Abdal Hakim Murad – The Adab of the Moment

Abdal Hakim Murad
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The speakers stress the importance of pride and human satisfaction in modern societies, particularly in regards to the implementation of Islam. They discuss the significance of pride in modern societies, including the implementation of Islam. The speaker emphasizes the need for individual independence and loyalty to employer and parent, as it is linked to the holy month of July. The importance of learning the art of the Sun for achieving a healthy balance between on and off, and the need for reliance on Islam's teachings to avoid anxiety and fearfulness.

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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu
salam ala Rasulillah. Early he was
		
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			a happy woman while
		
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			moving further into the
extraordinary profound sea of
		
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			Ramadan.
		
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			We consider another aspect of our
neediness or if Tikar
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says, and
Tamil for Colorado Illa Allah, you
		
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			are the needy of Allah. And he is
oh honey al Hamid, the wealthy,
		
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			which means the independent, the
need, in this needless one, the
		
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			praiseworthy one.
		
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			And to the extent that we
recognize the truth of that
		
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			inequality, that most radical
inequality of our complete,
		
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			beholden this to him, and of his
complete independence of us, we
		
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			will start to realize the depths
of the meaning of the word Islam
		
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			itself, which has been brought to
the surface for us through the
		
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			divine patience and the divine
wisdom and the beauty of the
		
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			Sunnah in this most holy month.
		
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			What does it mean to be ABD?
		
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			What does it mean to be truly a
servant in this state of OBO de
		
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			servitude, to the one who alone is
not aboard, the one who alone is
		
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			do our obedience and our servitude
and our fealty.
		
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			In this world, we come across so
many hierarchies,
		
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			I owe a duty of obedience to my
employer,
		
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			I owe a duty of obedience to my
ruler, I owe a duty of obedience
		
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			to parents.
		
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			This is the way in which society
in complex worlds complex
		
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			civilizations necessarily is
structured.
		
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			And in that complicated web of
relationships, and duties and
		
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			regulations. Sometimes the
underlying reality which is in
		
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			reality, that it is a law, a law,
the law you're about will be happy
		
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			and see where only God is truly
and justly, to be the object of
		
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			Cambodia to be marked bored, some
of that can be lost. To the extent
		
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			that we have all of these
subsidiary relations in this
		
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			world.
		
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			A complex network of duties made
ever more complex by the endless
		
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			proliferating of new legislation,
and the very large claims which
		
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			the modern nation state makes upon
us. To that extent, sometimes we
		
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			can be veiled by these lesser
obligations from the ultimate and
		
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			immutable obligation, which we
have towards the one who in
		
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			reality, gave us everything, and
to Whom therefore, is an absolute
		
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			duty of respect and honoring and
love.
		
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			In our all encompassing final
Muhammad in Revelation, this
		
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			principle of human servitude and
emptiness is particularly
		
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			emphasized. We are not a community
of mediators, we are not a
		
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			community of intermediate
hierarchies. We are a community
		
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			where the individual
		
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			engage engages with the
motherboard to truly worship one
		
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			in an absolute way.
		
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			And this is one reason why the
Sajida is kind of a symbol of the
		
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			religion of Islam. In other
religions, sometimes there are
		
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			forms of bodily worship.
Occasionally there is prostration.
		
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			But in this religion, which is the
religion that is to be for the
		
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			ummah of the Hitomi, yet, there is
a particular emphasis on this, the
		
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			absoluteness the starkness of
human dependency, our naked
		
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			reliance upon the one from whom
all blessings flow and in whose
		
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			hands is life and death, and the
disposition of every breath that
		
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			we take.
		
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			This is said by the Allamah to
represent the nature of the age of
		
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			distraction and complexity, for
which the Mohammed and Wei is
		
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			designed.
		
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			Although there are features of
primordial ality, in our religion,
		
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			and that is part of the Hitomi as
well. It is also a religion which
		
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			is designed designed to provide us
with a kind of lifeboat
		
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			in the increasingly stormy
tempestuous seas that humanity has
		
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			brewed up for itself as a result
of greed and the shocking
		
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			claim that we can be independent
of the one who gave us everything.
		
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			In Al Insana layout of our Ira was
stubborn there. One of the
		
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			earliest things with which the
Qureshi were challenged was human
		
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			beings go beyond the boundaries
become tyrants, because they see
		
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			themselves as independent.
		
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			We've declared UTI union
unilateral declaration of
		
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			independence from the time of the
Enlightenment onwards, and the
		
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			consequences of this, for human
happiness, for human safety, for
		
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			the environment, for our peace of
mind are ever more evident. We are
		
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			designed to recognize our status
as matboard. And to the extent
		
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			that we reject that we become
dysfunctional, and the soul
		
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			suffers relationships suffer,
humanity suffers. Happiness is in
		
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			Obadiah.
		
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			So in the month of Ramadan, we are
particularly reminded of this,
		
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			reminded of how much we depend on
the divine risk, something that we
		
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			normally take for granted.
		
