Abdul Rahman Chao – 2024-08-15 Lecture

Abdul Rahman Chao
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The future of Islam is emphasized, with a focus on reinforcing Islam into the mind of children and teaching them to be leaders. The importance of educating children on their duty to be multisiming and to be a multisiming is also emphasized. The speakers emphasize the need to encourage parents to marry with non-Mahahah Muslims and educate children on their duty to be multisiming and be a multisiming.

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			Brothers and sisters in Islam,
		
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			today's
		
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			has to do
		
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			with the future
		
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			of our deen,
		
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			the future of the Ummah,
		
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			the future of
		
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			the Islam
		
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			in America,
		
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			in the western world.
		
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			Because a lot of the parents today,
		
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			they are leaving their children behind.
		
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			When they were young, they are bringing them
		
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			to the Masjid.
		
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			But now, maybe because they are they are
		
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			teenagers,
		
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			because they've reached 18,
		
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			they've
		
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			graduated.
		
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			They don't worry about them again.
		
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			My brothers and sisters in Islam,
		
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			our last one says,
		
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			in order for us to know that it
		
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			is our responsibility,
		
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			Save yourself and your household
		
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			from the hellfire that will be prepared
		
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			with rock and human beings.
		
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			And if you look at many ahadith of
		
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			prophet Muhammad
		
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			teaching us how to train our children,
		
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			he said,
		
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			Ask your children to pray.
		
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			Command them to go and pray
		
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			when they are 7 years old,
		
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			which means that they must have known how
		
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			to pray
		
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			when they are 7 years old.
		
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			What?
		
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			And prophet Hassan said,
		
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			and swoop them,
		
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			beat them
		
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			when they are 10 years old
		
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			and they didn't pray.
		
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			These are the teachings of prophet Muhammad, sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			on how to make sure
		
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			that our children,
		
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			they are
		
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			the best of what we can be thinking
		
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			about
		
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			by the time we live we love this
		
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			world.
		
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			Brothers and sisters brothers and sisters in Islam,
		
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			among the signs
		
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			and identity
		
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			for the Muslim Shabaab
		
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			that we must see in them,
		
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			we must see in our Shabaab
		
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			iman.
		
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			As they are growing, let us see iman
		
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			in them.
		
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			If you don't see iman in them,
		
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			it means we are having a lot to
		
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			do.
		
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			Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			in the home,
		
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			They have strong belief in their Lord,
		
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			in Allah.
		
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			If our children are not there,
		
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			they are not among those.
		
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			They're their youth.
		
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			They're shabab,
		
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			and they're still practicing Islam.
		
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			It means that we have a lot of
		
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			work to do.
		
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			Our children,
		
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			our youth,
		
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			they are the future of this.
		
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			They are the manera of Islam in the
		
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			future.
		
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			As we are struggling, we are training them.
		
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			We are spending our time, our energy
		
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			on how to become,
		
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			engineers,
		
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			pharmacists,
		
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			doctors.
		
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			Let's try to
		
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			make efforts
		
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			for them to be leaders for the.
		
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			If you remember our
		
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			dua, what we said,
		
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			Oh, Allah.
		
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			Bestow among
		
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			our spouses
		
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			and our offerings.
		
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			The joys of our hearts.
		
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			And make us leaders for the.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			make it easy for all of us that
		
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			iman that we are talking about.
		
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			When the last
		
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			says in the Quran,
		
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			We have to fear Allah
		
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			the way it should be feared,
		
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			not the way
		
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			we do it because I'm an America.
		
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			Not the way our children will do it
		
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			because they are in America. They are growing
		
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			in America.
		
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			We have to be reinforcing it into the
		
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			earth,
		
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			into the mind of our children.
		
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			The Talat says,
		
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			Never die
		
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			except in the state of being Muslims.
		
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			Many of the youths today,
		
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			when they are growing up, they are Muslims.
		
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			But immediately,
		
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			they become
		
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			somebody else
		
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			that has been working, that has been making
		
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			a lot of money. If you ask them
		
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			about Islam, they say, no. You know where
		
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			my father used to be, but what are
		
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			you doing now?
		
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			Just try.
		
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			No.
		
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			It means that we have we're still having
		
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			a lot of work to do.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			make it easy for all of us.
		
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			Remember Hadith of prophet Muhammad when
		
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			he said
		
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			make use of 5 things before 5 things
		
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			setting.
		
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			And then what prophet Muhammad
		
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			mentioned was
		
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			Now that you are young,
		
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			you're youthful
		
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			age,
		
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			make use of it
		
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			before you you become
		
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			old.
		
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			Let us help our youth.
		
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			Help them
		
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			on how to become,
		
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			more menin,
		
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			how to become saliheen,
		
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			how to become Muslimin
		
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			when they are young
		
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			so that by the time they are old,
		
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			they will still remember Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Brothers and sisters and some,
		
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			as
		
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			fathers and mothers,
		
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			it is our responsibility
		
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			to play that role.
		
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			Remember the hadith of prophet Muhammad al SAW
		
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			that says,
		
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			Al
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			mentioned that
		
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			they are ima
		
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			the imams.
		
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			They are.
		
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			And Allah will ask them,
		
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			and he said that
		
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			the man in his house is.
		
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			You are a shepherd.
		
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			And Allah
		
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			will ask you in the day of how
		
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			you directed
		
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			the affairs
		
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			of
		
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			your sheeps.
		
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			May Allah make it easy for all of
		
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			us.
		
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			We have to remind us that
		
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			in this era that we are living,
		
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			many of our of our youth,
		
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			some of them,
		
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			they've been taking
		
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			all these drugs.
		
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			They've been drinking.
		
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			They've been committing
		
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			adultery.
		
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			They've been doing all divorces.
		
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			We have to make sure
		
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			and teach our children
		
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			that anything that is haram is haram.
		
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			When you are with me, it is haram.
		
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			When you are not with me, it is
		
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			haram.
		
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			And under this, our prophet Muhammad, salaam.
		
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			He said,
		
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			will
		
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			be amazed
		
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			with that that
		
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			youth
		
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			that is far away
		
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			from all the bad habits
		
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			that many people are
		
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			used to today.
		
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			They'll be far away
		
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			from all the shuzud
		
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			and any help.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah save us from all this. Brothers and
		
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			sisters in Islam,
		
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			it is our responsibility
		
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			that we have to teach our children
		
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			to
		
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			be multisiming
		
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			since when they are young.
		
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			And all of us who've been taking our
		
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			children to the Masjid,
		
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			let's continue to do that.
		
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			Remember,
		
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			hadith of prophet Muhammad
		
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			that says
		
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			about those that will be under the shade
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			He says,
		
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			7
		
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			people that Allah will put on a shed
		
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			in the day of when
		
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			there will be no shed except the shed
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			And
		
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			Among them
		
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			are the youth
		
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			that grows in.
		
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			Please,
		
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			it's never too late. If our children are
		
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			not with us in the,
		
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			let's try to whip them up.
		
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			Let's try to carry them along,
		
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			especially for we that we are young,
		
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			that our children are still young.
		
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			From now, let's start taking time to go
		
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			to the Masjid,
		
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			teaching them how to pray,
		
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			teaching them the right thing of our deen.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah make it easy for all of us.
		
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			Another point that we need
		
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			to raise here today
		
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			is about
		
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			for us to encourage our children that have
		
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			grown,
		
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			that have reached the age of poverty,
		
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			to try and marry.
		
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			And when they marry, they marry the Muslim
		
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			or Muslim.
		
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			Prophet Mohammed Hassan said,
		
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			is.
		
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			Prophet Muhammad said,
		
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			let him go and marry.
		
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			And if he cannot marry,
		
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			let him be fasting
		
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			because with that,
		
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			he'll be able to lower his game more,
		
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			and he'll be able to prove to save
		
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			his private part from committing adultery.
		
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			Among what we have to mention today,
		
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			another calamity that we are falling into
		
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			is that we are having a lot of
		
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			our brothers
		
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			that are married to non Muslims.
		
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			And they said, don't worry. She she got
		
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			happy thing, whatever.
		
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			So Farid Islam says that, you can marry
		
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			them.
		
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			Professor Sun says you can marry them. Let
		
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			them let let let it be.
		
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			No. It's not the best for you.
		
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			The best thing for you is to marry
		
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			a Muslim
		
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			because
		
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			exclaim that he's even black,
		
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			and he's a Muslim.
		
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			It's better than for you to marry a
		
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			non Muslims.
		
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			Anytime the Muslims marry a non Muslim, the
		
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			result will be,
		
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			after a while, all the children will go
		
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			to church,
		
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			or they don't know anything about Islam.
		
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			And the worst
		
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			of what has happened today
		
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			is that we have seen
		
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			some of our Muslim girls,
		
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			they are married to Christians,
		
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			which is haram haram haram.
		
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			Brothers and sisters in Islam,
		
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			we need to work hard
		
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			and make sure
		
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			that we direct
		
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			all these affairs
		
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			in the right way.
		
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			Prophet Muhammad
		
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			If somebody comes to you,
		
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			and he's a Muslim, he said,
		
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			The one that you are pleased with is
		
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			deen.
		
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			Not because that is making over $100,000
		
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			a year.
		
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			Not because he's working in so so so
		
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			place.
		
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			Not because it's this.
		
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			Just because he has deal.
		
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			First thing we do,
		
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			marry him your daughter.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			make it easy for all of us. And
		
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			prophet Muhammad Sallallahu said, for we,
		
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			the brothers too,
		
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			when he said,
		
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			you mentioned the Germania,
		
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			Linessa Bia,
		
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			Wahasabia,
		
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			Walidinia,
		
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			Faruba to be that deen.
		
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			You're married because of beauty,
		
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			because of family,
		
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			veteran,
		
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			because of her wealth.
		
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			And Ras Hassan said, are you married because
		
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			of the deen?
		
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			Far far far be that deen?
		
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			Hold on
		
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			to the one that has deen.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			make it easy for