Abdullah Hakim Quick – New Muslim Corner – The Danger Of Scandals

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The importance of embracing Islam is highlighted in various segments, including the need for individuals to try their best to be humble and avoiding negative behavior. The importance of being a Muslim is emphasized, as it is crucial for protecting privacy and community. Backbiting is a big deal, and people should try their best to be humble. The importance of protecting individual privacy and community is also emphasized.

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			Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Raheem, alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen,
		
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			wa usalli wa usallam ala sayyid al-awwaleen
		
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			wa al-akhireen, nabiyyina Muhammadin, wa ala alihi
		
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			wa sahbihi, wa barak wa salam.
		
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			All praise is due to Allah, Lord of
		
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			the Worlds, and peace and blessings be constantly
		
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			showered upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad, the Master
		
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			of the First and the Last, his family,
		
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			his companions, and all those who call to
		
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			his way, and establish his sunnah to the
		
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			Day of Judgment.
		
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			My beloved brothers and sisters to our viewers,
		
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			as-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah.
		
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			So alhamdulillah, this is our new Muslim Corner,
		
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			and the original intention was to provide a
		
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			type of space for those who have recently
		
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			embraced Islam, those who are interested in Islam,
		
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			and also those who have revived their faith,
		
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			a meeting place, and also a place where
		
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			questions could be answered.
		
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			It turns out with social media, we've added
		
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			on another component, so we have hundreds of
		
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			people who actually come online to watch our
		
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			class, but really the intention is not to
		
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			be that formal, but it's really to try
		
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			to provide reasonable answers to some of the
		
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			questions that normally don't get answered in major
		
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			venues.
		
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			So we wanted to review again some of
		
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			the important issues concerning being a Muslim, and
		
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			a great North African scholar, Sidi Abdur Rahman
		
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			al-Akhtari, in one of his texts that
		
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			he was writing explaining Islam, he started off
		
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			by putting a section called Requirements for a
		
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			New Muslim, and that is something different that
		
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			you don't find classical scholars writing about, and
		
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			I was impressed by how relevant his words
		
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			were in terms of making the transition from
		
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			different ways of life into an Islamic way
		
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			of life.
		
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			And he started off, and we've covered some
		
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			of it already, but in the beginning, he
		
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			said it's important for a person to check
		
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			their faith, that they should authenticate their faith,
		
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			and that presumes or supposes that the person
		
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			has faith.
		
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			So his approach was very interesting, because he
		
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			didn't deny the fact that other people have
		
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			religions, but really are they authenticated, and what
		
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			are the principles within your way of life.
		
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			That's what's important for a person who comes
		
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			into Islam, because we carry with us the
		
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			baggage of our former life, and it's not
		
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			all bad.
		
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			And I know that when you look at
		
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			people who come into Islam from Christianity, or
		
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			Judaism, there's not that much difference in terms
		
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			of morality.
		
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			So it's very similar.
		
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			As a matter of fact, from Christianity, it's
		
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			really similar to Christianity, but Muslims are implementing
		
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			what Christians talk about, like fasting.
		
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			We implement the fast in a detailed way,
		
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			and prayers, we have constant prayers.
		
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			So really, the essence of the message was
		
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			not that Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him,
		
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			who came 1400 years ago, that he was
		
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			not the first prophet of Islam.
		
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			But we see him as the seal of
		
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			the prophets.
		
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			So he is the final messenger that came
		
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			to humanity.
		
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			And so, within that transition, Sidi Abdurrahman made
		
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			some very important points.
		
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			And this is good for somebody who's embracing
		
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			Islam, and you sort of want to know,
		
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			what should I do?
		
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			Similarly, if you get a job, you're working
		
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			at a high-tech corporation, and there's certain
		
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			rules within the corporation, there's a certain lifestyle,
		
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			so you need to adjust your life to
		
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			this new way of life, so to speak,
		
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			that you have.
		
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			And so, Sidi Abdurrahman brought some interesting points,
		
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			and he said that a person who becomes
		
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			a Muslim, so when you accept Islam, it's
		
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			not that you have not become an Arab,
		
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			you've not become Pakistani, you've not become Turkish,
		
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			whatever you are, you're still the same.
		
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			But the difference is lifestyle change.
		
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			And the essence of that lifestyle change is
		
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			in the belief in the creator, that we
		
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			focus on the creator above the created things.
		
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			And Sidi Abdurrahman also said that when a
		
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			person embraces Islam, that person should try their
		
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			best to call to righteousness and forbid evil.
		
