Abdal Hakim Murad – Fasting & Anxiety Ramadan Moments 2

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The human brain is designed for healthy eating, not just memory, and for social interaction. Loneliness is linked to fasting and weight loss, and the brain is designed for social interaction and loneliness. The brain is also designed for social interaction and the Holy Prophet alayhiinking for health and healing. Visiting busy time is essential for healthy eating, and learning about the Holy Prophet alayhiinking for health and healing is important.

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			Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu
lillahi rabbil aalameen or salat
		
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			wa salam ala Ecademy NBI even more
Celine Sadie no Amala no Habibi,
		
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			no Muhammad or other early wasafi
Edge Marine.
		
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			So we're entering once more into
the fasting month
		
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			setting sailed into that
fathomless ocean.
		
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			Whenever things seems to change,
and everything in our lives
		
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			becomes more serious
		
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			angels fly, the demons are
changed. It's the time of SABR
		
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			with all that that implies a time
of restraint.
		
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			A Solmonese for Sabra.
		
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			It's the Holy Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam fasting is half
		
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			of Samadhi. This is a Hadith, in
Timothy.
		
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			And this school, spiritual School
of Ramadan, this kind of detox
		
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			that we experience every year by
the Grace of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			reminds us of the essential
openness of the religion that its
		
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			capacity to uplift us, to bring us
joy to bring us recentering to
		
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			ground us once again.
		
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			Famous Hadith that I've always
loved narrated by my Muslim, it's
		
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			in the hadith of Sahib radula
Juan,
		
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			the Holy Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam Arja ban li M real
		
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			movement
		
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			in the Umrah who called the whole
higher
		
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			how amazing is the matter of the
believer?
		
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			Everything about him is good.
		
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			Well, Asa Delica Illa min. And is
this is only for the believer
		
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			in our saw, but who saw rock
shakar for who are highroller
		
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			we're in Asaba Totara, sabar, veho
highroller if something good comes
		
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			to him, he has shook her, and
that's good for him.
		
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			If something unpleasant comes to
him, he has solver that is good
		
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			for him.
		
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			This is why religion always
correlates very closely to what we
		
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			nowadays call positive mental
health outcomes. Because we're
		
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			aware that an infinitesimal
distance beneath the surface of
		
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			things there is goodness, truth,
purity, rightness, justice,
		
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			perfection.
		
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			And that everything, even though
it seems mysterious to us, given
		
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			our limited perception is simply
an overflowing of the Divine
		
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			plenitude, which comes from that
perfection that goodness, that
		
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			mercy, that rightness that justice
and this is the meaning of
		
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			telecon.
		
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			Within our age, human beings,
		
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			unbalanced, this is the age of
imbalance. Nothing is following a
		
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			setup must nothing. Nothing can be
characterized as MISA and
		
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			everything is tilted one way or
another. And on the
		
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			jumping deck of this ship of
humanity, through the stormy seas
		
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			of modernity, as we progress and
we feel a bit seasick disoriented,
		
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			we're not settled. We don't have
this is to curar or the Sakina
		
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			that the human heart always
craves.
		
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			One sign of this imbalance, I
think, is the prevalence of
		
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			anxiety and depression in modern
societies.
		
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			For so many decades, they have led
the great carnival of humanity
		
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			towards a better future, when we
will be happier, healthier, more
		
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			relaxed. But the reality is that
prescriptions for antidepressants
		
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			in the United Kingdom went up to
fold in the last 10 years.
		
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			About 10 million people are on
antidepressants, one way or
		
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			another.
		
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			You have this anxiety epidemic.
You have this strange sense that
		
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			even though outwardly we never had
it so good. Inwardly we're in
		
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			turmoil, and we don't know where
we are from, what we are, where
		
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			we're going. We are floating in a
sea of nothingness.
		
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			Now we know that fasting is
associated with positive mental
		
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			health outcomes, intermittent
fasting as they call it in the
		
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			Natural health industry
		
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			that it releases serotonin, that
it releases endorphins, that it
		
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			represents the natural way for the
brain to be. human metabolism is
		
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			not geared up for regular snacks,
regular injections of sucrose or
		
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			whatever else it might be, we are
oriented towards occasional
		
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			healthy meals, not towards the
modern habit of grazing. And the
		
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			brain is designed for that. And as
a result,
		
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			when we're fasting, we get back to
the ancient realm of our hunter
		
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			gatherer ancestors, who would go
for a whole day or perhaps longer
		
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			between meals, something had to be
killed, berries had to be found on
		
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			bushes or whatever were designed
for this. And the brain is
		
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			designed for that world, and is
healthy when something of that
		
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			world remains in our lifestyle.
		
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			So we get back to this amazing
world of
		
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			intermittent fasting, where the
brain starts to function the way
		
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			it's supposed to.
		
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			And also just losing weight.
		
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			There is also an obesity epidemic
in the modern world.
		
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			It never used to be the case in
this country. But you see more and
		
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			more people who are clearly not
just overweight, but clinically
		
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			obese, that's also associated with
depression, not just because of
		
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			people's self image, their body
image but because the the natural
		
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			secretion of happiness enzymes and
hormones is suppressed. That two
		
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			is not good for us.
		
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			Another thing we find in this
fasting month
		
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			is that we memorize more. So the
month of the Quran,
		
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			it's the month particularly when
the Imam of our mosque really has
		
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			to make sure that is not rusty or
the embarrassment of stuttering,
		
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			displacing something and allows
book being corrected by somebody.
		