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			Currently, in places in Eastern
Europe now, people find themselves
		
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			besieged and they can't find
anything to eat or to drink. In
		
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			the modern world. This is an
unusual panic inducing scenario.
		
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			It is said that the practice of
fasting can be a kind of
		
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			preparation for this, and
metabolic as well as the
		
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			psychological preparation for
that. But otherwise, human beings
		
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			in today's world are like sleepy
babies endlessly sucking upon the
		
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			milk of momentary satisfaction and
gratification. And we just cry
		
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			when we're taken away from our
pleasures, and our snacks and our
		
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			indulgences, and our treats for a
few minutes. We've become very
		
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			childlike in our dependence.
		
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			One of the virtues that this
month, inculcates in us, if we
		
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			approach it with an open heart and
a humble spirit, is this
		
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			paradigmatically Islamic virtue of
Tawakkol.
		
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			The story that is really at the
essence of all of the prophetic
		
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			stories in the Quran.
		
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			It's the basis of the courage of
the NBA app, and of those who
		
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			support the NBA.
		
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			Look at the courage of the mother
of Moses.
		
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			Look at the courage of the mother
of Asa, and of so many others. And
		
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			it's interesting that the women of
the Quran are very often
		
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			characterized as being courageous
women
		
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			that look at this a hobby yet, and
the wives that the Holy Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who
was the one who, to whom the Holy
		
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			Prophet came after he had had the
first enormous ripping of the veil
		
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			between himself and the tremendous
Jellal of the angelic presence. To
		
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			whom did he say, was then Maloney
who covered him while it was
		
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			Khadija and his household? Radi
Allahu Anhu.
		
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			So we're not talking here about
some kind of wanting male heroism,
		
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			we're talking about something that
is deeper, and that transcends
		
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			such distinctions.
		
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			But there's that you, which has an
inner strength comes not through
		
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			ego, the ego of the false warrior,
the ego of the booster, the ego of
		
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			the one who cares about taking a
selfie of himself standing on a
		
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			tank, but is instead the courage
that comes from reliance.
		
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			On then yet what can Allah Allah
for Hua hospital, whoever has to
		
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			work on reliance on Allah, He is
enough for him.
		
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			And we know this mentally, but if
we know it with our hearts, then
		
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			we will experience this
extraordinary protection and the
		
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			extraordinary heroism and courage
that can come from that.
		
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			We will overcome the lower self
and we will embark upon the
		
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			journey to real humanity.
		
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			The humanity of those of whom it
is said law often or lay him, will
		
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			love them yes or no unknown. There
is no fear upon them. Neither do
		
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			they grieve. They're not afraid of
the future. They don't grieve over
		
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			the past because they know they
attain is that all is from the
		
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			Lord.
		
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			Whether it be the bitterness of
his decree, or the sweetness of
		
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			his decree, it is all from him.
		
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			So this Tawakkol comes from a
transformed mode of consciousness.
		
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			It comes from a kind of more
shahada and ability to witness
		
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			that Allah is Allah coalition work
ILA, the trustee, The Guardian,
		
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			the protector of all things, that
whatever may come is by his
		
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			decree. That our responsibility
through the adverb of the Sunnah
		
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			is to make sure
		
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			Now that we are in the right
relationship to his decree,
		
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			whether or not victory comes at
the end of it, whether or not
		
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			whatever might come, that the
adverb of the moment is all of
		
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			Islam.
		
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			The past, con unreachable, unreal,
the future, who knows,
		
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			the present is real, the moment
the what. And it is our duty in
		
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			every moment to be attentive to
what the real terracotta Allah is
		
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			doing for us to us Kula Yeoman,
who if he shut in every day, which
		
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			the ultimate says in every moment,
he is doing something.
		
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			And we need to see what he is
doing with this inner eye, this is
		
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			an old boss era,
		
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			this is of inner sight. So that we
do not become preoccupied by
		
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			apparent networks of cause and
effect, which is so complex that
		
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			we'll become really anxious and
miserable if we even try to think
		
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			about what caused what, although
there are certain external are
		
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			that certain normal says that
enable us to function, but the
		
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			reality is him doing everything in
every moment.
		
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			And this is not easy to perceive.
Some people only have a glimpse of
		
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			it once or twice in their lives,
that they see that behind the
		
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			outward show of things that opera
of human existence, how there is a
		
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			script and there is a reality and
there is a settled truth. That is
		
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			actually all beauty and mercy, and
correctness and absolute peace.
		
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			So this Tawakkol is the state
which we seek to acquire. While
		
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			we're fasting.
		
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			We depend on Allah even though in
our beginner stage, we're thinking
		
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			about trusting on him to provide
something that if thar, but that
		
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			is still a lesson, to have the
sober to have this patience to say
		
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			no I can manage for the next few
hours. Without this sleepy,
		
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			sucking upon the teats of
distracted. life support system
		
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			but I can go without for a while,
is a very important lesson. It's
		
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			one of the first lessons in
spiritual growth that we say we
		
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			can depend without indulgence.
		
