into

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MMA at the age of 15,

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it was the last time I've ever gotten

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into a fight with anyone. And that doesn't

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mean I stopped being confronted. No, I actually

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became even more. When people find out that

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you fight, you train, they want to test

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it. But, you know, I guess your confidence

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levels go up, or you're more disciplined, and

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you have a better character.

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And you could just smile at someone that's

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trying to, you know, say things to you,

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trying to get under your skin, you smile,

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and you say, you know, if you're not

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gonna walk away, I'm gonna walk away, and

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that's it. -But in the back of your

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mind, you know what you could do. -I

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already saw I saw everything.

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I saw everything. I saw what I could

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do to him, him, and him. And I

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was just like I love it, bro. I

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love it. But that that's that's what's so

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beautiful. And that's why I wanna interject here.

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I mean, I wanna make a point is

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that parents,

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there's nothing wrong with your child being aggressive.

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You know, my master said the kids run

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around. I said there's a time to play

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and there's a time to pray. Go play

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and run around. There's nothing wrong with it.

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That's how Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta'ala has created

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us. The prophet said

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he used to jump on him while he

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was praying. Right? So there's nothing wrong with

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that aggression. It's just how you channel it.

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As his father Hafidullah, may Allah preserve him,

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knew exactly what to do with his son.

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But you notice he spent time with him.

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So that aggression that is there is just

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how you channel it. And then on top

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of that, he was selfless,

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being someone we talked about in our earlier

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episodes of bravery, And bravery is someone that

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it helps people that they may not even

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know even, right? That helps and protects them.

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There's no AC, no

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no fans. We're about to get it in.

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And those of you that are watching, young

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guys, older guys, with some of these moves,

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practice it while we're doing it. Practice it

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and have the dialogue with us. And you

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join us in this dialogue. And if you

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want to, comment. So you're gonna show us

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a couple of moves as I think the

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first one, as we talked about resilience,

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it's getting up after falling down. So

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how does one fall? Is there a certain

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way to fall when fighting? Yes. So one

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of the first things you're usually ever going

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to learn when you enter an MMA gym

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Mhmm. Is how to fall. Okay. Because everyone's

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going to fall. So we call it break

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fall, and it's basically bracing your body

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to, like, brace the impact

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when you fall. And basically, as you're falling,

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you don't wanna fall straight back and you're

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gonna hurt your head. You wanna pick a

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side. So if you're falling more to your

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left,

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as you fall, you're gonna hit the ground,

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and we go

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here. And you wanna tuck your chin

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into your chest. Because if your head is

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loose, it's just gonna bang on the ground,

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and that's gonna maybe give you a concussion

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or something.

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So we're going to

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lean on the shoulder on the side, and

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we're falling, like, hips down. You want it

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to be gradual, not just one time where,

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basically, you knock the wind out of your

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chest. So you're gonna fall down and brace,

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and right there.

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Exactly. Just like that. Right back up. Okay.

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And you fall and you brace. So prepare

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yourself.

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There you go. So even when you're falling,

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it's okay. Like we said, you're always you're

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gonna find, you're

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gonna fall. Yeah. Just brace yourself

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as much as you can, so you don't

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hurt yourself. Yeah. Some common mistakes would be

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to, you know, naturally, you're falling to try

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to put your hand out, and that's gonna

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dislocate your your shoulder or break your elbow.

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Okay. Because all that impacts, someone's coming on

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top of you. But with that way, it's

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gonna be safer to fall.

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Mhmm. So it's it's essentially because you gotta

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brace yourself

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in order to prepare for something that's inevitable.

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Yes. Like, when you're facing a challenge, you

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have to brace you have to be ready

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Yes. At all times. Yes. And even like

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you mentioned, mentally, you have to be ready

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even when you go out. And that fall

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will teach you something, but you still have

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to what? Yes. Still have to get back

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up. Get back up. Okay? Yes. So how

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about getting up? So say say you fall.

