Abdal Hakim Murad – The Adab of the Moment

Abdal Hakim Murad
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The speakers stress the importance of pride and human satisfaction in modern societies, particularly in regards to the implementation of Islam. They discuss the significance of pride in modern societies, including the implementation of Islam. The speaker emphasizes the need for individual independence and loyalty to employer and parent, as it is linked to the holy month of July. The importance of learning the art of the Sun for achieving a healthy balance between on and off, and the need for reliance on Islam's teachings to avoid anxiety and fearfulness.
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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah. Early he was

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a happy woman while

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moving further into the extraordinary profound sea of

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Ramadan.

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We consider another aspect of our neediness or if Tikar

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Allah subhanaw taala says, and Tamil for Colorado Illa Allah, you

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are the needy of Allah. And he is oh honey al Hamid, the wealthy,

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which means the independent, the need, in this needless one, the

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praiseworthy one.

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And to the extent that we recognize the truth of that

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inequality, that most radical inequality of our complete,

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beholden this to him, and of his complete independence of us, we

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will start to realize the depths of the meaning of the word Islam

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itself, which has been brought to the surface for us through the

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divine patience and the divine wisdom and the beauty of the

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Sunnah in this most holy month.

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What does it mean to be ABD?

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What does it mean to be truly a servant in this state of OBO de

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servitude, to the one who alone is not aboard, the one who alone is

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do our obedience and our servitude and our fealty.

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In this world, we come across so many hierarchies,

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I owe a duty of obedience to my employer,

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I owe a duty of obedience to my ruler, I owe a duty of obedience

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to parents.

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This is the way in which society in complex worlds complex

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civilizations necessarily is structured.

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And in that complicated web of relationships, and duties and

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regulations. Sometimes the underlying reality which is in

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reality, that it is a law, a law, the law you're about will be happy

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and see where only God is truly and justly, to be the object of

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Cambodia to be marked bored, some of that can be lost. To the extent

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that we have all of these subsidiary relations in this

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world.

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A complex network of duties made ever more complex by the endless

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proliferating of new legislation, and the very large claims which

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the modern nation state makes upon us. To that extent, sometimes we

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can be veiled by these lesser obligations from the ultimate and

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immutable obligation, which we have towards the one who in

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reality, gave us everything, and to Whom therefore, is an absolute

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duty of respect and honoring and love.

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In our all encompassing final Muhammad in Revelation, this

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principle of human servitude and emptiness is particularly

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emphasized. We are not a community of mediators, we are not a

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community of intermediate hierarchies. We are a community

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where the individual

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engage engages with the motherboard to truly worship one

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in an absolute way.

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And this is one reason why the Sajida is kind of a symbol of the

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religion of Islam. In other religions, sometimes there are

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forms of bodily worship. Occasionally there is prostration.

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But in this religion, which is the religion that is to be for the

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ummah of the Hitomi, yet, there is a particular emphasis on this, the

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absoluteness the starkness of human dependency, our naked

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reliance upon the one from whom all blessings flow and in whose

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hands is life and death, and the disposition of every breath that

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we take.

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This is said by the Allamah to represent the nature of the age of

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distraction and complexity, for which the Mohammed and Wei is

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designed.

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Although there are features of primordial ality, in our religion,

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and that is part of the Hitomi as well. It is also a religion which

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is designed designed to provide us with a kind of lifeboat

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in the increasingly stormy tempestuous seas that humanity has

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brewed up for itself as a result of greed and the shocking

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claim that we can be independent of the one who gave us everything.

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In Al Insana layout of our Ira was stubborn there. One of the

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earliest things with which the Qureshi were challenged was human

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beings go beyond the boundaries become tyrants, because they see

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themselves as independent.

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We've declared UTI union unilateral declaration of

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independence from the time of the Enlightenment onwards, and the

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consequences of this, for human happiness, for human safety, for

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the environment, for our peace of mind are ever more evident. We are

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designed to recognize our status as matboard. And to the extent

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that we reject that we become dysfunctional, and the soul

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suffers relationships suffer, humanity suffers. Happiness is in

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Obadiah.

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So in the month of Ramadan, we are particularly reminded of this,

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reminded of how much we depend on the divine risk, something that we

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normally take for granted.

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Currently, in places in Eastern Europe now, people find themselves

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besieged and they can't find anything to eat or to drink. In

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the modern world. This is an unusual panic inducing scenario.

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It is said that the practice of fasting can be a kind of

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preparation for this, and metabolic as well as the

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psychological preparation for that. But otherwise, human beings

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in today's world are like sleepy babies endlessly sucking upon the

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milk of momentary satisfaction and gratification. And we just cry

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when we're taken away from our pleasures, and our snacks and our

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indulgences, and our treats for a few minutes. We've become very

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childlike in our dependence.

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One of the virtues that this month, inculcates in us, if we

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approach it with an open heart and a humble spirit, is this

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paradigmatically Islamic virtue of Tawakkol.

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The story that is really at the essence of all of the prophetic

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stories in the Quran.

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It's the basis of the courage of the NBA app, and of those who

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support the NBA.

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Look at the courage of the mother of Moses.

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Look at the courage of the mother of Asa, and of so many others. And

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it's interesting that the women of the Quran are very often

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characterized as being courageous women

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that look at this a hobby yet, and the wives that the Holy Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who was the one who, to whom the Holy

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Prophet came after he had had the first enormous ripping of the veil

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between himself and the tremendous Jellal of the angelic presence. To

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whom did he say, was then Maloney who covered him while it was

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Khadija and his household? Radi Allahu Anhu.

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So we're not talking here about some kind of wanting male heroism,

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we're talking about something that is deeper, and that transcends

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such distinctions.

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But there's that you, which has an inner strength comes not through

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ego, the ego of the false warrior, the ego of the booster, the ego of

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the one who cares about taking a selfie of himself standing on a

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tank, but is instead the courage that comes from reliance.

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On then yet what can Allah Allah for Hua hospital, whoever has to

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work on reliance on Allah, He is enough for him.

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And we know this mentally, but if we know it with our hearts, then

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we will experience this extraordinary protection and the

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extraordinary heroism and courage that can come from that.

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We will overcome the lower self and we will embark upon the

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journey to real humanity.

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The humanity of those of whom it is said law often or lay him, will

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love them yes or no unknown. There is no fear upon them. Neither do

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they grieve. They're not afraid of the future. They don't grieve over

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the past because they know they attain is that all is from the

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Lord.

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Whether it be the bitterness of his decree, or the sweetness of

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his decree, it is all from him.

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So this Tawakkol comes from a transformed mode of consciousness.

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It comes from a kind of more shahada and ability to witness

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that Allah is Allah coalition work ILA, the trustee, The Guardian,

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the protector of all things, that whatever may come is by his

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decree. That our responsibility through the adverb of the Sunnah

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is to make sure

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Now that we are in the right relationship to his decree,

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whether or not victory comes at the end of it, whether or not

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whatever might come, that the adverb of the moment is all of

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Islam.

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The past, con unreachable, unreal, the future, who knows,

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the present is real, the moment the what. And it is our duty in

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every moment to be attentive to what the real terracotta Allah is

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doing for us to us Kula Yeoman, who if he shut in every day, which

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the ultimate says in every moment, he is doing something.

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And we need to see what he is doing with this inner eye, this is

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an old boss era,

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this is of inner sight. So that we do not become preoccupied by

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apparent networks of cause and effect, which is so complex that

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we'll become really anxious and miserable if we even try to think

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about what caused what, although there are certain external are

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that certain normal says that enable us to function, but the

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reality is him doing everything in every moment.

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And this is not easy to perceive. Some people only have a glimpse of

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it once or twice in their lives, that they see that behind the

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outward show of things that opera of human existence, how there is a

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script and there is a reality and there is a settled truth. That is

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actually all beauty and mercy, and correctness and absolute peace.

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So this Tawakkol is the state which we seek to acquire. While

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we're fasting.

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We depend on Allah even though in our beginner stage, we're thinking

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about trusting on him to provide something that if thar, but that

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is still a lesson, to have the sober to have this patience to say

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no I can manage for the next few hours. Without this sleepy,

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sucking upon the teats of distracted. life support system

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but I can go without for a while, is a very important lesson. It's

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one of the first lessons in spiritual growth that we say we

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can depend without indulgence.

