Abdul Wahab Saleem – My Body My Choice

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			Brothers, I'd like to talk to you today
		

			about
		

			a topic which is uncomfortable for me and for you.
		

			But it is something that we need to address.
		

			It is a device that is deeply rooted within the larger society
		

			in which we live.
		

			But it's a device that is a growing problem problem within our own community as well.
		

			This is a sickness that we can duck Duggar heads into the sand to hide away from but it will not
hide away from us. This is a problem within which our children are indulge, and also the adults as
well. This my brother, and this my sister is the problem of a Zina of fornication of adultery.
		

			Adultery and fornication is not a problem that is only taking place within the non Muslims books in
Billa Hillel de la ilaha illa who it is happening in our own community, it is happening all around
us. It is taking place and I tell you from experience from conversations I've had with people, and
I'm saying this even from this own Masjid of ours
		

			where people come and they say Allah He I fell into this I don't know what to do. Well, Allah He
this took place. And I'm talking about people who are even apparently religious human beings. Well,
that will be the OFC, and I'm not absolving myself for absolving you. And I'm not accusing you or
I'm not accusing I. But I'm telling you that this is a problem that we see within our society, so we
cannot continue to hide from it. The reason why I'm talking to you about this is because this is a
real issue, a very, very real issue. But and Hamdulillah, the person who feels guilty about it, at
least he still has a heart. But there is another group of people who don't even feel guilty anymore.
		

			There is another group of people who you tell them that fornication and adultery is a problem. And
they come back and tell you that it's my body. And it's my choice. These are two consenting adults,
and they're allowed to do whatever they may wish to do. But the reality is, it may be your body, but
it's a gift from Allah azza wa jal to you. And it's definitely not your choice, in a sense that you
may get to choose within this world, but in the hereafter there will be consequences. So it's the
gift of Allah to you. And it's the choice of Allah azza wa jal that you have to obey. And it's the
law of Allah Azza wa, JAL Gernon, that you have to live by. And it's not just your choice in your
		

			body because by falling within the sin, you end up harming the larger society as well. The greater
society, every society within which Zina becomes prevalent. We see sicknesses that we have never
seen in human history. We see aids, we see sexually transmitted diseases, they used to show us this
even when in high schools, in schools, as we were children, the parents will come to me and say, Why
are you talking about this? Grow up, my father grew up my mother will law he if you went to these
schools, the same schools that I grew up going into, you would not tell me to stop talking about
this, you would know that the topic that I'm addressing is worthy of address, you would know that
		

			the children that you hide information from they all know that and much more. You would never, ever
come to me and say why do you talk about this? Why? Because why am I talking about this? Allah talks
about this in the Quran, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam talks about this in the hadith of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Every society within which the sin is prevalent, there are a
plethora of different vices that also occur.
		

			My brothers, my sisters, fornication, in short, is a bad bad route. And this is one
		

			A point that often ends up going overlooked. Allah says that Walter Carabas Zina do not go close to
fornication.
		

			In the hookah Anna Fisher, this fornication, it is far harsher. It is obscenity. And what he's
saying here is even going close to Zina is obscene it even that is obscene. But listen to what he
says afterwards was a sebelah. And it's a very bad road to go down. When you look at the statistics,
when you look at the psychological disorders, when you look at the sociological data that we have on
children that are born out of wedlock, you will begin to see why Allah Allah Azza wa Jalla says that
this is a very bad road to go down, you will find all sorts of social psychological disorders
related to people involved in infidelity or fornication, or people just switching partners and
		

			people having body counts, right?
		

			This is real talk here. There's a lot of problems related to this, you will see that people will be
afraid, people are afraid because of the results, the dramatic results, this causes within the life
of the two people, you will see that because the father is not there within the life of this child,
the child lives in misery, you will see that the mother she sees this child throughout her life. And
it reminds her of the trauma that she went through because of this relationship, you will see that
criminals are born to these relationships.
		

			And that is true.
		

			Disproportionately larger number of criminals are born out of wedlock. And this is the problem that
this causes to society. This is what Allah is saying, when he says what's the law, and how bad is
this path, you will see that sexual deviancy will become begin to become prevalent within society.
And that is what we see today as well, you will see that women will begin to become objectified. And
that is what we see today, as well. You will see that men will be less likely to take responsibility
of these relationships. And that's what we see today as well. You will see that people will begin to
talk about abortion because they don't want to have this child. When in human history. Did we have
		

			such a grand debate on pro life versus pro choice, but we have that today? Because people are
involved in adultery and they're involved in fornication and they're involved in infidelity, and
they don't want to see these trials. They don't want to see these children. They don't want to have
anything to do with these children. This is the reason why we are seeing all these problems. This is
why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said in an authentic hadith, he said lot Azhar
Illuminati be hiding, murder Merle and Miff shoe fee him while Xena that my own mother will continue
to be good, so long as the children of Zina and fornication don't become prevalent within society.
		

