Abdal Hakim Murad – Forgiveness

Abdal Hakim Murad
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The conversation discusses the negative impact of fasting and drinking on one's health and mental health, as well as the importance of forgiveness and finding one's own worth. The segment ends with a mention of a book called Halak and a woman named Tara, both of whom are Halak workers. The speakers emphasize the importance of forgiveness as a means of apologizing for mistakes and mistakes, finding pleasure in life, and finding pleasures in religion. They also touch on the concept of a "bystander" and how it can lead to happiness. Finally, the speakers emphasize the importance of finding pleasure in witnessing things and finding joy in the world through witnessing things.
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Cambridge Muslim college training the next generation of Muslim

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thinkers, Smit that 100 It also led to a Salam o Allah rasool

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Allah.

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Allah He was offbeat woman while up

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a so module nap fasting is a protection

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and in a sound Hadith, a sambal in this suburb

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which means fasting is half of Sabah

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and Allah subhanaw taala says in NAMA, you have a sabe Runa, agita

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on the radio hijab,

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those whose

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those who are sober those who have patients will be given their full

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reward without reckoning, which is an interesting expression, the

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fullness of it is the limitlessness of it.

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Sober is that which makes us human, there is patience in not

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doing certain things like not eating and drinking, and those the

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patients and persisting and certain things like staying until

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the last record of tearaway for instance, or

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not knocking off work early and treating your boss during Ramadan.

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So two forms of sub sub in abstaining and sub in doing

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things.

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Now,

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this principle is hard nowadays, because the age seems to be in

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such tumult and turmoil.

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Nafs seems to be ruling

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egotistic rulers everywhere east and west, north and south.

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The shocking behavior of the super rich increasing gulf between rich

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and poor,

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extreme civil wars and population flows. Desperation, dispossession,

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confusion, loss of hope, loss of faith, these are rough times.

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And where do we turn?

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We look at the hum dia. We find this

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phrase

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this world is too wide. All its charms like a bride. The times are

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so dark and bereft of a guide. They hiring the off like the fish

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in the tide, and status and silver and gold and my pride.

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You made me to praise you and honor your name. And he who obeys

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you shall never no blame. My foolish forgetfulness fills me

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with shame. Take hold of your servant his spirit reclaim this is

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the still fire of money being which is just like a big prayer

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for Allah's help. And the times are so dark and bereft of a guide.

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We need a shared of machine more than ever. Somebody who can give

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us

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reliable fatwas not swayed by some governmental agenda or personal

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strange egotism or sense of inferiority in the face of Western

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demands, but authentic fatwas

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and we also need authentic Taqwa as fetter. That's taqwa, we need

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the inner guide. And the Mufti won't give us that we need the

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*. Why do you find I do have these categories in this age

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that is dark and bereft of a guide. So people are confused,

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which means consequence number one that we need to be more forgiving

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than we would have been in past ages. more forgiving of people who

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don't pray, who can't manage Ramadan, who have difficulties

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with relationships, etc, etc, and more forgiving because it's hard

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for people, where do they go?

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Increasingly, religion is sought

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on the internet,

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which is just a sea of questions and answers and egotistic

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babblings. And nobody really knows the authenticity in the Senate of

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most of what is said.

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And that adds to people's confusion. So this is the month of

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forgiveness and forgiving each other and being Helene with each

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other. Let's remember in this age, particularly people deserve to be

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forgiven, is not made for being judgmental.

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The Holy Prophet says I'll let you select to us

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in the sound Hadith to his Sahaba in the company's earning When Tara

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can income off Rama O'Meara be Halak

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was a yeti Allah nurse is a man on Mon ami lobby Oshima, O'Meara be

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he Nerja

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upon a law,

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it says literally you are in an age when if somebody neglect a

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10th of what he's been commanded to do, he will be just

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Right.

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But a time will come upon people when if somebody does a 10th of

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what he's been commanded to do, he will be saved.

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This is the MISA, and this allows justice. It was easier for them.

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They had wrestled loss. I don't know who it was. And I'm walking

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before them, leading them in prayer, giving them the fatwa

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giving them the air shed, and we're just, we just have Google or

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something.

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Or libraries, where most of the books, people don't really know

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what they are. It's a difficult time. And according to this

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prophetic wisdom, that means it should be a time of overlooking

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differences or forgiving differences of embracing one

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another despite differences, otherwise, the Muslims will just

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implode in arguments and how does this work?

