Abdal Hakim Murad – Forgiveness

Abdal Hakim Murad
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The conversation discusses the negative impact of fasting and drinking on one's health and mental health, as well as the importance of forgiveness and finding one's own worth. The segment ends with a mention of a book called Halak and a woman named Tara, both of whom are Halak workers. The speakers emphasize the importance of forgiveness as a means of apologizing for mistakes and mistakes, finding pleasure in life, and finding pleasures in religion. They also touch on the concept of a "bystander" and how it can lead to happiness. Finally, the speakers emphasize the importance of finding pleasure in witnessing things and finding joy in the world through witnessing things.

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			Cambridge Muslim college training
the next generation of Muslim
		
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			thinkers, Smit that 100 It also
led to a Salam o Allah rasool
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Allah He was offbeat woman while
up
		
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			a so module nap fasting is a
protection
		
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			and in a sound Hadith, a sambal in
this suburb
		
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			which means fasting is half of
Sabah
		
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			and Allah subhanaw taala says in
NAMA, you have a sabe Runa, agita
		
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			on the radio hijab,
		
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			those whose
		
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			those who are sober those who have
patients will be given their full
		
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			reward without reckoning, which is
an interesting expression, the
		
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			fullness of it is the
limitlessness of it.
		
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			Sober is that which makes us
human, there is patience in not
		
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			doing certain things like not
eating and drinking, and those the
		
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			patients and persisting and
certain things like staying until
		
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			the last record of tearaway for
instance, or
		
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			not knocking off work early and
treating your boss during Ramadan.
		
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			So two forms of sub sub in
abstaining and sub in doing
		
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			things.
		
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			Now,
		
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			this principle is hard nowadays,
because the age seems to be in
		
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			such tumult and turmoil.
		
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			Nafs seems to be ruling
		
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			egotistic rulers everywhere east
and west, north and south.
		
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			The shocking behavior of the super
rich increasing gulf between rich
		
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			and poor,
		
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			extreme civil wars and population
flows. Desperation, dispossession,
		
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			confusion, loss of hope, loss of
faith, these are rough times.
		
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			And where do we turn?
		
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			We look at the hum dia. We find
this
		
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			phrase
		
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			this world is too wide. All its
charms like a bride. The times are
		
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			so dark and bereft of a guide.
They hiring the off like the fish
		
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			in the tide, and status and silver
and gold and my pride.
		
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			You made me to praise you and
honor your name. And he who obeys
		
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			you shall never no blame. My
foolish forgetfulness fills me
		
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			with shame. Take hold of your
servant his spirit reclaim this is
		
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			the still fire of money being
which is just like a big prayer
		
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			for Allah's help. And the times
are so dark and bereft of a guide.
		
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			We need a shared of machine more
than ever. Somebody who can give
		
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			us
		
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			reliable fatwas not swayed by some
governmental agenda or personal
		
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			strange egotism or sense of
inferiority in the face of Western
		
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			demands, but authentic fatwas
		
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			and we also need authentic Taqwa
as fetter. That's taqwa, we need
		
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			the inner guide. And the Mufti
won't give us that we need the
		
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			*. Why do you find I do
have these categories in this age
		
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			that is dark and bereft of a
guide. So people are confused,
		
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			which means consequence number one
that we need to be more forgiving
		
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			than we would have been in past
ages. more forgiving of people who
		
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			don't pray, who can't manage
Ramadan, who have difficulties
		
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			with relationships, etc, etc, and
more forgiving because it's hard
		
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			for people, where do they go?
		
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			Increasingly, religion is sought
		
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			on the internet,
		
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			which is just a sea of questions
and answers and egotistic
		
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			babblings. And nobody really knows
the authenticity in the Senate of
		
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			most of what is said.
		
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			And that adds to people's
confusion. So this is the month of
		
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			forgiveness and forgiving each
other and being Helene with each
		
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			other. Let's remember in this age,
particularly people deserve to be
		
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			forgiven, is not made for being
judgmental.
		
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			The Holy Prophet says I'll let you
select to us
		
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			in the sound Hadith to his Sahaba
in the company's earning When Tara
		
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			can income off Rama O'Meara be
Halak
		
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			was a yeti Allah nurse is a man on
Mon ami lobby Oshima, O'Meara be
		
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			he Nerja
		
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			upon a law,
		
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			it says literally you are in an
age when if somebody neglect a
		
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			10th of what he's been commanded
to do, he will be just
		
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			Right.
		
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			But a time will come upon people
when if somebody does a 10th of
		
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			what he's been commanded to do, he
will be saved.
		
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			This is the MISA, and this allows
justice. It was easier for them.
		
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			They had wrestled loss. I don't
know who it was. And I'm walking
		
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			before them, leading them in
prayer, giving them the fatwa
		
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			giving them the air shed, and
we're just, we just have Google or
		
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			something.
		
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			Or libraries, where most of the
books, people don't really know
		
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			what they are. It's a difficult
time. And according to this
		
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			prophetic wisdom, that means it
should be a time of overlooking
		
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			differences or forgiving
differences of embracing one
		
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			another despite differences,
otherwise, the Muslims will just
		
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			implode in arguments and how does
this work?
		