			So when we see children of Zina prevalent within society, we are going to see a dysfunctional
society. And that, unfortunately, is what we're living through today. One of the primary reasons for
all of the dysfunctional factors within this and all Western societies that we see today is because
of the children that are born out of wedlock. There are spaces designated in parts of Europe, and
parts of the Western world where when you have a child, you don't want to own up to this child, or
when
		

			you take the child and you put them over there and somebody else comes in picks them up.
		

			What was the sin of this child? Why could you not control yourself?
		

			The difference between Zina
		

			and between the halal is one word, why are you afraid to say that word?
		

			Don't go close to this. Don't even come near it. Don't put yourself in those situations. You don't
don't consider yourself strong enough to be able to hold yourself back. Yusuf alayhi salam, a
prophet of God, he said one over the OFC in an of Salah Amara Don't be smooth. I am not absolving
myself. A soul is always calling to evil. Don't tell yourself I know how to handle myself when Allah
Hila de la ilaha illa who you do not know how to handle yourself. That moment will come and then you
will say I don't know. It just happened. Don't we hear that? I wasn't trying to do it. But it just
happened. I will
		

			As it wasn't something I was planning, it wasn't premeditated, it just took place and it may just
take place and at that point, you will have the feeling of regret throughout your life and stop
lying to yourself some people and this is a greater problem, you know someone that commits a sin and
they have remorse Alhamdulillah they still have remorse because they still have a heart. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said in a hadith another Matoba when you have remorse, that is Toba,
that is your repentance with Allah azza wa jal, but there are people out there they commit the sin
on a daily basis, and they say, I am not a bad person.
		

			What do you mean you're not a bad person? This is a Satanic trap that we have within this woke
society today. Everybody does every evil and then they say I am not a bad person. What does that
mean? If you're doing an evil, you are a bad person, you have to own up to that evil. You can't have
your cake and eat it too. If you're doing an evil you are an evil human being this is the reality
		

			are you doing to * or not? That's up to Allah. But are you doing an evil and are you an evil
human being? Yes you are. Allah when he talked about the good people. He says we're loving Allah the
rune ama Allah He Illa Han.
		

			When I have to learn enough solidity haram Allahu Allah will help the world is known. Those people
who do not call out to other than Allah azza wa jal, and they don't kill a soul that ALLAH SubhanA
wa Tala has forbidden except with the right and they don't find a gate. So good people do not
fornicator they're not adulterous, they're not involved in this entire process.
		

			And every step of the way, the prophet considered it Zina the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he
said Elena and it has neon the eyes they commit Zina the hands they commit Zina the mind it commit
Zina. But then the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said, and it's the private part that
ends up bringing the Act into manifestation or not. So every step of the process is a mild form of
Zina, if I may say it is a minor form of Xena and there's nothing minor about it, because Allah or
Buddha is that he will Jalon is watching you ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to protect us and protect
our chastity. I mean, well, sallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala early he was a big man and
		

			Hamdulillah He handed us a new hammer, who will you Cafe owners EDA are SallAllahu ala Sayyidina
Muhammad wa ala early he was so happy he Ultramarine.
		

			With your brothers, I want to give you some solutions for this as well. Because it's high time that
we look for the solutions. But the first thing we have to do is we have to admit to the problems.
stop digging your head into the ground. The problem is really there. And the first of those
solutions and there's it's a very simple solution and this is a solution that the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam himself gave the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said get married, get
married. And he was specifically speaking to the young people and he said yeah, mashallah Shabaab
Minister BA. I'm in Culebra at affiliate as a watch. He said that all young people, whoever is
		

			capable from a miscue to get married, get married, and some of you may say, Well, I'm not a young
person anymore, but even the elderly, even the middle aged, if you need to get married, then get
married. And this goes for men and women alike. We have to make marriage easier for people. And I
know this is said again and again. But then you know what happens? We forget it when it comes time
for our own daughters. We make the situation complicated, my brothers until you realize that the
problem that you're going through another man is going through as well. Then you will not be willing
to understand the statement of the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam who said that when someone
		

			comes to you who has deen and he has character, if give them the daughters and marry them off in
alutech on fitna, don't fill out. If you don't do it, there is going to be a fitna within the world.
So just the feelings that you go through. The next man is also going through. If you see a man who
has who look forget tribalism, forget race. Forget race.
		

