Abdul Rahman Chao – 2024-05-26

Abdul Rahman Chao
AI: Summary © The concept of appetite is discussed, which is the opposite of greed. aspirational health is also discussed, and the speaker suggests that it is not about wealth or wealth in one's hand, but rather a focus on effort and hard work. The importance of learning the life lesson of Islam and rethinking how we spend and interact with wealth is emphasized. The segment also discusses the origins of Islam's wealth and links it to a parable, emphasizing that it is not a reflection of who is rich or wealthy.
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One time, Umar ibn al Khattab

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he sought permission to enter

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the house of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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And as he entered,

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he noticed that the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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was laying

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on a very simple mat.

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Not like what we have today. Large thick

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mattresses but a very simple mat.

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And he was lying on his side.

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And he said that he sat down

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and he drew up his lower garment. He

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basically lifted up a little bit of his

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garment.

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But there was nothing else. He didn't have

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all these fancy clothes on him. That's the

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meaning of it.

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And the mat that the prophet was sleeping

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on had left visible marks

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on the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's

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body.

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He said, I looked over at the closet

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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And I saw that there was a tiny

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bit of barley.

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And I also saw in another corner of

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his room,

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a small pile of leaves.

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And then I saw on the wall of

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the prophet, the sallam, bedroom

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a leather bag hanging.

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And upon seeing

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this, Umar ibn Khattar radiAllahu an,

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he immediately started weeping.

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So the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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said to him,

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yabnal khatab

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ma yubkeek.

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What is oh son of khatab, Yani Amar.

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What is it that makes you weep?

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So Umar ibn Khattab radiAllahu anhu. He said,

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walanharwaantarasullallahualayhiwasallam

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wasafwatuhwahabihiqizanatuk

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So the prophet

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asked Umar

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why are you weeping?

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So Umar said,

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messenger of Allah,

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why should I not be weeping?

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Look at this mat and

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how it has left marks on the side

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of your body.

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Look at this closet, this cupboard of yours.

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I see whatever I see inside. Basically there's

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nothing in there.

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And yet,

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Caesar of Rome,

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of the Byzantine

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or perhaps in this context,

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the ruler of the Byzantine Empire.

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And Kisra of

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Persia.

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The emperor, the king of Persia.

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They are living amongst fruits

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and amongst flowing rivers.

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And yet you are the messenger of Allah,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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And you are the chosen one.

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And this is what your closet and cupboard

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looks like.

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So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said,

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Oh Umar

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would you not be pleased?

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Are you not satisfied

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that

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we have the Aqirah

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and they have this world.

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So Umar ibn Khattab he says,

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indeed

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of course

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brothers and sisters.

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This Hadith

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gives us

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a snapshot,

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a glimpse

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into the room, into the household of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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And how basic and how frugal

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and how ascetic the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam.

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And this concept

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that we see here in the Hadith of

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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is none other than a zuhud.

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Asceticism,

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of being frugal.

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It is the opposite of greed.

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What you see today,

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the immense corporate greed that is going on,

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as well as personal greed.

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People always

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seeing some little defect in their clothing, and

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they want to throw it away.

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They have to have the latest phone. They

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have to have the latest model.

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Knowing

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the labor that goes in it, the cobalt

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mines that are in the Congo.

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And how toxic it is for the people

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in the Republic of Congo.

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And we're not saying it's haram to buy

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a new phone.

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We are saying

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compare

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the contentment of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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and compare it to the capitalist degree that

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we live

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in? And how do we measure up?

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Brothers and sisters, some people think that a

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zuhd,

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asceticism

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is about making haram with Allah has made

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halal.

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And that is incorrect.

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So

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they think that

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the person who is a Zahid should be

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wearing

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ugly clothes, tattered clothes, rough clothes.

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That perhaps they should live a life of

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suffering

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and penury.

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And to be walking on

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on their bare feet.

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And if that was

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the true meaning of Azud,

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if that was the meaning of asceticism,

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam would not have

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worn nice clothing. He would have worn ugly

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clothing with the 'ardubillah.

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He would have gone barefoot.

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But yet,

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what did the prophet say, tell us?

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Verily Allah is beautiful and he loves beauty.

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And Allah tells us in the

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Quran, Oh sons of Adam, wear your finest

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of clothing when you when you go to

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the houses of Allah.

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But true But the true meaning of asceticism

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brothers and sisters

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is to not become attached to this world.

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And

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Hassan al Basri

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one of the great scholars of Islam,

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he defined

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Azuhud.

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And possibly the best definition you can come

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across.

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He said,

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Azuhud

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Asceticism

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is that you have wealth in your hand,

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but it is not in your heart.

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So you

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take whatever Allah has given you. You work

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hard. You strive hard. It is at what?

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At arms length.

