Abdulfattah Adeyemi – Struggle Upon Struggle

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			Most of all, how many people here woke
		
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			up this morning?
		
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			If you woke up this morning, please raise
		
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			up your hand.
		
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			Everybody.
		
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			Everybody.
		
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			You will say, if I didn't wake up,
		
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			how will I be here?
		
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			Well, you didn't wake up, actually.
		
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			It's Allah that woke you up.
		
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			If Allah didn't wake you up, you will
		
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			not wake up.
		
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			It's after Allah woke you up that you
		
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			woke up.
		
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			And the reality is that it's Allah that
		
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			woke us up.
		
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			If you are not sure, then you take
		
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			an alarm clock to the place they bury
		
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			dead people.
		
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			You see, if you put 500 alarm clocks
		
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			there, they won't wake up.
		
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			True or false?
		
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			So it's Allah that woke us up.
		
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			Why did Allah wake us up?
		
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			There must be a reason why Allah woke
		
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			us up this morning.
		
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			And what is that reason?
		
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			It's part of the reason why we are
		
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			where we are.
		
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			And if you understand that reason very well,
		
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			then this life is going to be user
		
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			-friendly.
		
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			Allah designed this life.
		
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			Well, how can you make life to be
		
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			user-friendly?
		
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			One of such ways is for you to
		
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			understand from what Allah says in Surah Al
		
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			-Balad.
		
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			A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajim The
		
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			part I want to use there is Allah
		
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			says He has created human beings in toil
		
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			and struggle.
		
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			In toil and struggle.
		
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			Even before we were born, by the time
		
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			our parents are trying to produce us, let
		
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			me use that word, it was with some
		
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			movement, with some struggle.
		
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			By the time the things that fertilize other
		
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			things began to swim, they were swimming, about
		
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			4 million of them, they were all swimming
		
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			in struggle until only one of them got
		
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			to fertilize the egg.
		
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			And after that, one thing divided into another
		
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			thing.
		
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			We were inside the mother's belly, it was
		
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			still with struggle.
		
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			Because if the baby was not kicking, then
		
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			there would be a problem.
		
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			The mother would be taken to the hospital
		
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			for examination.
		
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			The day of our birth, there was struggle.
		
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			Because we needed to switch from not breathing
		
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			through our noses, through our lungs, we switched
		
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			into breathing air.
		
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			I'm sure it was not easy for anyone
		
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			at that time, it's just that we can't
		
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			remember.
		
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			Imagine you that spent 5 months inside, that
		
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			is the first 4 months, then the 5
		
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			months when Allah put life inside the body.
		
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			You were not eating with your mouth, you
		
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			were not breathing with your nose, and suddenly
		
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			you came into this place, you were inside
		
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			a place where it was water bathed all
		
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			around.
		
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			You now had to come into this place
		
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			that you had to breathe with your nose,
		
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			and you had to eat with your mouth
		
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			by yourself.
		
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			It was not an easy experience.
		
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			Then from there, baby is crying, baby is
		
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			running temperature, baby is trying to grow teeth,
		
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			baby is about to sit down, baby is
		
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			trying to crawl, baby is trying to start
		
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			walking.
		
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			The walking is a struggle on its own,
		
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			you stand up, you fall down, you stand
		
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			up, you fall down.
		
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			After that, they say, ok, the baby is
		
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			now learning to talk.
		
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			Ok, the baby is now going to start
		
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			going to school from this kindergarten, then to
		
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			that primary, then to that secondary.
		
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			This is how we kept moving.
		
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			We continue to move from one stage to
		
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			another stage to another stage to another stage.
		
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			Up until a person will say, ok, now
		
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			this child is now going to the university.
		
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			Then you start struggling.
		
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			Now, I'm switching now to the parents now.
		
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			When will the parent ever rest?
		
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			Is it when the mother was just married,
		
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			you are hoping she will get pregnant one
		
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			day?
		
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			Or when she is pregnant, you are hoping
		
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			she will deliver safely?
		
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			Or after delivery, you are trying to see
		
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			what's going to be fed to the mother
		
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			and the child, and then you continue to
		
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			struggle, you continue to spend, you continue to
		
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			invest.
		
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			Ok, my child, my baby.
		
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			After the secondary school, he has to go
		
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			to social place for higher institution.
		
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			You rally around, you struggle around, you gather
		
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			wealth, you sponsor them, and it continues like
		
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			that.
		
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			One day they say they want to get
		
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			married.
		
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			Ah, who is my child going to marry?
		
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			Which boy, which girl is going to marry
		
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			my son and daughter?
		
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			After you've done all you have to do,
		
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			after the wedding, what again?
		
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			Ah, what's going to happen to them?
		
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			This is how we continue.
		
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			And even yourself, at one point in your
		
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			life, this is what you are looking for.
		
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			At another point, this one has come, then
		
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			you are looking for another thing.
		