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How do we find the courage within ourselves, to forgive, to

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overlook, to find this TCU to find excuses for people to mess with

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all the

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through overcoming that part of us that loves to blame, I'd love to

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feel superior and operationalizing, that part of us

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that actually finds a joy in forgiveness.

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It's part of the paradox of the human condition that you can do

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things that don't seem to serve you but can be amazingly

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pleasurable.

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Like

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looking after a homeless person, or giving a lot of sadaqa

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or spending a long time in prayer, and you feel a kind of joy Yeji to

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Halawa to hopefully Alby to sweetness you find in your heart.

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So this is part of part of the wisdom of the believer that he

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looks for those pleasures. It's not as if religion is about

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abandoning pleasures and looking for really hard stuff as if Allah

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simply wants us to stagger towards the gates of paradise carrying as

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much weight as we can. So unbelievers think this with their

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bare hands, that just load us with more and more stuff. And it's as

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if we're kind of Egyptians slaves carrying huge blocks of, of stone,

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this is not a last intention, he wishes to give us life. Now, your

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econ he wishes to give us happiness, to bring us the abode

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of solder, and to be saw that happy in this world.

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And this is this pleasure that the believer finds is in doing what is

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noble and what's beautiful and what gives pleasure to the higher

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self, the higher self and not to the neffs. So, it all depends on

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remembering Allah of the Corolla and overcoming the ego by whatever

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possible means we can, identifying it, seeing it as a mammal Junaid

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says he learned

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his spiritual way by watching a cat that was observing and

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Mousehole. These times the ego pops up zap it because each time

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it succeeds, it becomes stronger and fatter to zap it do not give

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it any excuse because it is always your enemy. Every single time

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whatever story it tells you, it's always your enemy. And it is

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always in your interest without exception to zap it and then

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you'll feel happiness, not the happiness or the ego promise do

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but something that is more real and more lasting.

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And then you will find that that things become easier. And this is

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part of the blessing of Ramadan. That's as we fast and make this

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big effort. Other things kind of become easier. Or at what other

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time of the year when we go to the masjid and pray rack after rack

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after rack

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listening to the noise of the air conditioning and with the crowd.

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That's a commitment.

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Ramadan fortifies us for that. Why? Because we have this module

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header. That's an important lesson when let the ninja huddle, Fina.

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And at the end of homeschooling those who struggle for our sake,

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Allah says we will guide them to our paths. In other words, you

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make this effort. Catch the mouse chased the mouse away overcome the

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lower self stab the ego with a * knives Mujahidin as Imam

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Junaid says, and things will get easier for you.

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All of these things in religion which are quite abundant and

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formidable they will become easier. All those boundaries will

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become your natural boundaries you won't even think of going near

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them. Because you will be given this this joy of

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guidance and then there will be inward gifts

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Menza yen as our hero will be been Buddha has sent a love or Sarah

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era who be more shahada

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whoever adorns his outward

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Nature by overcoming his ego and complying with the divine

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intention for human beings, Allah will make his inward self

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beautiful through witnessing.

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So Mogera had at least two more shahada is from Abu Ali and dakak

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radula. One, what it means is overcome the ego and what you

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really are, will start to open its eyes and become itself. Normally

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you sitting on it, squashing it throwing your rubbish on it. It's

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kind of obscured, but the more shahada, which here means looking

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around and not seeing stuff, but seeing what Allah is making and

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doing, and his beauty and His Majesty and His commandments in

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everything, having a really rich and extraordinary deep view of

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things. That's the meaning of more shahada to see not the world, but

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creation.

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This is the gift of Mujahid. And this is where we should be moving

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in Ramadan, to look at things differently, not as something that

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trees that you can pick fruit from. But what is the tree who

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made the tree? Why is it so orderly? Why does it obey these

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extraordinary things? Why is it so beautiful? That's the more shahada

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that the Mujahidin leads to So may Allah subhanaw taala in these

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difficult times make us forgiving people make us mild people, make

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us people who overcome the ego, rather than point to the antics of

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the egos of others. And in sha Allah grant us this Moshe header

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so that all of our deen and duniya becomes a delight because we just

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see a lot of action in all things. barnacle all fecal coliform and

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Cambridge Muslim College, training

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the next generation of Muslim thinkers

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