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			So now, you have to see yourself now,
		
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			that you're actually in an active struggle.
		
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			You're actively struggling for righteousness, to try to
		
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			do good as much as you can, and
		
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			also to try to forbid evil.
		
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			And this is a big topic, and it's
		
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			not required immediately that a person who embraces
		
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			Islam does that, but this is sort of
		
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			how you change yourself, the emphasis in your
		
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			life.
		
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			And he said, it is forbidden to lie,
		
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			to backbite, to spread scandal, to behave arrogantly,
		
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			to be conceited.
		
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			It means you think you're the best, and
		
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			you look down on other people.
		
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			To show off, especially in worship.
		
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			It's also forbidden to be envious or filled
		
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			with hatred.
		
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			So this is a big change, because in
		
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			many of our cultures, you'll see that lying
		
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			has become a way of life for people.
		
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			They even say, well, there's different types of
		
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			lies.
		
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			Some of the news agencies, actually, they're professional
		
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			liars, because they're actually trained on how to
		
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			make what is real seem false, or to
		
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			make what is false appear to be real.
		
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			It's like deception, right?
		
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			So as a Muslim, you're not supposed to
		
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			be involved in deception.
		
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			And you shouldn't be backbiting on people.
		
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			That means that you're talking about them behind
		
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			their back in a way that you wouldn't
		
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			talk in front of their face.
		
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			Okay, so backbiting is a big thing, especially
		
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			people on telephones and talking to their friends,
		
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			like what is the main part of the
		
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			conversation?
		
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			Are you talking about other people?
		
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			For some people, that's 90% of their
		
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			conversation.
		
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			As a Muslim, you have to try to
		
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			come out of this now, come out of
		
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			backbiting.
		
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			And the higher level of this backbiting is
		
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			like scandal.
		
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			And scandal is when you're now accusing somebody.
		
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			It's not just talking about them in a
		
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			bad way, but this is where you're actually
		
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			accusing them.
		
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			And this can become legal, too, when you're
		
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			scandalizing somebody.
		
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			Then he went on giving general characteristics that
		
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			we have to be humble.
		
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			As a Muslim, try not to be arrogant,
		
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			and avoid arrogance in any form that it
		
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			comes.
		
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			And showing off, and showing off especially in
		
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			worship.
		
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			And we have learned before that showing off
		
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			in worship can even become a form of
		
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			shirk, polytheism.
		
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			When a person is doing their Ibadah, they
		
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			are praying to Allah, not just for the
		
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			Creator, but to be seen by people.
		
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			So that's Riyadh, and we had learned before
		
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			how dangerous Riyadh actually is.
		
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			And in general, hatred.
		
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			And it's interesting because there was a story
		
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			of the Prophet, peace be upon him, and
		
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			he was with his companions in Medina.
		
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			And a person came into the mosque, and
		
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			he's described that he still had some wetness
		
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			on his beard from making his ablution.
		
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			And he came in, and as he was
		
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			coming in in the distance, he said to
		
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			his companions, that person coming in the door
		
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			is from the people of Paradise.
		
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			Okay, so this is not something small, this
		
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			is big.
		
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			That person is of the people of Jannah.
		
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			In other words, after death.
		
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			And then he came in and functioned, and
		
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			the next day it happened again, and it
		
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			happened again.
		
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			So one of his companions, Abdullahi ibn Abbas,
		
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			I believe it was, he wanted to know
		
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			something about this person.
		
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			So he found out where he lived.
		
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			He lived sort of on the outskirts of
		
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			Medina, and he visited in his home, and
		
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			he said to him, if you don't mind,
		
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			I'm traveling, and I need a place to
		
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			stay.
		
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			So the brother then said, okay, fine, you
		
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			can stay.
		
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			So Abdullahi then watched the person, and he
		
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			waited in the night.
		
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			He stayed up to see what this person
		
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			does, because to be of the people of
		
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			Paradise is not something small, right?
		
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			And he watched him, and later he said,
		
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			I didn't really see that much.
		
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			And after the third day, he said to
		
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			the person, I have to tell you the
		
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			truth.
		
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			I'm not actually traveling, I came to see
		
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			you.
		
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			Because the Prophet, peace be upon him, spoke
		
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			about you very highly.
		
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			But I noticed that you didn't do anything
		
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			much different than what normal Muslims do.
		
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			He said that I saw you at night.
		
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			Sometimes when he would turn over, he would
		
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			say, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			He would just say this, but nothing strange.
		
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			And the person said, I pray like you.
		