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Let's say you fall, and then I try

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to come and attack. So say I push

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you down.

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I'm right here. Now the first thing I

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wanna do is keep some distance between me

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and you. Okay. If you're trying to attack

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me Yeah. I want you either very close

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to me Uh-huh. Or very far. Not just

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in the middle where I can get hit.

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So right here, I'm using my legs like

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I would use my hands trying to control

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your hips and keep a good distance

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right here. Just like that. So even if

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you move right or left, I'm following you.

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Mhmm. But let's say I found the time

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to get up, I'm gonna create some distance

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first. If I could touch you, that means

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you're we're too close. Oh, okay. So Okay.

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What I'm gonna do is is get ready

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get ready. If you come close, I'm gonna

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push you away. Uh-huh. In that time,

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with my hand, I'm gonna bring it up

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just in case if you come close or

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just to protect my face. Uh-huh. And with

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my hand on the ground,

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I'm going to brace, and then I'm going

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to get up. Now, if how you are,

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if you're coming that close, then I wouldn't

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use that time to get up. Okay. I'd

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only get up when I feel like there's

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enough space. So in real time, it would

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look something like this. We're here, you get

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you move back, and I'm here, ready to

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strike.

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So if I felt like I didn't kick

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enough or as I'm getting up you're too

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close, I'll just go right back down. Like

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if I'm trying to get up and you're

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coming, I'll go right back down. Because I

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don't wanna give you my back and turn

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away, and at the same time, as long

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as I could see you, I could still

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assess the situation,

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and block and move and come back to

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here. Or, like, if you get too close,

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I can, like, grab the legs or something.

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Uh-huh. But I wanna always see you. If

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we're fighting, I wanna always see you. I

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don't wanna, you know, turn around, give you

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my back to get up. Mhmm. Because then

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you might grab my waist or go for

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a choke, and I won't be able to

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see you. The biggest issue right there is

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not being able to see the danger that's

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coming to you, because,

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you know, even with a knockout or a

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punch,

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it hurts more when you don't see it

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coming. At least when I see the punch

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coming, I could block, I could bite, I

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could brace for it a little bit. Yeah.

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You know, I'm talking about even getting hit.

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Bracing. Yeah. But as long as you see

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the danger coming, it's gonna be easier to

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deal with than

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not seeing the punch coming. That's interesting because

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when you turn away from your problems

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It's always gonna come back in, but it's

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gonna catch up to you eventually. Like, if

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I'm down here, right, and I'm, you know,

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I see you coming. Yes.

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If I'm first practicing right now, you come

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up to me,

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is it okay for me to be scared?

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Is it normal? Is it natural? It's very

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normal to feel scared, but it's how you

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deal with it is what makes it good

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or bad. Right. I could be so scared

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to get hit that it makes me so

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focused

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and locked in on my opponent that it

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makes me avoid every shot. Mhmm. Or it

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makes me attack better. Mhmm. I can be

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so scared of losing that it makes me

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train so hard and be so prepared for

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this fight. So it's okay to be scared,

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but if I'm scared and I get very

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emotional, and it makes me forget on what

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to do,

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then that's where being scared is not a

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good thing. Are there times where, like, you're

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hitting on the bag, or you're training with

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someone, and you thought you were gonna do

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better, like, because the next day, you gotta

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come back. You could've just said, man, I'm

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dealing with this, man. Like, you lost in

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a spar, for example. Have you ever lost

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in a spar? 100%. So what goes through

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your mind when you lose in that spar

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to someone that's a lesser belt or spent

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lesser time in the gym or has been

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lesser time, hasn't fought as long as you

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have? Yeah. At this level, I always whether

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something is good or bad, I try to

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be very honest and assess the situation

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of why this happened. And it's very normal

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to feel that way. Okay. And

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that's why I love fighting so much because

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it's not just easy. It's not made for

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everyone.