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And then at the deeper level, of course, the Sabra comes to an end

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when the sun goes down and a period of chakra begins suburban

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chakra always, almost identical twins.

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And the Shaka gives this for her, as the Hadith says, Farhat on

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either FITARA endophytic. The believer has a joy at his breaking

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of the fast. But the lesson should have been learned that the heart

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should have been weaned away just as the baby is weaned away from

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the milk weaned away and grows into a greater maturity. To the

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extent that we're dependent on immediate sensory pleasures. We're

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like very small children and we're not really fully human in the

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adult, mature sense. Maturity consists in self discipline, self

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control, excellent character and sovereign.

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So Ramadan is the time when we start to perceive the Creator as

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work healer.

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He will provide woman yet a worker Allah Allah He for her husband,

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whoever relies on him, he is enough for him.

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And even the very daunting sahih Hadith where he says sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam no to tell to him, Allah Allah He had that our

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color that was aka comb Kana Yara, Zuko tyre.

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were you to rely upon Allah with the true Tawakkol he would provide

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for you risk as he provides for the birds, which go out in the

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morning, hungry and returned seated.

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That's challenging, but it is part of Islam.

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Of course, Islam also means you earn a living. It also means you

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cook your dinner you serve your family, all of those obvious

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things. And part of the Sunnah is to remind us of how to achieve

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this subtle balance between on the one hand following the ASVAB cause

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and effect in the world,

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taking precautions and on the other hand, maintaining complete

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tobacco and reliance on knowledge that Allah subhanaw taala is the

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money is independent, and we are absolutely dependent upon him.

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That is, if you like the subtle art of the Sunnah,

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to live in the world and Islam does show you how to live in the

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world. It's not a monastic tradition,

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but at the same time to remember his absolute control and power in

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all things. That's difficult to hate and Tawakkol have to be

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combined and imambargah

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ally in the hair on Ramadan has a whole book on Kitab Tohei do a

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telecoil which is really all about how we can adorn ourselves with

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this art of the Sunnah in order to maintain this balance that so many

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of us get wrong.

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So in this month of Ramadan, we should learn the principle of

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reliance. It's kind of forced upon us in a sense during the day we

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get into the habit it's habituation so that it does not

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just evaporate again, when we're having our biryani in the evening

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and our sweets on aid, but it becomes something that has had a

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permanent transformative effect on the heart that we remember our

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neediness that we are for caught up that we recognize that

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everything comes from Him He alone is the Razak that we are people of

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sugar as well as the sober that we are people who are loud or be him

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yet our cologne as in the famous hadith of acacia, those who rely

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on their Lord which is the quality one of the qualities of those

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70,000 who enter paradise without recognizing.

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Yet hold on agenda the lady who served in the sound Hadith in

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Bukhari of acacia, and Acacia. Of course hearing this hadith says

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Yara solo not only and Hakuna min hum Rasul Allah, he can't contain

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himself, pray to Allah that I might be one of those 70,000 and

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she prays

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and somebody else says, Well, I know Yara Salah me too, obviously

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everybody's going to say, please make this answered prayer for us.

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And he says subaqua can be hard or cash or cash or beat you to it.

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But it's up to Wakil. And it's about reliance, because Reliance

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to Wakil is the essence of Islam. And in this crazy age, where so

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much seems to be threatening us within and without an age of

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tempestuous and misery inducing an anxiety causing desires. When

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humanity is really suffering probably more than ever before in

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history. Outwardly comfortable, if you're in a rich country, inwardly

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shaky, that we need this principle of Tawakkol

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we need to be in this shore ship of salvation, which is the Sunnah

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of the chosen one sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and really put

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Ramadan to work, really make use of it, so that we can be still

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inside so that we can be calm inside and so that Ramadan offers

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us a kind of vaccination, against the virus of materialism and

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fearfulness that is going around in the world and insha Allah

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vaccination that will last not just until next Ramadan, but will

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make a permanent difference to us in sha Allah. So we ask Allah

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subhanaw taala to make us have the motto alkylene and that we should

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be benefited from the diet of the chosen one sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam who prayed for the people of Tawakkol and said that they

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would be the people enter paradise without reckoning. A couple Allahu

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minimum income was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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