Abdulfattah Adeyemi – Who Are You Corded With

Abdulfattah Adeyemi
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The speaker discusses the importance of joining together in English language, and how it is a process of building a world that is akin to the joining of things together. They also discuss the importance of being intentional and careful in your life, as it is crucial to avoid mistakes and avoid failure. The speaker emphasizes the need to be mindful and selective in your life to avoid mistakes and failure.

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			You get to see there's
		
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			a world that is akin to joining things
		
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			together.
		
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			That is, for example, Allah will say, Some
		
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			people cut what Allah commands them to join
		
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			together.
		
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			So this process of joining together is what
		
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			we refer to as cording.
		
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			That is cord.
		
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			Like in an electric cable, whatever connects one
		
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			appliance to the source of power, you say
		
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			it's a cable, sometimes you say it's a
		
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			cord.
		
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			And in general use of English language, we
		
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			can say something is in accordance to another
		
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			thing.
		
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			It's that same word cord we are talking
		
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			about, the way it connects.
		
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			Sometimes we say according to so-and-so.
		
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			That's we are trying to connect this one
		
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			to this one.
		
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			For example, also in the human body, you
		
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			have the part of our body that we
		
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			call the spinal cord.
		
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			That is the cord that connects the spine.
		
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			That is the cord that goes inside the
		
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			spine.
		
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			Allah protects it with the spine.
		
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			Then you talk about something like the umbilical
		
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			cord.
		
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			That is the cord that connects the mother
		
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			to the foetus.
		
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			And then you have a whole lot of
		
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			this.
		
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			What is the job of a cord?
		
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			The job of a cord is to connect
		
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			two things.
		
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			And like the umbilical cord, there's exchange of
		
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			nutrients.
		
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			The mother supplies nutrients to the foetus.
		
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			Though we don't know whether the foetus returns
		
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			anything back.
		
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			And then generally, in matters of coding in
		
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			this world, how people are joined together.
		
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			Whenever a husband and wife, the cord between
		
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			them is severed, we say there's marital discord
		
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			between them.
		
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			If something is being done and it is
		
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			being documented, we say they are making a
		
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			record of it.
		
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			That means we want to put it in
		
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			such a way that we can reconnect back
		
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			to it.
		
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			And the one we have already reconnected to
		
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			that is stable, we say it's a record.
		
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			All of these things are from the word
		
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			record.
		
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			According to, in concordance with.
		
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			This cord that we talk about, this is
		
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			the joining of two things together.
		
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			Then you begin to ask yourself, who are
		
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			those that you are coded with in this
		
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			world?
		
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			Who are those that are cordially in relationship
		
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			with you?
		
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			Just like when you invite somebody to an
		
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			event, you say you are cordially invited.
		
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			Because we know you and you know also
		
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			we are inviting you because of the familiarity
		
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			between us.
		
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			To make life to be user friendly, you
		
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			have to be intentional and you have to
		
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			be definite about the people that you cord
		
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			with.
		
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			What do they do for you?
		
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			And what do you do for them?
		
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			What do you benefit from the people you
		
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			surrounded yourself with?
		
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			And what do they benefit from you?
		
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			Are you corded with people that will nourish
		
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			your soul with knowledge?
		
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			Or you are corded with people that will
		
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			remove knowledge from you and give you ignorance?
		
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			Are you corded with people that will nourish
		
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			your soul with iman?
		
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			People whom whenever you see them you remember
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Whenever you are connected with them, you can't
		
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			do what is wrong again.
		
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			Because that connection between you and them will
		
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			make you not to want to go into
		
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			what is not lawful.
		
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			A person has got to observe this a
		
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			lot in life.
		
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			So many people are corded to those who
		
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			in the day of judgment, they will not
		
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			even want to see each other.
		
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			And some of us are corded to some
		
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			people who in the day of judgment will
		
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			even be together in our jannah.
		
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			So be very specific about the people you
		
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			are corded with.
		
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			Some people are corded with friends that will
		
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			always lead them into trouble.
		
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			Some people are corded with some individuals that
		
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			will never remind them about Allah for a
		
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			second.
		
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			People who when you want to do what
		
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			is good, they taunt you, they laugh at
		
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			you and they shout you down.
		
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			Are you corded to those kind of people?
		
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			Or you are supposed to be corded to
		
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			people that whenever you want to do good
		
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			deeds, you remember them and you feel like
		
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			I want to do like that person also
		
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			does.
		
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			This is one of the pointers to life.
		
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			And there are some cordings that you need
		
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			to sever from your life from this moment
		
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			on.
		
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			How do you sever this?
		
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			You have to be clinical about it.
		
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			Just like when you want to cut the
		
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			umbilical cord, you don't just yank it off.
		
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			You look for something that is sterilized to
		
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			cut it if there will be infection when
		
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			you want to detach from people that are
		
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			evil.
		
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			They may backlash to you and then you
		
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			may come back to suffer it because you
		
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			have been corded to them in a very
		
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			wrong way.
		
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			So be very cautious, be very careful, be
		
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			very selective to be successful in this life.
		
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			You need to be corded to those who
		
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			have knowledge.
		
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			You have to be corded to those who
		
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			can advise you.
		
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			You have to be corded to those who
		
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			can mentor you.
		
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			You should be corded to those who can
		
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			remind you of things that you must have
		
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			forgotten.
		
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			And eventually, be corded with the Quran.
		
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			Be in cordiality with the Quran.
		
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			And let the whole of your life move
		
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			in accordance to the Quran.
		
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			If you can achieve this in your life,
		
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			then you will find life to be very,
		
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			very user-friendly.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh.