AbdelRahman Murphy – Eid Al-Adhaa 2024

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The importance of choosing the right way in life is emphasized, with a focus on preserving faith and living in a safe environment. A woman named Ibrahim al Qaeda who chose Islam as her destination, leaving homeland and serving in the future, received praise and awarded with a beautiful distinction. The success of one's success is measured by their choice to serve as their friend, not by material gain or success. celebrating the day of Obviously is encouraged, and family and friends should bring joy to celebrate it.

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			Walaaduriati
		
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			sayyidina
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			wasalamataslimankathiro
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Wa'ala Ali Sayyidina
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Wa'ala Ashabi
		
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			Sayyidina
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			Muhammad.
		
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			We're gonna be inshallah performing the prayer first,
		
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			of course.
		
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			The way that we'll be performing the prayer
		
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			is that we will be offering,
		
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			the,
		
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			takbir to open the salah, and then 3
		
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			takbiraat.
		
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			Then we'll be reciting the Surahs, going to
		
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			ruku, doing the sajda, coming back.
		
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			Once we are back for the second rakah,
		
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			we'll recite the Surahs, and then we'll have
		
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			an additional 3 before the ruku, and then
		
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			we'll finish the prayer.
		
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			And then per usual, the will be after
		
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			the salah. I promise to eat
		
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			the 4 minutes,
		
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			and everyone wants their coffee.
		
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			Okay? So.
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			This 'id is a beautiful reminder
		
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			and a powerful
		
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			a powerful narrative about choice.
		
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			Every person in this room has a choice.
		
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			For example,
		
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			we chose the 738
		
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			salah.
		
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			Everybody chose what they were going to wear
		
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			today. People choose what they're planning to do
		
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			today.
		
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			Everything in life, whether or not you have
		
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			complete control
		
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			or
		
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			most control
		
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			or partial control or in your eyes, no
		
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			control,
		
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			Ibrahim alaihis salam throughout his entire life
		
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			was tested by Allah with the test of
		
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			choice, just like all of us are tested.
		
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			And every single time that he was given
		
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			the test of choice,
		
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			Ibrahim had a remarkable response.
		
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			He would choose Allah.
		
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			Every single time a scenario was put in
		
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			front of Sayid Ibrahim alaihis salam,
		
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			he would think about
		
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			which of the options ahead of him
		
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			would bring him closer to Allah, would give
		
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			him a proximity to his creator,
		
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			and which of the two choices in front
		
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			of him would take him further away.
		
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			It starts with his early days when Ibrahim
		
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			alayhis salaam was the only person
		
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			in a community of people
		
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			that worshiped idols. He was the only individual
		
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			that when looking at this scenario made the
		
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			choice
		
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			to choose Allah over everybody else. This choice
		
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			was not easy. It was a difficult one
		
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			because he didn't have the numbers. He didn't
		
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			have the popularity.
		
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			In fact, it was the unpopular thing to
		
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			do. To choose to worship Allah alone in
		
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			a world where everybody around you was going
		
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			in a different direction
		
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			was a very difficult choice.
		
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			And as a result of that choice, Ibrahim
		
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			alaihis salam
		
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			chose
		
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			to break the idols
		
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			when he had the opportunity,
		
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			when it became too much, when the community
		
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			became aggressive and egregious in their worship of
		
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			those idols,
		
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			Ibrahim decided to make a statement and chose
		
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			to break those idols. As a result of
		
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			that, his choice caused him to be expelled
		
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			by his family.
		
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			Ibrahim alaihis salaam, after
		
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			standing his ground and worshiping Allah
		
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			and choosing the right way, was then punished
		
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			and was given the consequence of the leader
		
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			at the time by being thrown into the
		
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			fire.
		
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			And even in that moment, subhanAllah,
		
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			when you look at the narrations,
		
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			when Ibrahim was given a moment, a miraculous
		
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			moment by Sayyidina Jibril alaihis salam, when he
		
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			was given a moment
		
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			of a question. Do you need any assistance
		
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			from
		
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			Allah? Do you need help? Do you want
		
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			God to remove you from this trial?
		
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			Ibrahim's response was, I choose whatever Allah chooses
		
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			for me.
		
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			I will be aligned with whatever Allah chooses
		
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			for me. If Allah wants to send me
		
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			into the fire, then that's what I choose.
		
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			And when it comes to help, I need
		
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			no other help. And as a result of
		
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			that choice,
		
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			Allah produced the miracle that he mentioned in
		
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			the Quran
		
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			where he told the fire, be cool and
		
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			peaceful upon Ibrahim.
		
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			After that, Ibrahim alaihis salam made the choice
		
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			to leave his homeland.
		
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			You know, sometimes when we think about moving
		
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			and living and where we want to be,
		
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			we have to think about what is best
		
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			for ourselves and our families.
		
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			And even though
		
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			staying in the area that we're in or
		
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			remaining in the region that we've grown up
		
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			in might be more comfortable,
		
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			might have more of a personal connection.
		
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			When we think about preserving the faith of
		
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			our family, ourselves, and our friends, the choice
		
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			to move and the choice to leave is
		
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			necessary. Many people here have probably made a
		
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			decision like that. It was what's best for
		
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			you and your family. Ibrahim had the same
		
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			decision.
		
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			Do I stay here in the place that
		
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			I call home with the people that I
		
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			know as my family, my friends, my community,
		
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			or do I make the choice to leave?
		
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			And he chose to leave just like many
		
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			prophets did.
		
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			Ibrahim chose to listen to Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala
		
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			and to obey the dream, the command that
		
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			he was given to sacrifice his son. And
		
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			Ibrahim alaihis salam chose
		
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			to obey the command of raising the foundations
		
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			of the Kaaba with that very same son.
		
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			Ibrahim's life, brothers and sisters, was a life
		
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			of choices.
		
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			And as a result of every single choice
		
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			he made,
		
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			when he was in the situation and chose
		
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			Allah,
		
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			Allah
		
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			gave him a beautiful distinction.
		
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			The ayah in the Quran that I quoted
		
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			from Surat Nisa, Allah says,
		
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			He says,
		
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			who has
		
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			a more beautiful religion? Who has a more
		
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			beautiful expression of their faith
		
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			than the one
		
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			who,
		
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			when given a choice, chooses to direct themselves
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			They direct and they submit their face to
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And in that moment of choosing Allah,
		
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			they don't choose it begrudgingly.
		
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			They don't choose it angrily. They don't choose
		
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			it pouting and throwing tantrums. Oh, I have
		
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			to do this. I have to be because
		
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			I'm Muslim, I can't do this. No.
		
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			And in that choice, they choose Allah beautifully.
		
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			I get to pray.
		
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			I get to give sadaqa. I get to
		
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			fast. I get to go to the masjid.
		
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			That person
		
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			will have done the decision and made the
		
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			path in their life the same path as
		
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			Sayed Ibrahim. Now what's the result of all
		
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			of these choices?
		
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			You know, when a person, for example, gets
		
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			interviewed later on in life,
		
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			Forbes, you know, what made you a successful
		
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			CEO?
		
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			Oftentimes,
		
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			they give a frustratingly simple answer.
		
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			What earned you the 100,000,000? What got you
		
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			to this point? They'll just say something like,
		
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			good choices.
		
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			And you become frustrated because you say, surely,
		
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			there's something more
		
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			to it. You became so successful. Surely, it's
		
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			more than just making good choices. But we
		
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			learn in the Quran
		
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			that in order for a person to be
		
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			successful spiritually,
		
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			it really does just come down to that.
		
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			When you make good choices for the sake
		
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			of Allah, Allah ta'ala gives you a very
		
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			special gift,
		
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			Allah, as a result of all of those
		
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			choices that he made,
		
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			Allah said, you know what, Ibrahim? You're my
		
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			close friend now. You're the one that I
		
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			want to be near and dear to me.
		
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			You're the one that I will honor with
		
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			this title
		
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			All of us, our dream, our aspiration
		
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			is to be given the closeness to Allah
		
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			That's all we want.
		
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			At the end of it all, why do
		
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			we do what we do?
		
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			Why do we pray? Why do we fast?
		
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			Why do we give charity? Why?
		
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			It's not for some material gain, it's so
		
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			that we can be close to Allah.
		
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			So that on the day of judgment, that
		
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			in the afterlife we'll be near to Allah
		
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			We wanna be His friend. We wanna be
		
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			close to Allah like best friends are close.
		
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			He tells us in this ayah that there
		
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			is no secret recipe.
		
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			The recipe is very clear.
		
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			If you want to be close to Allah
		
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			when it matters most, you have to choose
		
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			to be close to Allah in this life.
		
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			May Allah give us that closeness. May Allah
		
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			give us the ability to choose. May Allah
		
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			give us the strength to make the right
		
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			choices when they come across us.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, we have, insha'Allah, a beautiful
		
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			day ahead of us, and I want to
		
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			remind everybody
		
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			of one thing about the virtue of Eid,
		
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			and that is that Eid is a day
		
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			of celebration. Alhamdulillah,
		
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			this Eid for us fell on a Sunday,
		
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			which mirrors and reflects a day which most
		
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			people are not working. And that's great because
		
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			usually when we work, it's difficult to celebrate
		
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			fully.
		
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			But I really want us to understand the
		
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			value of celebrating the day today with our
		
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			family, with our friends.
		
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			Celebration on the day of Eid is not
		
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			simply just a luxury. It's not simply just
		
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			a choice even though it is. It is
		
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			something that will inculcate the identity
		
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			of love of this day and love of
		
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			deen within the family and within the children
		
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			that we have in our community. In we
		
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			have after the prayer, the second prayer, we
		
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			have our Eid festivities here from 10 to
		
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			12. I wanna really encourage everybody to come
		
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			and bring their family and friends and enjoy
		
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			the day. If you had anything scheduled for
		
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			today, if you had any errands, anything at
		
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			all, I promise you they can wait till
		
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			tomorrow.
		
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			The errands, the drop offs, the returns, the
		
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			pickups,
		
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			unless it's critical to celebrating today,
		
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			leave everything off to the side and make
		
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			sure that you prioritize today as a day
		
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			of celebration,
		
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			as a day of takbiraat,
		
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			as a day of choosing Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala in your celebration more than choosing anything
		
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			else on the day of Eid. We ask
		
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			Allah to give us the best. We ask
		
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			Allah to accept from us. We ask Allah
		
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			to accept the 10 days of Dhul Hijjah
		
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			that we have done as days of service
		
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			and sacrifice. We ask
		
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			Allah to allow us to follow the path
		
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			of Ibrahim.