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Not everyone that starts it could continue doing

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it. Not everyone can handle

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the physical and mental stress that comes with

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it. Some people see like Masha'Allah Habib, Islam,

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these guys they go out there, they destroy

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their points, make it look easy, oh let

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me go do MMA.

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Well they make it look easy because of

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how hard they train,

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and

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how many bad days they have to go

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through and push through. You think Islam and

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Habib are winning every round in the gym?

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Absolutely not. Every time you have a bad

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day at the gym, it's like having a

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bad day at work. You have to assess

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the situation. Was it my fault? Where did

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I do a mistake? Did I not sleep

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enough? Did I not eat good? Or

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were my hands down? Was I being lazy?

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Was I being too cocky? I could go

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on and on and on of why you

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could have a good or bad performance at

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the gym. But the most important thing is

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to not let that,

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like, tell you who you are. Mhmm. You

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just gotta shake it off and work on

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whatever issue Mhmm. You found was the problem.

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Alright. So what's the next move we have

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for us, Jake? Alright. So,

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something very common outside of fighting. We call

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it the neighborhood choke. When someone's just like,

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you're wrestling and they grab the head and

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they they start squeezing and they think that

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they have a choke or a squeeze or

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something Okay. Which

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you'll never see a actual fighter do that

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move because there's there's nothing that that move

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could actually do to the person you're trying

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to hold. Holy. Okay. We have a guillotine

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choke and a rear naked choke, but those

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are actual,

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blood chokes where you you cut the oxygen

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coming to the brain. Uh-huh. But, you know,

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this this does nothing to you other than

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maybe give you a stinger where you can't

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look. So let's say you just grab my

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neck Can I get you? Wrestling and you

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have that very common. Now, first thing you

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have to do in fighting is no matter

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what situation you get in, whether it's a

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good or bad one, you have to relax

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Okay. So you can use your brain. If

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I'm just freaking out over here Mhmm. Most

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likely, I wouldn't react the right way. Right.

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So first thing I have to know is

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that okay I'm safe. Mhmm. I'm not gonna

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get choked out because you're not cutting off

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the blood supply. This is just gonna hurt

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my neck. But if I rip quickly, we

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can get this over with pretty quick. Okay.

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I'm just gonna grab your hips right here.

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Alright. When you're grabbing my head, I'm going

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to put my leg

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right behind your far leg right there, and

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then I'm going to turn

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to the side and fall to the ground

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right here. Now

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let's turn to the camera

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here. Now

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if I landed and you still have that

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grip,

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what I could do with this forearm

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is put it put put pressure on the

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face. Uh-huh. And if you don't let go,

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I'm just going to push down

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until I get my head out.

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So the more stubborn

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you will be

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with squeezing my head, the more pressure

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is gonna go down as I do the

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cross face.

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Okay. So it's very easy, very basic, you

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know, like we said. This is how it's

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gonna look in real time.

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Right here.

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And

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then up right here, I put my forearm

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on the face. Let's start to push push

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push

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to get my my head out. Okay.

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Nice. Nice. Nice.

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That's very common. That's very common.

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It get you in a headlock, especially in

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the match that the kids playing around? Also,

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one thing we say in jujitsu

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is the easiest defense

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is to not get caught in the beginning.

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So like just before getting your head cut,

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just always keep your head away and try

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to hand fight and not get caught. That's

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just something like, you know,

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don't fall down, but if you fall down,

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you break full. Same thing with submission.

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Don't get caught in a submission, but if

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you do, you have to react quick before

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the, you know, it gets deeper. So it's

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so beautiful how combat sports

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is so it's so in synchrony with life

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in general. And then we're talking about a

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man because the roughness and toughness that is

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required in order to get somewhere. You don't

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have the cauliflower here, Shay? I got a

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little. I try to take care of them.