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			And then at the deeper level, of
course, the Sabra comes to an end
		
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			when the sun goes down and a
period of chakra begins suburban
		
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			chakra always, almost identical
twins.
		
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			And the Shaka gives this for her,
as the Hadith says, Farhat on
		
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			either FITARA endophytic. The
believer has a joy at his breaking
		
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			of the fast. But the lesson should
have been learned that the heart
		
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			should have been weaned away just
as the baby is weaned away from
		
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			the milk weaned away and grows
into a greater maturity. To the
		
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			extent that we're dependent on
immediate sensory pleasures. We're
		
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			like very small children and we're
not really fully human in the
		
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			adult, mature sense. Maturity
consists in self discipline, self
		
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			control, excellent character and
sovereign.
		
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			So Ramadan is the time when we
start to perceive the Creator as
		
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			work healer.
		
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			He will provide woman yet a worker
Allah Allah He for her husband,
		
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			whoever relies on him, he is
enough for him.
		
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			And even the very daunting sahih
Hadith where he says sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam no to tell to
him, Allah Allah He had that our
		
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			color that was aka comb Kana Yara,
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			were you to rely upon Allah with
the true Tawakkol he would provide
		
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			for you risk as he provides for
the birds, which go out in the
		
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			morning, hungry and returned
seated.
		
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			That's challenging, but it is part
of Islam.
		
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			Of course, Islam also means you
earn a living. It also means you
		
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			cook your dinner you serve your
family, all of those obvious
		
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			things. And part of the Sunnah is
to remind us of how to achieve
		
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			this subtle balance between on the
one hand following the ASVAB cause
		
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			and effect in the world,
		
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			taking precautions and on the
other hand, maintaining complete
		
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			tobacco and reliance on knowledge
that Allah subhanaw taala is the
		
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			money is independent, and we are
absolutely dependent upon him.
		
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			That is, if you like the subtle
art of the Sunnah,
		
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			to live in the world and Islam
does show you how to live in the
		
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			world. It's not a monastic
tradition,
		
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			but at the same time to remember
his absolute control and power in
		
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			all things. That's difficult to
hate and Tawakkol have to be
		
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			combined and imambargah
		
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			ally in the hair on Ramadan has a
whole book on Kitab Tohei do a
		
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			telecoil which is really all about
how we can adorn ourselves with
		
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			this art of the Sunnah in order to
maintain this balance that so many
		
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			of us get wrong.
		
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			So in this month of Ramadan, we
should learn the principle of
		
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			reliance. It's kind of forced upon
us in a sense during the day we
		
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			get into the habit it's
habituation so that it does not
		
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			just evaporate again, when we're
having our biryani in the evening
		
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			and our sweets on aid, but it
becomes something that has had a
		
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			permanent transformative effect on
the heart that we remember our
		
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			neediness that we are for caught
up that we recognize that
		
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			everything comes from Him He alone
is the Razak that we are people of
		
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			sugar as well as the sober that we
are people who are loud or be him
		
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			yet our cologne as in the famous
hadith of acacia, those who rely
		
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			on their Lord which is the quality
one of the qualities of those
		
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			70,000 who enter paradise without
recognizing.
		
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			Yet hold on agenda the lady who
served in the sound Hadith in
		
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			Bukhari of acacia, and Acacia. Of
course hearing this hadith says
		
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			Yara solo not only and Hakuna min
hum Rasul Allah, he can't contain
		
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			himself, pray to Allah that I
might be one of those 70,000 and
		
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			she prays
		
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			and somebody else says, Well, I
know Yara Salah me too, obviously
		
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			everybody's going to say, please
make this answered prayer for us.
		
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			And he says subaqua can be hard or
cash or cash or beat you to it.
		
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			But it's up to Wakil. And it's
about reliance, because Reliance
		
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			to Wakil is the essence of Islam.
And in this crazy age, where so
		
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			much seems to be threatening us
within and without an age of
		
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			tempestuous and misery inducing an
anxiety causing desires. When
		
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			humanity is really suffering
probably more than ever before in
		
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			history. Outwardly comfortable, if
you're in a rich country, inwardly
		
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			shaky, that we need this principle
of Tawakkol
		
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			we need to be in this shore ship
of salvation, which is the Sunnah
		
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			of the chosen one sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam and really put
		
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			Ramadan to work, really make use
of it, so that we can be still
		
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			inside so that we can be calm
inside and so that Ramadan offers
		
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			us a kind of vaccination, against
the virus of materialism and
		
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			fearfulness that is going around
in the world and insha Allah
		
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			vaccination that will last not
just until next Ramadan, but will
		
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			make a permanent difference to us
in sha Allah. So we ask Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala to make us have the
motto alkylene and that we should
		
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			be benefited from the diet of the
chosen one sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam who prayed for the people
of Tawakkol and said that they
		
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			would be the people enter paradise
without reckoning. A couple Allahu
		
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			minimum income was salam aleikum
wa rahmatullah wa barakato.