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			There's always something more, there's always something else,
		
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			there's always the next thing ahead, ahead and
		
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			ahead.
		
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			Until we reach where we have reached now,
		
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			have we rested?
		
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			Nobody will rest.
		
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			Because the creator of all of us says,
		
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			It will always be struggle upon struggle upon
		
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			struggle.
		
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			The limbs Allah has given to us, if
		
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			you close your eyes for too long, Allah
		
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			will begin to withdraw the eyes, you will
		
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			not see clearly again.
		
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			If you block your ears, I don't want
		
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			to hear anything, by the time you remove
		
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			your hand from the air, if it's too
		
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			long, then you don't hear well again.
		
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			The same thing with every other part of
		
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			our bodies, if you stop using it, Allah
		
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			will start withdrawing it, because you must use
		
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			it.
		
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			And at a point in our age, they
		
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			will even say you have to be doing
		
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			exercise, you have to be doing diet, eat
		
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			organic, eat healthy.
		
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			They will continue to give us these rules
		
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			and regulations, and we still have some things
		
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			to worry about.
		
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			There's no human being that will ever stay
		
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			without something to worry about, without something to
		
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			bother him.
		
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			To make this life user-friendly, when will
		
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			a person ever say Alhamdulillah it's okay?
		
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			The day you say Alhamdulillah it's okay, that's
		
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			the day you are going to die.
		
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			Better don't say it's okay, you can say
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Because after today, there's also another tomorrow.
		
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			By tomorrow, another of its own thing will
		
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			come.
		
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			When Allah spare our lives, every day we
		
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			wake up every morning, it's always one thing
		
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			and another thing and another thing.
		
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			Accept it like that.
		
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			Everybody must accept that this life is a
		
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			life of struggle, and it is never over
		
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			until it is over.
		
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			Another way you can make it user-friendly,
		
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			you now continue in that surah.
		
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			Allah says, Allah
		
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			now gave all of those lines of the
		
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			things you can do.
		
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			Quickly make effort to help those who are
		
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			in need, feed those who are hungry, do
		
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			whatever good deed you can do, because that
		
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			is the only gain of being in this
		
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			world.
		
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			What else?
		
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			These children that we have suffered and labored
		
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			about, someday we will shift to one side,
		
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			and they will continue.
		
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			So if you didn't take care of yourself,
		
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			and you didn't take care of your Akhira,
		
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			we will leave everything with these children, they
		
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			will continue to enjoy themselves, and we will
		
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			go and face Allah, and Allah will ask
		
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			us, Okay, so, what happened?
		
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			It is not one person, it is not
		
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			two persons, it is everybody that has to
		
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			be making effort every day, in order to
		
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			improve ourselves, in order to improve our lives.
		
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			Let us not forget the reason why we
		
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			are here in this world.
		
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			To struggle and to suffer is part of
		
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			our existence.
		
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			Let nobody complain over that.
		
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			If people are bothering you every day, they
		
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			are asking you for help, telling you they
		
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			are needy, don't be tired, because if you
		
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			didn't have, they will not ask you.
		
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			Don't be tired, just do whatever you can
		
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			do.
		
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			And then the rest, be grateful to Allah
		
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			and take life easy.
		
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			So, to make life, to be user-friendly,
		
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			be very ready to do the best of
		
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			what you can for other people.
		
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			The best of what you can.
		
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			Because, even that one too, you can't help
		
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			everybody.
		
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			You can't help everybody.
		
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			If people line up in front of your
		
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			house, you keep helping them every day, every
		
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			day, every one day, they will say, Why
		
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			are you giving only chicken?
		
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			What of pizza?
		
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			What of belangu?
		
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			They will ask for some other things and
		
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			you can't cope.
		
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			So, people will keep coming.
		
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			People will keep needing help.
		
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			They will keep asking you.
		
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			They will keep bothering you.
		
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			It will never finish.
		
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			Even if you don't have, go and borrow,
		
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			give them, they will still come back tomorrow.
		
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			If you like, kill yourself, make yourself into
		
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			pepper soup and give them to eat.
		
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			They will still come again.
		
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			Or somebody tells them that, Look, you have
		
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			finished him now.
		
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			You have eaten him yesterday.
		
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			So, it is just life.
		
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			That is just how life is.
		
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			Let us all accept it, but be very
		
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			moderate in everything that we do.
		
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			Don't let struggle and strife, don't let them
		
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			remove you when it's not your time to
		
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			go yet.
		
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			Take life easy.
		
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			And you know that everything in life is
		
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			in stages.
		
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			When you are in certain stage in your
		
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			life, accept that that's where Allah wants you
		
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			to be.
		
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			Do whatever thing you can do because you
		
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			don't know the next stage that we are
		
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			going to be into.
		
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			Allah will keep waking us up every day
		
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			until one day when He will not wake
		
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			us up again.
		
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			Even if you want to wake up, may
		
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			Allah make it easy for us.
		
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			Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
		
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