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			It's quite a stressful business
leading the turn away.
		
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			But again, the human brain is
designed for memorization. our
		
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			ancient ancestors didn't have
books, they didn't have laptops,
		
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			they just had the mind. And it's
miraculous capacity to store
		
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			enormous amounts of material.
		
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			The brain also is designed to be
happy, and to secrete those
		
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			neurotransmitters that make us
cheerful when our memory
		
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			capacities are being used.
		
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			Those who have memorized enormous
quantities in any culture, tend to
		
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			have more positive mental health
outcomes. It's an area between the
		
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			amygdala and the hippocampus,
technically speaking, in the
		
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			brain, where these
neurotransmitters are emitted, and
		
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			that's where the memory is thought
to be stored. The neuroscientists
		
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			are starting to realize this. Were
designed for this.
		
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			concert pianists. Everybody says,
Why do you have to memorize your
		
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			text? Why can't the poet Imam just
have a book in front of him?
		
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			Interesting, the concert pianist
also have to become half as as it
		
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			were. It might be of the works of
Bach or sharper, but they have to
		
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			perform from memory. And this is
one of their anxieties as well.
		
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			They have their tearaway
		
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			Andrea Schiff is performing in the
personnel room, and is doing the
		
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			English suites of bulk and not one
note, maybe out of place or people
		
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			notice. It's very stressful. And
just like the half is they have to
		
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			practice and rehearse. And
generally a concert pianist has to
		
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			memorize about 150 works upward.
And he can't really have a career
		
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			if he forgets regularly. Or if he
needs somebody to turn the pages
		
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			for him. That's just not done. So
in Western culture as well, mass
		
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			memorization is also an esteemed
skill. And it's something that
		
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			comes through regular practice, we
should not be rusty in our
		
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			memorization of Quran, even if we
only know Jews are less than a
		
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			jurist, we should make sure,
especially in this fasting month,
		
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			that one of the things we benefit
from is just going over what we
		
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			know, perhaps learning a little
bit more, and the brain, which is
		
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			hungry for things to memorize,
will be grateful to us for this.
		
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			Another aspect of the fasting
month is of course, that it's
		
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			quite a social time.
		
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			Britain, the first country in the
world with a ministry of
		
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			loneliness,
		
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			quite a shocking thing.
		
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			But she's pretty busy.
		
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			We have 3.9 million people who are
medically diagnosed with Acute
		
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			loneliness, which is a recognized
very serious medical condition,
		
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			and many millions more who are not
really properly socializing. Maybe
		
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			they'll talk to somebody when they
go to the post office, if there is
		
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			still a post office if there is
still a bank, but this is a very
		
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			lonely society. Individualism
produces loneliness as a matter of
		
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			course,
		
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			Ramadan is a time for sociality, a
time for meeting people in the
		
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			mosque, or time for meeting people
at Iftar time for welcoming
		
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			friends and family to our homes.
It's a very busy time. And in
		
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			traditional Muslim societies, it's
a festive time. After the sun goes
		
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			around, everybody's in the streets
and people are selling things, and
		
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			it's kind of a carnival.
		
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			But not everybody in our
communities is properly embedded
		
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			in a community. Sometimes there
are people who are recent
		
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			arrivals, who are refugees, who
are new converts, who don't have
		
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			those family and neighborly
networks, and we need to look out
		
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			for them,
		
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			particularly converts. I know
people who have to hide the fact
		
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			that they're fasting from their
parents because their parents
		
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			simply don't accept their
conversion. people I know who have
		
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			their Eid alone, particularly if
they're living in fairly remote
		
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			parts of the country, for whom
Ramadan is not a festive time, but
		
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			a time of solitude, a time of
loneliness.
		
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			One thing we can do during this
month, is to look out for those
		
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			people. The believer scans the gym
out overseas, who seems to be
		
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			confused, who doesn't seem to have
been there before. Who's not
		
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			talking to anybody who's
struggling with a prayer perhaps
		
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			and see if we can make the
acquaintance and perhaps invite
		
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			them for Iftar perhaps make sure
that they're not alone at a time
		
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			and remembering that hadith says,
a drummer to Rama the congregation
		
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			is mercy. We are social animals.
And Islam is a religion of
		
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			collectivity. It's a religion of
the Juma so in sha Allah, these
		
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			are things that we can remember
and be made healthy by in this
		
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			Ramadan in this wonderful health
giving time. We can be physically
		
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			healthier, we can be mentally
healthier, we can be socially
		
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			healthier. And as such in sha
Allah, we become congested in
		
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			Wahid, the Holy Prophet alayhi
salatu salam describes this OMA as
		
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			like a single body. So let us be
like that, in our hugely diverse,
		
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			segmented community and modern
Britain. Let's be united by the
		
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			fast and let's draw people in.
Let's collectively celebrate the
		
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			gift of brotherhood. We'll call no
my bad Allahu Ana. The Holy
		
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			Prophet says, The Allah's slaves
as brothers, and inshallah we will
		
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			see how happy we are, how we
delivered from anxiety and
		
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			depression and insha Allah shown
the way of sadder, Sabina Sada,
		
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			the way of Felicity in this world
as well as in the next insha Allah
		
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			and let this be one of the lessons
and one of the gifts and one of
		
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			the blessings of Ramadan for all
of us in this time in sha Allah
		
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			BarakAllahu Feeco with a couple of
CMYK who are salam o aleikum wa
		
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			rahmatullah wa barakato.