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Try to take care of them. You know,

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that's just a sign and it's stripes to

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show, okay, I've been there, done that. So

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there's a lot of trial that I've that

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I've been through. Right? What's another move do

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you have? So we can show I show

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you the basic jab cross Okay. Which are

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straight punches. So the jab would be your

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straight lead hand, which in my stance right

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now would be my left. Mhmm. So that's

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a straight jab. And the cross would be

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the straight backhand,

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which is my right hand right now. So

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jab, cross. So if you were to throw

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that, you throw jab left hand first and

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then cross right there. And then you wanna

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generate the power using your hips, legs, and

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shoulders. We're not throwing hand punches, we're throwing

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punches using our full body. So jab,

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cross. Yes. You wanna keep your knuckles facing

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straight to your opponent.

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Boom. Boom. Just like that.

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Boom. Boom. Because we see very common in

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the street, people throwing, like, over hands and

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just wild punches.

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It's faster

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and more accurate to just come straight

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down. So even if you were to throw

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an overhand

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at the same time, I could reach your

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face faster throwing the straight punches

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than that. Those are so easy to defend.

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You just go under the punch, and it

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could leave you off balance

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so much. Whereas when I throw a tight

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jab cross,

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then even if I miss, I'm not falling

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off balance,

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if that makes sense.

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Yeah. So you're staying tight, you're staying firm

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and ready. Staying tight with your body, stay

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firm, and you just go right right down

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the middle. Where they say, you might hear

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a coach say tighten up your punches or

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go right down the middle, which means like

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don't be afraid if you see a lot

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of danger coming from the side, just beat

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him to it.

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Yes. And that's important too because like you

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mentioned in the headlock, it's maintaining your composure.

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Yes. You gotta keep your frame. Yes. You

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gotta stay focused. In the middle of the

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fire, in the middle of the fight,

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you gotta be calm

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but also ready to fire at any time.

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You know, you see some fighters that get

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in there very hard, and you see some

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that get in there like they're getting ready

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to sleep.

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They're just relaxed in their mind,

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but they're ready to fire and throw punches

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at any moment that's needed. So give me

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an example

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of, if you don't mind,

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and we can cut this Yeah. Your first

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loss, what

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mistake did you make, bro? My first loss

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was possibly, like, one of my biggest lessons.

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Okay. You know, I was, I was young.

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I was on a 4 fight winning streak.

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This is, like, when I started MMA. Everything

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was happening very quick, and I fought someone

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that I really

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was, like,

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maybe 3 times better than him.

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Everyone I fought until that fight -Okay. -Was

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considered better than me. And I don't know

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if I got a little bit cocky or

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I just got I was, like, in such

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a hurry

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to beat him

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that I just, like, dug a hole and

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trapped myself in it. And

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I lost that fight,

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and it was

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very depressing. It was so depressing, like, I

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never even thought

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or knew that, you know, I could recover

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from it. Like, Alhamdulillah,

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Alhamdulillah,

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I never ever was even close to even

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thinking suicidal thoughts, like, that wasn't even something

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that ever crossed my mind.

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But at some point, I was like, people

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that

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commit suicide because of depression,

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I kinda understand why they would do. Like,

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it wasn't ever crossing my mind but I

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was like, I kinda get where they're coming

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from because

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I just felt

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I was I got really famous really quick

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when I was young. And that fight,

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everyone watched it. Like, I'd go to the

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masjids, people would talk about it. I'd go

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to school, people would talk about it. Everywhere

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I went, people would talk about it and

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ask me questions. People thought I even sold

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the fight off and got paid

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because of how much they didn't expect me

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to lose that fight. And it's beautiful how

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you said, I understand what people that commit.

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I understand where what

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what world they were in. I see it,

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but I choose not to go. So did

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you have people around you that were, like,

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in your corner,

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literally in in metaphorically, like So so that's

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what helped me really bounce back was my

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dad was always in my corner. He was,

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with me in the fights, training camp at

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the fights, and then I was just I

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was just feeling so

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upset. And, alhamdulillah, my dad's also an imam.

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So he's an imam, and he's also an

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MMA trainer.

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So, you know, I would sometimes I just

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tell him, like, well, dad, you know, why?

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Like, why? Why? You know, like, why did

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I lose? Like, I did everything.

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I trained. So and I'm a better Muslim

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than that guy. I'm a better fighter. Like,

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you know, I said everything. I was like,

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so why did Allah choose me to lose?

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Like, why why me not why didn't he

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lose? You know? And then my dad started

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telling me, like, Okay, calm down, don't say

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anything

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that, you know, this is a little dangerous.

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Now you're on the lines

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of, like, you know, saying things. I don't

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know. So he humbled me real quick, got

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me to calm down.

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Then he said,

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you're a fighter, right?

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You fight. You fight. That doesn't mean you're

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winning every every second of every day. It

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means you fight. So, whether you have an

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opponent and you beat him, you won the

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fight. If you lost, then you have to

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fight back. And if it's not that same

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opponent, you fight back within yourself, like Shaitan.

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That that the shaitan and the loss itself,

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and and now you're being tested. And that's

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really it. You know, he always told me,

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like, even when I won big fights, you

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know, we'd celebrate, we'd be so happy. He's

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like, by the way, this could still be

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a test. It's still part of that test.

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You know how when you lost, you were

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tested? Yeah. This win could also be a

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test so use it use it to the

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for the good. And alhamdulillah, you know, I

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still have my mom. I still have my

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dad. They're always here to, like, just humble

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me and keep me in check no matter

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what, but that that lesson that my dad

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father gave me was to always

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fight back no matter what like I mean

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you could be in rock bottom.

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Just fight back,

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rise up, and always try to find a

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way. Tougher things that you go through in

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life and then you're like

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complaining isn't gonna do anything.

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Let me just fight back and that's where

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I start to think what are the steps

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that I'm gonna do to fight back.

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What's another move that you got for us?

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So if we're striking right now and we

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did the jab cross, another move would be

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right now, let's say let's utilize our legs.

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Okay. We're gonna do a roundhouse kick. The

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roundhouse kick could be to the leg, to

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the body, or to the head, but for

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just making it a little simple, we're going

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to kick the leg. When we're kicking, we're

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rotating our hips all the way and the

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point of contact I'm doing with is the

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shin. So I'm kicking with the shin

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right there on the thigh, just right above

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the knee. Right there.

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So kick right here and then you'll kick

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me also right there. Right there, you wanna

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turn your hips a little bit more, that's

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where you generate your power from. So we

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go one kick here

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and one kick there, and we kick, and

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we kick, and sometimes we'll do this for

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conditioning our legs because as you could feel,

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it's getting a little tender, and we just

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start to go hard and hard, and we

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kick, and at the same time when you're

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kicking, you wanna keep your hand up.

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That's one thing which is your technique,

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And number 2 is the tactic of when

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you throw the kick. We don't just throw

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a naked kick alone in front of our

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opponent, we set it up. So right now

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let's say we're throwing the jab, just that

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punch to set it up, and then we

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throw the kick. So you can throw the

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left jab that we took and then the

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kick. Uh-huh. So here, jab

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and kick,

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jab and kick,

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jab and kick.

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This way, you'll have your opponent

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either you hit him in the face and

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his head goes up a little bit or

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he just focuses on blocking the punch. And

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in that time, that's where you kick. Okay.

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So you wanna switch it up. You don't

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wanna focus too much up and then too

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much down.

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You wanna switch it up on your opponent

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and hide that into your stance. You want

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everything you're doing whether it's shooting a takedown,

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throwing a punch, or a kick, all coming

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from the same stance. Mhmm. Just like that.