			Forget all the other factors that you factor in Walla he our community is a racist community.
		

			I'm saying this because just last week, we had
		

			Have a summit on racism. And I know that our community is a racist community. Ask yourself, my era
brothers. If a DC was to come to you and ask for your daughters, would you say yes? Would you say
no? Ask yourself my Desi brothers. If a person from the African Canadians were to come to you, would
you say yes. And would you say no, I know that many of you will say no, because it's a racist
community. You have to stop this cut it out. In Montina, the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam
said, this is very stinky. This is full of stench. This is evil. This is Jay Haley. Yeah, this is
pre Islamic.
		

			Falsehood and ignorance. This is not Islam, Salman al Pharisee. He was a Persian man. And he was
faced by one of the Arabians Saudi Arabia, your costs, and he told Salmaan tell me your Anessa tell
me your lineage. Tell remind me of your lineage.
		

			So he said, I am selling my liberal Islam. I'm selling man, the son of Islam.
		

			And he said again, no, tell me your lineage. He said, I am setting man, the son of Islam. And when
the news got to Omar Abdul hubub, he brought sad in front of him and he said into Serbia said, Tell
me your lineage or sad. Tell me who you are, where you're from, what your roots are, what your Aslan
is?
		

			And he said, I've understood my lesson or Amira remote meaning. He said, No tells me tells me what
is your roots.
		

			He said, I've understood my lesson. And then he reminded him again, tell me and he told them and
then he said, I am Omar YBNL, hubbub, and he gave his own lineage. And he said, everyone knows that
have Bob and the forefathers of Bob are considered the greatest and lineage in Arabia. But I am also
aroma, eternal Islam, the brother of Selma and liberal Islam. We have this while Islamia do not
sever it, make marriage easier for one another, make it easier for people because love is
inevitable. Your daughters and my daughters and I have daughters who are going to be of marriage age
and just a couple of years, they will go to the same colleges and universities and they will go
		

			everywhere.
		

			And they will go and some of them may fall in love. It happens. This happened at the time of the
Prophet in an authentic hadith in Muslim, El Faro, authenticated by ethnocracy. And I met a group of
people they came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They said, Oh prophet of Allah, we have
a daughter, and this daughter. It's not their direct daughter, one of the girls in their care. This
girl has two suitors. One of them is a rich man. And another one is a poor, impoverished man. And
listen to these words. They said what he had done, what didn't work, and she is desiring These are
the words. I don't want to sugarcoat or miss translate. I don't want to say love when they said
		

			desire, she is desiring.
		

			The one who is impoverished. These are words being said in front of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he responded to this, and he said that marry her
off to the one she wishes. Lim Yura lil moto has been me through Nikka. There's nothing better you
can do for two people who love one another except that you marry them off. And this shows you that
the Prophet saw that something must have taken place that they have some sort of feelings for one
another, let them get married. What's your problem? Who is biting you? Why are you causing a problem
for this soul that has come into the world and she and he have a desire, make it easy for them.
		

			Think about your situation when you used to be a child, don't just take their feelings and put them
away and you're just a teenager right now and you don't know how things are going and you'll grow up
and you'll grow out of this. Allah He they will have resentment for you for the rest of their lives,
and they will never forgive you. You will never have a good relationship with your children because
you didn't consider their feelings at the moment in which their feelings were very heightened people
forget everything, but they never forget the way you make them feel.
		

			My brothers and my sisters, another solution is that you remember Allah. Remember Allah. If you're
not able to get married and the situation is too tough and it's not working out and you've tried
everything then keep in mind that Allah Allah is the De Waal Jalil is watching you
		

			This is for my son. This is from your excellence with Allah, that you remember that you are being
watched by Allah and caribou de la haka Edna Katara HuFa, Atlanta, Contura HuFa in Iraq, that you
worship Allah, as if you are seeing Allah but many of us will not reach the status. So remember that
at least Allah is watching you, when you think of the maraca but Allah that Allah is consistently a
Rahim, Allah is consistently I'll have him. Allah is Elbasy Allah is Allah Aleem that Allah is the
ever knowing Allah is the all seeing Allah is hubiera Allah knows the detailed things and the fine
tune things and the fine realities in a lobby if the things that are even hidden, he knows him, then
		

			you will begin to live by this. You are being watched by Allah you are being observed by Allah and
that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam he said to me, he said it duck Allah Hi, Salma.
Configure Allah and be conscious of Allah no matter where you may be. Remember that Allah is
watching you in every single situation.
		

			Another thing that I want to say
		

			is that, why is it so hard to make this halal? Why is it so hard to make your relationships halal,
because the difference between Halal and Haram is just a single word that you utter. Just a word
that you utter. Sometimes people they get carried away into relationships with even non Muslim women
as well.
		

			And even that, all you have to do is uttered the word and it becomes halal. That is what makes the
relationship halal. I'm not encouraging marriage marrying non Muslim, Christian or Jewish woman but
it does happen. And it did happen at the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it
happened after the time of the Prophet because Allah allowed this, Allah permitted it even the third
of the caliphs with man, it finally got married to 911 till four Alpha LKL B. And she was from bento
Kalb, and by NorCal. We're all Nosara. So she came, and she got married to Earth man while she was
still a Christian. And then later, she accepted Islam. And the day in which this man was murdered,
		

			murdered, he was in the house of na ALA. And she was one of the only people who stood up for Earth
minded more fun. And it was a story of love between the two of them. She was a very loyal wife to
him. But my idea here is that these things happen. And when they happen, all it takes is for you to
have a word, a witness, a group of people who see that you're doing it publicly, and you're married.
And that's it. Now you have no troubles with Allah, my brother, that's all it is. I'm not going to
be the one over here to tell you to live in the utopic lifestyle, because I know you will not. Not
everyone will. If you can you live in that utopic lifestyle Alhamdulillah I don't set the bar so
		

			high that no one can accomplish it. But at least we need to know the bare minimum. So we're not at
fault with Allah. Who is it? Well, Joanne, and I have two messages, I have a message for the girls.
And I have a message for the guys.
		

			My dear sisters, and my dear daughters.
		

			There is no guy out there who is your friend.
		

			If you are fooling yourself into thinking that he is just a friend, there is no friends, guys are
not looking for friendly relationships. Their goal is not to become friends with you. This is not
something on the mind of a guy. And if you were to be honest with yourself, if you have a guy
friend, then you will know that slowly but surely, or at one point or another he is going to have
hinted to you something from what you recognize that he wants something more than just a friendship.
So there is no guy out there who's just going to be there for you. Just because well you and him are
just basically friends. That's not going to happen. So stop fooling yourself. Either that guy wants
		

			something for you, for from you. Or you have other reasons to be communicating such as work or, you
know, school or so on and so forth and even try to mitigate that. If not cut it off completely. But
I know that sometimes you have to. But remember, he is not your friend. He's not looking for a
friendship. If he's asking you how your day is or what you ate, or how what time did you wake up and
what did you do? This means that he's trying to get beyond that friendship. He's trying to get out
of the friendzone that's what he's trying to do. And for my brothers, stop fooling yourselves as
well. When you tell someone she's just like my sister, you know deep down inside, you're not going
		

			to befriend a woman who you don't think looks cute and beautiful. Because you have some sort of
feelings for this is a reason why you keep wasting your time. And this is the reason why you keep
chatting and this is the reason why you
		

			Keep talking.
		

			So I have three last words, my fathers and mothers make it easier for your children, Allah, He make
it easier for your children. If you think that they're not doing stuff behind your back, stop lying
to yourselves. I'm not telling you to start doubting your children are I'm doubting the chastity of
your children. But I'm telling you that we're living in 2022. And things happen.
		

			And my
		

			guys take responsibility. When you take a woman, that woman is your responsibility. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never divorced a woman except for one. And that woman, he never touched
that woman when it came to the Prophet on the first night of his marriage, and she said, Oh, do we
love him and I seek refuge in Allah from you. And the prophets. I said, Lim said love for diversity.
We have him, Ill healthy Alec, you have sought refuge in a great being go back to your family. But
once the Prophet touched any of his women, the Prophet took responsibility. He disconnected, but he
was always there to bear all of the trouble that would come in that relationship. So when you get
		

			into a relationship, it's a burden on your shoulder. I know but you have to take full brunt of that
responsibility. And sisters, do not be fooled into believing that you have guy friends, you don't
have girlfriends. Whether you like it or not. I ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect our Chasity Hola
Hola. Hola. Hola. Hola. Hola. Hello, Vana. Hola Hola. Hello, hello lubaina will have seen Illa Hama,
Fallujah. Anna, what has seen Allah Houma Pharaoh Jana, Rob bene habla as well as in our 3d
yachting. Kurata
		

			Cana Imana or bene attina for dunya Hassan or Phil karate Hassan Burkina other than now, what is the
hidden agenda Tim and Abrar? Yeah, as he's we have a firm what a prima salata in the salata didn't
have any refresher, you will Moncure well adequate, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Allah momentous in a room