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			I fast like you.
		
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			But maybe I don't hate anybody.
		
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			He said, I don't hate anybody.
		
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			And I don't have any desire for the
		
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			materials of other people.
		
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			These are just two qualities.
		
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			There's no hate inside of me, and there's
		
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			no greed, envy, like I don't want other
		
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			people's material.
		
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			And then Abdullahi said, now I see you
		
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			have something that we don't have.
		
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			He said, now I can see it.
		
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			So this quality of just trying the best
		
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			to get hatred and negativity out of yourself.
		
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			This is part of being a Muslim.
		
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			And that of course flies in the face
		
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			of all the propaganda and all the stereotyping
		
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			and whatever.
		
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			And this is the essence of the other
		
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			great religions as well.
		
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			Then Sidi Abdul Rahman, he said that do
		
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			not remind people of past kindness, nor defame
		
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			them.
		
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			Don't defame people, don't ridicule them, and don't
		
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			spread innuendos.
		
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			This is like false reports about the person.
		
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			And that is that sometimes what people do,
		
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			they will do a favor for somebody.
		
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			And then later on they come back and
		
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			you remember what I did for you?
		
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			It's like you owe me.
		
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			He said don't do that.
		
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			And don't put people down.
		
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			Don't ridicule people.
		
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			In some cultures, ridiculing people is part of
		
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			the culture.
		
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			Especially in the younger generation, they just ridicule
		
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			back and forth.
		
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			Even some of the spoken word people who
		
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			have gone off the path, the rappers and
		
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			whatever, they'll spend a lot of their time
		
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			just talking about somebody else.
		
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			That was not the original hip-hop spoken
		
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			word.
		
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			The original spoken word was a type of
		
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			rebellion against the society.
		
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			It started in the 60s with a group
		
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			called The Last Poets out of Brooklyn, New
		
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			York.
		
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			They were the ones that started this.
		
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			But then the whole movement, you could say,
		
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			hip-hop movement, it was co-opted by
		
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			the system and then gangster rap came.
		
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			So where they became gangsters.
		
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			And they dedicated themselves to evil.
		
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			So this now, as a Muslim, you've got
		
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			to clear yourself of this.
		
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			To be serious.
		
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			And he said, and this is part of
		
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			our training, do not stare at the opposite
		
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			* or sensually delight in their words.
		
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			So this is part of our training now
		
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			that is happening in how we function with
		
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			other people.
		
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			So these are some of the requirements.
		
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			These are some of the interesting points to
		
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			think about.
		
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			Those who are embracing Islam.
		
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			Other than just the rituals, because sometimes a
		
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			person will accept Islam and say, well, you've
		
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			got to pray and don't eat any pork.
		
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			They'll tell you certain things and they want
		
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			you to change your name too.
		
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			And you don't have to change your name.
		
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			That's not part of Islam to change your
		
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			name.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So these are more practical ways of making
		
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			the transition into a state of Islam.
		
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			And this connects us directly back to the
		
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			story of the Prophet's life called Sirat al
		
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			-Nabawiyah.
		
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			It's the prophetic biography.
		
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			We're just going through this because many people
		
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			do not know the messenger of Allah.
		
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			For many people that the Kalima La ilaha
		
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			illallah Muhammadur Rasulullah.
		
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			So if a person says there's no God
		
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			but Allah, that's something which is easy to
		
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			explain because it's saying that you believe in
		
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			the creator.
		
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			And that's something you'll find in many cultures.
		
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			But to say that Muhammad is the messenger
		
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			of Allah, who is he?
		
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			Like what information do you have about his
		
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			life?
		
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			And so this is what we're trying to
		
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			bring in a very basic way so that
		
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			we can become more familiar with the messenger
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Peace and blessings be upon him.
		
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			So we found ourself in the second part
		
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			of his life.
		
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			The first part called the Meccan period.
		
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			For 13 years he was in the city
		
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			of Mecca and he was teaching the belief
		
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			in one God.
		
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			He was breaking down class differences, breaking down
		
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			racial differences, the abuse of women.
		
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			And the polytheists reacted against him, insulted him,
		
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			tortured him and his followers.
		
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			And eventually they had to migrate to Yathrib,
		
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			later called Medina.
		
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			In Medina the polytheists did not let them
		
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			go.
		
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			They attacked them.
		
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			So they found themselves under attack.
		
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			And we just finished studying the third of
		
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			the major attacks, which is the Battle of
		
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			the Trench.
		
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			And this is where 10,000 warriors were
		
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			sent for the final solution, to totally exterminate
		
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			the Muslims.
		