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You don't wanna get too low every time

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you wanna shoot for a take down. You

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don't wanna get too high every time you're

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throwing a punch because then just by doing

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that, he'll understand and know what to expect

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from you. Yeah. And that's what's beautiful as

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well because, SubhanAllah, as you mentioned, I'm coming

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with the jab up top, but then the

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kick at the bottom. Yes. And life will

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come at you up top, and it'll come

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at you at the bottom. You have to

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be ready, and you won't know how to

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be ready unless you've trained

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or failed and faced those situations. Many, many

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times. Many, many times. Many, many times before.

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Last move you got for us. Last move.

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Let's go. So now we could go down

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on the ground for a basic rear naked

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choke. Okay. This is such an effective

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move because

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you have full control

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over your opponent before the choke happens. So

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right here, this is what we call seat

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belt or more like backpack.

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Wherever you go right, left, up, down, I'm

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just gonna be very tight to you. So

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it's a seat belt because

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I have 1

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and 2 and I'm just tight. No matter

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what you do or react, I'm here. And

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then when I'm ready to go for the

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choke or I see the opening,

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I go with this hand right here. I

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wanna cup your shoulder. I wanna grab your

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shoulder right here. And my elbow should be,

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like, right under your chin.

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If you're right here, it's easier to peel

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off the hand. Mhmm. So I'm gonna come

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from right here, go all the way, and

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cup the shoulder. Cause I have this hand

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under. Mhmm. I let go of that and

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it goes behind your head and I grab

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my bicep. Mhmm. And it just comes right

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here and I

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squeeze gradually until

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we get the tap or the sleep. Okay.

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So right here.

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Mhmm.

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Now you're you're fighting. You could be fighting.

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So why I put this hand over my

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choking hand Uh-huh. Is because you're gonna try

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to peel my hands. And you're gonna peel

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the hand that's on top, and that's where

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my choking hand goes here. If I put

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my choking hand first and you start to

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peel it, then it's gonna be me fighting

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your strength and most likely not gonna be

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able to get the choke. So I hide

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my choking hand with this hand in the

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bottom. So when you try to peel it,

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I go in right away. Now this one's

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easy to take out. And I, you know,

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I like to whisper in their ears like,

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you know, go to sleep or something before.

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Okay. Let me ask you. Why are your

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feet here? What's up with that? So this

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this way, because we said the like the

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the backpack, I get to control

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everywhere you go. I'm with you. Whether you

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go right or left. So even if I

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roll you over like this I'll still be

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behind you wherever you go. If you stand

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up, if you turn around, I'll be behind

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you. And any moment

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that you're trying to get up or you're

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actually up, any moment I can always get

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the chokes. But you will never want to

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put your hands on the mat because that

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means there's nothing to protect your neck. Right

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here, you always wanna protect your neck for

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you, use your hands. But if you put

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your hands down, then I'm going for the

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neck. I know that it's open. I got

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a question. People are probably wondering, is this

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the hole that

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that Khabib got caught in?

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Yes. That's the one. The rear naked choke.

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Yeah. Right here. Choke. So how do you

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Yeah. You have the had it right here,

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but they were they were more on the

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side. Uh-huh. And the Habib was behind him

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more on top. Okay. But, you know, this

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is just the basic one from here. And

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you you get if you get that chill,

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you could land it from anywhere. So actually

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if you ask me

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what is,

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from all of MMA, what is one move

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that I would want to practice for also

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self defense? Right. It would be this because

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if I want to diffuse a situation,

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I can do it safely, like, without actually

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damaging someone

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permanently Mhmm. Just by choking them out. Like,

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if, let's say, there's a robber in the

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store, someone that's trying to attack me Mhmm.

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And I don't wanna shoot him. I don't

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wanna stab him. I don't wanna punch him.

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I don't wanna break anything.

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You can just get him in this choke

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hold

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and sleep him,

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just have him on the side, and that's

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it. Like, choke him out unconscious.