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			How do we find the courage within
ourselves, to forgive, to
		
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			overlook, to find this TCU to find
excuses for people to mess with
		
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			all the
		
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			through overcoming that part of us
that loves to blame, I'd love to
		
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			feel superior and
operationalizing, that part of us
		
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			that actually finds a joy in
forgiveness.
		
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			It's part of the paradox of the
human condition that you can do
		
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			things that don't seem to serve
you but can be amazingly
		
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			pleasurable.
		
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			Like
		
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			looking after a homeless person,
or giving a lot of sadaqa
		
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			or spending a long time in prayer,
and you feel a kind of joy Yeji to
		
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			Halawa to hopefully Alby to
sweetness you find in your heart.
		
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			So this is part of part of the
wisdom of the believer that he
		
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			looks for those pleasures. It's
not as if religion is about
		
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			abandoning pleasures and looking
for really hard stuff as if Allah
		
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			simply wants us to stagger towards
the gates of paradise carrying as
		
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			much weight as we can. So
unbelievers think this with their
		
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			bare hands, that just load us with
more and more stuff. And it's as
		
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			if we're kind of Egyptians slaves
carrying huge blocks of, of stone,
		
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			this is not a last intention, he
wishes to give us life. Now, your
		
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			econ he wishes to give us
happiness, to bring us the abode
		
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			of solder, and to be saw that
happy in this world.
		
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			And this is this pleasure that the
believer finds is in doing what is
		
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			noble and what's beautiful and
what gives pleasure to the higher
		
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			self, the higher self and not to
the neffs. So, it all depends on
		
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			remembering Allah of the Corolla
and overcoming the ego by whatever
		
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			possible means we can, identifying
it, seeing it as a mammal Junaid
		
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			says he learned
		
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			his spiritual way by watching a
cat that was observing and
		
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			Mousehole. These times the ego
pops up zap it because each time
		
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			it succeeds, it becomes stronger
and fatter to zap it do not give
		
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			it any excuse because it is always
your enemy. Every single time
		
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			whatever story it tells you, it's
always your enemy. And it is
		
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			always in your interest without
exception to zap it and then
		
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			you'll feel happiness, not the
happiness or the ego promise do
		
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			but something that is more real
and more lasting.
		
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			And then you will find that that
things become easier. And this is
		
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			part of the blessing of Ramadan.
That's as we fast and make this
		
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			big effort. Other things kind of
become easier. Or at what other
		
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			time of the year when we go to the
masjid and pray rack after rack
		
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			after rack
		
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			listening to the noise of the air
conditioning and with the crowd.
		
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			That's a commitment.
		
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			Ramadan fortifies us for that.
Why? Because we have this module
		
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			header. That's an important lesson
when let the ninja huddle, Fina.
		
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			And at the end of homeschooling
those who struggle for our sake,
		
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			Allah says we will guide them to
our paths. In other words, you
		
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			make this effort. Catch the mouse
chased the mouse away overcome the
		
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			lower self stab the ego with a
* knives Mujahidin as Imam
		
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			Junaid says, and things will get
easier for you.
		
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			All of these things in religion
which are quite abundant and
		
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			formidable they will become
easier. All those boundaries will
		
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			become your natural boundaries you
won't even think of going near
		
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			them. Because you will be given
this this joy of
		
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			guidance and then there will be
inward gifts
		
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			Menza yen as our hero will be been
Buddha has sent a love or Sarah
		
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			era who be more shahada
		
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			whoever adorns his outward
		
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			Nature by overcoming his ego and
complying with the divine
		
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			intention for human beings, Allah
will make his inward self
		
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			beautiful through witnessing.
		
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			So Mogera had at least two more
shahada is from Abu Ali and dakak
		
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			radula. One, what it means is
overcome the ego and what you
		
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			really are, will start to open its
eyes and become itself. Normally
		
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			you sitting on it, squashing it
throwing your rubbish on it. It's
		
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			kind of obscured, but the more
shahada, which here means looking
		
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			around and not seeing stuff, but
seeing what Allah is making and
		
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			doing, and his beauty and His
Majesty and His commandments in
		
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			everything, having a really rich
and extraordinary deep view of
		
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			things. That's the meaning of more
shahada to see not the world, but
		
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			creation.
		
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			This is the gift of Mujahid. And
this is where we should be moving
		
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			in Ramadan, to look at things
differently, not as something that
		
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			trees that you can pick fruit
from. But what is the tree who
		
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			made the tree? Why is it so
orderly? Why does it obey these
		
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			extraordinary things? Why is it so
beautiful? That's the more shahada
		
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			that the Mujahidin leads to So may
Allah subhanaw taala in these
		
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			difficult times make us forgiving
people make us mild people, make
		
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			us people who overcome the ego,
rather than point to the antics of
		
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			the egos of others. And in sha
Allah grant us this Moshe header
		
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			so that all of our deen and duniya
becomes a delight because we just
		
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			see a lot of action in all things.
barnacle all fecal coliform and
		
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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah
Cambridge Muslim College, training
		
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			the next generation of Muslim
thinkers