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			Genocide, right?
		
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			This is a term now which is coming
		
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			to the surface.
		
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			This was a genocide.
		
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			That was their intention.
		
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			But Allah had something different and they were
		
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			blocked from doing this and sent back.
		
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			So after this there were a number of
		
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			minor campaigns.
		
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			The polytheists did not let them go.
		
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			They would attack them in different places and
		
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			try to break up the trade.
		
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			And so this happened in many different places.
		
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			So the Prophet, peace be upon him, then,
		
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			in order to forbid evil, in order to
		
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			clear the roads for the Muslims and to
		
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			protect the life of believers, started to send
		
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			groups of people out to confront the criminals
		
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			and those who were attacking them on the
		
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			roads and those tribes that became hostile.
		
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			And these are what they call the campaigns.
		
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			So it was like a campaign.
		
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			You're sending somebody out to a particular area.
		
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			And this particular journey that they went to
		
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			was a journey to a place called a
		
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			tribe of Benu Mustalaq.
		
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			Benu Mustalaq, that was the name of the
		
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			tribe.
		
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			And they had announced their hostility and were
		
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			about to do something to harm the Muslims.
		
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			So instead of waiting for them to do
		
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			it, they went out in order to stop
		
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			them in their tracks.
		
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			And the Prophet, peace be upon him, himself
		
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			was on the campaign.
		
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			And it was his habit to also take
		
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			his wife there.
		
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			He would take his wife.
		
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			He eventually had a plural wife, more than
		
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			one.
		
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			But he would take one of his wives
		
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			with him on the journey.
		
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			So she's involved.
		
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			So in this case, he took Aisha.
		
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			She came on the journey to Benu Mustalaq.
		
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			And Aisha is described.
		
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			She was younger.
		
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			She was very thin and whatever.
		
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			They were covering themselves completely.
		
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			And once the battle was over, or it
		
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			really wasn't a battle.
		
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			It was a confrontation.
		
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			And Benu Mustalaq was dealt with.
		
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			The camp of the Muslims.
		
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			Normally how the Muslims set up is that
		
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			you have your camps.
		
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			And then you would send out people in
		
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			the front.
		
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			These are the scouts.
		
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			And then there are people in the back.
		
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			It's like the security.
		
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			It's the people who make sure that nothing's
		
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			happening in the back.
		
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			That's normally how the caravan moves.
		
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			And Aisha was traveling on a camel.
		
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			And they had a special compartment for some
		
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			of the women who needed to have it
		
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			as a houdich, which is sort of like
		
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			a compartment on a camel.
		
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			So you're sort of inside of that.
		
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			So normally she would get into the houdich,
		
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			and then the camel would come, and then
		
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			they would move.
		
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			And Aisha is reported that she lost, I
		
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			think it was one of her bangles, while
		
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			they were out there.
		
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			So she realized she didn't have the bangles.
		
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			And so the caravan is moving.
		
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			But she's a strong-willed person.
		
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			So she got down and went back to
		
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			where the camp was and is looking around
		
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			for it.
		
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			And after a while she found it.
		
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			But when she turned around, the caravan was
		
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			gone.
		
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			Now look at this situation.
		
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			So she's alone there in the desert.
		
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			The caravan has gone.
		
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			And she wasn't sure what to do.
		
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			And so one of the people in the
		
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			back, the ones who clean up and watch
		
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			the back, his name was Safwan ibn Muattal.
		
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			And so Safwan, clearing the back and making
		
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			sure, looked, and lo and behold, it's Aisha
		
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			standing there.
		
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			This is the wife of the prophet.
		
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			And so this is a serious situation.
		
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			But having the character and the adab, because
		
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			Islam gives you a way to deal in
		
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			a practical sense, how to protect dignity, how
		
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			to protect each other, especially male and female.
		
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			It's not discrimination.
		
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			It's protection.
		
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			So what he did was he announced to
		
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			her who he was.
		
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			And he said, I will take you back
		
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			to Medina.
		
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			Not a problem.
		
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			And so he let her get on his
		
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			riding animal.
		
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			I believe it was a horse.
		
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			And so she would ride and he would
		
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			walk, pulling the animal.
		
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			And when nighttime came, he would set up
		
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			a camp for her.
		
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			And then he would set another one up
		
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			in a close distance, protecting her but not
		
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			putting her under any difficulty.
		
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			And so they would spend the time and
		
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			they had to move back because it took
		
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			a few days.
		
