Abdulfattah Adeyemi – THE STRUGGLES OF LIFE COMMONSENSE IN OBEDIENCE

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In these segments, various women share stories of the Prophet Islam's actions and actions that he did not like. They discuss how he used a bottle of water to cover his mouth and kept the baby in a basket while breastfeeding, and how he eventually allowed the baby to go through the box and killed the baby. The importance of following Prophet's injunctions and using common sense to make life user-friendly is emphasized.

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			For his grace and kindness over all of
		
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			us, tonight we want to continue with the
		
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			discussion on how to make life user-friendly.
		
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			Allah has his own methods of doing these
		
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			things, and we need to understand it well
		
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			so that we find the practice of our
		
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			deen so that we find it easy for
		
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			ourselves.
		
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			Allah did not promise that it's going to
		
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			be very, very cheap or very easy.
		
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			Paradise is not very cheap.
		
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			A person has to work hard and then
		
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			put trust in Allah.
		
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			And I want to call our attention to
		
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			a few examples of such people that Allah
		
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			tried and eventually they still triumphed.
		
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			We have spoken about men earlier on, prophets
		
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			of Allah, but there's one madame I want
		
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			to mention her example in the glorious Quran.
		
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			This madame, the Quran did not mention her
		
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			name particularly, but Allah called her Umm Musa.
		
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			That's the mother of Musa, out of respect
		
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			for her.
		
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			And this woman happened to be the mother
		
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			of one of the greatest prophets of Almighty
		
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			Allah.
		
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			But it was not so easy like that
		
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			for her.
		
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			It happened at a time when Pharaoh was
		
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			killing the boys.
		
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			And this woman, Allah gave her a child
		
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			at that period.
		
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			She had two children before that time, a
		
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			boy and a girl.
		
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			One of them, the boy was Aaron and
		
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			the girl, we are not told the name,
		
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			but some people said her name is Miriam.
		
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			When Musa, peace be upon him, was born,
		
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			the mother had to hide him for three
		
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			months.
		
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			The baby cried and she was afraid that
		
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			the baby will be found out by those
		
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			who are investigating everywhere and killing male children.
		
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			So, Almighty Allah revealed to her and Allah
		
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			spoke to her directly in the way that
		
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			was best known to Allah.
		
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			Allah said, take this child and put this
		
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			child in a box and put this child
		
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			in the river.
		
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			And Allah told her what the plan was
		
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			going to be all about.
		
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			We read in the history of the Quran
		
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			that the mother went ahead and did what
		
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			Allah said.
		
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			And Allah eventually returned the boy back to
		
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			the mother for the mother to breastfeed.
		
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			Everybody will hear this story and it looks
		
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			very, very easy.
		
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			Here was a mother who has seen the
		
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			goodness of a child.
		
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			She had tried her best to hide him
		
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			for three months.
		
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			And because she feared that the child would
		
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			be killed, rather than Allah to say she
		
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			should always use something to cover the child's
		
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			mouth so that nobody will hear the child
		
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			cry, Allah told her to take the child
		
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			to the river.
		
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			It only takes a mother that is lactating,
		
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			a mother that is breastfeeding, a mother that
		
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			truly loves the child.
		
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			To put the baby down was not so
		
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			easy.
		
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			To take the baby out was not that
		
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			easy.
		
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			To leave the baby in the river where
		
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			there will be crocodiles roaming around was not
		
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			that easy.
		
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			Where the sailors and the people who are
		
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			fishing here and there, to leave the baby
		
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			in such a care was not that easy.
		
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			This woman must have gone through a lot
		
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			of agony and trials and travails.
		
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			And she must have gone through a lot
		
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			of fear and a lot of sadness, a
		
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			lot of doubt.
		
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			Why will Allah ask me to do this?
		
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			What have I done so bad that Allah
		
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			will deal with me like this?
		
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			But it was a strong iman for the
		
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			woman to have done this.
		
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			But when she did that, put the baby
		
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			in the basket, I mean in the box,
		
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			she ensured that the baby was placed where
		
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			the reeds are.
		
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			Possibly she disguised the box in such a
		
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			way that from distance you would not know
		
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			that's a box with a baby inside.
		
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			Possibly she found a way of putting the
		
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			baby on a river course where she was
		
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			sure where the river was flowing to.
		
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			And out of being cautious, she still told
		
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			the sister to keep an eye on that
		
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			box.
		
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			That is your brother that's inside there.
		
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			I put him there because Allah said so.
		
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			Keep an eye and keep watching and keep
		
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			watching.
		
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			If you notice any danger, find ways of
		
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			distracting people away from that box.
		
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			Maybe those were the plans.
		
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			And eventually, Allah made the box to go
		
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			through to the backyard of Fir'aun.
		
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			And Allah said, And when the box was
		
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			opened, the wife of Fir'aun saw it
		
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			by herself.
		
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			And she said, we are going to keep
		
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			this one.
		
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			Maybe it will be useful for us or
		
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			we will take him as a child.
		
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			And as soon as she said it, Fir
		
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			'aun didn't doubt it at all.
		
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			She didn't argue.
		
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			He didn't argue with her.
		
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			He said, yes, that's what we are going
		
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			to do.
		
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			But the story looked very easy.
		
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			But you should not forget that the mother
		
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			was very cautious.
		
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			She obeyed Allah when it was difficult, but
		
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			she still used her common sense.
		
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			This is how Allah wants himself to be
		
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			obeyed.
		
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			Let me give you an example of Rasulullah.
		
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			When he came for the Battle of Badr,
		
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			it was 313 against over 1,000.
		
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			Nobody was sure that the Prophet would win
		
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			that battle.
		
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			The Sahaba, those that followed him then, they
		
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			were farmers, they were not warriors.
		
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			They were businessmen, they were not soldiers.
		
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			And they still followed him with that iman
		
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			that this Allah that we trust in is
		
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			going to protect us.
		
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			But as they were going, some people already
		
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			knew that they were not coming back.
		
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			But Allah didn't bring his help until when
		
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			they got to the battlefield.
		
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			That was when Allah sent the angels to
		
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			come and defend the believers and the battle
		
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			was still won.
		
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			It was a miracle.
		
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			But don't forget, the Prophet didn't wait back
		
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			in Medina for the Americans to come and
		
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			attack him there.
		
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			The Prophet moved to a place that is
		
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			called Badr.
		
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			And this place they got to in Badr,
		
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			they ensured that they had a river behind
		
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			them so that they could face the opponents
		
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			who had only deserts behind them.
		
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			If anything happened, the believers could fight, go
		
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			and drink, come back.
		
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			Those who had nowhere to go to.
		
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			It was not only angels that helped in
		
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			winning the battle.
		
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			There was strategy also involved.
		
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			So when you read Quranic stories, don't just
		
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			read as if, ah, nice miracle.
		
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			There was miracle.
		
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			But if you want to make Ibadah, to
		
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			be user-friendly for yourself, use dua, follow
		
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			miracle, follow intention, follow strategies, use your common
		
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			sense.
		
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			This is the way Allah wants to make
		
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			life to be user-friendly for all of
		
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			us.
		
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			And I pray that in every endeavor of
		
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			ours, in everything that we do, may Allah
		
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			give us the courage to be able to
		
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			follow his injunctions.
		
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			All that Allah requires of us is for
		
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			us to be obedient.
		
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			Whatever comes out at the end of it,
		
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			then we leave it to Allah.
		
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			This is how Allah works.
		
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			And this is how to make life to
		
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			be user-friendly.