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So the money that Allah has given you,

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you work with it. You don't shun it

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like you see in the Eastern religions.

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Where

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the ascetic, the sadhu,

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for example, the monk

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is

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has shaved their head and they've

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relied on begging people for food. Islam does

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not want that.

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Islam is saying

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take what the blessings Allah has given you.

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Work with it.

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Work with it.

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But don't let it come into your heart.

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Because when it comes into your heart,

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you will become attached to it. And when

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you become attached to it,

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many sins come forth afterwards.

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So Fianna Thawri

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was one of the greatest scholars of Islam.

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Born in the 1st century

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of the Hijri calendar.

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He was one of the greatest Zuhad.

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He was an ascetic.

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But yet he was extremely wealthy.

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And so, for some people they might think,

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this is a contradiction.

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This is a scholar. This is a great

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scholar in Islam. He's an ascetic. He's a

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Zahid. Yet he is

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extremely wealthy. What kind of contradiction is that?

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So he said, no. There is no contradiction.

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Why?

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He said because as a scholar

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you do not want to become as he

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described the handkerchief of the rulers.

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Because what happens is, when you're on the

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dime of the ruler and the person in

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charge,

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they will use you like a napkin.

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And you become Your opinions will become indebted

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to what they give you.

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So he wanted financial independence.

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But

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how is he rich and also Azahid? Because

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that wealth,

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he didn't make his own value of

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or his own sense of self worth based

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on how much money he has.

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Brothers and sisters Allah tells us in the

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Quran.

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Allah says in Quran, know and look how

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is addressing you.

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In other words,

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by not knowing this this is ignorance. So

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if you want to have true knowledge, know

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this life lesson that Allah is saying here.

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Know what?

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Annamal hayatudunya.

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That this world What is the summary of

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it?

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Laiibunwalahu.

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It is amusement

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and it is distraction.

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Wazina

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and pretty things, nice looking things. Watafaqurum

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baynaqum.

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And for that one person will compare to

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another. Who has more wealth? Who has more

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power?

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Watakathurumfilamwaliwala'olat.

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Comparing who is more wealthy, who has more

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wealth, and who has a larger family.

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Is like what? Kamath Ali Rayithin Ajabal Kufar

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Nabato.

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It's like a rain that comes

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and it rains on a piece of land.

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And all of a sudden this land turns

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green and they're benefiting from it. And they

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kind of forget that this will go away.

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And then it dries up one day.

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And it shrivels away and it turns into

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dust. And in the hereafter,

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there is either forgiveness and pleasure from Allah.

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And there's could be punishment from Allah.

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And this world is nothing

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but

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an enjoyment

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of delusion.

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Alhamdulillah.

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One of the companions of the prophet by

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the name of Bahak

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was one time sitting and he was eating.

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And in front of him he had some

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milk and he had some meat.

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And when the prophet said, what do you

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have in front of you?

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He wasn't saying because he cannot see. He

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wants to educate him and teach him something.

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So he said, mashaAllah, I have meat and

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I have milk in front of me.

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So the prophet said

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and what is going to happen after you

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eat that?

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And out of respect of the Prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam, the Haqq didn't say it will

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turn into excrement. No. He said it will

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turn into what you know it will turn

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into.

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So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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he says.

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Verily Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has made

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has has has has given us a parable.

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In which this world and its worth

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is like the food that goes in and

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passes through our body.

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In other words, it looks nice at the

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beginning.

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And all of this world will eventually turn

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into

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what you don't like.

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In another narration, the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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he says,

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if this world was worth

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anything,

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even if it was worth

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the value

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of a mosquito

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wing.

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Then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala would not have

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allowed the disbelievers

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to even drink one sip of water from

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it.

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Why?

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Because this world is nothing compared to the

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next life.

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Brothers and sisters,

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we

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see we are now entering

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the 7th, 8th month of what is going

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on in the Holy Land in in in

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Palestine and Gaza.

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And our hearts

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are slowly having calluses over it. We see

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the videos on social media,

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and we quickly scroll past because our hearts

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are so fragile.

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And you are not to be blamed for

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that.

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But in one of the videos I saw,

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this man his entire house was destroyed. His

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entire business was demolished

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into dust.

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And so the person asked him

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what are you going to do after this?

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He first said Alhamdulillah.

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He said all praise is due to Allah.

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And then he said

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Insha'Allah

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we will start over again.

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This is what it means to be a

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Zahid.

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That Allah gave you the tools. You use

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it for what is good.

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But your heart is not attached to it

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in a way.

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Where if Allah tests you and takes it

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away.

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That you scream and you shout and you

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moan and you are displeased with Allah's,

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predestination and judgment.

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And therefore brothers and sisters,

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it is time for us to rethink

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the way how we spend.

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The way how we consume.

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And the way how we interact with our

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wealth

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and with this dunya.

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