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			And so when they entered Medina, and this
		
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			is a small town, and small towns, you
		
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			know how it is, people know each other
		
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			and they talk, right?
		
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			Now, remember what Sidi Abdelrahman was saying in
		
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			the beginning, one of the points that he
		
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			said right away, don't backbite.
		
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			You want to be a Muslim?
		
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			Start working on backbiting and scandal, because it's
		
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			something really serious.
		
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			So now Safwan is entering Medina and pulling
		
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			Aisha is on the horse.
		
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			And people are looking and they're naturally saying
		
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			like, what is this?
		
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			What is this?
		
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			And he's innocent.
		
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			In a sense, he's just doing his duty.
		
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			But the backbiters begin.
		
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			The scandal begins.
		
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			Now, what do you think people might say?
		
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			What does that look like to you?
		
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			You should assume the best about somebody, because
		
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			it's obviously an abnormal situation that she is
		
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			there, the wife of the Messenger of Allah,
		
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			and somebody who's not in her family or
		
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			anything like that, like bringing her along.
		
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			Okay, you should assume the best.
		
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			But shaitan, you know, the devil can get
		
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			to the heart easy, right?
		
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			And that's how bad thinking and whatnot.
		
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			Remember, and it's also in Medina, a group
		
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			of people called the munafiqeen.
		
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			And these are the hypocrites.
		
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			So the hypocrites, as we learned, is one
		
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			of the groups within Medina.
		
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			And they are people who claim to be
		
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			Muslim, but inside themselves, they are something totally
		
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			different.
		
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			Okay, so they're looking for things.
		
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			And so the hypocrites began a scandal, and
		
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			they started spreading it around.
		
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			That Aisha is a loose woman.
		
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			She was, you know, having an affair with
		
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			Safwan.
		
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			You know, that's how you say it today,
		
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			right?
		
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			It started to spread.
		
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			And this eventually got back to the Prophet,
		
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			peace and blessings be upon him.
		
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			It reached him.
		
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			And he approached her naturally.
		
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			He had met Safwan, and, you know, no
		
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			problem.
		
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			And, you know, she expected that everybody would
		
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			accept her.
		
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			But human beings are human beings.
		
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			And so she was really upset by this.
		
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			How could people be making a scandal or
		
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			a rumor about me, knowing who I am?
		
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			And, you know, to the point where she
		
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			was actually, you know, getting sick because she
		
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			was so upset.
		
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			And she resorted to, you know, the Quran,
		
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			فَصَبْرًا جَمِعًا وَاللَّهُ مُسْتَعًا You know, that is
		
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			in Surah Yusuf, where it says, you know,
		
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			have a beautiful patience, and Allah will help
		
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			you.
		
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			Okay, and so this is what she constantly,
		
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			you know, was saying at this point in
		
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			time.
		
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			And it took a while, but eventually it
		
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			was getting serious.
		
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			It was starting to get serious.
		
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			And finally, Allah subhana wa ta'ala, there
		
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			was a revelation in the Quran.
		
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			Because as we have learned before, and I'll
		
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			get the actual point for you, as we
		
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			have learned before, let me just find this
		
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			for you.
		
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			Yeah, the Quran was revealed, not as a
		
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			book that comes down out of the sky,
		
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			but it was revealed according to circumstances that
		
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			people found themselves in.
		
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			And so, this is chapter 24, verse 11.
		
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			Okay, and what it basically is saying is
		
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			that indeed, إِنَّ لَذِينَ جَعُوا بِالْإِفْقِ أُصْبَةٌ مِنْكُمْ
		
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			So it says, indeed, those who came with
		
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			falsehood are a group among you.
		
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			Do you think it bad for you?
		
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			Rather, it is good for you.
		
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			For every person among them, for every person
		
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			among them is a punishment he has earned
		
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			from the sin.
		
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			And he who took upon himself the greater
		
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			portion thereof, for him is a great punishment.
		
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			So, the verse was revealed, and this actually
		
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			cleared her name.
		
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			So this is a divine revelation, and it
		
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			cleared her name.
		
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			And they also established a punishment.
		
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			They actually punished the people who were involved
		
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			in this with 80 lashes for this.
		
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			And their reputation, of course, was affected.
		
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			But the point is that Aisha, رضي الله
		
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			عنها, she was cleared.
		
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			And so this is now considered to be
		
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			a very big part of the seerah.
		
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			And it's dealing with the issue of scandalization
		
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			and backbiting and how serious it actually is
		
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			within Islam.
		
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			And this is considered to be.
		