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He'll wake up, like, 20 seconds later just

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confused,

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But he'll he'll be okay to go on

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with his days. So

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how long have you been in this been

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doing MMA?

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So my first professional MMA fight was in

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2012.

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So 14 years

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right now. 14 years. Actually, 12 years. 14

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years. Okay. 12 years. So so what message

00:28:02 --> 00:28:04

would you give to the young men out

00:28:04 --> 00:28:06

there, the men out there in regards to,

00:28:06 --> 00:28:08

and the moms, man,

00:28:08 --> 00:28:10

is combat sports something important

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in regards to resilience? Like

00:28:13 --> 00:28:14

failure,

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is it something that is important in regards

00:28:16 --> 00:28:18

to failure? Like, someone gets into it, what

00:28:18 --> 00:28:20

will they learn from it when it comes

00:28:20 --> 00:28:22

to improving them self in life? And that's

00:28:22 --> 00:28:24

that's a great question because

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no matter

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where what stage you are in life,

00:28:29 --> 00:28:30

whether you're

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5 years old

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or you're you're, like, 50, 40, martial arts

00:28:37 --> 00:28:40

will always help you at whatever stage you're

00:28:40 --> 00:28:42

at. If you're a young kid, it's gonna

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help you develop that character, that discipline, and

00:28:45 --> 00:28:47

that confidence. That's very important

00:28:48 --> 00:28:49

to a young man

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to grow up and have that. You don't

00:28:52 --> 00:28:54

have to be a professional fighter. It doesn't

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it doesn't have to be your career to

00:28:56 --> 00:28:58

do this. You don't even have to compete,

00:28:58 --> 00:29:02

but just learning martial arts and going into

00:29:02 --> 00:29:04

a gym will always be better for you

00:29:04 --> 00:29:04

because

00:29:05 --> 00:29:06

a lot of times,

00:29:07 --> 00:29:09

nothing is gonna be harder outside of this

00:29:09 --> 00:29:11

room. So whenever life

00:29:11 --> 00:29:13

knocks you down, whenever you have a problem

00:29:13 --> 00:29:15

in life, you will just go back to

00:29:15 --> 00:29:18

the basics of how you recover from that

00:29:18 --> 00:29:19

problem and how you deal with it. It

00:29:19 --> 00:29:21

reminds me of Usain Bolt, the beautiful statement.

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I trained 4 years

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for 9 seconds. Yes.

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You know, that preparation.

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And that's the that's what I really wanna

00:29:30 --> 00:29:31

end on is just

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the fact that I don't think we understand

00:29:34 --> 00:29:36

like how he trains and how any fighter

00:29:36 --> 00:29:37

you see how they train,

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they train months on in for a small

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moment.

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And then if you lose at that moment,

00:29:43 --> 00:29:45

getting back up is not easy. Yeah. And

00:29:45 --> 00:29:46

we talked about that earlier. And how you

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mentioned entering that realm of those that have

00:29:48 --> 00:29:51

done things that are detrimental to them. So

00:29:51 --> 00:29:54

keep in mind the importance of being resilient

00:29:54 --> 00:29:56

as a man. Know that you're going to

00:29:56 --> 00:29:58

fail. You're gonna make mistakes. You may feel

00:29:58 --> 00:29:59

embarrassed.

00:29:59 --> 00:30:02

People may try to embarrass you, but getting

00:30:02 --> 00:30:05

up will only make you stronger. The Treaty

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

of Hudaybiyyah was after the loss at the

00:30:07 --> 00:30:08

battle of Uhud.

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Many times in life of the prophet we've

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seen. So,

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for your time. Of course. And let us

00:30:14 --> 00:30:15

come to your gym, man. Of course. Thanks

00:30:15 --> 00:30:17

a lot. Plain to see you again.

00:30:19 --> 00:30:21

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00:30:25 --> 00:30:26

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00:30:26 --> 00:30:28

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