Abdul Rahman Chao – 2024-08-15 Lecture

Abdul Rahman Chao
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The future of Islam is emphasized, with a focus on reinforcing Islam into the mind of children and teaching them to be leaders. The importance of educating children on their duty to be multisiming and to be a multisiming is also emphasized. The speakers emphasize the need to encourage parents to marry with non-Mahahah Muslims and educate children on their duty to be multisiming and be a multisiming.
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Brothers and sisters in Islam,

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today's

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has to do

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with the future

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of our deen,

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the future of the Ummah,

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the future of

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the Islam

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in America,

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in the western world.

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Because a lot of the parents today,

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they are leaving their children behind.

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When they were young, they are bringing them

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to the Masjid.

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But now, maybe because they are they are

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teenagers,

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because they've reached 18,

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they've

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graduated.

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They don't worry about them again.

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My brothers and sisters in Islam,

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our last one says,

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in order for us to know that it

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is our responsibility,

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Save yourself and your household

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from the hellfire that will be prepared

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with rock and human beings.

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And if you look at many ahadith of

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prophet Muhammad

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teaching us how to train our children,

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he said,

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Ask your children to pray.

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Command them to go and pray

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when they are 7 years old,

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which means that they must have known how

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to pray

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when they are 7 years old.

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What?

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And prophet Hassan said,

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and swoop them,

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beat them

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when they are 10 years old

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and they didn't pray.

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These are the teachings of prophet Muhammad, sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam,

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on how to make sure

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that our children,

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they are

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the best of what we can be thinking

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about

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by the time we live we love this

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world.

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Brothers and sisters brothers and sisters in Islam,

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among the signs

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and identity

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for the Muslim Shabaab

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that we must see in them,

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we must see in our Shabaab

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iman.

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As they are growing, let us see iman

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in them.

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If you don't see iman in them,

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it means we are having a lot to

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do.

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Allah

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says,

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in the home,

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They have strong belief in their Lord,

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in Allah.

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If our children are not there,

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they are not among those.

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They're their youth.

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They're shabab,

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and they're still practicing Islam.

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It means that we have a lot of

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work to do.

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Our children,

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our youth,

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they are the future of this.

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They are the manera of Islam in the

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future.

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As we are struggling, we are training them.

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We are spending our time, our energy

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on how to become,

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engineers,

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pharmacists,

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doctors.

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Let's try to

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make efforts

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for them to be leaders for the.

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If you remember our

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dua, what we said,

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Oh, Allah.

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Bestow among

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our spouses

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and our offerings.

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The joys of our hearts.

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And make us leaders for the.

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May Allah

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make it easy for all of us that

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iman that we are talking about.

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When the last

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says in the Quran,

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We have to fear Allah

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the way it should be feared,

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not the way

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we do it because I'm an America.

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Not the way our children will do it

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because they are in America. They are growing

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in America.

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We have to be reinforcing it into the

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earth,

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into the mind of our children.

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The Talat says,

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Never die

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except in the state of being Muslims.

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Many of the youths today,

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when they are growing up, they are Muslims.

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But immediately,

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they become

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somebody else

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that has been working, that has been making

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a lot of money. If you ask them

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about Islam, they say, no. You know where

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my father used to be, but what are

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you doing now?

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Just try.

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No.

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It means that we have we're still having

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a lot of work to do.

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May Allah

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make it easy for all of us.

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Remember Hadith of prophet Muhammad when

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he said

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make use of 5 things before 5 things

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setting.

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And then what prophet Muhammad

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mentioned was

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Now that you are young,

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you're youthful

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age,

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make use of it

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before you you become

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old.

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Let us help our youth.

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Help them

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on how to become,

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more menin,

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how to become saliheen,

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how to become Muslimin

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when they are young

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so that by the time they are old,

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they will still remember Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Brothers and sisters and some,

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as

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fathers and mothers,

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it is our responsibility

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to play that role.

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Remember the hadith of prophet Muhammad al SAW

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that says,

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Al

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Muhammad

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mentioned that

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they are ima

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the imams.

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They are.

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And Allah will ask them,

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and he said that

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the man in his house is.

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You are a shepherd.

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And Allah

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will ask you in the day of how

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you directed

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the affairs

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of

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your sheeps.

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May Allah make it easy for all of

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us.

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We have to remind us that

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in this era that we are living,

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many of our of our youth,

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some of them,

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they've been taking

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all these drugs.

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They've been drinking.

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They've been committing

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adultery.

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They've been doing all divorces.

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We have to make sure

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and teach our children

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that anything that is haram is haram.

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When you are with me, it is haram.

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When you are not with me, it is

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haram.

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And under this, our prophet Muhammad, salaam.

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He said,

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will

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be amazed

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with that that

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youth

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that is far away

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from all the bad habits

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that many people are

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used to today.

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They'll be far away

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from all the shuzud

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and any help.

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May

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Allah save us from all this. Brothers and

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sisters in Islam,

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it is our responsibility

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that we have to teach our children

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to

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be multisiming

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since when they are young.

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And all of us who've been taking our

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children to the Masjid,

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let's continue to do that.

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Remember,

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hadith of prophet Muhammad

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that says

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about those that will be under the shade

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of Allah.

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He says,

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7

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people that Allah will put on a shed

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in the day of when

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there will be no shed except the shed

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of Allah.

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And

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Among them

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are the youth

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that grows in.

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Please,

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it's never too late. If our children are

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not with us in the,

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let's try to whip them up.

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Let's try to carry them along,

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especially for we that we are young,

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that our children are still young.

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From now, let's start taking time to go

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to the Masjid,

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teaching them how to pray,

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teaching them the right thing of our deen.

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May

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Allah make it easy for all of us.

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Another point that we need

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to raise here today

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is about

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for us to encourage our children that have

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grown,

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that have reached the age of poverty,

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to try and marry.

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And when they marry, they marry the Muslim

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or Muslim.

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Prophet Mohammed Hassan said,

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is.

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Prophet Muhammad said,

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let him go and marry.

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And if he cannot marry,

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let him be fasting

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because with that,

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he'll be able to lower his game more,

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and he'll be able to prove to save

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his private part from committing adultery.

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Among what we have to mention today,

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another calamity that we are falling into

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is that we are having a lot of

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our brothers

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that are married to non Muslims.

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And they said, don't worry. She she got

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happy thing, whatever.

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So Farid Islam says that, you can marry

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them.

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Professor Sun says you can marry them. Let

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them let let let it be.

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No. It's not the best for you.

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The best thing for you is to marry

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a Muslim

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because

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exclaim that he's even black,

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and he's a Muslim.

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It's better than for you to marry a

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non Muslims.

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Anytime the Muslims marry a non Muslim, the

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result will be,

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after a while, all the children will go

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to church,

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or they don't know anything about Islam.

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And the worst

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of what has happened today

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is that we have seen

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some of our Muslim girls,

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they are married to Christians,

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which is haram haram haram.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam,

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we need to work hard

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and make sure

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that we direct

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all these affairs

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in the right way.

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Prophet Muhammad

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If somebody comes to you,

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and he's a Muslim, he said,

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The one that you are pleased with is

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deen.

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Not because that is making over $100,000

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a year.

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Not because he's working in so so so

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place.

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Not because it's this.

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Just because he has deal.

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First thing we do,

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marry him your daughter.

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May Allah

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make it easy for all of us. And

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prophet Muhammad Sallallahu said, for we,

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the brothers too,

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when he said,

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you mentioned the Germania,

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Linessa Bia,

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Wahasabia,

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Walidinia,

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Faruba to be that deen.

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You're married because of beauty,

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because of family,

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veteran,

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because of her wealth.

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And Ras Hassan said, are you married because

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of the deen?

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Far far far be that deen?

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Hold on

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to the one that has deen.

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May Allah

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make it easy for

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