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			There is one hadith where the Prophet, peace
		
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			be upon him, said that there are, you
		
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			know, he said, beware of seven grievous sins.
		
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			Seven grievous sins.
		
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			And one of these grievous sins, which included
		
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			like ash-shirk billah, polytheism, magic, committing murder,
		
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			stealing the wealth of orphans, running from battle,
		
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			some very serious things.
		
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			And one of them is to falsely accuse
		
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			Muslim women of immorality.
		
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			That is considered to be one of the
		
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			seven worst sins that you can do.
		
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			And by this, it stabilizes the community.
		
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			It stabilizes the society.
		
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			And this goes down in history and it
		
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			is a good example for us.
		
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			And you can see why Sidi Abdurrahman said
		
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			right from the beginning, if a person is
		
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			coming into Islam, you have to watch backbiting
		
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			and scandal.
		
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			Because this is a big thing.
		
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			Start working on it right away.
		
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			So I want to open up the floor
		
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			for any questions that anybody may have concerning
		
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			this particular campaign.
		
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			This is the campaign of Banu Mustalaq and
		
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			what came out of this.
		
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			So the floor is open for any questions
		
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			anybody may have concerning this.
		
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			Floor is open.
		
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			Look online and see if there are any
		
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			questions.
		
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			You didn't mention this, but the person, Misbah,
		
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			who started spreading who was a relative of
		
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			Abu Bakr, when it was revealed that maybe
		
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			you should explain what I'm trying to explain.
		
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			My question is about the fact that Abu
		
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			Bakr was basically told to have mercy on
		
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			him and to continue to give him charity.
		
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			Because he was giving charity to this relative
		
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			who had slandered Aisha, right?
		
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			My question is, did he ever repent for
		
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			that?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			I mean, the people realize, I mean, the
		
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			person who was for Dandara, I don't know
		
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			exactly that specific person.
		
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			But generally speaking, they did.
		
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			I mean, one of them was actually a
		
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			person named Hassan ibn Dabit.
		
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			You know, Radhi Allahu Anhu.
		
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			And he was one of the poets.
		
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			He was a poet.
		
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			And he actually used to read poetry to
		
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			defend the Prophet.
		
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			But see, he's got a loose mouth, right?
		
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			Poets sometimes, they have a loose mouth.
		
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			So he somehow got involved in this.
		
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			But he was acquitted and, you know, did
		
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			his whatever punishment.
		
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			And he later on still becomes a good
		
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			companion.
		
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			He made a mistake.
		
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			Shouldn't have done that.
		
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			To make repentance for backbiting, do you correct
		
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			it by going to the person that you
		
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			said it to, and the person that you
		
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			said it about, even though they did not
		
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			know that you said it?
		
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			Like, do you go up to them and
		
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			you say, hey, you didn't know this, but
		
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			I said this, this, this about you.
		
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			I apologize.
		
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			I corrected, I told the person that I
		
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			told it to.
		
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			Right, right, right.
		
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			Is that the process?
		
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			Well, you know, of course, in making the
		
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			repentance, you shouldn't be harming yourself or harming
		
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			the relationship necessarily.
		
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			And if the person didn't know it and
		
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			you came with it, you know, that might
		
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			cause more problems than it is solving problems.
		
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			But maybe to go to that person and
		
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			say good things about the person.
		
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			And really, you know, the example we're saying
		
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			is that if the person said something about,
		
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			you know, the name of a person or
		
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			their actions, whatever, negative, then you have to
		
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			spread a good rumor, not a rumor.
		
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			You have to say good things until it
		
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			overcomes the bad.
		
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			Okay, so you have to overcome.
		
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			That's your way of paying back.
		
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			Because how can you pay back for something
		
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			like scandal, like a rumor?
		
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			You can't.
		
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			But if you say good things about that
		
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			person, you know, then that would cover up
		
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			as much as possible.
		
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			As well as, of course, making your repentance
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			Yeah, but it's probably not advised.
		
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			I mean, there may be some cases where
		
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			that might help.
		
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			But usually, probably it wouldn't help.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			It's just like we said, if somebody had
		
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			stolen goods from the store, and they stole
		
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			about $100, you know, from, you know, the
		
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			grocery store and before they were Muslim, they
		
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			said, I'm liberating this from the capitalists.
		
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			You know, but he's stealing it, right?
		
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			But he thinks he's a Marxist-Leninist revolutionary.
		
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			Then he accepts Islam, and then say it
		
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			was a storekeeper.
		
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			He owes that person $100.
		
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			It wouldn't be wise to go to him
		
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			and say, I stole $100 worth of your
		
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			goods.
		
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			Because he might call the police.
		
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			Give it back to him.
		
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			Put it in an envelope, whatever, and just
		
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			give it to him.
		
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			Leave it under his door.
		
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			But that's compensation.
		
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			Radd al-madhalib.
		
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			Which is a big thing in repentance.
		
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			And this is really serious thing now.
		
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			It goes on an individual level and also
		
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			institutional level.
		
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			There's a thing called reparations.
		
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			Reparations is a big thing, like the slavery,
		
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			you know, system here in the Americas.
		
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			Is it enough to just say, you know,
		
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			I'm sorry.
		
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			Like today, I think I heard on the
		
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			radio that President Bush, I mean, President Biden,
		
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			you know, he said to the Native people
		
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			in America that, I apologize.
		
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			Okay, you apologized for the residential schools that
		
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			they kept the Natives in, you know, I
		
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			think it was Maryland.
		
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			That's good.
		
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			But there's something more than that.
		
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			You have to make reparations.
		
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			You have to now, you know, raise their
		
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			standard of living.
		
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			You have to do something to cover the
		
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			wrong that was done.
		
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			For those children, you know, who lost their
		
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			identity, who were tortured, and things that happened
		
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			in these residential schools.
		
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			That's reparations.
		
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			So this is what we're talking about in
		
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			Toba.
		
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			It's called compensation, Radha Madhalim.
		
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			And even on a personal level, you know,
		
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			that's part of really repenting, you know, in
		
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			Islam.
		
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			Okay, floor is open for any other general
		
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			questions that you have concerning this particular class.
		
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			Yes, I mean, in the case where that
		
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			person is gone, so that storekeeper moved, and
		
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			you can't find him, then it would make
		
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			sense at least to do that.
		
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			But if that person's there, you owe the
		
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			compensation to the person, not to somebody else.
		
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			So you're still doing wrong by not, because
		
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			you took the money from the person, right?
		
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			So you need to compensate the person.
		
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			But if the person's not there, then, you
		
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			know, this is an alternative.
		
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			We're just trying to clear the evil and
		
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			the wrong that's done within us.
		
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			Because the key thing that we're learning about
		
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			Islam is trying to overcome evil, right, within
		
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			ourself, within our families, within society, and to
		
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			call to good, and to stand for righteousness.
		
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			This is the key thing about being a
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			Okay, floor is open.
		
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			What would you say, like, so there's some
		
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			people who, you know, they go around and
		
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			they say negative things about people, and their
		
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			argument is that, I'm being honest, I'm just
		
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			saying the truth about this person.
		
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			I'm just telling people the truth about, you
		
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			know, this person or whatever, but it is
		
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			making people look at them in a negative
		
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			light, and it might not always be, like,
		
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			it's a biased opinion.
		
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			What is the line between, you know, speaking
		
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			the truth about somebody and backbiting?
		
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			Well, you know, this is usually an excuse,
		
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			you know, for the backbiting.
		
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			However, there may be cases where the person,
		
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			you know, like, I'll give you an example.
		
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			There's a brother or a sister, they're about
		
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			to get married to somebody, but you know
		
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			something about that person, something dangerous about that
		
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			person, and should you say it, or should
		
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			you not say it?
		
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			If it's going to affect the life of
		
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			the person who's going to get married, then
		
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			in that case, you know, in confidence, this
		
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			should be said.
		
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			Because, really, in marriage, both sides are supposed
		
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			to be transparent.
		
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			I've had a lot of cases.
		
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			I've had a case where the person was
		
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			about to get married, I don't want to
		
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			say which country it's from, but, you know,
		
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			it was one of these sort of arranged
		
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			marriages type of thing, and the marriage was
		
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			set, and the people were coming from their
		
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			country, the aunties were on the plane, and
		
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			they were coming, and everything was getting set,
		
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			you know, for the marriage, and then the
		
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			brother came to the sister, and he said,
		
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			oh, by the way, I have genital herpes.
		
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			I have herpes.
		
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			Which is like, we haven't found a cure
		
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			for this thing.
		
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			And the plane, the marriage is in about
		
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			a week.
		
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			What are you supposed to do?
		
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			This is serious.
		
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			So, really, she had, her wali, they have
		
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			the right to cancel that marriage.
		
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			Because this is something serious, which is going
		
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			to affect her health.
		
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			Now, imagine if there was somebody who knew
		
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			that he had it, and knew the girl
		
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			as well.
		
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			In that case, they should say it.
		
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			That would not be backbiting.
		
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			So if you, like, let's just say I
		
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			knew it, and I told the girl, and
		
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			said, it just ignored her, but then if
		
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			I was going around telling my family, my
		
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			friends, a bunch of people who really don't
		
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			need to know that information, that would be
		
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			backbiting.
		
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			But to solve the problem, to help somebody
		
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			out of a wrong, then it's not in
		
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			the level of backbiting.
		
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			And it's difficult in some cultures, because you
		
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			know, many times people spend a lot of
		
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			time talking about others.
		
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			It becomes part of, like, regular conversations.
		
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			And part of the backbiting, too, is not
		
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			just saying it, but it's listening to it.
		
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			So when the person's backbiting to you, as
		
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			a Muslim, you need to sort of say,
		
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			okay, calm down, take it easy, change the
		
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			conversation, to try to come out of it.
		
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			So just say, we need to vent sometimes,
		
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			right?
		
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			So just say you're having an issue with
		
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			a friend, and you want to talk about
		
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			it, so you talk to another friend, but
		
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			you don't say who the person is.
		
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			Is it still considered backbiting?
		
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			Or if you're talking about something that the
		
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			person doesn't know at all, like it's a
		
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			stranger to them, is it still the same
		
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			person?
		
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			No, I mean, the backbiting does, you'd have
		
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			to identify the person.
		
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			You know, if it's not, if you don't
		
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			identify the person, then it's not backbiting or
		
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			scandal.
		
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			You just want to get it off.
		
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			You wouldn't fall in that category.
		
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			Okay, the floor is open for any general
		
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			questions that anybody has concerning Islam.
		
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			Any general questions?
		
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			The floor is open.
		
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			Online, yeah, go ahead.
		
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			So Dr. Quick, are these seven worst sins
		
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			comparable to the seven deadly sins coming from
		
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			Catholic theology?
		
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			I'm not sure what these, the Catholic ones
		
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			were.
		
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			Seven deadly sins?
		
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			Yeah, in Catholicism, I don't know, like, what
		
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			are those?
		
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			Greed and lust?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			For Catholicism.
		
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			My family, I was Episcopalian.
		
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			That's Anglican, right?
		
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			I don't know.
		
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			But anyhow, it's not the same, because these
		
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			seven deadly sins is polytheism.
		
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			So that, number one, wouldn't be the Catholicism,
		
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			because they're committing polytheism.
		
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			They believe in a trinity.
		
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			So they broke the first commandment right away.
		
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			And the second is magic.
		
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			Sihah.
		
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			And next is, you know, committing murder.
		
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			And another one is eating the wealth of
		
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			orphans.
		
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			And another one is eating interest, taking interest
		
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			in usury.
		
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			This is considered to be one of the
		
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			seven major sins.
		
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			Taking interest in usury.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And then, running from the battle, you know,
		
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			the enemy is there, and you run.
		
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			And then accusing Muslim women falsely.
		
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			This is different.
		
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			Did you find the seven?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, anger, and sloth.
		
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			Yeah, so these sound more like what we
		
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			call amrād al-qulū.
		
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			It is diseases of the heart.
		
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			Okay, so if you go in the section
		
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			of diseases of the heart, we've covered this
		
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			before in the class.
		
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			Diseases of the heart, that's where you find
		
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			it.
		
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			But these mubiqāt is something different, because this
		
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			word mubiqāt is like grievous sins.
		
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			Grievous.
		
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			And it starts with shirk, which is polytheism.
		
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			So it's a grievous thing.
		
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			Okay, any other questions that anybody has?
		
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			If you get a paper cut, or like
		
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			a small cut, and you're bleeding, do you
		
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			just have to do wudu again, or do
		
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			you have to do ghusl?
		
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			If it's just a small little cut, then
		
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			you don't have to make wudu.
		
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			But if blood is pouring out, then you
		
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			would have to cover it, and then make
		
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			ablution again, without the ghusl.
		
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			No ghusl would be there.
		
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			But if it's just a small little cut,
		
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			it doesn't break wudu.
		
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			Just very small.
		
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			Now, we're in this time shift thing.
		
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			So for those who want to come back
		
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			to socialize, okay, afterwards the room is open.
		
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			But this will officially close the class for
		
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			tonight.
		
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			And then next week, is it going to
		
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			be the time change next week?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			So, in this case inshallah, we'll close the
		
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			class.
		
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			Alhamdulilah Rabbil Alameen.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah.